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In this episode, Alyssa Campbell M.Ed., emotional intelligence researcher and CEO of Seed & Sew, joins us to talk about raising confident, connected kids. With a background in early childhood education, Alyssa shares practical tools to help parents and caregivers support children's emotions during the critical but often overlooked ages of 5 to 12. We explore how to guide kids through big feelings, set boundaries with compassion, and respond intentionally so they can grow into emotionally intelligent humans.→ Leave Us A Voice Message! Topics Discussed:→ Raising emotionally intelligent kids→ Effective strategies for handling children's meltdowns→ The impact of emotional intelligence on kids' social awareness→ The FACTS method for emotional regulation→ Talking to kids about screens, puberty, and drugsSponsored By: → Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at https://www.bewellbykelly.com.→ AG1 | Head to https://www.drinkag1.com/bewell to get a FREE Welcome Kit with the flavor of your choice that includes a 30 day supply of AGZ and a FREE frother. → WeNatal | You can use my link, https://www.wenatal.com/kelly, with any subscription order, to get a free one month supply of WeNatal's Omega DHA+ Fish Oil valued at 35 dollars.→ Manukora | Head to https://www.manukora.com/kelly to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gifts with the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar, 5 honey travel sticks, a wooden spoon, and a guidebook! Timestamps: → 00:00:00 - Introduction→ 00:02:59 - What is Emotional Intelligence→ 00:08:05 - Social Awareness & Comparison→ 00:15:21 - Triangle of Growth→ 00:18:41 - Adult and Child Dynamics→ 00:24:01 - Social Pressure & Public Crying→ 00:28:56 - People Pleasing→ 00:36:16 - Guiding Kids Through Big Emotions→ 00:40:18 - Emotionally Sensitive Kids→ 00:47:03 - The FACTS Method→ 00:55:34 - Deepening Parent-Child Connection→ 00:57:34 - Screens, Puberty & The ‘Sex Talk'→ 01:06:51 - Creating Safety→ 01:09:45 - Naming Body Parts + Drugs & Alcohol→ 01:13:36 - Where to Find AlyssaShow Links → Seed QuizCheck Out Alyssa:→ Instagram: @seed.and.sew→ Website: Seed & Sew→ Book: Big Kids, Bigger Feelings (Available Sept 16, 2025)→ Podcast: Voices of Your Village→ Free ResourcesCheck Out Kelly:→ Instagram→
On this week’s episode, Jennie chats with Chrissy Metz, actress, singer, author, and all-around light. Chrissy opens up about her powerful role in The Hunting Wives, the lessons she’s learned about boundaries and navigating her strong people-pleasing leanings. This is a candid conversation about resilience, grace and why self-love is never selfish. Follow the "I Choose Me" Podcast on Instagram and TikTok Follow Jennie on Instagram, TikTok, and FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Whitney Goodman interviews Dr. Ingrid Clayton about her new book "Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves and How to Find Our Way Back." They explore fawning as the fourth trauma response, how it differs from people-pleasing and codependency, why children and marginalized people develop this survival strategy, and how it can masquerade as success while leading to complete self-abandonment. Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves-and How to Find Our Way Backhttps://www.ingridclayton.com/ Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles. Join the Family Cyclebreakers Club Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhit Follow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft Order Whitney's book, Toxic Positivity This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. 00:00 Dr. Clayton's Discovery of Fawning Through Her Own Trauma 04:26 Why Fawning Isn't About Shame - It's About Survival 09:00 How to Recognize Fawning in Your Own Life 12:16 The Connection Between Fawning and Family Estrangement 19:49 Fawning vs. People-Pleasing vs. Codependency 22:13 When Fawning Looks Like Success 27:46 Growing Out of the Fawning Response Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Go Help Yourself: A Comedy Self-help Podcast to Make Life Suck Less
On this episode of Go Help Yourself, Lisa is joined once again by special guest Jim O'Heir, star of Parks and Recreation, to talk about his journey with (and without) self-help. In particular, Jim chronicles his experience navigating panic attacks and people pleasing, and how therapy and support systems can act as important pillars of self-help -- even if you don't read the books.If you'd like to learn more about Jim O'Heir, you can follow him on instagram or purchase his wonderful book Welcome to Pawnee here.If you enjoy the podcast, please leave us a rating and review as it helps other people discover our show.Want more GHY?Download our secret episode here for FREE!Follow us on instagram @gohelpyourselfpodcastFor self-help tips delivered straight to your inbox, sign up for our newsletter at gohelpyourself.coXO,Lisa & MistyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
In this episode, I sit down with Mary Hyatt, master life and business coach for high-achieving female entrepreneurs. Mary shares her journey of breaking free from people-pleasing, burnout, and “good-girl” programming to live in authentic alignment. We talk about the impact of self-abandonment, how the body holds the truth, and why radical honesty is the first step to confidence and freedom. Mary brings powerful tools for connecting back to your body, emotions, and intuition. She helps women rebuild trust in themselves, heal from hustle culture, and create holistic success that feels aligned and liberating. If you've ever struggled with approval-seeking or hiding behind masks, this episode will show you how authenticity becomes your superpower. Lean in.Follow Mary Hyatt here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maryghyatt/Website: https://maryhyatt.com/Tune into Living Fully Alive Podcast here: https://maryhyatt.com/podcast/Join us on September 17th-18th for BECOMING: the REMIX! This is a 2-Day Masterclass to Redefine Your Self-Image & Step Powerfully Into Your Next Era of Wealth, Confidence & Radiance. Click here: https://empress.danielleamos.co/becoming-the-remix/Get exclusive access to powerful behind-the-scenes riffs I only share with my inner circle. SUBSCRIBE to unlock it now and go deeper with me here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/818893/subscribeJoin the Mastering Your Mindset Facebook Group, and surround yourself with individuals who are on their journey to success. https://www.facebook.com/groups/MasteringYourMindsetwithDanielleThe Success Society is your gateway to an elevated life—an empowering community for driven individuals who are ready to align with abundance, success, and purpose. Join us for less than a cup of coffee per month! https://empress.danielleamos.co/the-success-society/Want to start working with me? Book a complimentary strategy call with The Success Society Team. We're here to support you. https://danielleamos.as.me/strategycallsetterYou can catch the video version of this episode on my YouTube channel. Subscribe here: https://www.youtube.com/@thedanielleamosOne conversation with me can change your life. Access my free gift, Success Mindset Workshop, here: https://successmindsetworkshop.danielleamos.co/If you love this episode, please share it on Instagram, tag me, and send me a DM @TheDanielleAmos; I'd be so grateful if you could leave me a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify.Fit, Healthy & Happy Podcast Welcome to the Fit, Healthy and Happy Podcast hosted by Josh and Kyle from Colossus...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show
On this week’s episode, Jennie chats with Chrissy Metz, actress, singer, author, and all-around light. Chrissy opens up about her powerful role in The Hunting Wives, the lessons she’s learned about boundaries and navigating her strong people-pleasing leanings. This is a candid conversation about resilience, grace and why self-love is never selfish. Follow the "I Choose Me" Podcast on Instagram and TikTok Follow Jennie on Instagram, TikTok, and FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
How do you know when it's time to set a boundary—and how can you express it in a way that's both loving and clear? In this episode, discover the signs that a boundary is needed, why boundaries are part of God's created order, and the three qualities that make a boundary truly healthy. You'll also learn Alicia's favorite tool for expressing boundaries, the “Boundary Sandwich”, a simple framework that helps you set limits with kindness, clarity, and confidence. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] How do you know when it's time to set a boundary? [02:00] What emotional signs point to the need for limits? [04:00] Why are boundaries part of God's design for creation? [05:00] What makes a boundary healthy, clear, and kind? [07:00] How can consistency build confidence in boundary setting? [08:00] What biblical examples show boundaries in action? [11:00] When should you express a boundary out loud vs. keep it between you and God? [12:00] What is the “Boundary Sandwich” and how does it work? [14:00] Real-life examples of the Boundary Sandwich in family, friendship, and church settings RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club! We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal. Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic. Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club. RELATED EPISODES: Episode 223: “People Pleasers, You Don't Need to Apologize for Your Decisions” Episode 233: Restore Your Relationships: Create Guilt-Free Boundaries for Less Family + Friendship Drama Episode 326: A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.
Recover Your Soul: A Spiritual Path to a Happy and Healthy Life
Send one way text to Rev Rachel Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I'm only as happy as my least happy child"? This seemingly loving sentiment actually reveals a profound codependent belief that makes us responsible for others' emotions while neglecting our own healing journey. As I discovered with my own family, no amount of fixing or controlling could make my unhappy child happy—that was his journey to walk. Only when I released my grip on controlling outcomes and turned inward did things begin to transform.Perfectionism, helping behaviors, and our need to "fix" others often masquerade as positive traits—but they're actually sneaky forms of codependency that keep us trapped in cycles of control. When we obsess over making everything perfect or rush to save others from their emotions, we're not being helpful—we're attempting to manage our own discomfort and create safety through control.The 9-Step Soul Recovery Process offers a spiritual path out of these patterns. Through this process, we replace the drive to fix others with self-compassion, embrace new beliefs about our inherent worthiness, and shift our lens from fear to love.This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the show Rev. Rachel Harrison and Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Soul Recovery Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Mods WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts
In this episode, Brittany and Christina keep it real with an honest (and often hilarious) chat about the everyday struggles and surprising lessons that come with juggling life, beauty, money, and mental health.They cover everything from frustrating Wi-Fi issues to the complexity of skincare (hello, retinol and peels), and why minimalism might actually be the best beauty hack. They also dive into the importance of cash management, the challenges of travel planning, and the often-overlooked legal necessity of having power of attorney.The conversation takes a reflective turn when discussing celebrity news and the very real mental health challenges that high-profile figures face. With lighthearted banter and practical takeaways, this episode is equal parts relatable and eye-opening.About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!
Think you've outgrown your good girl programming? Think again. These 10 subtle habits might be sabotaging your power - and keeping you small without even realizing it. You might not be saying 'yes' when you mean 'no' anymore - but the good girl still has her sticky little fingers in you. In this packed episode, I'm revealing 10 sneaky ways the good girl still shows up in your everyday life, and what to do instead. From overexplaining to emotional shapeshifting, I'll break down the behaviours that seem harmless, but are actually keeping you stuck silenced, and small. If you're ready to step into your full, selfish, sovereign self, this one's for you. Resources/Links: Buy my book, The Selfish Year Leave a review on Amazon Leave a review on Goodreads FREE: Guide to Decentering Men & Taking Your Throne
We're back with a new bonus episode on people-pleasing!This time, we're looking at people-pleasing not as a personal flaw, but as a social behavior shaped by power, structure, and the need to belong. We'll explore the sociology behind it — from Goffman's dramaturgy to Asch's conformity experiments — and unpack how gender roles, hierarchy, and cultural norms reinforce it. Plus, a few grounded points to help you recognize and start unlearning people-pleasing tendencies. *If the episode is too long, peep this song "People Pleaser" by Cat Burns-- It's not sociological but it is soulful.Want to sow into the vision of this podcast? click here
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Totallytoriarmstrong.com/contact Boundaries & People Pleasing Worksheet This worksheet will help you reflect on where you're stuck in people-pleasing patterns, and guide you to create healthy boundaries that protect your time, energy, and confidence. Be honest—this is for YOU. Reflection Questions • Where in my life do I most often say 'yes' when I want to say 'no'? __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ • What am I afraid will happen if I disappoint someone? __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ • When was the last time I felt resentful because I overcommitted? __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ • What would change in my life if I stopped people pleasing? __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ Boundary Building Prompts • One boundary I want to set this week is: __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ • A phrase I can practice saying instead of 'yes' is: __________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________ • One person I need to set a boundary with is: __________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________
"If you have IBS, chronic fatigue, autoimmune disease, or anxiety that won't go away - your doctor might be missing something huge. Your illness might not be just physical. It might be your body screaming what your mouth can't say: NO.In this episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross uncovers the powerful connection between chronic illness and patterns like people-pleasing and perfectionism. These behaviors, often rooted in childhood, can create chronic stress that worsens conditions like IBS, autoimmune disease, chronic fatigue, and anxiety.✨ Inside this episode, you'll learn:How people-pleasing and perfectionism contribute to chronic illnessKim's personal journey from diagnosis to deeper self-awarenessWhy emotional well-being is directly tied to physical healthAn introduction to the 5-Step POWER Pathway (Patterns, Ownership, Willingness, Embrace, Radical Responsibility)Actionable steps you can take today to set boundaries, honor your true self, and begin your healing journey
"When the brain is tired, stressed out, it just wants to watch television, drink a beer, and go to sleep, and that's not where change happens." —Dr. Tara PerryIf stress, anxiety, or past pain keeps showing up no matter what you try, you're not broken—you're human. Healing is possible, even if it hasn't worked before. You deserve more than just coping—you deserve real relief. There's hope, and it starts with understanding your own mind.Dr. Tara Perry spent decades helping people heal chronic pain and trauma, first with acupuncture and then by diving deep into the subconscious mind. Her journey from hands-on healer to mind-body expert revealed that true change happens when you rewire the patterns beneath the surface. Tune in for real talk on healing trauma, breaking old habits, calming stress, and even boosting fertility—plus practical tips you can use right away. Hit play and discover how to turn your struggles into strength, one step at a time.Connect with Heather: WebsiteFacebook InstagramLinkedInEpisode Highlights:02:51 Trauma: Its Lasting Impact and How It Blocks Healing 05:27 Why Siblings Experience Trauma Differently10:52 Top Traumas People Face 14:03 Therapists Also Need to Cope 17:37 The Roger Bannister Effect 20:16 DIY Healing Tools and Subconscious Work24:19 The Science Behind Brain Change26:32 Chronic Pain and Emotional Stress 30:34 Mainstream Medicine vs New Solutions 35:55 People Pleasing and Healthy Boundaries 39:22 Personal Growth and Lasting ChangeConnect with Dr. Tara: Dr. Tara Perry is a renowned integrative healer and trauma specialist based in Nashville, with over 30 years of experience in acupuncture, hypnosis, and mind-body medicine. Formerly practicing in Southern California and teaching at UCLA, Dr. Perry has helped countless individuals—including celebrities and athletes—overcome chronic pain, trauma, and emotional challenges. Her innovative approach blends scientific research with holistic therapies, empowering clients to access the subconscious mind for deep, lasting transformation. Dr. Perry is also a podcast host, YouTube creator, and former radio broadcaster, dedicated to sharing stories of healing and resilience. She offers both in-person and virtual sessions, and is committed to making effective, science-backed healing accessible to people worldwide.WebsiteLinkedInInstagramFacebookYouTubeSupport the show
If your self-worth depends on being liked, playing the “good girl,” or keeping everyone else happy, you're stuck in Emotional Outsourcing™. In this episode, our bestie Bea Albina, a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Master Certified Life Coach, and author of End Emotional Outsourcing™, is back and teaching us how to quit people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependent habits FOR GOOD. We cover: Why we emotionally outsource in the first place. Bea explains how codependency, people-pleasing, and perfectionism are survival strategies we learned early on, NOT character flaws. How Emotional Outsourcing™ keeps you stuck and miserable. We unpack the hidden ways outsourcing your worth drains your energy and relationships. The nervous system's role in healing. Bea shares SIMPLE somatic and polyvagal tools to help you actually regulate and build resilience. Why people-pleasing sometimes feels safer than saying no. Learn how your brain and body keep you locked in old patterns and how to break free. Practical ways to set boundaries without guilt. Simple scripts and reframes for protecting your energy without shame. How to move from perfectionism to self-trust. Shift from performing for approval to living as your authentic self. Daily practices to reconnect with your worth. Because you are SO worthy. Bea teaches us grounding tools to build confidence, self-compassion, and inner safety. PREORDER BEA'S BOOK HERE! (and then go to her website HERE to get all the special preorder goodies!) Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
improve it! Podcast – Professional Development Through Play, Improv & Experiential Learning
In this episode of Workday Playdate, Erin sits down with Amy Green Smith—life coach, hypnotherapist, and boundary-setting powerhouse—to explore the fine line between being kind and being a doormat. If you've ever found yourself saying “yes” when every cell in your body was screaming “no,” this conversation is your wake-up call to stop people-pleasing and start leading with self-worth. Through raw insights and actionable strategies, Amy reveals how to reclaim your personal power, communicate with confidence, and finally set the boundaries you've been avoiding without burning bridges. Inside This Episode: The Worthy Method: A proven framework to help leaders embrace their intrinsic value and prevent burnout. Decide, Deliver, Enforce: Amy's 3-step formula for setting boundaries that stick (and don't crumble under pressure). Emotions as Messengers: How recurring negative feelings point to the boundaries you've been neglecting. The Fawn Response: Why people-pleasing is both a survival tactic and a self-sabotage trap—and how to break the cycle. Courage & Fear: Why fear isn't the enemy, but the first step toward authentic leadership. Who This Episode Is For: Professionals who say “yes” too often and feel stretched too thin. Leaders ready to foster healthier, more empowered workplace dynamics. Anyone craving the confidence to set boundaries without guilt. Tune in to learn how to swap people-pleasing for powerful communication—and if you know someone who needs this nudge, share this episode with them. Feeling awkward, overthinking your small talk, or wondering if you should've just stayed home? Grab our free Networking Without Feeling Weird toolkit. It's your two-part confidence boost for before and during the event, packed with simple, human strategies that help you walk in clear, grounded, and ready to connect. Download it now and turn “Ugh, networking…” into “That was actually… fun?” No, You Hang Up First (Let's Keep Connecting) Did today's episode resonate with you? Leave us a review sharing your favorite insight and we'll send you a free signed copy of I See You! A Leader's Guide to Energizing Your Team through Radical Empathy. Have another question that we can answer? Leave us a Speakpipe audio clip and we'll answer it in an upcoming episode. Don't want to miss another episode? If you're a Spotify listener, find our show here and click “Follow.” If you're an Apple Podcast listener, click here and make sure to hit “+Follow.” Want access to a bunch of free resources for your work life? This is your personal jackpot that gives you access to the frameworks that help us thrive both personally and professionally. Whether you're trying to improve your daily routine, flesh out an idea that you've had for quite some time, or want to add more play into your day - these resources have got your back. Want 2 emails a week from us? One with a quick tip you can implement right away to enhance your personal and/or professional lives & one of our famous F.A.I.L. Fourward Friday newsletters? Subscribe here. Connect with Amy Green Smith Amy's LinkedIn Amy's website Amy's Instagram Connect with Erin Diehl x improve it! Erin's website Erin's Instagram Erin's TikTok Erin's LinkedIn improve it!'s website improve it!'s Instagram
The Present Day Wise Woman - Healthy Life Hacks With Jennifer Jefferies
Are you burning out from always being the “nice one”? In this episode, Jennifer Jefferies uncovers the hidden cost of people pleasing and how it drains your energy more than any to-do list ever could. Learn why boundaries are really energy filters, not walls, and how to say no without guilt. If you are tired of smiling through exhaustion and ready to reclaim your vitality, this episode is your wake-up call.LINKS: Feed Your Bodyhttps://jenniferjefferies.com/feed-your-body-eguide/Pelvic floor prolapse doesn't have to hold you back. Learn how to regain control and improve your quality of life with my team of expert guidance.https://jenniferjefferies.com/pelvic-floor-prolapse/Have you checked out my new Healthy Life Hacks App?
I explore why people pleasing isn't just a personality quirk, but often an anxiety pattern rooted in the body. We look at how posture, facial expressions, and attentional habits keep us stuck in trying to make others happy at our own expense. I share practical embodied practices for breaking the cycle - from mindfulness check-ins to centering, from small “micro-poses” to larger embodied experiments. We talk about boundaries, authority, self-care, and how to take up space in a way that feels authentic rather than forced. If you've ever struggled with saying no, apologising too much, or putting everyone else's needs first, this episode gives you grounded tools to change the habit where it lives - in the body. ----------------------------------------------- As a special gift for you, our loyal listeners, we are offering $1200 off our flagship course, the Certificate of Embodiment Coaching when you use code: CEC25PODCAST More info here: https://embodimentunlimited.com/cec ----------------------------------------------- Check out our YouTube channel for more coaching tips and our Podcast channel for full episode videos Uplevel your coaching with a free copy of Mark's latest eBook, The Top 12 Embodiment Coaching Techniques Join Mark for those juicy in-person workshops and events Fancy some free coaching demo sessions with Mark? Connect with Mark Walsh on Instagram
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In this episode, we wrap up our mini-series on the subtle distractions the enemy uses to pull men away from what matters most—living fully for God and His purposes. Today, we're talking about a big one: the approval of others.How often do your decisions—what you wear, what you buy, even your career path—come from a desire to be liked, accepted, or validated? The truth is, living for people's approval can keep you from living in obedience to God.Join me as I share personal struggles in this area, biblical wisdom, and practical encouragement to help you pursue private victories over public recognition. Let's learn how to fix our eyes on Jesus, live for His approval above all, and walk with true character and integrity.
For some women with ADHD, people-pleasing is more than just being nice. It's a way to cope with feeling overwhelmed or misunderstood.In this episode, Dr. Monica Johnson breaks down what people-pleasing looks like in women with ADHD. Find out how this coping mechanism can impact your life. And learn helpful strategies to stop people-pleasing and live a healthier life.For more on this topicADHD and: Imposter syndromeTips from an ADHD Coach: People-pleasing everyone but ourselvesADHD and: Setting boundariesTimestamps(00:00) Intro(00:39) What does people-pleasing look like in ADHD?(2:48) Why ADHD leads to people-pleasing(4:31)The hidden costs of people-pleasing (7:10) Tips for managing people-pleasing For a transcript and more resources, visit the MissUnderstood: ADHD in Women page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at podcasts@understood.org. Explore Through My Eyes today. Step into the world of three kids with ADHD, dyslexia, and dyscalculia — helping you see differently so you can act differently.Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Forrest and therapist Meg Josephson explore the fawn response, a survival strategy where safety is sought by pleasing other people. They discuss how fawning can start as self-protection in childhood, but later morph into overthinking, hypervigilance, and self-abandonment. Meg shares her own experience, including how fawning creates resentment and makes it difficult to find a healthy relationship or figure out your authentic needs. Topics include becoming aware of unconscious habits, building distress tolerance, grief, self-compassion, healthy boundaries, and speaking up for ourselves. About our Guest: Meg Josephson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and author of the new book Are You Mad at Me? Key Topics: 0:00: Introduction 1:18: Self-sabotage as self-protection 4:01: Bringing the unconscious fawn response into awareness 9:51: Silencing wants and needs, conflict avoidance, and resentment 14:33: Rediscovering wants and needs after people pleasing 18:05: The healing arc: grief, anger, and relationship 25:30: Viewing people pleasing as a “part” rather than an identity 30:11: Nice vs. compassionate 51:36: Hypervigilance and the NICER practice 57:22: Authenticity as “uncovering” rather than “fixing” 1:03:02: Recap Support the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors If you have ADHD, or you love someone who does, I'd recommend checking out the podcast ADHD aha! Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. Join hundreds of thousands of people who are taking charge of their health. Learn more and join Function at functionhealth.com/BEINGWELL. Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. Go to Zocdoc.com/BEING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better? Buy the book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response. Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn't work, and how shame keeps us stuck in cycles of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the science of safety, what it really takes to break free, and why healing is less about quick tips and more about reconnecting with yourself. If you've ever wondered why saying “no” feels impossible — or why you're drawn to the very relationships that hurt you — this episode will change how you see yourself and your story. Connect with Ingrid BOOK: FAWNING: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE: https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g WEBSITE: https://www.ingridclayton.com/ Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
SHE RISES IS OPEN FOR FAITH DRIVEN WOMEN WHO KNOW THEY WANT TO RISE HIGHER IN FAITH, HEALTH, LEADERSHIP, AND LIFE! Join us for 8 weeks of faith, sisterhood and new growth! Today on the show, Kelley and Taylor are diving into how to stop people pleasing and why breaking free from people pleasing is essential if you want to lead with confidence and live fully in your God-given identity. Do you ever struggle with trying to please people? Do you struggle with saying "yes" when you really want to say "no?" We are sharing how to break free from people pleasing and discover how to step into God-confidence, peace, purpose, and approval. What you'll learn in this episode: *The spiritual root of people pleasing: fear of rejection, need for approval, and identity confusion. *Why trying to make everyone happy will cost you your peace. *How people pleasing disguises itself s kindness, b ut steals your freedom. *3 Biblical steps to stop people pleasing, and start living for Go'd approval only. *Bible verses to strengthen your courage: Galatians 1:10, Proverbs 29:25, Colossians 3:23-24. "You can't fully obey God and fully please people at the same time. Choose peace. Choose purpose. Choose freedom." Kelley Tyan. If this episode encourages in you in any way, please share it with a friend who is working on setting boundaries and choosing peace. Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel too! > ChosenbyJesus-CBJ, leave us a review, and tag us in this episode on social! You can follow us on Instagram @chosenbyJesusCBJ Don't forget to DM us your prayer request too! WE want to pray for you! For more info and to receive even more weekly faith, get on our list! > weekly newsletter
Do you struggle to say no because you're afraid of disappointing others? In this episode designed for people pleasers, Alicia shares why boundaries aren't selfish but a God-designed way to protect your peace and honor Him. Discover the lies that keep people pleasers stuck, how Jesus modeled healthy boundaries, and how to use the A.D.D. model (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) to process the fear of upsetting others. Learn why serving others well actually starts with setting limits, and how to find the courage to follow the Holy Spirit instead of the fear of man. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Why do people pleasers struggle most with setting boundaries? [04:00] Why are boundaries God-designed instead of selfish? [07:00] How did Jesus model healthy boundaries in His own life? [09:00] What hidden pride might be fueling your people pleasing? [12:00] Why you don't need permission from others to set limits [15:00] How can you follow the Spirit instead of fearing rejection? [17:00] What deeper roots might be driving your people pleasing? [21:00] How to use the A.D.D. model (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide) to process emotions around boundaries RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club! We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal. Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic. Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club. RELATED EPISODES: Episode 223: “People Pleasers, You Don't Need to Apologize for Your Decisions” Episode 233: Restore Your Relationships: Create Guilt-Free Boundaries for Less Family + Friendship Drama Episode 234: “Rebuild Your Rest: Set Up Soothing Rhythms + Boundaries for Less Overwhelm” Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.
In this pep talk, I open up about my own people-pleasing tendencies and where they come from, how they've impacted my life, and the ways I've been learning to overcome them as a mom. Motherhood brings so many responsibilities, expectations, and pressures, and people-pleasing only adds to the weight we carry.This isn't just about learning to say no. It's about honoring your needs, trusting your intuition, and not letting others sway you away from what you know is best for your life and your family. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. And you deserve to be seen, heard, and understood without abandoning yourself in the process.I hope this short episode gives you a little boost of encouragement for the week ahead.
Too many women think that taking the high road makes them strong, wise, or 'the bigger person.' But what if that road is actually keeping you stuck in self-abandonment, silence, and disappointment? In this episode, I break down why the high road can be a trap, what to do instead, and how decentering men frees you to finally choose yourself. Get my FREE Guide to Decentring Men and Taking Your Throne Sign up for The Selfish Woman Newsletter Get the Untethered Workshop The Selfish Year - get your copy now! Write a review for The Selfish Year
Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better? Buy the book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response. Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn't work, and how shame keeps us stuck in cycles of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the science of safety, what it really takes to break free, and why healing is less about quick tips and more about reconnecting with yourself. If you've ever wondered why saying “no” feels impossible — or why you're drawn to the very relationships that hurt you — this episode will change how you see yourself and your story. Connect with Ingrid BOOK: FAWNING: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE: https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g WEBSITE: https://www.ingridclayton.com/ Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Send us a textIf you're exhausted from trying to be liked, this is your wake-up call. We break down how people-pleasing shows up in your leadership voice, why it's rooted in safety strategies, and how to shift into authentic authority.Enjoying the podcast? Don't forget to follow for more episodes packed with insights on growth, change, and living a more fulfilling life. Got a thought or story to share? Reach out via Instagram at @j_.leigh , on LinkedIn at Jess Jasch, or https://j-leigh.com.au/ - I'd love to hear from you!Interested in booking a free consult to discuss wellbeing consulting, or embodied leadership coaching for you or your team? Book your time here: https://calendly.com/jess-jasch/book-zoom-now
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Do you say “yes” when your body says “no”? This episode is a gentle guide to stop people-pleasing and start speaking your truth.The speaker explores the fear of being seen and the habit of fawning—agreeing to keep the peace—even when it doesn't feel right. You'll learn a simple way to tell the difference between your authentic intuition and old people-pleasing patterns: pause, breathe, and ask clear yes/no questions like, “Do I want this?” “Will it be good for me?” The episode highlights Satya (truthfulness) from yoga philosophy and the practice of Ishvarapranidhana (surrender), reminding us we can offer our truth but cannot control how others receive it. There's also a science lens: social fear can feel like physical pain, yet every small act of honest expression rewires the brain toward self-trust and resilience. You'll finish with a short grounding practice—hand on throat and heart—and affirmations like “I am safe to be seen.” If you're ready to move from external approval to inner anchoring, this conversation will help you begin—kindly, clearly, and now.—-------—-------—-Episode Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction00:01:42 Being Seen, Heard, Valued00:02:34 Fear of Judgment vs. Truth00:04:08 Naming Fawning (People-Pleasing)00:04:46 Satya: Living in Truth00:06:15 Intuition vs. Old Patterns00:10:17 Body-Led Yes/No Questions00:12:30 Collecting a Clearer Truth00:14:21 Neuro Lens: Social Pain & Fear00:15:58 Why Speak Your Truth00:17:47 External Validation vs. Inner Anchor00:21:05 Ishvarapranidhana: Surrender00:21:56 Rewiring for Self-Trust00:23:23 Conscious Boundaries & Choices00:24:32 Grounding Questions00:25:18 Hand-to-Throat/Heart Practice00:29:11 Willing, Not Fearless00:30:19 Authenticity over Perfection00:33:05 Reflective Prompts & Close—-------—-------—-
If you've ever found yourself saying “yes” when you really meant “no,” this one's for you. In this episode, we're talking about the heart of people-pleasing: why we do it, how it sneaks up on us, and what it's really costing us.I'm sharing one powerful question that helps you shift out of auto-yes mode and back into alignment with our truth. It's simple, but it opens a door to self-respect, boundaries, and a whole new kind of freedom.Because your time, energy, and truth are sacred... and every “yes” you give should honor that.
Breaking Free from People Pleasing: My Journey to Self-Care and HealingAre you always the “go-to person” for everyone else—yet secretly exhausted, burned out, and struggling with your health?
How do you feel about this episode? Text us!Helen Norbury and Jillian Scott obliterate narcissistic abuse.Jillian shares her journey of growing up with a narcissistic parent and how it affected her sense of identity and self-worth. She delves into her experiences with emotional abuse, binge eating, and the challenges of finding her authentic self while in a narcissistic marriage.If you want to apply to have Helen help you exceed your own expectations, email her at helen@helenannenorbury.co.uk or send her a DM on Instagram, or follow her on LinkedIn.Jillian discusses the importance of self-trust, self-belief, and emotional healing, shedding light on her continuous efforts to embrace her true self amidst past traumas. Jillian and Helen offer hope and encouragement for those experiencing similar struggles.As a former binge eater turned trauma-certified life coach, Jillian Scott specializes in empowering clients to overcome the aftermath of emotionally abusive relationships, heal their relationship with food and body, and develop unwavering self confidence and self belief. She's the host of the Hungry for Love Podcast and creator of the Whole Brain Method designed to heal your relationship with food, body, and self. Episode Highlights:00:46 Toxic Family Survival06:48 Narcissistics Aplenty06:59 Self-Identity vs Marriage12:14 Emotional Abuse & Eating Habits17:34 Core Cravings & Emotional Eating19:00 Constant Moving vs Core Identity20:39 People-Pleasing & Self-Worth22:37 Core Wounds vs Self-Truth27:50 Rebuilding Self-Trust Post-Trauma30:20 Living Unapologetically & Setting BoundariesIf you love the show, share it with 2 people who would be inspired by these conversations.
What if the “bad habits” you keep beating yourself up for—perfectionism, people-pleasing, second-guessing—aren't flaws at all?What if they were actually survival strategies your younger self created to feel safe… and you've just been carrying them into adulthood?This week on Project Loving Myself, we're exposing the hidden childhood roots of the patterns that shape your relationships, career, and even how you see yourself.
Does saying “no” feels like a betrayal…This week, I'm joined by the incredibly insightful and hilarious SaKarra Fite, and we're talking about the people-pleasing habits that hold us hostage. From family pressure to generational patterns to simply not wanting to let people down, we get real about where it starts...and how to break free.We unpack the cost of being the “go-to” person, how boundaries got a bad reputation, and why so many of us overcorrect and end up isolating instead of healing. This one's honest, layered, funny, and filled with truth. Press play...you'll see what I mean.
Do people often call you “so strong”... like it's a compliment? You hold everything together. You always show up. You're the one everyone turns to—at work, at home, in your friend group. But here's the truth: that identity comes at a cost. In this episode, Penny breaks down the emotional and neurological toll of always being “the strong one”—and how to finally let go without guilt.
In this episode of 'A Millennial Mind', I'm joined by Heather Elkington, a leadership expert and first-time author of 'Your Boss Era'. Heather shares her journey from studying outdated leadership models to redefining management in a small startup, growing it significantly, and finally navigating through the corporate world. We discuss the apparent differences in work ethics between millennials and Gen Z, the importance of transparency in the workplace, and why embracing hard conversations is crucial for effective leadership. Heather also sheds light on the importance of intentionality in work, the pitfalls of toxic meetings, and the significant shifts in workplace dynamics post-COVID. Tune in for a deep dive into managing Gen Z, fostering a high-performance culture, and the essential elements of being a great leader. 00:00 Introduction: Millennials vs. Gen Z Work Ethic 00:50 Meet Heather Elkington: Leadership Expert 03:04 Heather's Career Journey and Insights 06:05 The Impact of COVID on the Workplace 12:40 Transparency and Trust in Leadership 25:12 Balancing Work Hours and Burnout 37:19 The Challenge of People Pleasing and Career Growth 41:30 The Importance of Confrontation 41:57 Evaluating Your Social and Work Calendar 42:38 Balancing Wedding Planning and Work 43:46 Understanding and Leveraging Your Strengths 47:21 Emotional Intelligence and Energy Awareness 49:55 The Art of Confrontation: A Four-Step Framework 55:13 Transparency in the Workplace 01:00:29 The Reality of Entrepreneurship 01:04:10 The Challenges of Balancing Roles and Responsibilities 01:05:24 Advice for Managers and Employees 01:10:21 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Are you exhausted from saying yes when your heart is screaming no? In this episode of The Secret Formula of Femininity, Dr. Nicole Monteiro unpacks why overcommitting leaves women burned out, resentful, and disconnected from their feminine power.✨ Inside this episode you'll learn:The psychology behind people-pleasing and why it drains your energyHow saying yes too often leads to stress and burnout (backed by research!)Why “no” is actually a powerful feminine energy movePractical scripts to say no gracefully without guiltCoaching Q&A on how to handle family guilt, workplace pressure, and dating boundariesIf you've been craving more peace, balance, and confidence in your relationships, this episode will give you the tools to reclaim your voice — and protect your energy.
In this empowering episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the world of people pleasing and the critical importance of setting boundaries. With her signature blend of humor and candor, Brianne defines what it means to be a people pleaser—someone who prioritizes the happiness of others at the expense of their own needs and desires. Through personal anecdotes and relatable insights, she highlights the detrimental effects of people pleasing, including low self-esteem, difficulty saying no, and the tendency to neglect self-care.Brianne outlines the signs of being a people pleaser and offers practical strategies for breaking free from this cycle. From learning to say no to recognizing the value of self-worth, she guides listeners on how to reclaim their autonomy and prioritize their own needs without guilt. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes that it's okay to be unliked and that conflict can lead to deeper intimacy in relationships.Listeners will walk away with actionable steps to start setting healthy boundaries, including how to communicate their needs effectively and remove toxic relationships from their lives. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that self-care is not selfish, but a vital part of living a fulfilling life.
In this episode, Brittany and Christina dive into the world of summer camp experiences, parenting in a busy world, and the ways camping—whether traditional or glamping—shapes our perspective on life. They explore the emotional weight many families are carrying this year, highlighting the importance of finding balance between plans and spontaneity while raising kids and pursuing personal growth.From cultural differences in sports culture (Canada vs. USA) to the chaos of traveling with hockey gear, the conversation weaves in humor, relatable stories, and practical reflections on the ups and downs of parenting.Key themes include the power of gratitude, how collective experiences shape our well-being, and why talking to yourself might actually be a sign of intelligence. With candid insights on navigating life challenges, this conversation reminds us to embrace both the good and the hard, finding growth and connection along the way.About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!
Wir sind zurück aus der Sommerpause und starten direkt mit einem Hot Take. In den letzten Jahren haben wir viel über soziale Ängste, People Pleasing und das Drinnie-Sein gesprochen – Themen, die alle ihre Berechtigung haben. Aber: Allzu oft wird vermeintliche Introvertiertheit als Ausrede genutzt. Die Folge? Wir lassen uns gegenseitig zu häufig hängen, haben zu viel Angst, unsere Comfort Zone zu verlassen, oder scheuen uns davor, anderen zuliebe auch mal einen anstrengenden Abend durchzustehen. Da darf man sich nicht wundern, wenn es mit dem Community-Building nichts wird. Zu glauben, dass schon die Extrovertierten dafür sorgen, alle zusammenzuhalten, greift zu kurz und schiebt die Verantwortung auf andere ab. Zeit also für einen Call-Out – oder besser: ein Call-In.
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Feeling the pressure to perform, please, or prove? Leadership doesn't collapse because of external pressure — it unravels from internal misalignment. This episode shows you how to reclaim influence from the inside out.When pressure builds — do you perform, please, or posture?In today's episode, we're diving deep into a leadership truth few acknowledge: real influence doesn't come from managing perception. It comes from anchoring in identity — especially when the stakes are high.Whether you're a founder, creative, or leader carrying silent pressure, this episode reveals how internal misalignment slowly erodes your presence, integrity, and impact. Drawing on the story of Jesus in Gethsemane, we show how leadership under pressure isn't about getting louder — it's about getting truer.If you've ever felt the cost of being misunderstood, the temptation to over-explain, or the exhausting urge to control outcomes — this conversation will recalibrate your core.You'll learn:Why identity-level congruence is your leadership stabilizerHow performance-based leadership creates hidden fracturesWhat it really means to lead from integrity, not imageThe quiet power of presence when words fall shortToday's Micro Recalibration:“Where am I leaking energy trying to be understood, instead of being anchored in who I am?”Return to alignment. Let presence speak louder than performance.Team Recalibration Prompt:Bring this to your team: “Here's what I've been reflecting on about my own leadership under pressure. I'm committed to leading from clarity, not reaction. What's one way we can each protect integrity over perception in our work this week?”Start here — because your leadership wasn't meant to be performative. It was meant to be powerful — from the inside out.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.
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If you've ever said yes when you really wanted to say no—whether it's to a drink, an invitation, or keeping alcohol in the house for guests—you're not alone. Women who over-drink often over-do in every area of life. We people-please, over-commit, and ignore our own needs to avoid disappointing others. But here's the truth: every dishonest yes chips away at your self-trust and keeps you stuck in the cycle of over-drinking. In this episode, I'll show you why trusting yourself with your yes and no is the foundation for real freedom. You'll learn how to spot the difference between a clean yes and a guilt-driven one, why honesty in your relationships is essential for change, and how practicing small nos can help you build confidence and self-trust. This is the episode to listen to if you're ready to stop people-pleasing, start trusting yourself, and create relationships built on honesty—not obligation. Email me if you'd like to discuss working together hello@angelamascenik.com Tags:Stop Over-drinking, Angela Mascenik, stop drinking podcast, how to feel, how to overcome addiction, how to drink less wine, change your relationship with alcohol, coach for women who want to drink less alcohol, help to stop over-drinking, stop over-drinking, life coach to help stop over-drinking, self-love, importance of self-love, online membership to stop over-drinking, program to help quit alcohol, how to quit drinking, spouses, partners, food, overeating, moderation, sober retreat, how to prioritize yourself, make yourself a priority to drink less, mental health, mental health and alcohol use, mental health awareness month, how to stop over-drinking, how to stop drinking so much wine, life coach for women who drink too much, use humor to drink less, drink less, where do I start, sober retreat, how to stop over-drinking, how to drink less alcohol, Am I an alcoholic?, why do I drink so much, how to feel your feelings, how to stop the cycle of drinking too much, coaching for women who want to drink less, life coach for drinking less alcohol, stop over-drinking and start living, people pleasing, people pleasing keeps you stuck
You talk all day. Here's how to do it better, according to a professor from Harvard Business School. Alison Wood Brooks comes from the Harvard Business School, where she teaches a course called “TALK: How to Talk Gooder in Business and Life,” which she has now turned into a book, called TALK: The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves. In this episode we talk about: The evolution of conversation Why conversation is a skill — not just a natural talent How to develop conversational skills, including common conversational pitfalls to avoid Granular, tactical pieces of advice on how to have a conversation The science behind conversation that may surprise you Listening tips Conversational repair strategies How kindness can go pear shaped How to handle difficult moments in conversation The difference between focusing on other people and people pleasing How to integrate these incredible learnings into your life How soft skills are becoming increasingly more valuable with the rise of AI Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources: Alison's band, The Lights On Sunday, September 21st from 1-5pm ET, join Dan and Leslie Booker at the New York Insight Meditation Center in NYC as they lead a workshop titled, "Heavily Meditated – The Dharma of Depression + Anxiety." This event is both in-person and online. Sign up here! Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more at eomega.org/workshops/meditation-party-2025. To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris Sponsors: Function Health: Learn more and join using our link. Visit www.functionhealth.com/HAPPIER to own your health. Factor Meals: Eat smart at FactorMeals.com/TENPERCENT50OFF and use code TENPERCENT50OFF to get 50% off your first box, plus free breakfast for 1 year. AT&T: Staying connected matters. That's why AT&T has connectivity you can depend on, or they will proactively make it right. Visit att.com/guarantee for details.
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What a great conversation with Mark Groves. Mark is a human Connection Specialist, Speaker, Author, Coach, Podcast Host and founder of Create The Love. Born with an innate curiosity and a hunger for truth, Mark's journey of self-discovery and personal liberation has led him to spend the last decade coaching and inspiring millions worldwide to create the life and love they desire. Through his candid but compassionate, no-BS guidance, Mark has helped empower countless individuals, teams, and companies to step into their most authentic, effective, loving selves, transform how they relate to themselves and others, and create profound changes in their lives and relationships. Mark and I discuss many topics, among them authenticity, attachment, people pleasing and codependency. We also talk about his personal journey from big Pharma to his realization that we need to look at the whole person in order to find our way to wellness and vitality. Mark is an awesome human and clearly in my soul tribe. Loved this convo! Enjoy. xoxo n. Find Mark: Website: https://markgroves.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createthelovePodcast: https://markgroves.com/podcast/ Click here to learn about all the tiers of BreakAwake membership and the ways to get so much help, guidance, and support: https://www.yourbreakawake.com/membership Want to read MIND YOUR BODY? Click here. Are you an immediate gratification person like me?? DOWNLOAD THE AUDIBLE HERE! And.... The Kindle version! I am so overjoyed to see what this book will do. If you are a practitioner looking to specialize in this work or bring it to your community, get the first module of the Sarno x Sachs Solution for free! Click here: www.sarnosachs.com Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser ALL OUR RESOURCES:Instagram: Follow me on insta @nicolesachslcsw for tons of new contentWebsite: www.yourbreakawake.comYouTube: The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSWFirst Book: The Meaning of TruthFB Closed Group: Nicole Sachs' Support CircleOMEGA General info: OMEGA INSTITUTESubscribe Apple Podcasts Deezer iHeart RadioPublic RSS Spotify