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Welcome to Loving Well, a new Valentine’s Day podcast series from Focus on the Family. Join our hosts, John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley and Greg’s wife, Erin, to celebrate marriage with fun stories, encouraging conversations and practical advice about ways you can strengthen your marriage.

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    • Jan 20, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 25m AVG DURATION
    • 55 EPISODES

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    The Loving Well podcast is an incredible resource for couples looking to strengthen their marriage. For over 20 years, my family has been following Focus on The Family and we are grateful for all they have done for us. This podcast is no exception. The episodes are filled with truth, wisdom, and practical ways to keep your marriage strong. From the very first episode I listened to, I found myself in tears because I connected so deeply with what Greg and Erin Smalley were saying. Their thoughtful topics get to the heart of various issues that couples may struggle to communicate about on their own.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is its ability to provide a balanced perspective on marriage. The hosts, Greg and Erin Smalley, have a way of convicting with scriptural truths while also encouraging listeners with personal scenarios that keep us pressing on in the fight for a healthy marriage. Their down-to-earth approach makes it easy to relate to them and feel understood. The content they share is not only relatable but also deeply insightful, offering practical advice that can be applied immediately.

    Another great aspect of The Loving Well podcast is the variety of topics covered. Whether it's communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, or parenting, there is something for every couple to learn and grow from. Each episode dives into these topics with depth and sensitivity, providing listeners with valuable tools and strategies to apply in their own marriages.

    While there aren't many negative aspects to this podcast, one potential downside could be that some episodes may not resonate with every listener. Personal preferences and experiences may vary, so not all topics discussed may be applicable or relevant to every couple's journey. However, even if one particular episode doesn't hit home for you, there are plenty more episodes available that address different aspects of marriage.

    In conclusion, The Loving Well podcast by Focus on The Family is a must-listen for any couple seeking guidance and support in their marriage journey. Greg and Erin Smalley's commitment to providing biblical wisdom paired with relatable personal experiences creates a rich and impactful listening experience. The practical advice and encouragement shared in each episode will undoubtedly benefit couples in their pursuit of a strong and loving marriage. Keep up the excellent work, Focus on The Family!



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    Season Eight Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 5:23


    We're excited about our brand new season 8 of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley, and Erin Smalley as they preview the upcoming season of Loving Well, which will focus on helping you develop a strong spiritual connection in your marriage. Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance Join the 10-Day Couples' Prayer Challenge If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

    Season 7, Episode 4: Oh No! I Missed Valentine's Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 30:04


    Did you accidentally forget to celebrate Valentine's Day? The truth is, we all make mistakes in our marriages, but if you forgot to celebrate February 14th, you'll be encouraged by the tips John, Greg and Erin give. They'll share how to make the most of missed opportunities. Also, some of our own staff members describe the need to show your spouse grace after a mistake.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   Learn more about your strengths and weaknesses as a couple by taking our free Marriage Assessment!   Wondering if the Hope Restored intensive is for you? Check out the details here.    Almost 2,000 marriages will end today. What if you could make a difference in one of those marriages? You don't have to be a marriage expert. And you can make a difference in as little as 60 seconds a day.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

    Season 7, Episode 3: Making Valentine's Day Amazing

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 26:17


    How are you planning to celebrate Valentine's Day this year? To give you some ideas, John, Greg and Erin each share their opinion on an ideal Valentine's Day date. You'll also hear from a few Focus staff members, who tell about their favorite Valentine's Day memories. Plus, if you're in a spot where you can't afford to spend a lot of money, John, Erin and Greg will give you a few helpful perspectives.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   Learn more about your strengths and weaknesses as a couple by taking our free Marriage Assessment!   Wondering if the Hope Restored intensive is for you? Check out the details here.    Almost 2,000 marriages will end today. What if you could make a difference in one of those marriages? You don't have to be a marriage expert. And you can make a difference in as little as 60 seconds a day.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

    Season 7, Episode 2: Pulling the Plug on Busyness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 17:52


    You long for romantic dates with your spouse, but how are those possible when the schedule is full? John and the Smalley's share how they've navigated busy seasons in their marriages. Courtney Ellis describes how she dealt with a full season in her family. Also, Jodie Berndt offers ideas for how to pray for your mate, even when life is busy.   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   Learn more about your strengths and weaknesses as a couple by taking our free Marriage Assessment!   Wondering if the Hope Restored intensive is for you? Check out the details here.    Almost 2,000 marriages will end today. What if you could make a difference in one of those marriages? You don't have to be a marriage expert. And you can make a difference in as little as 60 seconds a day.

    Season 7, Episode 1: Making a Marriage Happy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 25:09


    How would you define a "happy" marriage? John, Greg and Erin explore that very question. You'll also hear Ted Lowe discuss some of the components of a good relationship. Also, Lisa Jacobson and her friend Phylicia Masonheimer share about a concept called, "biblical flirtation."   Receive the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount!   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

    Season Seven Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2024 2:36


    What's your favorite thing about Valentine's Day? John and the Smalley's share what they enjoy most about this special holiday, and get you ready for season 7 of the Loving Well Podcast.

    Season 6, Episode 4: Appreciating Your Mate

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2023 33:49


    Learning to see your spouse through the lens of God's love is one of the best ways to keep your marriage strong. John talks with Erin and Greg about why being humble is good for your relationship, and how you can appreciate the way God made your mate.Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage-softcover?refcd=1600106Book: Love Like You Mean it by Bob LepineFocus on Marriage Assessment4 Animals Personality TestIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Season 6, Episode 3: Healthy Habits for a Godly Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 32:04


    Good habits are a necessary foundation for your relationship. To help you and your spouse develop healthy habits, John, Greg and Erin share how to make prayer, saying “I love you,” and other simple things regular parts of your daily life.Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage-softcover/Get the book: Simple Habits for Marital Happiness by Dr. Randy SchroederFocus on Marriage Assessment If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Season 6, Episode 2: Walking Through Seasons Together

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2023 32:06


    Just like the ways the weather changes, your marriage will experience seasons. Greg, Erin and John offer some helpful perspectives on how you and your spouse can grow together during the changing seasons of life. Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage-softcover/?refcd=1600106.Book: The Four Seasons of Marriage by Debra FiletaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Episode 1: The Beauty of Romance & Intimacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2023 32:29


    Romance is a wonderful blessing in your marriage, and is a great gift to help keep your relationship strong. John, Erin and Greg discuss why romance and intimacy can help with the long-term health of your marriage.  Receive the book "Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance" for your donation of any amount: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/crazy-little-thing-called-marriage-softcover/The Fundamentals of Marriage: 8 Essential Practices of Successful CouplesGod, Sex and Your MarriageIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Season Six Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 2:47


    We all have those married couples we look up to. There's something special about a marriage that goes the distance. Join John Fuller, along with Greg and Erin Smalley who'll share about some of their favorite couples, and preview the upcoming season of the Loving Well podcast, which launches January 20th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Season 5, Episode 4: Answering Marriage Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2022 32:33


    There's no such thing as a bad question! Today, John and the Smalley's answer questions about marriage on a variety of topics. Get the book "Cherish": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cherish/?refcd=1290207 Get more episode resources: https://bit.ly/3FswOtd If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

    Season 5, Episode 3: Loving by Words and Actions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 39:38


    Sometimes, you don't need to do something extravagant to improve your marriage. It might be that giving a simple complement, or a seemingly small act of love can take your relationship to the next level. Join John and the Smalley's as they discuss how words and actions can make a difference in your relationship. Get the book "Cherish": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cherish/?refcd=1290207 Get more episode resources: https://bit.ly/3FswOtd If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

    Season 5, Episode 2: Loving Your Best Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 23:38


    Marriage is a unique and special opportunity to build a lifelong friendship. John, Erin, and Greg share some of the ways they've learned to be friends with their spouse and discuss how you can cultivate a friendship as a couple. Get the book "Cherish": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cherish/?refcd=1290207 Get more episode resources: https://bit.ly/3FswOtd If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

    Season 5, Episode 1: Love Without Expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 24:28


    Is it possible to love your spouse without expecting something in return? John Fuller and Greg and Erin Smalley share how they've learned to rely on God's love in marriage and offer a practical perspective on what it means to truly love your mate. Get the book "Cherish": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cherish/?refcd=1290207 Get more episode resources: https://bit.ly/3FswOtd If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

    Season Five Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 1:22


    Welcome to Season 5 of the Loving Well podcast! Join John Fuller as he chats with Greg and Erin Smalley about how God's love helps you to love your spouse through simple and creative actions. Throughout this season, we'll explore how a relationship with Christ can influence the ways you love and treat your spouse. Get the book "Cherish": https://store.focusonthefamily.com/cherish/?refcd=1290207 Get more episode resources: https://bit.ly/3FswOtd If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

    Season 4, Episode 4: Developing Spiritual Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 35:49


    Season 4, Episode 3: Rekindling Simple Romance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 30:35


    Season 4, Episode 2: Connecting in the Busy Times

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 32:38


    Season 4, Episode 1: Love & Laughter

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 41:22


    Season Four Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 3:23


    Season 3, Episode 4: God's Plan for Your Love Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2020 25:49


    Episode 4: God’s Plan for Your Love-Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2020


    Happy Valentine’s Day! As you celebrate your marriage, we want to encourage you to build your relationship on the foundation of God’s love. Call-in guests share their best marriage advice; Rhonda Stoppe talks about her favorite Bible couple; and Ryan and Selena Frederick describe how God sustained them through a trying season. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

    Season 3, Episode 3: Loving Your Spouse (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2020 33:21


    Episode 3: Loving Your Spouse pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2020


    Like the way Christ sacrificially loved His church, husbands are commanded to love their wives. Greg, Erin and John discuss the difference a godly husband makes in a marriage; Fawn Weaver tells more stories from interviewing married couples; Pastor Ted Cunningham gives ideas for having fun with your spouse; and Dave and Ashley Willis offer practical ideas for a husband to connect with his wife’s heart. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

    Season 3, Episode 2: Loving Your Spouse (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2020 36:49


    Episode 2: Loving Your Spouse pt. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2020


    A wife can encourage her husband’s heart by choosing to respect him. John and the Smalley’s give some great thoughts for how a wife can practically bless her husband; Dave and Ashley Willis unpack the communication differences between men and women; Fawn Weaver talks about lessons she learned from interviewing married couples around the world; and Rhonda Stoppe shares the desire of every wife’s heart. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

    Season 3, Episode 1: Love Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020 30:18


    Episode 1: Love Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020


    Nothing brightens your heart like falling in love. Join John, Greg and Erin as they describe some of their favorite love stories; author Rhonda Stoppe tells how she fell in love with her husband Steve; the Boundless Show roundtable discusses praying for a future spouse; and call-in guests share their engagement stories. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

    Season Three Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2020 3:05


    Season Three Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2020


    Valentine's Day is the perfect time to reflect on your love story. What better way to rekindle those warm feelings and special memories than with a romantic song? Join John Fuller, Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley as they preview Season 3 of the Loving Well podcast and talk about their favorite love songs. Pre-order Ted Cunningham's new book A Love That Laughs Additional Resources

    Season 2 | Episode 4: Valentine for a Lifetime

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019 32:52


    Season 2 | Episode 4: Valentine for a Lifetime

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019


    Even after the children leave home, your spouse will still be there. Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how mature couples can thrive in the second half of marriage, and Bob and Cheryl Reccord offer tips for you and your spouse to stay active during the later stages of life.

    Season 2, Episode 3: Parenting Together

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2019 23:20


    Season 2 | Episode 3: Parenting Together

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2019


    Kids change a marriage, but they can also strengthen the bond with your spouse. Arlene Pellicane explains how you can keep your romance alive amongst the busyness of parenting, and Dr. Gary Chapman talks about how to keep your priorities in order during the cold seasons of marriage.

    Season 2, Episode 2: When Everything is New!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 31:37


    Season 2 | Episode 2: When Everything is New!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019


    The early years of marriage are filled with changes. Pastor Ted Cunningham explains how couples can transition well after leaving their parent’s home, Dr. Juli Slattery talks about working through the sexual dynamics of marriage, and Bill and Pam Farrel discuss how young couples can learn how to communicate with each other.

    Season 2, Episode 1: Date-Nights and a Diamond

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019 31:42


    Season 2 | Episode 1: Date-Nights and a Diamond

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019


    Young love is exciting, but it must be built on a solid foundation in order to flourish. Join John, Greg and Erin as they share their engagement stories. You’ll also hear from guests Roger and Diane Ingolia about the importance of having a marriage mentor, and Gary Thomas on how to find a godly spouse.

    Season 2: Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019 1:27


    Season 2: Preview

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019


    Focus on the Family is celebrating Valentine’s Day with a new season of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Erin Smalley as they discuss how to embrace and enjoy your romance journey, no matter what part you find yourself in.

    Season 1, Episode 6: Lasting Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2018 36:23


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