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Why do you always seem to quit your diet right when things start getting hard? In this episode, I'm breaking down the real reason: you may be pre-deciding that you can't lose weight before you even begin. I explain how expecting to fail wires your brain to look for proof you "can't do it," why normal mistakes turn into full-blown meltdowns, and how to stop self-sabotaging your weight loss without needing more willpower. If you've ever said: "I always mess this up." "I can't stick with anything." "Weight loss just doesn't work for me." This one will really make a big difference.   Get the Free Course here: http://NoBSFreeCourse.com

It's Friday. Pause for a breath you didn't know you were holding. Exhale.This week's Soft Landings affirmation is for the woman who keeps mistaking her patterns for her personality. For every midlife woman who's been fighting the thing she does instead of getting curious about why she does it.Today's Affirmation: "My patterns kept me safe. I get to thank them and want something different."The thing you keep doing – the overfunctioning, the over-explaining, the keeping yourself small, the white-knuckling your independence, whatever yours is – it wasn't a mistake. It was a solution. A really smart one, for circumstances that once required exactly that response.It kept you safe. It kept you steady. It did its job.The problem isn't that you're broken. The problem is that the pattern is still running the same programme for a situation that no longer exists. Like a smoke alarm going off because you forgot your bagel in the toaster.So today, instead of fighting it or shaming it or trying to think your way out of it – what if you just said thank you? Thank you for protecting me when I needed protecting. I'm okay now. You can rest.You don't have to dismantle a pattern to be free of it. Sometimes you just need to stop treating it like an enemy and start treating it like a part of you that was doing its best with what it had.That's not giving up. That's actually where the shift begins.Save. Share. Come back when you need the reminder.

n this deeply reflective and empowering episode, J.R. returns from a major Las Vegas gaming event with more than just a controller story — he brings insight into the mental roadblocks that affect performance at the highest levels. After falling short of expectations at his first in-person gaming tournament, J.R. unpacks the emotional and psychological hurdles that crept in, from lack of sleep to equipment unfamiliarity, and invites a true expert to help dissect it all.Enter Dr. Albert Bramante — a New York-based talent agent and licensed psychologist with 20+ years of experience working with performers. Together, they dig into the psychology of peak performance, explore how self-sabotage and imposter syndrome show up in high achievers, and lay out how mental conditioning can either elevate or derail your goals.From fighter games to Hollywood auditions, this episode serves up valuable takeaways on:How minor mental distractions can derail major momentsThe difference between anxiety and internal turmoilCreating pre-performance rituals that support your mindsetWhy your "why" matters more than your winsWhat “being enough” truly means in a performance-driven worldSetting boundaries to maintain self-care and successPlus, don't miss the signature “2020-style” lightning round, where J.R. goes full Barbara Walters and gets deeply personal with Dr. Bramante in a series of questions exploring his habits, influences, and guilty pleasures.

What if the biggest obstacle standing between you and your next level... is you? In this raw and revealing episode of PivotMe, April Garcia pulls back the curtain on the silent success killer that most high achievers never see coming — self-sabotage. If you've ever wondered why you keep getting in your own way, this episode will hand you the mirror you didn't know you needed. Key Takeaways: Self-Sabotage is the Core Problem: April establishes self-sabotage as the central theme of PivotMe — and for good reason. Until you identify the behaviors quietly undermining your progress, no strategy, system, or hustle will get you where you want to go. Why It's Hard to See in Yourself: It's often easier to spot self-sabotage in others than in ourselves. April explores why our blind spots are so stubbornly... blind — and what it takes to finally see them clearly. Your Success Depends on It: Controlling self-sabotaging behavior isn't a soft skill — it's directly tied to your results. April connects the dots between inner patterns and outer outcomes. Three Flavors of Self-Sabotage: Perfectionism: The pursuit of perfect is often the enemy of done. April unpacks how perfectionism is less about high standards and more about fear — fear of failure, judgment, and being exposed. White Knight Syndrome: Constantly rescuing others from their problems feels noble, but it's often a clever way to avoid your own. April breaks down the allure of being everyone's hero and the cost it carries. Creative Avoidance: This one's sneaky. It looks like productivity — you're busy, you're checking boxes — but you're intentionally steering clear of the high-value tasks that actually move the needle. Awareness is the First Step: You can't change what you can't see. April emphasizes that awareness isn't just helpful — it's the gateway to making a different choice. The Challenge: April closes with a direct call to action: identify your personal flavor of self-sabotage and build a plan to break the pattern. You're not stuck. You're just choosing — and you can choose differently. Notable Quotes: "Self-sabotage doesn't announce itself. It disguises itself as perfectionism, helpfulness, and busyness." — April Garcia "Awareness without action is just entertainment. See it, own it, change it." — April Garcia Actionable Items: Honestly audit your week — where did you stall, over-perfect, rescue someone, or stay "busy" to avoid something important? Identify which of the three forms of self-sabotage shows up most in your life: perfectionism, white knighting, or creative avoidance. Name one high-value task you've been avoiding and schedule it as your first priority tomorrow. Share your self-sabotage pattern with one trusted person who will hold you accountable. Write down what your life looks like if you stop self-sabotaging for 90 days — and read it every morning. ---------------- Ready to take this work beyond the podcast? Join us at Collaborate 2026, our once-a-year, in-person transformational experience in Grass Valley, California. Spend 2.5 powerful days gaining clarity, building momentum, and doing the deep work alongside growth-minded leaders. Early Bird pricing ends March 31st, and seats are limited. Reserve yours at www.theaprilgarcia.com/collaborate.

Andrea revisits one of her most impactful conversations in this re-released episode on self-sabotage with Tais Gibson, counselor, bestselling author, co-founder of The Personal Development School, and a leading expert in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. Together, they unpack why self-sabotage happens, how limiting beliefs and subconscious patterns can quietly shape behavior, relationships, and personal growth, and share practical ways to begin changing those patterns with more awareness, self-compassion, and clarity.Links for Dr. Thias GibsonWebsite https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Instagram @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ/videosMake Fit Simple Podcast is sponsored by KION. Go to Getkion.com/simple for 20% off. Make Fit Simple is sponsored by Cozy EarthCozyEarth.com You use the code fit FIT at checkout for 20% off Join my newsletter! https://www.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.com/emls Follow the Make Fit Simple Podcast@MakeFitSimplePodcastHave a suggestion for a topic click HEREHave a suggestion for a guest click HERENEW! Leave a question for Andrea HERE on SpeakPipe! Follow Andrea on Instagram@deliciouslyfitnhealthy@dfh.training.picsTraining & Coachinghttps://www.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.com/linksVisit Andrea's Websitewww.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.comProduced by Light On Creative Productions

Rob and Kelvin tell us why the New York Jets’ acquisition of Geno Smith is a clear indicator that Aaron Glenn won’t be the head coach this time next year, discuss the notion that tonight’s Boston Celtics-San Antonio Spurs showdown is an NBA Finals preview, and take a trip out to Shekel City for Rob’s nightly bets. Plus, former NFL offensive lineman and FOX Sports Radio Weekend host Ephraim Salaam swings by to discuss all the biggest headlines surrounding the first 48 hours of the NFL Free Agency period. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever felt like things are finally going well… and then somehow you start getting in your own way? In this episode of the Happy Mind Happy Life Podcast, Michelle Woerdeman explores the hidden patterns of self-sabotage and how unconscious beliefs can quietly influence our actions. Building on a previous episode ( https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-ag296-1a39f88 ) about how the emotional energy we bring to our desires can shape the outcomes we create, Michelle dives deeper into the psychology behind why we sometimes block the very things we want. Drawing on insights from psychologist Carl Jung, she explores the role of the unconscious mind and how bringing awareness to our thoughts and patterns can help us begin creating meaningful change. Michelle also shares a simple mindset shift inspired by Gabrielle Bernstein: asking yourself “What's the next best thought?” — a gentle way to move beyond limiting beliefs and begin creating new possibilities. She also shares a sneak peek about the upcoming Happy Mind Happy Life App and Course, launching April 1st. If you'd like to be among the first to know and become a founding member, visit mbwliving.com and sign up for Happy Mind Moments. Sometimes the smallest shift in awareness can open the door to the biggest changes.

Host Ross Leppala welcomes Pia Marangoni to the Intentional Athlete Podcast to discuss how strength training and intentional living shaped her life. Pia shares her path from studying journalism and wanting to be a war photographer, to taking a copywriting contract that led to a long banking career, financial success, and declining health marked by smoking, poor diet, and a pre-diabetes diagnosis. CrossFit introduced her to the barbell, which evolved into Olympic lifting and powerlifting, alongside a growing focus on nutrition and a desire to stop relying on pills and supplements. She studied nutrition, connected with Fiercely Fueled, opened Lift Coffee, left a senior banking role, and ultimately bought Fiercely Fueled to coach full time. They explore honesty under the bar, quality of life, boundaries, self-sabotage, awareness, priorities, and using discomfort and anxiety as catalysts for change.00:00 Show Intro00:50 Meet Pia Maroni02:23 From Journalism to Banking03:21 Health Wake Up Call04:25 CrossFit to Powerlifting07:10 Nutrition and Coaching Path10:03 Quality of Life Shift13:10 Corporate Wake Up Moment18:29 Why Lifting Pulls You21:31 Photography Dream Detour33:03 Lessons from Corporate34:31 Breaking Self Sabotage36:38 Coping and Reflection37:53 Blunt Truth and Awareness38:35 Strength Training Lessons39:45 Long Game Progress42:57 Hope Beyond Numbers44:54 Women and Barbell Culture47:47 Health and Coping Habits49:06 Boundaries and Presence55:40 Self Sabotage and Control01:00:17 Priorities and Time Audit01:07:35 Closing Advice and Connect

You've done the therapy. You've journalled. You can explain your patterns with real precision — where they came from, what they're protecting, why they formed.And yet. There you are. Doing it again.This episode is about the gap between knowing something and actually being free of it. Insight is a beginning. It's not the destination. And once you really accept that — not as a defeat, but as genuinely useful information — it completely changes where you look.What we cover:Why self-awareness isn't the destination (and what is)The intention-behaviour gap — why 75% of behaviour change has nothing to do with conscious thoughtWhere patterns actually live in the brain and bodyThe verbal mind's blind spot — and why you literally cannot see it from inside your own headWhat actually reaches the parts that words can'tThis one is for you if you're in midlife, you've done serious inner work, and something still feels stuck. You haven't failed. You've just hit the ceiling of one particular approach.WORK WITH ME:→ Colour Signature (€37): jenniferwalter.me/aura-soma-colour-signatureThe Scenic Route — weekly episodes on midlife transitions, burnout, and mental health. No shortcuts to the truth. Just slowing down enough to see what's going on.Send me a DMSupport the show_____________________________________________________________________

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the constant negativity and chaos in the world? In this powerful episode of the Rich Mind Podcast, Randy Wilson shares a deeply personal journey of moving from a state of constant self-sabotage and a "lack mindset" to one of peace, clarity, and success. He reveals a critical secret: the headlines, social media, and constant bad news are often just "noise" designed to keep you trapped in fear. Drawing on the universal Law of Polarity—the principle that everything has an equal and opposite—Randy explains that where there is perceived negativity, there is also an equal amount of opportunity and good. This episode is a call to action to "Turn Off the Noise" and reclaim control of your mind. Randy provides practical strategies, including a 5-second pause technique and the power of journaling, to help you catch your negative patterns and consciously flip them to see the abundance around you. If you are ready to stop being a victim of your external environment and start designing the life you desire, this episode is your essential guide.   Key Takeaways: The constant stream of negative news is often "noise" designed to keep you trapped in a state of fear and lack. To achieve success, you must first become aware of your own thinking patterns, especially the tendency to self-sabotage. The Law of Polarity states that for everything that appears negative, an equal and opposite positive exists. The ability to control the critical 5-second gap between a trigger and your reaction is the key to changing your results. "Turning Off the Noise" (news, social media) is a practical and necessary step to reclaim your mental clarity. Connecting with your inner child and the things you loved to do as a kid can help you discover your true purpose and passion.   Questions Answered in This Episode: Why do I automatically look for the negative in every new opportunity? How can I stop self-sabotaging my own success? What is the Law of Polarity and how can it change my perspective? How can I protect my mind from the constant negativity in the news and media? What are practical ways to "turn off the noise" in my daily life? How can I find more peace and clarity when the world feels chaotic?   Key People, Concepts, & Terms: People: Randy Wilson. Concepts: Law of Polarity, Lack Mindset, Abundance Mindset, Self-Sabotage, Triggers, Pattern Recognition, "The GAP," Turning Off the Noise, Mindset Shift, Personal Development, Journaling.   Key Episode Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction: A Message of Encouragement to Reclaim Your Thoughts 01:00 - Randy's 20-Year Journey: From Constant Self-Sabotage to Conscious Control 02:26 - A Warning: Don't Let the chaos of the World Hijack Your Mind 03:10 - The "Noise": How Modern Media is Designed to Keep You Thinking Negatively 04:05 - Introducing THE LAW OF POLARITY: The Concept That Everything Has an Opposite 05:30 - How a Lack Mindset Caused Randy to Miss Incredible Opportunities in the 2008 Financial Crisis 07:16 - Flipping the Script: How to See Noise as a Signal of Opportunity 09:43 - Actionable Strategy: Mastering the 5-Second GAP Between Trigger and Response 12:01 - Real-Life Example: Randy and His Wife Face a Major, Stretching Business Opportunity 13:10 - The Ultimate Challenge: TURN OFF THE NOISE to Find Yourself Again 16:00 - Connecting with Your Inner Child to Discover Your True Creative Potential

Welcome to another episode of Restoring the Soul with Michael John Cusick. Today, Michael is joined by author and therapist Jay Stringer for a deep and vulnerable conversation about his newest book, "Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How We Love, Heal, and Grow." Together, they explore the civil war of desire that shapes our lives—how our deepest longings birth both our greatest joys and our most profound heartaches.Jay Stringer shares how his personal and professional experiences led him to unpack the complexities of desire, discussing its impact beyond sexuality and touching on meaning, intimacy, growth, and purpose. The episode explores how our desires are formed, suppressed, or distorted—often by trauma, shame, and cultural influences—and why understanding these origins is crucial to transformation.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!

Some decisions set you free. Others blow your life open before you understand why.In this honest and deeply reflective conversation, Nimesh Radia and Stacey Brown explore the fine line between true growth and self-sabotage. What happens when you feel the urge to end something, walk away, make a drastic move, or burn it all down? Is it your intuition guiding you forward, or is it pain reacting?Together, they unpack the emotional patterns behind abrupt decisions, the pressure created by expectations, and the importance of pausing long enough to understand what is really driving your choices. Through personal stories and spiritual insight, this episode invites you to look at your own life with honesty and compassion.If you have been feeling restless, frustrated, ready to make a dramatic change, or unsure whether your next step is expansion or reaction, this conversation will give you something real to sit with.Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pause before you pull the trigger.Key Themes✨ The difference between growth and self-sabotage✨ The urge to burn things down when life feels uncomfortable✨ Practicing the pause before big decisions✨ Expectations, pressure, and emotional reactions✨ Looking honestly at your patterns and motivationsTakeaways✨ Not every drastic decision is wrong, but every big decision deserves reflection✨ Your pain can react faster than your truth can rise✨ Expectations can distort how you see your current season✨ Self-awareness helps you respond instead of react✨ Growth is not always loud, dramatic, or destructiveSound Bites✨ Is it growth or self-sabotage?✨ I have to start off by laughing.✨ Take time to reflect and integrate.Also available to watch on YouTube.If this episode resonates, please like, comment, and follow the podcast.Spiritual Journey MembershipA grounded space for spiritual support, energetic updates, and deeper connection as you move through change and growth.Join here:https://nimesh-radia.com/spiritual-membership/Special OfferSign up for Spiritual Mentorship by the end of March and receive Akashic Training included free as part of the journey.Book a free Discovery Call to find out more:https://calendly.com/spiritualjourney/30minConnect with Nimesh

In this episode, we're unpacking the deeper reason so many of us feel stuck in a cycle with food—even when we know what we want to do differently. Self-sabotage with food isn't about willpower or discipline; it's often a response to deeper emotional patterns we haven't learned to recognize yet. We'll explore what's really driving those moments where you feel like you're working against yourself. If you've ever wondered “Why do I keep doing this?”, this conversation will help you start seeing the pattern with more clarity and compassion. If this resonated with you and you're interested in more information on my upcoming masterclass, let me know here

Send a textWanting to start over and get it right? You're not alone. We're diving into what it's like to rebuild your life from scratch and deal with those nagging feelings of being behind. If you've ever felt like you're self-sabotaging or struggling with imposter syndrome, especially after a big life change like moving your family, this conversation is for you. Joël and Joe talk about reframing your mind to a new way of seeing your life and future. 00:00 Stuck in Self-Sabotage 03:41 New Beginnings, Old Struggles 07:41 Overcoming Passive Leadership 12:28 Redefining Success and Goals 16:06 Embracing a New Foundation Ready to conquer your mountain? Book a session: joelmalm.com/coaching Don't forget to subscribe! #startingover #LifeTransitions #ImposterSyndrome #PodcastLife

Welcome to The Best of You Every Day. Today's Scripture is: Isaiah 41:10 Topics covered: There's no shame in fear What God promises Strength that doesn't come from striving Go Deeper: Episode 41: Boundaries with Fear & Anxiety Episode 156: Why Fear Shows Up When You're About to Grow & How to Break Free from Self-Sabotage with Mary Marantz Follow Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook ⁠Sign up⁠ for Dr. Alison's free weekly email for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode has theme of: self sabotage psychology, why smart people stay stuck, fear of success psychology, fear of failure mindset, impostor syndrome, overthinking and decision paralysis, perfectionism and procrastination, waiting until you feel ready, mindset blocks and limiting beliefs, breaking self sabotage patterns, personal growth and self awareness, overcoming fear and taking action, why people sabotage their own success, psychology of habits and identity, recognizing toxic patterns in relationships, overcoming procrastination, stepping outside your comfort zone, changing limiting beliefs, building confidence through action, personal transformation and mindset shiftsIf you love the episode please subscribe, like, comment and share. You can help other people find the show and spread positivity, hope and self empowerment.Thanks so much for listening.

If you've ever binged and immediately asked "what is wrong with me?" this episode is for you. You'll learn exactly why binge eating makes sense, why it's never actually self-sabotage, and what to ask yourself instead. You'll hear two real stories: one woman in the thick of shame and self-blame, convinced she's broken, and another who spent months white-knuckling through Sunday night promises before something finally shifted.What You'll Discover:Why "self-sabotage" is almost always self-protection in disguiseThe one question that will shift you out of the shame spiralThe signs you are making progress that you might ignoreWhat becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and get curious insteadIf you've ever acted in a way that didn't make sense to you and then blamed yourself for it, this episode will change the question you ask next time. Interested in exploring 1:1 coaching? Schedule a Breakthrough Call.Click here to get on the waitlist to be notified when Cultivate opens.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.

February is over — love is out, and self-sabotage is in. This week, the girls are diving into the art of ruining your own life for absolutely no reason. And we're not talking about basic bad time management — we mean ignoring the love of your life just because, ghosting a potential employer after landing your dream job, and suddenly deciding to “work on yourself” by not replying to friends for three months. Tune in this week to commiserate and maybe walk away feeling slightly less called out — or at least knowing you're not the only one sabotaging your own happiness.!!! TIMECODES !!!CATCH UP: 0:08SELF SABATOGE: 15:26// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Squarespace: Go to Squarespace.com for a free trial, and when you're ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Ritual: Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/WHATWESAID. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's guest is the frontman of one of the most defining bands of the 2010s — a songwriter whose voice helped shape an era of alternative pop that still echoes today.Before arenas. Before permanence. Before “Sweater Weather” became cultural shorthand.Now, after over a decade of hits, reinvention, and evolution, he looks back on the long arc of The Neighbourhood with clarity — and with honesty about what success did and didn't solve.And The Writer Is… Jesse Rutherford of The Neighbourhood!In this episode of And The Writer Is…, Jesse opens up about:• Growing up in the industry before he understood it• The unlikely formation and endurance of The Neighbourhood• His journey through childhood acting, getting discovered, + losing his dad on the brink of success• The advice he'd give himself before it worked• And much more…Hit subscribe and turn on notifications.Every week, we go deep with the most interesting creatives in music.Follow us on socials: @andthewriterisA special thank you to our sponsors…Our lead sponsor, NMPA — the National Music Publishing Association. Your support means the world to us.And @splice — the best sample library on the market. Period.Chapters:0:00 Intro2:09 I Never Wanted To Be Alternative
4:02 Why Thousand Oaks Produces Massive Bands7:39 Becoming a Child Actor at 6
8:35 “My Self-Worth Is Tied to Entertaining”
9:55 Discovered in a Movie Theater at 5
14:16 Reconnecting With His Dad Before He Passed
17:28 Success Without the Fame He Expected27:10 High School Metalcore Bands33:17 How The Neighbourhood Formed
36:06 The First Riff of “Sweater Weather”
40:00 Getting Discovered Online by Their Manager
44:23 His Manager's Warning…47:20 Writing the Lyrics to “Sweater Weather”
48:42 Pop Writing Rules
55:23 Learning to Let Go of Instant Validation
59:32 Daddy Issues
1:02:30Watching Your Own Lyrics Affect Relationships
1:10:01 Why He Needs Alone Time1:10:23 Feeling Invisible, the “Chip Chrome” Era
1:11:17 Touring the Same Venues & The Plateau Feeling
1:12:31 Why Chip Chrome Became His Favorite Creative Risk
1:13:48 “You've Got to Get People to Look to Listen”1:16:00 Creative Direction as Identity Control
1:19:30 Self-Sabotage vs Reinvention
1:32:00 Band Brotherhood & Growing Up Together
1:36:00 Legacy, Impact & What Really Matters1:41:00 Advice to His Younger SelfHosted by Ross GolanProduced by Joe London & Jad SaadEdited by Jad SaadPost-Production VFX by Pratik KarkiWatercolor Art by Michael White Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you struggle with bending over backwards for people you don't even know, or struggle with focusing or getting tasks done? Today's episode is full of nuggets from Dr. Tina Thomas (@lifeofadocgirl on tiktok, @dr.tinathomas) - my psychiatrist bestie on social media: in this part 1 we get to hear from her journey to psychiatry, what she's learned in working with patients struggling with anxiety, depression, and ADHD, and we also discuss nuggets of being a young woman in healthcare like setting boundaries, big girl money, and growing up as an other. You don't want to miss this one!IG: @drconniewang, @justaquickpinch

Have you ever noticed that things tend to fall apart right when they're about to come together? The most money you've ever had hits your bank account and *poof* is gone in an instance. The relationship that finally feels right and then you blow it up. This is one of the most human patterns that exists and it has a name. In this episode, we go deep on the science of self-sabotage: why it happens, why it gets loudest right before the breakthrough, and most importantly.. what you can actually do to stop pulling yourself back when you're closest to winning.This is the episode for anyone who has ever wondered why they keep getting in their own way. Spoiler: You're just closer than you think."The resistance gets loudest right before the door opens. Don't mistake the noise for a reason to stop."Questions To Sit With After This Episode1. Where in your life have you noticed things fall apart right when they were coming together? Can you see now what your brain was protecting you from?2. What is the next level you're moving toward and what identity would you need to step into to get there?3. What does your self-sabotage usually look like? Procrastination? Picking fights? Getting sick? Making reckless decisions? Naming your pattern takes away its power.4. What would you do differently this week if you truly believed the resistance was a signal you were close not a reason to stop?Lots of love,K-SkyLet's Connect!! ⬇️Connect with K-Sky on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@kskydonner⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with K-Sky on TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@coachksky⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with K-Sky on YouTube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@kskydonner

Do you ever catch yourself stuck in the same frustrating patterns, even when you know better and want to change?If you've ever struggled with self-sabotage, people-pleasing, or fears rooted in past trauma, this episode offers a rare and powerful opportunity: not only do we revisit the transformational Lefkoe Method with certified facilitator and holistic coach Blake Lefkoe, but for the first time, we're also joined by one of her former clients, Susanna, who courageously shares her personal story and healing journey—live on air.Witness a powerful live demonstration of the Lefkoe Method as Susanna clears a limiting belief in real time.Hear how she eliminated over 30 deep-rooted beliefs, leading to life-changing breakthroughs in her relationships, emotional resilience, and personal freedom.Learn how most people unknowingly live under the influence of subconscious beliefs, and how letting them go transforms how you think, feel, and experience the world.If you're ready to move beyond coping and into true transformation, tune in now to experience this rare, real-time emotional shift for yourself.˚KEY POINTS AND TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Reintroducing Blake and Setting the Intention02:18 - What the Lefkoe Method Is and How It Works06:01 - Agi's Personal Session and Key Realisations12:23 - Susanna's Background and Why She Sought Help15:38 - Core Limiting Beliefs That Were Cleared21:06 - Life Changes After Eliminating the Beliefs30:38 - Introducing the Live Method Demonstration33:03 - Uncovering and Dissolving the “Relationships Are Dangerous” Belief49:05 - Reflections, Insights, and Closing Thoughts˚VALUABLE RESOURCES:Blake's website: https://www.blakelefkoe.com/˚Coaching with Agi: https://personaldevelopmentmasterypodcast.com/mentor˚Send us a textSupport the showA personal development podcast for midlife professionals, offering actionable insights and practical tools for personal growth, self mastery, and purposeful living. Discover strategies for clarity, mindset shifts, growth mindset, self-discipline, emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-improvement. Personal Development Mastery features personal development interviews and solo episodes empowering professionals, entrepreneurs, and seekers to cultivate self mastery, nurture mental health, and create a meaningful, fulfilling life aligned with who they truly are. To support the show, click here.

Hello to you listening in Auckland, New Zealand! Coming to you from Whidbey Island, Washington this is Stories From Women Who Walk with 60 Seconds for Motivate  Your Monday and your host, Diane Wyzga. As the oldest of 7 children I learned early on the innate wisdom toddlers bring to the game of life. They know how to say No! And then the world shows them the error of their ways. We grow up saying Yes when we mean No! What changed? We were taught that saying Yes is right, good, proper, helpful even and saying No! is just plain wrong. The problem is the more we say Yes when we mean No we forget how to make choices in our own best interest and well-being. This self-sabotage robs us of our ability to choose wisely, of our personal power, of our legitimate right to say No! with certainty, confidence, and clarity. Of course, there's nothing wrong with saying Yes so long as we agree with ourselves, are not limited in our options, feeling compelled, or thinking we will be rejected or worse.  It takes practice to practice saying No! As you get better at it you will come to value saying what you mean and meaning what you say.   Practical Tip: When asked to take on work you want to decline, say this, “No. It's good work; but it's not my work.” And thank you for listening!    You're always welcome: "Come for the stories - Stay for the magic!" Speaking of magic, I hope you'll subscribe, share a 5-star rating and nice review on your social media or podcast channel of choice, bring your friends and rellies, and join us! You will have wonderful company as we continue to walk our lives together. Be sure to stop by my Quarter Moon Story Arts website, email me to arrange a no-obligation Discovery Call, and stay current with me as Quarter Moon Story Arts on Substack. Stories From Women Who Walk Production Team Podcaster: Diane F Wyzga & Quarter Moon Story Arts Music: Mer's Waltz from Crossing the Waters by Steve Schuch & Night Heron Music ALL content and image © 2019 to Present Quarter Moon Story Arts. All rights reserved.  If you found this podcast episode helpful, please consider sharing and attributing it to Diane Wyzga of Stories From Women Who Walk podcast with a link back to the original source.

Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed.  What achievement would feel like "enough" for you? Is there a level of success you'd ever be totally satisfied with? If you're an over-achiever that's always chasing what's next, this one's for you. We're throwing it back to this potent conversation with Leisse Wilcox, where we unpack the never-ending pursuit of more achievement, the 4 "P"s of self-sabotage (from perfectionism to people-pleasing) and how to actually feel like enough.  Leisse is a keynote speaker, leadership consultant, performance coach, emotional intelligence expert and two-times best-selling author. Known as “the Marie Kondo of your Unconscious”, She helps clients and businesses turns self-sabotage into success in each of life's cornerstone areas, combining strategic consulting and therapeutic coaching tools.  Follow Leisse on Instagram and check out her website.  Read Leisse's bestselling books, To Call Myself Beloved and Alone: The Truth + Beauty of Belonging. Listen to our full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Mahima Razdan, a rapid transformational therapist and hypnotherapist, shares how a painful breakup led her to uncover a childhood fear of abandonment that was silently shaping her relationships and choices. After traditional therapy provided insight but not relief, hypnotherapy helped her access the subconscious memory driving her emotional patterns—and everything changed. In this episode, she explains how Rapid Transformational Therapy works, why burnout is more about safety and meaning than long hours, how emotional wounds can impact weight and self-sabotage, and why the belief “I am enough” can transform confidence, career alignment, and relationships.

Send me a some feedback!In Part 8 of the Unbreakable series, Mike and Angie unpack one of the most confronting and irritating human patterns: self-sabotage. This episode explores how the nervous system, wired for familiarity over safety, unconsciously pulls us back to what it knows — even when life improves. From relationships to wealth to personal growth, they break down how “upper limits” show up and why we repeatedly sabotage joy, stability, and success when things get “too good.”Through personal stories, financial examples, addiction patterns, and relationship breakdowns, they reveal how self-sabotage isn't intentional — it's unconscious. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. This episode challenges you to stop blaming circumstances and start examining where your own nervous system may be quietly resetting your life back to its familiar baseline.Key TakeawaysYour nervous system prioritizes familiarity over safety. It keeps you alive by keeping you in what it knows — even if that environment is unhealthy.Self-sabotage is not conscious. It's an unconscious nervous system response when life exceeds your current capacity for joy, love, or wealth.You can be wired to have success but not wired to hold it. Without expanding your internal capacity, growth will trigger contraction.Upper limits affect every area of life. Financial growth can trip relationship issues. Relationship peace can trigger health problems. Everything is interconnected.Your “financial thermostat” determines your set point. If you exceed it, you'll unconsciously find a way to reset back to your familiar baseline — until you expand your capacity.Notable Quotes“The nervous system has one job and one job only and that's to keep you alive.”“It keeps you alive by keeping you in familiar circumstances.”“When things get too good, we fuck it up.”“When there's no reason for our joy and our happiness and fulfillment and the love in our heart to go away and it does, that's self-sabotage.”“If you're used to a low quality of life, your nervous system wants you to have it. And if you're used to a high quality of life, your nervous system wants you to have it because it knows how to operate there.”Call To ActionIf this conversation resonates, it's pointing to the deeper work—learning how to regulate internally instead of expecting life, success, or relationships to regulate you.

Where Science, Shadow Work, and Spirit Collide to Manifest Your Miracles.In this episode, I break down one of the most searched questions online right now: “Why isn't manifestation working for me?” If you've been scripting, affirming, visualizing, and taking action but nothing is moving, this conversation will shift how you understand what's actually happening.Episode Takeaways:Why manifestation stalls when you're operating from pressureThe difference between expanding and trying to escape your current realityHow nervous system contraction overrides affirmationsWhy “self-sabotage” is usually unexpanded capacityThe three immediate shifts that increase safety before expansionManifestation isn't about doing more. It's about becoming safe with what you're asking for. When your body feels secure holding the next level, results move naturally instead of forcefully.

Self sabotage is often the hidden reason high-achieving women struggle with health, wealth, love, and nervous system regulation. In this episode, Maraya Brown unpacks the upper limit problem, subconscious beliefs, and the four hidden barriers blocking your zone of genius so you can stop self-sabotage, heal chronic stress, and finally expand without fear.     The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta: Your 90-Day Health Reset Ready to take your health to the next level? The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta offers deep, personalized support to help you regain control of your energy, hormones, and well-being. This program includes: Three one-on-one calls with Maraya Dutch Plus Test and full assessment Bi-weekly live Q&A sessions Self-paced health portal covering energy, hormones, libido, and confidence   Podcast listeners get an exclusive discount. Use code PODCAST. Learn more and enroll now: https://marayabrown.com/trifecta/ _______________________ Free Wellness Resources Access free tools like the Menstrual Tracker, Adaptogen Elixir Recipes, Two-Week Soul Cleanse, Food Facial, and more. Download now: https://marayabrown.com/resources/ _______________________ Subscribe to The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and Spotify. _______________________ Connect with the Show Find us on Facebook,  Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group _______________________ Apply for a Call with Maraya Brown Start your journey with personalized support. Apply here: https://marayabrown.com/call  _______________________ About Maraya Brown Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine-trained Women's Health and Wellness Expert (CNM, MSN). She helps women feel energized, confident, and connected to themselves and their lives. With over 25 years of experience, she specializes in energy, hormones, libido, confidence, and deep transformation. _______________________ Disclaimer The content of this podcast is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute medical or professional advice. Listeners should consult with a qualified professional before making any health decisions.     This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact 

You prayed for the opportunity.The door opened.So why are you hesitating?In this episode, I break down why you freeze when God answers your prayer. We're talking about fear of success, self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, overthinking your calling, and nervous system dysregulation that shows up when opportunity finally comes.Are you waiting on God — or afraid to move?If you've been procrastinating, overthinking, or circling your next level, this will help you stop hesitating and walk through the open door with clarity and confidence.The door is open. Let's go.

A single question from a five-year-old stopped a suicide attempt and set a new life in motion. From there, Tara Wiskow lost 220 pounds naturally, faced the inner chaos that weight loss didn't fix, and rebuilt her identity with practical self-love, NLP timeline work, and intuitive energy healing. We dig into the hard truths behind people pleasing, the quiet ways self-sabotage steals midlife joy, and the daily practices that make healing stick.We start with soul-aligned journaling—the deceptively simple act of writing from the life you want—and how it surfaces real desires, buried needs, and the beliefs that block them. Tara explains power statements and mirror work as nervous system training, not fluff: stand taller, speak worth, and watch your energy shift. Then we go under the hood with NLP and mental-emotional release to find the root cause of limiting beliefs. Those “I'm not good enough” files usually start early; once the original imprint is released, your mind stops gathering proof for a story that never belonged to you.From there, we explore intuitive energy healing in plain language: where dense emotion lives in the body, how release happens with consent and presence, and why it matters to refill cleared space with peace, love, and confidence so old patterns don't return. Along the way, we connect grief, identity, and midlife transition—how loss can unmask who we really are and why this season is a powerful time to come home to yourself. Expect clear takeaways: one boundary to set, one ritual to keep, one belief to examine, and one sentence to claim in the mirror.If your outside has changed but the inside is loud, you're not broken—you're unfinished. Press play, then tell us the one belief you're ready to release. If this resonated, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review so more midlife women can find their way back to themselves.BioTara Wiskow, an intuitive energy healer and life reinvention expert who helps women break free from self-abandonment, self-sabotage, and the cycle of people-pleasing. After transforming her own life—losing 220 pounds naturally and overcoming deep emotional struggles—she now guides women to heal by releasing limiting beliefs, negative emotions, and blocked energy that keep them from stepping into their authentic power. Through her She Rises program, Tara helps women unravel old programming, upgrade their mindset, and uplevel into the life and body they desire. WebsiteFacebookInstagram TikTokFree DownloadThank you for listening to the V.I.B.E. Living Podcast. If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share it with a woman stepping into her next chapter. Stay connected with Lynnis and explore the V.I.B.E. Living world:

It's time to stop glamorizing the things that are secretly destroying you. In this episode, I'm talking about the seemingly harmless habits, personality traits, and lifestyle choices we defend...even when they're keeping us stuck. Wine culture, exhaustion as identity, staying where it's comfortable, calling chaos passion. Many of us are telling ourselves pretty little lies about the way we're living and wonder why we're not reaching out potential. If you're ready to explore the "aesthetic" or glamorous ways you may be subconsioculy sabotaging yourself, this one's for you.

Is self-sabotage the result of rejecting one side of your own duality?Josh Trent welcomes Dr. John Demartini to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 803, to dismantle the myth of self sabotage, reveal how duality governs perception and destiny, unpack why pride and shame distort authenticity, explore the hidden order behind chaos and so called evil, and show how integrating opposites through the right questions unlocks gratitude, fulfillment, and true self mastery.In This Episode, Dr. John Demartini Uncovers:(01:15) Self-Sabotage Is a Myth(05:00) Mastery Happens Through The Opposites(09:25) Perception Changes Absolutely Everything(14:40) Values Hierarchy(19:50) Pride VS Gratitude(27:15) You Can't Get Rid of The Ego(31:45) What Stops Your Growth(34:35) What Is God?(40:10) The Purpose of Evil(46:25) The Illusion of Morality(51:55) Teach Your Children Accountability(58:10) Good and Bad Don't Exist(01:00:50) Your Values Define You(01:07:45) Synthesis + Synchronicity(01:10:35) You're Part of The Matrix(01:14:40) Ask The Right Questions(01:17:25) Love + Gratitude Are The Key

Is self-sabotage the result of rejecting one side of your own duality? Josh Trent welcomes Dr. John Demartini to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 803, to dismantle the myth of self sabotage, reveal how duality governs perception and destiny, unpack why pride and shame distort authenticity, explore the hidden order behind chaos and so called evil, and show how integrating opposites through the right questions unlocks gratitude, fulfillment, and true self mastery.

What if thriving wasn't about having more, but about choosing differently? Rand Selig has spent a lifetime studying growth, leadership, relationships, and what it truly means to live well. With decades of global experience in business, service, and personal development, Rand believes thriving is not accidental. It's the result of intentional choices made over time. This episode explores how self-reflection, forgiveness, resilience, and personal responsibility shape the quality of our lives. Through thoughtful dialogue, Rand Selig and Chuck Thuss unpack why thriving starts with the relationship you have with yourself, how setbacks can become turning points, and what it takes to stop living on autopilot and start authoring your own story. Guest Bio Rand Selig holds an MBA from Stanford and dual undergraduate degrees in mathematics and psychology. For over 35 years, he has led his own financial services firm while living and working across Europe, Asia, Mexico, and the Caribbean. Deeply committed to personal growth, service, and environmental conservation, Rand created Thriving! to help others embrace meaningful, positive change. He lives in Mill Valley, California, with his wife of over four decades and remains actively involved in mentorship, community leadership, and global service.   You'll hear About What it really means to "thrive" in today's world Why the most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself How forgiveness and letting go free emotional energy Reframing setbacks as opportunities for growth Becoming the author of your own life story   Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 02:40 Rand's Background and Global Life Experience 05:20 Defining Thriving and Its Four Core Pillars 08:10 Why Personal Thriving Comes First 11:30 Self-Sabotage, Forgiveness, and Letting Go 15:00 The Power of Personal Choice 18:20 Navigating Setbacks and Building Resilience 22:30 Pain vs. Suffering and Reclaiming Agency 26:00 Becoming the Author of Your Own Story 30:20 Words, Self-Talk, and Emotional Health 34:00 Small Steps Toward Lasting Change 38:00 Rand's Message to Anyone Feeling Stuck 41:30 Where to Find Thriving! and Additional Resources 44:30 Chuck's Closing Reflections Chuck's Challenge This week, identify one area of your life where you've been reacting instead of choosing. Pause and ask yourself, "Is this aligned with the life I want to be living?" Make one intentional choice,  even a small one, that moves you toward thriving rather than defaulting to habit. Connect with Rand Selig Website: https://www.randselig.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rand-selig-43525a6/ Connect with Chuck Check out the website: https://www.thecompassionateconnection.com/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuck-thuss-a9aa044/ Follow on Instagram: @warriorsunmasked Join the Warriors Unmasked community by subscribing to the show. Together, we're breaking stigmas and shining a light on mental health, one story at a time.

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. Let's break down a check-in from a client who is not tracking food, calories or scale weight and then tried on clothing that were far too big for her. Suddenly, the pull to weigh herself or overeat became overwhelming.  We break down what motivation really is, how to soothe yourself when you're anxious, and the psychology behind punishment vs celebration

Randy is back! After a break to welcome a new grandchild, Randy returns with a powerful and vulnerable episode that goes deep into the core of The Gap Thinking Framework. Why do we so often self-sabotage when faced with a new opportunity? Why is our first instinct to say, "I can't" or "I shouldn't"? Randy explains that the answer lies in our "BS" (Beliefs and Stories)—the subconscious programming from our past that dictates our automatic reactions. He shares a deeply personal story about how a "lack mindset" instilled in childhood has held him back for decades, and how it almost stopped him from pursuing a major new business venture just yesterday. In this episode, you'll learn how to identify when you are trapped in a "narrow gap" of old thinking and how to consciously widen that space to choose a different path. Randy challenges the idea that you need to know the "how" before you act, arguing that faith and a belief in your own ability to choose are the real keys to success. This is a masterclass in moving from being a habitual thinker on autopilot to becoming an active thinker who designs their own life. Mentioned in this episode: The Gap Thinking Framework, beliefs and stories (BS), self-sabotage, lack mindset, triggers, narrow vs. wide gap, faith, decision-making, Henry Ford quote, personal development. Ready to identify the patterns that are holding you back? Take the free Gap Thinking Framework Assessment at richmind.co     Key Takeaways: The Gap Thinking Framework is about controlling the critical split-second window between a trigger (stimulus) and your reaction. Most of our life is lived on autopilot, but we can't afford to let our big life decisions be made by habitual thinking. Your "BS" (Beliefs and Stories) are the subconscious programs, often formed in childhood, that dictate your automatic reactions to new opportunities. A "narrow gap" occurs when you instantly revert to old, safe beliefs of "I can't" or "I shouldn't," leading to self-sabotage. You don't need to know the "how" before you take action. The key is to step out in faith and belief, and the resources will appear. Randy shares a transparent example of being triggered by an old "lack mindset" while researching a new business venture and how he overcame it. The famous Henry Ford quote, "Whether you believe you can, or believe you can't, either way, you're correct," is the foundation of this episode.     Questions Answered in This Episode:   Why has there been a break in the podcast episodes? (Hint: A new grandbaby!) How do my childhood beliefs and stories affect my adult decisions? What is a "narrow gap" and how does it lead to self-sabotage? Why do I automatically think "I can't" when presented with a big opportunity? How can I stop letting my past define my future? What do I do when I'm triggered by fear and doubt? Why don't I need to know the full plan before I take the first step? How can I shift from being a "habitual thinker" to an "active thinker"?     Key People, Concepts, & Terms: People: Randy Wilson, Henry Ford, David Neagle. Concepts: The GAP, Gap Thinking Framework, Beliefs and Stories (BS), Self-Sabotage, Triggers, Patterns, Narrow Gap vs. Wide Gap, Habitual vs. Active Thinking, Faith, Lack Mindset, Abundance. Call to Action: Take the free Gap Thinking Framework Assessment at richmind.co

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Send a textFree Gift : Click here for masterclassWhy do you feel stuck right when you're ready for more?Self-sabotage isn't what you think. If you keep holding yourself back at the edge of growth, expansion, visibility, or success, it's not laziness, lack of confidence, or lack of discipline. It's your nervous system responding to uncertainty.In this episode with Dr Amen Kaur we break down the neuroscience and psychology of self-sabotage, fear of success, and subconscious blocks. You'll learn why growth triggers internal resistance, how uncertainty activates protective patterns in the brain, and why feeling stuck is often a sign you're about to expand.We explore:The neuroscience behind self-sabotage and self-doubtWhy high-achieving women hit identity ceilingsHow uncertainty creates subconscious resistanceThe link between emotional regulation and successWhy discipline alone won't break growth blocksHow to rewire your nervous system for expansionIf you're navigating an identity shift, craving more visibility, wealth, leadership, or impact - but keep feeling stuck - this episode will help you understand what's happening beneath the surface.You don't need more willpower. You need nervous system safety.If this resonates, download the free masterclass below. And if it aligns, book a 1:1 discovery call to explore the 16-week private immersion for high-achieving women ready to expand their capacity for success, wealth, visibility, and self-led leadership - without burnout.

Do you ever feel like there's a relentless critic living inside your head?   The one that questions your worth, second-guesses your decisions, and tells you that you're not enough — as a husband, father, or leader?   In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, I sit down with Ashleigh Di Lello, founder of Bio Emotional Healing, to unpack the neuroscience behind the inner critic, self-sabotage, chronic stress, and identity. Ashleigh shares her extraordinary story — from being told at 13 she wouldn't survive a rare viral illness, to rebuilding her body and career as an elite dancer, to losing everything again after a failed surgery left her in chronic pain. What she discovered about the brain, the nervous system, and self-compassion doesn't just apply to injury — it applies to every man stuck in anxiety, pressure, and silent self-judgment.   This isn't about positive thinking. It's about understanding how your nervous system works, how identity is formed, and how to rewire the patterns that keep you reactive, disconnected, and exhausted. If you're tired of white-knuckling life and ready for real tools grounded in neuroscience, this episode is for you.     Timeline Summary [0:00] The inner critic most men silently battle [2:05] Ashleigh's diagnosis at 13 and being told she wouldn't survive [18:45] Using mental rehearsal to rebuild neural pathways [26:43] Losing her career after a failed surgery [30:45] Studying neuroscience to "flip the pain switch" [35:12] What harsh self-criticism does to the brain [44:16] The five-minute "container" exercise [59:06] Rewriting identity through intentional self-talk     Five Key Takeaways Harsh self-criticism activates fight-or-flight and blocks growth. Self-compassion is neurological safety — not weakness. Your brain validates whatever identity you reinforce. You can't lie to your brain, but you can guide it. What you suppress gains power — structured processing creates freedom.   Links & Resources: Ashleigh Di Lello Website: https://www.ashleighdilello.com Follow Ashleigh on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleighdilello/ Collagen (1st Phorm – what I personally use): https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=dadedge Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: https://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Business Boardroom (Mastermind): https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Episode Shownotes: http://thedadedge.com/1443     Closing Remark If this episode hit home — if you recognized that voice in your head — I challenge you to try the five-minute container exercise this week. Lead yourself with steadiness. Lead your family with clarity.   If you found value in today's conversation, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Every share helps us impact more fathers, families, and future generations.   From my heart to yours — go out and live legendary.

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Join Nick Lamagna in this raw, no-holds-barred episode of The A Game Podcast: Real Estate Investing for Entrepreneurs, where he sits down with real estate powerhouse Dave Payerchin - a man who's done over 1,000 deals, owned 400+ rental properties, raised $65M in private money, and then lost it ALL… twice. Dave is an investor, an educator and entrepreneur that doesn't hold back: the bankruptcies, the IRS wipeouts, the waiting tables after making $180K his first year, the full-blown alcohol and drug addiction that nearly destroyed his family, and the internal demons that almost ended his comeback for good. He is the founder of Sale House Columbus, Columbus Turnkey Houses and runs a national and local organization known as The CREAM, spreading the knowledge of cash flow, real estate and money with RJ Pepino. But this isn't just another real estate investing podcast. This is the conversation about why information alone doesn't make you rich, why self-sabotage is built into your DNA, and how the real game is won (or lost) between your ears. Topics from this episode include: ✅ How to rebuild self-worth after losing everything ✅ Why your daily habits are more important than your deal flow ✅ The spiritual and psychological reasons high-performers self-destruct ✅ How to channel addictive personalities into unstoppable drive ✅ The exact non-negotiable routines that rebuilt his trust in himself and his lenders ✅ Why ego, comparison, and "how many doors do you have?" culture is destroying investors  Whether you're a real estate investor trying to scale without blowing up, an entrepreneur tired of the boom-and-bust cycle, or an athlete who knows the mental game is everything - this episode will hit you in the soul.  If you've ever made money, lost money, battled your own mind, or wondered why you keep getting in your own way… this one's for you.

Today's guest is a festival headliner, Grammy-winning songwriter, and the architect of a sound that accidentally changed the course of folk, country, and alternative music forever.From singing as a family around a kitchen table to headlining arenas with banjos and mandolins, Marcus Mumford built something no one saw coming — and has spent years learning not to get in his own way once the stakes got real.Now, as a solo artist and band leader, he's as honest about the creative process as he is about the pitfalls of ego, overthinking, and the quiet ways success can sabotage itself.And The Writer Is... Marcus Mumford of Mumford & Sons!In this episode of And The Writer Is…, Marcus opens up about:His theory of "catching" songs rather than forcing themHow Mumford & Sons structured equal ownership to stay togetherWhat Bob Dylan said to him that he wants tattooed on his bodyThe Pharrell moment that reframed his entire relationship to successWhy showing up — again and again — is the only way judgment is earnedAnd much more...Hit the subscribe button and turn on notifications...Every week we go deep with the most interesting creatives in music.Follow us on socials at @andthewriterisA special thank you to our sponsors…Our lead sponsor, NMPA — the National Music Publishing Association. Your support means the world to us.And @splice — the best sample library on the market. Period.Chapters:0:00 Intro1:00 Desert Island Mix: Radiohead3:00 The Greatest Band of All Time?7:00 A Hilarious Story About Bob Dylan — His Songwriting Grandfather11:00 How Mumford & Sons Structured Equal Ownership13:35 How Mumford & Sons Writes Music17:00 Where Great Music Comes From18:35 His Songwriting Ethos: "Catching Fairies"22:00 Favorite Poetry and Getting Lost in Words Before Writing23:46 Childhood25:00 Growing Up in Church33:50 Why Drummers Make the Best Producers50:00 Testing Demos on the Road52:00 Working on His Solo Record58:00 The Empowering Pharrell Story1:03:00 The Chris Martin Story1:05:00 Rapid Fire Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of The Jimmy Rex Show, we dive deep into the idea that your brain may be distorting reality more than you realize. The author of Your Brain Is a Filthy Liar explains how childhood inputs create unconscious patterns that shape perception, emotional response, and behavior.We discuss brain pattern mapping, emotional addiction cycles, how perception drives behavior, and why awareness alone isn't enough to create change. If you've ever felt stuck in repeating the same destructive habits, this conversation breaks down how those patterns are formed — and how they can be rewired.Follow Bizzie here: https://www.instagram.com/bizziegold/?hl=en

On today's episode, Andy answers your questions on how to use comparison to fuel growth, what's the best way to overcome the fear of delegation, and how to avoid self-sabotage as you level up in life.

Enjoy these bitesize episodes where we spotlight some of Jessica's most empowering insights. Tonight, Jessica explores the pattern of self-sabotage - and why focusing on the “problem” can quietly reinforce it. Instead of analyzing why we hold ourselves back, she shares a simple shift drawn from hypnosis: directing the subconscious toward success, achievement, and the feeling of hitting the mark. To experience the full hypnosis, search “Sleep Magic – Conquering Self Sabotage.” Want more Sleep Magic? Join Sleep Magic Premium ✨ Enjoy 2 bonus episodes a month plus all episodes ad-free, access to Jessica's complete back catalog of over 60 episodes, and show your support to Jessica.  To Subscribe 

The Mind Architect, Peter Crone, is here for a life-changing conversation about how to unlock the subconscious beliefs holding you back and reclaim peace and presence in your life. Peter breaks down why we spiral in negative thoughts, why your brain is always bracing for a bad future that hasn't even happened yet, and how to stop endlessly “fixing” your problems and start dissolving them instead. He shares simple, grounding tools to calm anxiety, get out of worst-case-scenario mode, and be more present with the people and life right in front of you. The episode wraps with a real-time one-on-one session where Peter helps Vic uncover a subconscious belief or “lie” that's been quietly holding her back, giving you a front-row seat to the work that creates real, lasting change. Tune in to learn how to break mental loops, take your power back, and feel a whole lot lighter in your own mind.Visit petercrone.com/mastermind to learn more about Peter's three-month intensive starting February 21, 2026!Connect with Peter:Instagram: @petercroneYouTube: Peter Crone// SPONSORS // Premier Protein: Find your favorite flavor at premierprotein.com or at Amazon, Walmart, and other major retailers. BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/realpod today to get 10% off your first month.Pique Tea: Unlock 20% off and establish your powerful sustained well-being at piquelife.com/realpod. CozyEarth: Head to cozyearth.com and use my code REALPOD for up to 20% off.Thrive Market: Join Thrive Market with my link ThriveMarket.com/REALPOD for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Ian sits down with John Assaraf, entrepreneur, behavioral neuroscience educator, and founder of NeuroGym, for a conversation about the invisible forces that shape performance — long after planning, analysis, and good intentions are in place. John shares his personal journey from a turbulent upbringing to building multiple multimillion-dollar businesses, and the pivotal moment at age 19 that reframed how he thought about success, identity, and commitment. From there, the discussion moves into the neuroscience behind habits, automatic behavior, fear, and why people often snap back to familiar results — even when they know what to do. This is not a trading tactics episode. It's a conversation about execution, follow-through, and the human side of performance — in trading, business, health, and life. About the guest: John Assaraf is a serial entrepreneur who has built multiple multimillion-dollar companies, including helping scale a real estate organization to over $4 billion in annual sales and co-founding a technology company that later went public on the NASDAQ. He is the founder and CEO of NeuroGym, where he focuses on applying neuroscience to performance, habits, and behavior change. John is also the author of several New York Times bestselling books, translated into dozens of languages, and has been featured in films such as The Secret, where many people were first introduced to his work.   Links + Resources:  Free eBook: The Power of Visualization    Sponsor of Chat With Traders Podcast:  Trade The Pool:  http://www.tradethepool.com   Time Stamps: Please note: Exact times will vary depending on current ads.   00:00   Intro and Background 11:16   Mindset Shift: Interested vs. Committed 11:46   Behavioral Neuroscience and Goal Achievement 16:17   Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind 17:12   Creating Permanent Behavioral Changes 21:22   Emotional Regulation and Decision Making 25:30   Overcoming Self-Sabotage 35:20   AddressingFear in Decision Making 42:37   Inner Size: Exercising the Mind 44:27   Self-Sabotage and Financial Set Points 48:21   The Science of Goal Setting 50:17   Visualizing and Embodying Goals 54:40   How to reach John   Trading Disclaimer: Trading in the financial markets involves a risk of loss. Podcast episodes and other content produced by Chat With Traders are for informational or educational purposes only and do not constitute trading or investment recommendations or advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices