Podcasts about people pleasing

Many people-pleasers think they just hate conflict, but sometimes the real fear is peace itself. In this episode, Diana explores how chaos can feel familiar—and why calm can feel unsafe—when your nervous system has learned to equate busyness with safety. You'll learn how to retrain your brain and body to experience peace as something steady, safe, and deeply good. FREE CLASS: The Myths of People Pleasing. Sign up at www.rympodcast.com The People Pleasing Cure, 6-Week Class with Coaching from Diana: Sign up at www.rympodcast.com

This Santa Barbara cake artist turned her side hustle into a brand featured in Vogue Weddings and People Magazine, and she did it without a huge social media following. In this episode of Unbreakable Business, I sit down with Laurie Petrolino, baker, business owner, and Honeybook member. Laurie owns Room For Cake, where she creates stunning cakes for special occasions (and even some high profile clients). Listen in as she shares how she grew a thriving cake business by leaning into systems, setting boundaries, and breaking the habit of people-pleasing.The Unbreakable Business podcast is powered by HoneyBook, the AI-powered CRM platform for anyone with clients. Scale yourself and your business with all your leads, clients, projects, and payments in one place. Use the code PODCAST to get 20% off your first year as a new member.Important sections of the conversation[1:26] Wearing Multiple Hats as a Baker and Business Owner[6:46] Does being a people pleaser hinder business growth?[10:48] Maintaining your boundaries as a business owner[15:00] Focusing on relationships over social media growth[26:00] Rapid fire questions [30:23] What does having an unbreakable business mean to you?Connect with the guestWebsite: roomforcakebakery.comInstagram: instagram.com/roomforcakesbConnect with the hostWebsite: podcast.honeybook.comIG: instagram.com/honeybookIG: instagram.com/akuakonadu_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Kristen welcomes returning guest Beatriz Victoria Albina, master certified somatic life coach and author, to discuss emotional outsourcing, how it fuels codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing, and how her BRAVE protocol offers tools to reclaim your authentic self.   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you: beatrizalbina.com Beatriz Victoria Albina's Book 1. End Emotional Outsourcing: How to Overcome Your Codependent, Perfectionist, and People-Pleasing Habits: https://amzn.to/41YkMWB Book Recommendation: 1. Diving into the Wreck: Poems 1971-1972: https://amzn.to/46DLiap   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

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Back when smart-phones were just beginning to saturate the market, I distinctly remember thinking that one of the best features they had to offer was 'Notifications'. Now, of course we'd had text-message notifications for year, but now notifications could come from an almost infinite number of sources. Emails could be read without even unlocking your phone. Health apps could gently nudge us to stand up five minutes at a time. The possibilities seemed endless, but little did we all know at the time how quickly that connectedness would lead to burnout. The same is true in an attorney-client relationship.My guest this week captures this struggle in her newest book, writing, “the way I practiced law had become too emotionally overwhelming [...] but in hindsight, it's a wonder I didn't burnout sooner.”Cindy Rendon is an Attorney specializing in Family Law and Personal Injury matters & the author of, "Judge Me Not: An Attorney's Journey from Burnout to Recovery"Having practiced in both the public and private sectors, in 2012 Cindy would found her own Firm, and while her practice would thrive in the coming decade, Cindy would struggle to balance her desire to help her clients with a need to take care of herself. On this week's episode, she shares her journey & the wisdom gained along the way. Enjoy the show! 

Letting others down may be just what you need to build yourself up.Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter:  @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter: @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks

Sponsored By: → Tonum | For an exclusive offer go to tonum.com and use promo code HEALTHYSELF for 10% OFF! → Cornbread Hemp | For an exclusive offer go to cornbreadhemp.com/drg and use promo code DRG for 30% OFF your first order! Sign up for our newsletter! https://drchristiangonzalez.com/newsletter/ Episode Description: Have you ever caught yourself saying “yes” when every part of you wanted to say “no”? Or smiling through discomfort because it felt safer than speaking your truth? That's not just people-pleasing—it's survival. Psychologist and author Dr. Ingrid Clayton calls it the fawn response: a trauma pattern where your body learns to appease, perform, or caretake as a way to stay safe. It's not a conscious choice—it's conditioning written into the nervous system when speaking up once felt dangerous. In this raw and illuminating conversation, Dr. Clayton joins Dr. G to explore: • What fawning really is — and why it's more than just “being too nice” • The childhood roots of fawning: when kids learn to appease to survive chaos, neglect, or abuse • Why fawning often gets misdiagnosed as codependency, people-pleasing, or “low self-esteem” • The hidden signs: hypervigilance, scanning the room for other people's moods, anxiety you don't even recognize as anxiety • Gaslighting yourself — how trauma survivors often minimize their own experiences with toxic positivity or “it wasn't that bad” narratives • Why setting boundaries can feel life-threatening — and why it must start with building safety inside your own body, not just “trying harder” • The link between fawning and anger: how unexpressed rage gets trapped in the body until you learn to give it voice • How fawning shows up in adulthood: in relationships where one person takes up 80% of the space and you squeeze yourself into the other 20% • Why siblings in the same household adapt differently — one might fight, another flees, another fawns, depending on role, temperament, and family dynamics • The gifts hidden inside fawning: heightened sensitivity, intuition, even artistry and performance — and how to reclaim those without losing yourself Dr. Clayton also shares her personal story: growing up in a chaotic home, becoming a therapist and author, and realizing that even after decades of training, she was still living out this survival response. Her journey shows how awareness, somatic work, and slow, safe practice can turn survival patterns into resilience and presence. If you've ever felt invisible, unheard, or like you're living for everyone but yourself—this episode will help you see that you're not broken. You're adaptive. And you can change.

In this episode of Boss Bitch Radio, we're talking about the real stuff women face in midlife when it comes to health and fitness - the perfectionism that keeps you stuck, feeling like everyone's watching you at the gym, managing stress without burning out, and what to do when your partner just doesn't seem to support your goals. If you've ever felt like you have to “do it all” or that you're failing if it's not perfect, this one's for you. We're breaking down why perfectionism isn't your personality - it's a learned coping skill and how to finally loosen that grip so you can actually make progress and feel good doing it. In this episode, we dive into: Perfectionism & unrealistic expectations Gym intimidation & building confidence Self-compassion & stress management Partners not on board with your goals Grab your coffee, get comfy, and let's get real about what it actually takes to stay consistent, confident, and sane while working on your goals in midlife. ✨Ready to join us inside the Healthy & Hot Method? As a thank-you for being a podcast listener, use code PODHOT for $25 off your first month: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method #MidlifeFitness #StressManagement  #FitnessMindset   Timestamps: 00:59 Let's talk perfectionism and those sky-high expectations 07:27 How to get past gym intimidation 14:12 Making progress without losing your mind 16:40 Managing stress and learning real self-compassion 20:40 When your partner isn't on board with your goals 28:04 Wrapping up + how to join the membership Links Mentioned:   Join us in the Healthy and Hot Method! Get $25 off your first month with code PODHOT - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/healthy-and-hot-method Join the Iconic Coaching Academy! Limited 1:1 spots available - https://www.bossbitchradio.com/iconic-coaching  I'm loving this Cathy Heller's program is packed with gems. Check it out here! https://cathyheller.samcart.com/referral/thisabundantlifebycathyheller/kLZu9Gj7RIEtBF2Q Hey! Have you heard of ClassPass? They're giving an exclusive free trial (with 20 bonus credits!) only available to friends of mine. https://classpass.com/refer/U37R31GQ30   Connect with Diane: Website: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianeflores_ifbb_pro  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dianeflores_ifbb_pro  Join the Boss Bitch Besties Fitness Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dianefloresifbbpro    Freebies: Lower Body Blueprint: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/lower-body-blueprint  Protein Snack List: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/protein-snack-guide  Full Body Training Program: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/full-body-gym-program  Fit Girl Gift Guide: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/fit-girl-gift-guide  My Favorite Supplements: https://www.bossbitchradio.com/myfavoritesupplements   

In this lively and relatable conversation, Brittany and Christina dive into everything from chemical peels and spicy skincare to decluttering your space (and your mind). They open up about the importance of social gatherings, the frustration of ties in sports, and how parenting styles shape confidence and competition in kids.The duo also gets real about trust and technology — how parents balance freedom and safety in a world where tracking apps, phones, and social media play such a huge role. With humor, honesty, and heart, they remind listeners that connection — both at home and within community — matters most. About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

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Is people-pleasing secretly sabotaging your business? In this raw and honest episode, I'm sharing how saying “yes” too often, avoiding hard conversations, and constantly prioritizing clients over my own needs almost led me to burn it all down. If you're feeling resentful, overworked, or like you're losing yourself in your business — this one's for you. Inside this episode, I talk about: The sneaky ways people-pleasing shows up in your pricing, boundaries, and offers The mindset shift that helped me reclaim my power and energy How I moved from self-sacrificing service provider to embodied CEO Simple ways to start breaking the people-pleasing pattern today If you're on the edge of burnout or just done being everything to everyone — let this be your permission slip to take your power back.

This one's for all my recovering “yes” people.You know that feeling when you say yes, but every cell in your body is screaming no?Yeah… that one.In this live class replay, I get real about people-pleasing — where it comes from, how it hides behind kindness, and why it secretly drains the hell out of you. We talk about fake harmony that breeds resentment, why “nice” isn't the same as good, and what it actually looks like to set boundaries without feeling like an a**hole.I also share my own story of burning out (and breaking free) from decades of chronic pleasing, plus how childhood conditioning can turn us into adult shape-shifters just to stay loved and accepted.If you've ever felt like Amazon Prime for everyone else — fast, free, and always available — this one's for you.In this episode:•The difference between being kind and being self-abandoning•Why saying “no” is an act of self-respect, not selfishness•The sneaky ways guilt disguises itself•What happens when you stop feeding the narcissists•And how to rebuild a life where honesty, not approval, leads the wayTake what lands. Leave what doesn't. But promise me this — start checking if your yeses are real.-------Come say hi!

The survival strategy of fawning may have once kept you safe, but it can leave you disconnected, resentful, and exhausted. In this powerful conversation, Dr. Ingrid Clayton, psychologist and author of Fawning: The Cost of People-Pleasing and the Courage to Break Free, joins Christine to unpack trauma and specifically the trauma response of fawning.

What do you really want the second half of your life to look like?  Being a doormat for others, then resenting it? Saying yes, when you really mean no? Doing more tasks or more work, taking responsibility for everything, and feeling overwhelmed in your life?  This can be how so many of us in midlife feel, but I'm here to tell you there IS another way.  In this episode, I sit down with expert Beatriz Albina to talk about a challenge so many women face but can't always name—patterns of overgiving, perfectionism, and the ultimate people-pleasing trap.  Beatriz introduces the concept of emotional outsourcing and how it quietly drives these behaviors, leaving us feeling stuck and drained.  Together, we discuss how reframing your mindset is a powerful tool for reclaiming your emotional well-being. Plus, Beatriz gives us a sneak peek into her brand-new book, End Emotional Outsourcing—a guide to finding freedom, balance, and true self-connection. Tune in here to reignite joy in your life, and find the inner peace you've been craving for years!  Beatriz Albina Beatriz (Béa) Albina, NP, MPH, SEP (she/her) is a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, and author of the book "End Emotional Outsourcing: a Guide to Overcoming Codependent, Perfectionist and People Pleasing Habits". She's dedicated to helping people socialized as women reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and rewire their minds to break free from codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. Béa hosts the Feminist Wellness Podcast, and holds a Master's degree in Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health and a BA in Latin American Studies from Oberlin College. IN THIS EPISODE What is emotional outsourcing, and how can it impact women?  Getting back to the basics for our emotional needs  How our emotions lie in our nervous system– not just our minds   Calming techniques you can do in 5 seconds, anytime, anywhere Detaching from labels like ‘co-dependent' and ‘perfectionist'  How to stay regulated while also setting boundaries  Why reframing your mindset is so important for healing  All about Beatriz's book: End Emotional Outsourcing  QUOTES “This is what happens when we get activated or triggered in our nervous system. When we start being mean to ourselves, when we ignore our impulses, when we project, when we take things personally, when we get offended, all these things– our nervous system is in a different time and place.”  “That's the self-worth work. Saying, ‘I trust myself, I believe in myself, and so I know that this isn't a problem.' And that's that. Not allowing any other thoughts to enter your beautiful mind space, your world, your body. It's really vital work.”  “What our children and our partners, and our friends and our communities and ourselves want and need from us the most, most, most, is presence. Intunement and presence.”  RESOURCES MENTIONED Use code ENERGIZED and get $100 off on your CAROL Bike purchase https://carolbike.pxf.io/GK3LaE Preorder the Perimenopause Revolution and get your VIP ticket to the Perimenopause Solution event  http://hayh.site/pr_bl_ap-snyder_a_opt Order Béa's book: End Emotional Outsourcing HERE http://beatrizalbina.com/book Béa's Website Béa's Instagram RELATED EPISODES  #629: Unlocking Emotional Resilience with Awareness, Lifestyle and Tools to Regulate Your Stress Triggers with Dr. Drew Ramsey #553: Simple Ways to Start Feeling Calm and Safe and How to Align Your Nervous System for More Abundance with Kate Northrup #565: How to Live in a State of Ease and Flow vs. Overwhelm and Resentment + Reclaiming Your Aliveness with Alexi Panos #569: How to Build a Strong Emotional Connection with Your Partner and How to Transform Your Love Life with Vanessa and Xander Marin

What if I told you that one of the sneakiest ways scarcity shows up in business isn't about money at all…it's about people-pleasing? In today's episode of Your Limitless Life, I'm pulling back the curtain on how I've caught myself making decisions from a place of fear — saying yes when I wanted to say no, over-delivering to prove my worth, and prioritizing what other people wanted over what actually felt aligned for me. If you've ever felt guilty for setting boundaries or found yourself hustling to keep everyone happy, this episode is going to set you free.   Links: The Empowered Women's Collective Your Limitless Adventures Group Trips Connect With Me: Instagram: @macs_explore Threads: @macs_explore  

For eight years, Lisa Bilyeu lived the life others expected: a traditional Greek wife focused on supporting her husband and running the home. But deep down, she knew she was meant for more. With no business background, zero confidence, and no clear roadmap, she decided to rewrite her story. She co-founded Quest Nutrition with her husband and built a billion-dollar business. In this LEAP Replay, Lisa opens up to Ilana about breaking free from cultural expectations, showing up authentically in the face of criticism, and how you can build radical confidence without needing external validation. Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, and co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a multi-billion-dollar company. Her mission is to use content creation to empower women to break free from limiting beliefs and build extraordinary lives. In this episode, Ilana and Lisa will discuss: (00:00) Introduction  (02:22) Her Upbringing and the Weight of Expectations (06:44) Velvet Handcuffs: The Trap of People Pleasing (10:55) Transitioning from Housewife to Co-Founder (19:13) Handling Your Emotions in Business  (24:25) How Lisa Tackles Online Hate and Criticism (33:12) The Three Keys to Mission-Driven Content Creation (37:25) Lisa's No-BS Guide to Success  (44:40) Why She Chose Her Mission Over Motherhood  (1:03:06) Building Radical Confidence Through Self-Reliance Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, author, and co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a multi-billion-dollar company that transformed the health and wellness industry. She is also the founder and host of Women of Impact, co-founder of Impact Theory, and bestselling author of Radical Confidence. Lisa's mission is to use content creation to empower women to break free from limiting beliefs and embrace their full potential.  Connect with Lisa: Lisa's Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ Lisa's YouTube: www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu  Lisa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu Resources Mentioned: Lisa's Book, Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JPHK9C3 Leap Academy: Ready to make the LEAP in your career? There is a NEW WAY for professionals to fast-track their careers and leap to bigger opportunities. Check out our free training today at https://bit.ly/leap--free-training

Mazel Morons! Josh is officially in his muscle era- and Ben can't stop gawking. But between gun shows and therapy sessions, we get real about self-improvement, people-pleasing, and when enough is enough in friendships. We debate haters, overspending on birthdays, and why brooms might actually be canceled. Plus: listener dilemmas on spa-day reciprocity, relationship dry spells, and the surprising trait Josh and Ben admire most in each other. It's equal parts gym flex and group therapy. What are ya nuts?! Love ya!Leave us a voicemail here!Follow us on Instagram and TikTok! Sponsors:Quo - Get started free, plus get 20% off your first 6 months at Quo.com/goodguys.Trade Coffee - Right now, Trade is offering 50% off a 1 month trial at drinktrade.com/goodguys.Function - Function is a near-360 view to see what's happening in your body, and my first 1000 listeners get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/GOODGUYS or use gift code GOODGUYS100 at sign-up to own your health.Saxx Underwear - Check it out at saxx.comMomentous - Go to livemomentous.com, and use promo code goodguys for up to 35% off your first subscription orderPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ryan and Kipp dig into building and protecting the relationships that matter: how to communicate needs, spot relationships that no longer serve you, rebuild trust with children after long absences, and strike the balance between work, service, and family. Along the way Ryan shares a harrowing (and hilarious) zipline rescue that reinforces why we should hold our loved ones close. Practical advice, real-world boundaries, and quick tactical habits (like rotating one-on-one lunches with kids) make this episode a toolkit for men working to show up better at home and in community. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 — Intro & topic setup 04:26 — Topic: building relationships (Iron Council prompt) 10:20 — Q: William Pennell — communicating needs 15:47 — Q: Jeremy Kofi — when relationships stop serving 20:45 — Q: Travis Gare — reentering your son's life after absence 31:10 — Q: Matthew Jenkins — prioritizing time with family 40:16 — Q: Christopher Jackson — reclaiming masculine energy 45:19 — Q: Eric Tyler — inner work before showing up in relationships 53:15 — Q: James Grayson — politics, faith and difficult conversations 59:39 — Ryan's zipline story & closing thoughts 01:05:55 — Final sign-off / Iron Council promo   Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1828"It creates a war inside of you. It does not build self-worth. It brings down your worth." - Lewis HowesLewis opens up about spending decades trapped in a cycle of saying yes to everything - not because he wanted to, but because he feared what people would think if he didn't. The constant people-pleasing wasn't creating connection; it was creating an internal war that drained his energy and destroyed his self-worth. He breaks down the harsh truth: when you're doing things solely for validation or to be liked, you're not protecting your peace - you're giving it away. This isn't about obligations or genuine commitments you've made; it's about those draining requests from people who only want to take, the favors that leave you feeling empty, the yeses you give just to stay in someone's good graces. Lewis challenges the belief that courage means suffering alone, revealing instead that real courage is about having the strength to ask for support and set boundaries without guilt.Lewis delivers a practical framework for reclaiming your energy and building genuine self-worth. He walks through the questions you need to ask yourself before saying yes: Am I doing this for me or for validation? Am I giving because I want to, or because I need to be liked? He introduces a simple but powerful practice - saying no to just one small thing today, even if it feels terrifying. The insight that "rejection of an opportunity is not a rejection of you" reframes how we think about boundaries entirely. Lewis reminds us that courage isn't the absence of fear - it's resistance to fear, mastery of fear. When you stop letting fear of rejection control your decisions, you finally create space for the peace and self-worth you've been searching for.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

I'm so excited to welcome back Beatriz (Béa) Victoria Albina to talk about something so many of us quietly wrestle with: emotional outsourcing. Béa is a master certified somatic life coach, UCSF-trained family nurse practitioner, and breath work meditation guide who helps humans socialized as women break free from codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can reclaim their joy. A lot of what we cover in today's episode shows up in her brand new book End Emotional Outsourcing. We dig into what emotional outsourcing really is, how we hand over our sense of safety, belonging and worth to everyone and everything outside of ourselves, and the ripple effect that has on boundaries, relationships and your nervous system. Béa explains why talk therapy alone can leave you stuck, what is actually happening when you freeze in the moment, and how perfectionism can sneak into healing and personal growth. And because you know I love practical takeaways, Béa shares simple somatic tools you can use right now to come back home to yourself. These small but powerful shifts help you rebuild self trust and stop outsourcing your emotional wellness. What you will hear in this episode: What emotional outsourcing really is and how codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing all fit under it (3:58) Béa explains what she means when she says, “you do this healing in relationship…” (25:36)  Practical somatic practices to rebuild self-trust and move away from outsourcing (32:32) How to begin to rebuild trust with yourself and hear what your body wants (38:30) Resources from this episode: Andrea's email list:andreaowen.com/free Andrea on Instagram Andrea's coaching and application page Beatriz's book Beatriz's website Episode 531: Navigating Triggers and Calming the Nervous System with Beatriz Victoria Albina Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I've compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading!   MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ https://andreaowen.com/podcast/696 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you interested in setting better boundaries?  Have you been struggling with people-pleasing?  In this episode, we talk about how we can all live a life we love. Today, I talk with Susie Pettit. Susie has been helping women live lives they love for over 10 years. She is the host of the podcast Love Your Life Show and owner of the Wellness Company Strength: Mind & Body, LLC. She teaches firsthand about setting healthy boundaries, beating your inner critic, conscious parenting, and how to use mindfulness-based tools to beat overwhelm and anxiety. This is a powerful episode for anyone who struggles with what other people want from them. Questions I asked: How did you get started on this journey? How did you notice your struggles with people-pleasing and leave it behind? Why do we need to understand our reasoning for our co-dependency and other actions? How do our expectations go into co-dependency and boundaries? Why is it important to just start where you are? What are the roots of co-dependency? What's the name of your podcast? How do we avoid caring what other people think? Why is it so important to detach from our thoughts? How can we stop judging ourselves? Why do we benefit from just saying no? Tell everyone where they can find you online, and your Warrior group? Topics Discussed: People Pleasing. Boundary Setting. Loving Life. Co-Dependency. External validation. Self-Esteem. Healing from Trauma. Interdependency Your inner critic. Quotes from the show: “Just because we're thinking it, doesn't mean it's true.” @SusieBarolo @SisterhoodSweat “Breaking the habit of people-pleasing starts with little steps.” @SusieBarolo @SisterhoodSweat “I'm going to take my needs as a priority.” @SusieBarolo @SisterhoodSweat “We need to ask for what we want.” @SusieBarolo @SisterhoodSweat “When you're struggling, you need to lead on your support community.” @SusieBarolo @SisterhoodSweat How you can stay in touch with Susie P: The Love Your Life Show Podcast Her Super Popular Midlife Warrior Membership & Book Club Susie's Instagram SMBwell Website Warrior Woman Facebook Group Work with Susie Happiness Habits Program Parenting Teens Program SMBwell on Facebook   How you can stay in touch with Linda: Website Facebook Twitter Instagram Pinterest YouTube SoundCloud   "Proud Sponsors of the Sisterhood of S.W.E.A.T" Essential Formulas

Reclaiming Your Attention is essentially reclaiming your power. Many of us feel overwhelmed by all the things that need attention and this is by design. By examining how media and technology shape our attention, and by practicing strategies to ground ourselves in mindfulness and intentional focus, we can shift from being scattered and depleted to feeling aligned and resourced. From that place, we're better prepared to take meaningful action in our lives.In this episode of Mindset Unlimited, I share some insights and tips for reclaiming your attention to focus on what matters, even when you're overwhelmed.Some of what I explore in this episode includes:Understanding Attention and who's driving itParenting in an age of social mediaShifting out of performance and into connectionWhat to do to support aligned empowermentThoughts or questions?Send me a voice memo: https://www.speakpipe.com/MindsetUnlimited LINKS TO REFERENCES MADE IN THIS EPISODE:5 Steps to Shift Habits of Perfectionism & People Pleasing with Beatriz Victoria AlbinaResponsive Practices to Create a Supportive Relationship with Your Teen with Donna Lynne BooherEmpathy Isn't the ProblemCult of Personality – Living ColourThe Social Dilemma – Netflix Documentary Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention – And How to Think Deeply Again – by Johann HariFrederic Joseph – The Death of Social in Social Media Britannica - AttentionNPR - Nihilistic Online Networks Groom Minors to Commit HarmThis Will Hold - Groyper and Steve Bannon's Online Machine to Radicalize BoysTherapy Jeff – Parents of White Boys, Don't Want Your Kid Radicalized Online? Do These 5 Things CONNECT WITH VALERIE:Ask Valerie (anonymous form)Sign up for Valerie's newsletterApply to be coached on the podcastSchedule an exploration call This podcast was produced by Valerie Friedlander CoachingProud member of the Send me a text!Support the show

Are your boundaries quietly wrecking every part of your life?Break down the hidden ways loose boundaries lead to burnout, resentment, and even unemploymentExplore how boundary issues sneak into your friendships and make you feel like "the only one who gives a sh*t"Learn how weak boundaries in romantic relationships can erase your sense of self—and how to reclaim itDiscover the link between poor boundaries and the toxic work cycles you can't seem to escapeStart defining what you actually want—without guilt, shame, or self-abandonmentLinks:

I thought I was done with people pleasing. I'd built boundaries, learned to say no, and told myself I was free from it. But when I moved back to Minnesota—and started building my second business—it snuck back in. I found myself undercharging, over-delivering, and slipping back into perfectionism. The result? Burnout, loneliness, and even physical symptoms like poor sleep, digestive issues, and constant tension in my body. In this episode of The Self-Loved ADHD Woman Way, I share: How people pleasing shows up in subtle ways for ADHD women Why perfectionism is often tied to proving our worth The physical and emotional cost of staying stuck in these patterns How I'm working my way out of it—and how you can too If you've ever felt like you should be “over” people pleasing, only to find yourself back in the same patterns, this episode will help you recognize you're not alone—and there's a way forward.  

Did you know that being grateful and being a people pleaser are two different things? It can sometimes feel like they're the same, but being a people pleaser means that you are self-sacrificing for someone else, like your parents, for example. There's no sacrifice in feeling or being grateful. So why does it feel like we can't be good daughters if we're not self-sacrificing?    People pleasing is more prevalent than you think, especially among first-generation Latinas. Our parents sacrificed so much to get us the best opportunities they could, so sometimes it feels selfish to do anything other than what they want. It can also feel like you can never take risks because you don't want to seem ungrateful for everything they've done for you. So how do we break this habit and choose ourselves without hurting our relationships in the process?   In this week's episode, we're sharing a workshop I created for the  Understanding People Pleasing Summit with Cora Rennie. People pleasing is a trap, and it will keep you stuck in a self-made cycle of self-sacrifice for way too long. By talking about it, we can identify these habits within ourselves and take the first steps to break out of that cycle. Join me and hundreds of other listeners as we break the people-pleasing cycle and take aligned action now.    Resources Mentioned: www.theerikacruz.com/guided-visualization   Follow Erika on: Instagram @‌theerikacruzTikTok @‌theerikacruzLinkedIn Website: http://www.theerikacruz.com How to work with Erika: Join the waitlist for the Courage Driven Latina program here. Join the waitlist for the Magnetic Mastermind here! Podcast production for this episode was provided by CCST, an Afro-Latina-owned boutique podcast production and copywriting studio. 

In this episode, Tara sits down with licensed therapist, author, and YouTube trailblazer Kati Morton for a candid conversation about mental health, boundaries, and resilience. Kati opens up about her journey from reluctant creator to leading voice in online mental health education, sharing both the challenges and rewards along the way. Together, they unpack the pressures of people-pleasing, the evolving role of social media, and the necessity of setting healthy limits. Kati also dives into her new book, Why Do I Keep Doing This?, revealing her own struggles with control and the valuable lessons she's learned. This episode is a thoughtful reminder of the importance of self-care, emotional resilience, and compassionate parenting. If you've ever fallen into the trap of people-pleasing and can't figure out why, then you need to listen to this episode! Links: https://katimorton.com/ https://www.youtube.com/user/katimorton Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode we're talking about the truths we often avoid — the ones that feel too heavy, too risky, or too painful to face. These are the truths about ourselves, our relationships, and our lives that we push aside in the name of comfort, control, or keeping the peace. But avoiding them doesn't make them disappear. It only keeps us stuck in the very patterns that drain us. Together, we'll explore why these truths are so hard to look at, how they show up in everyday life, and what begins to shift when we stop running from them. If you've ever felt that quiet nudge that something isn't working — but you've been afraid to name it — this conversation is for you. Three Takeaways 1.    Clarity is freeing, even when it hurts. Avoiding truth costs you more than facing it. 2.    Truth builds self-trust. Every time you admit reality, you strengthen your ability to handle it. 3.    Facing truth is an act of courage. And it opens the door to healing, better choices, and peace.   Avoiding truth  doesn't protect us.  It only drains us, leaks out sideways, and keeps us living smaller than we're meant to.     Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!   Need more?  Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:   https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words     Hey! My signature course is live!  I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program.  Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/   Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!  https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour       Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don't forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don't miss a thing!      

Ever feel stuck in patterns you can't shake—self-doubt, procrastination, perfectionism? In this episode, host Natalie Tysdal sits down with Shelly Lefkoe, co-founder of the Lefkoe Institute, to uncover how invisible beliefs shape your health, habits, and confidence. More importantly—Shelly shows how you can change them, permanently. You'll learn:   Where limiting beliefs come from—and why most people don't realize they're running the show   How beliefs like “I'm not good enough” or “I'm not important” quietly sabotage health and self-care   Why affirmations often fail (and what actually creates lasting change)   The link between beliefs, emotions, and everyday struggles like procrastination or people-pleasing   Simple steps to uncover your own hidden beliefs and dissolve them   Real-life transformations, including Dr. Mark Hyman, who used these tools to break free of old patterns Why listen: If you've ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to prioritize your well-being, it's not about willpower—it's about your beliefs. This conversation will help you spot what's holding you back and take the next step toward a healthier, more confident life. Chapters:   00:00 – Introduction to Limiting Beliefs   03:00 – Understanding Belief Formation   09:00 – Impact on Health and Relationships   15:00 – Methods to Overcome Beliefs   21:00 – Conclusion and Resources Resources:   Shelly Lefkoe / Lefkoe Institute: lefkoeinstitute.com   Instagram: @shellylefkoe   Natalie Tysdal: natalietysdal.com | IG: @ntysdal | TikTok: @ntysdal | FB: Natalie Tysdal

Send one way text to Rev Rachel In this episode of Recover Your Soul, I open up about the real and sometimes painful work of loving ourselves fully—both the light and the shadow. We live in a world that says “be authentic,” while at the same time pushing perfection through filters, quick fixes, and unrealistic expectations. It's no wonder we feel torn between who we really are and who we think we're supposed to be.Through the lens of Soul Recovery, we explore what happens when we stop criticizing ourselves with words we'd never say to a friend, and instead begin practicing self-compassion in real life. Together, we'll look at the deeper patterns and beliefs that keep us stuck in not-enoughness, and how those wounds can finally be revealed and healed.Your soul already knows the truth—you are whole, holy, and perfectly enough as you are. When we choose love over fear and release the need to live up to others' expectations, we remember our sovereignty and step into our unlimited nature.Join me in this conversation about authenticity, aging, self-compassion, and the courage to honor yourself for exactly who you are. You are remembering your wholeness, and in that remembering, you are free.This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the show Rev. Rachel Harrison and Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Soul Recovery Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Mods WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts

Want the inside scoop on how to get glowing, youthful, “glass skin”? In this episode, skincare expert Rachel Sims joins Brittany and Christina to uncover the truth about chemical peels, microneedling, and advanced beauty treatments like Sculptra and Morpheus 8.We break down what really works, what's hype, and how to build a skincare routine that transforms your skin for the long haul. Rachel also shares the story behind her clean, results-driven line Miller Marsh, plus tips for choosing the right products and treatments at any age.If you've been wondering whether at-home peels are worth it, how to combine skincare ingredients for maximum results, or if “glass skin” is actually achievable — this episode is for you. About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

In this episode Cath shares an anecdote from her own life about how something her kids wanted to do triggered shame and the desire to people please and what happened. She talks about people pleasing and fawning and the actual nature of people pleasing and what it is really about. If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to www.cathcounihan.com or @cathcounihan on Instagram. Follow Cath on social media here:Instagram: @cathcounihanSubstack: Nurture.Heal.GrowFacebook: Cath Counihan Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Every woman has her Everest - the dream that feels impossible until suddenly, it isn't.  I had my Everest moment and I'm sharing what it was, how I got there, and how you can do it too. And how there's always another mountain to climb, if you want it.  I also talk about the most personal piece of my journey yet: why I wrote The Selfish Year, who I wrote it for, and why it matters right now.  This isn't just about my story. It's also about yours. I'm pulling back the curtain on what it takes to move from a dream to reality.  If you've ever needed proof that your wildest dreams are possible - and the push to finally go after it - this is it.    Get your copy of The Selfish Year  Leave a review  The Phoenix Membership details  Want me as your Coach? Book a consultation here   

Are you the reliable one who always delivers but never seems to get promoted? This episode tackles the frustrating reality many high performers face: excelling in your current role can actually become a barrier to career progression.We explore why organisations often struggle to see top performers as leadership material and share practical strategies for breaking free from the "expert trap" – whether you choose to make changes internally or seek fresh opportunities elsewhere.Key points from this episodeThe hidden trap of becoming "too valuable" in your current role and making everything look effortlessWhy staying in your lane and seeking external validation can sabotage your career progressionHow to decide whether to fight for change internally or pursue opportunities elsewhereThe power of saying no and building boundaries to shift perceptionsWhy updating your CV should be your first step, even before you're ready to move00:00 Introduction: When Excellence Becomes a Career Obstacle01:00 The Expert Trap: Why Being Indispensable Can Limit Growth02:00 Common Patterns That Keep You Stuck04:00 The People-Pleasing and Praise-Seeking Combination07:00 Can You Change Perceptions Internally?10:00 Building the "No" Muscle: Setting Boundaries for Career Growth12:00 Recognising When It's Time for a Fresh Start15:00 Overcoming Loyalty That Limits Your Progress16:00 Taking the First Step: Why Your CV Is the Key to Clarity18:00 Using CV Updates to Create Career DirectionUseful LinksJoin The Catalyst Career Club for 50k+ LeadersConnect with Pam on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pamelalangan/ Connect with Jacqui on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacqui-jagger/ Follow the Catalyst Careers LinkedIn page for career tips and adviceInterested in working with us? Get in touch about career or leadership development, outplacement workshops or recruitment support via the Catalyst Careers website Enjoyed this Episode? If you enjoyed this episode, please take the time to rate and review it on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyMentioned in this episode:Catalyst Career Club for £50k+ Leaders & Managers Moving up the career ladder needs an inside edge - strategies that allow you to unlock your full potential and position yourself as a true leadership talent. And that's exactly what the Catalyst Career Club for 50k+ Leaders provides. No fluff, no corporate jargon. Just a down to earth, purposeful injection of oomph for your career from Pamela & Jacqui Use the code PODCAST to get your first month for £1 https://www.pamelalangan.com/catalystcareerclub

Energy transfer is real—and it can leave you anxious, heavy, or exhausted if you don't know how to handle it. In this episode, Lori shares tools to recognize when you're carrying someone else's energy, respond with grounding and boundaries, and take back your power. Grab the companion worksheet: www.patreon.com/thepositivityxperience Let's work together! www.thepositivityxperience.com  

Wir verraten dir heute ein Secret, das dein ganzes Business & dein Leben verändern kann. Spoiler: Es ist nicht „mehr Manifestieren“, nicht „noch härter arbeiten“ und auch nicht „die nächste Strategie“.Wir sprechen über den einen Shortcut in die Fülle, der so einfach klingt und gleichzeitig alles shiftet: Service.Doch nicht so, wie du denkst. Nicht aus Ego. Nicht aus Mangel. Nicht, weil du dich beweisen musst. Sondern aus purer Herzenergie. Aus einer Frequenz, die dich sofort in die Gefühle katapultiert, für die du eigentlich alles tust.Und wir nehmen dich mit hinter die Kulissen:

It's my first in a series on people pleasing! We're looking at it from all angles, starting with people-pleasing at work. We do it to stay safe, even to get ahead in our careers—but it's actually sabotaging our success! The problem is, half the time, we don't even know we're doing it, and the other half, we've people pleased before we even have a chance to think about what we're saying (soooo frustrating)! In this episode, executive coach, TED Talk speaker, and founder of Encourage Coaching, Katie O'Malley, joins me to talk about how we overcome the traumatized thinking that keeps us in people-pleaser mode, so we can set boundaries and take our power back. Looking for more episodes on people-pleasing? Try epi 87, epi 86, or epi 30. For more on boundary setting, try epi 10, epi 46, or epi 61.Want to work with Remy? Go ⁠⁠here.Find us on:Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.

In this episode, Charity Rochford of NeuroFam hosts an open and heartfelt conversation with her daughter, Corinne, about life as a teenage girl on the spectrum. From navigating friendships and social pressures to embracing strengths in theater and creativity, Corinne shares the challenges and gifts of her journey with autism. Their dialogue highlights how autism can present differently in girls, the impact of masking and people-pleasing, and what it means to find authenticity in relationships. This episode offers validation, hope, and practical insight for families, educators, and professionals seeking to better understand autistic girls' experiences.https://www.ourneurofam.com/www.springbrookbehavioral.comwww.convergeautism.comwww.allabilitiesnofilter.com

You've earned the applause — so why does it still feel off? In this episode, we explore why affirmation can't anchor your identity, and how obedience, not approval, is the path to real peace.You've said yes when everything in you whispered no.You've chased the next achievement, the next “well done,” hoping it would finally feel like enough.And yet… something inside still aches.This episode of The Recalibration is for the high-capacity human who's done everything right — but quietly wonders why applause still feels hollow.Julie Holly brings emotional clarity, biblical insight, and deep identity wisdom as she explores why social validation can't hold what only obedience can anchor. You'll hear a vulnerable personal story, a powerful contrast between Peter and Jonah, and the deeper reason so many high performers struggle with approval addiction — even after success.Inside this episode:Why people-pleasing often begins as a safety strategyHow Peter's denial and Jonah's resistance both stem from identity misalignmentThe nervous system's role in approval-seekingWhy performance drains but presence restoresWhy obedience — not applause — is the only secure anchorToday's Micro Recalibration: Obedience isn't just about saying yes — it's about choosing alignment even when it costs you something socially. That could look like disappointing others, releasing an image you've curated, or following God's whisper instead of the crowd's cheer.Where am I saying yes to people but no to God?Write down one place you're called to obey — even if it costs approval.If this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.

In this episode, I coach Shonni through the pain of difficult family relationships and the deep emotions that come with them—grief, sadness, overwhelm, and fear. Together we uncover how her anxiety, thought patterns, and people-pleasing tendencies are shaping the way she relates to her adult daughter. You'll hear how we begin to shift her perspective toward finding confidence, bringing the love, and embodying a healthier way to connect. The People Pleasing Cure starts October 18, 2025. Sign up here: https://ryminstitute.thinkific.com/courses/People_Pleasing_Cure

The road from constant people-pleasing to finally feeling at home with herself led today's guest, Beatriz Victoria Albina, to go from a traditional medical practice to becoming a holistic and somatic practitioner. Blending science with the sacred, Bea is helping us understand how regulating our bodies and emotions is far more powerful than just thought work alone.      Chapters 00:28 - Meet Bea Albina 01:38 - From traditional medicine to somatic practitioner  06:13 - Honoring both the science and the sacred   11:03 - Emotional outsourcing and external validation 18:47 - Getting out of our heads and into our bodies 28:55 - Pre-order the book and grab your free gifts     To pre-order Bea's new book Emotional Outsourcing and claim your free gifts, go to https://beatrizalbina.com/book/   To apply for a spot to the next Joy in the Journey transformational retreat at Miraval Arizona, visit https://www.HeatherJoyHubbard.com/JoyInTheJourney Leave a comment on the YouTube version of this episode at https://youtu.be/UU50Jotv27o

You can't follow God fully while living for the approval of people. In this episode, Mike and Tiffany talk about breaking free from people-pleasing, setting healthy boundaries, and finding confidence in God's calling, not in what others think.

It's here!!!My new book In Pursuit is officially out in the world, and in this bonus episode I'm giving you a taste of what's inside.So many of us are living in what I call the Prison - chasing approval, checking the boxes, proving our worth. Life looks fine on paper, but inside it feels gray and numb.This book (and this episode) is for you if:You've done everything “right” but still don't feel fulfilledYou're exhausted from performing instead of livingYou're waiting for the next goal to finally flip the switch and make you feel enoughYou're ready to stop fixing yourself and start coming home to yourselfIn In Pursuit, I walk you through three powerful movements: The Prison - seeing what's been keeping you stuck The Path - learning to quiet the critic and practice self-loyalty The Pursuit - creating a life that feels alive, aligned, and fully YOUI'll read a few excerpts, share my story, and give you a clear picture of why this book matters right now.

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In this lively and thought-provoking conversation, Brittany and Christina cover a wide spectrum of modern life — from lighthearted fashion influences and shopping habits to deeper discussions on health, nutrition, and the state of our society.They dive into the popularity of protein drinks, the science and struggles of fasting, and the role supplements play in wellness routines. The episode takes a sharp turn into heavier territory with critiques of media sensationalism, society's desensitization to violence, and the importance of fostering civility in public discourse.Adding personal anecdotes, Brittany shares her fashion finds influenced by Instagram and her jury duty experience, while Christina reveals the unexpected legal consequences of small everyday actions. Together, they wrap up by looking at upcoming events and the importance of community engagement in times when connection matters most.Whether you're interested in fashion, nutrition, social commentary, or just love engaging conversations full of humor and honesty, this episode has something for you.About Brittany and Christina:Meet Brittany and Christina, your dynamic podcast hosts who bring their unique blend of expertise, passion, and life experience to every conversation.Brittany, affectionately known as Britt, mom, mommy, bruh, and Queen, lives in Vancouver with her husband and their three fantastic kids (tweens and teens, hence the playful nicknames). Together for nearly two decades, Brittany and her husband share a love for travel and adventure. A self-proclaimed endurance sport junkie, Brittany thrives on pushing herself beyond her comfort zone to unlock her full potential. As a coach, she specializes in helping clients overcome overwhelm by aligning personal goals and values with actionable steps for success. Her greatest joys come from connecting with new people and witnessing their incredible achievements.Christina Lecuyer, a former professional golfer and TV host, is recognized as one of GlobeNewswire's Top Confidence Coaches. She works with clients worldwide, including entrepreneurs, Wall Street executives, stay-at-home moms, and small business owners. Through her signature "Decision, Faith & Action" framework, Christina has guided thousands of clients in creating their own versions of fulfillment and success, often leading to thriving six- and seven-figure businesses. Her 1-on-1 coaching model focuses on mindset and strategy to build self-trust, confidence, and long-term results.Together, Brittany and Christina bring their authentic, energetic, and empowering perspectives to help listeners navigate life, achieve their goals, and embrace their fullest potential. Feeling like you want to share a hot topic you'd like us to discuss on the podcast? Send us a DM over on Instagram at @anythingbutaveragepod. Your hot topic just might make it in the next episode!

In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the truth behind the phrase “Nice Guys Never Win.” He explains how the tendency to avoid conflict, suppress needs, and chase approval leads to weak boundaries, indecision, and frustration in relationships and careers.  Ryan outlines the real costs of “nice guy syndrome” and challenges men to reclaim respect through clarity, honesty, and decisive action. He closes with five daily practices to help men stop self-betrayal and start leading with conviction. This episode is a direct, no-fluff call for men to stop playing the victim and step into responsibility. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Defining the Nice Guy 02:13 – Consequences of Nice Guy Syndrome 04:32 – Indecisiveness and People Pleasing 06:53 – Suppressing Needs and Passive Aggression 09:18 – Inauthenticity and Fear of Judgment 11:43 – Playing the Victim 13:51 – Confusion, Distrust, and Frustration 18:43 – The Cycle of Anger and Resentment 20:46 – Five Daily Practices to Overcome 27:58 – Closing Thoughts and Challenge Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

The constant yes, the quiet self-betrayal, the shrinking of your needs to keep the peace. I'm breaking down what's really happening energetically when you live in a state of people pleasing and how it pulls you out of your power. You'll learn how to shift that dynamic, anchor into self-trust, and begin showing up as the fullest expression of you. Join Claim Your Power Membership for monthly workshops, community calls, Q&A, meditation challenges & sisterhood

In this episode, Alyssa Campbell M.Ed., emotional intelligence researcher and CEO of Seed & Sew, joins us to talk about raising confident, connected kids. With a background in early childhood education, Alyssa shares practical tools to help parents and caregivers support children's emotions during the critical but often overlooked ages of 5 to 12. We explore how to guide kids through big feelings, set boundaries with compassion, and respond intentionally so they can grow into emotionally intelligent humans.→ Leave Us A Voice Message! Topics Discussed:→ Raising emotionally intelligent kids→ Effective strategies for handling children's meltdowns→ The impact of emotional intelligence on kids' social awareness→ The FACTS method for emotional regulation→ Talking to kids about screens, puberty, and drugsSponsored By: → Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at https://www.bewellbykelly.com.→ AG1 | Head to https://www.drinkag1.com/bewell to get a FREE Welcome Kit with the flavor of your choice that includes a 30 day supply of AGZ and a FREE frother. → WeNatal | You can use my link, https://www.wenatal.com/kelly, with any subscription order, to get a free one month supply of WeNatal's Omega DHA+ Fish Oil valued at 35 dollars.→ Manukora | Head to https://www.manukora.com/kelly to save up to 31% plus $25 worth of free gifts with the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar, 5 honey travel sticks, a wooden spoon, and a guidebook! Timestamps: → 00:00:00 - Introduction→ 00:02:59 - What is Emotional Intelligence→ 00:08:05 - Social Awareness & Comparison→ 00:15:21 - Triangle of Growth→ 00:18:41 - Adult and Child Dynamics→ 00:24:01 - Social Pressure & Public Crying→ 00:28:56 - People Pleasing→ 00:36:16 - Guiding Kids Through Big Emotions→ 00:40:18 - Emotionally Sensitive Kids→ 00:47:03 - The FACTS Method→ 00:55:34 - Deepening Parent-Child Connection→ 00:57:34 - Screens, Puberty & The ‘Sex Talk'→ 01:06:51 - Creating Safety→ 01:09:45 - Naming Body Parts + Drugs & Alcohol→ 01:13:36 - Where to Find AlyssaShow Links → Seed QuizCheck Out Alyssa:→ Instagram: @seed.and.sew→ Website: Seed & Sew→ Book: Big Kids, Bigger Feelings (Available Sept 16, 2025)→ Podcast: Voices of Your Village→ Free ResourcesCheck Out Kelly:→ Instagram→

530. Do you often find yourself agreeing to things you don't want to do? In this episode, we look at the deep psychological and cultural reasons behind people-pleasing, from social conditioning to the fear of rejection. We look at how this tendency can lead to burnout, resentment, and a loss of self-trust, and offer ways to understand why you might struggle to say "no.”Find a full transcript here. Savvy Psychologist is hosted by Dr. Monica Johnson. Have a mental health question? Email us at psychologist@quickanddirtytips.com. Find Savvy Psychologist on Facebook and Twitter, or subscribe to the newsletter for more psychology tips.Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

On this week’s episode, Jennie chats with Chrissy Metz, actress, singer, author, and all-around light. Chrissy opens up about her powerful role in The Hunting Wives, the lessons she’s learned about boundaries and navigating her strong people-pleasing leanings. This is a candid conversation about resilience, grace and why self-love is never selfish. Follow the "I Choose Me" Podcast on Instagram and TikTok Follow Jennie on Instagram, TikTok, and FacebookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.