Join cohosts, Jennifer and Angela, on an evolving quests to explore non-monogamous relationships through honest and vulnerable conversations with guests of many intersecting backgrounds and expertise.
Jennifer and Angela are joined by Carise Rotach-Beard (you may remember her from Episode 38) to discuss the concept of evolving relationships and the future of Poly In The Cities. You can direct any questions or comments by leaving a voicemail or text message at (507) 556-7659 or by going to our Contact Us […]
For this episode, we are joined by scottie hall, creator and facilitator of Dharma Core, a Minneapolis based Queer Meditation Community group that is a part of the Common Ground Meditation Center. They came to the Poly In The Cities lab to share how the philosophies of Buddhism can compliment polyamory. It was a very […]
In this episode, we are joined by local performer and Dominatrix Sweet Lilly Bee to talk about the concept of fidelity, self care, and how it can apply to ethical non-monogamy. She came armed with a massive dictionary, folks — no lie! See for yourself: You can post comments about this episode or others by […]
** CONTENT WARNING TO OUR LISTENERS: This topic may create strong emotional reactions and we want to strongly encourage everyone to listen (or not listen) to your own comfort levels. Please exercise self care when listening to this episode.*** HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO POLY IN THE CITIES!!!! We’ve made to our first year! Hooray! Today, we […]
For this episode, we are joined by Cooper Beckett, podcaster of the Life on the Swingset Podcast and author of My Life on the Swingset as well as A Life Less Monogamous. Cooper joins us via Skype to discuss the topic of male bisexuality as well as his thoughts about human sexuality, polyamory, and the […]
WE MADE IT!! This is Episode 50!! To join us for the close of “Sextember” is Mistress Mara, a local Dominatrix, who you may remember from Episode 24 (Kink and Non-Monogamy). She has graciously come back to the Poly In The Cities studio to share with us the latest happenings regarding her work with the […]
For this episode, we are joined by Kevin Patterson, the founder of Poly Role Models Tumblr page. He joins us in the Poly in the Cities studio to share with us and our listeners his workshop about the Intersections of Race and Polyamory and offers insight to how poly organizations can work to become more […]
For this episode, we are joined by Jillian Deri, a professor of Gender and Women’s Studies at the University of British Columbia and the author of Love’s Refraction: Jealousy and Compersion in Queer Women’s Polyamorous Relationships. Jillian joined us via Skype to talk about the concept and practice of compersion, what does it look like in […]
In this episode, we are joined by Cunning Minx, the host of the Polyamory Weekly, the longest polyamory podcast on the internet. She joined us via Skype to share with us her experiences of what it is like to run such a successful podcast, some of her favorite guests, and her thoughts about the landscape […]
For this episode, we are joined by author Jeff Leavell who you may recall we discussed in Episode 23 last season with his article in Vice Magazine about the challenges of living in a triad relationship. He has graciously agreed to join us via Skype to share with our listeners his perspectives on what it […]
Jennifer and Angela start the episode by discussing the tragedy of the shooting of Philando Castile and the importance to standing up against racial injustice for the non white members of the non-monogamy community. In this episode, we are joined by Kathy Labriola, poly counselor and author of the Jealousy Workbook and Love in Abundance. […]
For this episode, we are joined by scottie hall, creator and facilitator of Dharma Core, a Minneapolis based Queer Meditation Community group that is a part of the Common Ground Meditation Center. They came to the Poly In The Cities lab to share how the philosophies of Buddhism can compliment polyamory. It was a very […]
To kick off Season 3, we are joined by Franklin Veaux, author of More Than Two and The Game Changer who joined us here on Poly In The Cities to help us unpack the complexities of the Mono/Poly relationship dynamic. We also discussed the Relationship Bill of Rights as well as other very important details of […]
As Season 2 of Poly In The Cities comes to a close, Jennifer and Angela discuss what it’s been like to work together, their favorite moments, memorable episodes, and their hopes for Season 3. Jennifer talks about the upcoming #smellslikesoup story collection campaign for a future episode. The details for our celebration party for Season […]
In this episode, we were able to have a conversation with Dr. Jaime Grant about her new book and the practice of Desire Mapping. A very captivating topic with information and Jaime shares information towards the end of the conversation on how you can order your own copy of the book. Angela expresses her gratitude […]
Angela talks about her divorce from Jesse. You can post comments by sending us a voicemail to (507) 556-7659 or by sending us a message by going to our Contact Us link. Resources mentioned in this episode: Death, Sex, and Money Podcast: “When I Almost Died” episode Astrobarry Horoscope Women Who Run With The Wolves […]
For this episode, we are joined again by Shawny, a local sex educator and friend of Poly in the Cities (who you remember from our episode on abuse in kink) who has returned to our studio to join Angela in sharing their workshop on disclosure. This discussion is really helpful for everyone who is facing […]
We are joined by local sex and relationship therapist, Carise Rotach-Beard, who came to the Poly In The Cities lab to share with our listeners her recent workshop on jealousy. She brought her amazing blend of intelligence and f-bombs to schools us all on the topic and how to navigate this very complex emotion. It’s […]
In this episode, we are joined by our two friends — Lindsey, a sex educator from the Family Tree Clinic and Laura Rademacher of Sky Hill Therapy (you folks remember her from Episode 29, right?). Our two awesome friends came onto the show to talk about STI’s, what really happens when you ask to get tested, what […]
For this episode, we are joined by comedian Billy Procida who hosts his own podcast called “The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex Positive Quest for Love”. He joins us via Skype from his home in New York to talk about his show, his take on polyamory, pussy eating, and sex with strangers. It’s a great conversation […]
Angela and Jennifer start the episode with an update to Angela’s trip to California for her first presentation on disclosure. Jennifer starts a listener challenge (our listeners are now called “City-ites”, by the way!) called #smellslikesoup for our social media pages. Did you know that we have a Facebook page and a Twitter account? For […]
In this episode, we are joined by Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson, the authors of the new book, Designer Relationships. We have an amazing conversation where they share with us their perspective about relationships, non-monogamy, and even themselves. You will really enjoy what they had to say and we encourage you to buy their book […]
Jennifer starts with opening it as “Episode 34” when it’s really Episode 33. Sorry about that folks. She explains that she’s super tired from a work project. Brain farts happen to the best of us. We are joined today in the Poly in the Cities lab by Bee, who describes herself as a muse, mama, […]
It’s finally here, folks!! The Ask Us Anything episode! Yay!! We answered your questions and responded to your comments. Thanks to all who participated. It was a lot of fun! You can send your questions or comments to us by sending us a text message or leaving us a voicemail to play on a future […]
In this episode, we are joined by local performer and Dominatrix Sweet Lilly Bee to talk about the concept of fidelity, self care, and how it can apply to ethical non-monogamy. She came armed with a massive dictionary, folks — no lie! See for yourself: You can post comments about this episode or others by […]
In this episode, Poly in the Cities was honored to have a conversation with the renowned author and fat activist Virgie Tovar to talk about body shame with Angela and her two amazing friends, Lucinda and Hannah. Jennifer joins the conversation in the studio later to discuss the after thoughts. It’s a long episode, but […]
For this episode, we are joined by Laura Rademacher of Sky Hill Therapy to talk with us about how to empower yourself by finding a therapist who can work with non monogamous folks. Comments or questions can be sent to us by either going to our Contact Us link or by shooting us a text message […]
Jennifer talks about her relationship with Megatron. Voicemails and text messages can be sent to (507) 556-7659 Want to download this episode instead? Click here:
In this episode, we got to spend an hour talking with renowned polyamory researcher, Dr. Elisabeth Sheff about her new book Stories From The Polycule. We also talked about parenting within the context of polyamory and how to come out to your children. It was a fascinating conversation and we hope that you enjoy listening to […]
Technical glitch warning! There’s a bit of skipping between the 10:00 to the 14:30 mark. sorry about that! Today we are joined by blogger and good friend, Sabrina, of SabrinaSwings.com (who you may remember from Episode 8) who came back to the Poly In The Cities studio to talk about her perspective of swinging, consent, […]
** CONTENT WARNING TO OUR LISTENERS: This topic may create strong emotional reactions and we want to strongly encourage everyone to listen (or not listen) to your own comfort levels. Please exercise self care when listening to this episode.*** HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO POLY IN THE CITIES!!!! We’ve made to our first year! Hooray! Today, we […]
Today we are joined by the amazing Mistress Mara, who is a professional Dominatrix in the local twin cities BDSM/Kink Community who came to the Poly In The Cities lab to talk with us not only about what exactly is kink, but how and why there is overlap between that and the non-monogamy community. It […]
Jennifer gives listeners an update on her dog, Enki (and thanks everyone for their messages of support). Angela discusses an article on the challenges of living in a triad relationship for the newswire segment. Today, we are joined by Carey Heartborne who is a private mediator that specializes in Transformative Mediation (and who also happens […]
In this episode, we are joined by our friend James to examine what it is about the notion that people who are polyamorous are considered nerds and geeks. James brings a factual perspective that really gets both of us thinking. Angela contributes to the Poly In The Cities Newswire with an article by Scott Adam […]
In this episode, we are joined again by our friend Matt from the Apropos of Nothing Podcast (you might remember him from episode 9) to come back into the Poly In The Cities sound lab and talk with us about the scary and exhilarating world of dating. We also have our first installment of our […]
In this episode, we are joined by Angela’ s wife “Jessie” as we explore the concepts of relationship structures within polyamory. The show starts by discussing the recent United States Supreme Court decision that same sex marriage is supported by the constitution and Jennifer talks about Chief Justice Roberts’ written dissent makes an interesting argument […]
Jennifer starts the show by explaining the changes to the Poly In The Cities host lineup and introduces the listeners to Angela. We spend this time learning about her worldview and what makes her tick. We ask the listeners to participate in what sorts of characteristics they would like to see as we search for […]
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