A Daughter's Dilemma

Welcome Back! We are so excited to be back for season 3! We have missed you all so much! We're exploring new forms of content and I've been obsessed with Reddit podcasts for months, so we're dipping our toes into Reddit stories!  Let us know what you think of the stories! The threads mentioned in this episode are as follows  https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s71jwv/i_disowned_my_son/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rw46f6/i_keep_meeting_my_birth_mom_but_she_doesnt_know/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/qjaere/i_overheard_my_mom_say_shes_ashamed_of_me_and_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Thank you so much for joining us for a new season of a Daughter's Dilemma! We are excited to branch out to new topics and formats and would love your input!  Submission Questions, scenarios, or stories to us at  adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com  Follow us on IG @adaughtersdilemma 

Hello! We're happy to finally bring you our first special guest! Michael! He is a son, a brother, a lover, and a cancer lol! We were so excited to have this discussion with Michael! This was definitely real and raw! We hope you enjoy this! Message us or send us an email if you want more Michael! Resources used: https://blog.innerdrive.co.uk/do-parents-treat-their-sons-and-daughters-differently https://www.moms.com/parents-treat-sons-daughters-differently/ https://www.verywellfamily.com/do-parents-really-have-a-favorite-child-5070066 If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

We are chatting about our struggles with consistency and worthiness, how they are related, and a few ways to get stronger in those areas! We hope you enjoy it!  If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Today we will be discussing respecting your children. This is a truly hot topic because the definition of respect for children can be different for different people. I found a lot of articles on how to teach a child respect but very little on respecting children. Even though I found very little I did find something, so we are going to talk about it. https://www.care.com/c/permissive-parenting-7-signs-your-kid-is-a-brat-2 https://blog.heartmanity.com/how-to-deal-with-a-disrespectful-grown-child If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Heather Mack was a daddy's girl from Oak Park, IL. Her father made sure she had everything she could want and took the family on lavish vacations. But when Heather's father died and she met Tommy Schafer, the impact on her relationship with her mother would be deadly.  This week we explore the grisly murder of Sheila Von Weise Mack! This is a tragic crime that we believe 100% could have been prevented with the right help and intervention. Hear out thoughts and opinions on what could have been done better and where these people are now.  If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

 today we will be discussing, Malicious Parent Syndrome. According to FindLaw.com it is when one parent purposefully and vengefully attempts to keep their children away from the other parent after a break-up or during a divorce. We will discuss the article, so please read  https://www.findlaw.com/family/paternity/what-is-malicious-mother-syndrome.html We will then Segway into parental alienation  with this article:  https://www.griffithslawpc.com/blog-articles/parental-alienation/ If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Today we will be discussing how the mother and daughter relationships break down. As little girls, we love our mother and we love who she is. Until we find out she is human and can make mistakes. There is a moment in which daughters see their mothers make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes change their positive outlook on their daughter.  If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

We have been here with you week after week and it has been amazing. We can't wait to see you guys next season back and better than ever. In our season finale, we talk about our purpose things o some hot media topics!  If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

The way you feel and talk to yourself is critical to finding success in anything that you do. Affirmations are a great way to shift your mindset towards to positive and live a happier life.  We hope you can use these affirmations to shift your mind. We use affirmations daily to boos our confidence and empower ourselves! 

Hello there! Since the pandemic started and face-to-face communication has been limited, you may find it hard to return to the world and have normal conversations again. Small talk, water cooler chats have become somewhat of a foreign concept but the art of conversation can be a life-changing skill you never knew you needed.  https://conversationstartersworld.com/ If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Dating in the 21st century is harder than it was before. Add a couple of babies in and multiply the difficulty by 10! This week we discuss dating with small children, adult children, and everything in between.  Articles used in this episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meaningful-you/201304/dating-tips-single-parents https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a26515989/dating-a-single-mom-tips/ https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/dating-with-kids/single-parent-dating-advice/ https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/parenting/parenting-challenges/single-parenting/11-best-practices-for-dating-as-a-single-parent/ If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Hello All! Yes, You are still on A Daughter's Dilemma, Welcome to our new Motivational Moment Episode!  Both my mom and I are passionate about helping people feel good, heal themselves, and elevate their mindset! We will be uploading a few of these episodes of the next few weeks and we hope that they help to motivate, inspire and encourage you.  Please send us an email and let us know what you think at adaughtersdilemma@gmai.com Thank you for listening. We could not do this without you! 

Yesterday is heavy, let it go. This past week has been very eventful so we decided to do something casual and fun! We are talking about the TLC show Smothered! A show about mothers and daughters that are CLOSE. We talk about our favorite cast members and our thoughts on some of the scenarios in the show!  We hope you enjoy this episode. Please rate and review to help us move to the top of the charts!  If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

This week we wrap up Women's History Month with a review of an amazing documentary! An investigative look and analysis of gender disparity in Hollywood, featuring accounts from well-known actors, executives, and artists in the Industry. We also discuss some successful women in 2021! This month has been a lot of fun for us and we hope you enjoy this conclusion. This Changes Everything! https://www.starz.com/us/en/movies/this-changes-everything-57521

Join us as we cover this cold case that has gone unsolved for 38 years!  In February 1983 two men entered a vacant apartment building where they were looking for scrap metal while lighting a cigarette in the basement they found the decapitated body of Jane doe.  Join us as we talk about this case, possible suspects, and where we are today.  WE hope you enjoy this week's episode! If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

It's still Women History month so we decided to give you a little more of our amazing history. This week we discuss black women who regardless of what the outside world said about them they went on to invent, inspire, and innovate!  WE hope you enjoy this week's episode! If you have comments, questions, or suggestions please email us @ adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Join us this week as we have a discussion inspired by the OWN Network's Spotlight '(In)Visible Potriats'. We talk about our experiences with racism and discrimination and the magical experience that is being a black woman.  We hope you enjoy it!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Not all mothers are the naturally nurturing, caring, loving woman who wants to pour into you. Some find themselves with a mother who is not loving, accepting, or supportive. How can you fix this? how can you mend the relationship? Dive into this conversation with us as we examine five things an unloving mother will never do and what you can do about it!  We hope you enjoy it!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

We don't have a topic today but for us, it's important to be consistent. Join us as we just sit and catch up on our goals and where we are currently! We hope you enjoy it!  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Mariam Rodriguez Martinez, was a 54 year old woman from San Fernando, Mexico. When her daughter was take from her in 2013 she takes theresponsiblilty into her own hands to avenge her daughter. What do you think you would do for your mother/daughter? Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

I have had people come to me about their relationship with their mother or their daughter and the underline issue remains the same for all these women. That issue is that there is emotional conflict within the mother plays out in the daughter and mother and daughters seem to argue all the time, they don't get along, if they do, it's for a brief period and then they are back at it. Join us as we dive into how to identify emotional conflict and how to deal with it and overcome it! Hope you enjoy! Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

I think most people in the US and around the world have grown up around some kind of religion. it"s in our history books and on our money and t some point you've probably come in contact with religion. But why is it that a lot of children who are introduced or raised around religion reject the faith that they were raised with?  Today, we discuss the reasons why people tend to shy away from the religion or spiritual practices of their parents and how parents can encourage their children to build and cultivate their relationship with that higher power. Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Open and honest communication is the key to any successful relationship, but when you go into parent mode you can forget that your kids are people too and vice versa. Join us as we have a real conversation about our relationship and discuss some questions that can help you and your daughter/mother get to know each other better.  https://thoughtcatalog.com/holly-riordan/2017/07/50-questions-to-ask-your-mother-if-you-want-to-know-who-you-really-are https://club31women.com/questions-daughter-needs-ask/ Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

women are struggling with mommy issues just like men. We discuss at times men have mommy issues and women having daddy issues but we never really discuss women having mommy issues. And as you stated mommy issues develop when the mother failed in her role as a mother or absent in the daughter's life, which is the same as daddy issues. Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

It's True Crime Time!  Today we talk about two young women who both had emerging mental health issues, troubling home lives, and sadly deceased Mothers. Join us as we talk about how the lack of/excessive discipline can have some deadly consequences.  We mean no disrespect/offense to anyone we talk about in these stories. We hope that both these young women were able to get the necessary help and healing they need.  Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Single-parent households have been the norm for so many people and have been for many years. And in 2020, women have a multitude of options available to them if they want a child without a partner.  This week we talk about what single moms go through and struggle with and the perspective of the child along the way. There is a lot of unseen thoughts, challenges, and emotions that come with single motherhood and it's gravely important to know those possibilities before making this life-changing decision.  We hope you enjoy this episode! Please rate, subscribe, and review. Following us on Instagram @ADaughterDilemma Sending us anything! adaughterdilemma@gmail.com Now available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Audioboom

After such a rough year, we all need some Holiday cheer! But have you really stopped t think, why are we celebrating? Is it because of the commercials and holiday movies that tell us to? Or are we celebrating as a time to reflect on the year, our blessings, our families, and our gratitude for the world around us?  This week we talk all about what you should teach your children about the holidays and why we celebrate and what it means for our culture and family dynamic.  This has been such a roller coaster and we have all been met with unprecedented challenges. Through it all, we here at a Daughter's Dilemma want to express our undying gratitude for every single person that listens and shares, and supports this podcast! We love you so much and could not do this without YOU! *im not crying you are*  Happy Holidays and let's collectively pray that 2021 is uphill from here!  We hope you enjoy this episode! Please rate, subscribe, and review. Following us on Instagram @ADaughterDilemma Sending us anything! adaughterdilemma@gmail.com Now available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Audioboom

When your mother dies it harder than a father's death not because of the bond because a father can have a stronger bond than the mother. Your mother is the life-giver and she is the reason you are here, so when she dies a part of you dies as well. Whether you knew your mother or not, her death is still hurtful. We can assume if you have the worse relationship in the world with your mother it still affects you. A mother's death changes your life forever We hope you enjoy this episode! Please rate, subscribe, and review. Following us on Instagram @ADaughterDilemma Sending us anything! adaughterdilemma@gmail.com Now available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Audioboom

Warning! This episode contains adult language and speech that some may find offensive. Listener Discretion is Advised!  For the girls, the gays, and the theys, when thinking about and exploring our sexuality I think that all of us (at some point) will sit down and talk to our moms about what we're experiencing.  Listen to us have our first real conversation about RodNique's sexuality and experiences and navigating that difficult space together. Nefra also shares her insight on How a mother can process this new information in a way that makes their daughters (or sons) feel safe and supportive.  We hope you enjoy this episode! Please rate, subscribe and review. Following us on Instagram @ADaughterDilemma Sending us anything! adaughterdilemma@gmail.com Now available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Audioboom

We love boundaries! Especially during a pandemic  It's so important to your overall well-being that you set clear boundaries with everyone in your life. It's how you teach people how to treat you.  This week we discuss the importance of setting boundaries, how to set boundaries, and how to recognize if you need boundaries at all. Now available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Audioboom

Happy Thursday! Today we are bringing you a Mother-Daughter True crime story that honestly may leave more questions than answers. Shana and her daughter Dominique were charged and convicted of the murders of 5 of their family members! Join us on this crazy ride!   Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com IG: @ADaughtersDilemma Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

You expect that mothers should teach their daughters things like, how to take care of themselves, how to treat people and ultimately shapes the kind of woman that girl will grow u to be. But what exactly should others teach their daughters? and do you think it's possible for daughters to teach their mothers?  We explore these questions and more in this week's episode of a Daughter's Dilemma.  Welcome! To a Daughter's Dilemma, the podcast! We are here to help you learn and grow and mend relationships between mothers and daughters. There's scientific evidence to prove that the relationship with your mother is THE most important relationship for all stages of life. Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

This week we are talking about Trust! In 2020, most people you meet will say they have trust issues in one area of their life or another. Developing trust starts when your small and are heavily affected by the way you interact and perceive your parents. Mothers, it is important for us to start early when it comes to teaching our children wthat they can trust us and helping them learn to trust themselves. Join as we talk about what can break trust and how to build trust with your daughters no matter what age. Trust Issues: Why Is It So Hard for Some People to Trust: https://www.psychalive.org/trust-issues/ Now Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify (for free!) Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique

Welcome! To a Daughter's Dilemma, the podcast! We are here to help you learn and grow and mend relationships between mothers and daughters. There's scientific evidence to prove that the relationship with your mother is THE most important relationship for all stages of life. So Joins us as well introduce ourselves and we can't wait to take you guys on this journey! Send us an email at adaughtersdilemma@gmail.com Nefra's Instagram: @neframoorepresents RodNique's Instagram: @ rad.nique