Podcasts about people pleasing

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Ditch being a good girl and start living for you. In this video, we explore how to unlearn people-pleasing, reclaim your power, and embody fearless, magnetic authenticity.my course: | WHOLEHEARTED | https://madisungray.com/wholeheartedmy free monthly newsletter filled with favorites and tips: https://madisungray.myflodesk.com/listwh win: "after 15 years together, we are back in our honeymoon phase. exhilarating to find more depth in a relationship even after all this time and to know how much you can shift solely on your side and inevitably it makes ripples for your marriage." _____shirt from Skims: https://rstyle.me/+ymtouEgQZQhy9lleSx...skirt from Massimo Dutti: https://rstyle.me/+cIpLqU3n-GQBHUIJpK...my shift from minimalism:    • why I'm leaving minimalism for something b...  9-5 video:    • How I make money without a 9-5 job.  can you work hard and live slow?:    • can you work hard and live slowly?  

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EP 180: REPLAY - Getting Over People-Pleasing and Stepping Into Your Bossy with Julia Costa Welcome to another replay episode of the You Can Call Me “Bossy" podcast. In this episode, I got to sit down with my good friend Julia Costa exploring the complexities of self-assertion versus people-pleasing, a challenge I've personally navigated and I know so many of you have as well. Julia and I will also look back at our career paths, discussing the high-stakes environment at Lululemon, where Julia faced a pivotal turn in my professional life. From there, we'll share insights into personal safety, the importance of understanding communication styles, and of course power of mindset work. As someone who has seen immense growth from using hypnosis and subconscious reprogramming, I'm excited to offer you these valuable perspectives on these tools. So, tune in as we unpack these experiences, celebrate our friendship, and offer guidance on using your voice powerfully yet empathetically in your own life. Key Takeaways: Overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. Being pushed by the universe towards necessary changes. The balance between being assertive and maintaining respect in various roles. Key Timestamps [4:40] – Overcoming self-limiting beliefs for business success. [19:24] – The Resistance to asking for help and assertiveness. [33:07] – Woman embracing unapologetic, respected boss persona. [36:26] – Overcoming fear, speaking truth, owning boundaries. [40:48] – Reluctant to change, and the universe pushing for it. Episode Quote “Being unapologetic about the way that you present yourself to the world also helps to give permission to other people to put themselves out there." - Julia Costa Episode Resources CLICK HERE to learn more about Julie's ANCHORED certification program CLICK HERE to book a discovery call about LevelUp If you enjoyed this episode and are excited for more, please be sure to SUBSCRIBE and write a review to help build momentum and support the show (5-stars would be AWESOME!) _____________________________________________ JOIN US IN - THE CLUB - An annual membership where high-achieving women come together to unapologetically OWN THEIR “BOSSY” in order to rise to the top, make massive impact, and not burn out while doing it. Join TODAY to get access to all past workshop replays and past group coaching calls - always incredible takeaways and AHA moments from reviewing these sessions! Grab your spot in THE CLUB today by CLICKING HERE! _____________________________________________ LET'S FREAKING GO!GRAB THIS FREE DOWNLOAD: GRAB 100 FREE JOURNAL PROMPTS TO OWN YOUR BOSSY BY CLICKING HERE LET'S CONNECT: Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTok, or join my STAND IN YOUR POWER FACEBOOK GROUP Grab a signed copy of my bestselling book STAND IN YOUR POWER HEREWatch my TEDx Talk “The Wisdom of Your Ancestors Should Be Ignored” HERE

Do you say yes when you want to say no? Do you do more emotional labor in nearly all of your relationships? Are you the one everyone counts on, while no one is there for you? (Maybe you don't even allow people to be there for you?) If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is for you.  I had many requests to do another episode on people-pleasing, so let's cover how people-pleasing and self-abandonment are survival mechanisms, the cost of these behaviors to us and our relationships, and how we can slowly shift into healthier ways of relating. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/732

In Today's Episode... Jordan sits down with long-time friend, entrepreneur, and coach, Christine Hernandez to discuss the importance of having hard conversations and how being nice and people-pleasing can hinder personal growth and relationship outcomes. They share their personal experiences and insights on the topic, highlighting the need for authenticity, effective communication, and the difference between being “nice” and being “kind.” They also touch on the role of control and manipulation in difficult conversations and the importance of practicing and integrating these skills into daily life. They emphasize the difference between sacrifice and compromise, and the need to build trust through honest and vulnerable conversations. Lastly, they explore the role of blame in relationships and the power of taking ownership and focusing on personal growth. The episode highlights the importance of having a vision for the future and the potential for growth and connection stemming from hard conversations. Connect with Christine Hernandez Instagram Linkedin  Facebook Impact Initiative Website More about Christine and Impact Initiative. At Impact Initiative, we specialize in Leadership Development and Coaching, Team Dynamics, and Culture Building. We become your ally, offering tailored Leadership and People Development strategies across your organization. Our approach is personalized, fitting seamlessly into your unique business flow and addressing your specific challenges. Forget the cookie-cutter solutions that are difficult to implement and just collect dust. As your dedicated People Partner, Impact Initiative equips you to evolve with your team, fostering a vibrant culture that mirrors your core values.   Don't forget about this amazing free offer from Jordan. She put a lot of time and effort into this project to be able to offer it to you, absolutely free! Take advantage now while you can! eBook: Couples Guide to Getting on the Same Page About Money   Reminder: Subscribe, Rate & Review this podcast!   Whatever platform you are listening on, make sure to follow or subscribe & sign up for notifications for when weekly episodes drop every week! And if you feel called, please leave a rating and review. This helps us to reach more people!  JordanPendleton.com

Have you ever felt like you were losing yourself just to keep the peace? That you were constantly saying “yes” when your heart was crying out “no”? If you've ever struggled with people pleasing—especially in the wake of betrayal or in the midst of a painful marriage—this episode is for you. In this powerful Coaches Takeover episode, Coach Diana Balla and Coach Susan King are joined by Mara, a courageous woman who vulnerably shares her journey through profound betrayal, emotional trauma, and ultimately, healing and transformation. Mara opens up about how Leslie Vernick & Co.'s “Moving Beyond People Pleasing” flexible group coaching experience helped her reclaim her voice, clarify her identity, and set boundaries that honor her God-given worth. Get ready to be deeply encouraged and inspired. Key Takeaways:

In this light and lively episode of Anything But Average Mondays, Brittany and Christina dive into an easygoing convo about everything from their wildly different morning routines to the chaos and charm of summer parenting.They swap stories about sharing rooms while traveling (hint: one of them definitely prefers her own space), unexpected concert experiences, workouts before coffee (yes, it's a thing), and how weather seriously impacts their mood and motivation.From casual laughs to mini mindset drops, this episode blends lifestyle, motherhood, self-care, and just enough chaos to feel like your own group chat come to life. About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

This week, I had a moment. Okay.... a full-on meltdown. But underneath it, I realized something powerful: I've been trying to launch my book, The Selfish Year, like a good girl. Strategic. Palatable. The 'right' way.  So I threw it all in the fire. And from the ashes? Selfish Summer Camp was born. Because I'm going to do this my way and just like Sinatra, baby, we're all learning this together.  In this episode I'm sharing how a late-night breakdown turned into the most fun, honest, unapologetic pre-order campaign I've ever created.  This isn't just a book launch. It's a fequency, a summer, a movement.  Pre-order The Selfish Year now and register for camp!  P.S. Want secret stories, whispered truths, and behind the scenes moments I'm not sharing anywhere else? Become a paid Substack subscriber and come inside the velvet tent:  Subscribe to the Blog   

Wenn du oft Ja sagst, obwohl du Nein spürst und du dich viel zu oft für die Gefühle anderer verantwortlich fühlst, dann ist diese Folge für dich. Ich spreche heute darüber, warum wir gelernt haben, brav, angepasst und konfliktvermeidend zu sein – und wie wir beginnen können, das zu verändern. Denn „brav sein“ ist kein Persönlichkeitsmerkmal, es ist eine Überlebensstrategie. Lass mich dir zeigen, wie du beginnen kannst, dich selbst ernst zu nehmen, ohne laut oder hart sein zu müssen. Und wenn du auch spürst, dass du raus willst aus dem ständigen Anpassen, dem People-Pleasing und dem "Hab mich lieb", wenn du lernen willst, dich selbst mehr zu behaupten, dann sei bei meinem kostenlosen Workshop "Schluss mit brav" dabei. Klicke zur Anmeldung hier auf diesen Link >>>

This week, I sit down with women's life coach and mindset mentor Lexi Frank to unpack what it truly means to go from people-pleasing to owning your premium voice. We explore how women can break free from perfectionism, silence their inner critic, and reclaim their identity beyond societal expectations. Lexi shares how gratitude isn't just about positive thinking, it's a powerful tool for manifestation, confidence, and self-worth. This episode is perfect for high-achieving women who are tired of shrinking, ready to set boundaries, and want to step boldly into their purpose. Whether you're navigating burnout, shifting into feminine energy, or simply want to feel more seen and heard, this conversation will spark the mindset shift you need. To work with Lexi, visit her website at : PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeWjFjkuUs6Z18iahzueu9Uxf12A5O4LZO7NFiQAte7c4Abr1oiIzqbk5nQYQ_aem_qoYmQqQBdF2sqibM8zbBtw

In this episode of The Anxiety Chicks, Alison and Taylor unpack the habit of over-apologizing—where it comes from, why it's often tied to anxiety and trauma responses like fawning, and how cultural and gender norms especially condition women to shrink themselves. They share personal insights and practical tools to help you set boundaries, heal your inner child, and start replacing unnecessary “sorrys” with confident, empowered language. If you've ever apologized just for having feelings or taking up space, this one's for you.

Welcome back to Part 2 of our transformative conversation with April Mason on "Women of Impact." In this half, Lisa and April dive into the essential traits every woman needs to master her self-worth, set boundaries, and stop settling for less—from respecting your own time to building individuality, authenticity, and uncompromising standards in relationships. April breaks down her 24 core traits for feminine self-mastery, illustrating how deep self-respect not only influences the dating world but ripples out into parenting, career, and personal fulfillment. April unpacks the often-overlooked superpowers of sensitivity, warmth, and charisma, guiding listeners to reconnect with their bodies and heal deep-rooted trauma. There's an honest look at the struggle of putting your own name on the "building," literally and figuratively, and the ongoing work that real change requires. April and Lisa share actionable ideas for cultivating self-ownership and internal validation, putting the power back in your own hands for love, business, and life itself. If you're ready to take practical steps toward your next level, this is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES 24:05 April's 3-Step Approach to Triggers (Recap) 28:14 Respect: The #1 Trait and Why Women Struggle to Own It 29:33 Respecting Your Own Time, Commitments, and Boundaries 34:01 Individuality as the Root of Confidence and Relationship Success 35:23 Why Women Lose Their Uniqueness and How to Reclaim It 37:05 Navigating Criticism, People-Pleasing, and Staying True to Yourself 40:02 The “Dripping Effect”: Why Early Red Flags Escalate Over Time 41:53 How to Cultivate a ‘Husband-Quality' Pool—and Weed Out the Wrong Ones 43:32 The Four Pillars of Womanhood: Femininity, Spirituality, Sensuality, Wisdom 44:03 The Power and Purpose of Sensitivity (Not Unbotheredness) 46:44 Recognizing and Healing Nervous System Trauma 47:27 Daily Self-Check-Ins for Emotional Awareness 47:47 The Value of Charisma and Why Women Need It 48:43 April's Story: Putting Her Name on the Building and Overcoming Fear 54:01 The Ongoing Work of Healing and Self-Ownership 59:32 Compassion, Boundaries, and Avoiding Over-Giving 1:00:41 Where to Learn More: All Things Feminine Social Club FOLLOW APRIL MASON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealaprilmason/ Website: https://allthingsfeminine.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back and happy Summer! This seasonal shift inspired me to reflect more deeply on people-pleasing and the interplay between masculine and feminine energies.As women, our nervous systems are wired to scan and respond to the needs of others. We're often taught to view our nurturing instincts as virtues rather than instinctual drives. But when our feminine identity is rooted in unselfish service, we deplete ourselves. The true nature of the feminine is to receive first before she can genuinely give and nourish.When our inner feminine is honored, the outer expression becomes joyful, life-giving, and sustainable. Otherwise, we're just building our lives on a brittle foundation, chasing validation that never truly satisfies.In this episode:[00:38] Welcome back to The Fully Nourished Podcast![02:49] Finding the balance between nurturing and being nourished. [07:42] What is external attunement, and why is it damaging?[14:33] The disaster of looking to our outside world to find a source of inner safety. [17:44] The inner feminine needs to drive the outer feminine.[21:06] How do we awaken out of people-pleasing? [23:50] Your consumption of external resources can be detrimental if not balanced with inward work.[27:15] Thanks for joining me on The Fully Nourished Podcast today! Links and Resources:Get more info on Philosophia Society Here: https://www.jessicaashwellness.com/philosophia-society Submit a Question for our Next Q&A: https://airtable.com/appoicByQy3UFoSXs/shrXwD7wQFJQr68NnThe Queen's Code by Alison Armstrong:https://amzn.to/466KFWY Studies about learned helplessness:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17712351/https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2692748/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00223980.1980.12062973Discount Codes from Our Sponsors:Subluna:https://shopsubluna.com?sca_ref=6575731.SiVwQ6X9YX*Code JESSICAASH for 10% offIG: @shopsubluna*This is an affiliate link. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.Connect with Jessica:Have Sunday tea with me! Sign-up for my Sunday newsletter where I share what's on my brain from the nutritional to spiritual: https://www.jessicaashwellness.com/email-subscribe.Join the Fully Nourished community! Follow me @jessicaashwellness on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashwellness/Connect with Jessica:Have Sunday tea with me! Sign-up for my Sunday newsletter where I share what's on my brain from the nutritional to spiritual: https://www.jessicaashwellness.com/email-subscribe. Join the Fully Nourished community! Follow me @jessicaashwellness on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashwellness/

Jordan Mendoza is a sought-after sales and social media coach, podcast host, and author with a passion for helping individuals and brands elevate their presence and close deals. As the host of the popular podcast Blaze Your Own Trail, Jordan shares valuable insights from top-performing industry leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives, diving into the stories that shaped their success. His expertise in building authentic, high-impact networks and using social media as a powerful sales tool has transformed countless lives and businesses.Having faced adversity throughout his own journey, Jordan brings a unique perspective on resilience and grit, sharing his challenges to inspire others in their personal and professional growth. With a track record of empowering others to unlock their full potential, he blends his background in sales, coaching, and personal development to equip listeners and clients with actionable strategies to thrive in today's competitive landscape. From breakdancing in his garage to coaching global entrepreneurs, Jordan Mendoza has turned resilience into results. Here, Jordan takes us on his journey through the personal trials, rejections, and turning points that shaped his path, from a childhood marked by poverty and police violence to launching a thriving coaching business and global podcast.Jordan shares how early sales jobs, a deep connection with his late mother, and a pivotal demotion helped him build a mindset rooted in adaptability, storytelling, and service. We dive into the power of rejection as redirection, why lived experience is a business asset, and how sharing your story (flaws and all) can create authentic impact. Whether you're building a brand or rebuilding a life, Jordan's journey is a masterclass in purpose-driven growth. What's Inside:How Jordan's life journey led him to where he is todayHow to channel rejection into redirection and successThe power of sharing your story to make an authentic impact Mentioned In This Episode:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjordanjmendozaLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanjmendoza/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealjordanjmendozaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/ @jordanjmendozaClapper: https://www.clapperapp.com/jordanjmendozaYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/chanel/ @jordanjmendozaCompany Website: https://www.blazeyourowntrailconsulting.comPodcast: https://www.byotpod.comLink to Pre-order Jordan's Book: https://app.blazeyourowntrailconsulting.com/book-pre-order 

In this punchy UNCUT mini-episode, Jenny Mitchell dives into one of the hardest questions many of us avoid: What do you want? Sounds simple, but if you're someone who identifies as a people-pleaser or is constantly tuned in to what others need, this question might leave you blank. Jenny explores how our desire to keep the peace, avoid discomfort, or live up to unrealistic expectations can cloud our own internal compass. Drawing from her own journey as a leader and coach, she offers a loving (but firm) reminder: You can't have it all, at least not all at once, and leadership means choosing what you want and accepting what comes with it. Listener Reflection: What do you really want and what are you willing (and not willing) to do to make it happen? Can you give yourself 10 quiet minutes to name it, write it down, and begin making a plan? Listen to Episode 6.8 here: https://chavender.com/underdog-leadership-podcast/stop-pleasing-others-and-start-reclaiming-your-leadership-power/  — ✨Buy the Embracing Ambition Book: https://chavender.com/embracing-ambition-the-book/   Book a discovery call: https://calendly.com/jennychavender/30min?back=1&month=2022-09 Lean into Meaningful Conversations with this complimentary 20 minute video all about the tools and techniques for moving conversations forward: https://youtu.be/zv1N_ZsDEAs Don't miss an episode by joining my Podcast VIP Email List: https://chavender.activehosted.com/f/27 Catch me on email: jenny@chavender.com Check out my website: chavender.com Hop on over to Instagram: @jennychavender Let's connect on LinkedIn: Jenny Mitchell, CFRE, CEC, DMA   "See" me on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0Q97-c98aPUmfhzlpswfsw

You want to help. It feels noble - maybe even necessary. You're the one who jumps in, figures it out, and holds it all together. And when someone you love is struggling? You can feel the pull in your chest, like you're supposed to do something. But here's the hard truth: sometimes our fixing isn't actually compassion, it's control dressed up like care. We're not just trying to help… we're trying to keep the peace, avoid the fallout, and prove we're worthy of being needed. But that's a weight your soul was never meant to carry. Rooting for you, Jessica Click here to get 50% off my Untangle Your Thoughts self-paced coaching program! Resources: What Is the Fawn Response? People-Pleasing as a Trauma Response How to Set Boundaries as a Christian Next steps: Get my free 3-day study and learn how to deal with your emotions in a biblical way: https://www.jessicahottle.com/3-day-study/ Learn more about working with me 1:1 as your mental health coach: https://www.jessicahottle.com/mental-health-coaching Or book your free 20-minute consultation here! Email me at >> jessica@jessicahottle.com The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical or clinical advice. While we discuss mental health topics, this is not a substitute for professional care. Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider for advice specific to your situation.

#161  - Burned Out and Still Saying Yes? This Popular Therapist Explains Why You Can't Stop People-Pleasing. Interview with Kendra Nielson from Fulfillment Therapy What if your burnout isn't about doing too much—but about doing too much for everyone else? In this episode of Pretty Well, I sit down with licensed therapist and Fulfillment Therapy founder Kendra Nielson to talk about what's really driving burnout, anxiety, people-pleasing, and that constant low-key sense of resentment (Spoiler: it's probably not just your schedule—it's your boundaries. There, I said it.)  Kendra shares how trauma, perfectionism, and limiting beliefs can keep us stuck in survival mode, and how starting where you are today can lead to massive life transformation. Small, intentional mindset shifts are the key to creating the life you want. If you find yourself continually running on empty, this is what you need more than a bubble bath or a massage (although let's be honest, we're not turning those down either). We also dig into self-advocacy, mantras, burnout recovery, and why your inability to say no isn't “just how you're wired”—it's something you can absolutely change. If you've ever said “I don't have time for self-care” while holding your fourth cup of coffee and solving everyone else's problems, this one's for you.   LInks & Resources: Website: https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/  Social:  https://www.instagram.com/fulfillmenttherapy/ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088460742483 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgkWZyjc6_Q4DsXxS0-sD8g Email: hello@fulfillmenttherapy.org Join the conversation: Share your thoughts with us on social media or in the comments! Subscribe, Share & Review: 

People-Pleasing Leaders may seem good if you are on the receiving end, but can put you in a very challenging situation as a leader; here are 3 habits to help you avoid being a people-pleasing leader. SEASON 10 The Learning Leader Daily Leadership Tips and Discussions Thank you for listening. I'm Paul Grau Jr., the host of this show, and I'm excited about Season 10. We now have over 150 episodes in Season 10, and we will continue with the focus of “The Learning Leader” and/or as we refer to it here at The CLC Team, “The Expanding Leader. Every episode will primarily focus on the lifelong journey of expanding your knowledge of leadership, and I will try to give you a daily takeaway to put what you learn into action. My goal is that you learn something that you can take immediate action on and see how powerful expanding your leadership can be.   Today we dive into the vault and go all the way back to Season 1. Enjoy this vintage episode!   Here at The CLC Team, we work with Christian Business Owners to help them create a High Performing Team that thrives in all areas of life and produces higher performance, productivity, and profitability so they make a greater impact in the world. We are starting up a Brand New Podcast called “The High-Performing Team Podcast for Christian Business Owners” and it is now available on the links below (and wherever you listen to podcasts). Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-high-performing-team-podcast-for-christian/id1797855031  Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/36a33c17-fa45-4392-9701-ec78e365b9e2/the-high-performing-team-podcast-for-christian-business-owners  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/71bhJNppqhTsmEjj0Rze0P 

Are you the go-to friend for everyone else's problems, but feel utterly depleted?In this episode, I'm diving into how trash boundaries in friendships can wreck your energy, your nervous system, and even your career. If you've been the unpaid therapist in your social circle or you're constantly saying yes when your body screams no, this one's for you.Why women with ADHD are more likely to tolerate one-sided, draining friendshipsThe difference between being supportive and being someone's emotional dumping groundHow internalized ableism leads to over-accommodating behavior in friendshipsRed flags that it's time to reevaluate or release certain friendshipsScripts and strategies for setting boundaries that protect your energy and peaceLinks:

Do you find yourself bending over backwards just to please others? In this episode, Tara shares how to find your authentic voice and release the anxiety that comes from needing to be liked by everyone. She explains why people-pleasing keeps you stuck and how setting boundaries can help you reclaim your power. Tara also talks about the importance of being true to yourself to attract the right people into your life. If you're ready to stop hiding and start showing up as your real self, this conversation is for you.

Welcome back to ADHD-ish! In today's episode, I sit down with my friend, author, writer, and ADHD coach, Dave Greenwood, for another honest, thought-provoking conversation—this time exploring the powerful lessons of The Courage to Be Disliked, a book rooted in the teachings of 19th-century psychotherapist Alfred Adler. While not specifically an ADHD book, Dave shares how this book packs a punch of wisdom, challenging beliefs around people-pleasing and how ADHD rejection sensitivity at work connects to ADHD burnout and our endless need for approval.We tackle the tricky balance between accepting yourself as you are and believing you can change, as well as the incredible (if not a little controversial) freedom that comes with having the courage to be disliked. If you've ever found yourself spiraling over a colleague's tone in Slack or questioning whether your boss thinks you're incompetent, this conversation about ADHD rejection sensitivity will hit different.Top 3 takeaways for anyone navigating work or life with ADHD (or just being human):You are not responsible for how others feel. Adler's “separation of tasks” is a game-changer—do your part authentically, but let go of trying to control what others think or feel about you.You can change—if you want to. It's easy to blame your ADHD or circumstances (hello, fixed mindset!), but the real magic starts when you open yourself to possibility, even if change is slow and non-linear.All problems are (ultimately) relational. Whether you're late to a meeting or starting a business, our challenges almost always revolve around other humans. Building healthier boundaries and self-acceptance opens the door to genuine connection—and some serious peace of mind.Dave Greenwood is a repeat guest and friend of the ADHD-ish podcast, known for his authenticity and sense of humor. He is the host of the Overcoming Distractions podcast and author of two popular books on living with ADHD. Though Dave jokingly calls himself a “welding school flunk-out,” he brings a wealth of lived experience, professional insight, and a pragmatic approach to living well with ADHD, especially for the self-employed

Welcome back to ADHD-ish! In today's episode, I sit down with my friend, author, writer, and ADHD coach, Dave Greenwood, for another honest, thought-provoking conversation—this time exploring the powerful lessons of The Courage to Be Disliked, a book rooted in the teachings of 19th-century psychotherapist Alfred Adler. While not specifically an ADHD book, Dave shares how this book packs a punch of wisdom, challenging beliefs around people-pleasing and how ADHD rejection sensitivity at work connects to ADHD burnout and our endless need for approval.We tackle the tricky balance between accepting yourself as you are and believing you can change, as well as the incredible (if not a little controversial) freedom that comes with having the courage to be disliked. If you've ever found yourself spiraling over a colleague's tone in Slack or questioning whether your boss thinks you're incompetent, this conversation about ADHD rejection sensitivity will hit different.Top 3 takeaways for anyone navigating work or life with ADHD (or just being human):You are not responsible for how others feel. Adler's “separation of tasks” is a game-changer—do your part authentically, but let go of trying to control what others think or feel about you.You can change—if you want to. It's easy to blame your ADHD or circumstances (hello, fixed mindset!), but the real magic starts when you open yourself to possibility, even if change is slow and non-linear.All problems are (ultimately) relational. Whether you're late to a meeting or starting a business, our challenges almost always revolve around other humans. Building healthier boundaries and self-acceptance opens the door to genuine connection—and some serious peace of mind.Dave Greenwood is a repeat guest and friend of the ADHD-ish podcast, known for his authenticity and sense of humor. He is the host of the Overcoming Distractions podcast and author of two popular books on living with ADHD. Though Dave jokingly calls himself a “welding school flunk-out,” he brings a wealth of lived experience, professional insight, and a pragmatic approach to living well with ADHD, especially for the self-employed

Are you constantly saying “yes” when your heart is screaming “no”? If you've ever felt like your worth hinges on making everyone around you happy, this episode will speak directly to your heart. Coaches Susan and Diana pull back the curtain on one of the most sneaky and exhausting insecurities many of us carry—people pleasing. It might look like kindness on the outside, but underneath it's often driven by fear, insecurity, and a longing to feel safe and loved. In this honest, grace-filled conversation, they explore why people pleasing starts, how it hides in our habits, and what it takes to break free. You'll walk away with powerful mindset shifts, biblical wisdom, and a simple but life-changing tool to begin honoring your voice without guilt. Key Takeaways from This Episode:

Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) isn't only genetic—it can be the body's brilliant way of expressing unprocessed emotion and inherited stress. In this episode of The Mind Change Podcast, Heather McKean reveals how childhood hyper-vigilance, people-pleasing, and family trauma may wire the nervous system for chronic pain, joint instability, and fatigue—then shows how the Mind Change Method helps rewire those patterns for lasting relief.In this conversation you'll learn:

In this episode of Anything But Average, Brittany and Christina dive into a candid conversation about how podcasting, AI, and real-life connection are colliding in today's world. They explore the evolving role of technology in communication, why hosting can feel overwhelming (and how to make it easier), and how personal growth starts with intentional conversations.Whether you're a podcast host, tech-curious mom, or someone craving more authentic connection—this one's for you. From laughing about gas station anxiety to deep reflections on parenting and community, Brittany and Christina keep it real, relatable, and refreshingly raw.About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

SONIA JHAS is the South Asian award-winning mindset expert, TEDx speaker, certified personal trainer, nutritionist, and author of I'll Start Again Tomorrow: And Other Lies I've Told Myself [Page Two; February 28, 2023], Sonia knows what it means to put off for tomorrow what you could be achieving today. Now she's helping people achieve their goals without burning out or stretching themselves too thin. Sonia gave up her skyrocketing corporate career and began searching for a new path that resonated with her core. Eventually, she transformed her life through deep analysis, education, determination, and willpower. Through her journey, Sonia uncovered a deep passion for wellness, as well as a driving desire to help others bolster their self-confidence and become the boss of their own life.We discuss: How to Fight Those On-Again, Off-Again Behaviors and Mindset, and Keep from Living in a Rut Fending Off Feelings of Low Self-Worth, Poor Self-Esteem, and Negative Self-Talk What People Who are Susceptible to Trends Can Do to Live More in Alignment with Themselves Paralyzed By Fear? What to Do to Release Those Feelings and Move Forward from Them Drop the Excuses! Five Ways to Motivate Yourself to Get In, and Stay, In Shape Feeling House-Bound? Six Ways to Make Sure You're Moving Your Body Tune into Your Personal Values and Stay True to Yourself Are You a People-Pleaser? How to Turn this Around and Find a Happy Balance How to Practice Happiness and Keep It with You Every Day The “Mind-Work” and “Body-Work” that Goes Hand-in-Hand with True Health Releasing Legacy Values, Limiting Beliefs, and Perfectionist Tendencies in Order to Truly Transform Yourself How to Step Back from the “Am I Skinny Yet?” Narrative,   

"Was denkst du eigentlich, wer du bist?". Einer der prägendsten Glaubenssätze meines Lebens. Jetzt nach 8 Jahren Mindful Minutes und 10 Jahren EVACURA kann ich sagen: "Ich bin jemand. Und ich bin wichtig." In dieser Folge nehme ich dich mit in meine traumatische Vergangenheit und zeige dir meine Erfolgsgeschichte. Denn der Erfolg von EVACURA und dieses Podcasts wurde dadurch geprägt, dass ich innerlich über mich hinauswachsen konnte. Dass ich mich nicht mehr klein gemacht habe, um andere groß sein zu lassen. Du erkennst dich hier wieder? Ich zeige dir, wie das geht. Und wenn du auch spürst, dass du raus willst aus dem ständigen Anpassen, dem People-Pleasing und dem "Hab mich lieb", wenn du lernen willst, dich selbst mehr zu behaupten, dann sei bei meinem kostenlosen Workshop "Schluss mit brav" dabei. Klicke zur Anmeldung hier auf diesen Link >>>

In this episode, I'm sharing my story of how I went from a broke stay-at-home mom to six-figure entrepreneur - with no plan.  No degree, no career, no clear path. Just three kids, a toxic marriage and divorce, an empty bank account, and the choice to become the woman I wanted to be.  I'm sharing how I rebuilt my life, claimed my power, and created everything I have today - without a roadmap.  And why waiting for the path to appear is the thing keeping you stuck.  If you're ready to stop waiting and start BECOMING: Listen now.  FIRESTARTER begins July 1. Stop people-pleasing and start living for YOU. You don't need a plan but you DO need guidance. Spend two weeks this summer igniting your future.  CLICK HERE to join Firestarter   

Hiiii GGB!   This week we're diving into codependency & people pleasing, and how these patterns can show up in our relationships. We're unpacking what it really means to live for an audience of One, why setting boundaries is biblical, and how to let go of the pressure to be everything for everyone.   Episode starts at around 16 mins.   we love you so much. Jesus loves you more. -Ang & Ari   You can order our new book “Out of the Wilderness— 31 Devotions to Walk with God Through Your Hardest Seasons” at girlsgonebible.com/book   Good Ranchers Good ranchers special offer for this month: Free ground beef, bacon, chicken nuggets, or salmon in every order for a year + $40 off with code GGB. https://go.goodranchers.com/ggb   Miracle Made Upgrade your sleep with Miracle Made! Go to https://trymiracle.com/GGB and use the code GGB to claim your FREE 3 PIECE TOWEL SET and SAVE over 40% OFF.   JOIN US ON GGB+

Text Me!Episode 229: Perfectionism, People-Pleasing & Alcohol: Healing the High-Functioning Woman with Raechelle  Embrey In episode 229 of the Sober Vibes podcast, Courtney Andersen welcomes Raechelle Embrey to the show, and they chat about why so many women turn to alcohol and how energy work, inner child healing, and setting boundaries can break the cycle. Perfectionism, high achievement, and alcohol often go hand in hand, especially for high-functioning women who appear to have it all together on the outside but feel overwhelmed and disconnected on the inside. Raechelle shares her personal story of growing up with a mother who had borderline personality disorder and how that experience shaped her perfectionism, people-pleasing, and eventual reliance on alcohol as a way to soften the pressure. Raechelle Embry is a Business & Wealth Astrologer and Energetic Alchemist for audacious, highly sensitive high-achievers. She is a podcast host and energy coach.In this episode, we cover:Why perfectionists often use alcohol to “soften” and feel less rigidHow unhealed childhood trauma manifests as people-pleasing and self-abandonmentThe connection between borderline mothers and high-achieving daughtersWhat “energetic boundaries” are and why they're essential for recoveryInner child work as a tool for healing energy stored in the bodyHow astrology can help identify patterns of self-abandonmentWhy it's hard for high-achieving women to trust their own perceptionHow codependency and control can show up even after quitting alcoholIf you've been doing all the work but still feel like something's missing, this episode offers a new lens on emotional sobriety and healing at the energetic level.Thank you for listening!Resources Mentioned:Courtney's Website Connect with Raechelle:Website Podcast InstagramReady to thrive in your alcohol-free life? Sober Vibes: A Guide to Thriving in Your First Three Months Without Alcohol is your step-by-step guide to navigating early sobriety with confidence.Grab your copy today!Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney:InstagramJoin the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 CoachingOrder the Sober Vibes Book

What role does intuition play in your decisions and how do you strengthen trust in it? With 20 years of experience as a business consultant, Candice Quartermain shares her journey from people-pleasing to purposeful leadership and meaningful contribution. She explores how tuning into the body's wisdom, embracing authenticity and trusting intuition can radically transform how you live and lead. Candice reflects on balancing work and family, the importance of play and experimentation and her commitment to regenerative solutions. Offering powerful insights on aligning with your true nature, redefining success and stepping into your power one intentional choice at a time, Candice is truly leading with integrity.   KEY TAKEAWAY ‘We really want to create global change but very few of us are willing to actually create the change that we need to make within ourselves.'   ABOUT THE GUEST - CANDICE Candice Quartermain is a recognised expert in trust and cultural change, with over 20 years' experience shaping the way leaders and organisations grow. She has led award-winning innovation for brands like Adidas, Unilever and General Motors, and founded Circular Economy Australia, a pioneering global community driving regenerative design. Her work spans business, government and academia, embedding trust as the foundation for resilience, collaboration and high performance. A certified Somatic Intelligence Practitioner and mother of two, Candice brings a grounded, real-world approach built on deep lived experience. With expertise in non-verbal communication and team dynamics, she supports leaders to cut through noise, strengthen relationships and lead with integrity. Her signature course, Leading with Integrity, supports women to rebuild self-trust and lead in a smarter way that honours their intuition, protects their energy, creates more balance, and stays true to who they are.   CONNECT WITH CANDICE https://www.linkedin.com/in/candicequartermain/ https://www.candicequartermain.com/ https://linktr.ee/candicequartermain     ABOUT THE HOST - AMY ROWLINSON Amy is a purpose and fulfilment coach, author, podcast strategist, podcaster and mastermind host helping you to improve productivity, engagement and fulfilment in your everyday life and work. Prepare to banish overwhelm, underwhelm and frustration to live with clarity of purpose.   WORK WITH AMY If you're interested in how purpose can help you and your business, please book a free 30 min call via https://calendly.com/amyrowlinson/call   BOOK RECOMMENDATION* Focus on Why by Amy Rowlinson with George F. Kerr - https://amzn.eu/d/6W02HWu   KEEP IN TOUCH WITH AMY Sign up for the weekly Friday Focus - https://www.amyrowlinson.com/subscribe-to-weekly-newsletter   CONNECT WITH AMY https://linktr.ee/AmyRowlinson   HOSTED BY: Amy Rowlinson   DISCLAIMER The views, thoughts and opinions expressed in this podcast belong solely to the host and guest speakers. Please conduct your own due diligence. *As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.

Ever feel like you're leading a team, running a household, or juggling it all and still putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own? In this powerful solo episode, Jenny Mitchell dives headfirst into the messy truth about people-pleasing and how it quietly chips away at your leadership potential. With a mix of personal stories, hard-won insights, and “big girl pants” moments, Jenny challenges us to stop managing everyone else's emotions and start standing firm in our own decisions, even if it means someone might think a bad thought about us. Let them. This episode is a must-listen for recovering (or reluctant) people-pleasers, especially women leaders who are ready to get clear, get intentional, and reclaim their voice. If you've been feeling disconnected from what you want, this episode might just be the sign you've been waiting for.   Key Takeaways: People pleasing undermines leadership Self-awareness is the first step to change Resentment is a red flag Effective leadership requires tough choices Empowered leaders lead from intention   Chapters: 00:00 Understanding People Pleasing in Leadership 02:51 The Impact of People Pleasing on Leadership Effectiveness 06:12 Reactive vs. Creative Leadership Tendencies 09:05 Navigating Leadership Decisions and External Perceptions 11:56 Finding Clarity and Streamlining Leadership 14:42 Empowering Leadership Through Self-Awareness If you loved this episode, you'll also enjoy: Episode 6.5 - The ONE Thing All Leaders Must Do: https://chavender.com/underdog-leadership-podcast/the-one-thing-all-leaders-must-do/   Episode 6.4 - Compassionate Accountability for Leaders (ft. Nate Regier): https://chavender.com/underdog-leadership-podcast/compassionate-accountability-for-leaders/    Episode 4.1 - Giving Yourself Permission to Do The Big Thing: https://open.spotify.com/episode/715H358Nm9hgPnhgU5UqPO?si=MIvh8apBTeKLA1zPLeiaoA    — ✨Buy the Embracing Ambition Book: https://chavender.com/embracing-ambition-the-book/ Book a discovery call: https://calendly.com/jennychavender/30min?back=1&month=2022-09 Lean into Meaningful Conversations with this complimentary 20 minute video all about the tools and techniques for moving conversations forward: https://youtu.be/zv1N_ZsDEAs Don't miss an episode by joining my Podcast VIP Email List: https://chavender.activehosted.com/f/27 Catch me on email: jenny@chavender.com Check out my website: chavender.com Hop on over to Instagram: @jennychavender Let's connect on LinkedIn: Jenny Mitchell, CFRE, CEC, DMA   "See" me on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0Q97-c98aPUmfhzlpswfsw

"It's Not Your Job to Like Me, It's Mine." Byron Katie The need to people please is our discussion for this week's Cool Topics Series. Are you a people pleaser? Most of us will answer yes. We say yes before thinking about our own needs.  We put everyone else above us on our list of priorities.  We often seek acceptance in people we shouldn't and we worry about hurting the feeling of others who do not reciprocate that. We are looking for acceptance, love and safety.  Yet, all those things we can find within ourselves.  We don't need to seek outside approval. We should also be able to set healthy boundaries without guilt.  Your time and energy are invaluable, especially in midlife and beyond. Don't you agree? Show Notes: www.hotflashescooltopics.com YouTube Video: https://www.youtube.com/@HotFlashesCoolTopics Find Us Here! Website I [http://hotflashescooltopics.com/] Mail I [hotflashescooltopics@gmail.com] Instagram I [https://www.instagram.com/hotflashesandcooltopics/] Facebook : [www.facebook.com/hotflashescooltopics] Twitter I [https://twitter.com/CoolFlashes] YouTube I [https://www.youtube.com/@HotFlashesCoolTopics] Pinterest I [https://www.pinterest.com/hcooltopics/] Want to Leave a Review for Hot Flashes and Cool Topics? Here's How: For Apple Podcasts on an iPhone or iOS device: Open the Apple Podcast App on your device. Click on the “search” icon Type into the search bar “Hot Flashes and Cool Topics” and click on the show Towards the bottom, look for “Ratings and Reviews” Click on “Write a Review” and leave us your thoughts and comments! For Apple Podcasts on a computer: On the Apple Podcasts website, go to the search bar and type “Hot Flashes and Cool Topics” After clicking on the show, find the “Listen on Apple Podcasts” button and click on it The “Hot Flashes and Cool Topics” podcast should open on the Apple Podcasts application Keep scrolling on the page until you see “Ratings and Reviews” Click on “See All” If you want to give us a five-star rating, hover over the empty stars! If you want to leave your thoughts and comments, click on “Write a Review”!

Are you constantly bending over backward to please others, even when it means sacrificing your own happiness? You're not alone, and the truth is, your people-pleasing habits could be tied to something much deeper—childhood trauma. In this episode, I dive into the subconscious roots of people-pleasing behaviors, how they manifest in adulthood, and most importantly—how to break free from them! As a Subconscious Release Technique Practitioner, Reiki Master, and Photographer, I'll guide you through understanding the trauma that's been quietly shaping your need for approval and offer practical tips to help you release these patterns for good. ✨ Ready to stop people-pleasing and start living for YOU? ✨ I'm excited to offer you my "Peace Out People-Pleasing" course at a special price of $49 (regularly $333)!

Ever wonder how you'll ever stop people-pleasing and say yes to yourself instead? This episode is for you! Set small boundaries first. Start with low-stakes situations to practice saying no or expressing your preferences. For example, choosing the restaurant when asked, or declining a small favor when you're genuinely busy. These smaller moments build your confidence for bigger boundary-setting situations.Pause before automatically agreeing. When someone asks something of you, try responding with "Let me check my schedule and get back to you" or "I need to think about that." This brief delay gives you space to consider what you actually want to do rather than reflexively saying yes to avoid disappointing someone.Remember that disappointment isn't dangerous. People-pleasers often fear others' negative reactions, but someone being temporarily disappointed or mildly upset doesn't mean you've done something wrong or that the relationship is in jeopardy. Most healthy relationships can handle occasional "no" responses, and those that can't may need reevaluation.Notice your internal warning signs. Pay attention to feelings of resentment, exhaustion, or anxiety that often accompany over-committing. These emotions are signals that you're stretching yourself too thin to accommodate others. When you catch these feelings early, you can course-correct before burning out.Practice stating your needs directly. Instead of hinting or hoping others will guess what you want, try expressing yourself clearly. Say "I'd prefer to meet at 2 PM" rather than "Whatever time works for you is fine." Direct communication often leads to better outcomes and reduces the mental energy spent on trying to read between the lines.The key is building these skills gradually. People-pleasing patterns developed over time, so changing them takes patience and consistent practice. Some resources for you:Want to see how you score as a confident communicator? Take The Confidence Cocktail Assessment: https://karenlaos.com/confidence-cocktail-fb/Project more confidence and credibility with my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: https://karenlaos.lpages.co/words-to-avoid/My book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/Episodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videos Karen Laos, Communication Expert and Confidence Cultivator, leverages 25 years in the boardroom and speaking on the world's most coveted stages such as Google and NASA to transform missed opportunities into wins. She is fiercely committed to her mission of eradicating self-doubt in 10 million women by giving them practical strategies to ask for what they want in the boardroom and beyond. She guides corporations and individuals with her tested communication model to generate consistent results through her Powerful Presence Keynote: How to Be an Influential Communicator. Want to see how you score as a confident communicator? Take The Confidence Cocktail Assessment: https://karenlaos.com/confidence-cocktail-fb/ Get my free tips: 9 Words to Avoid & What to Say Instead: https://karenlaos.lpages.co/words-to-avoid/ Connect with me:Website: https://www.karenlaos.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karenlaosofficial Facebook: Ignite Your Confidence with Karen Laos: https://www.facebook.com/groups/karenlaosconsultingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenlaos/Episodes also available on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEwQoTGdJX5eME0ccBKiKng/videosMy book “Trust Your Own Voice”: https://karenlaos.com/book/

What does it mean to be a feminine woman choosing love & grace... over taking a stance... (in a world that is increasingly polarized)... WITHOUT people pleasing, ... WITHOUT positive bypassing,... WITHOUT good girlingBut real love — the kind that can hold heartbreak, conflict, and even ghosting… without closing or judging or diminishing someone elseShe shares her own story of choosing love and grace — even in the hospital, even in ghosting, even when people were unkind online,and why she's no longer interested in being “powerful” through being right, harsh, or polarizing.This is an episode about feminine power in a new way. The soft, embodied kind. The kind that lets you become a source of love — even when life is hard.Inside, she explores:What it really means to be a source of love (without losing your boundaries)Why she doesn't ever publicly “take sides” (+ how that's not people-pleasing)Ghosting, rejection, and choosing grace over judgmentWhy polarity teachings can sometimes create an “us vs. them” that keeps us lonelySky Daddy, grief, and choosing to trust that even this is loveHow grace can disarm conflict, soften men, and return us to unionMentions:Sky Daddy/ Sky King : https://www.sophiejosephina.com/sky-king David Ghiyam on manifestation & certaintyCalling Him In: https://www.sophiejosephina.com/calling-him-inHealing the Masculine: https://www.sophiejosephina.com/healing-the-masculineWebsite: www.sophiejosephina.comInstagram: @sophie.josephina

Welcome to the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast! In today's episode, we're going to talk about how to stop people-pleasing and start stepping into true leadership in your own life—so you can create the life of your dreams.Susi Thomas is an Empowerment & Leadership Coach and the founder of Giant Coaching, based in Eastbourne, England. She helps breakthrough seekers and ambitious managers become the leaders they wish they had—and the heroes of their own story. Susi believes that leadership isn't about being in charge—it's about taking care of those in your charge. You're a leader when you shape a belief system in your child, hold space for a friend in need, or guide your team through chaos with calm.Her path to this work is as inspiring as the work itself. She almost made it to the Olympics, moved countries without speaking the language, spent 28 years in senior leadership, trained and mentored thousands of managers, and held space for 1,300 people through a pandemic. At the age of 51, she flipped the script, changed careers, and created The Hero Collective—a weekly empowerment membership designed to support bold choices, lasting habits, and intentional action.Inside The Hero Collective, members receive weekly empowerment themes, mindset tools, boundary tips, soulful strategy, monthly coaching with Susi, and a like-hearted community that cheers each other on rather than competes. Everything is delivered in bite-sized form—easy to digest, yet impossible to forget.Susi uses physiology, focus, and voice as the foundation of her coaching method. Her motto is simple: low time and money investment, high impact, and zero fluff. If you're ready to stop pouring from an empty cup, your 14-day free trial is waiting. Susi Thomas invites you to move from autopilot to author—and write the story you actually want to live.Connect with  Susi Here: Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susi-thomas-4252a0294Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giant_coaching?igsh=d3FoaDBvdHUwc3Ay&utm_source=qrWebsite: https://www.awakenthegiantcoaching.com/Newsletter: https://www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7251643869354672128Facebook Page - Giant Coaching https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61558441718254Join the Hero Collective Membership for Just £12.97 per month https://www.awakenthegiantcoaching.com/about-4Substack https://open.substack.com/pub/susithomasGrab the freebie here: https://www.awakenthegiantcoaching.com/actchecklistFree 30 min Empowerment Call https://calendly.com/susi_thomas/free-empowerment-call===================================If you enjoyed this episode, remember to hit the like button and subscribe. Then share this episode with your friends.Thanks for watching the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast. This podcast is part of the Digital Trailblazer family of podcasts. To learn more about Digital Trailblazer and what we do to help entrepreneurs, go to DigitalTrailblazer.com.Are you a coach, consultant, expert, or online course creator? Then we'd love to invite you to our FREE Facebook Group where you can learn the best strategies to land more high-ticket clients and customers. QUICK LINKS: APPLY TO BE FEATURED: https://app.digitaltrailblazer.com/podcast-guest-applicationDIGITAL TRAILBLAZER: https://digitaltrailblazer.com/

Why do you avoid conflict, over-apologize, or say “yes” when you really mean “no”? In this powerful episode, Dr. Aziz unpacks the deeper reasons behind people-pleasing and “nice” behavior—and reveals what's really driving it. You'll discover that these habits aren't just random quirks—they're part of a system designed to keep you “safe” by earning approval and avoiding disapproval. But this comes at a huge cost: your authenticity, your confidence, and your freedom. Dr. Aziz shares key signs of hidden people-pleasing and offers a compelling invitation to look at what you're really afraid to feel. Once you understand the emotional root of these patterns, you can start breaking free—not by fixing a dozen behaviors, but by going straight to the source.

If you've ever said yes to something you didn't want to do just to avoid disappointing someone, this episode is for you.I'm joined by Michelle Gauthier, a life coach and host of the Overwhelmed Working Woman podcast, for a real conversation about people pleasing. We talk about why it's so hard to say no, how it shows up in ways you might not even notice, and what to do when you're tired of stretching yourself too thin.Michelle shares her Love and Fit Test, a simple two-question tool you can use anytime to check in with yourself before committing to something. If you're ready to protect your time and energy without the guilt, this is the mindset shift you've been looking for.In This Episode, We Talk About:What people pleasing really looks likeThe two-question Love and Fit Test you can use right awayHow to say no without overexplainingWhy shorter responses are often more respectfulWhat starts to change when you make choices that actually fit your lifeConnect with Michelle Gauthier:Website: www.michellegauthier.comInstagram: @michellegauthiercoachingOverwhelmed Working Woman Podcast: www.michellegauthier.com/podcast ________________________________

What if the real reason you feel stuck isn't fear — but guilt? In this powerful and raw conversation, Samantha Chung breaks down the truth about choosing yourself, cutting off draining friendships, and why your intuition might be screaming at you to evolve.We unpack the rise of “not fully living” syndrome, feminine power, spiritual independence, societal pressure, and how to finally own your desires without compromise.- Why most people feel off in their 30s- The freedom that comes with not explaining yourself- Why strong women are labeled “spinsters”… and why that's a GOOD thing- How to stop suppressing your dreams to make others comfortableIf you've ever felt misaligned, burnt out, or like you're living someone else's life — this one is your wake-up call.SHOP NEW CATAMANIA MERCH:https://mbhtv.com/collections/catamaniaSubscribe here: https://youtube.com/@catamaniashow?feature=sharedCATAMANIA SocialsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/catamania/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@catamaniashow?utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=socialCRISTINA SocialsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cristinacataman/GUEST SocialsSamantha Chung: https://www.instagram.com/simplifying.sam/Follow MBHTV:https://www.instagram.com/mbhtv/AUDIO VersionsApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/catamania/id1609694116?utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=socialSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/47s5K3sixX7PzqQUlk8SbZ?si=53017589d00f40a5&utm_source=hoobe&utm_medium=social&nd=1&dlsi=ac5ab91cd41a416a

In this episode of Anything But Average, Christina and Brittany dive into an honest, lighthearted, and insightful conversation about navigating life's inevitable ups and downs. From tackling recovery tips for back pain to managing bad days with grace, they explore how mindset and intentional choices can transform your experience—whether you're dealing with pain, external voices, or family dynamics.They unpack the power of fun and gratitude as tools for emotional well-being, and why recognizing that you always have a choice in how you respond can change everything. The discussion also highlights how we often become our own worst critic and how leaning into joy and connection can help you reclaim your perspective.You'll also hear about summer plans, family moments, and real-life examples of how Christina and Brittany apply these principles in their everyday lives.About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

Ever dread summer BBQs or family get-togethers because you're bracing yourself for someone's comment about what's on your plate or how you look?Maybe you're on a weight loss journey and the peanut gallery just can't help but chime in—“Should you really be eating that?” or “Wow, you've lost weight—don't disappear on us!” Yep, same. Been there, felt that!If you've ever left an event feeling judged or just plain annoyed by food and body comments, this episode has your back. Today, I'm sharing actual, practical survival tips for confidently handling food/body talk—without spiraling, people pleasing, or explaining yourself to death!Inside this episode, you'll learn:- Why people's comments are really about THEM (not you)- My go-to power phrases to shut down awkward conversations with grace- How to set boundaries and protect your energy from food pushers- The secret to shifting from people pleasing to honoring YOUR goals (Spoiler: your worth isn't up for debate!)Whether it's your aunt, your coworker, or your grandma—this episode will help you walk away feeling proud, present, and totally in control of your own choices.xoxo,JackieConnect with Jackie: >Got questions about MWLA? Send me a video, audio, or text here, and I'll personally help you decide if it's right for you!Follow me on Instagram @the.mindful.nutritionist 

In this powerful episode, Jerry sits down with Todd Smith from True Inner Freedom to explore how being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) impacts chiropractors both professionally and personally. If you're a chiropractor who struggles with people-pleasing, overthinking, poor boundaries, and burnout — this conversation is for you. Todd explains how HSP traits can become both a superpower and a liability in a high-touch profession like chiropractic. They dive deep into setting boundaries, understanding your personal limits, dealing with patients, family balance, and how self-awareness can lead to a more successful and satisfying practice. Resources & Links: Todd's Website: TrueInnerFreedom.com HSP Stress Test & Coaching Info: Take the HSP Stress Test Todd's Podcast: Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People Recommended Episode to Start With: Episode 237 – How to Say No as an HSP   00:01 – Introduction Jerry introduces the episode and shares how Todd reached out authentically to be on the show. 02:38 – What is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Definition of HSP: A temperament trait identified by Dr. Elaine Aron in the 1990s. 20% of people are highly sensitive, equally split between men and women. HSPs process information deeply and have stronger emotional and empathetic tendencies. 04:36 – The Negative Stigma Around Sensitivity Why many people, especially men, resist identifying as “sensitive.” The difference between healthy sensitivity and stress-amplified sensitivity. 06:11 – The HSP Stress Bucket Analogy How HSPs reach emotional overload quicker. The evolutionary benefits of sensitivity across species. 08:54 – Why Chiropractic Can Be Overwhelming for HSPs The “high-touch” nature of chiropractic care. How deep empathy can serve patients but drain the doctor. 09:45 – The Difference Between HSPs and Introverts 30% of HSPs are extroverts. Key difference: extroverts gain energy from people; HSPs process deeply no matter the social orientation. 14:21 – Overthinking vs. Overprocessing Using stress as an early warning sign for overthinking. Identifying when thinking becomes counterproductive. 15:52 – People-Pleasing, Boundaries & Being “Too Nice” How HSPs often sacrifice personal well-being to avoid conflict. The dangers of prioritizing patients at the expense of family and self. 19:08 – Recognizing When You're Out of Exchange Jerry shares personal signs of resentment and burnout. Practical examples of how ignoring boundaries hurts long-term relationships. 22:05 – Real-Life Example: Transitioning to Online Scheduling How avoiding difficult patient conversations can sabotage practice efficiency. Actionable steps for chiropractors to establish new boundaries. 26:48 – The Impact of Saying Yes to One Thing (And No to Another) How HSPs can unintentionally hurt loved ones by over-serving patients. 29:08 – Questioning Your Own Thoughts & Beliefs Todd introduces The Work of Byron Katie to challenge stressful beliefs. Why questioning assumptions can unlock personal freedom. Learn more about The Work of Byron Katie here: thework.com 33:15 – Parenting, Marriage, and Boundaries in Personal Life Jerry and Todd discuss how HSP tendencies show up in parenting and marriage. The difference between being a loving parent vs. needing to be liked. 37:10 – The Power of Defining Core Values Jerry shares his life-changing “tombstone exercise” to clarify life priorities. How clearly defined values help guide boundary decisions. 38:25 – Avoiding Conflict Harms Long-Term Relationships How short-term avoidance creates long-term resentment. The danger of letting small compromises accumulate. 40:52 – The Compound Effect of Small Decisions Why big mistakes are often small ones repeated. Daily choices move you toward or away from your ideal life. 41:47 – Personal Examples: Making Hard Business Decisions Todd shares a difficult but necessary recent business decision. The importance of trusting your inner voice. 46:12 – Chiropractors, Insecurity, and Owning Your Identity Why chiropractors often struggle with professional insecurity. The importance of owning the value of chiropractic care. 50:19 – Confidence Is Attractive How being comfortable in your own skin draws people to you. The toxic ripple effects of personal insecurity. 51:33 – The HSP Superpower in Chiropractic Empathy + Deep Processing = Ideal skillset for chiropractic care. How awareness and pacing prevent burnout while maximizing your gifts. 53:45 – Spotting HSPs in Practice Why Todd now exclusively works with HSPs. How understanding your patients' sensitivity helps build stronger relationships. Support the Podcast Rate, review, and subscribe to the podcast Share this episode with another chiropractor who needs to hear it Want Help Growing Your Practice? Jerry offers business coaching, website design, SEO, and Google Ads services specifically for chiropractors. If you're ready for less stress and more momentum, visit RocketChiro.com. Free New Patient Search Review: https://rocketchiro.com/chiropractic-practice-assessment Best chiropractic websites: https://rocketchiro.com/best-chiropractic-websites Chiropractic SEO: https://rocketchiro.com/chiropractic-seo Coaching for Chiropractors: https://rocketchiro.com/join

What if the biggest challenges in your life weren't meant to break you....but to relaunch you?  In today's episode, I sit down with Hilary DeCesare - coach, speaker, and creator of the 3HQ Method - for a deeply honest conversation about what it really takes to rise again in midlife.  From her own vulnerable story of starting over to the tools she uses to help women reconnect with their power, Hilary brings both heart and fire.  She even takes me through her signature 'Tune-In' process live on the podcast - and yes, it works.  If you've ever felt stuck, lost, or like you're getting in your own way, this episode is your sign. There's a path forward, and it doesn't require perfection - just presence, alignment, and a little courage.  Plus, Hilary is offering listeners an exclusive 50% off code to her Relaunch Into A Rich Life Event, happening this September! Details inside the episode and linked below.  Relaunch to a Rich Life Conference with Hilary DeCesare  Use code 'ValerieJ50' to get 50% off Ruby & Platinum tickets.  Get your free copy of the Tune-In method Register for Fed Up to On Fire - June 19th  Pre-Order my book, The Selfish Year: The Power of Putting Yourself First 

Melody Wilding is an executive coach, human behavior expert, and author of Trust Yourself and Managing Up. In this episode we unpack how high-achievers often sabotage their careers through people-pleasing and emotional suppression. Melody shares why sensitive strivers (a term she coined for deeply feeling, high-performing individuals) often struggle to advocate for themselves in professional environments — and how this disconnect leads to burnout, resentment, and career stagnation. We explore the difference between being collaborative and being a doormat, and how to set boundaries that actually earn respect rather than risk relationships. Learn more at melodywilding.com

Hey, Mompreneurs! Join us for a powerful conversation on clarity, confidence, and creating the life you desire!   Charity Brown is a passionate CEO, author, and coach dedicated to empowering women entrepreneurs. She shares her inspiring journey from a young mom with a dream to a successful business owner who now helps others unlock their full potential.   In this episode, we discuss: How to identify and overcome limiting beliefs The importance of mentorship and support in entrepreneurship Prioritizing self-care and breaking free from the cycle of people-pleasing Charity's Four Ps framework: Power, Planning, Prospecting, and Profits   Charity also shares her personal experiences with burnout and how she navigated through challenging times to emerge stronger and more resilient.   If you're a mompreneur looking to find balance and thrive in both your personal and professional life, this episode is for you!   Connect with Charity: Website | Instagram | FaceBook | YouTube   ✨ Join my Mompreneur Glow Up email list. It's your go-to source for all things life, leadHERship, and mindset.  

This week, we're talking boundaries—the invisible lines that protect our time, energy, and sanity (when we actually enforce them). Stef and Sarah unpack what boundaries really are (hint: not just saying “no”), how they show up in our bodies, our relationships, and our work—and why so many of us struggle to hold them. From family dynamics to friend drama, people-pleasing traps to food boundaries, they share real stories of what it takes to define and defend your limits without guilt. They also get into the psychology behind rigid vs. porous boundaries, how social conditioning makes it harder for some of us to draw the line, and why clear communication isn't just helpful—it's essential. If you've ever felt like setting a boundary makes you mean—or like you're constantly betraying yourself just to avoid conflict—this conversation is for you. Tune in for a candid, compassionate look at how to honor your needs and why boundaries aren't just protective… they're a form of kindness. 01:09 Defining Boundaries 02:20 Types of Boundaries 04:09 Personal Experiences with Boundaries 08:09 Boundaries in Relationships 10:32 Communicating Boundaries Effectively 11:41 Challenges in Setting Boundaries 13:11 Owning Your Boundaries 21:23 The Importance of Clear Communication 22:56 Setting Boundaries with Family 24:35 Navigating Boundaries in Friendships 26:41 Balancing Personal and Professional Boundaries 28:56 Understanding Boundaries in Therapy 34:57 Boundaries and Food Relationships 40:55 Concluding Thoughts on Boundaries Join our support community. This community is for you if you want a safe space to work through your daily struggles with food and body image. Community membership includes livestream episode recordings (online), monthly Zoom support meetings, a private Facebook group and member-only Q&A episodes. For more information go to: https://www.patreon.com/lifeafterdiets Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/lifeafterdietspodcast Email – hello@lifeafterdietspod.com Connect with Stefanie Michele, Binge Eating Coach & Somatic Therapist IT Website – www.iamstefaniemichele.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele Connect with Sarah Dosanjh, Author & Psychotherapist Website – www.thebingeeatingtherapist.com Instagram – www.instagram.com/the_binge_eating_therapist YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBingeEatingTherapist Sarah's book I Can't Stop Eating is available on Amazon

Therapist, author of Not Drinking Tonight, and ‘reformed people pleaser' Amanda E. White joins me back on the show to give her nuanced insights into the wide range of reasons why people might people please.  She'll help us understand what people pleasing is, when it can become manipulative, and how alcohol can play a role in people pleasing. Plus, she shares how relationships can actually become stronger through conflict, and how you can begin to cultivate a more nuanced view of people and situations.  Check out Amanda's new podcast - Nuance Needed!  Learn more about Amanda at www.amandaewhite.com Amanda's first episode on Sober Mom Life: Creating a Sober Life You Love Are you looking for community in sobriety? Join us in the The Sober Mom Life Cafe!  For $40/month, you'll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club and happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and even a monthly Bravo chat! For a limited time, get one week free!  The Sober Mom Life Community is also available, for just $5.95/month - In the Community, you'll receive access to the exclusive Community social feed, the exclusive community chat, our monthly book club, and one free weekly meeting.  Check out The Sober Mom Life on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Therapist, author of Not Drinking Tonight, and ‘reformed people pleaser' Amanda E. White joins me back on the show to give her nuanced insights into the wide range of reasons why people might people please.  She'll help us understand what people pleasing is, when it can become manipulative, and how alcohol can play a role in people pleasing. Plus, she shares how relationships can actually become stronger through conflict, and how you can begin to cultivate a more nuanced view of people and situations.  Check out Amanda's new podcast - Nuance Needed!  Learn more about Amanda at www.amandaewhite.com Amanda's first episode on Sober Mom Life: Creating a Sober Life You Love Are you looking for community in sobriety? Join us in the The Sober Mom Life Cafe!  For $40/month, you'll get access to 12 weekly peer support meetings, the exclusive Cafe social feed, our monthly book club and happy hour, the chance to share your story on The Real Sober Moms, and even a monthly Bravo chat! For a limited time, get one week free!  The Sober Mom Life Community is also available, for just $5.95/month - In the Community, you'll receive access to the exclusive Community social feed, the exclusive community chat, our monthly book club, and one free weekly meeting.  Check out The Sober Mom Life on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices