Podcast appearances and mentions of Kevin Patterson

In this episode, Deanna Herrin welcomes Dr. Kevin Patterson—psychologist, coach, and burnout expert—to unpack the all-too-common struggle with burnout. Dr. Patterson shares his own journey through burnout, offering a candid look at how navigating his personal challenges reshaped his approach to helping clients thrive.Together, Kevin and Deanna explore the importance of authenticity, the realities of showing up on social media, and how to recognize when it's time to prioritize self-care. This episode is a must-listen for high-energy achievers ready to feel seen, heard, and supported. Tune in to discover how to break the burnout cycle and rediscover balance!-Connect with KevinInstagram: @kevinp0816-Connect with me! Instagram: @deannaherrinLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deanna-herrin/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedeannaherrinWebsite: http://www.deannaherrin.net

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with Author & Polyamory Educator Kevin Patterson exploring the world of non-monogamy. During this conversation, we delve into the nuances of polyamory, debunking stereotypes, and discussing the importance of clear communication and respect in non-monogamous relationships. Kevin's personal experiences, from navigating long-term relationships to balancing family and social dynamics, offer valuable insights for anyone exploring life outside the bounds of monogamy. We also get into the challenges of balancing multiple relationship dynamics, maintaining personal interests, self-care and parenthood. Kevin speaks to race and representation in the polyamorous community, emphasizing that acknowledging racial differences can enrich our understanding of one another.  Kevin's thoughtful approach to identity, power dynamics, and personal customization of relationships promises to be both enlightening and transformative.  Whether you are polyamory-curious or poly-experienced, this conversation is rich with valuable tips and perspectives to nurture healthy polyamorous relationships and foster more inclusive communities. Connect with Kevin https://www.kevinapatterson.com/   Instagram https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels Get the Books https://www.kevinapatterson.com/books Connect with Deborah Got questions about sex and relationship?
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With this appearance, my friend Kevin A. Patterson ties the record for most Detoxicity appearances. This is his fourth time on the pod, and my man drops gems every time. Kevin is the author of "Love's Not Color Blind; Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Relationships", he co-authors the "For Hire" series of graphic novels, and he runs the site Poly Role Models. This typically wide-ranging conversation covers everything from parenting challenges to relationship pointers to how we feel as two guys who grew up with '90s hip hop and lyrical content that's sometimes a little cringe. I hope you have as much fun listening as we did chatting!

Another great LIVE episode with Kevin Patterson and Peggy O'Leary Catch us Live, every 3rd Friday at 10pm, at CSz Philadelphia

Revolutionizing Patient and Physician Experiences through Digital First Strategies - In this week's episode of Life Science Success, we dive into the intersection of digital innovation and healthcare commercialization with leaders from Indegene, a company revolutionizing patient and physician experiences through digital-first strategies. We'll explore the journeys of Nancy Phelan, a biopharma commercial strategy expert; Jeff Rothstein, a marketing visionary who has significantly expanded Indegene's brand and capabilities; and Kevin Patterson, a strategic thinker in medical solutions, as they share insights on driving healthcare forward in today's complex landscape.   Key Takeaways: Interdisciplinary Innovation: The convergence of diverse backgrounds and expertise is driving innovation in healthcare, emphasizing the importance of storytelling and engagement in healthcare marketing. Digital Transformation: The shift towards digital and data-driven strategies is revolutionizing patient and physician experiences, making healthcare more personalized and accessible. AI's Growing Influence: Artificial intelligence is poised to transform healthcare delivery and treatment, with current applications representing just the tip of the iceberg. Navigating Market Access Challenges: Successfully bringing new treatments to market requires overcoming regulatory and accessibility hurdles, highlighting the need for strategic market access planning. Optimism for the Future: Despite challenges, there's a strong sense of optimism about the future of healthcare, driven by technological advancements and a commitment to improving patient care.

What's driving the current conversation around polyamory? How do people fall into it? What are the misconceptions about how it works? And what do you do if you find yourself at the crossroads of considering a polyamorous relationship? Audie asks Kevin Patterson, author of Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities and sex therapist Dr. Lexx Brown-James.  Share your thoughts or questions with us - we'd love to hear from you! Text or send a voice memo to: 202-854-8802.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Senior fellows JoRee LaFrance and Kevin Patterson join the Agents of Change in Environmental Justice podcast to discuss energy production and use in their tribal communities and the challenges and opportunities to make it more sustainable.

Opening a recent article in The Walrus, Kevin Patterson evoked the Nanaimo of a few decades ago. What he described sounds in many ways rougher than what you might picture today. A resource economy in decline, unemployment passing twelve per cent, and jokes about Hell's Angels and Nanaimo Bars seeming not too far from reality. […]

The opioid crisis is the greatest moral failing of our era. Its roots lie in another crisis: housing.

In this episode Nicoleta talks about monogamy and happiness with Kevin Patterson, educator and author of the award winning book “Love's Not Colour Blind”, from Philadelphia USA.  Why is the world favouring monogamous relationships?Starting dating in monogamous relationshipsWhen you feel that something is missing in a relationship.Why some are unhappy in monogamy?Is exclusivity important?How you open up a relationship.Open relationships in marriage.What is different in an open relationship.Honesty, respect, communication, emotional literacy in polyamory.What is ethical non-monogamy.Talking about jealousy and possessiveness. Managing calendars with multiple partners.Insecurity in polyamory.The rules in the polyamory communities.Parenting in polyamorous relationships.Children's questions for polyamorous parents.Is there a link between polyamory and childhood trauma?Explore cheating and betrayal in monogamous relationships.The relationship between polyamory and happiness.   Find out more about Kevin and his work here: https://www.kevinapatterson.com/. 

Perry County Sheriff's Office continues search for missing man; Drop in severance tax revenues affecting county road budget; Chamber to facilitate free small business workshop; UACCM receives grant from Entergy; junior high football, high school volleyball to play today; we talk with Kevin Patterson of C2 Baggers.

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Country artist/songwriter Rodney Rice joins us (9:15 mark) to talk about his bourbon collection, favorite pours, how he got into music, growing up in West Virginia, ending up in Colorado, cutting his first albums, sharing his experiences through songs, his latest album Rodney Rice, heading on tour and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson joins us (1:25 mark) for Tasting Notes to talk about grilling and craft beer.For more on Rodney, visit https://www.rodneyrice.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

Country artist Cowboy Troy join us (10:30 mark) to talk about good whiskey, working with John Rich's Redneck Riviera Whiskey, his Hick Hop Kitchen, creating a seasoning, how he got into cooking, getting back into the studio, showing off his creative sides, balancing it all, and more. Plus, cicerone Kevin Patterson joins us (1:30 mark) for Tasting Notes to talk about what's going on in the craft beer world.For more on Cowboy Troy, visit https://cowboytroy.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

In this episode, the hosts interview Kevin Patterson, a polyamory educator and author. They discuss the concept of toxic monogamy and how it affects romantic relationships. Patterson discusses the need to divorce oneself from the idea of possessiveness in relationships, as well as the impact of racism and systematic oppression on the way people date and become intimate. He also addresses the idea that polyamory is exclusively for affluent people and aims to normalize this relationship structure.[00:01:22] Toxic Monogamy. [00:04:52] Polyamorous relationships. [00:11:22] Race and polyamory. [00:11:39] Lack of diversity in events. [00:16:26] Examining our mindset. [00:19:05] Celebrity politics and societal progress. [00:23:23] Polyamory course and resources.Stay Connected with Kevin PattersonInstagram: @polyrolemodelsDownload our free audio training: The Ultimate NO BS Guide to Self Pleasure & Sexual IntimacyVISIT https://www.pleasurepositiveliving.com/guide  to sign up.Support the show

Kevin Patterson joins the Agents of Change in Environmental Justice podcast to discuss uranium exposure science, and his own family's personal experience with the toxic metal.

Country singer/entrepreneur Tommy Townsend joins us (9:00 mark) to talk about getting into the (legal) moonshine business, how he found his family's recipe, his family's history with moonshine, meeting Waylon Jennings, getting to work with Waylon, what delayed his Southern Man album, how it finally was released, his career, getting back in the studio and more. Plus, cicerone Kevin Patterson joins us (1:30 mark) for Tasting Notes to talk about beers for the spring and summer.For more on Tommy, visit https://www.tommytownsendmusic.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

We're back! Sarah and Alex talk about race, representation, and the benefits of being the weird kid with author Kevin Patterson. mistakescast@gmail.com * https://www.instagram.com/mistakescast/ More from Kevin Patterson: https://www.kevinapatterson.com/ https://unfuckyourpolyamory.com/ Love's Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson For Hire series by Kevin Patterson https://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ * https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/ * https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodels  Mentioned in the episode: Southwest Love Fest Too Late by Bloodstar

In this episode, I interview Kevin Patterson, author of Love's Not Color Blind and Educator with Unf*ck Your Polyamory. We talk about compassion, freedom, and control in non-monogamy, polyamorous weddings, race and non-monogamous spaces, pitfalls in long-term polyamory, communication skills, and more!    Ads:  - Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use code XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xoscholars/   Kevin:  https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/   If you want a more on polyamory and ethical non monogamy, check out these past episodes:  -08 with Dirty Lola  - 177 Open Smarter with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova - 199 and 200 with Jessica Esfandiary and Lauren Urbiztondo - 137 and 214 with Kate Loree - 227 with Irene Morning   FOLLOW US  Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media.   Loving disclaimer:  Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show. 

Open relationships. Now, you can clutch them pearls and raise those eyebrows all you want to, but this conversation is not going away - especially not in America.  Using two separate samples based on the U.S. Census, researchers found that one-fifth of the population in the United States has engaged in consensual non-monogamy at some point in their lives and if the trend continues, the only place this number is going is up. So… are open relationships the bandaid, the cure or the curse of our generation? And furthermore, how do you actually start one? Like for real? Let's talk about it on this episode of Lovers and Friends. We have a loaded conversation between our starring guests on this episode, Swaggy C and Bayleigh. A married couple with a new baby, but an old, inactive desire to explore consensual non-monogamy within their marriage. There are a lot of themes to pull from this interview like: what happens when non-monogamy is one person's yum and the other's yea I guess if that will make you happy… OR the dangers of using non-monogamy as a punishment for unfulfillment… OR the joys/ struggles of having a partner who is supportive of your desires, but not all the way cooperative. However what stood out to me in this episode is how to go from being curious to actually being actively open...for real. FOLLOW THE GUESTS ON THIS EPISODE Follow Bayleigh: https://www.instagram.com/bayydayy https://www.youtube.com/c/SwayleighGang https://www.tiktok.com/@bayydayyy Follow Chris “Swaggy C”: https://www.instagram.com/swaggyctv https://www.youtube.com/@KingSwaggy Follow Dr. Monica:  https://www.therapyforqpoc.com therapyforqpoc@gmail.com THANKS TO THE SPONSOR OF THIS EPISODE BET Watch Zatima starring Crystal Renee Hayslett and Devale Ellis by joining the millions who stream Black culture at http://www.bet.plus Better Help Discover your potential with BetterHelp.  http://www.betterhelp.com/lovers for 10% off your first month.  Hello Fresh Try America's #1 Meal Kit for yourself. Get 60% off plus free shipping.  Http://www.hellofresh.com/lovers60 Dipsea Explore your fantasies or get inspired with a 30 day free trial now.  http://www.dipsea.com/lovers Follow Shan: http://instagram.com/shanboody http://tiktok.com/shanboody https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com Open relationship reading list From Dr. Monica:  IG Educational Pages  ·      Evita Sawyers | @lavitaloca34 ·      Chanee Jackson Kendall | @chaneespeaks ·      Jhen | @monogamishpod ·      Kevin Patterson | @polyrolemodels ·      @polyamouraousblackgirl ·      Leanne Yau | @polyphiliablog   Books  ·      Pre-Order | A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Non-monogamous | Evita Sawyers ·      Love is Not Colorblind | Kevin Patterson ·      Polysecure | Jessica Fern ·      The Ethical Slut | Hardy & Easton  ·      More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory | Ricket & Veaux ·      Polyamory & Jealousy | Ricket & Veaux

Americana artist Jarrod Dickenson joins us (9:15 mark) to talk about his new album Big Talk coming Feb. 3, his favorite whiskies, their home bar, the proper time to wear a hat, being able to travel with his wife, getting her to join him on stage, being able to make new music, how this album compares to his first albums, what else he's hoping for in 2023 and more. Plus, cicerone Kevin Patterson joins us (1:30 mark) to talk those out of season beers we all enjoy year round.For more on Jarrod, visit https://jarroddickenson.com/ or find him on social media. Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

We're officially kicking off the 2022 season of Christmas Past with a Thanksgiving family gathering, a return to a beloved Bay Area tradition, and a visit to the Cratchit family in London. Cozy up by the fire and welcome the festive season with the entire Christmas Past family. Many thanks to Denise Lamott, Therese Porter, Kevin Patterson, and everyone at The Great Dickens Christmas Fair for making this episode possible. Music in this episode "The Winter Fall by PrabajithK" — Mild Relaxation, via Pixabay "Relaxing Piano Music" — Kevin MacLeod, via Incompetech "Peace and Comfort" — Dee Yan-Key, via Free Music Archive "This Christmas" — Hot Music, via Pixabay Buy the Christmas Past Book! Order your copy today. And remember...it makes a great gift! Amazon Barnes & Noble Books-a-Million IndieBound Share a Christmas memory  Be on the podcast! Just record a voice memo into your phone and send it to christmaspastpodcast@gmail.com. Keep it reasonably short, clean and family friendly, and be sure to say your name and where you're from.  Keep in touch christmaspastpodcast@gmail.com Facebook page Facebook group Twitter Instagram Website

Dennijo Sitze of the country trio the Flat River Band joins us to talk (9:30 mark) about playing together as brothers, growing up in a family band, having kids not into music, how the trio came to be, playing with the Gatlin Brothers, their latest album, making music for the front porch, what 2023 has in store and more. Plus, cicerone Kevin Patterson joins us (1:40 mark) for Tasting Notes to talk about pastry stouts and what to expect on tap this winter.For more on the Flat River Band, visit https://www.flatriverband.com/ or find them on social media. Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

Country artist and songwriter Jordan Rowe joins us (10:30 mark) to talk about his latest single 5:00 in the Country, growing up in Georgia, the move to Nashville, being a songwriter, song ideas that come in the shower, working with some legends on his album Bad Case of the Good Ole Boy, doing tailgate shows for Luke Combs, being on stage and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson joins us (1:45 mark) for Tasting Notes to talk bourbon barrel aged beers and what to expect.For more on Jordan, visit https://www.jordanroweofficial.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Neat & Mixed Reviews and the Hops & Spirits Kentucky podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com.

Artist in Residence Kerrie Smith, President Kevin Patterson, and Founder Patti Jacquemain talk about the Wildling Museum of Art & Nature in Solvang.  The post Wildling Museum of Art & Nature first appeared on Elizabeth Appraisals. The post Wildling Museum of Art & Nature appeared first on Elizabeth Appraisals.

This week at the Kitchen Table Britany and Nick interview author and polyamory educator Kevin Patterson. Together they discuss common polyam mistakes, how to communicate boundaries with your partners and how to have easeful relationships with your metamours. They also cover Kevin's book, Love is Not Color Blind, fetishization and how we can support more inclusive polyamory. NEW EPISODES EVERY WEDNESDAY! Find them at http://www.kitchentablepodcast.com/ (http://www.kitchentablepodcast.com) **Please leave us a review on iTunes (5 stars if you're feeling inspired) and subscribe, follow and share this podcast. Help us spread the love. It really does help.** FOLLOW KEVIN: Instagram: @Polyrolemodels Twitter: @Polyrolemodels https://www.kevinapatterson.com/ FOLLOW KITCHEN TABLE: Twitter: https://twitter.com/ktablepodcast (@ktablepodcast) FOLLOW BRITTANY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexually_liberated/ (@sexually_liberated) http://www.brittanypolicastro.com/ (http://www.brittanypolicastro.com) FOLLOW NICK: https://www.instagram.com/nickantonyphoto/ (@nickantonyphoto) http://www.nickantony.com/ (http://www.nickantony.com) Follow me at https://www.instagram.com/sexually_liberated/ (@sexually_liberated) on Instagram Kitchen Table Podcast is produced by Audionauts with music by Greta Hotmer.

This week on Rightnowish, we're passing the microphone to the team at The Stoop podcast. In this episode, hosts Leila Day and Hana Baba introduce us to folks practicing healthy alternatives to monogamy, including author and educator Kevin Patterson, who describes his polyamory as "relationship anarchy." "Every person that I meet, our relationship just sort of forms naturally," he says. "I don't try to put anybody in one box or another if that's not what suits this person."   Writer Crystal Byrd Farmer identifies as being solo polyamorous.  "Solo poly means that I'm not entwined with another person, so I'm not living with them, I'm not sharing finances with somebody, I'm not doing child care responsibilities with somebody else. I'm kind of my own person. I still have romantic and sexual relationships with multiple people, but it's really like I'm in my own house and do my own thing," she says.  And Intro, Ambi and Ex — the triad from the podcast Bloc'd — share their perspectives on polyamory, sexual identity and impending parenthood. "I just had a feeling that if we got together, we would be able to figure out the rest," says Ex. What you're going to hear originally aired on The Stoop in 2021 but it's always a good time to talk about the many manifestations of love.

Country artist Johnny Day joins us (10-minute mark) to talk about working in the oilfields, growing up in Colorado, moving to Nashville fulltime, saying no to his wife's proposal, his favorite beers, working on new music, being on TikTok and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson joins us (1-minute mark) for Tasting Notes to talk lagers as part of our Craft Beer 101 series.For more on Johnny, visit https://www.johnnydayofficial.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Hops & Spirits podcast, both available at hopsspirits.com.

Singer/songwriter Lauren Balthrop joins us (10-minute mark) to talk about having fun on social media, learning the fiddle, pursing theater in New York City before turning to music, growing up in Alabama, going solo, her upcoming album, the single Piece of Shit and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson joins us (1-minute mark) for Tasting Notes to talk sour/gose beers as part of our Craft Beer 101 series.For more on Lauren, visit https://www.laurenbalthrop.com/ or find her on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Questions & Alcohol podcast, both available at hopsspirits.com.

Country artist and professional baseball player Bryan Ruby joins us (13-minute mark) to talk about playing baseball, balancing music and baseball, when he got into country music, his new single Left Field, upcoming EP, his organization Proud to Be in Baseball and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson joins us (1-minute mark) for Tasting Notes to talk newer style IPAs as part of our Craft Beer 101 series.For more on Bryan, visit https://www.bryanrubymusic.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Questions & Alcohol podcast, both available at hopsspirits.com.

Country artist and songwriter Charlie Berry joins us (10-minute mark) to talk about what pushed him to start a solo career, making new music, being a dad, whether his daughter is a fan of his music, how his songwriting process goes, making TikToks, going from punk rock to country and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson, cicerone and national beer judge, joins us (1-minute mark) for Tasting Notes to talk IPAs as part of our Craft Beer 101 series.For more on Charlie, visit https://www.charlieberrymusic.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Questions & Alcohol podcast, both available at hopsspirits.com.

About a year ago, I got together with relationship experts Kevin Patterson, Dylan Thomas and Ryan "Prof" Bentham to discuss "coming out of the pandemic", and how we'd adjusted our relationship styles and practiced self-care during a trying period. Little did we know that twelve months later, we'd still be navigating our way through things. In addition to discussing the changes that have occurred in the way we interact with potential new partners and maintain relationships with our old one, this panel discusses parenting and how two years of limited social mobility has changed or affected the way we interact with our children, we discuss self-care solutions we've been practicing, and we discuss allyship and using our privilege for good when it comes to listening to and protecting those who may be less privileged than us. You can find Kevin online @polyrolemodels on IG and Twitter. You can find Dylan online @dylanthethomas on IG and Twitter.

Country artist Jon Wolfe joins us (9:30-mark) to talk about his tequila Juan Lobo Tequila, getting involved in the tequila industry, his many hobbies beyond music, going from a finance degree to the oil fields to the stage, his latest album Dos Corazones, what he loves about touring and more. Plus, Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, joins us (1-minute  for Tasting Notes to talk about craft beer and the perfect pairings for grilling season.For more on Jon, check out https://www.jonwolfecountry.com/ or find him on social media. For more on Juan Lobo Tequila, check out https://juanlobotequila.com/ or find it on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, enjoy our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Questions & Alcohol podcast, both available at hopsspirits.com.

Introduction to show On this week's "Tasting Notes", Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, talks about spring beers, how the styles change and what folks can expect on tap (starts around the 1-minute mark) Payton Howie, country artist whose debut EP Young Blood is out now, joins us at the 8-minute mark. What's your favorite guilty pleasure non-alcoholic drink? So did this love of music start with a Carrie Underwood concert when you were 5? When did you know this is something that you saw as a career?  You were pretty good at softball even earning a D2 scholarship, ever miss it?  You grew up in California/Texas, how did that impact or influence you?  How would you describe your music style?  Who/what type of music did you grow up with or influenced you?  The single Country before Me and what that song means to you?  You released your debut EP Youngblood in February, what was that like? What's the story behind the name for the EP?  What's it like for you writing or co-writing songs? Where does the inspiration come from?  Never Go Home, how did that come about and what was it like shooting that video? Being younger, what's it like to find your voice/ find who you are in this industry?   Your songs have been featured on several of Spotify's country lists, what's that like for you?  Are you working toward a full-length album or more singles coming in the future?  Anything else folks can expect from you in 2022? For more on Payton, check out https://paytonhowie.com/ or find him on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, our Give It A Try Taste Tests and the Questions & Alcohol podcast, all available at hopsspirits.com. 

Introduction to show On this week's "Tasting Notes", Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, talks about the variety of barrel-aged beers and what to expect from each (starts around the 1-minute mark) Coyle Girelli, multiplatinum musician, songwriter and composer, joins us at the 9-minute mark. What are you drinking? I've looked at your social media and your photos make you look very serious, do you smile and have fun?   What would you be doing if you weren't in music?  Why did you launch your own label/agency in Honey Lemon Records?  How would you describe your solo music style?  How does your style differ from your bands Your Vegas and The Chevin?  How did growing up in England impact your music or influence you?  Who/what type of music did you grow up with or influenced you?  When did you know this was something you wanted to pursue?  You're a writer/producer/composer, what's it like working behind the scenes?  You've also written/worked with folks across many genres, how's that? Is it difficult to go from Coyle Girelli music to Macklemore and BTS? When writing, are you drawing from an experience or an idea?  You just released your second solo album Funland, what can folks expect on that?  How does this album compare to your first solo album Love Kills?  What can folks expect from you in 2022? For more on Coyle, check out https://www.coyle-girelli.com/ or find them on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, our Give It A Try Highlights, Cocktail:30 videos and Friday Five Q&A, all available at hopsspirits.com. 

Welcome to Episode 89 of Polyamory Uncensored, where we chat with Mike Joseph about his experience as a queer man in the polyam community, the pros and cons of communities of different sizes and in different parts of the country, and we chat about being ethical sluts. If you'd like to follow Mike, you can do so here: https://twitter.com/tismikejoseph. We mentioned the book The Ethical Slut during the pod, check that out here. We also mentioned Kevin Patterson and his book, "Love's Not Colorblind," check out Kevin and his works here. Stay tuned as we delve into the good, the bad, the ugly, and the just plain complicated truths about our poly lives. If you would like to support the podcast with a one-time contribution, we have set up a PayPal link to make it super easy! Please show your support in any amount you can here: PayPal.me/polyamoryuncensored. Thank you so much for any amount you can manage. If contributing in a monetary fashion isn't your thing or you just aren't able to, that's fine, you can help us out for free by giving us a review, liking and following us on Facebook and Instagram, sending us a voice message to play on the podcast (https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/message), or just telling your friends about us! Many thanks to Meaghan Heinrich for our wonderful theme song! Stay safe, we love you, bye! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/polyamoryuncensored/support

Introduction to show On this week's "Tasting Notes", Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, talks about non-alcoholic beer and how it has changed in recent years. (starts around the 1-minute mark) CJ Cain of The Wooks joins us at the 8-minute mark. What are you drinking? How would you describe the style of The Wooks  How did the name come about?  What got you into music?  Who/what type of music did you grow up with or influenced you?  What can folks expect on new album Flying High?  I read where you wanted it to have a more live feeling, said bluegrass is getting more autotuned, what were you all shooting for?  Does this differ from your first two albums?    As you all write new material, what's the like? Pulling from experiences, have ideas?  Since you all started in 2014, how has the journey been?  You all are going on tour for the new album, what can folks expect?  Is there a favorite venue or place you all have played/gone?  Wook-o-ween and the fun of putting that on  Did you ever expect this to be your life?  You all are ambassadors for Can'd Aid, why is that important to you all?  In addition to the new album/tour, what are you hoping for in 2022? For more on The Wooks, check out https://wookoutamerica.com or find them on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, our Give It A Try Highlights, Cocktail:30 videos and Friday Five Q&A, all available at hopsspirits.com. 

Introduction to show On this week's "Tasting Notes", Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, talks about 2021 trends in craft beer and what to expect in 2022 (starts around the 1-minute mark) Troy Johnson, Brett Boyett, and Scott Lindsey of The Nashvillains join us us at the 9-minute mark.  What are you drinking?  How did you all come together? Did you know of one another prior? The name, The Nashvillains, how did that come about?  As fans of a variety of genres, how would you describe your music?  What can folks expect on your debut album Tumbling down?   Blending genres and working with a variety of folks  What got you all into music?  What music did you grow up on?   Troy, writing songs for Keith Urban, The Chicks, Trace Adkins and more, what's that like?   Brett, being a music producer for TV, film and recording artists, how was that?  Scott, you've had your on charting single, but have also written for a diverse group, how have those differed for you?  For all, is there ever a song you wrote that you wish you were able to record looking back?  When writing, how often do you pull from experiences or is it an idea that comes together?   How do you all balance the band and continuing to write/produce for others?  Did you ever expect this to be your life? If this wasn't, what would you be doing? Doing live shows on social media  In addition to a new album, what can folks expect from y'all in 2022? For more on The Nashvillains, check out https://www.nashvillainsband.com/ or find them on social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, our Give It A Try Highlights, Cocktail:30 videos and Friday Five Q&A, all available at hopsspirits.com. 

SnapSessions! presents Episode 39, featuring a holiday interview with our artist of the show—Red Barn Productions event producer and one of the originators of the Great Dickens Christmas Faire, Kevin Patterson. In addition to our interview, SnapSessions! also presents the commentary “The Story of Human Population in My Lifetime—a Rollercoaster Ride for our Species!”

Introduction to show On this week's "Tasting Notes", Kevin Patterson, a Cicerone and National Beer Judge, talks what to expect with winter beers and how the shelves change after the holidays (starts around the 1-minute mark) Creed Fisher, Outlaw Country artist and a true Texan, joins us at the 8-minute mark. What are you drinking? And is that your typical go-to? How would you describe your style of music?  Is your real name, Creed Fisher? What's in the name of the album? What can folks expect on your new album Whiskey and the Dog? How do you draw on past experiences when creating music? What got you into music? I was reading about the little blue house and how that kind of got you to where you are now or kicked started things, can you explain that? When writing songs, do you pull from personal experiences or just have an idea? Do you ever have to stress over creating new material? Playing in front of crowds? What music did you grow up on?  Growing up in Texas and its impact on you? Going the do-it-yourself route and releasing songs online  Life experiences  What's it like performing now when that wasn't the original route you took? You seem to like to have fun and have shown that on a few songs Did you ever expect this to be your life? Making music, releasing albums, going on tours, etc.? What can folks expect from you soon? Sounds like a new album, tour and more. For more on Creed Fisher, check out https://creedfisher.net/ or social media.Don't forget to check out the video on YouTube and our Facebook page. Plus, our Give It A Try Highlights, Cocktail:30 videos and Friday Five Q&A, all available at hopsspirits.com. 

“This is Kevin Patterson, the writer and producer on “Samwel Sift, Post-Apocalypse Detective,” a zombie comedy noir, with more emphasis on the comedy than the zombie. It is not appropriate for children and has explicit content. This is Episode Two of Season Two. It is the conclusion of “The Case of the King.” Detective Samwel Sift is investigating the sudden appearance of a Chomper (or zombie) at the classy Hell-ton Hotel and death of The King, a popular musician.” Thank you for listening.” Transcript coming soon. https://www.stationaryhoboproductions.com/ Twitter: @stationaryhobo

Join Kelly, Dick and Gwen (Off The Cuffs podcast) as they talk all things BDSM! We break down kinks and shame culture and talk everything from what makes old school Batman episodes sexy to Gwen's Christian beginnings and how her and Dick often use that as part of their everyday play. In this episode we learn more about Dick and Gwens own kinks but also find out more about the BDSM and Kink community as well! Learning about munches and where to get started if you are interested in exploring more!      MUNCH LINK - Oh yeah! Here's the link with the details—we host them on Zoom every Friday at 8pm EST     Below is the info for the show notes:   Kevin Patterson— @PolyRoleModels on Twitter Carly S. — @makeupandsin on Instagram, blog is dildoordildont.com Betty Butch —@betty_butch on Twitter and Instagram, website is bettybutch.com Erin Pim—@thebedpostpodcast on Instagram, @TheLadyPim1 on Twitter, The Bedpost Podcast website is thesonarnetwork.com/the-bed-post/ Kate Sloan—@Girly_Juice on Twitter and Instagram, blog is girlyjuice.net, The Dildorks podcast can be found on any podcast streaming service Andrew Gurza—@andrewgurza_ on Twitter and Instagram, Disability After Dark podcast can be found on any podcast streaming service    

Zayna and Jonathan get personal this month and talk about insecurity with help from Jamie in Singapore and from Kevin Patterson, author of the excellent book Love's Not Color Blind who joins us on the line from Philadelphia.  Almost everyone has to deal with insecurity whether they're monogamous or non-monogamous, but within CNM there can be extra pressures because our partners are free to date other people and we compare ourselves unfavourably to their other loves.  Jamie talks about insecurities arising out of trust issues with a former partner, Kevin speaks about imposter syndrome, Jonathan about the experience of being an adoptee and Zayna about feeling less-than in her professional field.

Kevin Patterson & Dr. Liz Powell join us to talk about their new course, Unf*ck Your Polyamory Pro — for both individuals, couples, groups and professionals. They discuss shame, stigma, stereotypes, metamours, toxic monogamy, hierarchies, compersion and lessons that we can all learn from — regardless of whether we consider ourselves monogamous, ethically non-monogamous or otherwise inclined. Follow Dr. Liz on Twitter & Instagram. Follow Kevin on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter. To learn more about the We-Vibe Tango X that Jess referenced in this episode, click here. This podcast has been sponsored by Let'sGetChecked. Use code DRJESS to save at checkout!       If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Episode 199: Polyamory, Toxic Monogamy, & Ethical Non-Monogamy: What Therapists & Practitioners Need to Know (00:05): You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Brandon (00:18): Welcome to the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast, I'm your co host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half, Dr Jess. Dr. Jess (00:25): Hi, hi. Brandon (00:26): Hello. Dr. Jess (00:27): How you feeling today? Brandon (00:30): I'm feeling pretty good, you? Dr. Jess (00:31): I'm good. I woke up in a bad mood. But I'm feeling much better. I've have had really wild morning, some exciting meetings, learning about some new topics. And I'm really looking forward to today's topic here on polyamory, and toxic monogamy, and compersion and a whole bunch of other hot topics. Brandon (00:51): Should be a great conversation. I'm looking forward to it. Dr. Jess (00:54): Yes, before we dive in. I want to thank http://www.letsgetchecked.com for their ongoing support of our program. Check them out http://www.letsgetchecked.com for all your at home health testing needs, and use code DRJESS to save. And I thought I'd mention something. My friends over at We Vibe, which is really my favourite sex toy brand honestly. I've been working with them forever. I've been using them forever. And my favourite toy is called the Touch. I've had my Touch forever. It sort of looks like a flat thick purple tongue. Is that a good way to describe it? Brandon (01:27): Yeah I would say so. Dr. Jess (01:29): Or like a skinny computer mouse. Brandon (01:32): Yes both of those. Dr. Jess (01:34): I've been pulled over by TSA, and they've asked what's in the bag. They're like “are those computer mice.” Cause I always have a bunch of them. I'm like not exactly. I always just tell them they're sex toys and they let me go on my merry ways, because they don't want to go into my suitcase. Brandon (01:47): That's one that I've used on the plane, as a neck massager. Dr. Jess (01:51): It might have been. You've also used the Wish, the blue one. Brandon (01:56): They all work. Dr. Jess (01:58): Anyhow. We Vibe has come out with a new and improved TouchX, as well as their new Tango. And I'm super excited because these are kind of our old stalwarts. These are the toys that I've had in my personal kit for so long. And now they've been upgraded and yeah, I'm just really excited to try them. I'm not gonna lie and say I've tried them yet. Because I'm still in Jamaica.

Bill Myers Inspires  In America today, what is the role of faith leaders in addressing the divisive political climate, racism, and white privilege? What does manifesting white privilege look like and how must faith leaders and others work to dismantle it? The Rev. Dr. John C. Dorhauer, author and theologian, currently serves as ninth General Minister and President of the United Church of Christ. John began his ministry serving First Congregational United Church of Christ and Zion United Church of Christ in rural Missouri. He then served as Associate Conference Minister in the Missouri Mid-South Conference, and then Conference Minister of the Southwest Conference of the UCC prior to his election as General Minister and President. Dorhauer received a B.A. in Philosophy from Cardinal Glennon College (1983), and has a Master of Divinity degree from Eden Theological Seminary (1988), the same year John was ordained in the United Church of Christ. John received a Doctor of Ministry degree from United Theological Seminary (2004); his area of focus -- white privilege and its effects on the church. With a personal theology shaped in the passionate conviction that God is love and God is just, John has embodied the United Church of Christ's vision of “A Just World for All” throughout his ministry. On October 17, 2014, Dorhauer conducted the first legal same sex wedding in the state of Arizona when he performed the wedding service of David Laurence and Kevin Patterson. In his first term as General Minister and President, recognizing increasing sensitivities in this country around race, John initiated the collaborative creation of a curriculum, “White Privilege: Let's Talk – A Resource for Transformational Dialogue”. Designed to invite UCC members and others to engage in safe, meaningful, substantive, and bold conversations on race, the curriculum and accompanying facilitator's guide have been used by both UCC and non-UCC audiences. https://www.ucc.org. copeland@ucc.org   ~ More About Bill Myers Inspires ~  Emmy Award-winning actor Bill Myers is an accomplished actor, jazz musician, filmmaker, writer, educator, and speaker. As a bi-racial man who is both black and white, Bill leverages his background, talents, and voice through creativity, compassion, and connection as activism for social justice to focus on uniting the divide and compelling change. In a civic leadership capacity, he has served as President of the African American Jazz Caucus in NYC, member of the Indianapolis Cultural Development Committee, and served as President of the Indianapolis Downtown Optimist Club. In addition to his Emmy Award, Bill has received many awards and notable commissions for his work including being commissioned by the Indianapolis Museum of Art to create an original work for Dr. Martin Luther King Day entitled “The Music, Martin & Me.” Bill Myers seeks to encourage, enlighten, and empower others through the power of entertainment to affect social justice. You can find him at his website Billmyersinspires.com, Bill Myers Inspires on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/billmyersinspires/, Twitter https://twitter.com/bmyersinspires1, Instagram https://www.instagram.com/billmyersinspires/  , or via email billmyersinspires@gmail.com. To get more of Bill Myers Inspires, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/bill-myers-inspires/    

Kevin Patterson and Adrian Parish, the two behind "Samwel Sift, Post-Apocalypse Detective" interview each other about Season 1. Adrian talks about the sound design process.  

Kevin Patterson and Adrian Parish, the two behind "Samwel Sift, Post-Apocalypse Detective" interview each other about Season 1.  Kevin talks about the  writing process.  1 of 2 Pre-season 2 interviews.

Bill Myers Inspires  The topic of racism in America is inescapable because it was a key ingredient that was baked into the cake at the beginning. This is understood by Rev. Dr. John Dorhauer, who has spent a large portion of his life studying and examining racism in America as part of his ministry as he now serves as General Minister and President of the United Church of Christ. in this show, we will explore Dr. Dorhauer's observations of the civil rights movement, white privilege and reparations. The Rev. Dr. John C. Dorhauer, author and theologian, currently serves as ninth General Minister and President of the United Church of Christ. John began his ministry serving First Congregational United Church of Christ and Zion United Church of Christ in rural Missouri. He then served as Associate Conference Minister in the Missouri Mid-South Conference, and then Conference Minister of the Southwest Conference of the UCC prior to his election as General Minister and President. Dorhauer received a B.A. in Philosophy from Cardinal Glennon College (1983), and has a Master of Divinity degree from Eden Theological Seminary (1988), the same year John was ordained in the United Church of Christ. John received a Doctor of Ministry degree from United Theological Seminary (2004); his area of focus -- white privilege and its effects on the church. With a personal theology shaped in the passionate conviction that God is love and God is just, John has embodied the United Church of Christ's vision of “A Just World for All” throughout his ministry. On October 17, 2014, Dorhauer conducted the first legal same sex wedding in the state of Arizona when he performed the wedding service of David Laurence and Kevin Patterson. In his first term as General Minister and President, recognizing increasing sensitivities in this country around race, John initiated the collaborative creation of a curriculum, “White Privilege: Let's Talk – A Resource for Transformational Dialogue”. Designed to invite UCC members and others to engage in safe, meaningful, substantive, and bold conversations on race, the curriculum and accompanying facilitator's guide have been used by both UCC and non-UCC audiences. In addition, John has partnered with the UCC Board of Directors in providing oversight for the articulation of the denomination's statements of Purpose, Vision and Mission – critical elements for the UCC's evolving organizational strategy. To activate the new vision, John invited the denomination's participation in a collective biennial mission initiative, Three Great Loves. In partnership with the UCC Board of Directors – and informed with responses from across the church to the question “what does a transformative UCC need to be in ten years?”-- John has called the church to accomplish essential strategic priorities over the next 10 years to position the church for a transformative future. These include attaining inclusive excellence, developing robust technology infrastructure that benefits every expression of the church, curriculum and training towards “A Just World for All”, strategic organizational alignment consistent with purpose, vision and mission, and platforms to foster and encourage innovative church. The Shaping Our Future Campaign has been launched to generate $4 million in new philanthropic support for marketing, technology and leadership development programs critical to the health and vitality of every expression of the church. More recently, recognizing a need for thought leadership to consider, inform and shape our responsibility for lifelong, cradle-to-the-grave theological formation, John called for a summit on theological formation, From the Ground Up, which was launched in spring 2018. At present, his focus is on re-establishing the primacy of the Local Church and the mutuality of relationship amongst the expressions of the church, undertaking an assessment of the denomination's assets devoted to resourcing local church ministry relative to the needs of the local church, and operationalizing the alignment of the national setting consistent with the newly established strategic priorities for the UCC. John now serves as Vice-Chair of the National Council of Churches (NCC), and has co-chaired the NCC's United to End Racism campaign. He has been identified by the Center for American Progress as one of the religious leaders to watch for in 2017. John insists that the Holy Spirit envisions a future in which the United Church of Christ matters. He is calling on the denomination to rethink itself and to consider new ways of being church in light of institutional religion's changing landscape and emerging shifts in the generational populations – believing that an emergent church is already coming alongside the institutional church. John's book Beyond Resistance: the Institutional Church Meets the Postmodern World is a call to the body of Christ to accept what the Spirit of the Risen Christ is doing to birth something new, vital, and relevant – all towards nurturing Beloved Community. dorhauerj@ucc.org.   https://www.ucc.org/  ~ More About Bill Myers Inspires ~  Emmy Award-winning actor Bill Myers is an accomplished actor, jazz musician, filmmaker, writer, educator, and speaker. As a bi-racial man who is both black and white, Bill leverages his background, talents, and voice through creativity, compassion, and connection as activism for social justice to focus on uniting the divide and compelling change. In a civic leadership capacity, he has served as President of the African American Jazz Caucus in NYC, member of the Indianapolis Cultural Development Committee, and served as President of the Indianapolis Downtown Optimist Club. In addition to his Emmy Award, Bill has received many awards and notable commissions for his work including being commissioned by the Indianapolis Museum of Art to create an original work for Dr. Martin Luther King Day entitled “The Music, Martin & Me.” Bill Myers seeks to encourage, enlighten, and empower others through the power of entertainment to affect social justice. You can find him at his website Billmyersinspires.com, Bill Myers Inspires on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/billmyersinspires/, Twitter https://twitter.com/bmyersinspires1, Instagram https://www.instagram.com/billmyersinspires/  , or via email billmyersinspires@gmail.com. To get more of Bill Myers Inspires, be sure to visit the podcast page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/bill-myers-inspires/

Are you monogamous? Consensually non-monogamous? Ambiamorous? Polyamorous? Have you explored all of your options? And what can you learn from relationship types that are different than your own? Kevin Patterson joins Jess & Brandon to talk about his open marriage of 12 years and counting. He shares some of his mistakes and lessons as well as insightful advice on jealousy for people in monogamous relationships. Follow Kevin on... Instagram Facebook Pick up your copy of Kevin's book, Love is Not Color Blind here. Also check out For Hire: Operator here. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Ambiamory, Polyamory, Open Relationships 00:00:05 - 00:05:09 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sex and relationship advice, you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr jazz podcast. Brought to you my our friends at desire resorts in cruises. I'm Brandon wear your unofficial sexologist. And I'm just so Riley a soon to be retired sexologist. Oh, that sounds amazing. I gotta say love what we do have a lot of fun. But the idea of kicking back and travel in the world for six months sounds pretty amazing right now. So it's a six month retirement to six months sabbatical. I think so I think we'll go on a sabbatical in the next few years, we go pretty hard. We do. Actually, I'm letting out a big X hail this week because I handed in a book transcript on Monday, I filmed an entire video course yesterday. So I'll have a new book coming out next year co authored by the fabulous Marla, Renee Stewart, and our book is called the ultimate guide to Saddam and foreplay. And yes, foreplay counts as sex and. Is really about all things sexual? It's really not just seduction four play and Marla is getting married this weekend in Atlanta's so shout out to Marla and her partner. Esther I'm heading down in the morning for her wedding arm, nor growing, but I want you to tell us a bit more about the fem- of their wedding. 'cause it's pretty unique. Yeah, I'm pretty excited. First of all, I can't wait to see Marla dress. Because I've heard it's going to be read. And because it's Marla it's going to be fun Bula space. Fabulous. And I've been told as a guest that we are to wear bold colors with a military sexy theme. Why didn't we do this for our wedding? I don't know because I didn't wanna see you in like military military boy shorts. I look back at the photos of our wedding. And it was one of the best days of my life. But my attire is very different than what Iraq today. Yeah. You wore a white suit that wasn't skin-tight like the clothes. You wear today. Such tight clothing. Let's see it's form fitted. All right. Okay. Let's talk right now who's t-shirt is tighter. Yours are not a fair comment were at home. We're working out of our office our studio, and I was out I was running around so latex convention. Yeah. That was pretty good. Pretty good. My jeans have stretching the Manley Malone any short too, so Marla and Esther shadow to them big. Congrats coming up for this weekend. I don't know what to wear because we've been told to wear bright red, bold, blue or yellow and make sure it's military sexy. Now as a Canadian, I'm not even sure what military sexy is I how ever have number of neighbors who are quite into the ...