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Welcome to MOOD AF, where the discussions are ALWAYS real. It's like a Grown Woman's book club ... with ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense, so let's get into it. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

Nikeita Hoyte


    • Jun 4, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 50m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Mood AF 3:3 - Grief, part deux

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2024 51:16


    Hi there. So, it's been seven months since we've seen each other last. A lot has happened, (when ISN'T something going on). However, this is something that was a little close to home. I'm not sure there's much to say outside of this for now. I'll be back soon. Love you to the depths of the ocean, Nik. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 3:2 - Grief.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2023 43:25


    Hello my lovelies. Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF. Today we get into the real (notice how I didn't say all tea, all shade & all offense - we're getting serious today) .. and I know the conversation is a little uncomfortable - but remember: each show is a different mood, some are good, some are bad, some are funny. But since we're so close to the holidays, I wanted to speak on something that has been so heavy on my heart - Grief. Grief is one of the most paradoxically complex feelings ever. In this episode I get into what my grief looks like, how to show UP for your people who are experiencing grief - most importantly I touch on my time at Experience Camps this past August! (https://experiencecamps.org/)  I want you all to know, no matter when you lost your person or people, no matter how much time has past - I will always be here holding space for you all because I've been there. I LIVE here some days.  Also: Experience Camps is crowdfunding to send kids to camp for free!!! FROM NOW UNTIL 12/31! Help us send some amazing kids to camp next summer!!!  (https://give.experiencecamps.org/campaign/experience-camps-2023-crowdfunding-campaign/c525971?_ga=2.35937440.1816624424.1700636343-1502250240.1689000154) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 3:1 - Gotham so ghetto even Batman couldn't save us

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2023 42:33


    WELCOME TO SEASON 3 OF MOOD AF! DID YOU MISS ME??? WELL, SHE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!!! In our first episode of season 3, we get into all tea, all shade and all offense about NYC and it's current state of affairs (ie: Post flood, MTA, etc) ... I also throw shade at the social media influencer we have for mayor.. because my guy is everywhere BUT the damn office. You also find out where I've been and what I've been up to! Most importantly: Thank you all for being so incredibly kind, supportive, patient, and most of all so loving and caring. It means so much to me that all of you were waiting so patiently for the show to come back & I did exactly what I promised: I came back. I'm here for good, so don't you worry. CHEERS TO SEASON 3!!! Xo, Nikeita. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:9 - 'How many of us have them?'

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2021 39:18


    Hey, my babes! In this week’s episode, I’m giving you all tea, all shade & all offense about Cultivating female relationships, especially during your mid to late ’20s. I can’t lie, ladies, we need to be more honest with ourselves and with our friends. We should be more open to hearing our friends out and holding ourselves accountable for specific behaviors. As we get older it’s imperative that we continue to foster our relationships with each other and with ourselves. We should be more honest about the things we want out of our friendships. We should communicate more, we should aspire for more for each other, and definitely be honest when we’re not feeling great and projecting that onto our friends. So I beg, please listen to this with knowing I want growth for each and every single one of us, and I want us all to be better. AND I THROW SHADE AT MYSELF THIS EPISODE TOO. It would be extremely hypocritical if I didn’t. Xo, Nikeita --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:8 - 'The Ugly Side of Healing'

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2021 46:26


    Hey, my babes! Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF! Today I want to get into All Tea, All Shade & All Offense about something that has been weighing on me for a while. The ugly side of healing and growth within self. As some of you know, and most of you don’t, I have been active in therapy for a little over a year now, and I feel like it’s time to share my experiences, while also giving you all the ugly truth. Especially because social media tends to glorify healing & growth to be ‘flowers and daisies’ and ‘happiness’… when in all reality, it’s not that simple. It’s not that easy. It’s not always happy. It includes being lonely. It includes feeling like you’re lost. It’s about realizing and becoming aware of specific behaviors and setting boundaries which can be really tough sometimes. Some days are a lot harder than others. It’s about realizing sometimes that you’re the toxic person, and that you let people treat you in a way that was less than desirable but knowing you want to change. Knowing that you desire peace and you’re capable of giving it to yourself. It’s about being okay with losing some of the people who you call ‘friends’, family, etc. Also, I’ll be providing some helpful links below if you should want to start your own journey with therapy! Please feel free to reach out to me if you wanna talk about your journey as well! Here at Mood AF, we are a safe space. Xo, Nikeita https://therapyforblackgirls.com/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us NYC Well - Confidential crisis counseling, mental health, and substance misuse support, information, and referral. You can reach the toll-free helpline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by phone, text, and online chat. Mental health professionals there can link you to the services you need. Phone: (888)-692-9355 Text "WELL" to 651-73 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:7 - 'No Money, More Problems'

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 53:19


    Hey, my babes! Figured it’s been a while since we spoke last. Hope you guys have been well with the circumstances. Now that we’re in ‘21 it’s less talk, more action. Consider this a new start. Boom. Hello. My name is Nikeita, creator, and host of Mood AF Podcast. As I like to say ‘Live from the crib’ from wherever that may be for you! Today we’re gonna get into all tea, all shade, and all offense about Millennials and the job market. Basically, I wanted to let you all in on what the reality is for many: It’s a bitch trying to get a job during a pandemic. So I’m here to document it! Also, we know I want you to be your most comfortable with your favorite cocktail/mocktail and or paper of choice

    Mood AF 2:6 - New York, New York

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2020 93:33


    Hey my babes! Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF! In this episode we get into all tea, all shade and all offense about housing in NYC. This episode was mainly inspired by a Tik Tok that really went into depth about what an ACTUAL day in NYC looks like (P.S.: It’s not what you see on Tik Tok). Today you’ll meet Annie, the young lady behind that same video. We discuss what our home lives are like, why it’s imperative that people quit telling native NY’ers to just ‘move’ when we complain about how expensive it is, and of course our disdain for some of these realtors. Check out Annie’s article on Sunset Park residents fearing losing their homes due to gentrification https://anniecabreu.wordpress.com/2020/10/10/sunset-park-residents-feel-like-theyre-losing-their-grasp-on-their-home/ As always, follow us on all our socials: @moodafpodcast (Twitter, Instagram) Watch the visual - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBqedrfCx1EjEJRP49mMPXw Follow Nikeita on all socials as well: @nikeita_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:5 - forgiveness is a social construct

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2020 72:37


    Hey, my babes! Hope you’ve missed me just as much as I’ve missed you! In this week's episode, we get into all tea, all shade, and all offense into something I can relate to heavily - a strained relationship with a parent, and most importantly .. not forgiving them. This week, you’ll come with me as I take you on a little journey into something that only seldom knows. I’m currently mourning a loss and it’s all for the better - as morbid as that sounds. Grab a glass, roll up, and get comfy! Follow us on all socials: @moodafpodcast And follow me on all socials: @nikeita_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:4 - An open letter to my Black women

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 49:23


    Hey, my babes!! In this episode, we gonna catch up (but of course - it’s been a minute) but in today’s episode, we loved on all Black women today. No shade, no tea (unless if you count those few minutes about other people having Black women messed up) and the only offense thrown is at those who don’t protect Black women the way they should. As always, I wanna thank you guys for being such a dope audience and loving me no matter how long it takes for you to hear from me. Just know I’m doing my best through the times, as I hope you all are as well. 2020 has been wicked to some, good to some, but most importantly it’s just taught us all one important thing: REST WHEN NEEDED AND DO WHAT FEELS GOOD TO YOU. Follow us on all socials - @moodafpodcast Follow me on IG & twitter - @nikeita_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    2:3 - happy belated birthday Nik

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2020 56:02


    Hey my babes! In today’s episode I wanted to roast myself lmao, and just tell you about some of my shenanigans as a lil late birthday celebration with all of y’all. (My birthday was 6.14) but this was something I had wanted to do before my birthday & then I procrastinated like a typical Gemini (whoops) and here we are! Enjoy this as it is lighthearted and carefree. I love y’all. I’ll see y’all soon. #BlackLivesMatter --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:2 - a personal rant

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 47:05


    Hey my babes, I know I’ve been gone for sometime. As we know, miss rona came & destroyed a lot of lives, and left us all f*cked up. Most importantly: As a Black woman I couldn’t sit on this any longer. BLACK LIVES MATTER. PERIOD. So please, understand this was more of a rant & less of an ‘episode’ because there was no tea to spill, no shade to throw, and no offense to be taken. I’ll see y’all soon. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF 2:1 - 'The War on Women'

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 64:22


    Hi, my babes! We're BAAAAAAAAAAAAAACKKKKKKKKKK! I've missed you guys so so so so so much. It's our first episode of Season 2! Today we're getting into ALL TEA, ALL SHADE & ALL OFFENSE about the 'War on Women'. This is something that hits so close to home for me. Not only am I a woman, but I'm also a BLACK woman at that. I wanted to touch on this especially because it's important for me as a woman to stand and live in my truth, and say ENOUGH IS EFUCKINGNOUGH OKAY?! We also have a return guest joining us today! He's known as 'The man behind the mic' aka Mr. Parrish Mitchell (@its_parrish_mitches). Thank you for being patient with me! It's such a blessing to know that you all love me, and the work I create. I truly, from the bottom of my heart love each and every single one of you who supports me. (Follow us on all socials: @moodafpodcast) Xo, Nikeita --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 17 : ‘Catch ya breath’

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2019 18:29


    Simply put: this is a mini short episode, I missed you guys & just wanted to share some reminders about the holiday season! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 16: Everybody’s favorite ‘A’ word.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2019 40:26


    Hey my babes! Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF. In today’s episode we’re getting into ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense about a very sensitive topic: Abortion. What a lot of you actually don’t know, is that I myself had an abortion when I was 20. I was in a space where - looking back on where I was extremely naive to a lot of different things, I was in a pretty fucked up space in my life... but this was a story I needed to tell because me making this decision in turn let me be where I’m at now: Making that decision close to 5 years ago, I felt it was imperative to put myself and my career first as opposed to just having a kid and not fully thinking about everything in the process. NOW THIS IS NOT TO SHAME YOUNG MOMS. I give ya ALL the credit. I just know I couldn’t do it, because I wasn’t ready. I salute ALL of you that do. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF : Episode 14: Voicemail

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2019 40:44


    Hey my babes. This episode is different. This is something I just needed to get off my chest. Something I needed to do to feel like myself again, or at least try to. I’ve missed you all so much, and there’s been a lot going on behind the scenes of the show, my personal life, etc. I just wanted to let you all in, and live in MY truth as I always do with each episode. I wanted you all to know where I was, what I was doing and where we’ve been at with respect to specific situations. I love you all. I’ll be back. Soon. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 13 : Live in Brooklyn

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2019 29:28


    Hey my babes!  We here at Mood AF were chosen to participate in the 'We are Much Different' showcase over the weekend (03.22) and we won!  The umbrella topic was 'Womxn in HERstory' and I had the blessing of creating my own subtopic with my beautiful co-host @noyenne and we turned it TF out!  For all of you who traveled both far and wide, I thank you for coming out and supporting me!  From all of us here at Mood AF we thank you for your continued love and support!!  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 12: Careers, Babies and A LOT of Shade

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019 47:26


    Welcome back my babes!  In this episode of Mood AF, we get into ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense about being millennial women with careers yet longing babies, to be wives and moms, yet we haven't accomplished certain personal barriers in order for us to really take that next step in our lives just yet. Special shout outs to my co-host this week Mykelle! (@mykells_) Follow us on all social platforms: @moodafpodcast Follow Nikeita on all social platforms: @nikeita_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 11 : Pro Black, Pro Woman, Pro Black Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019 41:08


    Hey my babes! In this week's episode of Mood AF we're getting into ALL tea, ALL shade, and ALL offense about Black women and our daily lives, being entrepreneurs as well as being in the LGBTQ community as a queer woman. Special shout outs to my co-host this week, our CFO of Mood AF LLC and my best friend Cheniah (@che9394)  Follow us on all social media platforms: @moodafpodcast Follow Nikeita on all socials as well: @nikeita_ (Streaming on all platforms!) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 10 : 'Men are trash, but wassup tho?'

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2019 52:57


    In this episode of Mood AF we're getting ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense about the male species...especially the ones we have to deal with in this generation *eye roll emoji* I actually had a surprise guest on the show, my girl RoHoney! (@iamrohoneyy)  This is my first show back for 2019 and I couldn't be anymore excited. Welcome to Mood AF Ladies & Gentleman, we're about to get a LOT more intense this year.... Stay Tuned ;)  Follow us on all our socials: @moodafpodcast Follow Nikeita on all her socials: @nikeita_ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 9: ‘Situationships’

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2018 43:54


    In this impromptu episode of Mood AF we get into ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense about ‘situationships’. I didn’t really plan this, and all of this was off the top. This is me in my rawest and purest form. Enjoy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 7: ‘Dear Daddy’

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2018 27:01


    In this episode of Mood AF we get into ALL tea, ALL shade and ALL offense about women with ‘Daddy issues’... or at least you get the drop on mine. I wrote a piece about two years ago documenting my true feelings toward my Dad & what our relationship is like (https://www.theodysseyonline.com/to-my-dearest-daddy) ... so without further due, let’s get into it! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

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    Mood AF: Episode 6: 'Nik'

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2018 57:24


    This episode of Mood AF is close to the heart. Ironically enough, this episode was supposed to be what will now be Episode 7, and it was far too late to cancel my session, so I recorded by myself with the help of my brother Parrish (who is producing the show & also managing me... yes you read that correctly). This show gives you a deeper insight into who I am and why I may move the way I move. As always, thank you to my phenomenal crew: Parrish and Omar Follow us everywhere: @moodafpodcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 5 : 'Ziiiick Appointments'

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2018 90:24


    In this week's episode of Mood AF, we discuss one of my favorite things to talk about: Dick appointments! This show wasn't planned...at ALL. Yet, it happened so organically. Tay and I have been friends for a little over a year and she is one of my girlfriends that is a little more open with her sexuality. Along came, the super dope rap collective VentureKlan to give us the male perspective and the rest as they say...is history. As always thank you to my team and everyone that listens and loves Mood AF! Find us on all social media platforms: @moodafpodcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Trial Episode: You're my kill of the night

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2018 41:25


    This was my very FIRST episode of Mood AF! I'm so proud of myself and my team of all we have done, and all we have yet to do. The fact that I've come this far means so much to me... it feels good to be chasing one of my biggest dreams. Here's to giving y'all more heat! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 4: Double Standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2018 60:43


    Welcome back to another episode of Mood AF! In this weeks episode, we get all the tea about double standards with both men and women....and of course, we had a lot of heated debates, we laughed and even spilled tea about one of the greatest writers of all time. Big Shout outs to my co-host this week! @avestotle! (Check out his rap collective: @VentureKlan & their new EP 'We Good' streaming on all streaming services! CC my amazing team that works so so so hard with me on Mood AF : @osproduction @its_parrish_mitches Follow us on social media and our streaming sites: Twitter - https://twitter.com/moodafpodcast Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/moodafpodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 3: Lady Bosses

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2018 56:57


    In this week's episode of Mood AF, we get all the tea on being lady bosses in our respective industries; what our work environments are like & of course we had to discuss a small opinion on the male species. Massive shout outs to my co-hosts this week: Cora & Christine! PS: Subscribe to us on YouTube! @MoodAFPodcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 2: 'LesBiHonest about Sexuality'

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2018 57:57


    In this episode, we get ALL the tea on sexuality, and lesbianism with my two amazing co-hosts...my best friend for life Cheniah & my love muffin, Kathy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

    Mood AF: Episode 1 : 'Toxicity'

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2018 57:26


    This week on Mood AF we get into all the tea, ALL the shade, and a little of the offense about the word toxic and how it is portrayed in our friendships and relationships. Very special thank you to my co-host Lexy! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moodaf/support

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