Brown Liquor & Cigars Podcast

If you tell your friend something personal, do you expect him or her to tell their mate? Is a friend's business off limits when it comes to pillow talk? Could a friendship be ruined if one of the friends can't keep a secret? The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars are joined by special guest Skylar Lewis on this FINAL episode, discussing what it means to confide in a friend. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to the podcast!

Some one is always at fault when it comes to breakups. The hard part is determining that guilty party. Is it one side, both....or neither? The Brown Liquor & Cigars Cast Member, Omar Anaya is joined by guest Skylar Lewis and John Patrick Adams on this episode. Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe to the podcast!

Is baggage ever a healthy thing to carry into a new relationship? The men of Brown Liquor and Cigars are joined by Skylar Lewis to discuss the impact of holding on to past hurt in a new relationship. Don't forget to like, comment and share the podcast with your lovers and friends!

Many people think toys are ok (and even welcomed) in the bedroom. However, what happens when you catch your lady pleasuring herself with a toy....and she's thinking about your best friend? The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars and special guest Skylar Lewis discuss their thoughts on it and if fantasies about friends should be off limits?

What would breakups be like if people gave exit interviews like jobs? Is it even worth it or is it better to just walk away without explanation? Keshia Dawn and Tammie Henry join us on this episode to discuss why or why not feedback after a breakup is a good policy.

The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars are back with guests Skylar Lewis and first-timer Keshia Dawn. A new listener recently came for all of us, even Carlos. Find out what happens on this rebuttal episode about expressing your emotions. Don't forget to like, comment and share your thoughts!

The men of Brown Liquor and Cigars are back at it again, with help from Jason Minter. Do gender roles still even matter in relationships? Are women or men more concerned with traditional roles of the opposite sex? Tune in to find out and don't forget to "like", share and comment.

We've all heard of the term 'toxic masculinity' but what does it really mean? Are some men living outdated traditions of masculine behavior or is the world just too sensitive? Jason Minter joins the men of Brown Liquor & Cigars again to dissect masculinity in today's society.

So it's 2022, how important is size? Does it even matter? Should the ocean over compensate for the canoe floating along her sail? Well in this episode Omar is going there and if you've never seen John embarassed, here's your chance... Check it out and don't forget to click on "Like"...

Whether it's relationships, friendships, finances or health, we are at the cent of it all. The common denominator to all of our problems starts from within, even if the problem is not our fault. Kita Martin joins me on the final Trigger Pointe podcast episode to discuss her journey of self-discovery and self-care. It's time to work on you for real. Are you ready to accept the challenge?

Everyone's talking about the recent slap heard around the world. Who was really at fault and should there be a consequence? What deeper issues lie beneath the surface? We're weighing in on it during this week's episode.

Everybody wants to be healed right? Well, the people that help facilitate that healing have a huge task to conquer. Licensed Professional Counselors Chanta Virden and Yolanda Hargrove share their stories of the little known facts and difficulties of being a counselor.

Achieving your dreams is no easy feat. There is no quick road to success. Jasmine Joi and Ruzoy join me on this episode to talk about why people want instant gratification when pursuing their goals.

"Tinder Swindler"; "Catfishing"; "Cassanova" & "Gold Digger", we've all heard of them and some of us have even dated them... Would you loan a "Potential" money? Ladies, would you pay if he forgot his wallet at home? This Podcast, we're going there and it is FUNNY AF!!!!! Check it out, drop a comment and oh yeah, don't forget to hit that heart (Like Button)...

Being an entrepreneur requires more than meets the eye. Cicely Renee joins me to discuss the balance of wearing many hats, navigating the haters and becoming your best competition.

Either you LOVE Omar or you HATE Omar? There is no in between... In this episode, Omar clears the air on some of the many misconceptions about his view of Women... He opens up about his past experiences which were responsible for many of the outlandish comments he's made before... Check it out and don't forget to drop a comment and click on the "Like" button...

Interacting with fake people is unavoidable. However, does it also make us fake if we play into their games? Keith Clark joins me on this in-depth episode about the difference between associates, friends and them backstabbers.

When you've been through a few trials in life, you really don't care what people think about you. D Ellington shares her amazing story on how she came to be so in tune with herself and live on her own terms.

Social media has made a huge impact on relationships, friendships, fatherhood and everyday living. Omar Anaya, Skylar Lewis and Karlon Strather join me on this episode to discuss the delusional waters of social media and brotherhood, from a male perspective.

We all have those moments that make us cringe when it comes to dating, work and life in general. Netreia McNulty joins me on this hilarious episode to talk about all the things we can't stand.

Mental health is quickly becoming more of a catch phrase for some than a genuine cry for help. How do we tell the difference? Cleveland Robinson, LPC, joins me on this episode to offer a professional male perspective on why mental health is about more than just a named condition.

Creating separate work and personal personas can be exhausting. Sophie Greenaway joins me on this opening season 2 episode to talk about bringing one version of self to any setting to avoid burning out.

Is it "love" or "availability"? The men of Brown Liquor and Cigars are joined by Chanta, LaToya and Omar to talk about falling into relationships that we technically didn't want. Should we really call it true love if the person is just settling beneath their desires? Find out our thoughts on this transparent episode. Whether it's by intention or default, don't forget to hit the "Like" button while you're here.

Does the single life equal an unhappy life? Toya, Chanta and Omar join us to discuss the perks of not being in a committed relationship. Tune in to listen to our thoughts on embracing the season of singleness and why it's not good to rush into a relationship. Whether you're single, married, divorced or dating, check out our new episode and hit that "Like" button while you're here

What did 2021 teach you? What lessons are you taking into 2022? in this final episode of 2021, John shares 3 points emphasized on the podcast... 1. Laws Of Attraction 2. Red Flags 3. Grow The Fuck Up Check it out and don't forget to click that "Like" button

What are wifely duties? Does the list extend beyond sex? Toya, Regina and Omar join us again on a hilarious and thought-provoking discussion on the different between the fantasy and the reality of wifely expectations. Tell your wife, girlfriend, husband, boyfriend or friends to check out this episode and don't forget to hit the Like button.

Does a good man mean he's a good husband? Toya, Regina and Omar join us to discuss what it means to be a good man and how society places expectations on the ideal husband. Should the good man and good husband list be the same or different? Tune in to find out our thoughts on it. Good men and ladies (even bad ones too), check out the new episode and hit that "Like" button.

If you're 30+, does having sex on a first date really matter? Toya, Tammie, Omar, Regina and Robin join the men of Brown Liquor & Cigars on this hilarious discussion about sex in today's dating scene. Do you think less of a woman or man who has sex on the first date? Tune in to find out our thoughts on it. Whether it's your first time or not, make sure you check out the episode and hit that "Like" button.

Have you ever done a background check on a person you dated? If so, would you tell the person that you checked into their past? Robin, Regina and Omar join the men of Brown Liquor and Cigars to discuss the reasons why people should and shouldn't dig into their mate's history. Do a background check on all of our past podcasts (and this one too)...and hit the "Like" button while you're here.

What defines a true relationship? If he/she doesn't say they want a relationship, does it give them the right to do whatever they want? Krystal and Skylar join the men of Brown Liquor and Cigars again to find out why some people fall in situation-ships that go nowhere. Tell the ones you're in a relationship with and side pieces to check out this week's podcast...and hit the "Like" button while you're here.

So on next week's episode, Skylar ask John talks marriage.... John shares his truths on why he is content being a single bachelor in a world where many feel if you're not married, something must be wrong with you... Make sure to check back on Tuesday, for the entire podcast...

Why are some ladies who want a relationship still single? Could they be unapproachable or maybe too easy? In this episode, Krystal and Skylar join the men of Brown Liquor and Cigars to discuss the reasons why some women fail in dating before they can even get started. Tell your lovers and friends...and hit the "Like" button while you're here.

As the saying goes, never judge a book by its cover. Creatives (and people in general) often wear many hats and depending on the day, we may want to be judged for exactly who we appear to be. Ultimately, how people judge you only matters if that's how you choose to be seen.

Good guys are often perceived as pushovers and the "last finishers". However, where there's smoke, there's fire. Aric Tucker and I discuss why we should never take kindness for weakness.

We all have situations that we've stayed in for too long. For some of us, we're still staying too long in toxic relationships, friendships or jobs. What will it take to pull out?

Do we always have to have someone around to be fulfilled? Find out how doing things alone can help center yourself and find a deeper purpose for your life. Amir Alexander joins me on this week's episode.

It's ok to care what people think...sometimes. But sometimes....you just don't want to have to give a _____ about what other people have to say. Robi Nickoli, host of It's the ADD Show, and I talk about those moments on this week's episode.

Sometimes the best remedies come in the form of changing your diet and trying natural techniques. Ali Carter and Dr. Lance Groves join me on the latest episode to discuss some of the health hacks they've shared with me over the years.

Whatever happened to "No Means No"? Have men become just as thirsty as women until now they're willing to settle for a woman who already has a man? In this episode, John is joined by Meach, Toya and Carlos and they're going there... You know "Thirsty Boyz"? Buckle your seatbelts, they're about to take you pretty damn fast... Enjoy and don't forget to click on that "heart"(Like)...

So I posted a question in The Dating Conversation on Facebook... After reading some of the ladies responses, we decided to turn it into a podcast.... Ladies, what are some of the mistakes men have made on a first date with you? Joined by Meach, Toya and Carlos...

How bad do you really want it? What are you willing to lose or compromise on to fall in love? In this week's episode "Fellas, She's To Blame", Carlos and John are joined again by guests Tracey and Skylar... Buckle up, it's going to be a bumpy ride.... Don't forget to "LIKE" this episode and spread the word to all your friends who are pointing the finger at the other person...

Would you rather be the one they never forget? Or the one who can get it whenever you want? In this week's episode "Give Me Head", Carlos and John are joined by returning guests Tracey and Skylar... They're going there, so hope you're ready... Make sure to "LIKE" this Episode and spread the word to all your friends who are being held up by the bed...

Are exes of friends off-limits? Is it ok to date your friend's ex if a certain amount of time has passed? Robi Nickoli and Robin Christian join Brown Liquor & Cigars again to talk about the dos and don'ts of friends, dating and exes. Should they ever mix under any circumstance? Tune in to find out. Plus, donate to Robi Nickoli's upcoming charity event, An A.D.D. Christmas in July, here: https://gofund.me/ca589a5d

Can our honesty be too raw and hurt the people we love most? Sometimes what we think is honesty is just a way that we reveal our own demons. Robi Nickoli and Robin Christian join Brown Liquor & Cigars to discuss how truth can turn into tragedy if we're not careful. Is there a way to balance honesty without being cruel? Tune in to find out.

There's a difference between being alone and lonely. Are some of us so desperate for companionship that we're afraid to take a break from being attached to someone else? The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars, along with special guests Tracey Rucker and Omar Anaya, talk about people who make themselves feel better by hopping from committed relationship to committed relationship.

Why is it so hard to leave someone who isn't good for us? Is it a waste of time to try to persuade the people we love to leave their significant other before that person is ready? The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars, along with special Tammie Henry, talk about why it can be so hard to break away from a bad relationship. Tune in to find out our thoughts.

How soon is too soon to mention your intentions for dating if you are looking for marriage? Would you hang around and wait for someone who isn't ready to be married? The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars, along with special guests Tracey Rucker and Omar Anaya, discuss the dos and don't's of dating with intentions. Tune in to find out our thoughts.

Do you have some exes that you still consider as friends? Maybe you don't have a problem being cordial with your ex, but your new boo does. The men of Brown Liquor & Cigars address if it's ok still be cool with your ex. What we say just might surprise you. Tune in to find out our thoughts.

Society has traditional views that can be hard to break when it comes to marriage. What happens when the gender roles are reversed from what we grew up witnessing? Brown Liquor and Cigars, along with our guest Tammie Henry, discuss why a woman proposing to a man may be problematic. Tune in to find out our views on the issue.

BLC: "Check Yo Momma, Not Me" by Real Men

It's easy to look at someone else's life and want what they have. But why do some people ruin their own relationships by looking through the window at another couple's perceived happiness? Brown Liquor and Cigars, along with our guest Jay Christian of the Cognac Room Podcast, discuss why we believe some women harp on relationship goals. Tune in to find out.