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The OnlyFans battlefield has never been hotter—or more twisted. In a world where simping fuels empires and sex appeal is a weapon, two of the platform's most provocative queens are locked in a feud that's as personal as it is performative. Sophie Rain, the baby-faced billionaire fantasy, and Bonnie Blue, the leather-clad dominatrix of digital depravity, are more than rivals—they're cultural foils exposing the dirty underbelly of influencer erotica and the hypocrisy baked into the platforms that made them famous.Sophie Rain, barely out of her teens, has mastered the art of being softcore and sacrosanct all at once. Marketed as a "virgin" archetype with pouty innocence and just enough coquettish confidence to leave simps thirsting for more, she's cashed in big—to the tune of $6 million from a single obsessed benefactor (The Tab). Her brand is built on the illusion of accessibility—she's almost yours, but never quite. Her age, her softness, her "girl next door" energy? It's a curated fantasy, designed to let lonely men feel like they're protecting her, even as they're bankrolling her into stardom.But enter Bonnie Blue: the villain in leather heels, who doesn't whisper—she bites. Known for her aggressively dominant persona, Bonnie doesn't play sweet. She plays cruel. But recent headlines shattered even that illusion, exposing a darker truth. In a searing exposé (The Tab), multiple women accused Blue of mental torment and cyberstalking, alleging she unleashed her fanbase like attack dogs on anyone who dared question her power. The dominatrix, it seems, likes to play psychological games even off-screen—blurring the lines between performance and predation.That's when Sophie Rain pounced. In a scathing viral interview with Complex (read here), Rain publicly eviscerated Blue, calling her a menace and a disgrace to the OnlyFans community. But here's the kicker: while Rain denounces Bonnie's cruelty, she weaponizes her own version of manipulation—selling a sanitized, submissive brand of sexuality that thrives on infantilization and male obsession. One plays predator, the other plays prey—but both profit from the same cycle of parasocial seduction.It's a tale of two temptresses in a digital coliseum, both exploiting men's lust and loneliness to climb the algorithm. Bonnie gives you pain and punishment; Sophie gives you purity and the promise of a DM. But strip away the branding, and both are running the same game—one just does it with bows and blush, the other with whips and war paint.This isn't just a catfight—it's a cultural reckoning. The “virgin vs vamp” dynamic is playing out in real time, fueled by simps, stans, and a society obsessed with fetishizing women as either saints or sinners. As Sophie and Bonnie tear each other down, what's really being exposed is the twisted morality of the platforms and the audience that reward performance over principle.In the end, OnlyFans isn't just about selling sex—it's about selling roles. And in the clash between innocence and intimidation, it's the audience who pays to keep the drama—and the dollars—flowing.Contact KOP for professional podcast production, imaging, and web design services at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comSupport KOP by subscribing to his YouTube channel and search for King Of PodcastsFollow KOP on X or TikTok or LinkedIn @kingofpodcastsFind KOP's other programs, Podcasters Row… and the Wrestling is Real Wrestling Podcast and The Broadcasters Podcast at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comBuy KOP a Coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/kingofpodcastsDrop KOP a PayPal https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=3TAB983ZQPNVLDrop KOP a CashApp https://cash.app/$kingofallpodcastsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/depraved-and-debaucherous--5267208/support.
This special edition I talk with Goddess EmAmbisious. We discuss her going from being a cam girl, to a stripper and finally a Dominatrix / Porn star. We discuss how she broke into the business. She tells us her first experience as a stripper and how she got her name. We discuss her being a Dominatrix and her now only shooting with her man. We discuss how energy plays a big part of our business and being empath her change her approach to filming. Plus we discuss more about BDSM and couple's porn .Want More Content? 2 ways to get it1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month)https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe2. Become A Premium SmokerSubscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoomWant More Content. Become a Premium Smokerfor 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a monthSponsored ByHottest Adult Mag Onlinehttps://eroticismmagazine.com/Hottest Adult Film Companyblusherotica.com/videosBest Scented Candles On The Netthekinkycandleco.etsy.comQueen Of Law https://www.instagram.com/dividenqueen/Porn/ Music/ Social Mediahttps://allmylinks.com/pornrapstarGet The Merch:https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/Guest: Goddess EmAmbisioushttps://x.com/emambisiousbeacons.ai/emambisious
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On this episode of Inside OnlyFans, Kayla & CJ chat with AVN & XBIZ winner of Best New Starlet, Gal Ritchie. Gal discusses making VR porn, being a dominatrix, punching a guy in the face for money, and more! Full video episodes available: Patreon OnlyFans FOLLOW US! Instagram: @insideonlyfans @cjsparxx @kaylalaurenoffical @thegalritchie Twitter: @insidefans Facebook: Inside OnlyFans Tiktok: @insideofpodcast YouTube: Inside OnlyFans Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this engaging conversation, Rina and Kinsey delve into the intricate relationship between kink, erotic humiliation, and the societal shame often associated with sexuality. They explore how embracing vulnerability and open communication can transform shame into empowerment, allowing individuals to explore their desires in a safe and loving environment. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding the psychological aspects of erotic humiliation and how it can serve as a tool for personal growth and self-acceptance. In this conversation, Rina and Kinsey delve into the complexities of erotic humiliation, exploring how it can serve as a pathway for deep inner work and parts integration. They discuss the healing aspects of humiliation play, the journey of reclaiming identity and overcoming shame, and the powerful intersection of humiliation and affirmation in intimate relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of mindful exploration of taboo desires, encouraging listeners to embrace their sexuality with openness and curiosity.Chapters00:00Exploring the Depths of Kink and Shame09:44Understanding Erotic Humiliation22:52The Taboo and Its Allure27:09Exploring Erotic Humiliation and Inner Work32:13The Healing Power of Humiliation Play36:32Reclaiming Identity and Overcoming Shame41:51The Intersection of Humiliation and Affirmation46:40Mindful Exploration of Taboo DesiresRina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity. Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!Get Access to Rina's Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and morehttps://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-libraryIf you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina TreviLet's Connect!Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner's Training https://www.suhai.world/Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com Kinsey embraces conscious kink as a path to true safety and comfort in the body—using sensation as a gateway to presence. Over the past eight years, he has immersed himself in transformational work, including extensive training in embodiment and psycho-somatic practices, along with two invaluable years of mentorship with a professional domme, Kimi Inch.His approach integrates queerness and fluidity, offering a perspective that challenges heteronormative norms and invites personal exploration. Kinsey shares somatic tools for befriending pain, deepening pleasure, and using every sensation to anchor more fully in the here and...
Ever wondered what it is like to be a dominatrix?London based Mistress Wildfire knows this all too well. This week on Sexonomic we sit down with a highly experienced and seasoned veteran of the trade. We dissect how Mistress Wildfire got into the wold of domming, the extensive knowledge you have to learn to become a skilled domination practitioner, the importance of consent, what the job has taught her in terms of voicing herself as a female and of course the most bizarre yet wonderful kink stories she's encountered.This episode is a truly amazing, surprising and salacious one to listen to - whip that episode on now
In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with romance author and financial dominatrix, Sara Sitwell, to explore the world behind the fantasy of financial domination. Sara shares how her journey into writing steamy romance novels naturally evolved into building a bold online presence — and eventually stepping into the fin dom space. We dive into what being a financial dominatrix truly involves, why personal safety and boundaries on social media are non-negotiable, and how misconceptions online can lead to dangerous misunderstandings. Sara peels back the layers of glamorized social media portrayals and offers honest advice for anyone curious about the world of fin dom. Whether you're fascinated by the psychology of power dynamics, curious about new ways women are owning their confidence online, or simply love a good story of personal evolution, this conversation is not to be missed!Follow Sara on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/thiccthiccsara/
Eva Oh welcomes Aranja—kink, power, and psychedelics coach, trauma therapist, and death doula—to #teakink for a deep dive into the intersections of kink, psychedelics, and death. They explore the role of a death doula, the unexpected parallels between kink and mortality, and how slowing down the dying process changes everything. Aranja shares insights on guiding clients through psychedelic experiences, the challenges of kink coaching, and the lack of resources around trauma in these spaces. Plus, a discussion on a potential kinky death retreat and Eva's first encounter with a dead body.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Aranja, Kink, Power and Psychedelics Coach, Trauma Therapist and Death Doula(05:20) - Discovering the Role of the Death Doula(09:45) - Bringing All Aranja's Roles Together?(11:05) - Can You Combine Kink and Psychedelics?(13:35) - The Similarities Between Kink and Death, Humility and Letting Go(15:45) - The Berlin Death Festival and the Cultural Practices of Death(18:45) - Slow Down the Death Process(21:50) - Eva's First Experience with a Dead Body(24:45) - A Kinky Death Retreat?(26:20) - What is Psychedelics Coaching?(28:30) - The Dangers and Expectations of Psychedelic Clients(32:50) - The Concerns of Kink Coaching Clients(39:30) - Kink, Trauma and Structuring Engagement as a Coach or Dominatrix(45:02) - The Lack of Resources Around Kink and Trauma(46:40) - How Kink is a Container for Sidelined Emotions and Experiences(51:30) - What Aranja Studied to Bring Together These Roles(53:00) - Aranja's Plâns and Eva's Sacrificial Session
Mistress Fleur Driver is a professional Dominatrix and BDSM practitioner with over thirteen years of experience in the sex work industry. Originally trained in the courtesan tradition by European Madams, her practice is grounded in immersive, intentional experiences that welcomes people from all walks of life. From her private dungeon in Sydney to international settings, Fleur guides her clients through carefully crafted journeys of surrender, ritual, and self-discovery.In this conversation we discuss healing through BDSM, sacred spanking, clients exploring sissification, high protocol scenes, how to use cling wrap in BDSM, masculinity and BDSM, Financial domination, being married and also being a sex worker, the visual aesthetics of BDSM, aftercare and mental health for Dominatrix's, the state of sex work in Australia, the difference between decriminalisation and legalisation of sex work and so much more.Mistress Fleur Driver Links:Website | InstagramEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Retreat This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe
Today, we're giving some excellent exposure to Cass Traitor! Cass is a writer, an artist, and a Dominatrix. They are also a freelance feminist journalist who works as an editor for Red Insight (a digital platform for sex workers). Cass also makes live art and short films about mental health, disability, BDSM, sexuality and gender and has been co-devising and performing with the Sex Workers opera (https://sexworkersopera.com/) for 10 years. Meg and Cass talk about the difficulty of breaking into any kind of creative freelance field with no financial support, and how being autistic helped Cass to discover they were an excellent Dominatrix! They also talk about the duality of doing sex work to support their ‘mainstream' creative work, just how much money Meg spent on her Edinburgh show, and why creative work and other non-traditional forms of labour absolutely need to start being respected as legitimate - and vital - forms of work. Find more about Cass's work here: https://casstraitor.wixstudio.com/more Follow Cass on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/casstraitor/ And find out more about Red Insight Media (the independent media platform created by and for sex workers that Cass works for) here: - https://www.instagram.com/redinsightmedia - https://redinsight.org/ As always, you can find me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Megartron BlueSky: https://bsky.app/megartron.bsky.social Twitter: https://x.com/meg_prescott YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MegPrescott/videos Spicy page: @Megartron A lot of the topics that we talk about on really good exposure relate to women's rights, worker rights, and the sorry state that both of those are in right now. We believe that women have the right to choose what they do with their bodies and how they make their money, and we also believe that how we choose to use our bodies should never, ever alleviate perpetrators of violence from accountability. We believe that all workers deserve basic human rights and protections, and we believe that predators are always responsible for violence, not victims. If you agree, please consider donating to national ugly mugs. National ugly mugs is a pioneering national organization that provides greater access to justice and protection for sex workers. You can donate here: https://nationaluglymugs.org/donate you can also follow N.U.M. on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/nationaluglymugs Sex workers are often targeted by dangerous individuals and face obstacles to reporting access to services and police protection. Those who harm sex workers offend against all of us.
IN THIS LATEST EPISODE OF "CALL ME MISTRESS", MADAME LIV BRINGS IN HER BOYFRIEND MATT, TO TALK ABOUT THEIR SCENE THEY JUST HAD IN THE DUNGEON.. THEY SWITCHED IT UP TO TRY SOMETHING NEW AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENS.. IT GOT "INTERESTING".
This week, we are joined by Colette Pervette, a dominatrix, who teaches us all about embracing our power in and out of the bedroom. We learn all about fem domme, kink, negotiating rules, discovering fantasies, and finding a sub to bring out your domme. We also discuss how to find power within yourself and be true to yourself outside of the bedroom. We nibble on feeld, fetlife, people pleasing, Bravo, The Valley, meditation, and more.
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hello everyone and welcome back to smoke sesh! so excited to be back with you all on this beautiful Tuesday, we have a lot to cover so lets get right into it! we start talking what I've been up to and getting outside whenever you can, pregnancy scares and being a woman and staying protected, pretty men are the devil, and there's more than being pretty, dating again and how to go about it in pleasure, summer before college story time, losing your virginity and tips and tricks, do you really need a party girl era and how to do it safely, making a life 180, frontal lobe developing, near death experience, road rage, angry men, being assertive and being a bitch, how did I learn to cook, cartademic and giving up carts, sex and emotions, dominatrix and dominating positions, is there such thing as destiny, standing up for the furies and protecting your peace a little too much, hope you all enjoyed and if you want to see more from me join the patreon at patreon.com/smokeseshshawty and follow me on instagram to submit your questions every week at hannahmarlene, stay sane stay sexy and ill see you all so soon! MUAH!
73 year old Sherry calls herself the oldest dominatrix in town. She goes by the alter ego 'Mistress Sofia' when in the bedroom and has 3 different kinds of clients - subs, sissys and slaves. But there's one thing she NEVER does... Have a listen for all the juicy details.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
D Rock chats with the amazing Brazillian Session Wrestler, Dominatrix, and Adult Entertainer Mel Fire!!!!! Mel chats about how she discovered the mixed wrestling industry while working in adult entertainment. Mel talks about the amazing content she creates and about her popular session style and what are her most requested sessions. Mel talks about the creative side of the industry and how she has been able to thrive off of it. All this and more on another fascinating episode of After Hours Sessions!!! #MelFire #SessionGirls #SessionWrestling #MixedWrestling #BDSM #Kink #Fetish #SexualityPodcast
Pres. Trump rallied in Michigan, celebrating the successes of his historic 100 days. Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer appeared at the event, with a controversial hug when greeting the president. She has ‘dominated' the state's government, while Trump dominated Michigan's electoral votes. Plus all the morning's biggest news on Hour 2 of the Wednesday Bob Rose Show for 4-30-25
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Send us a textWhat if the path to healing your deepest wounds lies in unexpected territory? Mistress Mia Payne, a professional dominatrix and certified therapeutic BDSM practitioner, reveals how controlled power exchange can unlock profound emotional release where traditional therapy falls short.Beyond Hollywood's misrepresentations, therapeutic BDSM creates safe spaces for processing trauma, anxiety, and depression through physical experiences that engage the body where emotions are stored. For some clients, it's about reclaiming power after abuse or trauma. For others—particularly high-achieving professionals—sessions provide rare moments of mental quiet when they temporarily surrender the burden of constant responsibility. From age regression therapy that nurtures the inner child to sensation play that triggers healing neurochemical releases, these modalities address needs as unique as the individuals seeking them.Shame emerges as the silent barrier to personal growth and intimate connection. Whether rooted in religious upbringing, strict parenting, or societal judgment, shame creates what Mistress Mia calls "a ribbon that runs through everything." By creating environments where all aspects of self are accepted, clients learn to integrate both shadow and light—a crucial step toward authentic living. "When we fully accept ourselves in all our parts," she explains, "then we can fully accept other people."Having recently completed certification with the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network, Mistress Mia now partners with therapists to design customized experiences for clients who feel stuck in traditional healing approaches. She emphasizes finding skilled practitioners who understand not just techniques but human psychology, as this vulnerable work requires trustworthy guidance. For those curious about exploring this cutting-edge healing modality, visit paynewithpurpose.com to learn more about her self-development dungeon and services.Support the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/support Email questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @fromthesourcesmouth_franktalkTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube and IG: Tamara_Schoon_comic
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Tara Indiana started her career as Dominatrix in New York City, 1989. She gained notoriety when She was crowned, Head Mistress at "The Paradise Club” and appeared in a photo layout with John Wayne Bobbit. It was also there She started Her infamous Dominatrix Classes which were quickly picked up by Playgirl, The Learning Annex and in the book "How to Seduce a Man”. She went on to found, "The Den of Iniquity" in 1994 with Her colleagues London and Paige. The first space was at 241 West 19th Street in NYC. The Daily News described Her as "The Martha Stewart of Dungeons" in an expose about the S&M scene in New York City. In 1997 she began performing at the S&M themed restaurant, "La Nouvelle Justine" where she met and performed for Joan Rivers and went on to guest on her show. In 1998 She embarked on a career in Fetish Porn. She started her career at Gotham Gold defying the conventions of the time. In the 1990's, BDSM films were traditionally cast with porn actors. She was the first professional & working dominatrix to appear in mainstream Fetish Porn. She quickly rose to stardom and was invited to sign for Gotham at CES in 1999 where she met Dian Hanson who then featured Her in “Leg Show" in 2000. Later that year She signed again for Gotham at CES where she met legendary Porn Director and AVN Hall of Famer Rick Savage. Rick cast her in many of his films for Legend, Pleasure, Galaxy and Outlaw and began shooting at the Den. From 1998 - 2006 almost every S&M film shot in New York was shot at The Den of Iniquity and or with Den of Iniquity Mistresses. Tara retired from acting to produce and direct in 2004 for her own line, "Den of Iniquity Films" Tara revolutionized the dungeon business by bringing a legitimate corporate culture and branding to what had been a seedy, underground business mostly controlled by organized crime. It was The first BDSM club to obtain a federal trademark, and the first, and, to date, only dungeon to go national as a chain. At its height it had flagships in New York City, Phoenix and Los Angeles. The Den of Iniquity is known for it's long list of celebrity Dominatrices, Porn Stars and Fetish Models But Her proudest accomplishment to date was appearing on "The Daily Show' with John Stewart,during the 2004 Republican Convention. She is the first and only Dominatrix to be interviewed on “The Daily Show". As a longtime fan She considered it quite an honor, saying "Jon Stewart is the only man that's ever publicly humiliated Me." This episode is brought to you by Olipop, a new healthy brand of soda. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/ and use code Marcela15 at checkout to get 15% off your first order. This episode is brought to you by Shopify. Shopify can help you take your business to the next level. Click HERE to set up your Shopify shop today and watch your business soar! This episode is brought to you by BranditScan, the best defese you have against social media fraud. Click HERE to get started with BranditScan today and get your first month for free. There is no better service to protect your social media accounts and your name and likeness. This episode is brought to you by Playboy. Click HERE to get a membership today and unlock a premium Playboy experience like no other. This episode is brought to you by Skillshare. Click HERE to start exploring all the courses Skillshare has to offer, from drawing and music, to graphic design and marketing, start expanding your knowledge today. This episode is brought to you by Fiverr. Click HERE to start hiring professionals to help you in various areas and take your business to the next level. This episode is brought to you by PodMatch. Click HERE to bring your podcasting journey to the next level by getting set up's Only Fans VIP Membership HERE Free Membership HEREn
D Rock chats with the incredible Carmen La Dean aka the Lift and Carry Dominatrix from Vienna!! Carmen tells D Rock how she got into the industry and how she was a dominant person from a very young age with a funny story!! Carmen talks about how she got into BDSM and Kink and made the transition to becoming a Dom. She talks about her making Wrestling and Lift and Carry a part of her Dom Lifestyle and how that makes her stand out. Carmen tells D Rock some of the interesting stories and interesting people she has met along the way!! All this and more on After Hours Sessions!!!! You can find Carmen on Session Girls https://sessiongirls.com/lift-carry-vienna/ Twitter/X : https://x.com/carmenladean personal website : https://www.carmen-la-dean.com/en/homeinstagram : https://www.instagram.com/carmenladean/
Become a Relative & send some loveWhat happens when a classically trained dancer from Philadelphia's performing arts scene becomes a Marine Corps journalist and eventually a professional dominatrix? Goddess Dealana's fascinating life journey breaks every conventional expectation while demonstrating the power of authentic self-expression.Growing up in North Philly's Strawberry Mansion neighborhood gave Dealana a foundation in both artistic expression and street smarts. Her path through dance and theater training led unexpectedly to military service when a Marine recruiter's professional demeanor impressed her more than her Army recruiter's. Throughout her four active-duty years as a combat correspondent, she developed skills that would serve her well across multiple careers.The conversation takes a compelling turn as Dealana openly discusses her transition into professional BDSM work. She specializes in financial domination, where submissive clients derive satisfaction from relinquishing control of their finances to a powerful woman. With remarkable candor, she explains how this role aligns with her naturally dominant personality while challenging the submissive conditioning she received in her religious upbringing as a Hebrew Israelite.Between her body sculpting business "Body Thief" and her dominatrix work, Dealana has created a life uniquely her own. Her wisdom about the power of words to shape reality and the importance of staying true to yourself despite others' opinions offers universal value regardless of your life path. As she puts it: "You are the star of your own show - focus on developing your story arc. Don't worry about what other people think."Ready to hear a truly unique perspective on power, control, creativity, and authenticity? This episode will challenge your assumptions about how varied one person's life journey can be when they follow their true nature. Subscribe now and join the conversation about defining success entirely on your own terms.Relationships Worth More Than Money by Tweezy Kennedy & Marcus Allandavailable on all streaming platforms!Support the showInstagram: @rwmtmpodYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@RWMTMpodGet RWMTM MERCH HERE!!!!! https://streamlabs.com/tweezydabeatterroristkennedy/merch
In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I chat with Dominatrix and kink educator Miss. Em, who brings over 20 years of experience in the world of BDSM, fetishes, and power dynamics. Hear about how her early curiosity around taboo desires became a calling—and how she uses passion, presence, and emotional intelligence to create safe, transformative experiences. During this conversation, Miss. Em shares her insights on everything from the origins of fetish and submission to the importance of aftercare and the art of psychological play. We explore how kink isn't always about sex—and how rituals, scent, and memory can create deep arousal and connection. Along the way, we talk about what it means to be an ethical Dominant, the surprising challenges of online BDSM, and why honest communication is at the center of any powerful erotic exchange. This episode invites you to drop the shame, get curious, and expand your understanding of intimacy—through the lens of kink, consent, and deep trust. Connect with Miss Em Website - https://www.sultrymissem.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sultrymissem/ Connect with Deborah Questions and Answers Substack: https://substack.com/@deborahkat Podcast Feedback DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com Book a breakthrough session with Deborah https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=11737312&appointmentType=60692935 Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox https://deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&id=ff89fb0d94
In this episode, Rina and Monique Darling explore the concept of Sacred Surrender, delving into their personal journeys and the transformative power of surrender in their lives. They discuss the role of Tantra in fostering self-acceptance and vulnerability, the importance of authenticity in relationships, and the challenges of surrendering to one's true self. The conversation highlights the significance of community and shared experiences in retreats, emphasizing the need for safety and connection in the journey of self-discovery and growth.Connect with Monique Darling via https://everyday-tantra.com/Join our Sacred Knots retreat in Cabo May 16-21, 2025https://everyday-tantra.com/events/sacred-knots-alchemizing-tantra-rope-and-energy-w-monique-rina-peter/Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity. Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!Get Access to Rina's Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and morehttps://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-libraryIf you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina TreviLet's Connect!Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/Tantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner's Training https://www.suhai.world/Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com
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On this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh sits down with David Chambers, a coach helping men deepen their capacity for love. They unpack his past in the pick-up artist community, why he initially resisted becoming a coach, and what actually makes a good one. From the parallels between coaching and domination to men's fears around love and attunement, they explore what holds people back from empathy and connection. Plus, they dive into Vipassana, the patriarchy, universal basic income—and whether aliens might just save us all.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:21) - Why David Chambers Helps Men to Love More Deeply(00:01:50) - How Love Has Changed For David Since He Became a Coach(00:06:25) - Why and How David Started to Change His Experience of Life(00:11:00) - Who Asks for David's Help and Why?(00:12:10) - David's Own Coaches(00:14:25) - Eva's Initial Mistrust of Coaches(00:16:40) - David's Pick Up Artist Coaching and Community(00:22:35) - David Didn't Want to be a Coach(00:23:20) - What Makes a Good Coach(00:25:40) - A Dominatrix Coaching Circle?(00:27:50) - Managing Client Numbers as a Coach(00:30:20) - Parallels between Dominatrix and Coaches(00:31:25) - The Benefits of Coaching in Groups(00:34:00) - David's Fear of Expressing Love(00:36:30) - What are Men Afraid of and How to Work with Their Fears(00:41:25) - Men's Approaches Towards Women and ‘Attunement'(00:53:10) - Eva's Perspective Building ‘Walking Exercise' with Her Clients(00:56:40) - Why People Hide from Feeling Empathy(00:59:10) - The Patriarchy, Reparations, Gisèle Pelicot and What Do We Do About It(01:08:00) - Leaning into Challenge, Disagreement and Moving Out of Reaction(01:10:00) - Vipasanna Meditation and Rewriting Our Relationship to Pain(01:14:00) - Universal Basic Income and Greed(01:15:00) - Will Aliens Save Us?!
6pm: Guest - Douglas Rushkoff - Media theorist, writer, columnist, lecturer, graphic novelist, and documentarian and self described “Intellectual’s Dominatrix” // I Stand Corrected or Yell at John about Anything // Soooo, about that trip to the White House… // The Promised Pizza that was Never Delivered
3pm: Guest - Douglas Rushkoff - Media theorist, writer, columnist, lecturer, graphic novelist, and documentarian and self described “Intellectual’s Dominatrix” // I Stand Corrected or Yell at John about Anything // Soooo, about that trip to the White House… // The Promised Pizza that was Never Delivered
Send us a textIn this episode, I am so thrilled to have Sue Barries, also known as King Lexa. She's well-known on social media for her adorable queer relationship and her engaging astrology content on Tik Tok. But there's a fascinating side to her story—she has a background as a Pro Dom (Professional Dominatrix). We discuss her journey in that world, share some of her most intriguing stories, and explore the services she offered. Sue also opens up about her history with sobriety and how fitness transformed her life. I genuinely believe this is one of the most captivating episodes I've recorded. Sue is such an open book and shares everything with us, so you definitely don't want to miss it. Stay tuned for Part 2 coming soon ;)You can find me on:Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lilkin_clark?igsh=NzI0ZzlyOGQwdTlw&utm_source=qrLez Be Honest Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lezbehonestpodcastt?igsh=MWt1aGhpaXpxcWcwNA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrLez Be Honest YouTube: https://youtube.com/@kinleyclark5695?si=FUOLpSI7EhKrdMJ3You can watch all the episodes of my podcast on my YouTube channel. Thank you for supporting! If you like the episode, don't be hesitant to give it a rating. I appreciate all the love
Eva Oh interviews her main BDSM slave, m. This intimate conversation offers a unique look into the Dominatrix-submissive relationship, and the extraordinary dynamics that shape it.m sheds light on his journey from fear to complete surrender, candidly discussing his initial hesitance and intrigue, his struggle to let go, and the allure of Eva Oh's dominating personality that finally led him to cherish the power exchange. Join us as we delve deeper into the dynamics of BDSM relationships, exploring intimacy, trust, and the profound fulfilment they can offer.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Meet My Main Slave, m(00.35) - The Foot Cam(00.56) - How We Met(02:10) - Ruling m's Thoughts(02:40) - Why m Was Interested in Me(03:55) - m ‘Letting Go'(05:25) - m's Second Thoughts(06.20) - My 'Strong Personality'(07.20) - m's Fears and Attempted Manipulations(08:10) - The Ruler will Rule(08:50) - Rejection, Acceptance and Trust(10.30) - Preconceptions Meeting Reality(11.40) - m's Growing Relationship to Pain and Resilience(12.20) - Taking Lessons from BDSM into m's Workplace(13.30) - Love and Lust(15.00) - m Learning Compassion(15:30) - Why m Has Learned So Much(16.30) - What Our Day to Day Looks Like(19.15) - Navigating Expectations(20.13) - Communicating Needs and Understanding Each Other(22.35) - Sexuality and Intimacy(27.00) - m's Concept of BDSM before Meeting Me vs Now(29.55) - m's Hopes for The Future(31.00) - m's Question for Me, Why Do I Accept Him?(35.30) - The Importance of Hearing the Submissive Voice(39.00) - How Vanilla Relationships Fit, or Don't
Send us a textNew Poetry Book: Peace, Love, and Chaos: A Woman's Emotional Roller Coaster:http://tinyurl.com/peaceloveandchaosFirst Book: Xena: Life as a Dominatrix:www.amazon.com/author/xenaromanovaSupport the show
Our guest (Female, 26, Bushwick, Bisexual) is a professional Dominatrix and Sex Coach. She talks all about her career path, how psychology plays into her job, how much she makes, some of the craziest things she's experienced, her experience dating, and more!If you have any feedback- please reach out to us on IG or leave a comment below!We recorded this episode at Jac's On Bond in NoHo. Jac's is one of our favorite date spots in the city. They have award winning cocktails, N/A options, great dessert, and a pool table you can reserve and play (for free)!If you are interested in matching with this week's guest, go to our instagram @drinks.first, our flow page or directly to our matching form.YOU CAN ALSO NOW WATCH THE EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE. Get full access to Drinks First at drinksfirst.substack.com/subscribe
In the final episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the intricate relationship between money and power in domination. From her early survival mindset to financial stability, she reflects on how her understanding of wealth has evolved—and whether the one paying is truly the one in control. Does money dictate power, or is it all about perception? With insights on findom, greed, and the illusions wealth creates, this episode challenges conventional ideas about financial dominance and self-worth.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries III: Money(01:06) - My Relationship to Money Pre-Domination(02:00) - Findom was Not a Category(02:55) - My Evolution from Survival to Wealth(04:20) - What is ‘Real'? Lifestyle vs Professional Domination(06:55) - Does the Person Paying Have the Power?(09:15) - The Power of Perspective(10:50) - How My Understanding of Money Has Changed Over Time(13:10) - Wealth Does Not Correlate to Quality of Personhood(19:20) - Money, Existential Anguish, Greed and Weakness(21:40) - The Miniseries Format Experiment
This week I interview Mistress Kora Bell. We discuss what it means to be a Dominatrix and what people get wrong about BDSM. Then we discuss her first experiences and her leaving the lifestyle and coming back after a 10yr relationship where she felt unfulfilled. We discuss her coming back and doing webcamming then her breaking into porn. We discuss how she has grown in the industry and her being life as a dominate alpha female, Dating and more. Want More Content? 2 ways to get it 1. Subscribe my Savage Smoke Sessions on Spotify ( $4.99 a month) https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/smokethisova/subscribe 2. Become A Premium Smoker Subscribe to the Premium Smoke Room On Loyalfans https://www.loyalfans.com/PremiumSmokeRoom Want More Content. Become a Premium Smoker for 5 Premium Podcasts , Special Events and More $25.99 a month Sponsored By Hottest Adult Mag Online https://eroticismmagazine.com/ Hottest Adult Film Company blusherotica.com/videos Best Scented Candles On The Net thekinkycandleco.etsy.com Queen Of Law https://www.instagram.com/dividenqueen/ Porn/ Music/ Social Media https://allmylinks.com/pornrapstar Get The Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/s-t-o-merch-store/ Guest: Mistress Kora Bell https://x.com/MistressKoraBel MistressKoraBell.com
THIS DOMINATRIX WILL DRAIN YOUR WALLET. Dustin welcomes Dominatrix, Former Pornstar, and OnlyFans + LoyalFans Creator Onyx Muse to the show this week for a wild ride through the fascinating world of Financial Domination. Onyx lays out the kind of shopping spree it takes to get her to consider a dinner date with someone, what it feels like to drain men's wallets, the most she's ever spent on someone's credit card, and what a client's "reward" is after the shopping spree is over. Onyx also chats about her days in the Porn Industry, how she became a dominatrix, her quest to teach more women about Financial Domination, and what she is up to on OnlyFans and LoyalFans.This one's a doozy. You're gonna love it. Enjoy EP 165: "Power Play" with Onyx Muse.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Onyx MuseOnyx Muse: https://www.instagram.com/onyxmusexo (@onyxmusexo)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka
In the second episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh examines the existence of the Dominatrix—not just as a profession, but as a cultural phenomenon. Why is female power so rare that it becomes fetishized? What does the Dominatrix reveal about society's relationship with female agency? And how can one navigate this space without reinforcing the very dynamics it critiques? Eva dissects the contradictions, the intrigue, and the deeper implications of wielding power in a world that still struggles to accept it.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries II: Why Does the Dominatrix Exist?(05:10) - The Fetishisation of the Rare Concept of Female Agency(07:55) - How Do I Not be a Part of the ‘Problem'
@CameronDomasky is back on the dating apps & @imbrandonfarris gives horrible advice.. this is Brandon by the way. DO NOT send cam anything in the DM's I beg of you! A very off color throw away joke on my end and not thinking it through before saying it..like I do most things! Please protect yourself at all times when online and the quickest way to Camerons heart is genuine connection with cool people. Just be a cool people! Love you don't ever do anything I say please!
In this conversation, Rina shares her personal journey of exploring and actualizing her kinky fantasies, emphasizing how these experiences can lead to healing and personal growth. She discusses the importance of understanding and embracing our subconscious desires, the therapeutic nature of kink, and how confronting taboo fantasies can empower individuals. Through case studies and personal reflections, Rina illustrates the transformative power of erotic imagination and encourages listeners to explore their own desires in a safe and consensual manner.Chapters00:00Exploring Kinky Fantasies and Healing02:51The Role of Fantasy in Personal Growth06:11Case Study: Humiliation and Empowerment11:49Personal Reflections on Kinky Desires17:57Actualizing Fantasies: A Personal Journey23:58The Therapeutic Nature of Kinky Play30:13Embracing Sexuality and Self-DiscoveryTantric BDSM Online Course: https://underline.world/Rina is a shibari artist, tantric bodyworker, former Dominatrix, and extreme sports athlete, learner of ancient traditions and intrepid explorer of consciousness. She guides people to their core, creating safe spaces for healing and self-discovery.This podcast is for courageous seekers like her, exploring meaning and spiritual illumination in the midst of life's intensity. Get ready to be inspired, amazed, and transformed!Get Access to Rina's Free meditations, Workshops, Shibari tutorials and morehttps://www.subscribepage.com/free-workshops-libraryIf you enjoy this episode, leave a 5-star rating and review the podcast on Apple Podcast and Spotify or send a DM to me on Instagram Rina TreviLet's Connect!Website: https://www.vulnerabilitycoaching.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rina_trevi/Sacred Feminine Touch Ceremony - Practitioner's Training https://www.suhai.world/Shibari Weekends - intimatelytied.com
In the first episode of the #teakink Power Miniseries, Eva Oh unpacks the nature of power through the lens of domination and submission. What is power, really? How does context shape who holds it, and what happens when those dynamics shift? She reflects on how her time as a Dominatrix reshaped her own sense of power—both in and out of the dungeon—and how others reacted to that transformation. With power being both intoxicating and treacherous, Eva explores the risks, the artistry, and why true power demands self-investigation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Power Miniseries I: Lessons from a Dominatrix(02:05) - What is Power?(03:30) - Context and Power in Domination and Submission(07:25) - How Being a Dominatrix Changed My Power(11:15) - How Others React to the Changes(16:20) - The Art and Danger of Playing with Power Dynamics(22:54) - Power: Delicious, Dangerous, Needs Self-Investigation
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We're off the back of Ryan's birthday and spirits are high! We weave our way through AI pleasantries, drivers against traffic police and all girl swinging parties, before settling on the story of a woman who Vicky admires. She is a woman with class, standards and a presence that very few possess. Chapters:00:00 Welcome to the Padded Cell Podcast00:39 Casual Conversations and Spring Vibes01:31 TikTok Live and Old School Dance Tunes07:07 AI and the Future of Human Interaction10:57 Upcoming Live Stage Show13:20 All-Female Event Recap21:54 Dominatrix Catherine Robe Grillet24:57 Exploring Submissive Tendencies26:01 Complex Relationship Dynamics27:53 Art of Presence Workshop28:55 Embracing Dominance30:44 Literary Contributions and BDSM33:44 Mentorship and Respect38:09 Catherine and Beverly's Unique Bond51:26 Servitude in BDSM56:38 Closing Remarks and Announcements▶︎ Support us on Patreon for bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/ThePaddedCellPodcast▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.co.uk▶︎ www.thepaddedcellpodcast.store Watch the podcast on YouTube:▶︎ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ThePaddedCellPodcastFollow The Padded Cell for more:▶︎ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551425184285▶︎ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thepaddedcell_podcast/?hl=en-gb▶︎ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thepaddedcellpodcastRecorded and Produced by Liverpool Podcast Studios▶︎ Web - http://www.liverpoolpodcaststudios.com▶︎ Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/liverpoolpodcaststudios▶︎ LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/company/liverpool-podcast-studios
Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply!Could the path to true self-love sometimes lead through unexpected darkness? In this riveting episode of Sex Reimagined Podcast, hosts Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown interview Elizabeth Hendrick, author of the memoir "Exodai," who shares her extraordinary journey from internalized homophobia to profound self-love through an intense two-year master-slave relationship with a Japanese dominatrix. This episode delves deep into BDSM dynamics, sexual identity, and the human capacity for transformation through unconventional means. Content note: This episode contains mature discussions about BDSM, dominatrix relationships, and explicit sexual themes.LISTEN NOW TO DISCOVER:How childhood experiences shaped Elizabeth's struggles with her lesbian identityThe distinction between being a submissive versus a masochist in BDSM relationshipsWhat a master-slave dynamic actually entails in the context of consensual BDSMThe surprising spiritual elements that emerged during Elizabeth's journeyHow hitting rock bottom in her submission ultimately catalyzed her self-love breakthroughThe role of past life regression therapy in her healing processWhat healthy self-love looks like after extreme BDSM experiencesEPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate links Elizabeth's Book | ExodaiElizabeth's Website | https://exodai.co.uk/ Book | The Road Less Traveled by Scott Peck
What is a Dominatrix, as told by a Dominatrix. Eva Oh meets some newbies to the scene who inspire her to explain the basics of the role of a Dominatrix, what happens in session, how clients make requests and where it all happens. With some additional important notes, on power.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Why Answer an ‘Obvious' Question?(01:44) - What is a Dominatrix and What Do They Do?(03:35) - What Happens in a Dominatrix Session?(04:20) - How Do Clients Know What They Want?(05:50) - More About a Dominatrix Session(06:40) - Where Do Dominatrix Work?(08:50) - Power, A Miniseries?(10:00) - Lessons on Women, Myself, Money and Power
Whether you're looking to take charge in the bedroom, feel more confident in your everyday life, or learn wtf it means to be a lifestyle dom, then this episode is FOR YOU. We're talking with Mistress Damiana Chi, a legendary Dominatrix with over 25 years of experience and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology who uses BDSM as a healing modality. We cover: A refresher on what BDSM is and what it means to be a Dominatrix What it's like to be a lifestyle dom and a deep dive into the master/slave dynamic within BDSM The 4 Dominatrix Archetypes and how YOU can start embodying each one How BDSM can be used as a healing modality for both the giver and receiver Simple strategies you can use to come across as more confident (in and outside the bedroom) How to be more dominant in the bedroom as a beginner PLUS Damiana walks us through what a session with her looks like! Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi HERE! JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to watch this episode, access exclusive content, and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Hey sexy bestie - Ever wanted to know what it's like to be a total boss in the bedroom? This week, we're chatting with Venus Cuffs, a former dominatrix who's spilling the wildest tea on why she decided to hang up the whip, game-changing lessons she's learned and how you can channel that Dom energy to get the relationship you want. Plus, her tips for spicing things up with your partner. Oh, and get ready for some jaw-dropping, wild stories that will leave you shook. Trust us, you don't want to miss this one! Happy Valentine's Day! xx Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
We talk about the cultural phenomenon of Wicked with star Ariana Grande. She's nominated for an Oscar for Best Supporting Actress. Grande talks about some of the underlying messages in the film about belonging and good versus evil, and how growing up as a theatre nerd prepared her for this role.Also, writer and professional dominatrix Brittany Newell joins us to talk about her new novel Soft Core, which explores the underworld of San Francisco's dive bars, strip clubs, and BDSM dungeons. Maureen Corrigan reviews two quintessential New York City books.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
After publishing her first novel when she was 21, Brittany Newell started working as a dominatrix. The job gave her time to write — and plenty of material to draw from. "I always like to say that what makes a good writer is also what makes a good dominatrix, which is empathy and curiosity and bravery," she says. Newell's new novel is Soft Core. Also, David Bianculli reviews the comedy TV series Clean Slate starring Laverne Cox. And Maureen Corrigan reviews two quintessential New York books.Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
Today, on Crime & Entertainment, we step into the insane world of financial domination. Our guest, Valentina Fox, gives us an exclusive inside look.Follow Crime & Entertainment hereLinks to Crime & Entertainment Like us on Facebook - / crimeandentertainment Follow us on Instagram - / crimenentertainment Listen on Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4T67Bs5... Listen on Apple Music - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Listen on Stitcher - https://www.stitcher.com/show/crime-e... Listen on Google Podcast - https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0... Listen on Amazon Music - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9cd...