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As we continually discuss dating and relationships in the new season of “Between the Sheets” our next topic is about where we are with the climate of chivalry. There is a place where we evolve from girls/boys to ladies/gentlemen. We must remember that chivalry is more about simply having manners. Where are you are manners in this season? chivalry is — a choice. The choice to do the right things, for the right reasons, at the right times.” Ernest Moore is the creative founder of Future Gents Org. Website: https://futuregents.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FutureGentsorg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/futuregentsorg/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNntgxu1Rzc7rJDu20KYKHQ Chivalry isn’t about knowing how to just “SMASH”, but more honestly about learning the benefits of growing to understand how to be ladies and gentlemen. Things to think about: He is respectful, acknowledges me, and has open-ended questions. He has a plan in place. What is his attire beyond your everyday casual? Advice for men: Know yourself first _____ About the Host & The Blic Society Website: Coming Soon Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jdouglasagency Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shinejcd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblicsociety/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janay.cerise/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIdslB0tiPcv4PhQCujEzBA --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Do you really understand what real love is? Let’s be honest we are so conditional as people to even say we know what real love looks like. Yet, shout out to Mary J for giving a good song to jam to. It all started for me when I evaluated if I was a loving person. Insert yourself into those scriptures and see if there are some areas you need to work on. Try it: [Insert your name] is patient, love is kind. [Insert your name] does not envy, [Insert your name] does not boast, [Insert your name] is not proud. 5 [Insert your name] does not dishonor others, [Insert your name] is not self-seeking, [Insert your name] is not easily angered, [Insert your name] keeps no record of wrongs. 6 [Insert your name] does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 [Insert your name] always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Comment and tell me your truth, where are you in this love equation? _______ About the Host & The Blic Society Website: Coming Soon Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jdouglasagency Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shinejcd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblicsociety/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janay.cerise/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIdslB0tiPcv4PhQCujEzBA --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

We are the BLIC Society (Bring Light in Conversation) formerly known as She’s Inspired: The Society New Season: Between the Sheets – regarding love and relationships Love Notes: https://www.forlovenotes.com _____ About the Host & The Blic Society Website: Coming Soon Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jdouglasagency Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shinejcd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblicsociety/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janay.cerise/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIdslB0tiPcv4PhQCujEzBA --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode Sponsor: Write For You Media www.thequeenofdigitalmarketing.com Instagram: @wfymedia Inspire Me Corner: “Love is the only force capable of turning an enemy into a friend” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Don’t be stagnant, you still have time 2020 is not over. It is time to start manifesting the things you truly desire. This is my season. Whatever I believe I should receive. Purchase Love Notes Journal: www.ForLoveNotes.com Why Love Notes: https://youtu.be/xBRjwFdXwJs Coming Soon: She’s Inspired Mentorship Program --- Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media or sign up to be a sponsor. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode Sponsor: Anchor.fm Inspire Me Corner: “Being single isn’t the cause of loneliness, and marriage is not the cure. There are many lonely married people as well” – Unknown Singleness does not mean you are lonely. For so many, we have yet to master being okay with ourselves. In this episode that I am honest with you my listeners about my own struggle with being with myself. Loneliness is a mental or emotional phenomenon that has at its base a powerful emotion. Many find loneliness from abandonment, if only for a short time. Whenever we are reminded of that feeling we get a twinge of that distress and now we confuse it with abandonment or loss. Things to consider: Realize that loneliness is a feeling, not a fact. This is something that been triggered by a feeling, it’s good to understand why? Reach out. Withdrawing yourself is how you fall into a deep depression. Find accountability or therapy. Notice your thoughts. Take note of the moments that cause you to feel the way you during those moments. Focus on the needs and feelings of others. Being engaged with your friends helps build strong emotional bonds to keep you from being isolated. Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 --- Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media or sign up to be a sponsor. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode Sponsor: Write For You Media www.queenofdigitalmarketing.com Instagram: @wfymedia Inspire Me Corner: “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fence, penetrates walls to arrive at its destinations full of hope” – Mary Angelou This is definitely a hard topic to discuss because many of us try our best to operate in the realm of spirituality. I took the time out to sit down with my ex co-worker, newfound to talk about his upcoming entrepreneur endeavors. Meet Eric Webb a.k.a Pharaoh Webb, the artist and Head Matchmaker of LGBT Love Service. We talked about love in its healthiest form. Pharaoh has created a match making service geared toward healing and creating love for real. Connecting with Pharaoh the Artist: https://instabio.cc/20827do90YU Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 --- Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media or sign up to be a sponsor. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode 12- Love Notes: Power Couple… To Be or Not About this Episode Inspire Me Corner: “A Man with Dream NEEDs a Woman with vision. – source unknown In a recent conversation, a male argued that there is no such thing as Power Couples. He stated that women could not walk equally to their mate, and while fixing his tie he quotes the man is head and the woman must submit. Do you believe in a power couple? What is a power couple? The Urban Dictionary says, “In a power couple if one person is flawed, the other person makes up for their weaknesses in strength. Together they are the epitome of what anyone would desire in a relationship. They encourage goodness in the world and make it a better place by being together.” Being a power couple isn’t just about good looks, wealth, and career success. It’s about having a teammate mindset—a “we” instead of a “me” mentality, which enables you to create a strong foundation. Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 --- Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode 12 - Love Notes Series: Living Single Inspire Me Corner: “What comes easy won’t last, but what lasts won’t come easy ” – Anonymous Guest: Taneya Pair Facebook: Taneya Pair Instagram: @taneyampair Guest: Jay Fuller Facebook: Jay Relluf Instagram: @_misterdecent Sponsor: Herbal Life Fitness Guru, Denise Renee Instagram: thespiritual_fitchick Website: linktr.ee/FitNSnatched Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “Single is an opportunity to live on your terms and not apologize” – Mandy Hale Guest: Taneya Pair Taneya Pair is a native of Washington DC. Throughout her journeys in life, Taneya discovered her passion for helping others facing challenging times in their lives. Instead of looking at her past as a negative and remaining in the problems, Taneya pursued a positive solution that changed her outlook on life which allowed her the opportunities to empower others. In pursuing her passion, Taneya graduated with her Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Trinity Washington University and remains an advocate for Spiritual, Emotional and Mental Health Awareness. Taneya is also currently studying for her Masters In Divinity with a concentration in Pastoral Counseling. Taneya is an author, Owner of Cherish handmade Jewelry, Cherish the Collection, Member of Federal Women’s Program, Founder of Victorious Over Depression Support Group. Taneya has been trained in discipleship studies. She brings with her a number of gifts and knowledge that will impact the life of others. She currently enjoys serving at Heritage Church International under the direction of Bishop RS Walker and within the community in various capacities. Facebook: Taneya Pair Instagram: @taneyampair Guest: Jay Fuller Jay Fuller is a Freelance Writer, Public Speaker, and Financial advisor who helps finance professionals and Business startups to build an audience and get more paying clients online. Before starting a writing business, Jay spent six years as an Engineer and Financial advisor for financial companies in the U.S. After a successful career helping small business and real estate agencies, Jay now helps them write marketing copy for their products and services. Jay enjoys traveling (Houston, anyone?) and managing a small property rental business. Jay’s available for marketing and writing projects, as well as private consultations. You can reach Jay at jayfuller22@gmail.com. Facebook: Jay Relluf Instagram: @_misterdecent Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve” – Stephen Chbosky Excerpt From “Love Notes” Journal Book: There was a time when I would allow God full control in every area of my life, except when it concerned my relationships. I reasoned with myself that surely, I am capable of deciding when the relationship was suitable. But it’s now more than ever that I realize I must give God full control over even my intimate situations. So, until then I'll wait for His (God) direction. #DearFutureHusband My choices are not always God’s best; therefore, I am releasing control so that I can receive the best. Do you really involve GOD? Don’t give lifetime expectations with someone who is really an assignment. Coming Soon: Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “The best way to predict your future is to create it” – Peter Drucker The bible says in Habakkuk 2:2 AMP write the vision and engrave it plainly on [clay] tablets so that the one who reads it will run. What have you done to write the vision and make it plain? Have you started the research? Did you contact the connection that you were given? Or have you even started the business plan ... Today’s challenge is to create your future... Write It... Profess It... Command It... Do It... Death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21 AMP) That which you speak has the ability to open or close the blessings you need to propel you into your destiny. What have you said about yourself lately? Have you stood in the mirror and told yourself that you are beautiful? That you fearfully and wonderfully made Have you spoken to self lately and said you can do all things through Christ? Choose to live beyond the restrictions in life. Events: Shes Builds Business Registration: shebuildsbiz.eventbrite.com Coming Soon: Love Notes Series Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020 Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members” – Coretta Scott King When we as the community honestly decide to put actions to those things which we are passionate about then we should accurately see change. What actions are you doing within your community? Are you registered to vote? If not, register here: https://sos.ga.gov/index.php/Elections/register_to_vote Are you gifted in an area, I want to connect with you! I have a list of a few businesses that should connect within the Facebook Group under the “Together We Build” post. - https://www.facebook.com/groups/shethesociety Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “Rise above the storm, and you will find the sunshine”. – meaning, not all storms come to disrupt your life. Some come to clear your path. She Inspires Me with Author Sharee Smith. Now Mrs. Sharee Smith currently resides in Atlanta, Georgia. Born in St. Louis, MO, she gained a love for writing through the many different books read from during her adolescent days to teen years. She started out writing poetry. As time continued and she began to experience life, the thoughts of writing a book became more and more real. Sharee sat down and began writing, not a poem this time, but something much deeper and personal. She didn't stop writing until I birthed my first book, "This So-Called Single Life". This book journey's through my life after divorce, detailing real and true events. It deals with being single after a very grueling divorce, all while working, dating, and raising her three children on her own. In this book, she shares her dating pitfalls and life lessons learned along the way. She is now remarried to a wonderful husband. We have a total of five grown children, in whom they love dearly, ranging in age from 17-23. In her spare time, she loves to write, listen to music, and spend time with family. She hopes “This So-Called Single Life" touches and blesses your life in a fulfilling way. Book Purchase: Personalized Copy - $20 (CashApp: $Reeree05) Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/So-Called-Single-Sharee-Antoinette-Smith/dp/B0849YXQ3D/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=This+so+called+single+life&qid=1591197008&sr=8-1 Website: https://shareestscsl.wixsite.com/website Email: shareestscsl@gmail.com _____ Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Inspire Me Corner: “One Monkey Don’t Stop No Show”. – meaning one setback should not impede progress. Don’t let this time stop you from achieving everything you need to move forward. We all had to adjust but doesn’t mean we had to stop. During this pandemic many jobs closed its doors, many were laid off and unemployment is at an all-time high. Yet, there are many employers looking to hire during this crazy time. Could it be this is just the time you needed to refresh and reset to go after the dream you have been trying to obtain for years? The Muse, an outline workforce agency recently posted an article of 94 companies looking to hire. So, you should definitely begin submitting applications after you have reviewed and updated your resume. Article by The Muse: https://www.themuse.com/advice/companies-hiring-during-coronavirus-covid-19 Resume Building with LaTasha Gibbs, MSHRM Registration: https://resumebuildingwithlatasha.eventbrite.com Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

Episode 5- Moving from Comfort About this Episode Inspire Me Corner: “You will never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone”. Roy T. Bennett – Don’t waste awesome potential being afraid to do what you should have done years ago. The Comfort Zone Grid Comfort Zone – No risk, No Reward, everything is safe, and You are in control of it. Fear Zone – Imposter syndrome, lack of self-confidence Learning Zone – Taking on challenges or acquiring new skills Growth Zone – Clarity and Alignment; Purpose and Fulfillment What are you going to do to move out of your comfort zone? Tell me on my Instagram page. Poem Referenced: I have only just a minute by Dr. Benjamin E. Mays - https://sacompassion.net/poem-i-have-only-just-a-minute-by-dr-benjamin-e-mays/ Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: admin@shethesociety.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

This is a special episode with interview Goddess Shunny, creative and founder of Black Magic Enterprise. Inspire Me Corner: “Learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.” – Eleanor – You don’t grow up knowing it all, wise counsel is always better. Remember we talked about getting a coach in a previous episode. Find someone you trust to keep you accountable. She Inspires Me with Goddess Shunny Goddess Shunny is a Self-Care coach, Herbal Healer, Creative and Boy Mom. Black Magic Enterprise began when she came up with a t-shirt idea. In speaking with her designer, she wanted to create an image to depict the beauty and magic that come from black women. It was only supposed to be apparel, but as she began to dive deeper in herbal healing, she found she was helping those close to her by cultivating teas, bath soaks and yoni steams. She had a deep desire to do more, and she did just that. In June 2018, that t-shirt image became her first logo. Goddess Shunny has a goal to help women go from a place of Self-Sabotage to Self-Care. She does this by emphasizing the importance of changing your mind and lifestyle. Advice from Goddess Shunny: Believe in yourself, start planning, connect with a coach or current business, and finally do the work. Connect with Goddess Shunny Email: goddessshunny@gmail.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/blackmagicenterprise Instagram: @blackmagicenterprises Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: info@jcdmgmt.com Peace Love and Light Dreamers --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

First up the Inspire Me Corner with one of my favorite quotes, next today's topic of The COVID19 Reset. Inspire Me Corner: You can always start again. You can always change your mind. You are in control of your mind. Hit that reset button anytime. – Unknown Author. Question of the Day: Do you know that resets are necessary? A reset is an ideal moment to create a clean slate and start over. Four Principles to Use: 1. Walk in Truth. Look at the areas in your life that you are not too enthused about and decide why it is time to change. 2. Mind your Thoughts. Thoughts are actual things. Whatever you think about grows and becomes in reality. We have all heard the quote change your thoughts it changes your life. Understand that truth and use it. 3. Understand Your Purpose. Knowing and understanding why in your purpose can be a breakthrough for you. If you are unsure find and connect with life or spiritual coach. 4. Take Action. In order to create your future, you must act. Check yourself and question whether you are acting/being the person you want to become. Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: info@jcdmgmt.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

First up the Inspire Me Corner with one of my favorite quotes, next today's topic of Doing Something Different in 2020, then lastly pushing forward with growth in this season. Inspire Me Corner: “With a new day comes new strengths and new thoughts” – Eleanor Roosevelt - Are you taking negative thoughts, emotions or perspectives in your day causing you to see a little off balance. Do you reset daily so that you see something different in the new day ahead? Try it out and let me know. Let’s do something different in 2020. We often say we want to accomplish so much, but we do actually accomplish those things we tape to our vision boards. If you are like me then I have done many vision boards and attended many parties but somewhere along the way, I would get sidetracked. Now this year, I am devoted to bettering me for ME. Let’s step out of our comfort and try something new. This podcast is sponsored by Envisioner Creative Suite www.envisionercs.com Don’t limit yourself in all that you can have. If you are expecting GRAND still expect more. Don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast and connect with me on social media. Instagram: @shethesociety Personal Instagram: @janay.cerise Email: info@jcdmgmt.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support

About This Episode: It’s the beginning and I cannot wait to share with you the excitement it is for me to conquer my fear. I have finally made the decision to step in the realm of uncomfortable to be able to become all that I am destines to be. It was this day I overcame fear to walk out purpose. It is here that we will connect to grow mentally and spiritually. What better way than making the mark. Remember the famous saying if not now then when. Let today be the start of you becoming great. Are you overcoming Fear? Connect with Me: Business Instagram: @shethesociety Email: info@jcdmgmt.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/theblicsociety/support