She Said, They Said

In our last episode of the series, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by DJ, TikToker, and YouTuber Krystal Lake (she/her). We talk about the misinformation being shared about trans people; the controversy surrounding the latest James Bond film; and how Krystal was targeted by far-right extremists, because of a hat. Plus, Alex answers a question about how gender diverse people can stay safe whilst going out. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Krystal Lake (she/her): DJKrystalLake (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by writer and presenter, Jamie Windust (they/them). We talk about how Jamie and Shivani first met; find out what the Court of Appeal ruling on Bell v Tavistock means for those waiting for treatment; and hear about Fifi, a llama who has potentially provided a treatment for Covid-19. Plus, Alex answers a question from a parent on how to support their child whilst they wait for gender-affirming procedures. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Jamie Windust (they/them): jamie_windust (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by filmmaker and Twitch streamer, Kate Adair (she/her). We talk about Nicki Minaj's absence from the MET Gala; what makes a Chicken Tikka Masala; and Kate's acting debut in the short film ‘Netflix and Chips'. Plus, Alex answers a question about things to consider before getting chest surgery. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Kate Adair (she/her): uhh_kate (Twitter, Twitch, and Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by artist and fashion icon Darkwah (they/them). We talk about Kristen Stewart's acting style; the return of pop superstars, ABBA; and how the increase of National Insurance could impact young people. Plus, Alex answers a question about supporting a friend who isn't out to their parents. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Darkwah (they/them): hausofdarkwah (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by presenter Dr. Ronx (they/them). We talk about transness in the medical field; the Heartbeat Act in Texas; and why Shivani hates pigeons. Plus, Alex answers a question about how to teach young children about gender fluidity. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Dr. Ronx (they/them): Dr_Ronx (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by TikToker and music journalist, Yasmine Summan (they/them). We talk about alternative culture; Yasmine's awesome tattoos; and experiences of being non-binary in the workplace. Plus, Alex answers a question about how to prevent deadnaming and misgendering amongst family.  Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram)  Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram)  Yasmine Summan (they/them): yasminesummanx (Twitter), yasminesummanx (Tik Tok), yasminesumman (Instagram)  Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills  Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate  Registered Charity Number 1160575 

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by fellow podcaster Scott Flashheart (he/she/they). We talk about the developing situation in Afghanistan; how comforting astrology can be for people; and the line-up for Drag Race UK Series 3. Plus, the tables are turned as Shivani answers a question about what it means to be non-binary.  Resources on Afghanistan:  Zarah Sultana, MP: https://twitter.com/zarahsultana?s=21  Shabbir Lakha: instagram.com/shabbirlakha  Click here for ways to help via Care4Calais.    Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk.  Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram)  Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram)  Scott Flashheart (he/they/she): ScottFlashheart (Twitter), ScottLovesCake (Instagram)  Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills  Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate  Registered Charity Number 1160575 

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by YouTube icon and bestselling author, Daniel Howell. We talk about celebrities' unusual hygiene habits, the mysterious non-binary Viking warrior remains, and our experiences at school, especially during exam season. Plus, Alex answers a question about the dynamics of being a gender-diverse parent. Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Daniel Howell: DanielHowell (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating:Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate Registered Charity Number 1160575

Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by Sarah O'Connell (she/her). Sarah is the host of The Sarah O'Connell Show, where she shares celebrity interviews, as well as star-studded videos to mark Trans Day of Visibility.  On this week's show things get totally hot as we discuss Paris Hilton's new cooking show “Cooking with Paris”; we talk about the importance of access to health care for the trans community; and wonder who would be our dream dinner date guests. Plus, Alex, Shivani and Sarah share their favourite trans creators.   Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk.  Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram)  Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram)  Sarah O'Connell (she/her): SarahO_Connell (Twitter), sarahoconnellshow (Instagram), SarahOConnellShow (YouTube)  Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills  Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate  Registered Charity Number 1160575 

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by Rowan Ellis (she/her), the YouTuber behind a range of amazing LGBTQ+ and pop culture videos. We talk about the response to rapper DaBaby's reported homophobic comments; representation at the Olympics; and Rowan explains why we need to look out for ‘queerbaiting' and ‘queercoding' in everything we watch. Plus, Alex advises how you can change your name.   Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Rowan Ellis (she/her): HeyRowanEllis (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate[http://mermaids.org.uk/Donate]    Registered Charity Number 1160575   

This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by Rico Jacob Chace (he/him), the director of TransActual, an organisation that promotes trans voices and advocates for trans rights. We talk about the reactions to the ‘anti-sex' beds at the Olympics; the online abuse targeted at a certain author; Rico's work and activism; and Alex answers a listener's question about coming out to older family members. Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email them over to us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Rico Jacob Chace (he/him): rjchace (Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400 Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate   Registered Charity Number 1160575

Jake Edwards says: Algorithms, Passports, and Family Fashion Shows    This week, Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) are joined by internet personality and social media maven, Jake Edwards (he/they). We talk about MJ Rodriguez's Emmy nomination and Shivani's love of the show Pose; the dangers of potentially needing verified ID for social media accounts; Jake describing how bisexuality and being non-binary intertwine; and Alex answers a listener's question, sharing tips on how to online shop when you're just starting your social transition.     Have a question you'd like us to answer? Or would you like to send a voice note giving your advice to our lovely listeners? Email them over to us at podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk. Alex Woolhouse (she/her): AlexWoolly (Twitter & Instagram) Shivani Dave (they/them): ShivaniDave (Twitter), dah_vey (Instagram) Jake Edwards (he/they): jakeftmagic (Twitter & Instagram) Helpline: 0808 801 0400  Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate[http://mermaids.org.uk/Donate]    Registered Charity Number 1160575 

Welcome to She Said, They Said with Alex Woolhouse (she/her) and Shivani Dave (they/them) brought to you by Mermaids, the charity that supports trans, nonbinary and gender diverse youth and their families. Each week we will navigate the latest news - whether it's the most recent government announcements or that reality show everyone's talking about. Plus, we'll be answering your questions about relationships, politics, and gender identity. So, subscribe now and send in your questions to podcast@mermaidsuk.org.uk.     Helpline: 0808 801 0400    Calls to this helpline are free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK and do not appear on itemised bills     Please support the work Mermaids do by donating: Mermaidsuk.org.uk/donate   Registered Charity Number 1160575