Podcasts about fighting fair

In part two of our From This Day Forward series, we dive into the powerful principle of “Fighting Fair.” Whether you're married, dating, or navigating other important relationships, this message offers biblical wisdom and real-world practicality for handling conflict with grace. Discover how to approach disagreements with empathy, seek peace over victory, and grow stronger together—because healthy couples don't avoid conflict, they learn to handle it God's way.

Some couples seem to fight all the time. Fighting is unhealthy unless they fight fairly. That means confessing and apologizing to each other. Then they must begin to develop new patterns of relating to each other in a patient and tolerant way.Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/lovelanguageminuteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why do so many couples lose that early chemistry—and what can they do about it? In this episode of Sofia Unfiltered, we talk with a certified sex and relationship coach about the root causes of emotional and physical disconnection. From mismatched libidos to sexless marriages, we unpack what's really going on behind closed doors—and how couples can rebuild desire, connection, and communication.In This Episode, We Discuss:Why communication often breaks down over time—and how to repair itHow attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, secure) play out in conflictThe role of the nervous system in emotional reactivity and shutdownWhy many women feel obligated in sex—and how to reclaim agency and pleasureTangible tools for building emotional safety, connection, and trustHow mindful touch, regular check-ins, and breathwork can de-escalate argumentsWhy conflict can be a doorway to deeper intimacy when approached intentionallyEpisode Resources:Visit Kristen's websiteConnect with Kristen on LinkedInBuy Kristen's must-read for couples, Non-Violent Communication by Marshall RosenbergTake ActionStruggling with the same arguments, emotional disconnection, or unmet needs in your relationship? You're not alone, and you don't have to figure it out on your own. Explore Sofia Health's support options to reconnect, repair, and rebuild:Relationship & Intimacy CoachingTherapists & Mental Health CounselorsSomatic & Nervous System HealingCouples Communication ToolsSpiritual & Embodiment SupportThank you so much for tuning in! If you enjoyed the content, we would love it if you took 2 minutes to leave a 5-star review!The Sofia Unfiltered by Sofia Health is for general informational and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services, including the giving of medical advice. No doctor/patient relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have. For any health concerns, users should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals.

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Learning to fight fair in marriage is a growth area for many couples. Instead of fighting fair, many spouses fight unfair and doing so eventually destroys their relationship. How you handle conflict often impacts your entire relationship. In this episode, I discuss two examples on how to fight fair from my marriage.

Most men either shut down or blow up when it comes to conflict. But what if there's another way? In this episode, we'll show you how to stay emotionally grounded in heated moments, how to de-escalate without backing down, and how to repair with confidence. Discover what it means to fight fair—like a man who knows his worth, honors his partner, and leads with emotional maturity.

Most men either shut down or blow up when it comes to conflict. But what if there's another way? In this episode, we'll show you how to stay emotionally grounded in heated moments, how to de-escalate without backing down, and how to repair with confidence. Discover what it means to fight fair—like a man who knows his worth, honors his partner, and leads with emotional maturity.

In this powerful and heart-opening episode, I'm joined by relationship coach and registered psychotherapist (Qualifying), Tannaz Hosseinpour, for a deep dive into one of the most important skills we can learn: how to communicate with compassion—especially when things get hard.Tannaz and I explore what it really means to fight fair, how to stay regulated when emotions run high, and why our nervous system responses matter more than we think in conflict. We talk about how to validate another's experience without compromising your truth, the impact of inner voice development, and why true emotional intimacy starts with curiosity, not control.✨ In this episode we cover:The importance of nervous system regulation during conflictWhy curiosity is more effective than control in communicationLearning to hold space for multiple truths (even when you disagree)Rewriting your inner voice after parental or societal criticismNavigating triggers, emotional reactivity, and finding safety in yourselfHow conflict, when done consciously, can deepen connectionIf you've ever felt like conflict is something to avoid—or something you have to “win”—this conversation may offer a completely new perspective on healing, connection, and emotional safety.

Learn more about Christian Leader™ Community Coaching:https://www.ryanfranklin.org/communitycoaching In this powerful episode, Ryan sits down with Dr. Carl Wilson to unpack his popular lesson, Fighting Fair in Love and Relationships. Whether you're navigating marriage, ministry, or leadership, these 10 steps to handling conflict can transform the way you communicate. From taking it private to keeping it real, from listening to understanding to knowing when to walk away—Dr. Wilson brings wisdom, vulnerability, and practical insight rooted in both science and scripture. Don't miss this fast-paced, honest conversation that could radically improve your relationships and leadership effectiveness.Connect with Dr. Carl Wilson:www.covenanteducationalcenter.orgPurchase The Christian Leader Blueprint book today: https://www.ryanfranklin.org/blueprintbookDownload The Christian Leader Blueprint – Short Guide (Free): https://www.ryanfranklin.org/blueprint Take the Christian Leader™ Self-Assessment (Free):https://www.ryanfranklin.org/clselfassessment YouTube and Audio Podcast: https://www.ryanfranklin.org/leaderpodcast Connect with Ryan: Email: info@ryanfranklin.org Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rnfranklin/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rnfranklin/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rnfranklin/ Audio mastering by Apostolic Audio: https://www.apostolic-audio.com#leadership, #thoughtleadership, #ministry, #pastor, #pastors, #churches, #leadershiptraining, #churchleader, #churchleaders, #influence, #leadershipdevelopment, #coaching, #executivecoach, #leadershipcoaching, #productivitycoach, #productivity, #growthmindset, #theproductiveleader, #ChristianLeader, #ChristianLeadership, #LeadershipPodcast, #FaithAndBusiness, #PodcastInterview, #ChristianEntrepreneurship, #KingdomImpact, #PodcastInspiration, #LeadershipJourney, #PurposeDriven, #ChristianPodcast, #LeadershipEssentials, #LeadershipFundamentalsSend us a text

Conflict in marriage is like a fire: handled with care, it brings warmth. Mishandled? You burn the whole house down. Every married couple fights—yes, even the ones on Instagram who do synchronized Bible study videos in matching flannel.The issue isn't if you fight—it's how you fight.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." — James 1:19Let's talk about what fighting fair actually looks like.First, listen before you launch. Don't load up your rebuttal while your spouse is still talking. That's not a conversation—that's just verbal dodgeball.Second, tone matters. You can say, “I didn't mean that,” but once it's out there—your spouse heard it in your tone.Third, no below-the-belt shots. No bringing up 2014. No using words like “always” and “never.” (Unless you're saying, “I'll always love you,” or “I'll never give up on us.” Those are allowed.)Conflict becomes holy when you remember you're not enemies—you're allies.And hey, sometimes humor helps. If things get too heated, take a break. Walk around the block. Hug awkwardly in silence until you both crack up. Just remember—the goal is connection, not conquest.Fighting fair means inviting the Holy Spirit into the heat. It means disagreeing without dishonoring. It means saying, “Let's work through this—together—with Jesus in the middle.”Question of the Day:How can you handle disagreements with more grace and less damage?Mini Call to Action:Next time you feel tension rising, stop and pray—even if it's just, “Lord, don't let me say something dumb.” Then talk… slowly.Let's Pray:Father, teach us to fight for each other, not against each other. Help us be slow to speak, quick to listen, and filled with Your peace in every disagreement. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Because a healthy marriage doesn't avoid fights—it redeems them.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe

Conflict in marriage is like a fire: handled with care, it brings warmth. Mishandled? You burn the whole house down. Every married couple fights—yes, even the ones on Instagram who do synchronized Bible study videos in matching flannel.The issue isn't if you fight—it's how you fight.Our springboard for today's discussion is:"Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger." — James 1:19Let's talk about what fighting fair actually looks like.First, listen before you launch. Don't load up your rebuttal while your spouse is still talking. That's not a conversation—that's just verbal dodgeball.Second, tone matters. You can say, “I didn't mean that,” but once it's out there—your spouse heard it in your tone.Third, no below-the-belt shots. No bringing up 2014. No using words like “always” and “never.” (Unless you're saying, “I'll always love you,” or “I'll never give up on us.” Those are allowed.)Conflict becomes holy when you remember you're not enemies—you're allies.And hey, sometimes humor helps. If things get too heated, take a break. Walk around the block. Hug awkwardly in silence until you both crack up. Just remember—the goal is connection, not conquest.Fighting fair means inviting the Holy Spirit into the heat. It means disagreeing without dishonoring. It means saying, “Let's work through this—together—with Jesus in the middle.”Question of the Day:How can you handle disagreements with more grace and less damage?Mini Call to Action:Next time you feel tension rising, stop and pray—even if it's just, “Lord, don't let me say something dumb.” Then talk… slowly.Let's Pray:Father, teach us to fight for each other, not against each other. Help us be slow to speak, quick to listen, and filled with Your peace in every disagreement. In Jesus' name, amen.Let's Get To Work!Because a healthy marriage doesn't avoid fights—it redeems them.Support MyR2B Ministries:MyR2B Ministries is our full-time ministry. Your paid subscription helps sustain this work and expand our ministry outreach. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe

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Conflict in families is a matter of when, not if, but it's not necessarily something we should shy away from.  Done well, working through conflict can help you grow and can teach your children how it's done.  Who you fight with, what you fight about, and how often you fight matters less than HOW you do it.   

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.Fighting with loved ones can be tough. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs dives into why the fights happens and how to handle them better. Learn how small issues, like a forgotten anniversary or a simple comment, can escalate into big arguments, leaving both partners feeling hurt. To break this cycle of anger and arguments, Alastair introduces three essential rules for fighting fair. These rules help couples see arguments as chances to connect, keep communication respectful and work together to find solutions. For anyone looking to improve their relationship and argue less, this episode is packed with practical strategies. Key Takeaways: Arguments can be chances to understand your partner better, not just to defend yourself. Keeping communication respectful during heated moments is crucial for a healthy relationship. Working together to find solutions can strengthen your bond instead of tearing it apart. Seeing conflicts as opportunities can change the way you approach disagreements in relationships, and Time-outs during arguments are a sign of wisdom, not weakness; take a break if needed. Links referenced in this episode:For more information (and FREE resources) of how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.To learn more about The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course/.

Lisa and I continue our conversation on praying for one another. I consider how we must fight the Lord's battles the Lord's way in our culture wars. We remember Joseph feasting with his brothers, seek ministry partners and rejoice that our Lord reigns and is coming again in power and glory.

Marriage isn't autopilot. It's not “set it and forget it.” It's an active process of leading, learning, and laughing your way through life together. In this episode, Pastor Q and his wife Trish get real about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of 33+ years of marriage.DOWNLOAD THE SHOW NOTES

Pastor Roscoe opens up about the realities of marriage—how the idealized dream of living a perfect life together often collides with the challenges of real-life conflicts. Drawing from personal experiences, he shares how disagreements are inevitable, but it's how we handle them that makes all the difference. Pastor Roscoe covers the four biggest pitfalls—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—and offers practical advice on how to turn conflict into a chance for growth. With a focus on kindness, listening, and compromise, this message encourages couples to tackle problems together, view each other as teammates, and build a marriage that's stronger for it.

Pastor Roscoe opens up about the realities of marriage—how the idealized dream of living a perfect life together often collides with the challenges of real-life conflicts. Drawing from personal experiences, he shares how disagreements are inevitable, but it's how we handle them that makes all the difference. Pastor Roscoe covers the four biggest pitfalls—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—and offers practical advice on how to turn conflict into a chance for growth. With a focus on kindness, listening, and compromise, this message encourages couples to tackle problems together, view each other as teammates, and build a marriage that's stronger for it.

Episode 95: Fighting Fair – Navigating Conflict Without Chaos

Download our FREE Relationship Toolkit! Explore the importance of healthy conflict resolution in maintaining a strong and loving partnership, especially in retirement. Do you fight fair? As disagreements are inevitable it does not have to be damaging. Today, we talk about essential tips to help you navigate arguments with respect and empathy, fostering deeper understanding and growth both individually and as a couple. At the end, we share 3 strategies for engaging thoughtfully with your partner. #retirement_transformed #retirementcouple #retirement USEFUL FINANCIAL TOOLS https://geni.us/new_retirement Use this link for a FREE 14 Day Trial! [Get the FREE Downsizing Guide] How to prepare to downsize your home

Send us a textUnlock the secrets to fighting fairly in your marriage and learn how to communicate effectively with your partner. Join me, John Thurman, as I share ten proven tips to help you and your spouse handle conflicts constructively. Drawing from over five decades of marriage and insights from Dr. John Gottman's research, we tackle the common pitfalls in relationships where conflicts are recurrent and often unsolvable. Learn how to keep disputes private, prioritize solvable issues, and protect your children from emotional harm while building a more resilient and loving partnership. Ever wonder why specific phrases can escalate an argument faster than a wildfire? Discover why words like "you never" or "you always" are best left unsaid and how staying on point can transform your disagreements into productive conversations. With actionable strategies, we'll explore how active listening and maintaining respect can bridge the gap between misunderstanding and connection. Plus, find out why taking a break during heated moments isn't just okay—it's necessary for conflict resolution. Equip yourself with the tools to differentiate between solvable and unsolvable issues, ensuring your energy is directed towards building a stronger, more resilient relationship.Check out the article5 Ways to Improve Your Relationship, Blog

Get our Premium podcast feed featuring all the breakout sessions from the RENEW gathering early.  https://reallifetheologypodcast.supercast.com/  Today's episode will teach us how to build team unity among church leaders. We will discuss best practices for the beautiful but messy work of building team unity and relational health and alignment around our mission of discipleship. Navigating Leadership Unity in the Church Join us in this engaging workshop led by a board member from E2 Ministries on the topic of leadership unity within the church. Originally slated to be conducted by Dr. Gary Johnson, this session delves into the complexities and messiness of maintaining unity among church leaders. Discover valuable insights on humility, practicing biblical conflict resolution, understanding the emotional intelligence among leaders, and cultivating a culture of openness and timely confrontation. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of establishing non-negotiables, knowing the personality 'bents' of fellow leaders, and the precious, yet often messy, blessing of leadership unity. Whether you are a church leader or interested in effective church management, this workshop provides practical bullet points and principles to foster a unified leadership that aligns with Christ's discipleship mission. Check out RENEW.org eBooks: https://renew.org/resources/free-ebooks/  Check out RENEW.org Events: https://renew.org/resources/events/  Interested in more content from RENEW? Sign up for our newsletter: https://renew.org/resources/newsletter-sign-up/  Key Takeaways  00:00 Introduction and Workshop Overview 04:38 The Messiness of Unity 06:49 Biblical Examples of Messy but Precious Leadership 07:56 The Blessing of Leadership Unity 11:10 Handling Disagreements with Humility 12:56 Practicing Biblical Conflict Resolution 16:08 Establishing Conflict Plumb Lines 24:12 Increasing Emotional Intelligence 33:25 The Importance of Presentation 34:29 Authentic Apologies and Humility 38:28 Keeping Disagreements Within Meetings 39:28 Guarding Against Spouse Proxy 45:13 Fighting Fair and Seeking Mediation 47:54 Celebrating Unity and Final Thoughts See below for a longer description: In this episode, Jeff Faull leads a workshop for church leaders on navigating disagreements within leadership teams. Jeff concludes with practical tips on praying over decisions, identifying high-conflict issues early, and seeking mediation when necessary. He reaffirms the value of unity in leadership, returning to the theme of "good, messy, blessed" unity from Psalm 133. The session ends with a Q&A, where Jeff addresses questions on balancing humility with fortitude and making tough calls on when to work through conflicts or part ways. In short, Jeff Faull's workshop provides a practical, faith-centered roadmap for handling disagreements, fostering unity, and staying focused on the mission. Be sure to like, subscribe and follow on social media!  You can find us on: Instagram: @the.renew.network  Facebook: Renew.org  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@RENEWnetwork Twitter: @therenewnetwork TikTok: the.renew.network  Rumble: https://rumble.com/c/RENEW

Arguments are inevitable in any relationship, but how you handle them can make all the difference. In this episode, we open up about a particularly awkward fight we had in front of other people and what it taught us about arguing well. We'll share practical tips for handling conflict with love, navigating hard conversations without causing unnecessary hurt, and learning to fight fair. Whether you're in a relationship, married, or just looking to improve your communication skills, this episode is packed with real talk and helpful insights!

In this insightful episode, Coach Glenn Lovelace shares powerful lessons about managing anger and conflict in relationships. Drawing from personal experiences, including a life-altering accident and a close call involving his son, Glenn delves into the importance of recognizing and managing anger as a natural human emotion. He explores the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" relationship patterns from John Gottman and offers practical tools for fighting fair and fostering deeper connections. From understanding the value of disharmony to using anger constructively, this episode is a deep dive into navigating the complexities of relationships while maintaining self-certainty and spiritual alignment.   For more information about Glenn and for links to access all she has to offer, please click HERE! To watch this interview on YouTube, go HERE. For more information and available downloads, go to: https://ldslifecoaches.com/ All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.  

Sandra Beck, host of Motherhood Talk Radio, interviews Dr. Mark Borg, author of Making Your Crazy Work for You and Don't Be a Dick!. Dr. Mark B. Borg, Jr., Ph.D., a renowned community psychologist and psychoanalyst, is a founding partner of The Community Consulting Group and serves as a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute. With extensive writing on the intersection of psychoanalysis and community crisis intervention, Dr. Borg shares his unique insights on mental health, relationships, and how to turn personal challenges into growth opportunities. This episode offers valuable advice for anyone seeking to navigate life's complexities with a fresh perspective. Motherhood Talk Radio can be found on popular platforms such as Audible, Amazon Music, Amazon Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, iTunes, Stitcher, Player FM, and Podcast Addict. The show is sponsored by BetterHelp, offering a special discount of 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/motherhoodtalk. Plus, listeners can enjoy 50% off their first month and free shipping on any KiwiCo crate by visiting kiwico.com/motherhoodtalk.

Sandra Beck, host of Motherhood Talk Radio, interviews Dr. Mark Borg, author of Making Your Crazy Work for You and Don't Be a Dick!. Dr. Mark B. Borg, Jr., Ph.D., a renowned community psychologist and psychoanalyst, is a founding partner of The Community Consulting Group and serves as a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute. With extensive writing on the intersection of psychoanalysis and community crisis intervention, Dr. Borg shares his unique insights on mental health, relationships, and how to turn personal challenges into growth opportunities. This episode offers valuable advice for anyone seeking to navigate life's complexities with a fresh perspective. Motherhood Talk Radio can be found on popular platforms such as Audible, Amazon Music, Amazon Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, iTunes, Stitcher, Player FM, and Podcast Addict. The show is sponsored by BetterHelp, offering a special discount of 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/motherhoodtalk. Plus, listeners can enjoy 50% off their first month and free shipping on any KiwiCo crate by visiting kiwico.com/motherhoodtalk.

In this episode, we explore the relationship between mindfulness and emotional intelligence. Join me and my guest as we discuss how being aware of our emotions and the emotions of others can significantly impact our ability to navigate conflicts effectively. About our guest: Scott Dutton is a leading authority in conflict resolution, with a career that spans decades of impactful work across multiple industries. As the Breakthrough Speaker of the Year in 2021, he has been recognized for his engaging, insightful, and highly interactive presentations that have reached more than 50,000 professionals worldwide. Scott is not only Australia's top Certified Virtual Trainer but also holds the prestigious Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) accreditation, placing him among the elite speakers globally. His groundbreaking creation, Conflict Intelligence® (CI), is a simple yet powerful tool that empowers individuals and organizations to navigate and resolve conflicts through collaborative understanding and emotional intelligence. With a rare ability to blend humor and depth, Scott's workshops and keynotes leave a lasting impression, fostering transformation and connection. As the Founder and Director of Fighting Fair, Australia's leading conflict resolution consultancy, Scott's expertise is widely sought by leaders in government, corporate, health, and education sectors. His academic background includes a Bachelor of Social Work and a Bachelor of Science with a major in psychology, providing him with a solid foundation in human behavior and conflict dynamics. A member of several professional organizations, including the Australian Association of Social Workers and the Australian Dispute Resolution Association, Scott is also a Nationally Accredited Mediator. His passion lies in helping individuals and teams build self-awareness, create meaningful dialogue, and turn conflict into opportunities for growth, all while ensuring the experience is uplifting and enjoyable. Follow Our Guest: Website: https://scottdutton.com.au/ https://fightingfair.com.au/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/fightingfair Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottdutton_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightingfair Follow Us On: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thestevehodgson/ https://www.instagram.com/sharewithsteve/ Episode Highlights: 00:00:00 - The Role of Mindfulness in Emotional Intelligence 00:02:56 - Strategies to Enhance Emotional Intelligence 00:04:33 - Awareness of Emotions in Ourselves and Others 00:06:41 - Empathy and Understanding in Conflict 00:08:46 - The Psychology of Blame and Ego

Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in handling conflict. In this episode, Scott Dutton shares how mindfulness and self-awareness can transform tough conversations. Learn how differing perspectives can lead to conflict, but also how understanding those differences is key to moving forward. Scott explained how expectations often fuel conflict and provided practical strategies for managing it with emotional intelligence. Your journey to better communication starts here! About our guest: Scott Dutton is a leading authority in conflict resolution, with a career that spans decades of impactful work across multiple industries. As the Breakthrough Speaker of the Year in 2021, he has been recognized for his engaging, insightful, and highly interactive presentations that have reached more than 50,000 professionals worldwide. Scott is not only Australia's top Certified Virtual Trainer but also holds the prestigious Certified Speaking Professional (CSP) accreditation, placing him among the elite speakers globally. His groundbreaking creation, Conflict Intelligence® (CI), is a simple yet powerful tool that empowers individuals and organizations to navigate and resolve conflicts through collaborative understanding and emotional intelligence. With a rare ability to blend humor and depth, Scott's workshops and keynotes leave a lasting impression, fostering transformation and connection. As the Founder and Director of Fighting Fair, Australia's leading conflict resolution consultancy, Scott's expertise is widely sought by leaders in government, corporate, health, and education sectors. His academic background includes a Bachelor of Social Work and a Bachelor of Science with a major in psychology, providing him with a solid foundation in human behavior and conflict dynamics. A member of several professional organizations, including the Australian Association of Social Workers and the Australian Dispute Resolution Association, Scott is also a Nationally Accredited Mediator. His passion lies in helping individuals and teams build self-awareness, create meaningful dialogue, and turn conflict into opportunities for growth, all while ensuring the experience is uplifting and enjoyable. Follow Our Guest: Website: https://scottdutton.com.au/ https://fightingfair.com.au/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/fightingfair Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottdutton_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/fightingfair Follow Us On: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thestevehodgson/ https://www.instagram.com/sharewithsteve/ Episode Highlights: 00:00 - Episode Trailer 03:13 - Scott's personal story 07:39 - Transitioning into conflict resolution 09:11 - Key learnings from working with parents and adolescents 12:59 - Shifting mindset in conflict 16:29 - The model for difficult conversations 23:50 - The role of emotional intelligence 27:01 - Strategies to increase emotional intelligence 30:25 - Daily non-negotiables for health and wellness 42:10 - Defining success 44:18 - Biggest teachers in life 45:53 - The most difficult conversations 47:04 - Advice from your 100-year-old self

An unspoken agreement with parents raising children is that they will be on the same page and they will be a united front. But that is often easier said than done. In part 3 of our 3 part series with Mary, her husband Antoine joins us to discuss what happens when they disagree, how it affects their 6 year old Oliver, and what they're doing to make sure they come back together in healthy ways.Time Stamps7:34 What does “being on the same page” mean to you?9:51 What does it mean when your child picks up that you are two different people, with two different personalities12:42 For some people, harmony is necessary for the nervous system15:56 Parents might be comfortable with conflict, and your child might need extra reassurance that you're okay18:43 It's okay to give children a sense of control in the situation22:03 Start having your child become aware of their level of discomfort - check in with them, and have them name it22:40 An incredible lesson for a child: I'm uncomfortable, and I can handle it25:50 In uncomfortable moments, prepare the family to brave the storm, and that it will passSometimes we need to table arguments to have them away from children, but it is beneficial for children to see their parents arguing; it can be damaging to only see harmony/”perfection”30:46 Learning to “fight fair”34:28 Repair is incredibly important for children to witness34:40 Ideas of mutual respect and benefit of the doubt40:40 Definition of radical acceptance44:29 Idea that we can be different and still respect each other's ways; you're respecting your individual differences45:49 What do tolerating differences look like?Resources:  Sign up here to be a parent guest on Is My Child a Monster? PodcastTime Out: Resolving Family Conflicts available in both English and SpanishRules on Fighting Fair provided by Therapist AidLeslie-ism: Mutual respect is key for repairing relationship rupturesFor a full transcript of this episode and more information about the host visit https://lesliecohenrubury.com/podcasts/ . You can also follow Leslie's work on Facebook,  Instagram, TikTok and YouTube. Join the conversation with your own questions and parenting experiences.Credits: Is My Child a Monster? is produced by Alletta Cooper, AJ Moultrié, Camila Salazar, and Leslie Cohen-Rubury. Theme music is by L-Ray Music. Graphics and Website Design by Brien O'Reilly. Transcriptions by Eric Rubury. A special thanks to everyone who contributes their wisdom and support to make this possible.

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This week we discuss how we deal with conflict in our relationships and how it affects our sex life. The guys ask Addy for tips on how husbands can get more action, then they weigh in on their favorite grooming habits (yes, these men are actually going to talk about smooth balls)! We get Brad to open up more than we ever expected, so tune in for all the dirty secrets! Give it to us on the Gram: @talksuburbantome  Get more at TalkSuburbanToMe.com

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Communication is a HUGE topic, but let's go through a few basics: Happy, healthy marriages are marked by at least five times as many positive comments about the spouse or relationship as negative When there is a hurt or a problem, use a soft start up. Before launching into a problem, ask your husband, "Is this an OK time to talk about something important/difficult for me?" and respect him enough to wait if it isn't! Schedule another time to talk. Use "I" statements rather than "you" statements that begin with your feeling. Use the form "I feel ________ when you _______, and I'd like to ask you to ________ in the future." Avoid absolutes! "Never" and "always" are rarely true and almost never helpful. When in a disagreement, ask, "How important is this on a scale from 1 to 10?" and take that into account as the conversation continues. My husband and I have formed a few rules whenever we're in a fight that have helped us from going too far and taking a disagreement to a big, personal hurt. You may like to use these rules too, or you may find some yourself. The easiest time to identify what your specific rules are is [unfortunately] after a particularly bad fight. Looking back together, try to identify when something got too personal or mean in the fight and when it turned from productive conversation to harmful. PLEASE try to REFRAIN from blaming or accusing. The point is not to start a new fight, but to share with your spouse how something made you feel. Look at #3 above! If the pain point you identify is something that has happened before and that you know is very painful, you may want to agree that it is off-limits. Make your rule specific enough so that you would know if this rule is broken in the future. Knowing that it is a rule may help jolt you out of a bad situation in the future. When a rule is broken, agree to take a breath, apologize, and work on communicating a different way. The person who is affected should make efforts to forgive and let the offender try again. So without further explanation, here are our rules: No cursing All breaks must have a time limit (set beforehand), and you cannot drive somewhere far away. Stay in the fight until resolution. Don't go to bed angry. More wisdom to be found at the Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/about/ And check out wisdom from Doug Hinderer: https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/about https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wr2PuvQFLTA&t=2225s

In their second episode, Judson and Brian celebrate the joy and vibrance of introducing their new podcast at the Pride Festival in Brooklyn, NY, before tackling the delicate topic of fighting fair in relationships. Whether it's a disagreement with a partner, friend, or family member, conflict is inevitable, and how we handle it makes all the difference. Lastly, they confront the uncomfortable reality of encountering racism and transphobia during a hookup as they answer this week's Go Ask Your Dad question.

 Join us in this insightful episode as we delve into the crucial role of communication in relationships and its impact on intimacy and sexual health. Our sex therapist and pelvic floor physical therapist discuss the influence of attachment styles on communication, conflict resolution, and the overall well-being of a relationship. Discover valuable insights on how to navigate conflicts effectively, foster a secure attachment, and enhance intimacy through healthy communication. Tune in to explore the profound connection between communication, attachment styles, and a fulfilling sex life.  Dr. Molly Hart, Pelvic Floor PT, Owner of Pelvic Balance Physical Therapy Dr. Katie Schubert, Sex Therapist, Owner of Cypress Wellness Center Email any questions to: info.sexonthefloor@gmail.com Follow Us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cypress_wellness_center/https://www.instagram.com/pelvicbalance/ DISCLAIMER: Please remember that this information is not meant to diagnose or treat any medical conditions. Please speak with your medical provider for ALL things related to your health care.

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In this 13 minute episode, I discuss the importance of fighting fair and what fighting fair entails, as well as what to avoid during conflict. ♾ In a fast-paced world like the one we live in, time is one of our most important assets. For a few minutes every episode, I, Tannaz Hosseinpour, will be discussing topics that aim to enhance the quality of your life, by helping you feel empowered to take inspired action on your personal growth journey. Connect with me for daily insights on: www.instagram.com/MinutesOnGro... www.facebook.com/MinutesOnGrow... More resources available on www.minutesongrowth.com This podcast is for educational purposes only. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein.

It's normal to have differences of opinions and even to have heated debates over some of your disagreements. What I think is ideal is being able to let go of the petty, irrelevant nonsense that could lead to a completely unnecessary argument. Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.comFollow me on social media:Facebook.com/DrLauraInstagram.com/DrLauraProgramYouTube.com/DrLaura

It's normal to have differences of opinions and even to have heated debates over some of your disagreements. What I think is ideal is being able to let go of the petty, irrelevant nonsense that could lead to a completely unnecessary argument. Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.comFollow me on social media:Facebook.com/DrLauraInstagram.com/DrLauraProgramYouTube.com/DrLaura

Quite a while ago we did a game changing podcast on conflict resolution with a divorce attorney named Tamara Fackrell, who is trying to save marriages in episode 111. The Podcast Episode That Will Transform Your Marriage!If you haven't heard that podcast episode, it is a "must" listen and we have put the link in above for you. As we have a ton of new listeners, we wanted to do a "part two" on conflict resolution titled "13 rules for fighting fair in marriage." In this episode we share the ways that couples can resolve conflict, and things to implement so you don't have as many arguments or fights. Trust, us, we have implemented many of the things in this (and the previous episode with Tamara that have been game changers for us, that we want to share with you!This is an episode you wont want to miss that will be a game changer in your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

Whether single or married, you can only truly understand yourself as you develop your relationship with God and others. Conflict with close friends and spouses holds a mirror up, helping us to grow in maturity, and to reflect Christ's covenantal faithfulness in our relationships.

Send us a Text Message.On this episode, married hosts James and Trisha Fenimore talk all things conflict resolution within the marriage. From preventing fights in the first place all the way to apologies and forgiveness, they're covering all the bases! Join them as they share some funny and emotional stories, while they help listeners learn how to fight fair.Today's episode is brought to you by a great partner! Check them out at SexEdReclaimed.com

The Collective Talk with Rachelle Francey

In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv receive an impromptu personal therapy session as Dr. Stephanie Sigler teaches throuples how to fight fair. She provides valuable insights, such as the importance of knowing what your “communication language” is, and resources, such as her Anti-Fight Journal, so that conflicts can be resolved in a healthy way. Join our Throuple Community, Throuple Talk's Connection Hub: https://www.facebook.com/groups/367901899061611 If you'd like to send us a

In todays episode, Dr. Jonathan and Edens and Dr. Amanda Anguish discuss different communication methods that we can apply in marriage as it relates to mental health and more.__✨ Click the link for FREE access to Dr. Binus' e-course on Psychiatric Medications - https://beautiful-minds-wellness.teachable.com/p/psychiatric-medications-with-dr-binus

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You know that moment when things go quickly from okay to “What just happened?” in your marriage? Suddenly there's tension and you're totally disconnected. Today, we are so happy to have Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill join us on the podcast. They do a great job explaining what goes wrong in that moment, and how to prevent it from happening again. Tune in to learn more!  Episode highlights include:  The shift that completely changed how they approached conflict  The 1 question to stop asking in fights and the better 1 to ask instead  The Hills unpack what it means that identity is the #1 human need, and how that plays out in marriage A practical tool to easily learn how to emotions well together    How disconnection can affect family life and strategies to handle it    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  Find more from Dr. Glenn and Phyllis at their website: https://www.connectioncodes.co/ and make sure to use the code AWESOME20 for 20% off any of their classes!  Learn more about using this process to connect in their book: The Connection Codes or on The Connection Codes Podcast! Download your free copy of the Hill's Core Emotion Wheel! You are invited to Dr. Kim's free webinar, 8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair in Your Marriage. Get all the details HERE    

This episode explores the art of fighting fair in a marriage (or any relationship really), emphasizing the importance of open communication, respect, and understanding. It provides practical tips for navigating conflicts, such as understanding the nature of conflict, establishing trust, effective communication strategies, setting ground rules, and embracing conflict resolution techniques to foster a healthy and thriving relationship. Make sure you subscribe to my Substack: Thoughts Are Things: http://sarahprout.substack.com Pre-order BE THE LOVE (paperback): https://amzn.to/3oXyqJd -- SPONSOR: Go to http://carawayhome.com/MANIFEST - For a limited time, get 10% off site wide on the Internet's favorite kitchenware. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices