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Best podcasts about greg smalley

Latest podcast episodes about greg smalley

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Healing Our Hurting Marriage

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 27:04


An honest look at a pastor’s marriage that was very nearly destroyed by his addiction to work, and her suppressed feelings of loneliness and anger. Paul and Melody Westbrook explain how their marriage fell apart, and how several days of counseling at Hope Restored helped rebuild it. They explain the “marriage intensive” counseling process, and give hope to couples in dire straits. Find practical advice and encouragement for your marriage in this free audio collection containing over five hours of content. Guests include Ron and Opal Erickson, Dr. Greg Smalley, Dr. Bob and Jenni Paul, and others. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Forsake All Others – Part 2

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 17:45


If your spouse has been unfaithful to you, we pray this episode gives you some encouragement. Jim Daly talks to Dave and Ashley Willis about why it's not good for wives to blame themselves if their husband has cheated on them. Also, Greg Smalley speaks with John and Erin about the different ways men and women might be tempted, and how to guard yourself from tempting areas. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime Contact our Counseling Department Recovering from an Affair Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

If your spouse has been unfaithful to you, we pray this episode gives you some encouragement. Jim Daly talks to Dave and Ashley Willis about why it's not good for wives to blame themselves if their husband has cheated on them. Also, Greg Smalley speaks with John and Erin about the different ways men and women might be tempted, and how to guard yourself from tempting areas. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime Contact our Counseling Department Recovering from an Affair Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Nurture Your Wife, Stay Married for Life!

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 27:18


In this classic Promise Keepers message, Dan and Jane Seaborn take the stage together to provide a fun look at the differences between men and women. Then Dan delivers a serious, passionate message encouraging men to nurture their wives, avoid the dangers of pornography, and commit to staying married for life. Both husbands and wives will learn easy habits that can transform a marriage into a thriving, enjoyable relationship! Guests include Patricia Ashley, Dr. Greg Smalley, Shaunti Feldhahn, Kathi Lipp, Dan Seaborn, and Jay Payleitner! Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Java with Juli
#553 Divorce and Separation: How to Know What to Do

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 39:35


When a marriage is in crisis, it can be hard to know what the next step should be. Is divorce the only option? Are there other steps available that couples often miss? Dr. Greg Smalley, Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family, joins Juli to talk about some of the options couples can explore.     Guest: Dr. Greg Smalley     Focus on the Family Website   Java with Juli: #489 Thinking About Divorce? You Might Want to Listen to This First Java with Juli: #519 Why we Need to be Better at Caring for Divorced People in the Church   Blog: Why and How to Pursue a Healing Separation Blog: Is Divorce the Right Answer?   Become a member!   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage
Lasting Ever: Finding God's Grace for Your Family in Life's Difficulties

Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 45:48


In this episode of 'Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage,' Erin and Greg Smalley dive into various aspects of marital life, from the joys of music and family bonding to the dynamics of handling disagreements and difficult seasons. Their guests, Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie Fink, provide insights from their book 'Lasting Ever,' reflecting on their personal struggles and the therapeutic journey of writing their life story. They emphasize humility, vulnerability, and the power of conflict resolution in strengthening marital bonds. Click here to receive the book Lasting Ever for a gift of any amount! Call Focus on the Family at 1(855) 771-4357, or click here, to receive free counseling consultation. Donate Now! We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Loving Well
Season Eight Preview

Loving Well

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 5:23


We're excited about our brand new season 8 of the Loving Well Podcast! Join John Fuller, Dr. Greg Smalley, and Erin Smalley as they preview the upcoming season of Loving Well, which will focus on helping you develop a strong spiritual connection in your marriage. Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance Join the 10-Day Couples' Prayer Challenge If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Porn Must Be Destroyed in Community

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2025 15:00


One of the best ways to defeat porn addiction is to get help from a supportive community. Greg Smalley shares with John and Erin how he found healing through support from other men. Also, Jim Daly asks Mark and Rosie Makinney what healthy community looks like for a marriage that's been harmed by porn addiction. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Fight for Love for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime No Porn Marriage Podcast Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
Porn Must Be Destroyed in Community

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2025 15:30


One of the best ways to defeat porn addiction is to get help from a supportive community. Greg Smalley shares with John and Erin how he found healing through support from other men. Also, Jim Daly asks Mark and Rosie Makinney what healthy community looks like for a marriage that's been harmed by porn addiction. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Fight for Love for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Listen Anytime No Porn Marriage Podcast Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Dealing with Emotional Sunburns

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 12:38


When you and your mate misunderstand each other, it's easy to feel hurt. Dave and Ashley Willis join Jim Daly to discuss something they call, "emotional sunburns." They'll even address a common mistake wives make in how they communicate. Also, Greg Smalley talks about communication errors husbands tend to make, and how to overcome them. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Friendship in Marriage Hope Restored Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
Dealing with Emotional Sunburns

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 14:08


When you and your mate misunderstand each other, it's easy to feel hurt. Dave and Ashley Willis join Jim Daly to discuss something they call, "emotional sunburns." They'll even address a common mistake wives make in how they communicate. Also, Greg Smalley talks about communication errors husbands tend to make, and how to overcome them. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Friendship in Marriage Hope Restored Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
Dealing with Emotional Sunburns

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 14:08


When you and your mate misunderstand each other, it's easy to feel hurt. Dave and Ashley Willis join Jim Daly to discuss something they call, "emotional sunburns." They'll even address a common mistake wives make in how they communicate. Also, Greg Smalley talks about communication errors husbands tend to make, and how to overcome them. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Friendship in Marriage Hope Restored Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Grace Over Your Mistakes

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 14:53


When you're a newlywed, it's common to make mistakes, as you're learning how to be married. Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share with Jim Daly about bad decisions they made as a young couple, and what they learned from that time. Then, Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about why we need God's grace when we mess up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Building Blocks for a Stronger Marriage Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

When you're a newlywed, it's common to make mistakes, as you're learning how to be married. Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share with Jim Daly about bad decisions they made as a young couple, and what they learned from that time. Then, Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about why we need God's grace when we mess up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Building Blocks for a Stronger Marriage Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

When you're a newlywed, it's common to make mistakes, as you're learning how to be married. Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share with Jim Daly about bad decisions they made as a young couple, and what they learned from that time. Then, Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about why we need God's grace when we mess up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Listen Anytime Building Blocks for a Stronger Marriage Contact our Counseling Department Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Encouragement for You
Avoiding Emotional Christmas Landmines

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2024 23:03


Family dynamics can sometimes be complicated, especially during the holidays. Dr. Greg Smalley joins host Don Hawkins to discuss healthy boundaries, good communication, and other ways we can ease family tension during the holidays. Then, unrighteous anger can hold us back from the life God designed for us, but sometimes feelings of anger appear in our hearts and we aren’t sure how to deal with them. Brad Fairchild joins host Don Hawkins for a conversation on responding to feelings of anger in a Godly manner. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Experiencing a Fulfilled Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2024 27:07


“Our marriage was totally dead!” In a dynamic message of marital restoration, Patricia Ashley shares her testimony of a painful five years with her husband, Vernon, and how the Lord worked a miracle in their hearts when they joined hands to pray for a friend. She encourages wives with practical ideas on how to employ biblical principles in their marriages. (Part 2 of 2)   Both husbands and wives will learn easy habits that can transform a marriage into a thriving, enjoyable relationship! Guests include Patricia Ashley, Dr. Greg Smalley, Shaunti Feldhahn, Kathi Lipp, Dan Seaborn, and Jay Payleitner    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Experiencing a Fulfilled Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 27:26


“Our marriage was totally dead!” In a dynamic message of marital restoration, Patricia Ashley shares her testimony of a painful five years with her husband, Vernon, and how the Lord worked a miracle in their hearts when they joined hands to pray for a friend. She encourages wives with practical ideas on how to employ biblical principles in their marriages. (Part 1 of 2)   Both husbands and wives will learn easy habits that can transform a marriage into a thriving, enjoyable relationship! Guests include Patricia Ashley, Dr. Greg Smalley, Shaunti Feldhahn, Kathi Lipp, Dan Seaborn, and Jay Payleitner    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

Men in the Arena Podcast
Load Up Your Relational Toolbox: Relationship Strategies for Men w/ Greg Smalley EP 774

Men in the Arena Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 75:37


We all want to build stronger connections.  But as men, sometimes it feels like we lack the tools that seem to come so naturally to women when it comes to relational communication. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Greg Smalley, author of “Men's Relational Toolbox.” He shares practical tips and insight on how we can immediately improve those relationships that mean the most to us.  Here is the link to Greg's book: (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)

26 MOVIES FROM HELL
366 WEIRD MOVIES

26 MOVIES FROM HELL

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 153:12


Join Dan and Bradley as they discussion approximately 1 billion movies with the hosts of POD 366 ‘a 366 Weird Movies' podcast and YouTube series Greg Smalley (the founder of the great 366 Weird Movies website www.366weirdmovies.com) and Giles Edwards (Co-host and writer for 366 Weird Movies).  We get deep into the 366 Weird Movies catalog and discuss our favorite films they have listed as well as a few the Dan and Bradley think would qualify for a coveted spot on the 366 Weird Movies list. It's a wild and varied conversation with a couple of great guys doing god's work.  Also, get your pencils out because there are loads of movies discussed that you will want to seek out and watch. Giles's voice narration work can be heard on his SoundCloud

Encouragement for You
How to Make You Spouse Feel Loved

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2024 20:23


For many years Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Erin have conducted marriage and family seminars. In our first segment of Encouragement for You, they join host Don Hawkins to talk about how to make your spouse feel loved.  For many people today the stresses of life have left them feeling hopeless. Maybe you feel this way yourself. In this next segment of Encouragement for You, christian therapist Brad Fairchild and host Don Hawkins explore the subject of hope. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

The Union Podcast
Episode 92- Robert Paul and Tara Lalonde On Marriages That Are Empowered To Love

The Union Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 64:00


When faced with continuous challenges and unexpected obstacles in life, how can we create a fulfilling and close marriage? How can we transition from feeling stressed and overwhelmed to feeling energized and motivated, and find the strength to improve our marriage relationship? In this episode, hosted by Bryan Pue, we will hear from Robert Paul, and return guest Tara Lalonde, as they unpack principles from their new book entitled “Empowered To Love”. Robert and Tara provide practical, biblically based tools for husbands and wives to enhance their personal lives and empower their marriage. Instead of simply hoping and praying for something better, couples are encouraged to actively take steps to care for themselves and prioritize their most important relationship.Through insightful guidance, Robert and Tara will address questions like:Why is Empowered to Love so important in today's cultural moment, and how can it offer hope for struggling marriages?How can couples focus on personal development without falling into self-centeredness?What are the greatest threats to creating a marriage that feels safe emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally?Why is personal responsibility so crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship?How can we avoid codependency and recognize when we are taking on too much responsibility for our spouse's emotional and spiritual health?What does it mean to “guard your heart” in an unhealthy marriage while still showing up as the best version of yourself?How has the modern view of love and commitment in marriage gone off track, and how can we reclaim the true meaning of covenant love?Is love a feeling or a choice, and how do both perspectives shape a lasting marriage?What words of hope can we offer to couples who feel stuck in negative patterns and don't know how to move forward?Whether you're a newlywed or a couple facing years of unresolved tension, Empowered to Love offers real hope, practical strategies, and transformative insights that can help your marriage flourish in today's fast-paced world. Tune in and take the next step toward a healthier, more empowered relationship.Robert S. Paul, M.S., is the vice president of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute and the primary architect of the Hope Restored marriage intensive programs. He is a licensed professional counsellor with over 30 years of experience and is an international speaker. He has coauthored six books, including The DNA of Relationships with Gary and Greg Smalley and, more recently, 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage. Robert and his wife, Jenni, have been married for 43 years and have four children and seven grandchildren.Tara Lalonde, PhD, is a registered psychotherapist in Ontario and has been counselling adults and couples for over 20 years. She is a lead marriage therapist with the Hope Restored marriage intensive counselling program in Ontario, Canada. She is also the author of An Unexpected Freedom: Discover Peace and Joy in the Reality of Life. She and her husband, Vince, have been married for 19 years.Get your copy of “Empowered To Love”Register for a Hope Restored Marriage Intensive- USARegister for a Hope Restored Marriage Intensive- Canada

Life!Line with Craig Roberts
Life!Line with Craig Roberts 09-18-24 Hour 1

Life!Line with Craig Roberts

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 46:46


Guests: Dr. Greg Smalley, Greg Burt, and Valerie HillSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Encouragement for You
Simplifying Your Life

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2024 23:07


Most of us are finding life to be complex these days with all the electronic gadgets and methods of communication. Dr. Greg Smalley is the vice president for families of Focus on the Family and his wife Erin is a christian therapist. You'll find their recommendations for simplifying your life to be helpful. Without question all of us are growing older and many of us have questions about aging. In this segment the late christian psychiatrist Dr. Frank Minirth answers listener questions on this important subject. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Focus on the Family Daily
Combating the Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage - (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 25:33


When it comes to marriage, our culture regularly promotes relationship myths and fairy-tale expectations. Dr. Greg Smalley and Bob Paul will unravel some of the “Love Lies” you may have bought into - and supply you with truth that will strengthen your marriage.

Focus on the Family Daily
Combating the Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage - (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2024 26:04


When it comes to marriage, our culture regularly promotes relationship myths and fairy-tale expectations. Dr. Greg Smalley and Bob Paul will unravel some of the “Love Lies” you may have bought into - and supply you with truth that will strengthen your marriage. You'll learn to look past these lies to embrace your spouse.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
What is Real Repentance in Marriage?

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 9:41


Repentance is sometimes the key you need to take your marriage to the next level. Greg Smalley defines what true repentance is. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Ron Welch about a time he realized he needed to change the way he was treating his wife Jan.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book 10 Choices for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Support This Show!   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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What is Real Repentance in Marriage?

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2024 9:55


Repentance is sometimes the key you need to take your marriage to the next level. Greg Smalley defines what true repentance is. Then, Jim Daly talks with Dr. Ron Welch about a time he realized he needed to change the way he was treating his wife Jan.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book 10 Choices for a Better Marriage for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Support This Show!   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Restoring Hope to Your Marriage

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 27:45


Married for over 50 years, Ron and Opal Erickson are a host couple for Hope Restored. More than 20 years ago, Ron had a serious midlife crisis, going on a downward spiral that led to a relationship with another woman. He and Opal were estranged for about 18 months until he finally submitted his life to God. Their marriage was restored and now have a music ministry. As a Hope Restored host couple, they get to share their music and their story with those couples.   This free audio collection contains over 5 hours of content featuring Ron and Opal Erickson, Dr. Greg Smalley, Dr. Bob and Jenni Paul, and others. Find practical advice and encouragement for your marriage.    Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Focus on the Family Daily
Parenting Your Teens When Times Are Tough

Focus on the Family Daily

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 25:40


You are the exact parent your teenager needs! Dr. Greg Smalley will give you hope that regardless of the choices your teenager is making, or the parenting challenges you're facing, you can trust in God's plan for their future.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
When Your Marriage Faces Spiritual Warfare

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 11:49


We have an enemy, Satan, who hates God's design for marriage. Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about how to recognize when your marriage may be facing a spiritual attack. Then, Matt and Lisa Jacobson speak with Jim Daly about why we need to take spiritual warfare seriously in our marriages.     Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the 2-Book Bundle: Loving Your Husband/Wife Well for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Spiritual Warfare: When the Enemy Attacks Your Marriage   Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
When Your Marriage Faces Spiritual Warfare

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 12:18


We have an enemy, Satan, who hates God's design for marriage. Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about how to recognize when your marriage may be facing a spiritual attack. Then, Matt and Lisa Jacobson speak with Jim Daly about why we need to take spiritual warfare seriously in our marriages.     Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the 2-Book Bundle: Loving Your Husband/Wife Well for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Spiritual Warfare: When the Enemy Attacks Your Marriage   Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Real Talk with Rachael Podcast
187: Marriage Restored with Dr. Robert Paul

Real Talk with Rachael Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 62:48


This week on Real Talk with Rachael I'm having a conversation with Dr. Robert Paul. Robert Paul is Vice President of the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute. He is both a marriage therapist and an accomplished speaker who presents regularly at professional conferences and enrichment events both nationally and internationally. He has co-authored six books, including “The DNA of Relationships,” with Drs. Gary and Greg Smalley, and “9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage: And the truths that will save it and set it free,” with Dr. Greg Smalley. He is a former professor at Evangel University where he taught in both the biblical studies and psychology departments, specializing in Marriage and Family Counseling, Human Sexuality, and the integration of faith into all areas of life. Bob and his wife, Jenni, live in Springfield, Mo., have been married for over 43 years. They have four children and seven grandchildren. Key Points from Our Conversation: Addressing deep-seated desires and achieving relational success offers relief and freedom. Recognizing and breaking the reactive cycle in relationships can empower individuals to improve their dynamics by understanding and halting predictable conflict patterns. Group support can provide reassurance that marital challenges are universal and not unique. Faith and personal transformation, as highlighted by Robert's and his wife's journey, play a crucial role in sustaining relationships. Utilizing available resources for counseling and self-improvement, such as those mentioned in the episode, can be immensely helpful. Emotions are morally neutral and serve a purpose in signaling areas needing attention; understanding this helps in better managing them. The care cycle emphasizes the importance of balancing personal care with nurturing the relationship, leading to healthier interactions. Practical advice on nurturing oneself and the relationship, including suggestions for summer activities and self-care strategies. Recognizing the subtleties of negative thoughts and maintaining a 'no losers policy' promotes a healthier team dynamic in marriage. The need to build trust and address past relationship baggage and family influences for better current interactions. Let's Get Real Practical: Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment Catch up on previous episodes Create a summer "being" list Resources: You can find a list of Christian counselors at The American Association of Christian Counselors or through Focus on the Family's Christian Counselor Network. Join the Joy Mail community for monthly updates and exclusive resources by visiting RachelGilbert.com and clicking the freebies tab Connect with Dr. Paul: website Connect with Rachael: website | Instagram | Facebook

Encouragement for You
Caring for Each Other's Hearts

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 23:36


Dr Greg Smalley is the Vice President for Families at Focus on the Family and he and his wife Erin joined host Don Hawkins to talk about the importance of caring for each other's hearts.   In our next segment, missionary Gracia Burnham addresses the students at Southeastern Bible College to describe her experience when she and her husband Martin were taken captive by terrorists.   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
How a Couple Gave Away $1 Million

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2024 14:12


Small acts of generosity add up over time. Bob and Linda Lotich talk with Jim Daly about how God put it on their hearts to give away $1 million. Then, you'll hear from John Fuller and Greg Smalley who will encourage you and your mate to be generous with even small amounts that you have.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Money, Rich Life: Achieve True Financial Freedom & Design A Life of Eternal Impact for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Generosity in Marriage: Small Acts That Make a Big Difference   Investing in Others Through God's Love    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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How a Couple Gave Away $1 Million

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2024 14:42


Small acts of generosity add up over time. Bob and Linda Lotich talk with Jim Daly about how God put it on their hearts to give away $1 million. Then, you'll hear from John Fuller and Greg Smalley who will encourage you and your mate to be generous with even small amounts that you have.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Money, Rich Life: Achieve True Financial Freedom Design A Life of Eternal Impact for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   Generosity in Marriage: Small Acts That Make a Big Difference   Investing in Others Through God's Love    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

The Common Good Podcast
Dr. Greg Smalley talks marriage and family

The Common Good Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 18:44


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Encouragement for You
Solution Based and Action Focused

Encouragement for You

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 24:53


Dr.Greg Smalley is the vice president for families at Focus on the Family and he and his wife Erin, who is a Christian therapist conduct marriage seminars all over the country. Greg and Erin join host Don Hawkins to talk about the link between marriage and parenting. Christian life coach Rodney Love is know by his colleagues and friends as a man of action.  That's easy to see as he talks with host Don Hawkins about solution based and action focused.  Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

SA Stories
Season 2, Ep 4, God's Perspective on marriage and family with Dr. Greg Smalley

SA Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2024 40:43


God's Perspective on marriage and family: Potential, pleasure, purpose, and pain points with Dr. Greg Smalley. Dr. Smalley serves as Vice President of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family (who is opening the "Hope Restored" center in Wimberley https://hoperestored.focusonthefamily.com/ ). Dr. Smally has served as president of the National Institute of Marriage, written 17 20 books! Including he and his wife, Erin, co-creating “Ready to Wed,” a complete premarital curriculum for engaged couples and the online Focus on Marriage Assessment ( https://www.focusonthefamily.com/themarriageassessment ). Dr. Smalley has a doctorate from Rosemead school of Psychology from Biola University in Southern CA and a degree from Denver Seminary. He is a joyful and authentic communicator who vulnerably shares from experience, and continues to grow by studying a marriage book with Erin every Christmas- well done! This is a fun interview you will enjoy and desire to share. *Please note when editing- Zach got a bit excited and started questions before I did the introduction- just a few minutes in. Should not hard to find or difficult to edit.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Navigating Toxic Friendships

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 13:13


Your marriage needs friendships. But how can you discern if your friendships are truly helping your relationship? Greg Smalley talks with John and Erin about ways you can tell if a friendship is toxic. Plus, Jim Daly speaks to Dr. Randy Schroeder on how friendships influence a marriage.   Receive the book Simple Habits for Marital Happiness for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listen Anytime   How to Help a Friend Who Has Marriage Problems   Contact our Counseling Department   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Sex and Intimacy Aren't the Same Thing

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2023 11:13


What is the difference between sex and intimacy? Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Juli Slattery, who helps people understand God's design for sex. Plus, John talks with Greg Smalley about questions we can ask our spouse to discern if we're meeting each other's needs. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Receive the book "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Rethinking Godly Sexuality in Your Marriage (Digital Download) The 5 Love Languages Quiz Contact our Counseling Department If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Listening Before Criticizing

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 12:16


Being a good listener doesn't happen by accident. It takes intentionality. Greg Smalley shares with Erin Smalley and John Fuller about how he's learning to get better at listening. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with counselor, Dr. Randy Schroeder, about why it's best to listen well and offer constructive feedback to your spouse. They will also bring up why negative criticism is so dangerous.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Habits for Marital Happiness for your donation of any amount!   Focus on Marriage Assessment   Listening is the First Step to Conflict Resolution in L.U.V.E.   Coping with Alienation, Anger, and Anxiety in Marriage   Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
How God Can Redeem Your Sexual Brokenness

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2023 13:20


Sex is meant to be a gift from God', but how can you see it as a blessing when you've made many mistakes? Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery share how the gospel can redeem you from sexual brokenness. You'll also hear a powerful story from Dr. Greg Smalley, as he chats with his wife Erin and John Fuller.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount!   The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Do you know your marriage's strengths and weaknesses?   Contact our Counseling Department   An Interview With A Post-Abortive Father   Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Java with Juli
#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2023 42:49


Is there a difference between loving parental guidance, and overreaching parental interference? How can a couple set boundaries with their in-laws? And how can in-laws give their adult children the space they need to establish strong foundations for their marriages? While many of us are familiar with the verse about leaving and cleaving, the practicalities of doing so can be challenging when there are parents and wider family who long to provide support in an important new phase of life. Juli invites her friends, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley, to speak about why boundaries with in-laws are important, and how they can be established with love. Guests: Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley   Greg and Erin on Instagram: @focusmarriage Greg and Erin on Youtube: @focusonthefamilymarriage Greg and Erin's Podcast: Focus on Marriage Podcast Book: Ready to Wed by Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley Java with Juli:  #13 Insights on In-Laws Become an Authentic Intimacy member and get your free book!  

Java with Juli
#472 Embracing Grief: Why We Need to Connect Sadness, Gratitude, and Celebration

Java with Juli

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 35:58


It can often be tempting to push through the uncomfortable feelings that come with loss and try to just keep calm and carry on. But is that what we're called to as followers of Christ? If Christ Himself took time to grieve, shouldn't we? Dr Greg and Erin Smalley join Juli on this episode of Java with Juli as they discuss the need to face and make sense of our pain so we can embrace real joy.  Guests: Dr. Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley   Greg and Erin on Instagram: @focusmarriage Greg and Erin on Youtube: @focusonthefamilymarriage Greg and Erin's Podcast: Focus on Marriage Podcast Java with Juli: #173 Lessons I Learned from Grief Java with Juli: #265 The Hard (and Hopeful) Truth About Losing a Spouse

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Two Lessons from Hard Times

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 11:09


When your marriage faces a storm, it can either make your relationship stronger or hurt it. Jim Daly talks with author and pastor Gary Thomas about lessons couples can learn from storms, plus John Fuller and Greg Smalley address how a storm doesn't have to completely ruin your marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the "Making Your Marriage a Fortress" for your donation of any amount!   The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Do you know your marriage's strengths and weaknesses?   Counseling Services   Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Podcast Episodes | Boundless
Happy 800th!: Episode 800

Podcast Episodes | Boundless

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 62:00


Reflecting on 800 episodes, plus more with Dr. Greg Smalley on preparing for a great marriage, and is church membership biblical?   Featured musical artist:  David Baloche   Roundtable: Celebrating #800   Thanks to you, our listeners, we've reached our 800th episode! To mix things up, show producer John Peardon and audio engineer Alex Seeley take a turn hosting the roundtable — with Lisa Anderson as their guest. They ask her to reflect on hosting 800 episodes, plus everything from which Bible character she'd want to trade places with for a day, to things she wants Christians to stop doing, and skills she's used from previous jobs in her current role.   Leave us a Voicemail   Culture: Preparing for Your Future Marriage (Part 2)    Many singles dream of finding a spouse. But after that comes…marriage. Marriage is fantastic, but not easy. Are there things to learn before marriage that will set you up for better success in marriage? To help frame our perspective on what makes marriage work, Dr. Greg Smalley instructs us how to think about love from a godly perspective. In part two, he'll address how love needs time to grow, plus why true love embraces and endures.    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Podcast   Marriage Assessment   Inbox: Should You Join a Church?    Most Christians would agree that being part of a local church is important; but is it necessary to be a member rather than just attend? Is that biblical? Lisa Anderson weighs in.          Is Church Membership Important?

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Three Components of a Marriage Meet Up

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 12:39


A great habit to establish is consistent communication with your spouse. To help you achieve that, Jim Daly talks with marriage experts Bill and Pam Farrel about three things you can discuss in a weekly meeting with your mate. Plus, John Fuller and Greg Smalley explain why it's good to be intentional in your communication.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the "Marriage Meet up Bundle" for your donation of any amount!   Wife Wants Better Communication in Marriage: A Guide for Mentors   A Guy's Guide to Romance   Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Combating the Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 27:16


Drs. Greg Smalley and Bob Paul describe how cultural myths and fairy-tale expectations about marriage have a detrimental effect on couples, and how knowing and applying biblical truth can help those couples develop a thriving marriage. (Part 2 of 2)Receive the book "9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount. Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2023-03-06?refcd=1624005Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/combating-the-lies-that-can-destroy-your-marriage-part-2-of-2#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Focus on the Family Broadcast
Combating the Lies That Can Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 27:16


Drs. Greg Smalley and Bob Paul describe how cultural myths and fairy-tale expectations about marriage have a detrimental effect on couples, and how knowing and applying biblical truth can help those couples develop a thriving marriage. (Part 1 of 2)Receive the book "9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount. Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-daily-broadcast-product-2023-03-06?refcd=1624005Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/broadcast/combating-the-lies-that-can-destroy-your-marriage-part-1-of-2/#featured-resource-ctaIf you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.