Podcasts about mismatched

This week on The Mismatched Podcast, we're talking all things Great Geauga County Fair, animals, polishing apples, and the craziness of keeping up with kids' sports these days. We pay tribute to one of Kristin's all-time favorites, Dolly Parton, and Danna takes us along for quite the night on the town, fine dining followed by a rap concert. Because nothing says Mismatched quite like that combination. 

One of you reaches for sex to feel close. The other needs to feel close before sex is even on the table. Nobody is wrong, nobody is broken, and most couples never say a word of it out loud.In Episode 5 of the DAM Sex series, sex and intimacy counsellor Debby Poort joins DAM to unpack what happens when two people in the same relationship have completely different starting points for desire — and why so much of the disconnection around sex turns out not to be about sex at all.What we get into:What responsive desire and spontaneous desire actually mean, and why one of them is so consistently misread as "you don't want me anymore"Why mismatched libido in a long-term relationship is far more common, and far less personal, than it feels at 11pmWhy a man wanting sex is so often not about what his partner assumes it's aboutWhat happens in new parent couples when one partner is exhausted and touched out for months and the other turns to pornography — and the line Debby draws between when that's neutral and when it's a problemHow to open that conversation at home without it landing as an accusationWhy couples from different countries, families and faiths are working from completely different sexual scripts, and what to do when those scripts contradict each otherWhat Debby wishes partners understood about arousal, the orgasm gap, and how long things actually takeThe one conversation she has in her practice more than any other — and why couples visibly relax the moment they hear itIf you have ever thought "they're never in the mood," or been on the receiving end of "is that all you ever think about," this is the episode.About Debby Debby Poort is a sex and intimacy counsellor based in the Netherlands, working in English with couples and individuals — including a lot of international and intercultural couples. Find her at yellowwood.nl and sexandintimacycounselling.nl. She also runs a free introductory course you can work through at home, on your own, with no commitment and no big conversation with your partner first. It's a genuinely low-stakes place to start.Ep1: Touched Out, Low Desire & Feeling Like a Feeding Machine: Let's Talk About Sex After Baby Ep2: ‘We're Housemates Who Share a Bed' — How Can Emotionally Focused Therapy Help You?Ep3: Obligation Sex Is More Common Than You Think — Here's What It's Really Costing Your Relationship

What happens when one partner wants sex and the other doesn’t? Mismatched desire- or desire discrepancy is one of the most common issues Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz see among couples, and it’s a topic they’re asked about again and again. For this special episode of Sex and the Psyche, we’re turning the tables and putting Jenni and Daniel in the hot seat! Our friend Karen Bigman, host of Taboo to Truth, generously invited Jenni and Daniel onto her podcast for a candid conversation about desire discrepancy, intimacy, shame, and the challenges couples face when their libidos don't match. We’re so grateful to Karen for allowing us to replay this conversation here on Sex and the Psyche, giving our listeners a chance to hear Jenni and Daniel as guests and get a behind-the-scenes look at how they answer the questions they’re usually the ones asking. In this first part of the two-part conversation, Jenni and Daniel explore why desire discrepancy happens, what it can look like in long-term relationships, and why the partner with lower desire is never simply “the problem.” They also talk about why some men shut down or go silent when they’re struggling sexually, how shame can take over in the bedroom, and how the right words can open the door to a much more honest and compassionate conversation between partners. A huge thank-you to Karen Bigman and Taboo to Truth for sharing this conversation with our Sex and the Psyche audience. Be sure to listen to Part 2 for more of Jenni and Daniel in the hot seat! And while you're at it, check out Taboo to Truth wherever you listen to podcasts. You may discover your next favorite show! Follow Karen Bigman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@taboototruth Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/taboototruth/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbigman Website: http://taboototruth.com Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"I want to see Paris, Rome, Amsterdam, Barcelona, and Prague in 10 days" is one of the most common calls a travel advisor gets — and one of the fastest ways to turn a dream trip into an exhausting one. This week, Ryan and Julie break down which European countries actually pair well together, and why the right combination matters more than the longest list.Why Pairing Matters Not every combination works. Mismatched destinations mean long travel times, rushed days, and a trip that feels like checking boxes instead of experiencing a place. The fix: geographic proximity, at least 2–3 nights per stop, and countries that complement each other in pace and culture.Four Pairings That WorkFrance & UK — Paris and London, connected by a 2.5-hour train, pairing romance and art with history and energy.Netherlands & Belgium — Amsterdam and Brussels, a shorter, more underrated combo of canals and world-class art alongside chocolate, waffles, and medieval architecture.Spain & Portugal — Barcelona, Madrid, and Lisbon on the Iberian Peninsula, ideal for food and culture lovers with 10 days to spend.Italy & Switzerland — A scenic-rail pairing anchored by the Bernina Express through the Alps, ending in Milan's fashion and food scene.How to Choose Yours Trip length, travel style, and who's coming with you all shape the right pairing — Ryan and Julie walk through how to match each to your group.Where in the World? A group of friends is headed to Alaska next summer for an Inside Passage cruise — including Wonder and Beyond Travel's very first client ever, who booked the whole thing off a referral chain that's since grown to multiple staterooms.Next week: Julie continues the Disney castles series with Tokyo Disneyland and Disneyland Paris. Trying to figure out your own Europe itinerary? Hit play to hear exactly which pairing fits your trip — and head to wonderandbeyondtravel.com when you're ready to start planning.Support the showLove the podcast? Help us continue to create great travel content by supporting the show. You can do that here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1197029/supporters/newReady to plan your vacation?  Most families are confused and overwhelmed when planning a vacation. We work with you to plan a trip perfect for your family. Saving you time, money, and stress! Visit our website www.allthingstravelpodcast.com and click on "Plan Your Next Vacation"Join the travel conversations and the fun in our Facebook Page and Instagram Page!Please share the show with your travel buddies!!  Click this link and share the show!Never miss an episode and help us take you to the top with us by following and leaving a 5-Star review on your favorite podcasting app!

This week on The Mismatched Podcast…we've got a LOT going on.  Kristin actually had to seek medical attention…so obviously there's a story there.  Then we're talking college parent social media pages and the things parents actually ask on them. You truly cannot make some of this stuff up. Also on the list: Ferrets. Yes, ferrets. Massage chairs College move-in and ALL the emotions Senior year kicking off One kid is moving into college, another is starting senior year, and somehow ferrets and massage chairs made it into the conversation. Just another perfectly normal week on Mismatched with Danna & Kristin.

  This week is a little bit sports, a whole lot of animals, and plenty of feelings.   Kristin recaps the whirlwind that was the Ohio State Fair, from sheep and ducks to all the craziness in between. And somehow, Sheep Detective becomes a real-life game. Because with this crew, of course it does.   Then it's back-to-school time! Olivia and Jack are heading into their senior years, and Danna is having ALL the feelings about Olivia's last first day. She's also pretty convinced Kristin is going to be an absolute disaster when Campbell leaves for college.    And just when you think we've covered enough…we wrap things up with Campbell, a golf cart, and a stranger scare that you're definitely going to want to hear.    Sheep. Ducks. Seniors. College countdowns. Golf cart strangers. Just another perfectly Mismatched week.  

Episode 390: Mismatched Hires?   Today Alan and Trent interact with  "Autopsy of a Mismatched Hire" ByAndy JohnsonJuly 14, 2026 https://baptistsearchpartners.com/2026/07/14/autopsy-of-a-mismatched-hire/  

Episode Overview:  Melissa has been wanting to have this conversation for over a year. She first came across Cathy's work when two quite conservative couples independently told her a weekend tantra retreat had genuinely changed their relationship. Intrigued, Melissa enrolled (without mentioning what she did for a living) and attended with her husband. They both found it valuable. This episode is the result of that curiosity.  Cathy has been teaching tantra for decades, having first encountered the philosophy at age twenty through a GP who introduced her to the idea of loving and accepting her own body. She trained in India, continued her studies in Perth, and now runs Sanctuary of Ananda, a platinum-approved, internationally certified tantra school offering couples retreats, individual sessions, workshops, and online programs. She is also a published author.   The conversation covers tantra's broader philosophy (think tree, not just its roots), how it applies differently across life stages, what we can learn from it, and why emotional connection, what Cathy calls "emotional sex"  is the cake, while physical sex is just the icing. Cathy also addresses the misconceptions head-on: no, it is not a room full of naked people. It is fully clothed, accredited, and grounded in self-knowledge.    Golden Tip: Tantra is not what most people think it is. Tantra actually is a philosophy of self-knowledge, connection and embodied living and how its practices can help couples at any stage of life feel more connected, understood and alive.     In This Episode, We Cover  Tantra is a philosophy of self-knowledge: the sexual practices are just the bottom branches of a much larger tree  Mismatched desire is normal and cyclical, not a sign something is broken  Emotional intimacy is the foundation of physical connection, not the other way around  Men need love, nurturing and non-sexual physical affection just as much as women do  One person changing how they show up in a relationship can shift the whole dynamic  Tantra is suitable for singles as well as couples, in person and online    Key Message from Cathy   Cathy's work is grounded in the belief that every human being, regardless of age, gender, or relationship status, has the capacity for deep intimacy and pleasure. Tantra offers a practical pathway to get there, one breath and one honest conversation at a time.    Resources & Links  Click here for Cathy's website: Sanctuary of Ananda.  Cathy's Facebook: Sanctuary of Souls.  Book a telehealth appointment with our sexual health nurse practitioners at Restorative Health Clinic  For more information check out our websites www.rshealth.com.au , www.makehardeasy.com.au and www.melissahadleybarrett.com.au     Book a telehealth consultation with our sexual health nurse practitioners:  Restorative Health Clinic    For more information visit our websites:  www.rshealth.com.au  www.makehardeasy.com.au  www.melissahadleybarrett.com    Need Support?  At Restorative Health Clinic, we support men and their partners with:  Penile rehabilitation after prostate cancer treatment  Erectile dysfunction  Vacuum pump and constriction ring education and prescription  Penile injection therapy  Intimacy and sexual recovery  Partner-inclusive support where appropriate  Practical, evidence-based strategies for rebuilding confidence and function    We offer telehealth consultations Australia-wide and internationally, making it easier for men to access experienced, compassionate support no matter where they live. If Steve's story sounds familiar, we would love to hear from you.    Restorative Health Clinic also has a psychologist-sexologist joining the team. If you are struggling with the emotional or psychological side of erectile dysfunction, prostate cancer recovery, or intimacy, we can support you there too – as an individual or as a couple.    Listen & Subscribe  If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review The Penis Project Podcast. Your feedback helps more men and their partners find these conversations. Search for The Penis Project Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favourite podcast app.    We also have a free email list for updates, episodes, and resources. You can sign up via our website.     Connect With Us  We love hearing from real people navigating their health. If you would like to share your story or ask a question, get in touch.    Email: admin@rshealth.com.au    Websites:  rshealth.com.au   makehardeasy.com.au  melissahadleybarrett.com    Instagram:  @melissahadleybarrett  @restorativehealth.clinic    YouTube:  Melissa Hadley Barrett    TikTok:  @melissahadleybarrett    Facebook:  Melissa Hadley Barrett  Restorative Health Clinic    LinkedIn:  Melissa Hadley Barrett    TEDx Talk:  Watch on YouTube 

Episode 115: Mismatched sex drives in marriage? Let's talk about reclaiming your erotic blueprint, shedding the shame, and owning your desire. Welcome back, y'all! Hello, hello. Today, we are diving headfirst into one of my absolute favorite topics on the planet—one that is so often swept under the rug, especially when we're trying to decide whether to stay or go. We are talking about sex drives, intimacy, and eroticism.

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Eve welcomes back therapist Josh Davis for a deeper discussion on LGBTQ mental health, toxic shame, self-worth, trauma recovery, body image, intimacy, relationships, and emotional healing. Together, they explore how childhood trauma, rejection, self-hatred, and comparison culture can impact relationships, sexuality, confidence, and connection. Josh shares insights on re-parenting, mindfulness, inner child healing, body neutrality, and creating healthy intimacy in long-term relationships. This episode also includes a realistic relationship roleplay about mismatched libidos, emotional connection, communication, and navigating intimacy needs with compassion and honesty. If you're healing from trauma, rebuilding self-worth, navigating sexuality, or learning how to create healthier relationships, this conversation is for you. LGBTQ mental health Toxic shame & self-hatred Inner child healing & re-parenting Trauma recovery & emotional healing Body image & body positivity Mindfulness & self-worth Gay male culture & comparison Intimacy & communication in relationships Mismatched libidos Emotional connection & vulnerability Sexual empowerment & healing Josh DavisWebsite: https://www.therapywithjoshd.com/ ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards – Best EducatorVote for Eve Website: Please Me! Podcast WebsiteSubstack: Please Me! SubstackPatreon: Please Me! Patreon 30-Day Self Pleasure & Body Reconnection PracticesDownload the Free Practices Sexual Longevity ProtocolSexual Longevity Protocol Affiliate Deals & Partners:Sexual Wellness Deals & Resources Shameless Care Parlor Games SDC.com Lady Pump Share your story or expertise on relationships, sexual health, and personal growth:Be a Guest on Please Me! Podcast

As always, I’m taking time off during the summer. We’re sharing the audio of previous live Q&As that I did on YouTube. If you only listen to the podcast, this will be all new to you! We’ll be back to our regular format mid-August. This episode includes my answers to questions about the mismatched sock […] The post 516: The Mismatched Sock Bin, Guilt Over Decluttering Gifts, and Take It There Now When It’s Already Full appeared first on Dana K. White: A Slob Comes Clean.

Prayer, Bible reading, and spiritual leadership are all good things, but what happens when faith becomes a source of tension instead of connection in marriage? In this episode, Dr. Kim tackle the unhealthy spiritual dynamics that can quietly create distance between spouses: spiritual superiority, spiritual withdrawal, and using faith as a weapon. While most couples don't intend to hurt each other spiritually, it's easy to fall into patterns that leave one spouse feeling judged, inadequate, or alone. He discusses why spiritual loneliness can be so painful in marriage, how comparison and pressure shut down connection, and what it looks like to pursue spiritual intimacy in a way that invites both spouses closer to God and each other. If you've ever felt frustrated that your spouse isn't where you'd like them to be spiritually, or if you've ever felt like you could never measure up, this conversation offers practical encouragement and hope for building a healthier, more united spiritual foundation.   Episode Highlights: When Faith Creates Distance Instead of Connection  The Hidden Damage of Spiritual Superiority and Withdrawal  Moving from Weaponized Faith to Shared Faith    Quotes from This Episode: God designed marriage as the most intimate of all earthly relationships. There's a oneness God intended for marriage that touches every aspect of life.  When one spouse longs to pray together and it never happens, it doesn't just feel frustrating it feels lonely.  Loneliness can turn into resentment or even despair.  Nothing will shut your spouse down faster than feeling spiritually inferior in their own home.  The spouse that feels like they can never measure up will stop engaging.  When scripture becomes a sword instead of a shared foundation something has gone badly wrong.  Spiritual growth cannot be forced. You can model it. You can invite. But you cannot drag your spouse into a deeper faith any more than someone could have dragged you. God does that work.   Time to Talk About it: Are you feeling disconnected from your spouse spiritually?  If you are, have you approached your spouse honestly with your concerns? Ask them: How can we use our faith to encourage each other rather than pressure, correct, or compare one another?    Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Do you feel misunderstood and defeated when it comes to disagreements with your spouse? Feeling misunderstood in conflict is usually a sign of something deeper. This assessment walks you through what needs to change, step by step. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If you're feeling disconnected from your spouse, try this plan together: 7 Prayers to Grow Your Marriage. If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive exclusive content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy as well as our resource of the month! Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Prayer, Bible reading, and spiritual leadership are all good things, but what happens when faith becomes a source of tension instead of connection in marriage? In this episode, Dr. Kim tackle the unhealthy spiritual dynamics that can quietly create distance between spouses: spiritual superiority, spiritual withdrawal, and using faith as a weapon. While most couples don't intend to hurt each other spiritually, it's easy to fall into patterns that leave one spouse feeling judged, inadequate, or alone. He discusses why spiritual loneliness can be so painful in marriage, how comparison and pressure shut down connection, and what it looks like to pursue spiritual intimacy in a way that invites both spouses closer to God and each other. If you've ever felt frustrated that your spouse isn't where you'd like them to be spiritually, or if you've ever felt like you could never measure up, this conversation offers practical encouragement and hope for building a healthier, more united spiritual foundation.   Episode Highlights: When Faith Creates Distance Instead of Connection  The Hidden Damage of Spiritual Superiority and Withdrawal  Moving from Weaponized Faith to Shared Faith    Quotes from This Episode: God designed marriage as the most intimate of all earthly relationships. There's a oneness God intended for marriage that touches every aspect of life.  When one spouse longs to pray together and it never happens, it doesn't just feel frustrating it feels lonely.  Loneliness can turn into resentment or even despair.  Nothing will shut your spouse down faster than feeling spiritually inferior in their own home.  The spouse that feels like they can never measure up will stop engaging.  When scripture becomes a sword instead of a shared foundation something has gone badly wrong.  Spiritual growth cannot be forced. You can model it. You can invite. But you cannot drag your spouse into a deeper faith any more than someone could have dragged you. God does that work.   Time to Talk About it: Are you feeling disconnected from your spouse spiritually?  If you are, have you approached your spouse honestly with your concerns? Ask them: How can we use our faith to encourage each other rather than pressure, correct, or compare one another?    Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Do you feel misunderstood and defeated when it comes to disagreements with your spouse? Feeling misunderstood in conflict is usually a sign of something deeper. This assessment walks you through what needs to change, step by step. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If you're feeling disconnected from your spouse, try this plan together: 7 Prayers to Grow Your Marriage. If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive exclusive content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy as well as our resource of the month! Become a Marriage Changer today!  

Prayer, Bible reading, and spiritual leadership are all good things, but what happens when faith becomes a source of tension instead of connection in marriage? In this episode, Dr. Kim tackle the unhealthy spiritual dynamics that can quietly create distance between spouses: spiritual superiority, spiritual withdrawal, and using faith as a weapon. While most couples don't intend to hurt each other spiritually, it's easy to fall into patterns that leave one spouse feeling judged, inadequate, or alone. He discusses why spiritual loneliness can be so painful in marriage, how comparison and pressure shut down connection, and what it looks like to pursue spiritual intimacy in a way that invites both spouses closer to God and each other. If you've ever felt frustrated that your spouse isn't where you'd like them to be spiritually, or if you've ever felt like you could never measure up, this conversation offers practical encouragement and hope for building a healthier, more united spiritual foundation.   Episode Highlights: When Faith Creates Distance Instead of Connection  The Hidden Damage of Spiritual Superiority and Withdrawal  Moving from Weaponized Faith to Shared Faith    Quotes from This Episode: God designed marriage as the most intimate of all earthly relationships. There's a oneness God intended for marriage that touches every aspect of life.  When one spouse longs to pray together and it never happens, it doesn't just feel frustrating it feels lonely.  Loneliness can turn into resentment or even despair.  Nothing will shut your spouse down faster than feeling spiritually inferior in their own home.  The spouse that feels like they can never measure up will stop engaging.  When scripture becomes a sword instead of a shared foundation something has gone badly wrong.  Spiritual growth cannot be forced. You can model it. You can invite. But you cannot drag your spouse into a deeper faith any more than someone could have dragged you. God does that work.   Time to Talk About it: Are you feeling disconnected from your spouse spiritually?  If you are, have you approached your spouse honestly with your concerns? Ask them: How can we use our faith to encourage each other rather than pressure, correct, or compare one another?    Mentioned in This Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! Do you feel misunderstood and defeated when it comes to disagreements with your spouse? Feeling misunderstood in conflict is usually a sign of something deeper. This assessment walks you through what needs to change, step by step. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If you're feeling disconnected from your spouse, try this plan together: 7 Prayers to Grow Your Marriage. If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  It's the perfect time to become a Marriage Changer! When you become a Marriage Changer you'll receive exclusive content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy as well as our resource of the month! Become a Marriage Changer today!  

This we on the show Maine and Adam recap the UFC BJJ 9. We run through every single matchup on the card and discuss how many first round finishes took place and overall the general matchmaking that led to that outcome. We kick it off recapping the Light Heavyweight title Mason Fowler vs Devhonte Johnson that had mason Fowler win via Rear-Naked Choke after a single arm drag in the first round. In the Co-main event Gilbert "Durinho" Burns vs Horlando Monteiro also ended in  Rear-Naked Choke in the first round. In Nick Rodriguez vs Joao Nicolite we talked about Nicky Rods body lock passing and turtle attack to a first round Rear-Naked Choke win. In Ffion Davies vs Amanda Bruse we talked about Bruse initial triangle from the back sequence then Ffion escaping to top and passing to the back then finishing with an Armbar in the first round. In Bella Mir vs Nichelle Johnson we talked about the two rounds of control Bella had ending both rounds on the back looking for the RNC then finishing with a Kimura to Armbar transition in the third round. In Achilles Rocha vs Filipe Pimentel we talked about the quick pace and first round  Heel Hook win for Achillies. In John Chandler vs Raphael Ferreira we talked about the come from behing third round last second Triangle Choke win from Chandler. In Mourece Ramirez vs Victor Delibero we talked about the back and forth and  Unanimous Decision the for Ramirez the only decision of the card. In Ana Lima vs Amanda Mazza we talked about the Violin Armbar finish from Ana.Recorded 6-19-2026

Episode SummaryThis week on Home In Progress, Dan dedicates the whole show to bathroom remodels -- why they're trending, and how to think one through before spending anything. He covers the tub-or-shower decision, storage planning, lighting that stops working against you, upgrades worth baking in while walls are open, aging-in-place choices, and a full closing section on painting the bathroom right. A practical episode worth saving if a bathroom is anywhere on your horizon.In This Episode[00:00] -- Bathrooms Are Trending[02:15] -- Start With What Bugs You[05:04] -- Tubs or Showers First[07:45] -- Freestanding Tub Reality Check[10:43] -- Tub to Shower Conversion[13:41] -- Storage That Fits Life[16:15] -- Smart Storage Ideas[18:31] -- Bathroom Lighting Problems[19:25] -- Why Mirrors Make You Cringe[20:22] -- Fixing Harsh Shadows[21:43] -- Layered Lighting Basics[22:14] -- Mirror Task Lighting[23:56] -- Sconce Placement Tips[24:54] -- Shower and Night Lighting[26:02] -- Bulb Temperature Consistency[28:00] -- Remodel Upgrades to Add[30:44] -- Aging in Place Choices[33:52] -- Bathroom Paint Essentials[37:02] -- Paint Cure and Humidity[39:10] -- Prep and Tight Spaces[41:19] -- Ceilings and Caulk[43:05] -- Wrap Up and Store DealsBathrooms Are Trending [00:00]Bathroom remodels aren't overtaking kitchens -- kitchens are still the most popular project -- but bathrooms are closing the gap. They're smaller, usually less expensive, and more manageable. And the daily impact is bigger than most people give them credit for. If a kitchen remodel feels out of reach right now, a bathroom is worth serious consideration.Start With What Bugs You [02:15]Before looking at tile or faucets, walk through the bathroom you have and write down everything that bothers you. Not what you'd love to have -- what actually annoys you about the space right now. A lot of renovations look great but feel disappointing because they didn't solve the actual problems. New finishes don't fix a bad morning. Start with what the bathroom needs to fix, then work forward from there.Tubs or Showers First [05:04]The shower or tub is the biggest decision in any bathroom remodel and where serious money gets spent. Dan breaks it into two parts: what fits your life better (some people love a bath; others haven't taken one voluntarily in years), and what fits your existing bathroom layout. Getting swept up in a vision without looking honestly at the space is where projects get expensive.Freestanding Tub Reality Check [07:45]A freestanding soaking tub is a popular idea that can get complicated fast. Most existing bathrooms have an alcove setup -- tub against three walls, drain in place, plumbing at one end. Switching to a freestanding tub means relocating the drain, addressing the floor and walls after the old surround comes out, and making sure there's enough clearance around the tub for it to look intentional.The alternative worth knowing about: deeper alcove tubs, drop-in tubs, or soaking tubs designed to fit a traditional footprint. These can deliver the soaking experience without requiring a full redesign. Even replacing an older alcove tub with a newer one in the same footprint can be a meaningful gain.Tub to Shower Conversion [10:43]If baths aren't your thing, converting a tub surround to a walk-in shower is often a practical fit for what most bathrooms already have. Plumbing can often stay in roughly the same location, the footprint works, and the project tends to line up more naturally with the existing space than a freestanding tub would.One thing to stop and think about first: is this the only tub in the house? Families with young kids need one. Pet owners often do too. Future buyers may care. That doesn't mean you keep it -- just means the decision should be deliberate.Storage That Fits Life [13:41]Storage isn't the exciting part of a remodel, but it may be the biggest factor in whether a renovated bathroom still feels good two weeks after the job is done. Before choosing a vanity, go back to your list of annoyances and ask honestly whether storage is on it -- and whether it should be.The practical question isn't what vanity looks good. It's what the vanity needs to do. Drawers let you see what you have; deep cabinets swallow things. A vanity drawer with a built-in outlet keeps hair tools off the counter. Storage that matches how you actually live beats storage that just looks organized in the showroom.Smart Storage Ideas [16:15]If the footprint isn't changing, there are usually more options than it feels like. Going vertical -- tall cabinets, shelving from counter to ceiling, built-in storage above the toilet -- can add meaningful capacity without touching the floor plan. Recessed medicine cabinets don't have to look like the metal box from 1978; modern versions are framed, mirror-faced, and look like part of the room. And awkward spots -- a dead corner, a gap beside the vanity -- are worth a second look.Better storage organization inside existing space also counts: drawer organizers, pull-outs, a bottom drawer for towels or toilet paper. Build the answer in. Don't assume things will find a home after the remodel if they haven't found one yet.Bathroom Lighting [18:31]Bathroom lighting is often bad in ways people don't fully notice. One harsh overhead fixture, or a row of bulbs above the mirror, creates shadows on the face -- under the eyes, under the nose, under the chin -- that make people look older and more tired than they are. If you walk into your bathroom every morning and immediately want to look somewhere else, the lighting may be a bigger factor than you think.Why mirrors make you cringe [19:25] -- Most bathroom lighting is designed to illuminate the room, not the person at the mirror. A ceiling fixture in the middle of the room does the former. It doesn't do the latter well.Fixing harsh shadows [20:22] -- Light from both sides of the mirror is significantly better than light from above. Sconces on either side spread light evenly across the face, cut shadows, and make grooming more accurate. If side lighting isn't possible, a long horizontal fixture above the mirror is better than a single small bulb.Layered lighting [21:43] -- Good bathroom lighting usually comes from more than one source. General light -- ceiling fixture, recessed lights, or both -- makes the room usable. Task lighting at the mirror is where the real work gets done. One fixture can't do both jobs well.Mirror task lighting [22:14] -- The goal is light on your face, from roughly face level. That's what reduces shadows. A fixture above the mirror alone usually can't deliver that.Sconce placement [23:56] -- Height matters. Too low creates the campfire-flashlight effect. Too high brings the shadows back. Aim for face-level illumination, and let the person who needs the most help from the lighting make the call on placement.Shower and night lighting [24:54] -- A shower with walls that block the main room's light probably needs its own fixture. A dark shower feels less clean and less comfortable than it should. Night lighting is the thing people forget: a dimmer, toe-kick lighting, or a softer secondary source lets you use the bathroom at odd hours without switching on every bulb in the room.Bulb temperature consistency [26:02] -- Cool bulbs feel sterile; warm bulbs can make whites and skin tones look strange. A warm neutral bulb is a solid starting point for most bathrooms. More important than the specific temperature is keeping it consistent across all fixtures. Mismatched bulb temperatures can make the room feel off in a way that's hard to identify -- paint reads differently in different spots, tile can shift color. Sort out lighting before finalizing paint colors or any other choices sensitive to light.Remodel Upgrades to Add [28:00]When a bathroom is torn apart, some things are much easier to add than they'll ever be again. Worth at least pricing out:Heated floors -- bathroom square footage is small, and if the old floor is already coming up, now is the time to askVentilation -- a weak or struggling fan should be replaced now, not after it causes moisture damage to a freshly renovated roomOutlet placement -- if outlets are always in the wrong spot, fix it while walls are openShower niche -- easier to build in now than to add laterShower lighting -- while the walls are accessibleBlocking for grab bars -- you may not want them now, but blocking costs almost nothing during a remodel and makes installation easy whenever you doAging in Place Choices [30:44]If you plan to be in the home long-term, a remodel is a good moment to make choices that work better as you age. This doesn't have to look like a care facility. Options have improved considerably. A curbless shower can look modern. A wider shower entry feels more open. A shower bench can feel spa-like. A handheld...

Disclaimer: This episode contains explicit conversations regarding sex and physical intimacy. It is not suitable for little ears. Please use headphones or save this episode for later if you have children nearby.In this episode of the Married and Connected podcast, host Kameran sits down with Keri Green, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and certified sex therapist, for a highly practical and direct conversation about the realities of physical and emotional connection in marriage.Drawing from their professional expertise and personal experiences navigating divorce and dating, Kameran and Keri tackle the tough, often unspoken challenges couples face. From the impact of "sex sabbaticals" to managing mismatched libidos and performance anxiety, this episode provides actionable, evidence-based tools to help you and your partner build safety, trust, and genuine pleasure in your relationship.Key TakeawaysStaying for the Kids: A candid look at why waiting for the kids to grow up before addressing a fractured marriage often backfires, and why modeling a healthy relationship is paramount.The Danger of "Sex Sabbaticals": Why withholding intimacy as a punishment ultimately hurts both partners and turns spouses into mere roommates.Mismatched Sex Drives: Practical steps for bridging the gap when partners have drastically different desires for the frequency or type of sex, starting with redefining what "sex" actually means.Transitioning from Manager to Lover: How to drop the mental load of household chores and transition into an intimate headspace, including why foreplay actually starts the moment you wake up.Performance Anxiety: Understanding that both men and women experience physical and mental pressure in the bedroom, and how building body confidence and emotional safety counters it.Introducing Novelty: Why spicing up a long-term monogamous relationship doesn't require extreme measures—small, consistent changes in environment or routine make a massive difference.Notable Quotes"Foreplay begins the minute we wake up. Foreplay is anything we do throughout the day to show our partner we love them, we appreciate them, we're attracted to them." — Keri Green"Comfort first, pleasure second. We cannot find pleasure to the point where we want to, where we deserve to in a sexual experience unless we're comfortable." — Keri Green"It takes two people to start a relationship. It only takes one to end it." — Keri Green"The best sex that you can possibly have is with someone where you have so much trust and emotional intimacy and knowing, and not just honesty, but transparency." — KameranConnect with Keri GreenKeri Green is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Sex Therapist practicing in California and Colorado. She helps individuals and couples navigate relational and sexual challenges to build the sex lives they actually want.Website: Keri Green, LMFT, CST | Online TherapyWork with KameranLooking for practical, direct support for your marriage? Kameran provides relationship and marriage coaching focused on evidence-based tools and individual responsibility. Please note: Kameran offers relationship coaching rather than traditional therapy, and services are not eligible for insurance reimbursement.WebsiteVerafy your relationship Join the SKOOL CommunitySupport the show

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What happens when couples stop talking about the very thing they most need to understand?In this honest and compassionate episode of The Whinypaluza Podcast, Rebecca Greene sits down with Dr. Tiffany Stanley to talk about desire, intimacy, shame, communication, motherhood, menopause, trauma, and what really happens when couples start feeling more like roommates than partners.Dr. Tiffany Stanley is a licensed psychotherapist, clinical sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and author of the upcoming book Nothing Is Off the Table. She helps women and couples move out of shame, silence, and disconnection and into self trust, desire, pleasure, and honest communication.Rebecca and Tiffany talk about why desire changes through different stages of life, why safety and nervous system regulation matter, and why couples need to stop guessing and start talking. Tiffany explains that intimacy is not just about sex. It is about connection, communication, emotional safety, and making time for the relationship before resentment and neglect take over.Key Takeaways→ Desire is not broken just because it changes over time.→ Women often need safety, transition time, rest, and emotional connection before they can access desire.→ Couples rarely talk about sex, but talking about it is one of the biggest keys to improving intimacy.→ Feeling like roommates usually happens because the couple relationship has been neglected.→ Mismatched desire does not automatically mean something is wrong with the relationship.→ Trauma, stress, illness, motherhood, menopause, and attachment styles can all affect intimacy.→ Pleasure starts with reconnecting to yourself, not just pleasing someone else.→ Children benefit from seeing parents invest in their relationship with affection, repair, and intentional time together.Dr. Tiffany Stanley, Ph.D., LPC-S, MA, NCC, ABS, CST, UKCP Reg., is a licensed psychotherapist, supervisor, clinical sexologist, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 20 years of clinical experience. She specializes in women's emotional wellbeing, intimacy, desire, attachment, and identity across major life transitions. Visit website: https://tiffanystanleytherapy.com/about-tiffany-stanley-therapy/Listen to the full episode of The Whinypaluza Podcast and share it with someone who needs an honest, shame-free conversation about love, desire, and connection.Visit Whinypaluza website: https://www.whinypaluza.com/

Welcome to another episode of Death Don't Do Fiction, the AIPT Movies podcast! The podcast about the enduring legacy of our favorite movies! It's May, which means it's time for the AIPT Movies podcast's “Mayhem” series! Where we cover movies that kick ass in the literal sense! In this week's episode, Alex, Tim, and guest Tony Sedani discuss Robert Rodriguez's shockingly accurate depiction of life as a traveling musician, 1995's Desperado! One of the best "walking away from an explosion" shots in movie history! An incredible opening scene! Action yoga! A 90s cell phone! A sudden ponytail! Family drama! An unfortunate case of mistaken identity! Mismatched shoes! Lots of slow motion! Tons of squibs and environmental destruction! Surprisingly loyal bandmates! Guitar case Miniguns! The biggest hand cannon you've ever seen! Shadow-based mystical powers and guns that appear from nowhere! Music from Los Lobos! A shocking explanation for disgusting public toilets! A cast that includes Quentin Tarantino playing a creep, Cheech Marin, Steve Buscemi, Danny Trejo dialing a phone with a knife, the original El Mariachi Carlos Gallardo, Salma Hayek causing car accidents, and Antonio Banderas being effortlessly cool! All this and more in a classic action movie with kinetic direction and visual storytelling from Robert Rodriguez that tells the story of an artist who must learn to work his magic in a completely different medium: death! In addition, Tony shares his spoiler-free thoughts on Spider-Man: Homecoming, Brian De Palma's Phantom of the Paradise, 2021's Mortal Kombat, and Robert Rodriguez's El Mariachi, while Alex does the same for the documentary Everyone Is Lying to You for Money, the Netflix survival thriller Apex, Bob Odenkirk's Normal, and Over Your Dead Body! You can find Death Don't Do Fiction on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. As always, if you enjoy the podcast, be sure to leave us a positive rating, subscribe to the show, and tell your friends! The Death Don't Do Fiction podcast brings you the latest in movie news, reviews, and more! Hosted by supposed “industry vets,” Alex Harris and Tim Gardiner, the show gives you a peek behind the scenes from two filmmakers with oddly nonexistent filmographies. You can find Alex on Twitter, Bluesky, or Letterboxd @actionharris. This episode's guest, Tony Sedani, can be found on Instagram @tsedani and information on Tony and Alex's upcoming comic book can be found on Instagram @overforce_x_hellrazors. Tim can't be found on social media because he doesn't exist. If you have any questions or suggestions for the Death Don't Do Fiction crew, they can be reached at aiptmoviespod@gmail.com, or you can find them on Twitter or Instagram @aiptmoviespod. Theme song is “We Got it Goin On” by Cobra Man.

Episode topic: ADHD, sex, desire discrepancy, intimacy, communication, kink, queerness, polyamory, and what happens when libido doesn't match in relationships. Content note: This episode includes candid adult conversation about sex, desire, libido, kink, dating apps, polyamory, and sexual communication. Episode Summary What happens when one partner wants sex more than the other? What if ADHD affects libido in both directions? And what if "just do it" is actually some of the worst advice out there? In this episode, Eric is joined by Laura Jurgens, a dual-certified master relationship and intimacy coach, desire and arousal specialist, and host of The Desire Gap podcast. Laura helps individuals and couples create more authentic sexual connection, including when one or both partners are neurodivergent. Eric and Laura get into a candid, shame-free conversation about ADHD, sex, mismatched libido, desire discrepancies, rejection sensitivity, sensory needs, communication, and why so many people struggle to talk openly about what they actually want. Laura explains why desire differences are incredibly common in long-term relationships, why obligation sex can create resentment and shut down libido, and how ADHD can shape both high and low desire. She also shares how people can begin reconnecting with their bodies, practicing self-attunement, and communicating more clearly with partners. The conversation also explores sex positivity, kink positivity, queer dating, bisexuality, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and the importance of honest, embodied consent. This episode is frank, playful, personal, and deeply human. In This Episode, You'll Hear About Why desire discrepancy is common in long-term relationships How ADHD can contribute to both high libido and low libido Why "just do it" is terrible advice for mismatched desire The difference between sex for connection and sex for nervous system regulation How obligation sex can lead to resentment, shutdown, pain, or sexual dysfunction Why a partner can start to feel like a "tool" or "medication" when sex becomes self-regulation The role of dopamine, novelty, and hyperfocus in ADHD sexuality Why some ADHDers struggle to get out of their heads and into their bodies How stress, burnout, and nervous system activation can shut down libido Why self-attunement is a key starting point for intimacy How alexithymia can complicate emotional and sexual communication What "sex positive" and "kink positive" can actually mean Why embodied consent matters more than intellectual "I guess this is fine" consent How kink communities can model explicit communication and negotiation The risks of opening a relationship when the relationship is already disconnected Why polyamory requires a high level of trust, communication, and self-awareness Dating while bisexual, queer, neurodivergent, or exploring new relational identities How to disclose needs and patterns without using ADHD as a "get out of jail free" card Why communicating about withdrawal, burnout, and alone time matters in relationships Notable Moments / Quote Pulls "Obligation sex is the worst possible advice." "If you are trying to manage your partner's feelings with your body, that is a one-way ticket to resentment town." "Sex can become the way an ADHDer gets into their body and out of their head." "Your partner starts feeling like a tool or a medication rather than a person you authentically want to connect with." "Compatibility doesn't mean there are no differences. It means there are differences you can navigate." "Do I love the sex I'm having? That's a question a lot of people aren't even asking themselves." "Practice with the kitten to play with the tiger." "Don't yuck on someone else's yum." "You don't have to be evangelically polyamorous." Guest Bio Laura Jurgens is a dual-certified master relationship and intimacy coach and host of The Desire Gap podcast. She is a desire and arousal specialist who helps individuals and couples discover authentic sexual connection, including when one or both partners are neurodivergent. Her approach helps people release shame, shed relationship anxiety, and build confidence through more effective communication. Her work is play-based, practical, inclusive, trauma-informed, and grounded in current research. Laura is a former university professor with a PhD in biological sciences, with certifications from the Somatica Institute, The Life Coach School, and the NeuroAffective Touch Institute. Learn more about Laura at laurajurgens.com and listen to The Desire Gap podcast. Resources & Links Learn more about Laura Jurgens: laurajurgens.com Listen to Laura's podcast: The Desire Gap Learn more about ADHD reWired Coaching & Accountability Groups: coachingrewired.com Learn more about ADHD reWired: adhdrewired.com Join Adult Study Hall, our virtual coworking community: adultstudyhall.com Support the show on Patreon: patreon.com/adhdrewired Sponsor / Program Mention Registration is open for the next season of ADHD reWired Coaching & Accountability Groups. This is our intensive coaching and accountability program for ADHD adults who want more structure, support, follow-through, and connection. Learn more and start pre-registration at: coachingrewired.com

Struggling with mismatched libidos in your relationship? You're not alone—and the real problem isn't what you think.In this episode, I'm joined by relationship and intimacy coach Monica Tanner to unpack the hidden dynamics behind desire discrepancy. We dive into why couples get stuck in cycles of pressure and rejection, how small disappointments turn into long-term resentment, and what both partners may be doing (without realizing it) to keep the pattern going.If you've ever felt like:Your partner “should” want sex moreYou're constantly navigating pressure or rejectionEmotional connection isn't translating into a better sex life…this episode will help you understand why—and what to do differently.What You'll Learn:Why desire discrepancy is really a relationship dynamic (not just a libido issue)How “building a case” against your partner destroys intimacyThe hidden ways higher desire partners create pressureWhy emotional intimacy alone doesn't fix sexHow to expand your definition of sex and reduce pressureThe role of childhood conditioning in your sex lifeGuest Resources Mentioned:Monica Tanner's book: Bad Marriage AdviceMonica Tanner's website: https://www.monicatanner.com/❤️ Ready to improve your sex life?Take my free quiz to discover what's really blocking intimacy in your relationship:

Struggling with mismatched libidos in your relationship? You're not alone—and the real problem isn't what you think.In this episode, I'm joined by relationship and intimacy coach Monica Tanner to unpack the hidden dynamics behind desire discrepancy. We dive into why couples get stuck in cycles of pressure and rejection, how small disappointments turn into long-term resentment, and what both partners may be doing (without realizing it) to keep the pattern going.If you've ever felt like:Your partner “should” want sex moreYou're constantly navigating pressure or rejectionEmotional connection isn't translating into a better sex life…this episode will help you understand why—and what to do differently.What You'll Learn:Why desire discrepancy is really a relationship dynamic (not just a libido issue)How “building a case” against your partner destroys intimacyThe hidden ways higher desire partners create pressureWhy emotional intimacy alone doesn't fix sexHow to expand your definition of sex and reduce pressureThe role of childhood conditioning in your sex lifeGuest Resources Mentioned:Monica Tanner's book: Bad Marriage AdviceMonica Tanner's website: https://www.monicatanner.com/❤️ Ready to improve your sex life?Take my free quiz to discover what's really blocking intimacy in your relationship:

Fluent Fiction - Hindi: From Mismatched Shoes to Standing Ovations: Arohi's Breakthrough Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/hi/episode/2026-05-04-07-38-19-hi Story Transcript:Hi: वसंत का मौसम था और सूर्य की किरणें अंतरराष्ट्रीय शिखर सम्मेलन के केंद्र को खुशी से चमका रही थीं।En: It was the season of spring, and the sun's rays were joyfully illuminating the International Summit Center.Hi: इस बार का सम्मलेन नई दिल्ली के विशाल सम्मेलन केंद्र में हो रहा था, जहां दुनियाभर के कलाकार, तकनीकी विशेषज्ञ और कला प्रेमी 3D प्रिंटिंग की नई तकनीकों पर चर्चा करने आए थे।En: This time, the summit was taking place at the vast conference center in New Delhi, where artists, technical experts, and art enthusiasts from around the world had gathered to discuss new techniques in 3D printing.Hi: बगीचे की ताजी हवा और फूलों की सुगंध चारों तरफ फैल रही थी।En: The fresh garden air and the fragrance of flowers spread all around.Hi: आरोही और उनके दो सहयोगी, निष्ठा और राहुल, उत्साहित थे।En: Arohi and her two colleagues, Nishtha and Rahul, were excited.Hi: आरोही सम्मेलन में भाग लेने के लिए नई दिल्ली आए थे क्योंकि उन्हें अचानक एक महत्वपूर्ण प्रस्तुति देने का मौका मिला था।En: Arohi had come to New Delhi to participate in the conference because she suddenly got an opportunity to deliver an important presentation.Hi: यह प्रस्तुति उनके लिए बहुत महत्वपूर्ण थी, क्योंकि इससे उन्हें अपने कला प्रोजेक्ट के लिए समर्थन और पहचान मिल सकती थी।En: This presentation was very important for her, as it could bring her support and recognition for her art project.Hi: सम्मेलन में पहुंचने से पहले सब कुछ सामान्य लग रहा था।En: Everything seemed normal before reaching the conference.Hi: लेकिन जब आरोही मंच के पास पहुंचे, उन्हें अहसास हुआ कि उन्होंने गलती से अलग-अलग जोड़ी के जूते पहन लिए थे।En: But when Arohi reached near the stage, she realized she had mistakenly worn mismatched shoes.Hi: एक जूता काले रंग का था, और दूसरा भूरा।En: One shoe was black, and the other was brown.Hi: इस अजीब गलती ने आरोही को असमंजस में डाल दिया।En: This unusual mistake left Arohi bewildered.Hi: वे घबरा गए, लेकिन फिर उन्होंने खुद को शांत किया।En: She panicked, but then she calmed herself.Hi: तभी उनके मन में एक विचार आया।En: Suddenly, an idea struck her.Hi: अपनी प्रस्तुति के दौरान, आरोही ने एक बात बड़े आत्मविश्वास से कही, "दोस्तो, जैसा कि आप सभी देख सकते हैं, मेरे पैरों में अलग-अलग रंग के जूते हैं।En: During her presentation, Arohi confidently said, "Friends, as you can all see, I'm wearing shoes of different colors.Hi: लेकिन यह गलती नहीं, यह हमारे असली जीवन की तरह एक प्रतीक है।En: But this isn't a mistake; it's a symbol of our real lives.Hi: कभी-कभी हमारे जीवन और कला में अपूर्णताएं होती हैं।En: Sometimes, there are imperfections in our lives and art.Hi: और ये अपूर्णताएं ही हमारी रचनात्मकता को बुनती हैं।En: And these imperfections are what weave our creativity."Hi: " आरोही की यह बात सुनकर पूरा हॉल तालियों की गूंज से गूंज उठा।En: Hearing this, the entire hall erupted in applause.Hi: आरोही के इस अप्रत्याशित समाधान को सभी ने सराहा।En: Everyone appreciated Arohi's unexpected solution.Hi: प्रस्तुति के बाद कई दर्शक उनके पास आए और उनके झूठे उत्साह और रचनात्मकता को सराहा।En: After the presentation, many attendees approached her and praised her spontaneous enthusiasm and creativity.Hi: उनमें से कुछ ने उनके प्रोजेक्ट के लिए वित्तीय सहयोग का भी प्रस्ताव दिया।En: Some even offered financial support for her project.Hi: इस अनुभव से आरोही ने सीखा कि जीवन में परिस्थितियाँ अप्रत्याशित होती हैं।En: From this experience, Arohi learned that circumstances in life are unpredictable.Hi: लेकिन अगर हम उनका सामना साहस और रचनात्मकता से करें, तो वे ही हमें आगे बढ़ा सकती हैं।En: But if we face them with courage and creativity, they can propel us forward.Hi: उस दिन आरोही को यह एहसास हुआ कि उन्होंने न केवल एक महत्वपूर्ण प्रदर्शन किया, बल्कि एक अनमोल सबक भी सीखा जो उनके जीवन में अटल रहेगा।En: That day, Arohi realized that she not only made an important presentation but also learned a priceless lesson that would remain steadfast throughout her life. Vocabulary Words:illuminating: चमका रहीsummit: शिखर सम्मेलनenthusiasts: प्रेमीfragrance: सुगंधmismatched: अलग-अलग जोड़ीbewildered: असमंजसspontaneous: झूठेimperfections: अपूर्णताएंweave: बुनतीapplause: तालियों की गूंजunpredictable: अप्रत्याशितcourage: साहसsteadfast: अटलopportunity: मौकाvast: विशालsupport: समर्थनrecognition: पहचानunusual: अजीबmistakenly: गलती सेsymbol: प्रतीकappreciated: सराहाfinancial: वित्तीयcircumstances: परिस्थितियाँstruck: आयाdelivering: देनेconference: सम्मेलनpropel: आगे बढ़ा सकतीpresentation: प्रस्तुतिartists: कलाकारexperts: विशेषज्ञ

Have you ever felt like you didn't fit the "spiritual" mold? Whether it's the music you listen to, the tattoos on your skin, or just the way you process your emotions, many of us have felt the sting of religious judgment. We've all seen it: the "Super Spiritual" facade that prioritizes outward performance over inward heart transformation.In this series opener, Pastor Homer dives into the messy reality of authentic spirituality. Using powerful personal stories—from a bizarre "deliverance" session in a college dorm to a heartbreaking encounter at a church altar—we explore how God often works outside the boxes of our expectations.In this episode, we discuss:Why inward conviction always outweighs outward religious expression.The danger of "The Performance Trap" and how it breeds hypocrisy.The story of Rahab: How God uses the "mismatched" to save nations.How to stop judging others by your "measure of faith" and start leading with grace.If you've ever felt like a "mismatch" in church, this message is a reminder that God isn't looking for a perfect religious show—He's looking for a surrendered heart.—To connect, learn more or donate, visit gravetopchurch.com  Follow us on Instagram, Facebook or TikTok by searching @gravetopchurch

Send us Fan Mail What if the distance you feel in your relationship isn't about love fading, but about losing touch with your own body? In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sayan sits down with Dr. Laura Jurgens, somatic sex and intimacy specialist, to unpack one of the quietest struggles in long-term partnerships: desire discrepancy. Laura shares her own turning point, why nearly 80% of couples experience desire gaps, and what actually helps. You'll walk away understanding the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire, why women's arousal often needs more time than culture allows, and the golden rule that can shift intimacy overnight: go at the pace of the slowest body. No shame, no quick fixes, just a grounded conversation on reconnecting with yourself and your partner. About the Guest: Dr. Laura Jurgens is an intimacy and relationship coach and host of The Desire Gap Podcast. She specialises in helping individuals and couples navigate desire and arousal challenges, reconnect with their bodies, and communicate openly about intimacy without blame or shame. Key Takeaways: Desire discrepancy affects roughly 80% of long-term couples, making it more common than rare, and it does not mean your relationship is broken. The "honeymoon chemicals" of a new relationship fade for everyone, returning you to your baseline libido. That's not dysfunction, that's biology asking you to learn what actually turns you on. Intimacy is an embodied experience, not a head-driven one. Living disconnected from your body all day and expecting arousal at night often leads to performing intimacy rather than feeling it. Bodies with higher estrogen often need 30 to 45 minutes to reach full arousal, while bodies with higher testosterone respond faster. Understanding this difference removes shame from both sides. The golden rule of intimacy: go at the pace of the slowest body. Rushing arousal suppresses desire over time, especially for the lower-desire partner. Shame, cultural conditioning, and past hurt often sit quietly in the way of open communication and self-knowledge. Getting curious about those blocks is where real change begins. Connect With the Guest: Podcast: The Desire Gap (available on all major podcast platforms) Website: https://laurajurgens.com/  Free resource: https://laurajurgens.com/libido (5 Steps to Start Solving Your Desire Discrepancy Without Blame or Shame) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laura.jurgens.coach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurajurgenscoaching Episode Chapters: [00:00] Cold Open: When the Gap Isn't About Love [01:30] Meet Dr. Laura Jurgens and Why This Conversation Matters [03:00] The Moment Laura Realised She Didn't Know Her Own Desires [05:30] Why 80% of Couples Hit a Desire Gap (and Why It's Normal) [09:00] Getting Out of Your Head and Back Into Your Body [13:00] What Men and Women Each Need to Understand About Arousal [19:00] The Golden Rule: Go at the Pace of the Slowest Body [24:00] Where to Find Laura and the Free Starter Guide   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it's become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6500+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.

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Download your free copy of What the Church Actually Says About Sex and Marriage right hereIn this episode of Reclaiming Catholic Intimacy, Ellen Holloway talks about what to do when you and your husband want sex at totally different levels. She explains why desire often comes from how rewarding sex feels and why many women struggle to want it if it hasn't been very enjoyable. Ellen also shares simple ideas like building an intimacy “menu” and scheduling connection time so you can grow closer without all the pressure around sex. ___________________________________Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!Reach out at instagram.com/ellenholloway_/ or email us at info@vinesinfullbloom.com

In this raw, no-BS conversation, PFC Podcast host Dennis sits down with Justin Ball — licensed clinical social worker, former Green Beret, and one of the most insightful voices on military mental health — to unpack the often-ignored second war.Justin brings both battlefield experience and clinical expertise, while Dennis shares unfiltered war stories and hard-earned lessons. They draw on Homer's Odyssey, Achilles in Vietnam, modern family systems theory, emotion-focused therapy (EFT), anthropology of tribal hunters returning to the village, and brutally honest spouse perspectives (shoutout to Angela Ball for the coffee-table truth bombs).This isn't another “do these 5 things and you'll be fine” checklist. It's a real talk about why coming home is hard — for the service member, the spouse, the kids, and the whole damn family system — and how to navigate it with eyes wide open.Key Takeaways- The transition home starts **before** you leave the sandbox — unrealistic expectations (“If I can just make it home…”) set most people up for failure.- Anger is often the only “socially acceptable” emotion for warriors; underneath it usually lies fear, sadness, shame, or grief over missed time/missed life.- Military and home are **competing tribes** with conflicting values, boundaries, and shame triggers — yelling works at work, but it nukes the dinner table.- Spouses aren't “just holding it down” — they've built an entire functioning system. Coming home = deliberate, careful re-entry, not storming the castle.- Chronic leaving-and-returning (TDYs, schools, exercises) is as damaging as combat deployments — families don't care if it's “just training”; absence is absence.- Healthy reintegration means **we** not **me** — appreciation, lowered expectations, co-regulation in traffic rage moments, and honest communication about what's really happening emotionally.- There is no smooth road. The healthiest couples/families acknowledge it's bumpy, forgive missteps quickly, and keep talking.Whether you're an OGA guy with 15 TDYs, an infantryman coming off your first rotation, a spouse reading this description in tears, or a leader wondering why your guys are angry all the time — this episode is for you.Chapters - 00:26 – Justin returns; setting the stage for “coming home”- 03:16 – Evolution of post-deployment screening — what's better now vs. then- 09:59 – Acute vs. chronic homecoming — one big event vs. a lifestyle of constant comings & goings- 13:18 – The spouse perspective (Angela drops truth bombs over coffee)- 19:46 – Don't discount non-combat deployments or training risks — it's all cumulative family stress- 22:38 – Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) basics — emotions are older than words- 27:05 – Anthropology: hunters leaving the tribe, returning changed, and the danger of re-meeting- 36:55 – Shame culture in the military vs. home — competing tribal expectations create anger & failure loops- 42:25 – Anger as secondary emotion — fear, sadness, shame underneath- 45:03 – Mismatched expectations on both sides (warrior welcome vs. “don't touch my schedule”)- 50:31 – Operator syndrome vs. spouse high-stress reality — high stress is high stress- 54:29 – Ego check: coming home with an inflated “war hero” self vs. careful re-entry- 59:23 – The minivan road-rage story — tribal rules don't switch off overnight- 01:05:35 – Building a culture of appreciation (Gottman style) without knife-handing it- 01:09:43 – Listening without fixing — emotional acknowledgment firstFor more content, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.prolongedfieldcare.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Consider supporting us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/ProlongedFieldCareCollective⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lobocoffeeco.com/product-page/prolonged-field-care

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Shopping for bridesmaid dresses online doesn't have to feel risky, overwhelming, or chaotic. In this episode, we're diving into how to confidently pull off a seamless online bridesmaid dress experience with featured brand Lulus Weddings.  Whether you're coordinating a perfectly polished lineup or embracing the mismatched trend, we're breaking down exactly how to make it look intentional and elevated - not thrown together. You'll learn: Professional styling strategies to flatter every body type, The 5 keys to creating a cohesive color palette with mismatched dresses, The real advantages of letting your bridesmaids choose their own look, How Lulus' free bridal concierge service can simplify the entire process, 3 wedding trends that will influence bridal party style If you want bridesmaid dresses that feel effortless, modern, and beautifully coordinated — this episode is your blueprint. Shop the 2026 Lulus Bridesmaid Collection here Get free, one-on-one assistance from our expert team of bridal stylists with Lulus Bridal Concierge Today we're joined by Lulus Senior Buyer, Cher Irlandez.  Cher has been with Lulus for 5.5 years, and recently got married in her hometown of Las Vegas.  Her experience in the fashion industry as both a Developer and Buyer, along with her own recent bridal journey, gives her a unique perspective that I'm really excited to share with you. My sister Kate's wedding - we coordinated our Lulus dresses from California, Maine, Canada, British Virgin Islands, and Puerto Rico - if we can do it, anyone can!!

Fluent Fiction - Danish: Mismatched Socks Unite: A Tea Salon's Unexpected Joy Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/da/episode/2026-03-24-22-34-01-da Story Transcript:Da: Midt i påsketiden, da forårsblomsterne begyndte at pynte Københavns gader, trådte Mikkel ind i sin yndlings tesalon.En: In the middle of the Easter season, as the spring flowers began to adorn the streets of København, Mikkel stepped into his favorite tea salon.Da: Det var en hyggelig lille butik, indrettet med varme lamper, og de træfarvede borde var perfekt uens.En: It was a cozy little shop, decorated with warm lamps, and the wood-toned tables were perfectly mismatched.Da: Den aromatiske duft af teer fyldte luften, blandet med en svag summen af samtaler og den lejlighedsvise klirren af tekopper.En: The aromatic scent of teas filled the air, mingled with a soft hum of conversations and the occasional clinking of teacups.Da: Mikkel havde en mission.En: Mikkel had a mission.Da: Han ønskede en stille plads til at færdiggøre sin universitetstese, mens han nød en kop af sin favorit, grøn jasminte.En: He wanted a quiet place to finish his university thesis while enjoying a cup of his favorite, green jasmine tea.Da: Hans sind var letvægts, men også lidt distraheret.En: His mind was light, yet slightly distracted.Da: Han bemærkede ikke den lille detalje, der snart skulle blive samtalepunktet for dagen.En: He didn't notice the small detail that would soon become the talk of the day.Da: Da han satte sig ved det lille borde i hjørnet og tog sin bærbare computer frem, så han Sofie og Anders ved et andet table.En: As he sat down at the small table in the corner and pulled out his laptop, he saw Sofie and Anders at another table.Da: Sofie, med sine briller og notesbog, arbejdede koncentreret.En: Sofie, with her glasses and notebook, worked intently.Da: Anders lænede sig tilbage og studerede menukortet med et smil.En: Anders leaned back and studied the menu with a smile.Da: Mikkel rakte ud efter sin taske og stoppede et øjeblik.En: Mikkel reached for his bag and paused for a moment.Da: Da han kiggede ned på sine fødder, så han det: to sokker i helt forskellige farver og mønstre.En: When he looked down at his feet, he saw it: two socks in completely different colors and patterns.Da: Den ene sok var lyserød med blå prikker, mens den anden var grøn med skotsktern.En: One sock was pink with blue dots, while the other was green with plaid.Da: Sofie kiggede op og grinede, da hun spottede Mikkels fødder.En: Sofie looked up and laughed when she spotted Mikkel's feet.Da: "Mikkel, er du begyndt på en ny mode?"En: "Mikkel, have you started a new fashion trend?"Da: Mikkel lo højt, et glimt af forlegenhed i hans øjne, men han besluttede hurtigt at omfavne situationen.En: Mikkel laughed loudly, a hint of embarrassment in his eyes, but he quickly decided to embrace the situation.Da: Hans tanker kredsede om en idé, spontan og lunefuld.En: His thoughts hovered around an idea, spontaneous and whimsical.Da: “Måske skulle vi holde en sokkemodekonkurrence!” foreslog han.En: “Maybe we should hold a sock fashion contest!” he suggested.Da: Butikken fattede interesse.En: The shop took interest.Da: En efter en trak patrons deres stole hen mod Mikkels bord.En: One by one, patrons dragged their chairs over to Mikkel's table.Da: Alle begyndte at rulle bukserne op og vise deres egne skøre sokker.En: Everyone began to roll up their pants and show off their own quirky socks.Da: Det blev hurtigt til en leg, hvor farverige kombinationer blev udstillet.En: It quickly became a game, where colorful combinations were displayed.Da: Mikkels tavse eftermiddag blev en højlydt og glædesfyldt konkurrence.En: Mikkel's silent afternoon turned into a loud and joyous competition.Da: "Og vinderen er... alle sammen!" udbrød Anders, hvilket fik en bølge af latter til at skylle gennem lokalet.En: "And the winner is... everyone!" exclaimed Anders, which brought a wave of laughter through the room.Da: Ejerne af tesalonen, der havde nydt forestillingen, besluttede at belønne Mikkel med en gratis pot te.En: The owners of the tea salon, who had enjoyed the spectacle, decided to reward Mikkel with a free pot of tea.Da: "For at bringe smil og latter til vores butik," sagde de med et nik.En: "For bringing smiles and laughter to our shop," they said with a nod.Da: Som eftermiddagen gled over i aften, indså Mikkel noget nyt.En: As the afternoon turned into evening, Mikkel realized something new.Da: Han havde troet, han kun havde brug for stilhed og te.En: He had thought he only needed silence and tea.Da: Men nu forstod han, at nogle gange kunne en simpel fejl føre til uventede forbindelser.En: But now he understood that sometimes a simple mistake could lead to unexpected connections.Da: Og i de øjeblikke fandt han en glæde, der overskred perfektion.En: And in those moments, he found a joy that transcended perfection.Da: Mikkel forlod butikken med sin laptop, men hvad han bar med sig vigtigere - var en lektie om at omfavne ufuldkommenheder og finde fællesskab i latter.En: Mikkel left the shop with his laptop, but what he carried with him more importantly was a lesson about embracing imperfections and finding community in laughter.Da: Og så gik han ud i Københavns gader, et nyt, varmt minde iboende hans skridt.En: And so he walked out into the streets of København, a new, warm memory accompanying his steps. 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Steve Hayes is joined by Jonah Goldberg, Megan McArdle, and David French to discuss the growth of prediction markets and the differing goals that Israel and the U.S. may have in the war with Iran.The Agenda:—The harms of sports betting—Fantasy football podcasts and gambling—Monetizing insider trading—How does gambling affect sports?—The libertarian argument regarding addiction—Mismatched aims for the war in Iran—Tension between the U.S. and Israel—NWYT: Can a vegan candidate win in Texas? The Dispatch Podcast is a production of The Dispatch, a digital media company covering politics, policy, and culture from a non-partisan, conservative perspective. To access all of The Dispatch's offerings—including access to all of our articles, members-only newsletters, and bonus podcast episodes—click here. If you'd like to remove all ads from your podcast experience, consider becoming a premium Dispatch member by clicking here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Low libido and mismatched desire are not just about hormones. In this episode, I sit down with Coral Osborne, former escort turned intimacy coach for high-performing men, to break down what is really driving disconnection in relationships.We get into what men are not saying, why performance anxiety is rising, and how shame shapes desire. Coral shares what she learned from working with men in both sex work and coaching. The patterns are the same. Men feel pressure to perform, hide their needs, and avoid vulnerability.We talk about why sex is rarely just about sex. It reflects how you communicate, how you handle rejection, and how safe you feel expressing your truth. If you or your partner are dealing with mismatched desire, this episode gives you a deeper lens and practical starting points.In This Episode:00:00 Intro00:42 Why Low Libido Is Misunderstood02:10 Coral's Story From Sex Work to Coaching05:20 What Men Really Wanted Behind Closed Doors08:10 Why Sex Is Rarely About Sex10:05 The Shame Driving Male Desire12:00 Performance Anxiety Explained14:10 Porn, Pressure, and Unreal Expectations16:05 Why Men Struggle With Vulnerability18:00 Erectile Issues and the Nervous System20:10 The “Nice Guy” Trap in Relationships22:10 How to Start Fixing Mismatched Desire23:50 What to Expect in Part TwoWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out! Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Coral Osborne is a certified Intimacy & Identity Coach for men. She works with high-performing men who've built success everywhere except in their relationships, helping them reconnect with their authentic desires, emotional depth, and confidence in connection. Before becoming a coach, She spent years immersed in environments where men felt free to drop their guard and speak truthfully about what they were struggling with, performance anxiety, disconnection, loneliness, and the unspoken pressure to always have it together.Connect with Coral Osborne:Website: https://www.coralosborne.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneKaren Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastSubstack: https://karenbigman.substack.comTake control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.LINKS, EXCLUSIVE VIP DISCOUNTS, COURSES & FREEBIES

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In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey delve into the complexities of sexual desire, the nuances of arousal non-concordance, and the power of radical accountability in relationship repair. Moving beyond the clinical definitions of High Desire Partners (HDP) and Low Desire Partners (LDP), they share personal stories; from bucket-list moments in an Amtrak bathroom to the restorative power of gentle, non-genital touch.Lauren, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator, breaks down a fundamental biological difference that often causes friction in partnerships: the order of arousal and desire. While many people with penises experience spontaneous desire (the sudden "want" for sex) most people with vulvas experience responsive desire, where physiological arousal must happen before the mental desire to pursue sex kicks in. Understanding this "A before D" sequence (Arousal before Desire) is a game-changer for couples navigating mismatched sex drives.Following their exploration of David Schnarch's Intimacy & Desire, the duo discusses how these roles are not fixed and often flip depending on the context, whether it's travel, professional ambition, or the need for spaciousness. They tackle the "lonely feeling" of the LDP and the importance of the HDP "wooing" rather than demanding. By standing in the Four Points of Balance, Lauren and Trey demonstrate how to maintain a Solid Flexible Self while negotiating intimacy.The conversation shifts to a vulnerable look at desire smuggling and brinksmanship. They explore how to make requests that are "true wants" rather than hidden agendas for sex. Trey shares his experience of providing "trustworthy touch"; exploring erogenous zones without the obligation of penetrative sex, and how that safety allowed Lauren's body to "come online" naturally.Is your relationship feeling like a "checklist item"? Whether you are navigating mismatched desire or looking to deepen your relational intelligence, Lauren offers embodied coaching to help you restore pleasure and respect in your partnership.Request your free 15-minute consult at sexedforyou.com/freeconsult.About ThemLauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia, where Lauren owns and operates Sex Ed for You. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, while increasing the possibility of pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence (World Health Organization).Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples, and families, as well as to the social and economic development of communities and countries (World Health Organization). When individuals are blocked from sexual health, they are often stunted in their ability to develop sensual play, embodied connection, and enjoyment.Learn More & ConnectLearn more about Sex Ed for You: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com⁠Schedule a FREE CONSULT with Lauren: ⁠https://www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult⁠Learn more about partnered communication and relational education on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/⁠Subscribe to the YouTube channel for conversations about sex, partnership, communication, and love: ⁠https://youtube.com/@thepartnershippodcast⁠Important RemindersThis is not a “how to” podcast, but rather a “how they” podcast. Lauren and Trey share personal experiences, perspectives, and reflections, inviting listeners to learn from what resonates, question what doesn't, and decide what feels aligned for their own lives.Lauren is not a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.

Is your sex drive "too high"? "Too low"? Has it disappeared completely? Or is it all over the place? This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed tackle one of the most asked (and most anxiety-inducing) questions in sex: is my libido normal? From pregnancy libido shifts and ADHD hyperfocus highs, to widow's fire, medication side effects, birth control changes, and relationship mismatches — we unpack what actually influences desire… and why “normal” might be the wrong question altogether. We also answer your listener questions about: – Mismatched libidos in relationships – Losing your sex drive on the pill or antidepressants – ADHD peaks and troughs – Low libido from stress and parenthood – High libido when you're trying to stay single – Thyroid issues and chronic pain Plus we recommend Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski — and dive into “brakes and accelerators” when it comes to desire. Tune in and share your thoughts via our DMs Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're coming to you mid-snowstorm (40 inches in Rhode Island?! Are people just tunneling to Target at this point?) and somehow we start the episode with “we have nothing to talk about” which is always when things spiral the fastest. This week's chaos includes:  The wrinkle debate. What are those lines from your nose to your mouth and why are they suddenly… aggressive? Do we need facelifts? Frownies? Lymphatic brushes from TikTok Shop? Or is this just collagen packing its bags and leaving the chat? Red light therapy masks miracle or $500 mistake? Danna breaks down what it actually does (muscle recovery, inflammation, mood boost… allegedly), but then the ski-trip hot tub drama hits. Red dots. Panic Googling. Bed bug flashbacks. Lice PTSD. Turns out? Hot tub folliculitis. Antibiotics for everyone. Public hot tubs are officially cancelled. Farm update from the barn. Kristin is now the proud mother of two new lambs and still refusing to wash the overalls until lambing season is over. The coat has been washed (breaking news), but the pants may legally qualify as a biohazard. Progress is progress. Olympic feelings. We're not ready for the Olympics to be over. Hockey gold, missing teeth, heartfelt moments, and why the Winter Olympics are basically the unhinged best friend of the Summer Games. Leftovers for 20… from a dinner for 7. Shrimp. Deviled eggs. Soup. Pepperoni bread. A hot cheese dip situation. We may have catered our own podcast night. And we also share about a really cool networking opportunity our kids were part of because in between lice stories, hot tub bacteria, and lambs being born, we're still trying to raise capable humans. It's skincare confusion, farm chaos, mom spirals, and Olympic nostalgia, basically, peak Mismatched. New episode out now. Come laugh with us.

You've read the books. Maybe you've done therapy. You've tried scheduled sex, date nights, "just doing it." And you're still stuck.Here's why: you've been trying to fix a layout problem with decorative solutions.In this episode, I break down the kitchen remodel analogy— why desire gaps need something very different than what most people try. You need a comprehensive, body-based approach, not another book, toy, date night, or conversation about the problem. I'll walk you through what most of you have tried, why it hasn't worked (not your fault), why it feels so deflating, and what actually does work for real human beings.This is for people who are exhausted, at their wit's end, and starting to wonder if it's even fixable. Spoiler: it is.

Sexting sounds simple until you're actually staring at your phone, cursor blinking, wondering if what you're about to send is hot or just... weird. In this episode, I'm giving you the full breakdown on how to text dirty with confidence—because good sexting is really just foreplay with a keyboard. I'm answering your questions about everything from how to build tension with something as small as three dots, to what to do when your partner wants to sext around the clock but you're just not feeling it. Plus, I'm sharing some of the hottest sexts the Sex With Emily community has ever received (you asked, you delivered, and wow). In this episode, you'll learn:  • The "past and future" technique that makes writing a sext way less intimidating—and way more effective  • What to say when your long-distance partner's sexting pace doesn't match yours (hint: you're allowed to set your own rhythm)  • How sexting can actually help you communicate desires that feel too awkward to say face-to-face More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily's favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply). • Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Reach out to enrollment@sexwithemily.com to learn more!  • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let's text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:06 - The "past and future" rule for writing sexts 4:43 - How to use the three dots to build tension 5:34 - Nude photo tips: angles, lighting & confidence 7:35 - Protecting your nudes on Apple & Google 8:41 - The hottest sexts you've sent (community submissions) 10:18 - How to find your dirty talk voice 12:48 - Flirting with a coworker over Zoom & Slack 15:04 - Keeping sexts private when kids use your devices 16:08 - When your partner's masturbation habits change 19:16 - Mismatched sexting energy in long distance 22:35 - Rebuilding trust after infidelity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How stress, emotional disconnection, and overwhelm impact intimacy (and what to do about it) If you've ever thought… “I love my partner, but I just don't want sex.” “By the end of the day I'm touched out.” “I feel guilty that I'm never in the mood.” “Something feels off… but I don't know what.” This episode is for you. Low desire isn't always hormonal. It's not always about attraction. And it's definitely not because you're broken. More often than not, it's about mental load, nervous system overwhelm, and emotional disconnection. In today's episode, we're unpacking the invisible weight women carry — and how that weight directly impacts pelvic floor tension, arousal, pain with intercourse, and overall intimacy. Because desire doesn't disappear randomly. It gets crowded out. In This Episode, We Cover: What the “mental load” actually is — and why it's exhausting your nervous system How chronic stress increases pelvic floor tension and guarding Why feeling unsupported during the day shows up in the bedroom The connection between cortisol, safety, and arousal How resentment and emotional disconnection subtly affect your body The “Mental Load → Guarding → Guilt” cycle many women are stuck in Simple ways to rebuild emotional intimacy without pressure or performance Why This Matters for Pelvic Health Your pelvic floor does not exist in isolation. When you're in fight-or-flight all day — planning, managing, caretaking, carrying the emotional labor of your home — your body does not magically flip into relaxation mode at night. Arousal requires parasympathetic safety. Pleasure requires softness. Connection requires nervous system regulation. You cannot feel open in a body that feels responsible for everything. Practical Ways to Bridge Emotional Intimacy We discuss: ✔️ Reducing the invisible labor load ✔️ Non-sexual connection rituals ✔️ Regulating your nervous system before initiating intimacy ✔️ Expanding your definition of intimacy beyond performance ✔️ Creating safety in micro-moments, not grand gestures Because foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom. It starts in how supported you felt all day. Want a Structured Way to Rebuild Safety in Your Body? Make sure to check out the FREE Pain to Pleasure Masterclass inside the Pelvic Floor, Core & More App!    Access Here: https://pelvic-floor-core-more.passion.io/login

Lee and Leslie Strobel join Kirk Cameron to discuss the early years of their marriage, focusing on a period of time during which Leslie came to faith in Christ while Lee remained an atheist. They share the challenges they faced, the emotions they were navigating and the power of consistent prayer in the years that led to Lee investigating "The Case for Christ." Don't miss this riveting interview on Takeaways with Kirk Cameron on TBN! Missed the last episode? Listen in as psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud shares his moving testimony and personal faith journey. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WATCH Takeaways with Kirk Cameron episodes for free on TBN+⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Each episode of Takeaways with Kirk Cameron features knowledgeable guests having a respectful and thoughtful conversation surrounding topics that are impacting our society every day. Kirk's hope is that you will walk away from this show with practical steps on how to better your family, your community, and your nation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Talking about sex shouldn't feel like a performance review you didn't prepare for — and yet, for so many women, it does. In this episode of This Is Woman's Work, Nicole Kalil gets publicly uncomfortable (on purpose) to talk about what we're really craving when it comes to sex — not hotter, not louder, not more performative… but healthier. Joined by internationally renowned human sexuality professor and author Dr. Nicole McNichols, this conversation cuts through cultural noise, outdated scripts, and unrealistic expectations around women's desire. Together, they unpack why exhaustion, mental overload, hormonal shifts, and decades of conditioning disconnect women from their bodies — and how to rebuild a sex life rooted in honesty, agency, and pleasure. This episode isn't about doing more or trying harder. It's about unlearning shame, understanding your body, honoring your evolving needs, and creating a roadmap for sex that works for you — at every stage of life. What We Cover: Why “hotter sex” is the wrong goal — and what healthier sex actually looks like The mental load, exhaustion, and emotional labor killing desire (and what to do about it) Dr. McNichols' Hierarchy of Sexual Needs and why pleasure starts internally Getting out of your head and back into your body (hello, sexual mindfulness) Mismatched libidos, desire discrepancies, and how to stop making them mean something's wrong When curiosity, communication, and consent unlock deeper connection Healthy sex isn't about performance, frequency, or checking boxes — it's about presence, permission, and pleasure that evolves with you. When women reclaim agency over their bodies and desires, connection deepens, shame loosens its grip, and intimacy becomes something we get to experience — not something we're expected to perform. Thank you to our sponsors! Sex is a skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Visit https://beducate.me/bg2602-womanswork and use code womanswork for 50% off the annual pass. Connect with Dr. Nicole McNichols: Book: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/You-Could-Be-Having-Better-Sex/Nicole-McNichols/9781668053775  IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicole_thesexprofessor/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicole_thesexprofessor Related Podcast Episodes: Access, Agency & The Abortion Underground with Rebecca Grant | 358  051 / Connecting To Your Sexuality with Aylen Doucette How To Listen When Your Parts Speak (IFS Therapy + Ancestral Wisdom) with Tamala Floyd | 376 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform!

Jesse Eisenberg's Oscar-winning comedy drama received an embarrassment of plaudits from the industry and critics. Now it's time to get the ones that really matter: Mick, Hannah and Yosra watch American-Jewish cousins Benji (Kieran Culkin) and David (Eisenberg) as they embark on a Jewish heritage tour of Poland, following the death of their Holocaust-surviving grandmother. Feel-good film? Mismatched buddy comedy? Devastatingly bittersweet? All of the above? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Youth Group Chronicles, Sam is joined by Sha Racks and John Scarborough for an episode built around one painfully awkward youth group moment that spirals way faster than anyone expects, all sparked by a harmless comment about mismatched socks that goes very, very wrong. From there, the stories only escalate—camp chaos fueled by a misunderstood bottle of “relieving powder,” pranks that cross every possible line, games that reveal way too much about a student's imagination, well-meaning leaders accidentally shouting the wrong acronym across campus, and multiple moments that end in emergency rooms instead of evening devotions. It's a mix of secondhand embarrassment, bad decisions, and youth ministry trauma that proves once again that no matter how innocent it starts, youth group always finds a way to take a turn…See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.