Mixed Messages

In this episode Mary gets hesitant about sharing her experience as a woman in the military. Let's listen.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we continue with Mary, learn about Boot Camp, and laugh at Bri's horrified realization that basic training would be her worst nightmare.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comPodcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Let's continue our interview with Mary.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we start our interview with Mary, a daughter of Cambodian immigrants, who escaped hell to make a better life for their family. Mary's integration into American culture helped shape who she is today.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Happy (almost) Halloween!We know it's still a week away but to prepare for the spookiest week of the year, we decided to tell you some of our favorite scary stories. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

This week Emily is in her element, and finally has the opportunity to speak about her love for horror, the evolution of the genre, and why it can have such an impact on individuals and the community at large.For more information, visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we continue talking about scary, or scary adjacent, things. It's Bri's turn.Get ready.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Hello our dear fam!Welcome back! We took a week off to recalibrate and get our schedules back in order, and we are so excited for this month.It's Spooky Season on Mixed Messages!Starting this season off right, we thought we would discuss some history about witches, the  witch trials of both Europe and Salem, and why they were so monstrous. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode we talk about our revelations from listening to Jay's story in a typical Bri-cap moment.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Last week was supposed to be the end of our series with Jay, until Bri decided to have a candid conversation with him about life after sports.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Jay is living the life of a star athlete at the beginning of his career.What happens when it all stops?For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Being an athlete in school seems glamorous.But do we know the whole story?For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We are so excited to introduce you all to our dear friend, Jay.  Star athlete born from greatness, sure. But do you REALLY know Jay Thomas?For more information visit https://www.mixedmessagespod.comPodcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

LOOKS LIKE WE MADE IT!!Wow. A whole year of Mixed Messages, can you even believe it! Thank you all for riding with us this year. It's been a wild ride, and we wouldn't change it for the world.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Let's continue with Emily's story.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comPodcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Continuing with our conversation on religion, it's now Emily's turn to open up about her experience with the Church. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

In part 2 of Bri's interview we talk about the moments that turned her away from religion, where she found peace and comfort through the transition, and where she is now.Plus, we dropped a special patreon episode of Bri talking with her mom about their experience at the church and school that Bri attended. Join our patreon today at https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod?fan_landing=trueFor more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comPodcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We are FINALLY doing it!It's time to do the religion series that we have been talking about doing for a long time. In this series we are not judging religion. Instead, we are discussing our personal experiences with the church, Christianity, and how it permeated every aspect of our lives.In this episode, Bri takes us back to when church was her whole life...back when she went to church...AND a Christian school. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comPodcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

After hearing Reese and C Ryan speak so openly ad lovingly about their journeys, Bri decided it was time to talk about her relationship with her FIANCÈ, David, and how they have navigated being in an interracial relationship through so much social upheaval. For more information, visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

In our last episode of the month with Reese and Ryan they FINALLY tell us how they met and fell in love, and how they use their love to understand each other and the world around them.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode the boys talk about the experience of coming out, and the fact that it's crazy that coming out is even necessary. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Last week we heard from C Ryan about his origin story.Today it's Reese's turn.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Happy Pride Month!This month we are diving into the stories of our friends Reese and C Ryan, the cutest couple you will ever meet.This week we are taking our time getting to know them and their own individual stories.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Still riding the wave of emotions we felt after listening to Hope's story, we decided to reflect on our feelings. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we finish Hope's story. Sharing these personal stories is not easy. We owe Hope all of our love and gratitude. To anyone out there who resonates with Hope's story, you are not alone. There is a community out here ready to love and accept you for everything that you are, and everything that you are not.Keep your head up, my loves.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comFollow Hope on IG - https://www.instagram.com/hopejane/Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Let's continue with Hope's story.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comFollow Hope on IG - https://www.instagram.com/hopejane/Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we continue with Hope's story and her journey with processing her adoption, and her relationship with the concept of home.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Follow Hope on IG - https://www.instagram.com/hopejane/Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we are introducing Hope. A friend and fellow change making, outspoken, empathetic baddie.Hope's story is truly amazing, and we both learned so much by just sitting back and listening.So get ready.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comFollow Hope on IG - https://www.instagram.com/hopejane/Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

CHAUVIN IS FOUND GUILTY ON ALL 3 CHARGES!Y'all know we had to give you an update.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We loved talking to our Senior Class Gen Z fam, so we thought we would check in with some of our Gen Z friends that graduated within the past couple of years, and what it has been like transitioning from childhood to adulthood during these times. We just love them, and wow did we learn a lot.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We can't pretend that the biggest trial in awhile isn't happening in our city. This is not a recap of the trial, but a check in. Our thoughts and feelings about this traumatic experience.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode we sit down with two Gen Z-ers to talk about their experience of coming into adulthood during these unprecedented times, what they are passionate about, and what they wish the world would get right about their generation.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

This isn't the usual conversation about the stats of the horror that has been Covid-19, but rather a time to process a little bit of what we have gone through personally, alongside the collective. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today it's Emily's turn to ride solo! In a solo discussion about blindspots, Emily talks about the importance of seeing where you fall short in your allyship, and owning up to it in order to make necessary change.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On this week's episode we chat with our hero and friend, Vanessa, about her journey of self acceptance, and her healing through creating a new theater company, Dark Muse Performing Arts. This woman is a force to reckon with.And we love her.Follow Dark Muse Arts on instagram https://www.instagram.com/darkmusearts/For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com--------------------Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we have a very special guest, our third Charlie's Angel, Miss Caroline "The Beesh" Innerbichler. Our long time bestie, and first white identifying guest, joins us to talk about the journey of becoming a better ally, and learning how to embrace and incorporate intersectional feminism in our every day lives.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mixedmessagepod/Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

This week Bri is riding solo!That's right! This week you get the amazing Bri all on her lonesome as she talks about "doing the work."Get into it.For more information check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

This may not be applicable to you, but then again...maybe it is!This is the second part to our conversation about White American Theater spaces, and the problematic practices within the community.If you are wildly confused, feel free to watch our live on Emily's instagram (@emilydmads), or check out the audio on our patreon. Even if you aren't in theater, there may be a few tips and tricks in here to help you make decisions on how you choose to engage with BIMPOC folx about their experiences.For more information check out our website https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Ooh this one was fun!On today's episode we talk about historical (and modern) Black figures that inspire us, move us, and make us want to be the baddies we are meant to be.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

It's February (well, almost, if you're listening to this on our Patreon for early access)!Which means...it's Black History Month! The shortest month of the year, dedicated to talking about the history of the most exploited demographic in our country.Since we tend to talk about Black history consistently on this podcast, we decided to switch it up and focus on Black love this month!Starting with, you guessed it, hair love. Hair has always been a source of pride, and also degradation for the Black community. As mixed race Black women, our hair journey has been a bit rough and confusing. Hopefully you can learn from our mistakes, and learn to love your hair sooner rather than later. For more information check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

You knew we had to do it, right?Welcome to our inauguration episode, where we share our thoughts on the new administration, the ceremony, and Bri's top 5 iconic moments.For more information check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We have a dream that one day people will stop only talking about Dr. Rev. Martin Luther King Jr's (or is it Rev. Dr....?) "I Have A Dream" speech, and will start talking about his legacy as a whole.On today's episode we wanted to take a moment to pay homage to the man by talking about some of the myths surrounding him and his legacy. A peaceful man who called for unity, but not at the expense of Black liberation, but for Black liberation, and the betterment of the American people. For more information check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEdited by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode we are having a conversation with Emily's oldest bestie, Dr. Chloe Wright, a Psychologist Candidate who has been passionate about mental health and wellness in marginalized communities for most of her life. We discuss the barriers on the road to quality mental health resources for communities of color, and all of the different intersectionalities within those communities. From lack of providers that reflect the community, to the fact the the theories that are taught to providers in school come from cis white men, quality therapy can feel unattainable to many people.For more information, visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri GrahamMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

What the hell is wellness? More importantly…what does it look like in a time of uprising?On today’s episode Bri and Emily open up about their struggles with staying well while taking in new and difficult information. We all go through a transition period when new information is presented to us. It’s almost like going through the 5 stages of grief. What we are grieving is the person we were, because once you learn the truth about the world we live in, there really is no going back.Stay mad, but be well.Podcast by Bri Graham and Emily MadiganEditing by Bri GrahamMusic by Cory AlanGraphic Design by Caitlin DickmanFor more information, visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode we are FINALLY interviewing our dear friend Kelli Foster Warder. This woman has been with us throughout our journey as biracial adults trying to discover what it means to exist in this world. A powerful woman who comes from a mixed family, and is now raising her own. For more information, check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

Today we are exploring this very strange, but by no means new, phenomenon. We also do a little dive into why it is so incredibly harmful to communities of color, specifically the Black community. For more information, visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

In today's episode we get very personal and raw. Cancel culture is complicated, and discussing it is no different. How do we hold people accountable, while also leaving room for grace and growth? We don't have the answers, but we have a lot to say! We are learning, just like you are...so don't cancel us, ok?For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

On today's episode we discuss a video by @im.big.so.what, explaining how white vegans have appropriated plant based cultures from around the world.For more information, check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We interrupt your weekly podcast to announce that it's Emily's birthday! Today, November 30th, is Emily's 32nd birthday so today we deiced to ask her (roughly) 32 questions, some of which came from our listeners! It's just a little fun, and a lot of ridiculousness. For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

We are BACK! On today's episode we are talking about the difficulty and importance of having tough conversations with family, chosen or otherwise.For more information visit our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.comSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)

In today's episode we share our thoughts and fears during election week, and our reaction to the end of Trump's presidency. What a week, y'all.What a week.For more information check out our website at https://www.mixedmessagespod.com.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/mixedmessagepod)