Between the Walls

We're back with a life update and answering some of the questions you all sent in! From navigating our fertility journey to talking about choosing your partner over Instagram, online dating, and everything in between—this episode is honest, unfiltered, and full of laughs. Whether you're here for the wisdom or the wild takes, there's something in this one for you.

In this episode, we tackle some thought-provoking questions sent in by our listeners! From navigating past attractions and identity, to balancing relationships and social media, we cover it all. Plus, don't miss our Black Movie Draft at the beginning, where we pick our favorite films! Join us for a fun and real conversation about relationships, love, and everything in between.  

Dating can be confusing, but setting standards doesn't have to be! In this episode, we dive into the big questions—Do looks really matter? What are the biggest red flags? How do you define your non-negotiables? Whether you're single, dating, or just figuring it all out, we're having an honest, faith-filled conversation on what truly matters in relationships. 

Before you jump into dating, let's talk about what it really means to be ready for a relationship. In this episode, we break down the importance of intentional singleness, knowing your worth, and preparing yourself emotionally and spiritually before stepping into dating. We also tackle the pressure from society (and the church) to rush into marriage, the pitfalls of dating without purpose, and why contentment in your current season is key. If you're single and wondering, “Am I ready for a relationship?”—this episode is for you!

How do you know if it's really God speaking to you? In this episode, we dive into what it means to recognize God's voice in everyday life. From building a deeper relationship with Him to understanding the difference between His guidance and our own thoughts, we're breaking down practical ways to tune in and listen. If you've ever wondered, Am I really hearing from God?—this episode is for you.

Why is saying “no” so hard? In this episode, we dive deep into the struggles of setting boundaries, overcoming people-pleasing, and learning to protect your time and energy. Whether it's relationships, work, or commitments that drain you, we're unpacking how to confidently say “no” without guilt. Because at the end of the day, prioritizing your peace isn't selfish—it's necessary. Tune in as we discuss practical ways to set healthy boundaries and reclaim your time.

Explore the transformative power of ultimatums in relationships. From tough decisions to life-changing commitments, join us as we navigate the complexities of love, timing, and the pursuit of happiness.

In this candid episode of Between the Walls, Jonathan and Jessica dive deep into the struggles of overcoming pornography, shame, and the importance of self-control. They share their personal journeys of battling temptation, the impact on their relationship, and the healing process through faith. This conversation is about confronting hidden struggles, finding redemption, and learning to walk in God's grace—no matter how messy the process may be.

In this candid episode, we unpack the age-old question: Why is giving so hard? Whether it's money, time, or emotional support, we explore the internal battles that make selfless giving a challenge. From societal pressures to personal insecurities, we delve into the complexities that hinder our ability to give freely. Join us as we share personal stories, practical insights, and biblical wisdom on how to overcome greed and embrace radical generosity. Discover how letting go can lead to a richer, more fulfilling life rooted in faith and compassion.

Arguments are inevitable in any relationship, but how you handle them can make all the difference. In this episode, we open up about a particularly awkward fight we had in front of other people and what it taught us about arguing well. We'll share practical tips for handling conflict with love, navigating hard conversations without causing unnecessary hurt, and learning to fight fair. Whether you're in a relationship, married, or just looking to improve your communication skills, this episode is packed with real talk and helpful insights!

In this episode, we dive into what it means to live well from a position of influence.  We explore the balance between personal convictions, cultural perceptions, and Biblical principles. Plus, we discuss the unique challenges of being a Christian influencer, navigating judgment, and stewarding your platform in a way that honors God. Whether you've struggled with this question or are curious about how faith and influence intersect, this conversation offers a thoughtful and grace-filled perspective.

In this episode, we tackle one of the toughest relationship questions: How do you know if a challenge is something you can work through or a sign it's time to walk away? We break down common red flags to watch for, share tips for recognizing healthy conflict versus toxic patterns, and discuss how to discern whether your relationship is helping you grow or holding you back. Whether you're dating, engaged, or reflecting on past relationships, this conversation will equip you with the tools to make confident, faith-filled decisions about your future.

In this episode, we share an update on our fertility journey—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. We open up about the lessons we've learned during this season of waiting and how we're leaning into God's promises even when the answers aren't clear. Join us as we discuss what it means to wait on God well, find hope in the midst of uncertainty, and trust His perfect timing for our lives. Whether you're in a season of waiting or supporting someone who is, this conversation will encourage and inspire you to hold on to faith and grace through it all.

In this  episode of “Between the Walls, Jonathan and Jessica Wallace dive into the challenges and joys of building and maintaining friendships in adulthood. They explore the complexities of forming new connections, sustaining old ones, and the evolving nature of friendships as life changes.   Drawing from personal experiences, they discuss setting healthy boundaries, balancing priorities, and recognizing when to let go of relationships that no longer serve you. Jonathan and Jessica also share practical tips for nurturing meaningful connections and leaning on faith as a foundation for true friendships.   Tune in for an insightful conversation on navigating friendships in a season where time and energy are precious, but connection is more valuable than ever.

In this  episode of “Between the Walls,”Jonathan and Jessica welcome special guests Matthew and Dana Harvey to share their remarkable journey of redemption, resilience, and love. Matthew and Dana open up about overcoming personal struggles, the role of faith in their transformation, and how they found healing and purpose in their marriage.   This inspiring conversation covers the challenges they faced and the ways God's grace led them from difficult circumstances to a thriving, Christ-centered relationship. Join us for an unforgettable episode filled with hope, vulnerability, and a testament to the power of love and faith in turning even the hardest situations into a foundation for a blessed marriage.

In this episode of “Between the Walls,” Jonathan and Jessica tackle the subtle traps that can hinder a healthy, joyful relationship. They explore how placing your spouse on a pedestal, seeking validation from others, and comparing yourself to others can erode self-worth and contentment.   With honesty and vulnerability, Jonathan and Jessica share personal insights and faith-based guidance on maintaining a balanced, Christ-centered relationship. They dive into how modesty, humility, and focusing on God's validation rather than others' can lead to a more joyful, fulfilling life.   Join them for a meaningful conversation about finding joy by shifting your focus from societal expectations to genuine, grace-filled love—both for yourself and your spouse.

In this episode of "Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica take a unique look at "Inside Out 2" and how its themes relate to their personal experiences with anxiety. Reflecting on the animated journey through the mind's emotions, they draw parallels to their own struggles and triumphs in managing anxiety within their marriage. Jonathan and Jessica discuss how the characters in "Inside Out 2" can serve as a metaphor for understanding and navigating complex emotions. They share practical strategies and faith-based insights on dealing with anxiety, highlighting the importance of emotional awareness, communication, and support. Join them for an engaging conversation that blends popular culture with real-life experiences, offering valuable lessons on managing anxiety and maintaining a healthy emotional balance in relationships. Tune in to discover how understanding your inner world can lead to greater peace and connection with your loved ones.

  In this candid episode of "Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica Wallace delve into the evolving dynamics of sexual intimacy in marriage beyond the honeymoon phase. They share personal experiences, practical advice, and faith-based insights on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling sex life as the years go by. Jonathan and Jessica address common challenges couples face, including changing expectations, busy schedules, and the importance of ongoing communication. They discuss how to keep the spark alive, prioritize intimacy, and navigate any obstacles that may arise. Tune in for an honest and heartfelt conversation about the realities of sex and marriage, and learn how to nurture a deep, loving, and intimate connection with your spouse throughout your journey together.

In this episode of "Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica explore the profound impact of establishing a strong emotional and spiritual bond before becoming physically intimate. They delve into the importance of fostering trust, understanding, and mutual respect as foundational elements for a lasting relationship. Drawing from personal experiences and biblical principles, Jonathan and Jessica discuss how prioritizing a deep connection can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. They offer practical advice on ways to strengthen your bond, communicate effectively, and grow together in faith. Join them for an enlightening conversation about the benefits of building a solid foundation before introducing sex into a relationship, and learn how to cultivate a love that truly lasts.

In this episode of "Between the Walls, Jonathan and Jessica dive into the complexities of opposite-gender friendships in the context of marriage. They explore the potential challenges and benefits of these relationships, offering personal insights and biblical guidance on how to navigate them with integrity. Jonathan and Jessica discuss the concept of "work wives" and "work husbands," emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries to protect your marriage. They share practical tips on maintaining healthy friendships with the opposite gender while ensuring your spouse feels respected and secure. Tune in for an honest and engaging conversation about trust, communication, and the role of faith in establishing boundaries that honor your marriage and friendships.

In this insightful episode of "Between the Walls, Jonathan and Jessica share their journey of discovering that they were "meant to be together". They recount the signs and divine guidance that led them to each other, offering listeners a glimpse into how they discerned God's plan for their relationship. As they celebrate their second wedding anniversary, Jonathan and Jessica also reflect on the lessons learned, the growth experienced, and the challenges faced over the past two years. Whether you're single, dating, or newly married, this episode provides valuable insights on recognizing "the one" and nurturing a Christ-centered marriage. Tune in for an honest and heartfelt conversation about love, faith, and the beauty of God's timing.

  In this episode of "Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica Wallace tackle the challenging yet essential topics of conflict resolution, setting boundaries, and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. Drawing on their personal experiences and faith, they provide practical advice and biblical insights on how to handle conflicts with grace, establish healthy boundaries, and prioritize self-respect without compromising compassion. Tune in to learn how to navigate these critical aspects of relationships while staying true to your values and faith. Don't miss this powerful discussion on maintaining harmony and authenticity in your interactions with others.

In this episode of Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica Wallace dive into the complexities of loving your partner even when it's challenging. They explore how understanding and applying the concept of love languages can transform your relationship. Join Jonathan and Jessica as they discuss practical strategies for expressing love in ways that resonate with your partner, even during difficult times. They share personal anecdotes and insights on how to stay connected and supportive, emphasizing the importance of intentionality and commitment.  

In this episode of "Between the Walls," Jonathan and Jessica give their advice with what they think you should know before marriage. Join them as they share candidly about the highs and lows, offering practical advice and insights for couples preparing for marriage or in the early stages of their own journey.

In this first episode of "Between the Walls," married couple Jonathan and Jessica Wallace open up about their journey through fertility issues as Jesus followers.   Join them as they share their deeply personal experiences, discussing the emotional challenges, faith struggles, and the strength they've found in their relationship and spirituality. This episode offers a raw and heartfelt perspective on navigating fertility issues within the context of marriage and faith, providing hope and solidarity to listeners facing similar challenges. Business Inquiries: betweenthewallspod@gmail.com  IG/Tiktok: @betweenthewallspod