The Male Doula: Birth Stories

This has been one one the hardest collections of birth stories I've ever recorded. It has taken Charley over a year to be able to discuss the 3rd birth in this collection of 3 stories and you must listen to the end. Hear how home-birth teams use home-birth kits as a tool to get into your home, you safe place, and then pressure you into birthing at the hospital. Also feel the power as a child sees birth a relates to her mother "Mummy, you roared as you gave birth". Coercion has been taken to all new levels as Charley relates how she felt she had no instinct left in her and everything had gradually been striped away. What would you reply to "You're baby wouldn't forgive you for that" or "nearly every woman that come in here has induction...accept it"? Charley, who you can find on Instagram as @sidebysidedoulaandtherapy is now a doula and advocating and holding space as the powerful woman she is. Please visit her account while you listen to this heart wrenching podcast. Find the birthkeeping services you need anywhere in the world at: MyBirthKeeper.com

Miscarriage is something many won't, don't or can't talk about. I feel truly humbled and blessed to talk to Harry Potter star, Danni Tabor about her and her husband J's birth story. We never know exactly what causes a baby to stop growing and sadly pass away before being born, but we do hear theories. These theories can be cruel and uncaring. This amazing lady talks about the realities for her and her partner in facing more than their miscarriages alone.  Actress turned Wellbeing Coach and Gym owner Danni not only talks about miscarriage and the effects on a relationship but also of the loss of her mother and the need to feel the love her mum had for her, towards her own child. Hear the urgency that she felt to get pregnant and the tears we both had as she spoke of her repeated loss. There is a beautiful conclusion to our chat together that is also the beginning of an amazing journey for her as a mother and wife and J as a husband and father. We can all learn much from Danni & J about the need for empathy from NHS staff when discussing miscarriage and what to expect from a hospital environment if you face this tragic event. Quotes in this podcast: "We had some sex and I got pregnant!" "I'm really good at being okay!" "There was an urgency to get pregnant...my mum was going to be at the birth" "Awareness is what I preach." "..this one time, we had sex." Mentions in this podcast: The Male Doula MyBirthkeeper.com BirthEd The Birth Uprising (Alix & Jade) & Claire Kemi... again. Love this woman. Woomly - Meena. Fertility and Birth Coach Nurtured Mother - Naomi Tulson

Hear the journey of Luiza, a doula, as she goes through feelings of despair and guilt about not being able to carry a baby full term, for herself and husband. Be amazed at the new technique being used by an NHS antenatal specialist called the "Fingers Crossed" approach. This is where you aren't touched or physically examined, but the specialist looks you up and down holds both hands in the air with their fingers crossed and says "lets hope for the best!". Graphic warning! This podcast contains graphic descriptions of actions against an Obstetrician. Luiza also talks about her diet of Chorizo and Cava Quotes in this podcast: "Do you ever doubt the poo is going to come out?" "The 5G, bat virus microchip they've inserted" "...doctors were at a theatre watching a play" "As a woman, I felt completely broken" "Her talking to me was annoying" "Sophia is my Rainbow baby" Mentions in this podcast: Bowen Bexley Kemi Johnson - midwife Amber Strong - doula

This amazing Australian midwife (Four & Beyond on Instagram) tells her story as she experienced the other side of birth in a hospital. From being told that they won't see her for the first appointment until they "see if this birth sticks" to having a beautiful maternal assisted caesarean. She then talks about the VBAC of 2nd baby and how having knowledge is also how you can make an informed choice. Listen in amazement as professionals in the hospital say they're worried about uterine rupture and her "trying to have a VBAC", then try to give her an induction and make her contractions even stronger. Quotes in this podcast: "We will induce you or cut you open!" "You don't need to be doing that, that's an overreaction!" "Your fluid is fine, your baby is fine...it wasn't!" "The power balance has shifted to me!" "I looked at my CTG and said "Damn, that's gorgeous!"" Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment, and to find out more about having The Male Doula at your next birth".

This is my podcast, recorded over Zoom, with mother of three, entrepreneur and founder of Ossa Organic. We discuss how her company is involved in her birth and life story. Michael, Jack, Thomas and Beau make the rest of these truly inspiring and connected family. A concise story of each of these birth stories will help you with your birth journey. Catherine shows that a HBA2C (Home Birth after two Caesarians) is possible and can be an ecstatic birth. Quotes in this podcast: "Why would I spend money on that?" "Rest is work...we need it to survive" "Take it and grab it with both hands, don't push it away" "Birth is a teacher" "Elective Caesarean! I never elected for anything" "Don't be fear mongered into anything" "You are like a giant balloon... stop leaking air" Mentions in this podcast: Bowen Bexley Ossa Organic #ibirthedinthepandemic Catherine Farrant IG Laura Swann Gemma - Mamatoto IG Kemi Johnson Jane Hardwicke Collings IG

This is a face to face interview with Charlotte who birthed baby Archie during lockdown. Charlotte had more midwifes than she can remember and one overworked midwife actually passed out and was taken to A&E. Charlotte was asked to lay on back to birth her posterior position baby. "You're only 1cm, you've got at least 24 hours before baby will be born" and then told "I've ramped up the IV as it will push this posterior baby out!" by the midwife. That was until she decided to tell Charlotte that she wasn't going to have this baby naturally anyway. Find out what happens next, it's scary! Quotes in this podcast: "...sneezed and wet myself 3 times, it was actually my waters going" "Please come in. Would you like to check my cervix, again" "I've ramped up the IV as it will push this baby out" "you're only 1cm, you've got at least 24 hours..." "I had all the control taken away from me" Mentions in this Podcast: Bowen Bexley - Pregnancy and Birth Specialist The Male Doula Charlotte Mullender

This is a Zoom interview with @themotherlovingdoulauk Abbi Leibert. We discuss the benefits of having a doula and what a doula is. We then discuss the hashtag campaign #butnotmaternity and how things are constantly changing in the NHS and what you can do to work with them for the best possible birth, in the current climate. Hear how Abbi and other doulas got together and created something amazing that is changing NHS regulations and attitudes across the uk. Quotes in this podcast: "I was tokophobic ... but made excuses" "They don't teach you this in biology class when you're 14" "Lots of partners weren't making it in time" "I've got an option, I should have a choice in this" Mentions in this Podcast: Alexia Leachman - Fear Free Childbirth Mars Lord BUTNOTMATERNITY The Mother Loving Doula Birth Bliss Sarah Wickham - Induction NHS, Coronavirus and Pregnancy Bowen Bexley - Pregnancy and Birth Specialist

This is my podcast with the amazing woman and doula, Ursula. Hear her birth story from the tropical island of Maui and how it ended up back in Brighton, England. This is a story of strength, focus and power as she uses her intuition through pressures from all sides and births her son, Koa, exactly as she visioned. Quotes in this podcast: "I moved out into the jungle and worked the land" "If my life is being threatened, then my babies life is being threatened" "Remember this moment, you are giving birth right now" "I would 100% have a doula" Mentions in this podcast: Free Birth Society Doulas Without Borders AIMS: for a better birth Peanut App RISE: Freedom from Domestic Abuse Spinning Babies Rescue Remedy NHS

This is a podcast with Eleni of Eleni Bhava Yoga, recorded at home with Eleni and baby Emily. After travelling and learning yoga, Eleni settles birth to have a baby. With a mental picture of breathing baby out at home and in a pool, things don't go quite to plan. Listen as Eleni turns from screams to a lion and roars this baby out. Also find out what the perfect team of people really can look like. Quotes in this podcast: "You have premature ovarian failure!" "I thought I would exhale the baby" "At the birth the Lion came out" "I let instinct take over...the hormones flowed" "I found my religion" Mentions in this podcast: Bhavayoga - by Eleni. Sign up HERE for her amazing courses and see her essential guide to Nutrition, Pregnancy Yoga and Birth. A must for mamas to be. Kemi Birthjoy Johnson - Midwife Laura Swann - Doula Birth Bath by Mumma Medicine. Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment and to find out more about having The Male Doula at your next birth".

Podcast recorded at home with Raissa. We discuss the perfect home water birth, with no medical intervention required turning into 4 midwifes and 2 paramedics trampling through her home, still with no medical interventions required. It then carries on to the hospital with a host of interventions, even though no medical intervention was ever required. Listen now to find out the full story. This podcast does contain some swearing. Quotes in this podcast: "The midwives tag-teamed us..." "I found out about doulas through instagram" "It is important for all involved in your birth to meet the doula" "Research allows you to build a picture of your birth" "I'm all about resilience and courage" Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment and to find out more about having The Male Doula at your next birth".

Podcast over Zoom with Susanna @hampshirebirthing a KG Hypnobirthing trainer. Susanna talks about the birth of her 2 babies and also the loss of a baby. The stories of 2 beautiful hospital births and how preparation and aftercare are so important. Susanna also explains how important it is to talk to partner and friends about miscarriage. Hypnobirthing in a hospital environment is possible. Quotes in this podcast: "Birth is a natural process that sometimes requires medical assistance" - Kemi Johnson "Haemorrhoids the size of walnuts!" "Due dates are a complete fallacy" "..not just for people who want to give birth in a field full of sunflowers" "The biggest thing that stalls labour is leaving your home" Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment. Please also visit these mentioned organisations, charities or individuals: Millie Hill - Books Katherine Graves - Hypnobirthing author Siobhian Miller - Positive Birth Movement Holly de Cruz - @TheYesMumMum Kat Tolliday - Midwife Blossom & Bloom at Hampshire Hospitals

This podcast was recorded via Zoom to Australia. Kerry Sutcliffe, @thehypnobirthingmum, talks about ECV, retained placenta and how far she went past her EDD with all 3 babies. Do you have a Dream Team in mind for your birth? Quotes in this podcast: "Little bit of a jigsaw that all come together." "A positive experience is different to different people." "Birth is fluid." Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment. Please also visit these mentioned organisations, charities or individuals: Hypnobirthing Australia Cope Australia Thehypnobirthingmum hypnobirthingmum.com.au

Belzie and partner Ed had their idea of a perfect birth and they had an incredible team around them, yet it didn't go to plan. Listen to their story and see how off plan a birth can go and yet you still have a birth to be proud of. Quotes in this podcast: "I want to go to the beach and roar this baby out" "I was all the way in the middle of the ocean" "It was me or him, my choice saved us both" Team with Belzie include @belzie.13 @kemibirthjoyjohnson @orgasmicbirth @bowenbexley Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment. Please also visit these mentioned organisations, charities or individuals: Child Birth Choices Matter & (Crowd Funder Page)

Listen to the conclusion of the 6 year journey of Daisie and Dan. This IVF journey hasn't always been an easy one. Birthing their baby during Covid-19 pandemic was an experience you need to hear. Quotes in this podcast: "None of this felt real until I was in labour" "It doesn't help with mental health when you're told you doing this alone" "All I could think was, "at least I got to see him and he is going to be safe"" App called Peanut for answers to birth related questions. Visit Bowen Bexley for gentle and non invasive Birth related treatment.

This is a series of interviews with those who have been involved in a birth. This introduction is about me and what you're going to be hearing from me in future episodes.