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In this powerful episode of Kingdom Crossroads, T.S. Wright welcomes back author and marriage teacher Lori Yarbrough for a deeply biblical conversation on the role of wives as advocates in marriage. Drawing from Scripture, Lori explains how prayer, encouragement, wisdom, and spiritual intercession strengthen the marital covenant and reflect Christ's love for the Church.Using examples from Abigail, Esther, Deborah, and Proverbs 31, Lori shares practical wisdom for wives seeking to support their husbands emotionally and spiritually while cultivating peace and unity in the home. T.S. Wright expands the discussion by connecting marriage back to Genesis 2 and God's original design for covenant relationships.This episode offers encouragement for couples who desire stronger Christ-centered marriages built on humility, prayer, reverence for God, and sacrificial love.In This EpisodeThe biblical meaning of advocacy in marriageHow wives can spiritually intercede for their husbandsThe power of encouragement and life-giving wordsLessons from Abigail, Esther, and DeborahGentle correction vs. criticism in marriageSupporting your spouse's God-given callingWhy Genesis 2 remains foundational for marriageThe importance of reverence, prayer, and thanksgiving in relationshipsHow marriage reflects Christ and the ChurchKey Scriptures MentionedProverbs 31:26Romans 8:341 Samuel 25Acts 18Judges 4Song of SolomonGenesis 2–3Psalm 100:4John 3:16Resources MentionedUnited in Purpose by Lori Yarbrough LoriYarbrough.comConnect With Kingdom CrossroadsIf this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone seeking a stronger biblical foundation for marriage.Check out this link to view Kingdom Cross Roads on TV.https://jesussaid.tv/?affiliate=tswright_gccTo get a copy of our new book "Embracing the Truth" or to have TS Wright speak at your event or conference or if you simply want spiritual or life coaching or just a consultation visit:www.tswrightspeaks.comVisit our website to learn more about The God Centered Concept. The God Centered Concept is designed to bring real discipleship and spreading the Gospel to help spark the Great Harvest, a revival in this generation.www.godcenteredconcept.comKingdom Cross Roads Podcast is a part of The God Centered Concept.

Are you feeling worn out from doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You are the only spouse who is putting in the effort to listen to podcasts, read the books, and initiate thoughtful conversations—or at least it feels that way.Resentment is slowly starting to build as you think to yourself over and over, “Why am I the only one doing the work to improve our marriage?”The topic for this conversation was inspired by a listener-submitted question that asks:“Is the woman in the marriage the one who does most of the heavy lifting to promote emotional growth?”This is such an important question, and in this episode, we're here to answer it. Listen in to hear our thoughts, as well as some tips to help you not only encourage growth in your spouse, but to shift your perspective on the effort they are already putting in.In this episode, you'll hear:How your attachment style affects the way you pursue depth in a relationshipHow you can invite connection in your marriageHow to know when you are being called to accept your partner where they areAnd more!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/marriage-work-300Check out our other resources:Mark and Jill's Marriage StoryMarriage CoachingMarriage 2.0 IntensivesSpeaking ScheduleBook Mark and Jill to SpeakOnline CoursesBooks Marriage Resources:Infidelity RecoveryFor Happy MarriagesFor Hurting MarriagesFor Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources:New/Preschool MomsMoms with GradeschoolersMoms with Teens and TweensMoms with Kids Who Are LaunchingEmpty Nest Moms

"What does the Bible say about borders and immigration?"Leviticus 19:33-34Summer Heat SeriesPastor Nate ClarkeMay 31, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Leviticus 19:33-34- What does the Bible say about borders and immigration?- Tribalism: organized around ethnicity. Protect your own. Fear the outsider. - Nationalism: organized around borders, shared values and morals, and laws.- “E Pluribus Unum” = “out of many, one”- “We are a nation of immigrants. But we are also a nation of laws.” Presidents Obama and Clinton- The role of the Christian, the role of the government, and the role of the immigrant- Leviticus 19:33-34- The role of the Christian: do not mistreat the foreigner, but love them- The role of the government: to protect the people and borders of its nation and administer justice without partiality. - What does the Bible have to say about national borders?- Acts 17:26- Numbers 34:1-2- A rule that is not enforced isn't a rule. Borders that aren't enforced aren't borders. A nation without borders isn't a nation. Therefore, a nation that doesn't enforce its borders will cease to be a nation. - Why should a nation respect and protect its borders?- National security- Nehemiah 13:1-3- To preserve its prosperity- Leviticus 19:15- Proverbs 6:30-31- Romans 13:1-2- Romans 13:3-5- The role of the immigrant is to join in with and obey the laws of the nation.- Ancient Israel: outsiders could join but they had to follow proper procedures to do so and could not change the culture or reshape the covenant in Israel.- Exodus 12:49 (one common law)- Exodus 20:10 (nations customs and rhythms)- Leviticus 18:26 (standards of morality, right and wrong)- Exodus 12:48 (uncomfortable, sacrificial ways)- Deuteronomy 31:12 (learn the Hebrew language)- Nehemiah 13:15-21 (morals and values)- The Story of Ruth    - Foreigner from Israel (Moabite)- Deuteronomy 23:3    - Resident foreigner. Leaves her land and joins culture and laws of Israel- Ruth 1:16-17     - Welcomed and living, but within laws- Leviticus 19:9-10    - Makes it official, married to Boaz (Ruth 4:1-12)    - Joined Israel, part of the genealogy of Jesus, the great-grandmother of King David- Ephesians 2:12-13, 19- Philippians 3:20Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Fulfilling The Great Commission"Matthew 28:18–20 ESVThe Church Series - Part 5 - Every Believer is Called MissionallyPastor Casey SteenMay 24, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Fulfilling The Great Commission- Matthew 28:18–20 ESV- The church does not merely have a mission. The mission has a church.- 1 — THE GREAT COMMISSION BEGINS WITH THE AUTHORITY OF CHRIST- 2 — THE GREAT COMMISSION IS FOR EVERY BELIEVER- 3 — THE GREAT COMMISSION DEMANDS SACRIFICE- 4 — JESUS PROMISED HIS PRESENCE- 5 — THE GREAT COMMISSION IS ABOUT DISCIPLES, NOT DECISIONS- 6 — HELL IS REAL AND THE GOSPEL IS URGENT- 7 — THE GREAT COMMISSION STARTS WHERE YOU ARE- God placed you where you are on purpose!- Some are called locally. Some globally. But every believer is called missionally.Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

What if the problem isn't your desire… but the meaning you're giving it?What if nothing is actually wrong with your marriage…but the way you're interpreting what you're feeling is quietly creating distance?In today's episode, we're having a real and honest conversation about something so many midlife Christian wives are silently carrying:“I love my husband… but my sex drive just isn't there.”You want emotional connectionYou want intimacy and romanceYou want to feel close againBut instead…You feel disconnected, confused, and maybe even a little broken.And here's where most women go: “Something must be wrong with me” “Something must be off in our marriage” “Why does this feel so hard now?”But let's gently challenge that…What if your desire isn't gone?What if it's being shaped—blocked even—by the meaning you're assigning to your experience?⸻In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why your lack of sex drive doesn't automatically mean disconnection in your marriageHow your thought patterns are influencing your intimacy, desire, and emotional connectionThe powerful truth behind Romans 12:2 and renewing your mind in marriageWhy connection often comes before desire (not the other way around)A simple 4-step process to help you rebuild intimacy, shift your thinking, and feel closer to your husband again⸻The Truth Most Women Miss About Intimacy in Midlife MarriageYou're not just experiencing your marriage…you are interpreting it.And that interpretation is shaping:how you feel about your husbandhow you show up in your marriageand even your desire for intimacy and romanceWhen you start believing: “We're disconnected” “Something's wrong” “I should feel different”You unknowingly create pressure… distance… and resistance.But when you shift the meaning?Everything begins to open again.⸻A Faith-Based Shift That Changes EverythingThis isn't just mindset…this is biblical.“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2When you change the meaning you're giving your marriage…you begin to experience your marriage differently.And that's where intimacy starts to rebuild—not from pressure, but from connection, safety, and openness.⸻Your Next Step (Don't Skip This)This week, I want you to notice:What am I feeling?What am I making it mean?Is that actually true?What's another way I could see this?Then invite God into it:“Lord, show me what's true here.”⸻

"We Build Strong Families"Joshua 24:15The Church Series - Part 4 - The Most Important System of GovernancePastor Nate ClarkeMay 17, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Our Vision: Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Our Values: Grounded in His Word, Guided by His Presence, Building Strong Families, and Fulfilling the Great Commission- Joshua 24:15- We build strong families- Systems of governance: The family (Eph 5), the Church (Eph 4), the government (Rom 13)- "Peace in society depends upon peace in the family." Saint Augustine- Your family story is not the obstacle to God's plan, it is often the setting for it.- Natural Families      - God ordained & designed: husband + wife = children.- Genesis 1:27-28- Genesis 2:24- Deuteronomy 6:6-9- "When parents receive a child from the hand of God, they receive a life to be shaped and molded." Elisabeth Elliot     - Example: Joseph, Mary, and Jesus- Broken families     - Example: Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37)     - God's plan is not hindered by man's dysfunction (Genesis 50:20)- Blended families     - Example: Jacob, Leah, Rachel (Genesis 29-30)     - God works even in complicated family systems - Adopted families     - Example: Moses & Pharoah's daughter (Exodus 2)      - God used his adoption to position him with influence and access that he would use to deliver Israel- Restored families     - Example: Prodigal son (Luke 15)     - God can redeem any situation- Spiritual family     - Example: Jesus and his disciples- Mark 3:31-35- Ephesians 1:5 NLT- Romans 8:15 NLT     - Because God is a provider, what you lacked in your natural family, God can give you in your spiritual family.- Your family story is not the obstacle to God's plan, it's often the setting for it.- Joshua 24:15bOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Guided by His Presence"Numbers 14:41-44; Exodus 33:15-16The Church Series - Part 3 Consumer-based vs. Presence-based churchPastor Nate ClarkeMay 10, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- We are grounded in His Word, Guided by His presence, Building strong families, and fulfilling the Great Commission- Numbers 14:41-44- Exodus 33:15-16- Guided by His Presence- "If the Holy Spirit was withdrawn from the church today 95% of what we do would go on and no one would know the difference. If the Holy Spirit had been withdrawn from the New Testament church, 95% of what they did would stop, and everybody would know the difference." AW Tozer- Numbers 14:39-40- Numbers 14:41-43- Numbers 14:44-45- Numbers 14: God's presence is an afterthought- Exodus 33:1-5- Exodus 33:12-16- Exodus 33: God's presence is the main thought- Afterthought: Independence. "We got this!"  Main thought: Dependence. "We need you, God!"- Afterthought: wants the 'thing' at the expense of God  Main thought: wants God, even at the expense of the 'thing'- Afterthought: moves whenever  Main thought: refuses to move without God- Exodus 13:21-22- Afterthought: results in defeat and loss  Main thought: results in presence, rest, divine favor- Numbers 14:45- Exodus 33:14- Consumer-based vs. Presence-based- C Primary audience is people. P Primary audience is God- C Works to please people. P Works to please God- C Gears worship service towards people. P Gears worship service towards God and His presence.- C Program driven, people driven, talent driven, etc. P Driven by His presence- C Jesus is a mascot. P Jesus is master- C Martha church. P Mary church.- C Focused primarily on what the human consumers say will make them happy. P Focused primarily on encountering God through worship, Word, prayer- C Sunday = performance for the people. P Sunday = offering to God- C Ask: did the people like it? P Ask: Did God show up?- Exodus 33:15Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Podcast, Maurice Harker explores a powerful truth about relationships: lasting change in marriage begins with personal growth—not trying to fix your partner.Through real-life experiences and honest discussion, this episode breaks down how self-awareness, identity work, and consistent effort can completely transform a struggling relationship. Maurice explains why many people get stuck blaming others, and how shifting focus inward leads to stronger connection, better communication, and healthier expectations.You'll also learn how personal development systems can help you regulate emotions, overcome codependency, and become the kind of partner who builds—not breaks—relationships.

"Grounded in His Word"2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12The Church Series - Part 2 What is the Bible and why does it matter?Pastor Nate ClarkeMay 3, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- We are grounded in His Word, Guided by His presence, Building strong families, and fulfilling the Great Commission- 2 Timothy 3:16-17- Hebrews 4:12- Grounded in His Word- The Bible:     - 66 books     - 40 different authors     - Written in 13 different countries on 3 continents      - Written in 3 languages     - Authored by kings, prophets, fisherman, doctors, tax collector, scholar, shepherd, priest, average guys     - Written over roughly 1,600 years- It's never been easier to get a Bible, and never more common to not know what it says.- 93% of Americans say they own a Bible and the average American owns 4 copies.- Less than 2 out of 5 professing Christians read their Bible at least once per week.- Arizona Christian University's Cultural Research Center with George Barna:     - 4% of Americans have a Biblical Worldview today (consistent with Biblical principles, beliefs, and behaviors) compared to 12% 25 years ago.     - 1% of Gen Z, 2% of millennials, and 7% of Gen X / Boomers have a Biblical worldview     - 53% identified as a Christian while saying they don't believe salvation comes through a personal confession of sin and believing in Christ as Savior. - Why must we be grounded in His Word?- God's Word gives divine wisdom.- Psalm 119:29- Psalm 119:105- Psalm 119:110- Psalm 119:130- Proverbs 2:6- God's Word is eternal.- Matthew 24:35- Psalm 119:160- Isaiah 40:8- God's Word brings life.- Romans 15:4- John 15:11- Romans 10:17- Psalm 119:28- Matthew 4:4- God's Word gives you power over the devil.- Psalm 119:11- Psalm 119:133- 1 John 2:14b- God's Word brings freedom.- Hosea 4:6 ESV- John 8:31-32- God's Word will change your life.- James 1:22-25Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Tara Pavlovic is a Gold Coast-based content creator and mum of two who recently announced her separation — and the response from women everywhere made it clear this conversation needed to happen.Rachel and Tara get into what the lead-up to leaving actually looks like from the inside. The years of therapy. The panic attacks. The couples counselling that didn't save the marriage but mattered anyway. The Fiji holiday they booked because they knew they could still have a good time together. And the moment Tara's body made the decision before her mind was ready to.They also go somewhere neither of them planned — into what it does to a woman's sense of self when she realises her version of the marriage and his were two completely different realities. And what it means to lose trust in yourself so completely that you can't imagine ever choosing again.Honest, raw, and at times genuinely surprising. This one will probably make you cry at least once.In this episode:Why the hardest part of leaving isn't what comes after — it's the decision itselfWhat couples counselling actually does when it doesn't save the marriageHow alcohol can hold a relationship together — and what happens when it's goneThe moment the panic attacks became impossible to ignoreWhy she doesn't believe anyone will truly love her nowWhat it feels like to lose all trust in yourself after a marriage endsWhat Tara would say to any woman sitting in that dark place right nowFind Tara: @tarapavlovic Now What is hosted by Rachel Maksimovic. Follow @rachel.maksimovic & @nowwhat.podcast on Instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Why the Church?"Matthew 16:15-19; Proverbs 29:18 ESVThe Church Series - Part 1 Why does Oasis Church exist?Pastor Nate ClarkeApril 26, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Matthew 16:15-19- Proverbs 29:18 ESV- Why The Church?- "If the church is central to God's purpose, as seen in both history and the gospel, it must surely also be central to our lives." John Stott- Philippians 2:1-2- 1 Corinthians 12:4-6- "The bible knows nothing of solitary religion." John Wesley - Our Vision: Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Worship God- Worship: 'worth-ship'; to attribute the highest worth, honor, or value.- Worship God     - Lift up God's son, Jesus- John 12:32     - Sensitive to God's Spirit- John 14:16-18- Acts 2:17-18     - Weekly rhythm- Hebrews 10:25- "Church attendance is as vital to a disciple as a transfusion of rich, healthy blood to a sick man." DL Moody     - Finances- Proverbs 3:9     - Expressive praise (sub point 5, and this sub point has 4 sub points of its own lol)- Psalm 29:2          - Voices lifted- Psalm 95:1          - Clapping and shouting- Psalm 47:1- Psalm 98:4          - Lifting hands- Psalm 134:2- Psalm 63:4          - Dancing- Psalm 149:3- Equip the believers- Ephesians 4:11-15- Equip the believers     - Through the preaching of the Word- 2 Timothy 3:16-17     - Through Bible studies, group gatherings     - Through prayer     - Through fellowship- Proverbs 27:17     - Through serving one another- Galatians 5:13- 1 Peter 4:10- Reach the lost- Matthew 28:19-20- Luke 19:10- Reach the lost     - By witnessing     - By giving and sending     - By inviting and making room- Worship God, Equip the believers, Reach the lost- Church Responses     - Critic: stands outside and judges the church     - Cynic: hands holded at the back with suspicion about everything     - Curious: open to explore and see     - Consumer: takes and takes from the church      - Creator: serves to make it what Jesus intended it to beOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"You don't get MORE time, you just get much better about your time. And that is non-negotiable."Alex is back to chat through what is working as we chase big goals, stay connected in marriage, and raise kids while building creative careers. We're balancing family life with ambition, navigating postpartum life, rebuilding after hard seasons, and learning how to use time with intention (because there is no alternative!)We share the productivity habits helping us move forward, including our favorite brain dump method for reducing stress, getting organized, and creating momentum. We also talk honestly about money, freedom, identity, marriage, and why protecting fun, connection, and purpose matters just as much as working hard. Don't Miss This Chat On:How we manage our time and stay productive as creativesOur strategies on staying connected as a couple during busy seasonsPostpartum life and getting back into work modeFinancial freedom and why flexibility mattersWhy we protecting fun, identity, and joy in our marriageHow to grow without losing yourself or your familyIf you've ever wondered how to grow your career without losing yourself, your relationship, or your family in the process, this chat is for you.Connect with Nicole:On her *new* Substack: https://nicolewaltersofficial.substack.com/On Threads: https://threads.net/nicolewaltersWATCH Tell Me More: http://nicolewalters.com/youtubeProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

"The Person and Work of the Holy Spirit"Guest Pastor Doug ReedApril 19, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"How to Live Towards a Godly Legacy"Genesis 35, 36The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeApril 12, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Why do so many Christian men struggle in marriage even when they love their wives? In this direct and practical episode of The Impossible Life Podcast, Nick Surface and Garrett Unclebach break down the non-negotiables of a Godly marriage and why most men are missing them. This isn't theory.This is about principles which are the repeatable forces that govern outcomes whether you're aware of them or not.If your marriage isn't where it should be, it's not random. It's the result of what you are or aren't doing consistently. In this episode, they unpack three core pillars every Christian man must lead in to build a thriving, Godly marriage:1. Trust — Keep Your Word. If you don't do what you say, your word loses value. And when your word loses value, your wife loses trust and respect follows. Strong marriages are built on consistent integrity, not occasional effort.2. Intimacy — Date Your Wife. Most men stop pursuing their wife after they marry her. That's where the breakdown begins. If you don't intentionally create time, attention, and connection, your marriage slowly shifts into co-existing instead of thriving. Christian men don't stop pursuing, they lead in it.3. Leadership — Have a Plan. A Godly marriage isn't just about being happy, it's about building something together. Without vision, your relationship drifts. With purpose, your marriage grows stronger. Leadership means knowing where your family is going and leading them there.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why principles not feelings determine your marriage outcomesHow lack of discipline quietly destroys marriagesWhy keeping your word builds respect and trustHow to practically date your wife (even with kids and a busy life)Why many Christian men unintentionally become passive in marriageHow purpose and leadership transform a relationshipThe danger of becoming roommates instead of partnersThis episode is a wake-up call for Christian men who want a Godly marriage built on faith, discipline, and purpose. Because great marriages don't happen by accident. They're built by men who lead. And if you don't lead your marriage intentionally, you will drift into something you never intended.Get With NuWave Home Lenders By Clicking HereJoin a group of likeminded Impossible Life listeners in our FREE Skool community by clicking here.Get the Purpose Playbook by clicking hereGet the FREE Basic Discipline Training 30 Day Program by clicking hereJoin us in Mindset Mastery by clicking hereIf you're a man that wants real accountability and training to be a leader, click here.Level up your nutrition with IDLife by clicking hereGET IN TOUCHSocial Media - @theimpossiblelifeEmail - info@theimpossible.life

"The Empty Tomb Proves It!"Luke 24:1-5Easter SundayPastor Nate ClarkeApril 5, 2026Virginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Luke 24:1-5- The Empty Tomb Proves It!- 1 Corinthians 15:13-14- The empty tomb proves that Jesus is God- John 10:30- John 5:18- Mark 9:31-32- John 2:19, 21-22- The empty tomb proves that sin and death have been defeated!- Colossians 2:13-15- The devil lost his power to condemn you! - Colossians 2:14- Romans 8:33-34- The devil lost his power to make you fear death!- Hebrews 2:14-15 (NLT)- 1 Corinthians 15:55-57- John 20:24-26Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

How important do you think the local Church is to your walk with Jesus? Today as we begin the Be Bold For Jesus Podcast we sit down with Pastors Danny and Jamie Schulz of Sun City Church in Spokane Valley and Post Falls. Here we'll unpack what the local Church means not only to God but to you as well. ✝️ Be Bold For Jesus Conference 2026 ✝️⁠⁠bebold4jesus.org⁠⁠✌️To get to know Jamie and Danny's Church✌️suncitychurch.com⁠⁠

"Our Journey of Faith"Matthew 21:1-11; Hebrews 2:9-10Guest Pastor Ray McQueen of Family Life Church in Lynchburg, VAMarch 29, 2026We hope you'll join us Easter Sunday, April 5th at 8:00am, 9:30am, and 11:00am.7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.If you're struggling to let your husband lead again… you're not crazy.You're not “too much.”Your body remembers what your mind keeps trying to forgive.In this Marriage Q&A, Nicole shares what happens after trust gets cracked: job loss stress, family crisis, emotional pressure, and the fear that if she's not “enough,” he'll go find someone else.And then the roles flip — he starts doing the work… and she starts spiraling.We break down the TRUTH most couples miss:Intimacy is a ladder. Sex is at the top. Emotional safety is the foundation.If you skip the foundation, you'll use sex to manage insecurity… not to build connection.In this episode, we talk about:How insecurity hijacks your nervous system after betrayalWhy “letting him lead” feels unsafe (even when he's changing)The difference between connection and copingHow sex can mask deeper intimacy issues in marriageHow to stop feeding the “insecurity monster” and start rebuilding trustIf you're in a marriage after betrayal, porn use, emotional disconnection, or a cycle of blowups + honeymoon phases… this one's for you.

"A Chapter to Forget"Genesis 34The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 22, 2026We hope you'll join us Easter Sunday, April 5th at 8:00am, 9:30am, and 11:00am.7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 34- A Chapter to Forget- Do you lack righteous anger? (question #1)- Genesis 34:5- Romans 12:9- Proverbs 8:13- Psalm 97:10- Amos 5:15- Psalm 101:3- Jude 1:23- Psalm 119:104- Righteous anger leads to godly behavior, not sinful behavior- Psalm 4:4 ESV, Ephesians 4:26-27- Righteous anger is:    - Rightly motivated    - Rightly directed    - Rightly expressed    - Rightly resolved- Are you negotiating a treaty with the enemy? (question #2)- Genesis 34:8-10- Compromise can often look peaceful and professional- Ephesians 6:10-12- Jude 1:18-21- Are you misusing the things of God to accomplish your own agenda? (question #3)- Genesis 34:13-17, 25- God is not a tool to be misused for our own selfish agenda, He is God to be feared and worshipped for His glory.- Are you more worried about your perception before men or your holiness before God? (question #4)- Genesis 34:30- You fear men more than God when you're more concerned with the effects and consequences of your sin than you are sin itself.- Do you want God's involvement in your life? (question #5)- Genesis 35:1-3Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"Your Old Nature & Your New Nature"Genesis 33The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 15, 2026Join us Easter Sunday at our new church building April 5th7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwASERMON NOTES:- Genesis 33:1-4- Genesis 33:12-20- Your old nature & your new nature - Encounters with God will bear the fruit of transformation- Jacob: “heel grabber”   Israel: “God rules / prevails”- 2 Corinthians 5:17- Signs of a transformed Jacob:    - He now goes ahead to meet Esau. New courage.- Genesis 33:3    - He humbles himself by bowing 7X. Surrendered humility.- Genesis 33:3- Sanctification (discipleship) doesn't happen at one time, but over time.- From Genesis 33-50, “Jacob” is used 45x and “Israel” is used 23x- Signs of doubt and struggle for Jacob:    - He ordered his people based on emotional priorities.- Genesis 33:6-7    - He insisted Esau receive his gifts- Genesis 33:8-11    - He settled short of where God called him- Genesis 33:18- Matthew 7:15-20- If your name is Israel, how long are you going to live like your name is Jacob?- Hebrews 5:11-14- Philippians 2:12-13- Ephesians 4:22-24- Romans 12:2- It only takes 1 day to obey God, but disobedience can delay you for years.Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this episode, Sharla and Robert sit down with Casey and Megan Caston of Marriage 365. They reveal powerful tools and habits that any couple can implement today to build a healthier, more connected relationship—whether you're in crisis or just looking to grow together.Key Topics:The importance of focusing on self-improvement first in marriageHow habits like specific love language actions foster connectionThe four-step apology framework to rebuild trustThe role of intention and setting relationship goalsMaking systems and structures work for your marriageThe impact of consistent communication and small daily actionsBreaking generational cycles of divorce and conflictHow to create and maintain a safety “bubble” in your relationshipResources:Marriage 365 WebsiteThe Marriage Habit (Book) (search for title)Get in TouchWebsite: MasterYourMarriage.usInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/masteryourmarriageFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/MasterYourMarriage/

Send a textHeart Posture Mini Series, Ep 5Why does surrender to God feel difficult for so many women?Often, the issue isn't behavior—it's order.In the final episode of The Heart Posture Series, Chelsey explains how right order in your life naturally creates the right heart posture toward God, your husband, and your responsibilities.When God is not truly first, pressure, control, resentment, and frustration begin to take root. But when God is restored to His rightful place, humility, peace, and surrender begin to flow naturally.Through Scripture and practical examples, this episode reveals why many wives struggle with surrender—and how realigning your life around God changes everything.In this episode you'll learn:Why surrender feels difficult when life is out of orderThe biblical order God designed for life and marriageHow a right view of God produces humility and trustWhy wives often carry burdens that were never theirs to carryHow restoring God to first place transforms your heart posture and your marriage Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

"Moving Forward by Faith"Genesis 32The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 8, 2026Join us Easter Sunday at our new church building April 5th7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 32:1-12- Genesis 32:21-32- Moving Forward by Faith- To move forward by faith, you'll have to face fear.- What did Jacob have to fear?    - He was stuck between Laban and Esau    - 400 men reported with Esau    - Is Esau still mad and wanting to kill him? (Gen 27:44-45)    - Past sin catching up with him?- Genesis 32:7-8- Genesis 32:9-12- When faced with fear, you can move forward with your own ideas or you can move forward with God, it's your choice. - 2 Timothy 1:7- To move forward by faith, you'll have have to lose a fight.- Genesis 32:21-23- Genesis 32:24- Jacob didn't wrestle with God, God wrestled with Jacob.- Genesis 32:24-25- God didn't break Jacob to destroy him, but to form him to greater faith and dependence on Him.- Genesis 32:25-26- When God comes to wrestle, you win when you realize you've lost.- Matthew 16:25- To move forward by faith, you'll have a new name and a new walk.- Genesis 32:27-28- Israel: Sarah (rules/prevails) + el (God) = he rules with God- Daniel is not “he judges God” but “God judges”   Samuel is not “he heard God” but “God hears”- Israel is not “he rules with God” but “God rules”- 2 Corinthians 5:17- Genesis 32:31Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"When God Blesses Somebody Else"Genesis 31The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeMarch 1, 2026Join us Easter Sunday at our new church building April 5th7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 31:1-7- Genesis 31:22-24- Genesis 31:36-42- Genesis 31:55- When God Blesses Somebody Else- Envy- Genesis 31:1-2- Envy is the sin of anger at the God-given gifts enjoyed by others.- 5 Dangers of Envy- Envy is an unsought, serious sin- 1 Corinthians 3:3 (envy is worldly)- James 3:13-16 (envy is demonic)- Titus 3:3 (envy is fruit of your old nature before Christ)- Matthew 27:17-18 ESV (envy put Jesus on the cross)- Envy provides unlimited opportunity for sin- 1 Samuel 18:6-9- “It is so very easy a thing to be covetous, that no class of society is free from it.” Charles Spurgeon- Envy turns allies into enemies.- Genesis 31:4-7, 9- “The rival moon is unable to share the sky with the sun for fear to discover itself to be the lesser light.” Greg Morse- Envy makes false assumptions about yourself, others, and God.- “God owes me what He has given them.”- “God's plan for their life is God's plan for my life.”- “God's plans are mixed up, His choices are uninformed, and his goodness needs to be redistributed.” - Envy chokes you out of a godly life- “Envy reverses the biblical ordering - ‘rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep' (Rom 12:15), to , ‘weep at those who rejoice and rejoice over those who weep.'” Joe Rigney- How to overcome envy:- Gratitude- 1 Corinthians 4:7- James 1:17- John 3:26-27- Confession- Pray for those you envy- If you envy someone, it positions you against them. If you pray for someone, it positions you with them.- Trust and delight in God- Psalm 37:1-4Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.onlineOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

In this message from our Sermon on the Mount series, Dr. T teaches through what Jesus says about marriage, divorce, remarriage, lust, holiness, and covenant faithfulness in Matthew 5 and Matthew 19.Marriage is one of the most meaningful relationships this side of heaven. It can also be one of the most painful. Whether your marriage is thriving, struggling, has ended in divorce, or you are navigating remarriage or singleness, this message centers on one clear truth:God always makes a way.Jesus brings us back to God's original design in Genesis. One man. One woman. One lifetime. Deep emotional and physical intimacy. When sin fractures what God intended, God does not abandon His people. He provides mercy, grace, and a path toward redemption.In this teaching, Dr. T addresses:What Jesus means by sexual immoralityWhy holiness is essential for healthy relationshipsGod's design for marriageHow the Bible speaks about divorce in Deuteronomy, Malachi, Jeremiah, and MatthewWhen divorce may be permissible in cases of abandonment, abuse, or adulteryHow remarriage can reflect God's redeeming graceEncouragement for those who are singleNo matter your story, Jesus meets you with truth and grace. You do not have to walk through marriage, divorce, or singleness alone.For more resources or to learn more about Trace Church in Colorado Springs, visit us online or join us for a weekend service.Service Times8:15a | 10:00a | 11:45a | 5:00p4330 Mark Dabling Blvd, Colorado Springs

Romance is great, but it's not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we're shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don't fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you've felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track.DiscoverWhy “me over we” creates constant friction in marriageHow conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issueThe simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we firstWhat we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actionsHow to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun againPractical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishnessA weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every dayKey Points Discussed“Real love is not me first—it's you first.”“Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”“Love doesn't insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.”Bible Verses MentionedJames 4:1Philippians 2:3Romans 12:10Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 13:5Question for youWhere have you been putting me over we, and what's one small way you can put your spouse first this week?Call to ActionIf this encouraged you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with a couple who needs a reset.And drop a comment: What's your one act of selflessness this week?#MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SelflessLove #MarriageGoals #FaithAndMarriage

Send a textRomance is great, but it's not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we're shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don't fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you've felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track.DiscoverWhy “me over we” creates constant friction in marriageHow conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issueThe simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we firstWhat we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actionsHow to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun againPractical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishnessA weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every dayKey Points Discussed“Real love is not me first—it's you first.”“Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”“Love doesn't insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.”Bible Verses MentionedJames 4:1Philippians 2:3Romans 12:10Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 13:5Question for youWhere have you been putting me over we, and what's one small way you can put your spouse first this week?Call to ActionIf this encouraged you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with a couple who needs a reset.And drop a comment: What's your one act of selflessness this week?#MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SelflessLove #MarriageGoals #FaithAndMarriage

"Broken People, Faithful God"Genesis 29, 30The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Casey SteenFebruary 22, 2026Join us at our new church building for Sunday services starting at 9am & 11am7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts.We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women's questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single.From attraction and lust to respect, purity, romance, and real life intimacy, this conversation pulls back the curtain on how a man's perspective evolves inside marriage.We'll talk about:Whether a man really “just knows” she's the oneThe hardest adjustment in the first year of marriageHow their view of physical attraction changed after getting marriedThe difference between attraction and lust from a married perspectiveWhat respect actually feels like to a husbandWhether women are unrealistic for wanting a man who does not watch pornHow married men pursue purity during seasons without sexWhat keeps a marriage strong long termWhat kills connection the fastestWhat turned out to be better than expectedIf you are single and trying to choose wisely, this episode will help you see past chemistry and into character.If you are married, it may help you understand your husband more than you expected.

"Is this where it ends?"Genesis 11:27-32Guest Pastor Bishop Michael Grant is the pastor of Evangel Tabernacle in Old Harbour, JamaicaFebruary 15, 2026Join us at our new church building for Sunday services starting at 9am & 11am7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 11:27-32- Is this where it ends?Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Most Catholic families treat Lent like a 40‑day diet instead of a 40‑day transformation for their homes. In this episode, we show you how to stop “giving up chocolate and quitting by week two” and start using Lent as boot camp for your marriage and family.We're talking to Catholic couples and families who are tired of going through the motions—Ash Wednesday, fish fries, a small sacrifice—and then hitting Easter with nothing really different in their hearts or homes. Instead of random Lenten promises, we walk you through a simple, 5-part framework to help you actually grow closer to God, closer to your spouse, and closer as a family.In this episode, you'll hear about:Why most Catholic families quietly waste Lent year after yearHow to think of Lent as spiritual training, not just punishment or “ Catholic dieting”A simple way to treat these 40 days as a reset for your marriageHow to start leading your kids spiritually in small, realistic waysA practical, 5-part plan that makes Lent doable in real family life (without becoming monks)This conversation is for:Catholic couples who want a stronger, more prayerful marriageCatholic parents who want to bring their kids into Lent in a meaningful wayFamilies who feel spiritually “stuck” and want a clear, simple Lenten planAnyone who's ever started Lent strong and fizzled out by the second weekWe're not just talking about little sacrifices—we're talking about real transformation in your home.

Send a textHow do you guard your heart without turning intimacy into something tense, controlled, or exhausting?In this episode, Chelsey clarifies a critical distinction many Christian wives miss: biblical guarding is not the same as control. While Scripture calls us to guard against the flesh, the world, and the enemy, guarding was never meant to replace trust in God—or become a form of fear-based management.This episode teaches how to protect intimacy from a place of authority, peace, and right order—without hyper-vigilance, micromanaging, or emotional exhaustion.Inside this episode:The difference between guarding and controllingWhy fear-based vigilance damages intimacyHow heart posture determines whether guarding brings peace or pressureWhat biblical stewardship actually looks like in marriageHow to protect intimacy without becoming the Holy SpiritIf guarding your heart has started to feel heavy, anxious, or exhausting—this episode will reset your framework and restore peace. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

It's easy to think love in marriage is only shown through romance, gifts, or intimacy. But one of the most powerful ways to show love to your spouse is through healthy boundaries. Boundaries aren't about control, distance, or keeping your spouse out, they're about respect, emotional safety, and creating a marriage where both of you feel valued, understood, and protected.In this week's episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we sit down with therapist and expert Austin to talk about boundaries in marriage. Many couples wonder: Is it too late to set boundaries after years of marriage? What happens if we never established them early on? The answer is no, it's never too late. Boundaries can be set at any stage of your marriage, and when implemented with intention, they actually strengthen connection, trust, and intimacy.Boundaries teach your spouse how to love you in the way you need. They show care by clarifying expectations, protecting your emotional space, and fostering mutual respect. Without boundaries, couples can unintentionally hurt each other, feel resentment, or struggle with emotional closeness. Whether you've experienced betrayal, miscommunication, or just want to prevent hurt from ever happening, boundaries are a key tool for maintaining a healthy, loyal, and passionate marriage.In this episode, we talk about:Why boundaries are an essential act of love in marriageHow to set boundaries together as a couple, even if you're years into marriageThe boundaries we personally feel are most important and whyHow boundaries protect your emotional connection and help you prioritize your spouseHow implementing boundaries prevents small conflicts from becoming big issuesWe also discuss real-life examples and practical tips for couples to start setting boundaries today, plus guidance on how to communicate your needs respectfully and effectively. Boundaries aren't about rules or rigidity—they're about creating a safe, loving environment where both spouses can thrive emotionally, mentally, and physically.If you've ever asked yourself, “Is it too late to set boundaries in my marriage?” or “Will my spouse understand what I need?”, this episode is for you. You'll learn how boundaries can actually bring you closer, deepen trust, and enhance intimacy. Austin shares expert insights, and we share personal stories and lessons that make these principles relatable and actionable for every couple.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

"The Power of God's Presence"Genesis 28:10-22The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeFebruary 8, 2026Join us at our new church building for Sunday services starting at 9am & 11am7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 28:10-22- The Power of God's Presence- God's presence meets us where we are.- Genesis 28:11-12- “The God of Bethel is a God who does concern himself with the things of earth, not a God who shuts himself up in heaven, but God who hath a ladder fixed between heaven and earth.” Charles Spurgeon  - God's presence will meet us in tough places  - God's presence will meet us in mundane places- Every generation needs an encounter with God's presence.- Genesis 28:13-15- God's presence moves us.  - God's presence moves us towards worship.  - Genesis 28:16-18  - God's presence moves us forward patiently.  - Genesis 28:20-22- God says: I am the LORD, I will give you…, I am with you, I will not leave you  Jacob says: If God be with me, in the way I am going, give me bread and clothes, so I can go back to my Father's house- God's presence is available to you today through Jesus- John 1:51- John 14:6Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

"The Danger of Righteous Pursuit"Genesis 27:1-35The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeFebruary 1, 2026Join us at our new church building for Sunday services starting at 9am & 11am7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 27:1-35- The Danger of Righteous Pursuit- You don't have to get to a righteous destination via a sinful route.- Genesis 25:23- Genesis 27:8-9- Don't simply pursue righteous things, pursue them in righteous ways. - Danger: Short cutting God's principles in order to pursue God's promises.- Danger: Doing the wrong thing to get to the right place will often involve using God's name the wrong way. - Genesis 27:20- Matthew 4:5-6- Matthew 4:8-9- Zechariah 4:6- If you get to a righteous destination via a sinful route, you will have consequences to pay.- Genesis 27:41-45- Galatians 6:7-8- Man can be mocked, but God won't be.- God can and God will fulfill His Word in and through our lives despite our mistakes.- Isaiah 40:8- 2 Corinthians 1:20- Acts 5:39- Romans 6:1-2- A believers ultimate confidence is not in their ability to accomplish God's Word, but in God's ability to do so despite themselves. - Galatians 3:3- Zechariah 4:6Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

Do you wish you had someone to understand what you're going through or have been through?When you fall in love with someone, you're never thinking about mental illness. You're drawn in by energy, charm, chemistry — and in my case, all of that came with a hidden battle: bipolar disorder. This is my deeply personal journey of being married to someone with undiagnosed bipolar — and how it changed everything. If you're navigating mental illness in your marriage or loving someone with a diagnosis, this podcast is your space to feel seen, understood, and supported.On this podcast I share the whirlwind beginning of my relationship with my husband — how his magnetic energy and intense focus made me feel alive and unstoppable. But beneath the charm was a mental health struggle that would dramatically reshape our marriage. This trailer sets the stage for I Married Bipolar, a podcast told from the perspective of the partner — raw, real, and rooted in love and resilience. I also speak to the community that's grown around my story, and my mission to make sure no one feels alone with bipolar again. Key Takeaways of this PodcastThe emotional journey of loving someone with undiagnosed bipolar disorder in a marriageHow intense connection can mask early warning signs of mental health challenges in relationshipsThe lived experience of a spouse navigating bipolar disorder from a faith-informed lensThe trauma, abandonment fears, and rebuilding that come with a bipolar diagnosis in long-term relationshipsThe power of community in supporting partners of those with bipolar disorderConnect with TempleTempleleffingwell@gmail.comInstagramFacebookAmazon / Kindle"Whoops, I Married Bipolar: An Inside Look at A Real Relationship with Mental Illness" Book / AudioBookLinksHeart Healers Brain GangMajor TransformationHealing Foundation90 Minute One on One Post Production for I Married Bipolar is done by:OceanTreeCreative@gmail.com

Division is everywhere—politics, social media, opinions, and constant noise competing for our attention. And if we're not careful, that division doesn't just stay “out there”… it finds its way into our marriages.In this January 2026 episode of Marriage Monthly, we talk honestly about how couples can stay united in a divided world. We explore why so many marriages are being discipled more by headlines than Scripture—and how refocusing on shared values, respect, and intentional connection can bring strength, peace, and unity back into your relationship.This conversation is practical, faith-filled, and deeply encouraging for couples navigating today's cultural tension together.In this episode, you'll discover:Why division outside your marriage often creates division inside itHow shared values matter more than shared preferencesPractical ways to respect differences without letting them divide youGround rules for healthy conflict that protect unityWhy bonding memories are one of the most powerful tools for marriageHow to be proactive instead of reactive in strengthening your relationshipWhat is one step you and your spouse can take this week to focus more on what unites you than what divides you?If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to like, subscribe, and share it with another couple who could use it. And let us know in the comments—what helps your marriage stay united in a divided world?#MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageUnity #HealthyMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #StrongMarriages #MarriagePodcast

Send us a textDivision is everywhere—politics, social media, opinions, and constant noise competing for our attention. And if we're not careful, that division doesn't just stay “out there”… it finds its way into our marriages.In this January 2026 episode of Marriage Monthly, we talk honestly about how couples can stay united in a divided world. We explore why so many marriages are being discipled more by headlines than Scripture—and how refocusing on shared values, respect, and intentional connection can bring strength, peace, and unity back into your relationship.This conversation is practical, faith-filled, and deeply encouraging for couples navigating today's cultural tension together.In this episode, you'll discover:Why division outside your marriage often creates division inside itHow shared values matter more than shared preferencesPractical ways to respect differences without letting them divide youGround rules for healthy conflict that protect unityWhy bonding memories are one of the most powerful tools for marriageHow to be proactive instead of reactive in strengthening your relationshipWhat is one step you and your spouse can take this week to focus more on what unites you than what divides you?If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to like, subscribe, and share it with another couple who could use it. And let us know in the comments—what helps your marriage stay united in a divided world?#MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageUnity #HealthyMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #StrongMarriages #MarriagePodcast

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Resentment doesn't show up overnight—and it doesn't mean your marriage is broken.In this episode, I break down why resentment builds quietly in marriages, especially after kids.I share:Why resentment builds gradually instead of in one big momentHow unspoken expectations turn into emotional shutdown and loss of intimacyThe connection between resentment, self-abandonment, and feeling like roommatesWhy saving your partner from conflict doesn't protect your marriageHow early, honest conversations soften resentment and rebuild partnershipIf you've been feeling disconnected, less playful, less flirtatious, or emotionally closed off—this episode will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface and how to start shifting it.Resource Mentioned:Download the Conflict To Connection Guide here!Ready to actively rebuild connection in your marriage? Book a clarity call to learn how getting support through marriage coaching can help you!Thanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoachingIf you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Support the show

"The Dangers of Forfeiting Your Own Advantages"Genesis 25:19-34The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeJanuary 18, 2026Join us February 1st for the GRAND OPENING of our new church building Sunday services start at 9am & 11am7339 Atlee Road, Mechanicsville VAHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8SERMON NOTES:- Genesis 25:19-34- The Dangers of Forfeiting Your Own Advantages- Genesis 25:21- Genesis 25:22-23- ESAU:    - “hairy / rough”    - A man of the woods    - Preferred by his father, Isaac    - Worldly, flesh, no spiritual desire- JACOB:    - “Heel / one who grasps”    - A man of the home    - Preferred by his mother, Rebekah    - Chosen by God, divine promise (Romans 8)- Birthright:    - A double portion of property / wealth (material)    - Head of family line, patriarch     - Spiritual head of family, priests - Beware of your tendency to be like Esau- Hebrews 12:14-17- Those who follow Esau:    - Are in a spiritual line without a spiritual desire    - Have a celebratory emphasis on inferior things       - Genesis 25:28    - Allow their flesh to blind them of realities      - Genesis 25:32a    - Make natural excuses for spiritual circumstances      - Genesis 25:31-33- Esau forfeits spiritual things for material things- Esau forfeits eternal things for temporary things- Genesis 25:34- Ephesians 1:3 Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Mechanicsville outside Richmond in Central Virginia.STAY CONNECTEDInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/Website: https://oasischurch.online

As we settle into the heart of winter, the world outside our windows carries an unmistakable chill. Unfortunately, during this time of the year, many couples can start to feel like matters inside their household are growing cold, too. Did you know that January is also known as “divorce month” because a surge of separations occur around this time?If this resonates with you, you may have felt the tension intensify in your relationship this past holiday season. Perhaps you felt miles apart from your spouse, and you are losing the hope or motivation to try to find your way back to one another again. If you are in a place of hurt or discouragement today, this episode is for you!Our guest knows a thing or two about navigating the frigid seasons a marriage can encounter. Lindsey Maestas is a relationship expert, writer, speaker, and the creator of The Wife Project, an incredibly popular course that has impacted thousands of marriages. She is also the author of the amazing new book, Don't Burn Your Own House Down, which guides readers on how to build a marriage that lasts.In this episode, Lindsey shares:How the little moments can make a BIG differenceSteps you can take today to restore your marriageHow “tech interference” can create divisionAnd much more!We hope you enjoy this conversation!Show Notes: growinghometogether.com/lindsey-maestas-122

"Finishing by Faith"Genesis 25:1-11The Book of Genesis Series - In The Beginning, GodPastor Nate ClarkeJanuary 11, 2026WE'RE MOVING! Starting February 1st our Sunday morning services will be at our new permanent church home at 7339 Atlee Road in Mechanicsville VA. Join us for our GRAND OPENING services at 9am and 11am.How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Have you heard the news about the FUTURE of Oasis Church?https://www.oasischurch.online/futureSERMON NOTES:- Genesis 25:1-11- Finishing by Faith- Every season is different, but God remains involved and faithful through them all.- “Let us be alert to the season in which we are living. It is the season of blessed hope, calling for us to cut our ties with the world and build ourselves on the One who will soon appear.” AW Tozer- God's story began before us, and will continue after us.- John 8:58- Genesis 25:11- Your story will end, but God's story doesn't.- In light of, or in spite of your story thus far, you can live by faith today and finish well.- Hebrews 11:8-9- Genesis 25:7-8- Hebrews 11:13a- What does it mean to die in the faith?- To be doing Kingdom work that you know you won't finish- Hebrews 11:13b- To long for your home country - Hebrews 11:14-16- The Christian Way —C.S. LewisOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/

"Sacred Things"2 Samuel 6:3-7Pastor Nate ClarkeJanuary 4, 2025WE'RE MOVING! Starting February 1st our Sunday morning services will be at our new permanent church home at 7339 Atlee Road in Mechanicsville VA. Join us for our GRAND OPENING services at 9am and 11am.How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Have you heard the news about the FUTURE of Oasis Church?https://www.oasischurch.online/futureSERMON NOTES:- SACRED THINGS- Do not treat sacred things as though they are common- 2 Samuel 6:6-7- You'll mismanage and miss the fullness of sacred things if you see them as common things.- Why do sacred things get treated as common?  1. We get our orders from the world, not from God  - 2 Samuel 6:3a  - 2. We become so familiar with them- The gathering of the church is sacred- 1 Corinthians 12:15-20- What happens at the gathered church?  1. Encouragement from the body  - Hebrews 10:24-25  2. Praise & Worship  - Hebrews 13:15  3. The preaching of God's Word  4. The giving of tithes and offerings  5. The teaching of the next generation  - Psalm 145:3-4  6. The prayers of the righteous  - James 5:15-16- Your salvation is sacred- Ephesians 2:4-5 - Psalm 51:12- “Preach the gospel to yourself every day because every day you forget the gospel.” Martin LutherOasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/

In this powerful verse-by-verse teaching through 1 Corinthians chapters 6–7, we dive deep into the biblical foundations of marriage, purity, sexuality, and God's design for covenant relationships. Paul addresses the Corinthian church in a time of intense immorality and confusion—much like our culture today—and brings clarity on what it means to honor God with our bodies, our commitments, and our marriages.In this teaching we cover:Why sexual purity matters and how it affects your spiritual lifeThe body as the temple of the Holy SpiritGod's blueprint for marriage and singlenessWhat the Bible says about divorce, remarriage, and covenant faithfulnessPractical wisdom for husbands, wives, and those preparing for marriageHow to live set apart in a culture of compromiseTo sow into this stream Monthly/ONE time/ https://bit.ly/2NRIBcM PAYPAL https://shorturl.at/eJY57www.Isaiahsaldivar.com www.Instagram.com/Isaiahsaldivar www.Facebook.com/Isaiahsaldivar www.youtube.com/IsaiahsaldivarOrder My New Book, “How To Cast Out Demons,” Here! https://a.co/d/87NYEfcTo sow www.Isaiahsaldivar.com/partner

"At Your Word"Luke 5:1-11Kyle Van Dyke serves as an elder at Oasis ChurchDecember 28, 2025We're moving! Starting February 1st our Sunday morning services will be at our new permanent church home at 7339 Atlee Road in Mechanicsville VA.How should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Have you heard the news about the FUTURE of Oasis Church?https://www.oasischurch.online/futureSERMON NOTES:- At Your Word- Luke 5:1-11 (NIV)- Verse 1 – Hunger for the Word of God- Verse 2 – Washing nets- Verse 3 – Jesus gets in Simon's boat- Verse 4 and 5 – Jesus' command and Simon's reluctant response- Verse 6 and 7 – Jesus fills the nets- Jesus does not ask us for our skills but to surrender to his commands.- Verse 8 – Simon's realization- Isaiah 6:1-8 (NIV)- Verse 9 – Astonishment- Verse 10 – Jesus' invitation- Verse 11 – True discipleship- True discipleship is not leaving because you have nothing but leaving even when you have everything.- Psalm 19:7-11 (NIV)Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/

"Prepare your Worship"Matthew 2:1-12Advent SeriesPastor Nate ClarkeDecember 21, 2025Christmas Eve Candlelight service is Wednesday, December 24th at 4:30pmHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Have you heard the news about the FUTURE of Oasis Church?https://www.oasischurch.online/futureSERMON NOTES:- Matthew 2:1-12- Prepare Your Worship- King Herod (this is the first response to Jesus)- Matthew 2:2-3- King Herod: open hatred and hostility toward God- A hostile heart toward God has their misconceived lordship and realities threatened by God's ultimate truth and Lordship.- Acts 9:1-5- Priest & Scribes (this is the second response to Jesus)- Matthew 2:4-5- Priest & Scribes: Indifference towards God; maintained religious respectability- An indifferent heart toward God can often answer about God, but is not concerned about answering to God.- The wise men (this is the third response to Jesus)- Matthew 2:1, 9-10- Wise men: hungry & worshipful hearts- A hungry heart will look to see God. Those who see God will worship God. Those who worship God will bring their best to Him.- Gold: kingship, royalty, authority- “Before he mounts the throne, friends bring him presents, and his enemies compass his death.” Charles Spurgeon- Frankincense: God with us, divinity (Exodus 30:34-38)- Hebrews 4:14-15- Myrrh: death, suffering savior (John 19:39)- Isaiah 53:4-7- Is your worship more of a reflection of you or a reflection of who Jesus is?Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/

“I don't know if it's time, but what I do know is I know where the road to nowhere goes, and it goes to nowhere. And I want to take the road to somewhere. Somewhere has road signs like, you can do this, you accomplish this, you're going to feel good about yourself.” – Mike Burkhard Today's featured bestselling author duo are grandparents and have been together for 44 years and counting. One is a speaker and a former HR executive in global technology companies. Their tag partner is an entrepreneur-at-heart, certified health coach, and trained yoga instructor. They are Mike and Karen Burkhard. Mike and Karen have a fun on a bun chat about their new book, “Re-Discovering the Treasures of Life: 52 Stories of Goodness”, combating negativity in today's world, the liberating power of self-acceptance, and more!!Key Things You'll Learn:What helped Mike & Karen deepen their bond throughout their 44-year marriageHow storytelling can unite us despite our differencesWhat inspired them to write their book, “Re-Discovering the Treasures of Life”What is Mike's favorite story from the book, and how it inspires him to keep goingWhat helps them stay grounded and positiveMike's FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/mike.burkhard.487695/Karen's FB Page: https://www.facebook.com/karen.burkhard.1Mike's Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B08514KX5P/allbooksThe opening track is titled, “Unknown From M.E. | Sonic Adventure 2 ~ City Pop Remix” by Iridium Beats. To listen to and download the full track, click the following link. https://www.patreon.com/posts/sonic-adventure-136084016 Please support today's podcast to keep this content coming! CashApp: $DomBrightmonDonate on PayPal: @DBrightmonBuy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dombrightmonGet Going North T-Shirts, Stickers, and More: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/dom-brightmonThe Going North Advancement Compass: https://a.co/d/bA9awotYou May Also Like…Ep. 1010 – How Writing Together Can Transform Lives with Gregory Copploe & Dani Forrest: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1010-how-writing-together-can-transform-lives-with-gregory-copploe-dani-forrest/Ep. 979 – From Anthills to Authorship with Ron Kinscherf (@Papatellmeabook): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-979-from-anthills-to-authorship-with-ron-kinscherf-papatellmeabook/Ep. 1014 – The Grampion's Way To Building Unbreakable Character with Jim Tracy (@Towerjim): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1014-the-grampions-way-to-building-unbreakable-character-with-jim-tracy-towerjim/Ep. 1013 – Fabricating Forgotten Treasures Into A Life Of Adventure, Purpose, & Profit with Kira Hartley Klinger: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1013-fabricating-forgotten-treasures-into-a-life-of-adventure-purpose-profit-with-kira-har/Ep. 624 – “Got to Be Different” with Larkin and Shirley Weber: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-624-got-to-be-different-with-larkin-and-shirley-weber/#Bonus Ep. – “Digital Detox” with Molly DeFrank (@mollydefrank): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/bonus-ep-digital-detox-with-molly-defrank-mollydefrank/Ep. 1012 – How Happy People Think & Rebound From Disappointment with Andrew Byrnes Matthews: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1012-how-happy-people-think-rebound-from-disappointment-with-andrew-byrnes-matthews/Ep. 709 – “The Power of Identity, Faith, and Leadership in Business” with Tom Kereszti (@Tom_Kereszti): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-709-the-power-of-identity-faith-and-leadership-in-business-with-tom-kereszti-tom_kereszt/Ep. 713 – “Down Set Lead!” with Rod Bourn: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-713-down-set-lead-with-rod-bourn/Ep. 470.5 – “Business and Personal Secrets for Avoiding Relationship Landmines” with Frank Zaccari (@FZaccari): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-4705-business-and-personal-secrets-for-avoiding-relationship-landmines-with-frank-zaccari-fzaccari/

"Prepare your Schedule"Luke 2:5-7; Luke 3:3-6Advent SeriesPastor Nate ClarkeDecember 14, 2025Christmas Eve Candlelight service is Wednesday, December 24th at 4:30pmHow should Christians respond to wickedness in the world? https://youtu.be/2OJUIM9YRwAVirginia's proposed Constitutional amendments on Abortion & Marriage - How to VOTE BIBLICALLY: https://youtu.be/Y8z8xTFsOn8Have you heard the news about the FUTURE of Oasis Church?https://www.oasischurch.online/futureSERMON NOTES:- Luke 2:5-7- Luke 3:3-6- Prepare Your Schedule- “If the devil cannot make you bad, he will make you busy.” Corrie Boom- Galatians 5:22-23- “Busy is not godly. Busyness can be an ego trip; it can be showing off. We want to appear indispensable.” Elisabeth Elliot- “Beware of the barrenness of a busy life.” Oswald Chambers- Busy:   - frantic   - reactive   - hurried- Mark 5:22-34- Full:   - Intentional   - Prepared   - Selective- “We must allow ourselves to be interrupted by God.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer- Luke 10:38-42- Luke 2:5-7- Luke 3:4- Luke 3:5-6- God will find a place to reveal Himself. Will He find it in your life or have to go elsewhere?Oasis Church exists to Worship God, Equip the believers, and Reach the lost.We are led by Pastor Nate Clarke and are located in Richmond, VA.Stay Connected:Website: https://oasischurch.online Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oasischurchva/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OasisChurchRVA/

What do you do when you find out the person you love has been hiding something from you?In this painfully honest episode, Jenna Zint sits down with us to talk about discovering her husband's porn addiction and what actually happens to your heart, your trust, and your identity when the truth comes out.If you have ever been hit with that gut-drop moment where you start thinking, “Wait… what else don't I know?” this conversation is for you. Jenna talks openly about the messy parts: the insecurity, the anger, the questions, the shame, the hope, and the slow, awkward rebuild that most people never talk about.We talk about:What the first 24 hours after finding out really feel likeThe emotions that make sense and the ones that keep you stuckHow to know if it is a one-time mistake or a patternWhat to do if this happens while you are dating or engagedHow to ask honest questions without turning into the detective girlfriendWhat real freedom from porn actually looks likeRed flags that someone is not ready for marriageHow to heal when you are the one who is hurtingWhat rebuilding trust and intimacy looks like when everything feels different nowIf you have ever asked yourself, “Was I not enough?” or wondered whether God can redeem something this painful, this episode will give you clarity, peace, and a way forward.