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Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would've known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could?In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.”We'll talk about:The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get marriedWhether the first year of marriage is actually the hardestWhat every husband loses when he gets married and why it's worth itThe seasons of marriage no one posts about onlineWhether attraction fades or changes over the yearsWhat loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitmentWhy so many married men struggle aloneWhat they wish someone had told them about sex before marriageHow kids completely change your marriagePractical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parentsWhat they'd tell the guy who's been dating for years but won't proposeThe qualities every woman should look for in a future husbandMarriage isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season.Whether you're single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like.Let's talk about it

"When God Tests Our Hearts"Chapter 44The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeSeptember 13, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 44:1-13- Genesis 44:30-34- When God Tests Our Hearts- God will not tempt you into sin, but He will test you to produce greater faith- James 1:13- Deuteronomy 8:2- Psalm 66:10- 1 Peter 1:7- 1 Peter 4:12- When confronted with your sin, the Spirit brings conviction that leads to repentance and hope. The enemy brings condemnation that leads to despair and hopelessness. - Genesis 44:16- John 16:8- Acts 2:37- John 3:16-17- John 8:10-11- Romans 8:1- God may bring you back to the scene of your past failures to reveal how far He has brought you by faith.- Judah in Genesis 37: "let's sell Joseph"  Judah in Genesis 44: "Take me instead of Benjamin"- Peter in Luke 22: I don't know Jesus  Peter in Acts 4: I can't help but speak about Jesus- Ezekiel 36:26- Philippians 1:6Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Steps to Family Reconciliation"Chapter 43The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmGuest Bishop Michael GrantSeptember 6, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:Topic: Steps to Family ReconciliationText: Gen. 43:33-34Intro: What is reconciliation?1. The starting point (Gen. 43:1)2. Reconciliation Requires us Letting go of what we love in order to receive what we need (13).3. Jacob sends Benjamin, but with a prayer (14)4. The house of Joseph(26)5. The table prepared(33-34)The mercy we need is bigger than our memory.Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin!In this episode, we're continuing our live demonstration series! Erin steps into the coach's chair to walk Matt through an unscripted, live Causal Mindset Coaching session as he faces the internal resistance, fear, and "mind drama" surrounding creating a family and business budget.If you've ever avoided a hard conversation about money with your spouse out of fear that it will turn into an argument, or found yourself putting off budgeting because of feeling inadequate or overwhelmed, this episode is for you.Watch as Erin helps Matt uncover the core thoughts driving his procrastination, shift from a lens of scarcity to stewardship, reframe conflict as an opportunity for honest connection, and break through the barriers preventing true unity in marriage.What you'll learn in this episode: • Live Coaching Demo: Coaching through the fear of financial conversations and spousal conflict. • Reframing Budgeting: Shifting from restriction to optimizing financial stewardship and aligning with core values. • The Roots of Procrastination: How avoiding potential conflict leads to isolation and resentment. • Redefining Conflict: Moving from seeing conflict as destruction to viewing it as an opportunity for unity. • Ownership in Marriage: How to take responsibility for your own mind drama without putting pressure on your spouse.#CatholicCoaching #MarriageAndMoney #MindsetCoaching #CatholicPodcast #MetanoiaCatholic #BudgetingForCouples #CatholicMarriage #LiveCoaching #FinancialStewardship #HabitChangeSend us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...

What if trying harder is sometimes exactly the wrong thing to do?Angela Duckworth, University of Pennsylvania psychologist, MacArthur Fellow, and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Grit, has spent years studying achievement. In her new book, Situated, she explores why perseverance alone isn't enough.She discusses:How Angela and her husband nearly “gritted” their way out of their marriageHow much your environment shapes who you becomeThe small change that can make good habits easierWhy parents may be asking the wrong question about their childrenHow peer pressure can become a force for goodWhether AI could make us worse at thinkingWhen changing your situation matters more than changing yourselfWe spend enormous energy trying to improve ourselves. Angela Duckworth asks a different question: what if the more important thing is to change what's around us?

"The Recipe for Repentance"Chapter 42The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeAugust 30, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 42:1-13- Genesis 42:21-28- Genesis 42:38- The Recipe for Repentance- God can change any heart- Genesis 42:1- Genesis 42:21-22- Genesis 42:29- A recipe for repentance    - A season of desperation- Genesis 42:2- Genesis 42:5- James 1:2-4- Psalm 121:1- Psalm 121:1-2     - Hard, true, afflicting words from God- Genesis 42:7- Genesis 42:9-12- Genesis 42:14-17- Genesis 42:24b- Psalm 119:67- Going astray … afflicted … correction … obedience- Psalm 119:71- Hebrews 12:5-11- God doesn't afflict for the sake of pain, but to redirect us to Him so we might be holy- Genesis 42:13- Genesis 42:21-22- Genesis 42:22-23- Genesis 42:24- Behind every harsh rebuke from the Father that you can see, there is even more love from the Father that you can't see.     - The kindness of God- Genesis 42:25-26- Genesis 42:27-28- Genesis 43:20-23- Romans 2:4- Isaiah 30:18Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"When it was time..."The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeAugust 23, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 41:1-9- Genesis 41:14-16- Genesis 41:25-27- Genesis 41:33-36- Genesis 41:41-57- When it was time...- When it was time, Joseph was prepared- Genesis 41:16- Genesis 41:33-36- Genesis 41:48-49- 2 Timothy 4:2- Promotion isn't just a reward, it's a increase of responsibility- When it was time, Joseph changed his garment- Genesis 41:14- Genesis 41:42- The four garments of Joseph:     - Coat of many colors: Favor, identity      - Garment in Potiphar's house: character, integrity     - Garment in prison: faithfulness in suffering, quiet and hidden     - Fine linen: Authority, exaltation - Philippians 2:8-9- Isaiah 61:10- When it was time, Joseph was healed- Genesis 41:50-51- Philippians 3:13-14- Isaiah 43:18-19- Genesis 41:52- John 15:5- 1 Peter 5:10-11- Psalm 126:5-6- God's plan for redemption is moving forward unhindered.      - the details of the plan     - the timing of the plan     - the people of the plan- Proverbs 21:1- Genesis 41:57Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Maybe you find yourself focusing on what he isn't saying, what he isn't doing, or wishing he showed up differently. You want more emotional connection, more romance, and to feel close sexually again—but instead, you feel disappointed, frustrated, or disconnected.What if one of the biggest reasons intimacy feels distant isn't your husband... but the unmet expectations you've quietly been carrying?In this episode of Midlife Marriage Makeover, I'm sharing a personal story about a day God completely changed my perspective. He reminded me that what we focus on grows. When we focus on what's missing, distance grows. But when we intentionally choose appreciation, emotional connection, affection, intimacy, and desire begin to grow again.In this episode you'll learn:5 simple shifts to rebuild intimacy, emotional connection, romance, and desireWhy unmet expectations quietly steal closeness in marriageHow gratitude changes the atmosphere of your relationshipA practical exercise that helped me fall in love with my husband all over againA biblical mindset that will help you stop focusing on what's missing and start seeing the blessings God has already given youFriend, your marriage doesn't have to stay where it is today.I believe your future can be bigger than your past. God isn't finished with your marriage, and sometimes the breakthrough you've been praying for begins with changing your focus—not changing your husband.If you're looking for a community of Christian wives who are rebuilding intimacy, emotional connection, romance, and desire in midlife marriage, come join my private Facebook group:Empty Nest Wives: Rebuilding Intimacy & Connectionhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/1415703180172989I'm so glad you're here. Let's keep building the marriage you've always hoped was possible. ❤️

Preface on Virginia Constitutional AmendmentsGenesis 40 - Joseph interprets good and bad dreamsThe Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeAugust 16, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 40- Joseph didn't just see people, he cared for people- Genesis 40:2-4- Genesis 40:6-7- Matthew 9:35-36- Matthew 14:14- Matthew 15:32- Colossians 3:12- Joseph had a confident faith in God that led him to action- Genesis 40:8- Galatians 2:20- Luke 18:27- Joseph gave both the happy truth and the hard truth- Genesis 40:12-13- Genesis 40:16-19- John 6:14- John 6:26-27- John 6:30-31- “Many are willing to preach the cup bearer's sermon but are unwilling to preach the baker's sermon.” James Boice- The truth of God is not a buffet you can selectively choose from. It is a complete, well-balanced diet to be fully submitted to for our good.- “Peace if possible, truth at all cost!” Martin Luther- Joseph worked with man, but his ultimate hope and deliverance was in God- Genesis 40:14-15- Genesis 40:23- Genesis 41:9- Psalm 118:8-9- Psalm 146:3-5- Psalm 20:7Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Genesis 39 - the story of Joseph in Potiphar's houseThe Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeAugust 9, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 39- Joseph was blessed by God- Find favor with God by living by faith according to His word- Keep doing that for a long time- Find favor with people through faithful work- Luke 2:52- Colossians 3:23-24- Proverbs 22:29- If you're faced with the decision to live in favor with God OR man, choose God and leave the consequences to Him. - Joseph resisted temptation- Proverbs 23:27a- How Joseph resisted temptation    - Call sin, sin- Genesis 39:9b    - Look at the people affected- Genesis 39:8-9    - See sin as an offense against God, because it is- Genesis 39:9b- Psalm 51:4    - If sexual temptation, run!- 1 Corinthians 15:58- Ephesians 6:11- 1 Corinthians 6:18- 2 Timothy 2:22- Proverbs 5:8- Joseph was free- Genesis 39:20-23- Genesis 42:20-22- James 1:13-15Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Do men really think about sex all the time? Are they actually less emotional than women? Does getting married make lust disappear? And what does “men are visual” even mean?In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men to answer the questions women ask about men when the guys aren't in the room.No macho posturing. No stereotypes. Just an honest conversation about how men are actually wired and what women often misunderstand.From attraction and temptation to rejection, insecurity, romance, and sex inside marriage, we're unpacking what it's actually like to be a man from a biblical perspective.We'll talk about:Whether men really think about sex as much as people say they doWhat “men are visual” actually means and where the line is between noticing and lustWhether marriage changes attraction or temptationWhat actually builds attraction inside of marriageHow men experience rejection in dating and marriageThe hidden insecurities men carry that women rarely seeWhether men are really less emotional than womenWhy some men hesitate to make the first moveWhat happens when a husband and wife have different sex drivesThe fears men carry into marriage and even into the bedroomPractical ways women can encourage the men in their livesThis episode will help you understand men well enough to love them wisely, communicate better, and build healthier relationships.Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, we think this conversation will help you see the men in your life through a different lens.Let's talk about it

"What is the purpose of Genesis 38?"Genesis 38The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeAugust 2, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

What is a newlywed marriage really like after the wedding?In this episode of the Say Yes Anyway Podcast, Char and I answer your biggest questions about our first six months of marriage. We're sharing the honest conversations, unexpected challenges, powerful lessons, and surprising miracles that have shaped our journey as newlyweds.From navigating long-distance love and financial stress to learning each other's communication styles, talking about kids, balancing social media, and trusting God through every unknown, nothing is off limits.Marriage hasn't been perfect, but it has been deeply refining. We've discovered that the strongest relationships aren't built because life gets easier. They're built when two people choose faith over fear, grace over perfection, and commitment over comfort.Whether you're dating, engaged, newly married, or simply hoping to build healthier relationships, we hope this conversation reminds you that God often does His greatest work in the middle of life's most unexpected seasons.In this EpisodeThe biggest lessons we've learned during our first six whirlwind months of marriageHow long-distance dating prepared us for married lifeThe greatest challenges we've faced before and after saying "I do"Learning to navigate finances with different money personalitiesHow healthy communication has strengthened our relationshipOur honest conversation about having childrenWhy trusting God has carried us through uncertaintyHow we protect our marriage while sharing life publiclyThe biggest misconceptions people have about our relationshipThe surprising miracles we've experienced in our first season of marriageWhy choosing faith every day has changed the way we build our future togetherKey Takeaways✨ Healthy marriages aren't built on perfection. They're built on intentionality.✨ God's greatest miracles often happen in seasons that feel uncertain.✨ Honest communication creates deeper trust and stronger relationships.✨ Marriage is less about changing your spouse and more about growing together.✨ Faith gives you the courage to keep saying yes, even when you can't see what's ahead.Connect with Me

Forty-eight years to the same woman — in Hollywood? Dan and Peggy Rupple have been married 48 years while working inside one of the most corrosive industries on the planet. In today's episode, Aaron sits down with them to talk about God's move in Hollywood, navigating media with your kids, and the non-negotiables that held their marriage together through it all.About Dan & Peggy RuppleDan and Peggy Rupple are the founders of Master Media International, a ministry serving as a Christian presence inside the mainstream entertainment industry. Dan spent over 50 years in Hollywood — from nearly being cast in SNL's original lineup, to The Price Is Right, to Late Show with David Letterman. Peggy has walked alongside him through every chapter. Dan's new book, Glimpses: Viewing the Media Through the Lens of Faith, is available now at mastermedia.com.In This EpisodeHow Dan and Peggy met — and why they were married within a yearNearly landing Saturday Night Live before Dan came to ChristWhy Dan is more excited about God's move in Hollywood than ever beforeWhy Hollywood is in crisis — and what's filling the gapWhat the top 25 box office films of all time have in commonBe a Daniel: excellence and integrity as a Christian in the industryThe non-negotiables that protected their marriageHow to navigate movies and media with your kidsAI and the danger of losing imaginationAnd moreResourcesBook: Glimpses: Viewing the Media Through the Lens of Faith — mastermedia.comMaster Media International — mastermedia.comWindRider Film Forum — windrider.orgAct One Masters Class in screenwriting and producing — mastermedia.comPlugged In (movie reviews for parents) — pluggedin.comIf this conversation encouraged you, please share it with a couple you love, and subscribe wherever you listen.Follow us on Instagram: Marriage After God · Unveiled Wife · Husband RevolutionWant to go deeper? Become a patron and help us keep creating resources for marriages that pursue God together.Smith Family Resources, Inc © 2026

"Dreams & Demons"Genesis 37The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeJuly 26, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Joseph's Example and God's Story"Genesis 37The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6FD-EKLAyvI&list=PLrgvg1IJfGEoNskcuggMJPDwYu1n9alpmPastor Nate ClarkeJuly 19, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Meet Julianna Johnson, Founder of Digital Darlings, her love story is one of repeating patterns and being stuck in chaotic relationships to going on a deep healing journey and shifting her frequency to now being in a secure marriage that feels like a steady, luxury yacht. This episode explores the power of surrender, energetic healing, and divine love for women seeking authentic connection. In this episode:Juliana shares her experience of healing past relational wounds and patternsThe story behind her business, Digital Darlings, and its incredible missionThe transformative power of prayer, surrender, and divine guidanceHer journey from chaotic relationships to a peaceful, fulfilling marriageHow sourdough baking became a symbol of feminine energy and patiencePractical advice for women to create boundaries and recognize red flagsTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction02:24 - The feminine approach to technology and self-care 04:00 - The contrast between chaotic past relationships and a steady marriage 05:49 - How past conditioning influences relationship patterns 08:14 - Recognizing patterns of chaos and learning from them 10:11 - Stages of breaking relational cycles and personal growth 13:10 - How childhood experiences shape relational habits 15:52 - The significance of inner work and energetic clearing 17:16 - From the "bad boy" fantasy to real love 20:11 - The importance of trusting intuition in dating 23:23 - Overcoming trauma and setting boundaries 26:52 - Rebuilding a sacred sanctuary for self-love 30:36 - The power of prayer and surrendering fears 34:31 - Healing through forgiveness and divine connection 37:28 - How sourdough baking nurtures feminine energy 44:36 - The shift from attachment to divine trust 46:24 - The magic of divine timing and soul alignment 50:19 - Recognizing signs that indicate red flags 54:09 - The role of spiritual connection over societal conditioning 55:24 - Embracing wholeness through divine love 55:39 - Maintaining relationship boundaries and respecting divine timing 57:23 - How authentic surrender creates a life of love and stability 58:44 - Resources and ways to connect with Juliana and Digital Connect with Juliana:InstagramWebsiteDigital Darling SocietyFinal Thoughts: Juliana Johnson's story illustrates the profound impact of inner healing, divine surrender, and authenticity in love. Her journey from chaos to calm is a testament to the power of trusting yourself and divine timing—reminding all women that you deserve a love that truly sustains and nurtures your soul.

Episode 115: Mismatched sex drives in marriage? Let's talk about reclaiming your erotic blueprint, shedding the shame, and owning your desire. Welcome back, y'all! Hello, hello. Today, we are diving headfirst into one of my absolute favorite topics on the planet—one that is so often swept under the rug, especially when we're trying to decide whether to stay or go. We are talking about sex drives, intimacy, and eroticism.

"Eternal Life: Heaven & Hell"1 Thessalonians 4:13; Ecclesiastes 3:11Summer Heat Series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT6NmO99e1g&list=PLrgvg1IJfGErAVbwQFvA1PDPnEl-XAEyhPastor Nate ClarkeJuly 12, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- 1 Thessalonians 4:13- Ecclesiastes 3:11- Eternal Life: Heaven & Hell- Every person will spend eternity either in heaven with God, or in hell separate from God.- HEAVEN- Romans 10:9-10- John 14:1-4- John 14: 5- John 14:6-7- Heaven will be God's presence forever- Revelation 21:4- In heaven, you will be rewarded for the good you've done with your life on earth.- Matthew 6:19-20- Matthew 16:27- 2 Corinthians 5:10- Heaven will be better than anyone could imagine- 2 Corinthians 5:8- Philippians 1:23- Psalm 16:11- Revelation 22:20- HELL- Matthew 25:41- Psalm 73:2-5- Psalm 73:9-12- Psalm 73:13- Psalm 73:16-17- Psalm 73:18-20- Psalm 73:27-28- “When my love fails me, my fear ought to keep me.” —John Piper- 6 False Doctrines on Hell     - Cultural belief, Satan's kingdom     - Naturalism      - Reincarnation- Hebrews 9:27     - Catholicism, purgatory      - Universalism - Matthew 7:13-14- John 14:6- Acts 4:12     - Annihilationism - Revelation 14:11- Luke 16:19-31- Romans 1:20- Romans 2:14-15- Genesis 18:25b- What do we do because heaven and hell are a reality?- Colossians 3:1-2- Matthew 5:22b- Colossians 3:5-6- Mark 9:43- 2 Peter 3:9Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Why does it seem like so many men today are avoiding marriage?It's one of the biggest questions in modern dating, and in this episode we tackle it from both sides. We explore why some men hesitate to commit, why others never intend to, and why many women feel confused trying to understand what's really happening in today's dating culture.This isn't about blaming men or women. It's about understanding the mindset behind commitment, identifying the obstacles that prevent healthy marriages, and helping both men and women make wiser relationship decisions.Whether you're a woman wondering why the men you're meeting won't commit or a man trying to understand your own fears and hesitations around marriage, this conversation is for you.What You'll LearnWhy some men avoid marriageHow dating choices affect relationship outcomesWhy commitment requires maturityThe connection between purpose and marriageHow spiritual leadership shapes commitmentWhy responsibility changes a man's prioritiesThe importance of patience and healthy developmentWho This Episode Is ForWomen seeking clarity about commitmentMen questioning their readiness for marriageCouples preparing for lifelong commitmentChristians pursuing biblical relationshipsAnyone interested in healthy dating and marriage

"The Price of Poor Enthusiasm"Luke 19:41-45Summer Heat Series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT6NmO99e1g&list=PLrgvg1IJfGErAVbwQFvA1PDPnEl-XAEyhPastor Casey SteenJuly 5, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Loud Sins vs. Quiet Sins"Exodus 28:42-43Summer Heat Series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT6NmO99e1g&list=PLrgvg1IJfGErAVbwQFvA1PDPnEl-XAEyhPastor Casey SteenJune 28, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

#296: Josie sits down with bestselling author and former Bachelorette Hannah Brown for a conversation about fear, failure, anxiety, relationships, and what it really takes to build a life you're proud of. Hannah opens up about saying yes to opportunities before she felt ready, navigating public criticism in her 20s, and why some of the biggest turning points in her life happened when she stopped waiting for certainty. She shares the lessons she's learned from therapy, how she healed old relationship patterns, tips to manage anxiety, and how she learned to separate her self-worth from other people's opinions.In this episode you'll learn:The relationship advice that changed Hannah's marriageHow to stop letting fear make your decisionsThe mindset shift that makes failure less scaryWhat toxic relationship patterns Hannah had to let go of to find true happinessHow to navigate anxiety, comparison, and self-doubtThe secrets to deeper connectionWhy writing fiction helped her reclaim her own narrativeFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Your Weakness Is Your Greatest Flex"2 Corinthians 12:7–10 ESVSummer Heat Series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT6NmO99e1g&list=PLrgvg1IJfGErAVbwQFvA1PDPnEl-XAEyhPastor Casey SteenJune 21, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Consumer mentality is killing the church in America"Acts 2:42Summer Heat Series https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tT6NmO99e1g&list=PLrgvg1IJfGErAVbwQFvA1PDPnEl-XAEyhGuest Pastor Jon AlexisJune 14, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Send us Fan MailWelcome to On The Path with Cheryl Nembhard!This week, Cheryl sits down with George and Tondra Gregory — marriage coaches, ministry leaders, co-founders of Journey for Life, and authors of The Marriage Game Plan: Developing a Winning Strategy for Marital Success.After 30 years of marriage, decades of counseling experience, and serving as chaplains to NFL players, coaches, and families, George and Tondra have learned that thriving marriages don't happen by accident—they require vision, intentionality, and a commitment to growing together through every season.In this honest and practical conversation, they share wisdom from their own journey and offer biblical insights for couples who want to build a stronger, healthier, and more purposeful marriage.In this encouraging conversation, they explore:Why every marriage needs a clear game plan and shared visionThe four God-given purposes of marriageHow couples can rebuild trust and get back on the same teamWhat 30 years of marriage has taught them about love, faith, and perseveranceWhether you're newly married, celebrating decades together, or hoping to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers practical tools and timeless wisdom for building a marriage that lasts.Listen now and discover how God's design for marriage can help you move from simply surviving to truly thriving together.

Growth is one of the clearest signs of a healthy relationship. In this powerful episode of The Marriage Cafe, we are diving into an honest conversation about what it means for a partner to truly add value to your life emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and purposefully.Are you both growing together, or has the relationship become stagnant? Does your partner inspire you to become better, pursue healing, strengthen your faith, and walk in purpose? Or are you carrying the weight of the relationship alone?Join Dr. Loretta Pittman and Dr. William Pittman as they unpack the difference between a relationship that drains you and one that develops you. We will discuss:Signs of healthy growth in marriageHow couples sharpen and strengthen one anotherThe importance of emotional, spiritual, and financial valueWhat happens when one partner refuses to growHow to build a relationship rooted in purpose, accountability, and covenantThis conversation will challenge couples to examine whether their relationship is producing fruit, maturity, peace, and progress — or simply surviving on routine.

In this episode of Kingdom Crossroads, TS Wright welcomes Comedian Nazareth for a joyful, faith-filled, and deeply encouraging conversation. Nazareth shares his journey from being born in the Holy Land, growing up in Kuwait, coming to America, and eventually encountering Jesus Christ in 1992. After walking away from a promising mainstream comedy career, including major entertainment opportunities, Nazareth committed his comedy to the Lord and began using laughter as a bridge for evangelism.Nazareth explains how God redirected his gift of humor into ministry, opening doors for him to perform in churches, prisons, stadiums, rescue missions, recovery ministries, and outreach events across the country. His heart is to help people “laugh again” while also hearing the good news of Jesus Christ. He also shares how the Lord answered his prayer for a godly wife, how he keeps Christ and family above career, and why clean comedy can break down walls in a divided culture.In This Episode, We Discuss:Nazareth's background in the Holy Land, Kuwait, and the United StatesHis salvation testimony and decision to surrender his comedy career to ChristHow clean comedy became a tool for evangelismMinistering through humor in prisons, churches, stadiums, and outreach eventsThe founding and mission of Laughter for AllWhy laughter can open hearts to the gospelHis testimony of waiting on God for marriageHow believers can love people without compromising truthThe importance of reaching hurting people with hope, joy, and the message of ChristGuest Resource: Connect with Comedian Nazareth and learn more about his ministry and upcoming event here: https://www.laughterforall.org/event-details/laugh-again-a-laughter-for-all-comedy-concert-with-comedian-nazareth-friends-1The linked Laughter for All event is titled “Laugh Again! A Clean Family Friendly Concert with Comedian Nazareth & Friends” and is described as a night of clean comedy, encouragement, and hope for the community. Guest Website Mentioned: Nazareth's main website: nazarethusa.com Ministry website: laughterforall.orgCheck out this link to view Kingdom Cross Roads on TV.https://jesussaid.tv/?affiliate=tswright_gccTo get a copy of our new book "Embracing the Truth" or to have TS Wright speak at your event or conference or if you simply want spiritual or life coaching or just a consultation visit:www.tswrightspeaks.comVisit our website to learn more about The God Centered Concept. The God Centered Concept is designed to bring real discipleship and spreading the Gospel to help spark the Great Harvest, a revival in this generation.www.godcenteredconcept.comKingdom Cross Roads Podcast is a part of The God Centered Concept.Suggested Captivate Tags / Keywords: Comedian Nazareth, Christian comedy, clean comedy, Laughter for All, Christian comedian, faith and humor, evangelism through comedy, Christian testimony, Kingdom Crossroads, TS Wright, gospel outreach, family friendly comedy, laughter and healing, Christian podcast

"How should a Christian think about and interact with artificial intelligence?"Ephesians 5:15-17Summer Heat SeriesPastor Nate ClarkeJune 7, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Ephesians 5:15-17- How should a Christian think about and interact with artificial intelligence?- Don't overreact and over spiritualize - 1 Peter 1:13- AI is a tool- AI will create a greater need for understanding and discernment- Ephesians 5:15-17- Philippians 1:9-10- HEADLINE: A.I. Chatbot Preaches at Church in Germany: 'Looks Like the Unveiling of the Antichrist/Beast System'- HEADLINE: World Economic Forum Contributor Says A.I. Could Rewrite the Bible, Create 'Correct' Religions- HEADLINE: PETA Goes Biblical With ChatGPT Vegan Rewrite of the Book of Genesis- Let AI assist the work of your hand, not replace the cry of your heart.- Jeremiah 29:13- Solomon Ray- Jeremiah 29:4-9- “Don't opt out of the world around you, engage it!” - Attack it, control it, ignore it- Attack it, control it, ignore it, redeem itOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this powerful episode of Kingdom Crossroads, T.S. Wright welcomes back author and marriage teacher Lori Yarbrough for a deeply biblical conversation on the role of wives as advocates in marriage. Drawing from Scripture, Lori explains how prayer, encouragement, wisdom, and spiritual intercession strengthen the marital covenant and reflect Christ's love for the Church.Using examples from Abigail, Esther, Deborah, and Proverbs 31, Lori shares practical wisdom for wives seeking to support their husbands emotionally and spiritually while cultivating peace and unity in the home. T.S. Wright expands the discussion by connecting marriage back to Genesis 2 and God's original design for covenant relationships.This episode offers encouragement for couples who desire stronger Christ-centered marriages built on humility, prayer, reverence for God, and sacrificial love.In This EpisodeThe biblical meaning of advocacy in marriageHow wives can spiritually intercede for their husbandsThe power of encouragement and life-giving wordsLessons from Abigail, Esther, and DeborahGentle correction vs. criticism in marriageSupporting your spouse's God-given callingWhy Genesis 2 remains foundational for marriageThe importance of reverence, prayer, and thanksgiving in relationshipsHow marriage reflects Christ and the ChurchKey Scriptures MentionedProverbs 31:26Romans 8:341 Samuel 25Acts 18Judges 4Song of SolomonGenesis 2–3Psalm 100:4John 3:16Resources MentionedUnited in Purpose by Lori Yarbrough LoriYarbrough.comConnect With Kingdom CrossroadsIf this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone seeking a stronger biblical foundation for marriage.Check out this link to view Kingdom Cross Roads on TV.https://jesussaid.tv/?affiliate=tswright_gccTo get a copy of our new book "Embracing the Truth" or to have TS Wright speak at your event or conference or if you simply want spiritual or life coaching or just a consultation visit:www.tswrightspeaks.comVisit our website to learn more about The God Centered Concept. The God Centered Concept is designed to bring real discipleship and spreading the Gospel to help spark the Great Harvest, a revival in this generation.www.godcenteredconcept.comKingdom Cross Roads Podcast is a part of The God Centered Concept.

Are you feeling worn out from doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You are the only spouse who is putting in the effort to listen to podcasts, read the books, and initiate thoughtful conversations—or at least it feels that way.Resentment is slowly starting to build as you think to yourself over and over, “Why am I the only one doing the work to improve our marriage?”The topic for this conversation was inspired by a listener-submitted question that asks:“Is the woman in the marriage the one who does most of the heavy lifting to promote emotional growth?”This is such an important question, and in this episode, we're here to answer it. Listen in to hear our thoughts, as well as some tips to help you not only encourage growth in your spouse, but to shift your perspective on the effort they are already putting in.In this episode, you'll hear:How your attachment style affects the way you pursue depth in a relationshipHow you can invite connection in your marriageHow to know when you are being called to accept your partner where they areAnd more!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/marriage-work-300Check out our other resources:Mark and Jill's Marriage StoryMarriage CoachingMarriage 2.0 IntensivesSpeaking ScheduleBook Mark and Jill to SpeakOnline CoursesBooks Marriage Resources:Infidelity RecoveryFor Happy MarriagesFor Hurting MarriagesFor Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources:New/Preschool MomsMoms with GradeschoolersMoms with Teens and TweensMoms with Kids Who Are LaunchingEmpty Nest Moms

"What does the Bible say about borders and immigration?"Leviticus 19:33-34Summer Heat SeriesPastor Nate ClarkeMay 31, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Leviticus 19:33-34- What does the Bible say about borders and immigration?- Tribalism: organized around ethnicity. Protect your own. Fear the outsider. - Nationalism: organized around borders, shared values and morals, and laws.- “E Pluribus Unum” = “out of many, one”- “We are a nation of immigrants. But we are also a nation of laws.” Presidents Obama and Clinton- The role of the Christian, the role of the government, and the role of the immigrant- Leviticus 19:33-34- The role of the Christian: do not mistreat the foreigner, but love them- The role of the government: to protect the people and borders of its nation and administer justice without partiality. - What does the Bible have to say about national borders?- Acts 17:26- Numbers 34:1-2- A rule that is not enforced isn't a rule. Borders that aren't enforced aren't borders. A nation without borders isn't a nation. Therefore, a nation that doesn't enforce its borders will cease to be a nation. - Why should a nation respect and protect its borders?- National security- Nehemiah 13:1-3- To preserve its prosperity- Leviticus 19:15- Proverbs 6:30-31- Romans 13:1-2- Romans 13:3-5- The role of the immigrant is to join in with and obey the laws of the nation.- Ancient Israel: outsiders could join but they had to follow proper procedures to do so and could not change the culture or reshape the covenant in Israel.- Exodus 12:49 (one common law)- Exodus 20:10 (nations customs and rhythms)- Leviticus 18:26 (standards of morality, right and wrong)- Exodus 12:48 (uncomfortable, sacrificial ways)- Deuteronomy 31:12 (learn the Hebrew language)- Nehemiah 13:15-21 (morals and values)- The Story of Ruth    - Foreigner from Israel (Moabite)- Deuteronomy 23:3    - Resident foreigner. Leaves her land and joins culture and laws of Israel- Ruth 1:16-17     - Welcomed and living, but within laws- Leviticus 19:9-10    - Makes it official, married to Boaz (Ruth 4:1-12)    - Joined Israel, part of the genealogy of Jesus, the great-grandmother of King David- Ephesians 2:12-13, 19- Philippians 3:20Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Fulfilling The Great Commission"Matthew 28:18–20 ESVThe Church Series - Part 5 - Every Believer is Called MissionallyPastor Casey SteenMay 24, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Fulfilling The Great Commission- Matthew 28:18–20 ESV- The church does not merely have a mission. The mission has a church.- 1 — THE GREAT COMMISSION BEGINS WITH THE AUTHORITY OF CHRIST- 2 — THE GREAT COMMISSION IS FOR EVERY BELIEVER- 3 — THE GREAT COMMISSION DEMANDS SACRIFICE- 4 — JESUS PROMISED HIS PRESENCE- 5 — THE GREAT COMMISSION IS ABOUT DISCIPLES, NOT DECISIONS- 6 — HELL IS REAL AND THE GOSPEL IS URGENT- 7 — THE GREAT COMMISSION STARTS WHERE YOU ARE- God placed you where you are on purpose!- Some are called locally. Some globally. But every believer is called missionally.Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

What if the problem isn't your desire… but the meaning you're giving it?What if nothing is actually wrong with your marriage…but the way you're interpreting what you're feeling is quietly creating distance?In today's episode, we're having a real and honest conversation about something so many midlife Christian wives are silently carrying:“I love my husband… but my sex drive just isn't there.”You want emotional connectionYou want intimacy and romanceYou want to feel close againBut instead…You feel disconnected, confused, and maybe even a little broken.And here's where most women go: “Something must be wrong with me” “Something must be off in our marriage” “Why does this feel so hard now?”But let's gently challenge that…What if your desire isn't gone?What if it's being shaped—blocked even—by the meaning you're assigning to your experience?⸻In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why your lack of sex drive doesn't automatically mean disconnection in your marriageHow your thought patterns are influencing your intimacy, desire, and emotional connectionThe powerful truth behind Romans 12:2 and renewing your mind in marriageWhy connection often comes before desire (not the other way around)A simple 4-step process to help you rebuild intimacy, shift your thinking, and feel closer to your husband again⸻The Truth Most Women Miss About Intimacy in Midlife MarriageYou're not just experiencing your marriage…you are interpreting it.And that interpretation is shaping:how you feel about your husbandhow you show up in your marriageand even your desire for intimacy and romanceWhen you start believing: “We're disconnected” “Something's wrong” “I should feel different”You unknowingly create pressure… distance… and resistance.But when you shift the meaning?Everything begins to open again.⸻A Faith-Based Shift That Changes EverythingThis isn't just mindset…this is biblical.“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2When you change the meaning you're giving your marriage…you begin to experience your marriage differently.And that's where intimacy starts to rebuild—not from pressure, but from connection, safety, and openness.⸻Your Next Step (Don't Skip This)This week, I want you to notice:What am I feeling?What am I making it mean?Is that actually true?What's another way I could see this?Then invite God into it:“Lord, show me what's true here.”⸻

"We Build Strong Families"Joshua 24:15The Church Series - Part 4 - The Most Important System of GovernancePastor Nate ClarkeMay 17, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Our Vision: Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Our Values: Grounded in His Word, Guided by His Presence, Building Strong Families, and Fulfilling the Great Commission- Joshua 24:15- We build strong families- Systems of governance: The family (Eph 5), the Church (Eph 4), the government (Rom 13)- "Peace in society depends upon peace in the family." Saint Augustine- Your family story is not the obstacle to God's plan, it is often the setting for it.- Natural Families      - God ordained & designed: husband + wife = children.- Genesis 1:27-28- Genesis 2:24- Deuteronomy 6:6-9- "When parents receive a child from the hand of God, they receive a life to be shaped and molded." Elisabeth Elliot     - Example: Joseph, Mary, and Jesus- Broken families     - Example: Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37)     - God's plan is not hindered by man's dysfunction (Genesis 50:20)- Blended families     - Example: Jacob, Leah, Rachel (Genesis 29-30)     - God works even in complicated family systems - Adopted families     - Example: Moses & Pharoah's daughter (Exodus 2)      - God used his adoption to position him with influence and access that he would use to deliver Israel- Restored families     - Example: Prodigal son (Luke 15)     - God can redeem any situation- Spiritual family     - Example: Jesus and his disciples- Mark 3:31-35- Ephesians 1:5 NLT- Romans 8:15 NLT     - Because God is a provider, what you lacked in your natural family, God can give you in your spiritual family.- Your family story is not the obstacle to God's plan, it's often the setting for it.- Joshua 24:15bOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Guided by His Presence"Numbers 14:41-44; Exodus 33:15-16The Church Series - Part 3 Consumer-based vs. Presence-based churchPastor Nate ClarkeMay 10, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- We are grounded in His Word, Guided by His presence, Building strong families, and fulfilling the Great Commission- Numbers 14:41-44- Exodus 33:15-16- Guided by His Presence- "If the Holy Spirit was withdrawn from the church today 95% of what we do would go on and no one would know the difference. If the Holy Spirit had been withdrawn from the New Testament church, 95% of what they did would stop, and everybody would know the difference." AW Tozer- Numbers 14:39-40- Numbers 14:41-43- Numbers 14:44-45- Numbers 14: God's presence is an afterthought- Exodus 33:1-5- Exodus 33:12-16- Exodus 33: God's presence is the main thought- Afterthought: Independence. "We got this!"  Main thought: Dependence. "We need you, God!"- Afterthought: wants the 'thing' at the expense of God  Main thought: wants God, even at the expense of the 'thing'- Afterthought: moves whenever  Main thought: refuses to move without God- Exodus 13:21-22- Afterthought: results in defeat and loss  Main thought: results in presence, rest, divine favor- Numbers 14:45- Exodus 33:14- Consumer-based vs. Presence-based- C Primary audience is people. P Primary audience is God- C Works to please people. P Works to please God- C Gears worship service towards people. P Gears worship service towards God and His presence.- C Program driven, people driven, talent driven, etc. P Driven by His presence- C Jesus is a mascot. P Jesus is master- C Martha church. P Mary church.- C Focused primarily on what the human consumers say will make them happy. P Focused primarily on encountering God through worship, Word, prayer- C Sunday = performance for the people. P Sunday = offering to God- C Ask: did the people like it? P Ask: Did God show up?- Exodus 33:15Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Podcast, Maurice Harker explores a powerful truth about relationships: lasting change in marriage begins with personal growth—not trying to fix your partner.Through real-life experiences and honest discussion, this episode breaks down how self-awareness, identity work, and consistent effort can completely transform a struggling relationship. Maurice explains why many people get stuck blaming others, and how shifting focus inward leads to stronger connection, better communication, and healthier expectations.You'll also learn how personal development systems can help you regulate emotions, overcome codependency, and become the kind of partner who builds—not breaks—relationships.

"Grounded in His Word"2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12The Church Series - Part 2 What is the Bible and why does it matter?Pastor Nate ClarkeMay 3, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- We are grounded in His Word, Guided by His presence, Building strong families, and fulfilling the Great Commission- 2 Timothy 3:16-17- Hebrews 4:12- Grounded in His Word- The Bible:     - 66 books     - 40 different authors     - Written in 13 different countries on 3 continents      - Written in 3 languages     - Authored by kings, prophets, fisherman, doctors, tax collector, scholar, shepherd, priest, average guys     - Written over roughly 1,600 years- It's never been easier to get a Bible, and never more common to not know what it says.- 93% of Americans say they own a Bible and the average American owns 4 copies.- Less than 2 out of 5 professing Christians read their Bible at least once per week.- Arizona Christian University's Cultural Research Center with George Barna:     - 4% of Americans have a Biblical Worldview today (consistent with Biblical principles, beliefs, and behaviors) compared to 12% 25 years ago.     - 1% of Gen Z, 2% of millennials, and 7% of Gen X / Boomers have a Biblical worldview     - 53% identified as a Christian while saying they don't believe salvation comes through a personal confession of sin and believing in Christ as Savior. - Why must we be grounded in His Word?- God's Word gives divine wisdom.- Psalm 119:29- Psalm 119:105- Psalm 119:110- Psalm 119:130- Proverbs 2:6- God's Word is eternal.- Matthew 24:35- Psalm 119:160- Isaiah 40:8- God's Word brings life.- Romans 15:4- John 15:11- Romans 10:17- Psalm 119:28- Matthew 4:4- God's Word gives you power over the devil.- Psalm 119:11- Psalm 119:133- 1 John 2:14b- God's Word brings freedom.- Hosea 4:6 ESV- John 8:31-32- God's Word will change your life.- James 1:22-25Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Why the Church?"Matthew 16:15-19; Proverbs 29:18 ESVThe Church Series - Part 1 Why does Oasis Church exist?Pastor Nate ClarkeApril 26, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Matthew 16:15-19- Proverbs 29:18 ESV- Why The Church?- "If the church is central to God's purpose, as seen in both history and the gospel, it must surely also be central to our lives." John Stott- Philippians 2:1-2- 1 Corinthians 12:4-6- "The bible knows nothing of solitary religion." John Wesley - Our Vision: Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Worship God- Worship: 'worth-ship'; to attribute the highest worth, honor, or value.- Worship God     - Lift up God's son, Jesus- John 12:32     - Sensitive to God's Spirit- John 14:16-18- Acts 2:17-18     - Weekly rhythm- Hebrews 10:25- "Church attendance is as vital to a disciple as a transfusion of rich, healthy blood to a sick man." DL Moody     - Finances- Proverbs 3:9     - Expressive praise (sub point 5, and this sub point has 4 sub points of its own lol)- Psalm 29:2          - Voices lifted- Psalm 95:1          - Clapping and shouting- Psalm 47:1- Psalm 98:4          - Lifting hands- Psalm 134:2- Psalm 63:4          - Dancing- Psalm 149:3- Equip the believers- Ephesians 4:11-15- Equip the believers     - Through the preaching of the Word- 2 Timothy 3:16-17     - Through Bible studies, group gatherings     - Through prayer     - Through fellowship- Proverbs 27:17     - Through serving one another- Galatians 5:13- 1 Peter 4:10- Reach the lost- Matthew 28:19-20- Luke 19:10- Reach the lost     - By witnessing     - By giving and sending     - By inviting and making room- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Church Responses     - Critic: stands outside and judges the church     - Cynic: hands holded at the back with suspicion about everything     - Curious: open to explore and see     - Consumer: takes and takes from the church      - Creator: serves to make it what Jesus intended it to beOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"You don't get MORE time, you just get much better about your time. And that is non-negotiable."Alex is back to chat through what is working as we chase big goals, stay connected in marriage, and raise kids while building creative careers. We're balancing family life with ambition, navigating postpartum life, rebuilding after hard seasons, and learning how to use time with intention (because there is no alternative!)We share the productivity habits helping us move forward, including our favorite brain dump method for reducing stress, getting organized, and creating momentum. We also talk honestly about money, freedom, identity, marriage, and why protecting fun, connection, and purpose matters just as much as working hard. Don't Miss This Chat On:How we manage our time and stay productive as creativesOur strategies on staying connected as a couple during busy seasonsPostpartum life and getting back into work modeFinancial freedom and why flexibility mattersWhy we protecting fun, identity, and joy in our marriageHow to grow without losing yourself or your familyIf you've ever wondered how to grow your career without losing yourself, your relationship, or your family in the process, this chat is for you.Connect with Nicole:On her *new* Substack: https://nicolewaltersofficial.substack.com/On Threads: https://threads.net/nicolewaltersWATCH Tell Me More: http://nicolewalters.com/youtubeProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"The Person and Work of the Holy Spirit"Guest Pastor Doug ReedApril 19, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"How to Live Towards a Godly Legacy"Genesis 35, 36The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeApril 12, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Why do so many Christian men struggle in marriage even when they love their wives? In this direct and practical episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the non-negotiables of a Godly marriage and why most men are missing them. This isn't theory.This is about principles which are the repeatable forces that govern outcomes whether you're aware of them or not.If your marriage isn't where it should be, it's not random. It's the result of what you are or aren't doing consistently. In this episode, they unpack three core pillars every Christian man must lead in to build a thriving, Godly marriage:1. Trust — Keep Your Word. If you don't do what you say, your word loses value. And when your word loses value, your wife loses trust and respect follows. Strong marriages are built on consistent integrity, not occasional effort.2. Intimacy — Date Your Wife. Most men stop pursuing their wife after they marry her. That's where the breakdown begins. If you don't intentionally create time, attention, and connection, your marriage slowly shifts into co-existing instead of thriving. Christian men don't stop pursuing, they lead in it.3. Leadership — Have a Plan. A Godly marriage isn't just about being happy, it's about building something together. Without vision, your relationship drifts. With purpose, your marriage grows stronger. Leadership means knowing where your family is going and leading them there.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why principles not feelings determine your marriage outcomesHow lack of discipline quietly destroys marriagesWhy keeping your word builds respect and trustHow to practically date your wife (even with kids and a busy life)Why many Christian men unintentionally become passive in marriageHow purpose and leadership transform a relationshipThe danger of becoming roommates instead of partnersThis episode is a wake-up call for Christian men who want a Godly marriage built on faith, discipline, and purpose. Because great marriages don't happen by accident. They're built by men who lead. And if you don't lead your marriage intentionally, you will drift into something you never intended.Get With NuWave Home Lenders By Clicking HereJoin a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here.Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life

"The Empty Tomb Proves It!"Luke 24:1-5Easter SundayPastor Nate ClarkeApril 5, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Luke 24:1-5- The Empty Tomb Proves It!- 1 Corinthians 15:13-14- The empty tomb proves that Jesus is God- John 10:30- John 5:18- Mark 9:31-32- John 2:19, 21-22- The empty tomb proves that sin and death have been defeated!- Colossians 2:13-15- The devil lost his power to condemn you! - Colossians 2:14- Romans 8:33-34- The devil lost his power to make you fear death!- Hebrews 2:14-15 (NLT)- 1 Corinthians 15:55-57- John 20:24-26Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Our Journey of Faith"Matthew 21:1-11; Hebrews 2:9-10Guest Pastor Ray McQueen of Family Life Church in Lynchburg, VAMarch 29, 2026We hope you'll join us Easter Sunday, April 5th at 8:00am, 9:30am, and 11:00am.7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.If you're struggling to let your husband lead again… you're not crazy.You're not “too much.”Your body remembers what your mind keeps trying to forgive.In this Marriage Q&A, Nicole shares what happens after trust gets cracked: job loss stress, family crisis, emotional pressure, and the fear that if she's not “enough,” he'll go find someone else.And then the roles flip — he starts doing the work… and she starts spiraling.We break down the TRUTH most couples miss:Intimacy is a ladder. Sex is at the top. Emotional safety is the foundation.If you skip the foundation, you'll use sex to manage insecurity… not to build connection.In this episode, we talk about:How insecurity hijacks your nervous system after betrayalWhy “letting him lead” feels unsafe (even when he's changing)The difference between connection and copingHow sex can mask deeper intimacy issues in marriageHow to stop feeding the “insecurity monster” and start rebuilding trustIf you're in a marriage after betrayal, porn use, emotional disconnection, or a cycle of blowups + honeymoon phases… this one's for you.

"A Chapter to Forget"Genesis 34The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 22, 2026We hope you'll join us Easter Sunday, April 5th at 8:00am, 9:30am, and 11:00am.7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 34- A Chapter to Forget- Do you lack righteous anger? (question #1)- Genesis 34:5- Romans 12:9- Proverbs 8:13- Psalm 97:10- Amos 5:15- Psalm 101:3- Jude 1:23- Psalm 119:104- Righteous anger leads to godly behavior, not sinful behavior- Psalm 4:4 ESV, Ephesians 4:26-27- Righteous anger is:    - Rightly motivated    - Rightly directed    - Rightly expressed    - Rightly resolved- Are you negotiating a treaty with the enemy? (question #2)- Genesis 34:8-10- Compromise can often look peaceful and professional- Ephesians 6:10-12- Jude 1:18-21- Are you misusing the things of God to accomplish your own agenda? (question #3)- Genesis 34:13-17, 25- God is not a tool to be misused for our own selfish agenda, He is God to be feared and worshipped for His glory.- Are you more worried about your perception before men or your holiness before God? (question #4)- Genesis 34:30- You fear men more than God when you're more concerned with the effects and consequences of your sin than you are sin itself.- Do you want God's involvement in your life? (question #5)- Genesis 35:1-3Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Your Old Nature & Your New Nature"Genesis 33The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 15, 2026Join us Easter Sunday at our new church building April 5th7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 33:1-4- Genesis 33:12-20- Your old nature & your new nature - Encounters with God will bear the fruit of transformation- Jacob: “heel grabber”   Israel: “God rules / prevails”- 2 Corinthians 5:17- Signs of a transformed Jacob:    - He now goes ahead to meet Esau. New courage.- Genesis 33:3    - He humbles himself by bowing 7X. Surrendered humility.- Genesis 33:3- Sanctification (discipleship) doesn't happen at one time, but over time.- From Genesis 33-50, “Jacob” is used 45x and “Israel” is used 23x- Signs of doubt and struggle for Jacob:    - He ordered his people based on emotional priorities.- Genesis 33:6-7    - He insisted Esau receive his gifts- Genesis 33:8-11    - He settled short of where God called him- Genesis 33:18- Matthew 7:15-20- If your name is Israel, how long are you going to live like your name is Jacob?- Hebrews 5:11-14- Philippians 2:12-13- Ephesians 4:22-24- Romans 12:2- It only takes 1 day to obey God, but disobedience can delay you for years.Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this episode, Sharla and Robert sit down with Casey and Megan Caston of Marriage 365. They reveal powerful tools and habits that any couple can implement today to build a healthier, more connected relationship—whether you're in crisis or just looking to grow together.Key Topics:The importance of focusing on self-improvement first in marriageHow habits like specific love language actions foster connectionThe four-step apology framework to rebuild trustThe role of intention and setting relationship goalsMaking systems and structures work for your marriageThe impact of consistent communication and small daily actionsBreaking generational cycles of divorce and conflictHow to create and maintain a safety “bubble” in your relationshipResources:Marriage 365 WebsiteThe Marriage Habit (Book) (search for title)Get in TouchWebsite: MasterYourMarriage.usInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/masteryourmarriageFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MasterYourMarriage/

What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts.We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women's questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single.From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a man's perspective evolves inside marriage.We'll talk about:Whether a man really “just knows” she's the oneThe hardest adjustment in the first year of marriageHow their view of physical attraction changed after getting marriedThe difference between attraction and lust from a married perspectiveWhat respect actually feels like to a husbandWhether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch pornHow married men pursue purity during seasons without sexWhat keeps a marriage strong long termWhat kills connection the fastestWhat turned out to be better than expectedIf you are single and trying to choose wisely, this episode will help you see past chemistry and into character.If you are married, it may help you understand your husband more than you expected.