My Queen And I: Marriage Power

How To Have A Super Successful Gay Marriage!

Episode 13 - Lawrence Hilton-Jacobs Interview

RELATIONSHIPS - Communication, Speaking word of life, Love and not Self, Come in to the Q, one way and come out with great relationships REJUVENATE - Take care of yourself, Eat clean, exercise, laughA LOT REINVENT YOURSELF - Read, Learn, Listen To Educational items in order to expand your thinking... It’s never too late! RENEW YOUR MIND - You will be different, More Mature, The Person You Always knew you could be, The Person You’re destined to be RESOURCES - Concentrate on building your financial position, You have to plant seeds, You can’t help others unless you position yourself REST - Don’t put pressure on yourself, give yourself a break, cheer for you, do the things YOU want to do to Be... And Stay better. RESOLVE - The resolution to STAY on top of your game... Not relenting back into your old self

SENIOR ONLINE DATING: How To Find True Love After 60! Steve & Flora Thomsen tell their story of how they found each other through Online Dating.

This video is about MQI Episode 10 : Online Dating: Horror Stories 4 14 20- MQI Intro- Welcome from C&K- “Catfish” Horror Story”- “Tale of an Impersonator”Horror Story- What to do in order to avoid wasting time with potential “Catfishers”- Keys to not wasting time with potential suitors- The hurt and devastation that is attached to the fake suitor- Must do a friend, or family fact check early on- Another “Catfish” Horror Story- Backlash from Interracial dating stories- Other Horror Stories- Best things to put in your dating Profile to attract a certain type- Profile Types of Men that tend to cause a problem (Military?)- Another “Tinder” Horror Story- How long and how many dates have you gone on to try to find the right one?- Do you think you will find “The One” online? - Sound Advice for Online Dating

Online Dating: How To Make It Work For You!MQI IntroWelcome from C&KBest Dating Sites for over 50 year oldsBest Dating Sites for over 30 year oldsThe Importance of a good ProfileWhat are Red FlagsThing to look for in finding the right personFirst Date SpotsWhen do you give your Home AddressWho do you get to vet the personCost and Time of internet datingHow to be strategic about online datingIs Internet dating for everyone?

The title of this episode is, Second Chance At Love: Newlyweds - Gabriel & Mareya Jones. We are honored to have world renowned Chef Mareya and her husband, Gabriel on this episode of My Queen And I.* Welcome Mareya Ibrahim and Gabriel Jones* The importance of Eat Cleaner - Food Safety* The start of Eat Cleaner* Mareya Spent Years being a single mom and alone* They both spent 13 years before finding their Soul Mate* Tough decisions that make you stronger* It is OK to ask others for help* In order to start Eat Cleaner, Mareya had to sell her home and move back in with her parents* Don’t take anything for granted now* Can’t bring your baggage with you into a new relationship* They agree together in growing their relationship* They have not yet gone through any major arguments* The value of Learning how to discuss and communicate with each other* The Key is having respect and have each others back* Love is different depending on your age* You learn as you get older the mutual love and admiration* A Message to women who are looking for a second chance at love* Develop Faith… Pray and Rely on God* Stop being desperate* You deserve the best * Spend the time on developing yourself first* Journal qualities you are looking for in a partner* Gabe talks about maturity and being ready for the quality of woman that is Mareya* Mareya shares about seeing the humanity in people* How to live life prioritizing God first, each other second, then the kids… And so on* The gift of showing the kids how they should love their spouses when they get married or enter a relationship* Gabe shares his story regarding hearing from God and having a “Sophia” in his life* Mareya felt she heard God told her that she would meet someone with Cancer

Episode 7 - 7 Ways To Maintain A Happy Marriage 24/7Intro- Bio of this Bonafide Power CoupleCreators of R.I.P.P.E.D and RumbleThey keep so upbeatThey treat each other with the utmost respectThey enjoy the value of a happy, healthy and thriving marriageHow to successfully spend 24/7 with your significant otherHow Terry and Tina metChance encounter meeting at Best BuyHow do you remain happy during stressful times and especially 24/7Happiness is a choiceHad mentors to coach them to be better peoplePut ego asideYou don’t have to be rightGrow to love positive attributes about each otherNever do public bashingGravitate toward positive TV Programs, uplifting outlets, Positive programmingKeeping Jealousy out of your relationshipHow To not feel insecureTrust is important in relationshipsA Key to having a happy and thriving marriage is TrustT&T discuss their Best Dream DateT&T discuss their R.I.P.P.E.D. programWhy did they start R.I.P.P.E.D.?The Importance of a Vision Board T&T’s Favorite Love SongT&T Surprise us with a Duet

Special guest Daniel Hage shares her tried and true nuggets on how to Improve Your Sex Life Overnight!- How Important is it for a woman to have an organism every time she has Sex?- How did you learn about orgasms (There were no books, in formative years you had to learn from friends, parents didn’t talk about it)?- Discussion about Foreplay- What does God say about sex- it is a Gift from God-Christians have questions- Discussion about Oral Sex-first encounter. How does testosterone affect the way men think. Figuring out what a Blowjob is. - Oral Sex tabu in the Black community- Do you teach your children how to please a man/woman sexually? - Discussion about Pornography - (Not a real way to learn. Google search has great books)- Marriage bed is undefiled, biblically - Can a marriage be a thriving marriage if one of the partner's sexual needs is not met- Some people schedule sex - How many times a week is the right amount?- Sex Drives if a woman wants it more, how she woo the man?- Discussion about sexual phases- Testosterone and the importance of checking your levels- Changes to Sex drive - What ups a mans testosterone level- Foreplay - Being loving and kind before you get in bed - Know your/and your partners Love Language - Keep doing the romantic things you were doing while dating- Oxytocin levels- How To Meet the woman’s needs- Communicate about what each other likes in the bedroom. - Talk about it over dinner....that is foreplay - Men, If you want a woman to open up to you more sexually make a woman feel safe- Men, cherish your women - Women have to know that men are always hungry for sex (They need sex more than women do)

- Turn Negative Prognoses into Positive Relationship Building- FIGHT to concentrate on the positive- Day 1: Romantic Movie Night (The Notebook, Sleepless in Seattle, Love Story…) With Popcorn- Day 2: Romantic Dinner At Home - Love Foods- Day 3: Bake Desserts (chocolate, fondue…)- Day 4: Bubble Bath- Day 5: Digitize Old Photos Creating Memories- Day 6: Board Games -Monopoly, Scrabble, Clue, BananaGrams, Uno, Pictionary, Dots, 1,000 Piece Puzzle, Strip Poker- Day 7: Purposeful Vacation Planning- Day 8: Read Poetry To Each Other- Day 9: Wine Tasting- Day 10: Fashion Show - Lingerie- Day 11: Massages- Day 12: Sports - Rewatch Kobe, Olympics, USA Hockey- Day 13: Create Couple Vision Board- Day 14: Forgiveness/Affirmations Day- All in all, let’s PROTECT our marriages from any forces that are intended to be a deterrent to happiness, or to bring us stress

Chip & Kim Interview renowned comedian, Michael Colyar!They Discuss:- Michael Colyar's Blossoming Career- Michael Colyar's New Book- Michael Colyar's Sobriety- Michael Colyar's Love For His Queen- Michael Colyar's Definition Of A King- Michael Colyar's Philosophy On Life- Michael Colyar's Philosophy On Marriage- Michael Colyar's Real Estate Experience With Chip & Kim- And Many Other Interesting Topics

• Argue/Fight/disagree about the Issue… Not the Person• Never Interrupt• Stick To The Subject• Do Not Bring Up The Past• Understand That Disagreements Are OK… Compromising shows that you care• Listen To Hear and Understand… NOT to Wait To Give Your Point• Never involve someone else in your discussions, ganging up on your spouse• Do Not employ the Silent Treatment• At No Time stoop to violent behavior• Don’t Compare Your Spouse To Anyone Else• Don’t Uncover Your Spouses Shortcomings To Others (One’s that would embarrass them)• Do Not lord your strengths over your partner in a demeaning way• Don’t Pit Your Kids/Parents/Friends/Family Against Your Spouse• Apologize!

• Here are some dealbreakers that may occur• Infidelity• Physical Abuse• Drug Abuse• Not Having Your Spouses Back• Mental/Verbal Abuse• Loss of Self Esteem• Habitual Lying• Flawed Marital Relationship Priority (Putting Kids or ANYTHING ELSE Before Spouse)• Meddling In-Laws• Sexual/Intimacy Incompatibility• Spouse Who Is Always Missing• Silent Treatment• Financial Disaster

• The Reason For MQI• 35 Years Of A Thriving Marriage• Today, March 2nd Is Our Anniversary• A Relatable (Non Bible Verse Quoting) Philosophy• Divorce Eradication• To Build A Community of Marriage Zealots• To Experience World-Class Conferences, Seminars, Cruises and Breakthroughs• To Set Powerful Standards And Principles For Marriage Hopefuls• C&K Background - After Winning The Amazing Race• C&K Credentials - Married 35 Years of a strong, respectful, happy, fun marriage that has overcome obstacles while remaining strongly united• Describe MQI’s Various Formats• The Way You Start Has No Bearings On A Great Marriage• You have to intentionalize a great marriage• Kim Reads The C&K Meeting story• Chip - divulges the moment Kim became his Queen