Podcasts about self sabotage

David Choe is a world-renowned artist, writer, podcaster and TV host. He tells how as a child, he was made to believe he was destined for greatness but also that he was a complete disgrace, leading him to channel his energy—including deep shame—into art that brought him global recognition. He shares about his addictions that put him on a decades-long cycle of extreme highs and lows and that forced him to eventually acknowledge and heal the childhood trauma he was battling inside. David shows up with raw, authentic presence to show us how we can transmute pain and shame into our best creative work and, more importantly, how complete vulnerability, especially about our hardest experiences, is the ultimate tool for forgiveness and self-acceptance. He also tells us the actual story about early Facebook, Pee-wee Herman and Santa Claus. Note: This conversation includes topics and language that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Mateina: https://drinkmateina.com/huberman Timestamps 00:00:00 David Choe 00:03:10 Drawing, Black & Colors, Death 00:12:54 Telepathy, South Bay 00:17:52 Sponsors: Eight Sleep & LMNT 00:20:40 Childhood, Podcasts, Mundane Moments & Artist Life 00:28:45 Mother, Beliefs, Religion, Artistic Ability, Childhood 00:33:27 Gambling, Transformation; Immigrant, Disgrace 00:40:10 Street Art, Graffiti, Creativity; Paintings, Payment; Sports 00:52:08 Sponsor: AG1 00:53:30 Santa, Belief; Journal, Vulnerability; Heart Break, Art 01:00:16 Facebook, Graffiti; Theft, Gambling 01:10:57 Adapting, Creativity 01:17:16 Album Cover, Art & Payment 01:23:40 Sponsor: Function 01:25:28 Immigrant & Belonging, Academics, Learning Art, Marvel Comics, Shame 01:35:11 Shame, Gambling Addiction, Stress 01:43:05 Sexual Abuse, Trauma, Shame, Addiction 01:51:52 Early Career, Pornography, Author 02:01:20 Graffiti, Disappointment, Rejection; Early Magazines 02:08:26 Sponsor: Mateina 02:09:27 Pornography, Co-Dependence; Movie Set 02:18:00 Pride & Family, Vice; Pokémon 02:26:44 Podcast, Workaholism, Shame, Reality; Anthony Bourdain, Channing Tatum 02:38:54 Writing, Career Success, Workaholism, Vice, News, Self-Sabotage, Heart Attack 02:52:21 Growth & Pain, Sizzler; David Arquette 02:58:40 Rehab, God, Purpose, Parents & Disappointment, The Choe Show, Pee-Wee Herman 03:05:53 Gratitude, Korean Immigrant, Self-Reflection, Brokenness 03:14:37 Emotion, Saying No, Suicide; Vacation & Workaholism, Art 03:25:23 Legacy; Vacation, Work; Authenticity 03:31:15 Surviving & Thriving, Suicide, Addiction, Play the Tape Out, Fun, Feeling Enough 03:44:43 Hope & Faith, Electronics, Santa Claus 03:51:23 Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.In this episode we read a raw, vulnerable email from a long-time community member whose 14 year marriage has been rocked by emotional cheating, digital infidelity and self-sabotage on both sides. We break down her story of online flirting, texting clients, TikTok DMs, sending “innocent” selfies to other men, performance issues in the bedroom, hormone struggles, deep insecurity, mom burnout, and a husband who now considers them separated. You'll hear us call out rationalizations like “it was just a selfie,” “nothing sexual,” “we were separated in my head,” and “I don't know why I did it,” and dig into the truth about attention-seeking online, fantasy relationships, and how selfies, DMs, and secret conversations become emotional affairs that destroy trust, respect, and intimacy.We walk you through what accountability actually looks like after betrayal, how to stop blame shifting to “internal demons” and past trauma, how to apologize without justifying, and how to rebuild or walk away when digital cheating and emotional affairs have already crossed the line. We talk monogamy, open-phone policies, boundaries with the opposite sex, no-private-DM rules, parasocial relationships, stay-at-home mom resentment, the self-imposed prison of housework, and why your marriage will always mirror the effort you give it. If you're dealing with emotional cheating, online flirting, TikTok and Instagram DMs, low self-worth, or a partner who says you're “separated,” this marriage advice conversation will give you brutal honesty, practical language, and a clear standard for what real change and healing in a relationship actually require.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

This is a special edition of the Brainz Podcast with host Joana Esteves.If you are reading/listening to this episode, it may be that you suspect certain sabotaging behavior in yourself or someone you know, or maybe you are already aware of it, and you want to find out ways to stop undermining your success in life. Either way, this is for you. In this episode, Joana Esteves will dive into the theme of self-sabotage: what it is, 6 ways we may be engaging in self-sabotaging behavior, and the best ways to overcome it. Listen and enjoy!Podcast links:Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/594g1DzaU3La74ZZ7lPW9j?si=bb1c559b8f5a46abYoutubehttps://www.youtube.com/@MindUntanglingEpisode mentioned links: ⁠https://www.holistictransformationcenter.com/post/hypnosis-7-myths-and-truths⁠ Subscribe on the following link and add the code "SABOTAGE" for a 15% discount coupon to start your RTT program with Joana Esteves: ⁠https://www.holistictransformationcenter.com/subscribe⁠ Many links to studies and resources can be found on the blog version of this episode here: ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.holistictransformationcenter.com/post/6-ways-we-self-sabotage-and-6-steps-to-overcome-it⁠ To contact Joana Esteves on an issue you would like her help with go to ⁠⁠https://www.holistictransformationcenter.com/contact⁠⁠ or email her directly at support@holistictransformationcenter.comDo you like the content? Don't forget to subscribe to the Brainz Podcast. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Estranged. Cut off. Disengaged.Whatever you want to call it—it's trending! Going “no contact” has become so ubiquitous Oprah covered it in a recent podcast episode, Mel Robbins just wrote a NY Times article about it, and it's the subject of several books and thousands of TikToks.What's going on? Why are so many adult children cutting off their parents and families?Is Going No Contact a difficult, yet imperative, decision to protect oneself from a toxic family?Or, does it reflect an unwillingness to navigate the messiness of adult family relationships, because, of course, it's way easier to solely interact with likeminded friends. Is it self care or self sabotage?Elliott and I delve into the myriad elements surrounding this phenomenon, including:1️⃣The increase of family disengagement Elliott has witnessed in his clinical practice. 2️⃣The Going No Contact debate—does it facilitate or impede our emotional development and maturity?3️⃣How “self-help culture” has introduced therapeutic terms into our everyday lexicon—and the ramifications therein.4️⃣Expanding definitions of concepts such as “toxic,” “narcissist,” and “gaslighting.”5️⃣The grief inherent to estranged families. 6️⃣The role of social media in fueling this trend.7️⃣Suggestions for reunification—should children decide they'd like to. According to a study cited on Oprah's podcast, 30% of Americans have a family member who has disengaged. So, it's likely this impacts you or someone you love. If you know someone who “Won't Be Home For Christmas,” this conversation is for you!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

Christmas is a beautiful time of the year, but it can also be a melting pot of triggers, emotions, stress, leading to very dysregulated nervous systems.. which can lead to poor choices or even some self sabotage. Me and a host of other beautiful previous guests, experts and people who have made it through these times have got your back. For the 25 days of Christmas I will be posting 25 mini episodes with a tip every single day to help get you through.To work with me, join a challenge or come on retreat head to www.iquitalcohol.com.au Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textIn this episode, I'm not talking about calories, macros or step counts.I'm talking about the stories in your head that decide if you actually follow through or not.My guest is Tim Shurr – a high-performance hypnotist and mindset coach who has spent over 30 years helping people upgrade their beliefs, calm anxiety and stop self-sabotage. He's also the author of “One Belief Away” and has worked with thousands of people who kept saying the same thing you might have said too:“I know what to do… I just don't do it.”In our conversation, we dive into:What “One Belief Away” really means in everyday lifeHow hidden beliefs from childhood run your health, food and body choices todayWhy you keep falling into all-or-nothing thinking and starting over on MondayThe link between emotional eating, people-pleasing and “I'm not enough” storiesWhy willpower is not the problem – and what isSimple at-home tools to start rewiring your beliefs without any special equipmentTim also walks through how to:Spot “mental malware” – old stories like “I always fail” or “I'm not that kind of person”Upgrade the belief “I'm not a priority in my own life” to “I am more than enough”Talk to yourself in a kinder, more effective way when you want to binge or skip a workoutBuild a new identity like: “I'm the woman who takes care of her body, even on stressful days.”If you've ever felt broken, lazy, or like you “just don't have the discipline,” this episode is for you.You're not broken. You're just one belief away from showing up differently.

If you've ever felt stuck in cycles of procrastination, self-sabotage, or fear — and couldn't quite understand why — this Inspiration Session is for you.Shadow work isn't about fixing what's broken or digging endlessly into the past. It's about bringing compassion and awareness to the hidden patterns that quietly shape your choices, reactions, and relationships. In this session, Justin Michael Williams reframes shadow work as a powerful doorway to freedom — not shame.Through a vulnerable personal story, grounded teaching, original music, and a guided meditation, you'll learn how to begin working with your shadow in a way that feels safe, practical, and deeply transformative.In this Inspiration Session, you'll explore:What “shadow” really is — and what it isn'tHow to recognize the patterns that quietly shape your choicesThe five most important questions to uncover and understand your shadowWhy awareness, not force, is what creates real changeA guided meditation to release old patterns and step into freedomGolden Nugget:Your shadow is what is making your choices for you without you realizing it. Once you get to know it, you can have freedom. ✨ 2-hour masterclassWatch Justin's full 2-hour masterclass:How to Break Through Your ShadowFree for Transform My Life members, or register for a single class here:https://www.justinmichaelwilliams.com/masterclass

Everything else in your life is leveling up, so why do you keep returning to the bottle? The answer lies in the upper limit problem, a subconscious belief that you don't deserve or can't sustain success. Coach Matt breaks down the biopsychosocial factors that drive self-sabotage, from the quick reward hits of dopamine to core fears of success or failure. Learn why overcoming cognitive distortions, replacing the inner critic with self-compassion, and committing to small, realistic goals are the only way to align your behavior with your conscious desire for freedom.   Download my FREE guide: The Alcohol Freedom Formula For Over 30s Entrepreneurs & High Performers: https://social.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/podcast ★ - Learn more about Project 90: www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/Project90 ★ - (Accountability & Support) Speak verbally to a certified Alcohol-Free Lifestyle coach to see if, or how, we could support you having a better relationship with alcohol: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/schedule ★ - The wait is over – My new book "CLEAR" is now available. Get your copy here: https://www.alcoholfreelifestyle.com/clear

Discover why successful entrepreneurs hit invisible income barriers and sabotage their growth. Carrie West reveals the hidden scripts from childhood that create money ceilings - and the exact language patterns keeping you stuck. Learn how to rewrite your origin story, spot the "can't, don't, shouldn't" triggers, and break through to your next income level without the fear and self-doubt. Grab your Free E-book Work Yourself Happy (Amazon Best Seller) by Dr. Terri Levine here : https://book.terrilevine.com/work-yourself-happy Join us here to deeply connect with our community:  www.heartrepreneurs.com  Subscribe to this podcast on your favorite podcast platform… Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/live-well-earn-well-for-coaches-consultants/id1585895518  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5OjsOxN7MqwKio4Ae6vSMQ  Or anywhere else podcasts are found! 

You know that moment when something inside you says "screw it—I deserve this, life's too short for all these rules"? It might happen after you've been trying to "be good", or it might happen just from thinking about cutting back. You might think this part is sabotaging you, making everything harder. But what if this part is actually trying to help you? In this episode, we explore the "screw it" part using parts psychology, understand what it's really trying to give you, and learn how to work with it instead of against it.What You'll Discover:The "screw it" part isn't sabotaging you—it's trying to help youThe cycle two parts that keeps you stuckWhy January 1st won't change you (and what will)How to work with your parts instead of fighting against yourselfIf you're caught in the cycle of being "good" and then saying "screw it," this episode will help you understand what's really happening—and how to break free.Struggling to do this work alone? Schedule a Breakthrough Call to explore one-on-one support.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.

In this empowering and practical conversation of the Authors On Mission podcast, host Danielle Hutchinson sits down with Dr. Albert Bramante—psychologist, hypnotist, and author of Rise Above the Script. Together, they explore how to overcome self‑sabotage, build healthy self‑esteem, and unlock creative success.✨ Tips you'll hear in this episode:Replace limiting labels with empowering ones to rewire your mindset.Use visualization to make success feel real and achievable.Convert “to‑do lists” into scheduled calendar blocks to beat procrastination.Write first, edit later—avoid perfectionism that stalls progress.Whether you're an author, creative, or professional striving for growth, you'll discover how Dr. Bramante's journey from talent agent to psychologist shaped his mission to help others rise above self‑defeating patterns.

Feeling stuck in survival mode—skipping workouts, stress-snacking, sleeping less, and calling it "good enough"? In this fireside chat, we unpack how that bar quietly drops and what to do when "good enough" stops being enough. You'll learn how to spot the red flags, reframe your mindset, and raise your floor with small shifts that actually stick during busy seasons and the holidays. We riff on five everyday arenas where standards slip—and how to course-correct without perfectionism: Food noise vs food joy: enjoy treats on purpose, not by accident The good-enough workout: protect the appointment, adjust the dose Morning light vs winter blues: use light as a free energy reset Stress vs rest at family gatherings: step-out rituals that save your tone Gratitude as a reset: one specific thank-you that changes your day‍ Plus, we show you how to use habit anchors to make consistency automatic and craft a one-line floor statement you can run for the next 7 days.‍ APPLY FOR COACHING: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/1-1-coaching SDE Method app: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/sde-method-app The Fitness League Waiting List https://u3rwk.share.hsforms.com/2rkAwsFntTAeZ__PxwXdr4Q Macros Guide https://www.lvltncoaching.com/free-resources/calculate-your-macros Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lvltncoaching FREE TOOLS to start your health and fitness journey: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/resources/freebies Alessandra's Instagram: http://instagram.com/alessandrascutnik Joelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joellesamantha?igsh=ZnVhZjFjczN0OTdn Josh's Instagram: http://instagram.com/joshscutnik Chapters: 00:00 The Drift into Survival Mode 03:19 Recognizing the Red Flags 09:06 The All-or-Nothing Mentality 12:59 Finding Balance in a Busy Life 16:06 Morning Routines and Alarm Strategies 18:12 Setting Boundaries: Floors and Ceilings in Life 19:10 Food Awareness: Noise vs. Joy 22:19 Adapting Workouts: Embracing Change 23:41 Light Exposure: Combatting Winter Blues 24:39 Navigating Family Gatherings: Stress vs. Rest 25:33 Gratitude as a Daily Reset 26:32 Habit Anchors: Small Changes, Big Impact 29:58 Self-Audit: Recognizing Good Enough 34:43 Small Upgrades for Big Benefits 37:20 Awareness and Action: The Path to Change

Why do we sabotage the things we say we want?Why do we shrink ourselves, hesitate, or pull back right when progress is within reach?In this episode of The Collective, Chance and Shaun sit down with Alana Stott — author, advocate, and speaker — to unpack the mechanics of self-sabotage: where it comes from, why it continues, and how we break the cycle.Together we explore:• Childhood patterns and internalized stories that shape adult behavior• The fear of success — and why it's more common than fear of failure• Why we mistrust good things when we've learned to expect the opposite• How self-sabotage hides inside “being realistic,” “staying humble,” or “not wanting to be a burden”• The disconnect between what we want and what we believe we deserve• What accountability actually looks like — and why awareness alone isn't enough• How to stop shrinking yourself to make others comfortableThis conversation is raw, honest, and deeply human.If you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or trapped by your own patterns, this episode will help you see the loop clearly — and step out of it.New episodes of The Collective every week.Join us as we learn, build, and grow — together.#TheCollective #SelfSabotage #AlanaStott #Mindset #Growth #TraumaPatterns #PersonalDevelopment #FearOfSuccess

When it comes to mental performance, even the best performers face key Pressure Points: · Self-Doubt and Lack of Confidence · Anxiety in Competition and in Life · Distraction & the inability to focus properly How do you overcome these Pressure Points to consistently bring your A-Game? Control the Deployment of Focus! Mastering this skill […] The post Episode 25-22: The Smart Bomb of Performance & Understanding the Nail of Mental Self-Sabotage appeared first on Radio Influence.

When it comes to mental performance, even the best performers face key Pressure Points: · Self-Doubt and Lack of Confidence · Anxiety in Competition and in Life · Distraction & the inability to focus properly How do you overcome these Pressure Points to consistently bring your A-Game? Control the Deployment of Focus! Mastering this skill allows you to Krush Anxiety and Self-Doubt. In this week's episode of Krush Performance, we dive deep with Krush Hall of Famer, Performance Specialist Dr. Jacques Dallaire of Performance Prime. With over 50 years of experience helping many thousands of the worlds top performers from 100+ disciplines across 50 countries, Dr. Dallaire shares invaluable insights. Tune in as we explore The Performance Equation, the 3 Key Ingredients to Success, the SMART BOMB of Performance, and the Nail of Mental Self-Sabotage. Understanding these Pressure Points is one thing, arming yourself with the tools to Krush them is another. This is crucial not just for yourself, but for your players, athletes, family, and friends. Fine-tuning Mental Performance is a critical part of Creating More Coachable Players. Let's begin right now. The 20th season of Krush Performance is in full swing! Have a favorite guest or topic you'd like us to revisit? Or a burning issue you want us to investigate? Let us know at jeffkrushell.com. While you're there, subscribe to the Krush podcast and sign up for our weekly newsletter to stay on the cutting edge of human performance. Subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and TuneIn Radio! Don't forget to rate and review the show! Follow @JeffKrushell for weekly updates, show notes, and behind-the-scenes insight from Krush's CREATING COACHABLE PLAYERS PROGRAM. E-Mail Jeff with your questions and comments for the show and don't forget to visit KrushPerformance.com for live streaming, blogs, links, and so much more The post Episode 25-22: The Smart Bomb of Performance & Understanding the Nail of Mental Self-Sabotage appeared first on Radio Influence.

In this episode, Cindy Esliger discusses the pattern of catastrophizing that keeps us stuck in inaction and blocks career opportunities before we even give ourselves a chance to succeed. Catastrophizing - the anxious thought patterns that only allow us to imagine the worst-case outcome of any situation - is an exhausting form of self-sabotage that is keeping us stuck in place. But it can be disrupted, and Cindy breaks down how to identify when we're engaging in catastrophizing, and how we can learn to challenge those thoughts before they drag us down.    What does catastrophizing look like? Cindy identifies the five most common cognitive distortions that feed our spiraling: 1. Catastrophizing, 2. Magnification, 3. All or nothing thinking, 4. Overgeneralization, and 5. Blaming. These distortions keep us locked in a loop of stress and stalled momentum. How do we know if we're falling into these patterns? Cindy offers five red flags to watch for: 1. Avoiding new opportunities, 2. Overpreparing or aiming for perfection, 3. Reacting emotionally to changes, 4. Looping negative thoughts, and 5. Discounting our wins. Catastrophizing is anticipating the worst that could happen without ever considering a neutral or even positive outcome. We need to learn to break the cycle. Cindy suggests practical strategies like a thought audit, reframing the situation, experimenting with action, and tracking our growth. Negative thought patterns don't make us weak; they make us human. But they are survival strategies that have overstayed their welcome. We may not consciously choose to spiral, but we can consciously choose to overcome catastrophizing with Cindy's guidance.Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Dismantling the Disaster MindsetAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

"Keep having conversations that drive people to more and better." – Bridget HomToday's featured bestselling author is a wife, mompreneur, motivational speaker, award-winning business life coach, philanthropist, and the Operating Partner of Bridge To Freedom Coaching, Bridget Hom. Bridget and I had a fun on a bun chat about her book, “Stuck On Ready: Master the Entrepreneur Mindset, Break Free from Self-Sabotage, and Access Your Limitless Potential”, how aligning your thoughts can lead to inevitable success, the importance of memorable brand language, and more!!!Key Things You'll Learn:What it means to be “Stuck on Ready”The difference between desire and deserve-abilityWhat Bridget learned from writing her book and the process that helped her get it doneHer three criteria for investing time and energyWhat setback helped her create more successBridget's Site: https://bridgetofreedomcoaching.com/Bridget's Book: https://stuckonready.com/Bridget's Audiobook: stuckonreadyaudiobook.comThe opening track is titled, “Unknown From M.E. | Sonic Adventure 2 ~ City Pop Remix” by Iridium Beats. To listen to and download the full track, click the following link. https://www.patreon.com/posts/sonic-adventure-136084016 Please support today's podcast to keep this content coming! CashApp: $DomBrightmonDonate on PayPal: @DBrightmonBuy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dombrightmonGet Going North T-Shirts, Stickers, and More: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/dom-brightmonThe Going North Advancement Compass: https://a.co/d/bA9awotYou May Also Like…Ep. 583 – How to Be the Face of Your Business with Tonya Eberhart (@brandfacestar): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-583-how-to-be-the-face-of-your-business-with-tonya-eberhart-brandfacestar/983 – How Neuroscience Can Fuel Your Book & Life Success with Sara Connell (@saracconnell): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/saracconnell/1002 – Why Living With Intention Is The Key to Mastering Life with Bianca D'Alessio: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1002-why-living-with-intention-is-the-key-to-mastering-life-with-bianca-dalessio/835 – Turn Words Into Wealth with Aurora Winter, MBA (@AuroraWinterMBA): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-835-turn-words-into-wealth-with-aurora-winter-mba-aurorawintermba/306 – Be The SPARK with Simon T. Bailey (@SimonTBailey): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-306-be-the-spark-with-simon-t-bailey-simontbailey/147 - The Connector's Advantage with Michelle Tillis Lederman (@mtlederman): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/147-the-connectors-advantage-with-michelle-tillis-lederman-mtlederman/113 - Business, Faith & Empowering Women Over 40 with Jen Du Plessis (@JenDuPlessis): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/113-business-faith-empowering-women-over-40-with-jen-du-plessis-jenduplessis/1015 – How One Woman's Harrowing Beginning Led Her to God, Grace, and Growth with Dr. Shanea Clancy: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1015-how-one-womans-harrowing-beginning-led-her-to-god-grace-and-growth-with-dr-shanea-cla/810 – You Are Worthy with Katherine Norland (@katnorland): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-810-you-are-worthy-with-katherine-norland-katnorland/1025 – How To Become a Vessel Leader and Produce Genuine Impact with Alison C. Jones: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1025-how-to-become-a-vessel-leader-and-produce-genuine-impact-with-alison-c-jones/309 – Home Worthy with Sandra Rinomato (@SandraRinomato): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-309-home-worthy-with-sandra-rinomato-sandrarinomato/477 – P.S. You're a Genius with Kelly Trach (@kellytrach): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-477-ps-youre-a-genius-with-kelly-trach-kellytrach/670 – The Bestselling Book Formula with Honorée Corder (@Honoree): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-670-the-bestselling-book-formula-with-honoree-corder-honoree/

You've done the vision boards. Set the goals. Showed up with discipline. And still – something feels off.If you're a high achiever who's done all the things and still doesn't feel like you've arrived, this one's for you.Jessica Eley breaks down why smart, driven women stay stuck even when they know what they want. Spoiler: it's not your vision, your strategy, or your discipline. It's your capacity – your ability to handle not just what you want, but everything that comes with it.We talk about:Why "I don't know what I want" is about being unpracticed, not brokenThe real reason you might be more afraid of success than failureWhy labelling things good/bad keeps you smallHow your nervous system determines your income ceilingThe balance between owning what you want and having the capacity to handle itThis Episode Is For You If:You've done the vision board thing and you're still stuckYou hit your goals and felt... nothingYou want more but can't seem to let yourself reach for itYou're tired of being the strong one but don't know how to be differentYou keep trying new strategies but the same patterns keep showing upYou're doing everything right and still feel like something's missingYou're starting to wonder if the problem isn't your plan — it's something no one's named yetThis isn't about manifesting harder or the next manifestation hack. It's about meeting yourself where you are and building from there.Guest: Jessica Eley: coach for high achievers creating success on their own terms Connect: @iamjesseleySend me a DM_____________________________________________________________________ Visit jenniferwalter.me – your cosy tree house where tired perfectionists and those done pretending to be fine find space to breathe, dream, and create real change.

What if the way you've been told to get fit… is exactly what's holding you back? If you're over 40 and still not where you want to be with your fitness or health, it might not be about willpower. It might be the method. This week on The Health Feast, I'm joined by Maxime Sigouin — founder of FitVegan Coaching — to unpack why so many traditional fitness plans fail us… and what actually works instead. Maxime has helped hundreds of people in their 40s, 50s, and beyond reclaim their health, reverse chronic conditions, and build sustainable strength — without chasing aesthetics or burning out. In this episode, we get into: Why most fitness advice sets people up to fail How to rebuild trust in your body after years of dieting or injury What mindset and habits actually sustain long-term change Why slowing down — even unplugging — can be a power move Maxime also shares what he believes is the single most important investment you can make in your health after 40: strength training. Not just for looks — but for confidence, function, and long-term vitality. Since we recorded, Maxime announced the release of his new book, Forever Fit — which is available for preorder now here. If you've ever felt like the quick fixes aren't working anymore… this episode offers something deeper. Live well and RAK ON, – Dr. Rak

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On today's show, I discuss the tension between wanting connection and needing control. We look at learned defiance, how it forms, why it feels safer than hope, and the subtle ways it shapes intimacy, attachment, and power exchange inside the lifestyle.Continue the discussion on Fetlife: @Enhanced-MindDon't forget to hit the follow button and rate my show 5 stars so others may find it. What to be on the show or have an idea for an upcoming episode? Email me at TheKinkPerspective@gmail.comFind me on Substack - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Enhanced-Mind's Substack | Chris C. | Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enhanced-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I have a book out, Tangled Desires: Exploring the Intersection of BDSM and Psychology. Can find it where you purchase most of your ebooks. Print version out now!#BDSM #Psychology #Defiance #Behavior

Send us a textSarah welcomes Jon Evans to The Beyond Condition Podcast, where he shares valuable insight into how important mental health is, both as a person and a bodybuilder. Jon is on a mission to regulate 1 million minds by 2033.Jon is a Mental Fitness Guide and Speaker helping thousands of people globally to explore the endless possibilities when unlocking your mindset. Jon has been on his own journey overcoming stress, over thinking and feeling stuck. We bring his wealth of knowledge to your ears with real life tools and anecdote to enhance your life beyond a physical outcome.What to ExpectChallenging Your Internal Dialogue: Gain a deeper understanding into how we can learn to improve our internal self talk to enhance our lives.Learning Opportunities: Discover how these challenging moments can lead to reflection and growth in our bodybuilding journeys.Discussions Include:Therapy and CounsellingHitting Rock BottomPersonal Challenges and Overcoming ObstaclesSelf Belief and Self WorthInternal Self Talk and The Power of Neutral ThinkingSelf Doubt and Self AwarenessHow You View SuccessPlacings, Accolades and Competing as a BodybuildingSelf Sabotage and Detrimental Cycles of BehaviourGratitude and PrideGaining ControlUtilising Lessons for Self GrowthFear and FailureIdentity and How You Show UpImposter SyndromeRelationships and CommunicationSAD SyndromeFraming and ReframingSelf Care and RecoveryFind Jon on Instagram @regulatewithjon9th November 2022 - Mindset masterclass: Season 1 | Episode 42Watch it here: https://youtu.be/f3Ul3RPw2JoTHE ULTIMATE SHOW DAY GUIDE E-BOOK: Purchase here Beyond Condition Coaching Application: Click here Find Sarah on Instagram: @sarahparker_bb

If you've been telling yourself you're “waiting for the right time” to lose weight, stop emotional eating, get motivated, rebuild your habits, or finally take control of your health… sis, this episode is your reality check. Today, I'm breaking down the brutal truth about procrastination and how it's silently sabotaging your weight loss, destroying your discipline, fuelling your binge eating, and keeping you stuck in the same cycle of self-sabotage year after year. You'll learn why women over 35 struggle with motivation, how procrastination rewires your identity, and the exact steps to stop waiting and start transforming your body, mindset, and life. If you're ready to end emotional eating, build unstoppable habits, and finally become the 1% Woman, this episode will shake you awake.Join the Bombshell BlueprintGet the Bombshell Journal & Planner setGet the Free Weight Loss Course

The Inspiring Life School Podcast helps quietly ambitious women get unstuck, build momentum and take aligned action without the mind drama.No fluff. No endless motivation hype. Just honest conversations and practical mindset coaching to help you finally follow through on the things that matter.Hosted by Frances Vidakovic - mindset and action coach, life strategist, author and creator of Inspiring Life Academy - this podcast will help you rewire your thinking, break out of self-sabotage, and step into your full potential with clarity and courage.

Send us a textListen if you self-sabotageIf you've ever wondered why you keep falling into the same habits, the same blocks, or the same frustrating cycles, this episode is going to hit home. I'm diving deep into self-sabotage (the quiet, often unconscious ways you get in your own way and hold yourself back from the life, relationships, success, and happiness you're trying to create)You'll hear why these repeat patterns show up again and again, even when you know what you “should” be doing, and even when you genuinely want things to change. We explore the inner mechanisms that trigger self-sabotage, the hidden beliefs that keep you stuck, and the subtle ways your mind tries to protect you by doing the opposite of what you need.And because awareness is only the first step, this episode also includes a powerful guided exercise designed to help you interrupt these patterns and start shifting them in real time. If you're tired of being the one thing standing between you and your goals… if you're ready to understand why you keep repeating the same self-sabotaging behaviours… and if you want a practical tool you can use anytime you feel yourself slipping back into old patterns - you'll want to listen all the way through.Support the showBOOK YOU 90 minute CLARITY CALL Other useful links: Free Workshop: 5-Step therapy Framework for Breaking Cycles Book a Free consult call with me (for online therapy & coaching) Follow Carly Ann on Instagram To discuss how I can support your team or audience, email: carly@carly-ann.co.uk

Shawn & Janet Needham R.Ph. have Rita Black on the podcast to discuss three subconscious shifts to overcome weight loss self-sabotage. Rita Black Shift Weight Mastery | https://shiftweightmastery.com/ Smokefree 123 | https://smokefree123.com Make the Shift Now | https://maketheshiftnow.com/ LinkedIn | https://www.linkedin.com/in/ritablack/ Podcast| https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thin-thinking-podcast/id1558558881 Health Solutions Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/health_solutions_shawn_needham/ TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@healthsolutionspodcast Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/HealthSolutionsPodcast Moses Lake Professional Pharmacy Website | http://mlrx.com.com/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/MosesLakeProfessionalPharmacy/ Shawn Needham X| https://x.com/ShawnNeedham2 Shawn's Book | http://mybook.to/Sickened_The_Book Additional Links https://linktr.ee/mlrx

If you've ever told yourself "I'm not enough"—this one's for you. In this short but powerful episode, Lewis Howes shares how the stories we repeat in our heads shape our identity… and how he rewrote his through a signed contract with himself. It's raw, real, and exactly what every entrepreneur needs to hear when they feel stuck.Click play to hear all of this and:[00:42] The mindset shift you need to get unstuck[01:00] How negative self-talk shapes your identity[01:56] Lewis' raw story of internalized self-hatred[03:00] The healing journey that led to inner peace[04:07] Writing a new identity contract (yes, literally!)[05:15] Choosing a believable identity you can actually live into[06:13] Why integrity and authenticity matter in your transformation

Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In this episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li dives deep into the emotional and psychological roadblocks that hold us back from making progress—using the topic of clutter as a springboard. After noticing a shift in her audience's social media comments from surface-level thanks to more vulnerable shares about overwhelm, grief, and shame, Dr. Christine Li explores seven common self-sabotaging habits and how to overcome them. She discusses the power of reframing your perspective, embracing experimentation, balancing self-reliance with asking for help, staying persistent, and developing new skills with the support of others. This episode is filled with compassionate advice and practical strategies to help listeners get unstuck and move closer to their goals.Timestamps:00:00:00 - 00:01:15: Dr. Christine Li introduces how our psychology affects daily habits, inspired by her social media experiences.00:01:20 - 00:01:47: Purpose of the podcast: strategies to overcome procrastination and reach goals.00:02:02 - 00:04:06: Clutter as a symptom of emotional overwhelm, shame, and paralysis.00:04:06 - 00:05:58: First way we hold ourselves back—thinking we lack time or energy.00:05:58 - 00:06:35: Second way—forgetting life is an experiment and not needing perfect conditions to begin.00:06:36 - 00:09:26: Third and fourth ways—believing we need more help before starting and not getting help when needed.00:10:59 - 00:12:39: Fifth way—thinking it's all up to us and not seeking support.00:13:13 - 00:16:24: Sixth way—giving up too soon, before hitting success.00:16:24 - 00:18:24: Seventh way—not developing essential skills or getting expert help.Wrap-Up: Encouragement to pursue goals with openness and joy; worksheet available at maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/leap.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to  https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/leapTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab                        Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP

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The 2025 Qatar Grand Prix delivered a lifetime's worth of Formula 1 conspiracy theories. Join Patrick and Brian on the Hard Compound for full race coverage, including:The reasons behind McLaren "sabotaging" Oscar's race. We entertain all your conspiracy theories. And our picks for who now wins the F1 2025 driver's championship. Plus, we ask more big questions. Including: Why every F1 team should fly in a supersonic jet. Why Australian racers are so gullible. Why Adrian Newey as Aston Martin team principal is like Michael Jordan playing baseball. And why a NASCAR style championship would be crazy awesome for Formula 1.Text Brian or PatrickAnd as always, thank you for listening to everybody's most beloved father and son F1 podcast!

Dr. Albert Bramante is a seasoned talent agent with more than 2 decades in the entertainment industry. He is also an author, has a Ph.D. in psychology, is a certified hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner who brings a unique blend of psychological insight and practical expertise to his work. Albert's work is not limited to achieving remarkable success as a talent agent by securing roles for actors in a wide array of productions including television, films, commercials, Broadway and Off-Broadway performances, but also include helping people of all walks of life adopt empowering mindsets, productive habits, and silence self-limiting beliefs. He is the author of the book titled "Rise Above the Script: Confronting Self-Doubt and Mastering Self-Sabotage."       He shares valuable insights and information regarding the root cause of imposter syndrome, fear of failure, fears and misconceptions, the power of language and so much more in this powerful and fascinating episode. Download it today and discover how we can all overcome self-sabotage, self-doubt, and live a life of strength and confidence. It's a powerful message that everyone needs to hear!   Connect with Albert: https://albertbramante.com/ https://www.facebook.com/albert.bramante/ https://www.instagram.com/dralbramante Want to be a guest on TheFemiNinjaProject? Send Cheryl Ilov a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1620842117560x116520069523704300

Did you like the episode? Send me a text and let me know!!Jesse (Skoob) & Pi (AI Assistant) Focus: Entrepreneur Mindset, Self-Sabotage, Psychology of SuccessWhy do entrepreneurs often self-sabotage just when they start winning? In this episode of Business Conversations with Pi, Jesse and his AI co-host explore the Upper Limit Problem—a psychological barrier that caps our happiness and success—and provide a 5-step roadmap to break through it.

Ready to stop living by default? Take the free Rich Mind Assessment at richmind.co to discover your current thinking persona and get a personalized 3-step action plan. You've read the books. You've listened to the gurus. You've tried to work harder on yourself. So, why are you still struggling? Why do you feel like you're stuck on a hamster wheel of self-sabotage? In this pivotal episode, Randy Wilson argues it's not a lack of intelligence or discipline. It's because you were never taught how to think. Randy introduces the core philosophy that will drive the Rich Mind Podcast moving forward: The Gap Thinking Framework. Sharing his own painful journey from losing his career in the 2008 crash to discovering the patterns that kept him stuck, Randy reveals the missing link to success: "The GAP." The GAP is the critical 5-second window between a trigger and your automatic reaction. Most people live with a narrow gap, operating on reactive autopilot. To design the life you desire, you must learn to widen The GAP, move from reactive to responsive, and consciously choose your actions based on the universal law of cause and effect. This episode sets the stage for a powerful new series that will introduce tools like the BS Buster (Beliefs and Stories) and the P.A.C.E. Protocol to help you master this critical space. Mentioned in this episode: Personal development trap, self-sabotage, The GAP, Gap Thinking Framework, reactive vs. responsive mindset, law of cause and effect, decision-making, triggers, thinking patterns. Key Takeaways: You can consume all the personal development content in the world and still be stuck if you don't learn how to think. The key to change is not intelligence or discipline; it's controlling a critical 5-second window Randy calls "The GAP." The GAP is the space between a trigger (stimulus) and your reaction. Most people live with a narrow, reactive gap. To design your life, you must learn to widen The GAP and move from being reactive to being responsive. Your results are governed by the law of cause and effect. By consciously choosing your response in The GAP, you become the cause of your new reality. The greatest gift you have is your ability to choose. Being indecisive is still a choice. This episode introduces the upcoming Gap Thinking Framework, which includes tools like the BS Buster and the PACE Protocol.   Questions Answered in This Episode: Why am I still struggling despite reading all the personal development books? What is "The GAP" and why is it the key to changing my life? What is the difference between reacting and responding to a trigger? How can I stop self-sabotaging my own success? What is the law of cause and effect and how does it apply to my thoughts? How do I start to become aware of my own thinking patterns? What is the Gap Thinking Framework and what will it cover?   Key People, Concepts, & Terms: People: Randy Wilson, Jim Rohn, Earl Nightingale, Tony Robbins, David Neagle. Concepts: The GAP, Gap Thinking Framework, Reactive vs. Responsive, Law of Cause and Effect, Self-Sabotage, Triggers, Patterns, BS Buster (Beliefs & Stories), PACE Protocol, Rich Mind Assessment. Books/Programs Mentioned: Think Big (co-authored by Randy Wilson)

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This episode is a freestyle, thinking-out-loud, deep dive into the very common practice of self-sabotage (over-thinking, avoidance, people-pleasing, procrastination, perfectionism, self-loathing, time-wasting) from a world-class self-saboteur. Enjoy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It is that time of year here in the U.S. where many will reflect on what they are thankful for. In this current age where bad news and reasons to despair abound, it is even ore important to fight for and seek out the good and positive in our lives. But even for those of us who see value in this tradition of listing what we have to give thanks for, it often remains only a once per year thing.  On today's Shift Break we will be chatting about what truly being thankful should lead to in the way we live and act toward the people we have in our lives and businesses and even to ourselves when the opportunities and challenges that make up daily work life arrive. When we really believe and know that we are thankful, and we allow ourselves to be impacted by it, great things are more likely to happen and to be recognized when they do. Related Episodes:  Thankfulness and Giving Energy to the Positive   Priorities and Deep Thankfulness SHIFT BREAK! Engaging in the Right Conversations (or how not to accept undue guilt) Emotions, Self-Sabotage, and Telling Ourselves the Truth 100! Why YOU are the Key   Click here to register for our new webinar!  "The Keys to the Shop: Principles for Cafe Success" Tickets are limited and you will want to secure your seat soon!    CONSULTING + COACHING If you are a cafe owner and want to work one on one with me to bring your shop to its next level and help bring you joy and freedom in the process then email  chris@keystothshop.com of book a free call now:  https://calendly.com/chrisdeferio/30min    Thank you to out sponsors! Everything you need for back of the house operations https://rattleware.qualitybystainless.com/   The best and most revered espresso machines on the planet: www.lamarzoccousa.com  

GEMS Radio Segment on TalkShoeIn this segment you will hear myself and Michelle Farrar-Porter discuss how to free yourself from self-handicapping and self sabotage.- What is it?- Do you do it?- What does it look like?- How can you overcome it?MICHELLE'S CALL TO ACTIONConnect on social media at IG: @michelle.m.farrarGENESIS'S CALL TO ACTIONSubscribe / Follow GEMS with Genesis Amaris Kemp podcast on audio platform & YouTube channel, Hit the notifications bell so you don't miss any content, and share with family/friends. GENESIS'S INFOhttps://genesisamariskemp.net/genesisamariskemp

Let's Think About "Self-Sabotage" With Special Guest Brad Glantz Brad shares his thoughts on self-sabotage, reminding people that they can stop sabotaging themselves from the life they deserve. While learning about Brad, we discussed the importance of avoiding arrogance and the value of empathy and compassion. This episode aims to prompt thought. To stay in touch, please visit Brad's website at https://www.skool.com/themightytribe/about to learn more about him.

In this raw and powerful coaching moment, Kim Constable tackles a listener's question about self-sabotage—and delivers a truth bomb that could change everything. If you've ever felt like you were doing great with your diet or training, only to fall off track the moment people start noticing your results, this episode will hit home. Kim unpacks why self-sabotage isn't something that happens to you, but rather a series of conscious or unconscious decisions that you choose in the moment. You'll learn: Why “falling off track” is not failure—it's just one choice How to shift from victim mindset to radical self-responsibility The real reason praise or progress might trigger your urge to quit Why reframing every moment as a decision puts the power back in your hands How childhood patterns of punishment and shame affect your adult behavior The one mindset shift that can permanently break your sabotage cycle This isn't just about weight loss. It's about taking back control of your life—one decision at a time. Keywords: self-sabotage help, stop self-sabotage, weight loss mindset, personal accountability, emotional eating triggers, midlife transformation, perimenopause weight loss, radical responsibility, how to build self-trust, Kim Constable podcast

When Rest Feels Wrong: Why You Can't Relax & How to Feel Safe RestingDo you ever sit down to rest… and immediately feel tense, guilty, or like you “should” be doing something?In this episode of The Restored Minds Show, licensed therapist Matt Codde, LCSW explores why rest can actually feel unsafe for people living in chronic anxiety, stress, or high-performance mode. Matt explains how busyness becomes a persona, how overworking turns into emotional avoidance, and why your nervous system doesn't trust stillness — even when your life looks “successful” on the outside.If you feel restless when you slow down, or you only allow yourself to rest when you've “earned it,” this episode will help you understand what's really going on underneath and how to start re-teaching your body that it's safe to stop.

Ever wonder if you’re being too hard on yourself… or not hard enough? Welcome to the club. In this episode Harps and I throw ourselves into the old messy middle where self-improvement meets self-compassion. We call out the way we talk to ourselves and question when does the “you’ve got this” turn into delusion, and when 'being honest' becomes you verbally drop-kicking your own soul. Typical us... a lil' wisdom, a lil' chaos, a whole lot of laughs. SPONSORED BY TESTART FAMILY LAWYERS Website: testartfamilylawyers.com.au TIFFANEE COOK Linktree: linktr.ee/rollwiththepunches Website: tiffcook.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Heyyy Tinies!We're taking you way back today with a juicy little archive drop and honestly, this one is a gem.In this throwback ep, Sophie is literally glowing after her trip to Barbados and she reveals all about her first kiss with Jamie. Melissa debriefs on her first few dates with her now boyfriend Toby (sweetness!) and the girls give their opinions on celeb looks from the Fashion Awards.The girls get a bit tipsy on a lovely bottle of red whilst discussing your dilemmas. Lol, we're so here for it. One Tiny is in self-sabotage central. We've all been there. Another listener has gone back to her exes house after a night out even though he has a GIRLFRIEND?!? Does she tell the new gf?We will be back next week with a brand-new episode, more girly chat and fresh dilemmas.Enjoy the episode xGot a dilemma, some personal advice for a fellow Tiny, or a follow-up to a previous one? Send us a voice note or message on Insta @wednesdayspodcast, or drop us an email at wednesdays@jampotproductions.co.uk--Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wednesdayspodcast/TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wednesdayspodcastEmail | wednesdays@jampotproductions.co.uk--Credits:Executive Producer: Jemima RathboneProducer: Helen BurkeAssistant Producer: Issy Weeks-HankinsVideo: Lizzie McCarthy & Jake JiSocial: Anthony Barter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textIn this episode, I'm calling myself and every other dreamer out. For years, I carried the same vision in my head, replayed the same fantasy, and convinced myself that “dreamer magic” would somehow bring it to life. I could imagine every detail with perfect clarity, but I wasn't taking the consistent action necessary to turn that vision into reality. I talk openly about how dreamers get stuck in the cycle of dreaming without doing—circling the same Pinterest boards, waiting for signs, relying on manifestation, or hoping something external will shift on our behalf. This episode breaks down the difference between imagination and discipline, and why potential feels so intoxicating while execution feels uncomfortable.I also explore the emotional addiction behind dreaming: the dopamine hit, the sense of possibility, and the escapism that makes fantasy feel safer than action. To make this relatable, I draw parallels to how we romanticize people and relationships based on potential while ignoring reality, and how that same behavior shows up in our creative and professional lives. Through my own birthday reflection, I share how leaning too heavily on dreamer magic delayed my growth and kept me detached from the work required to build what I envision.If you've ever felt like your dreams never seem to materialize, or if you catch yourself waiting for the “perfect moment,” the “right sign,” or the “right energy” to start, this episode will challenge that mindset. I emphasize that dreams are previews, not finished films, and they do not transform into reality without intentional, uncomfortable steps. This episode is a direct activation: stop circling the airport and start taking the small, grounded actions that bring your dream out of your head and into your life. If you're ready to trade fantasy for forward motion, this is your starting point.

We were all taught how to eat and move and exist in our bodies. The “shoulds” that you learn from your parents, diet/wellness/fitness culture, magazines, media, movies, family and friends can keep your nervous system stuck in a sympathetic response.When you live in chronic stress or survival states, your system prioritizes safety over sensation. That means you may default to habits that feel familiar and not ones that feel nourishing. You may be engaging in “healthy” acts and feel absolutely horrible because they are not what your body may resonate with or need.Yet, let's normalize that following rigid food or exercise rules can feel stabilizing. This is because they reduce uncertainty. Safety can then get connected to the felt sense of rigidity, where all other feedback from your body about what it needs for flow, play, and long term safety gets drowned out.Exploring what would feel best to you and your present day body can be a journey into self leadership. In this week's episode, I chat with Courtney Townley, health and self-leadership coach, speaker, host of the top-rated Grace & Grit podcast, and author about: Her 4-part Consistency Code frameworkSelf leadershipThe misconceptions of self care and wellnessThe impact of societal expectations on womenNavigating stressPractical steps toward self leadershipYou can also read the transcript to this week's episode ​here​: www.stephaniemara.com/blog/revolutionize-your-health8 days left to get 30% off my Somatic Eating® Intensive! You can learn more and purchase below with the coupon code SEI30.https://www.stephaniemara.com/learn#coursesWith Compassion and Empathy, Stephanie Mara FoxKeep in touch with Courtney:Websites: www.graceandgrit.com www.theconsistencycode.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gracegrit/Book: The Consistency Code: https://amzn.to/3Kia4EMSupport the showKeep in touch with Stephanie Mara:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_stephaniemara/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephaniemarafoxWebsite: https://www.stephaniemara.com/https://www.somaticeating.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephmara/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephaniemarafoxContact: support@stephaniemara.comSupport the show:Become a supporter: https://www.buzzsprout.com/809987/supportMy favorite water filter: https://www.pureeffectfilters.com/#a_aid=somaticeatingReceive 15% off my fave protein powder with code STEPHANIEMARA at checkout here: https://www.equipfoods.com/STEPHANIEMARAUse my Amazon Affiliate link when shopping on Amazon: https://amzn.to/448IyPl Special thanks to Bendsound for the music in this episode. ...

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this Q&A edition of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank and Head Coach Arnold answer two deeply personal questions from men inside the Brotherhood, and the conversation sheds light on two obstacles that silently destroy momentum in a man's life: fear-driven self-sabotage and isolation from other men.   Questions answered in this episode   1️⃣ "Why do I get sick right before big moments like dates or important events — even though I'm living a healthy lifestyle?" 2️⃣ "How do I build accountability with other men when I've been hiding this part of my life for years?"   Key Topics Covered The subconscious identity patterns that create physical symptoms   Self-sabotage and the "upper limit problem"   Fear vs. courage — why fear never disappears and why that's not the real problem   How the brain looks for what you expect — good or bad   Why adding more habits doesn't always solve anxiety   The truth about accountability — and why most men get it completely wrong   Vulnerability as strength — not weakness   Isolation vs. connection — and why freedom requires brotherhood   Radical honesty as the beginning of transformation   Big Lessons You don't need to eliminate fear — you need the courage to act despite it.   Your body will often create "exit strategies" when your subconscious is afraid of success.   Accountability isn't another man policing you — it's having a judgment-free space where you can run toward support instead of away from it.   Vulnerability is not weakness — it is masculine power.   Addiction thrives in secrecy. Freedom grows in community.   Who this episode is for Men who are: Tired of sabotaging progress   Stuck in cycles of fear or avoidance   Afraid of being seen as "weak"   Doing the work alone and burning out   Ready for brotherhood, support, and transformation   Join the Brotherhood   If you're ready to stop fighting alone and step into a container built for growth, support, and freedom:   ➡ Join The Rebuilt Man Skool Community — Free 7-Day Trial www.TheRebuiltMan.com/7dayreset   Inside you'll gain access to: Daily accountability Weekly coaching The 7-Day Reset The 12-Week "Reboot Your Life" Framework And a brotherhood of men who refuse to quit   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

In this episode Mark interviews Andrea Torrey Balsara about her writing, her passion in inspiring joy through storytelling and energy healing, trauma, creativity and much more. Prior to the interview, Mark shares a brief personal update and a word about this episode's sponsor. I THINK IT'S A SIGN THAT THE PUN ALSO RISES is available now in hardcover, mass market sized paperback, and audiobook. In the interview Mark and Andrea talk about: The very serious and troubling trauma Andrea had been living with for most of her life without realizing it and how it prevented her from trying to focus and work on The sabotage that kept creeping up from her subconscious Being told the importance of writing her own stories, which led to taking some writing classes How writing became a way for Andrea to express things that she was not otherwise able to express and the way it led her into a space where she could become fully creative When the memory of the terrible trauma came back to Andrea and struggling with wondering if it really truly happened How it's almost easiest to allow yourself to go crazy than to think that you "were evil" or just making this all up Not avoiding the darkness in her Young Adult books The love that Andrea has for the teenage girl that she was How hard it is for a person hurting and going through such trauma just taking that next step Finding herself within the character of a story of hope and finding the light in the darkness Recognizing that yes, horrible things happen in this world, but many gifts are also given to help get through it The "heroes journey" of making one's life satisfying saying "this is not where my story ends" Andrea's novel THE GREAT AND THE SMALL and how it explores what it takes to enable the rise of dictatorship via very small personal compromises that a person can make along the way The value in looking for the light, looking for the hope, and the importance of people being the change in Andrea's novel Believing in the capacity and the necessity to unite, and that the search for truth is a human right and responsibility that lies within each of us The "10 Steps to Inner Peace" that helped Andrea through the darkness (and which is available for anyone to read via a download on her website How evil itself isn't a thing, it's the absence of love The way that we can be that "leaven" in the bread The studies that have shown that sending love to a plant can help it thrive (and vice-versa when sending negative energy) And more . . . After the interview Mark reflects on a few elements of the Andrea's message that resonated with him.     Links of Interest: Andrea Torrey Balsara's Website Instagram Link to Andrea's TEN STEPS TO INNER PEACE PDF download   Manuscript Report (Mark's affiliate link) Buy Mark a Coffee Patreon for Stark Reflections Mark's YouTube channel ElevenLabs (AI Voice Generation - Affiliate link) Mark's Stark Reflections on Writing & Publishing Newsletter (Signup) An Author's Guide to Working With Bookstores and Libraries The Relaxed Author Buy eBook Direct Buy Audiobook Direct Publishing Pitfalls for Authors An Author's Guide to Working with Libraries & Bookstores Wide for the Win Mark's Canadian Werewolf Books This Time Around (Short Story) A Canadian Werewolf in New York Stowe Away (Novella) Fear and Longing in Los Angeles Fright Nights, Big City Lover's Moon Hex and the City Only Monsters in the Building The Canadian Mounted: A Trivia Guide to Planes, Trains and Automobiles Yippee Ki-Yay Motherf*cker: A Trivia Guide to Die Hard Merry Christmas! Shitter Was Full!: A Trivia Guide to National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation I Think It's A Sign That The Pun Also Rises   Andrea Torrey Balsara is an award-winning children's and young adult author/illustrator, as well as an energy medicine practitioner and mental wellness and creativity coach. Her passion is to inspire joy through storytelling and energy healing, helping people-of-all-ages to walk "the Hero's Journey" in real life. She writes and illustrates for young children under her full name, Andrea Torrey Balsara, and for young adults under A.T. Balsara. Andrea is also a painter, an avid amateur explorer of quantum physics, and a keen environmentalist. She advocates for the humane treatment of animals and regularly volunteers at a donkey sanctuary where she uses energy medicine to help previously neglected and abused animals regain their health and vitality.   The introductory, end, and bumper music for this podcast ("Laser Groove") was composed and produced by Kevin MacLeod of www.incompetech.com and is Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0      

She thought everything was fine. Then, he dropped a bombshell/ “I'm not sure I'm in love with you anymore.”Trying to be understanding, she gave him an easy out. She said, “It's okay if we need to break up.”But he wouldn't take it. He was confused. He wanted to keep trying.And just like that, they were trapped in a exhausting cycle of push-and-pull-a classic anxious-avoidant trap-until he finally ended it for good.Now, she's left heartbroken and overthinking everything. She's asking all the classic questions:How do I get over a breakup when I still have feelings?What does it mean when he says he loves me but isn't in love with me?Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners?Is there any chance of getting back together?If this story hits home, you're not alone. These painful patterns often point directly to our attachment styles.In this recorded session, we sit down with Sarah to understand her anxious attachment style and how it showed up in her relationship. We'll break down-The hidden signs of an anxious attachment style.How fear of abandonment can accidentally sabotage your love life.Practical steps for healing a broken heart and creating secure attachment.How to stop the cycle of on-again, off-again relationships and learn how to move forward for good.I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

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True transformation doesn't come from motivation. It comes from rewiring your mind, reshaping your beliefs, and mastering your perception of reality. This episode reveals how to stop chasing short bursts of inspiration and start creating sustainable change in your thoughts, energy, and biology. You'll learn how belief, emotion, and neuroplasticity shape human performance, longevity, and resilience—and how to reprogram them for lasting results. Watch this episode on YouTube for the full video experience: https://www.youtube.com/@DaveAspreyBPR Host Dave Asprey sits down with David Bayer, one of the greatest personal growth teachers of our time. His podcast A Changed Mind reaches over 1 million listeners each month, and his event Powerful Living Experience Live was named a top 3 personal development event by Inc. Magazine. His book A Changed Mind has transformed tens of thousands of lives. David blends behavioral psychology, neuroscience, metaphysics, and consciousness theory into practical frameworks that help people rewire their brains and reengineer their reality. He is an entrepreneur, business strategist, keynote speaker, and mentor to some of the world's most influential entrepreneurs and creators. Together, Dave and David explore how motivation is just a microdose of transformation and why true change requires aligning your perception with how reality actually works. They break down the science behind belief, energy, and consciousness, connecting these ideas with biohacking, supplements, functional medicine, and brain optimization. You'll Learn:• Why motivation is only a temporary fuel and how to create lasting transformation• How to test your beliefs against reality and rewire the mind through awareness• The difference between absolute truth and personal truth in consciousness work• Why suffering and challenge are essential for growth and resilience• How to build faith as a biological and psychological muscle• How early trauma programs limiting beliefs and emotional patterns• The four layers of resistance that block personal transformation• Why forgiveness and self-love are essential to dissolving trauma• How perception literally shapes your experience of reality• Practical tools to align your consciousness for high performance and peace Dave Asprey is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof Coffee, and the father of biohacking. With over 1,000 interviews and 1 million monthly listeners, The Human Upgrade brings you the knowledge to take control of your biology, extend your longevity, and optimize every system in your body and mind. Each episode delivers cutting-edge insights in health, performance, neuroscience, supplements, nutrition, biohacking, emotional intelligence, and conscious living. New episodes are released every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Sunday (BONUS). Dave asks the questions no one else will and gives you real tools to become stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Keywords: David Bayer, A Changed Mind, Powerful Living Experience, belief systems, consciousness theory, neuroscience, behavioral psychology, personal growth, trauma transformation, resilience training, perception shift, motivation vs transformation, emotional regulation, mindset reprogramming, subconscious rewiring, neurohacking, cognitive performance, spiritual psychology, reengineering reality, high-performance mindset, sustainable change Thank you to our sponsors! -GOT MOLD? | Go to http://gotmold.com/shop and use DAVE10 to save 10% and see what's in your air. -Generation Lab | Go to http://generationlab.com/, use code Dave20 for $20 off, and see what your body's really doing behind the surface. -Quantum Upgrade | Go to https://quantumupgrade.io/Dave for a free trial. -LMNT | Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT with any drink mix purchase by going to https://drinklmnt.com/DAVE. 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