The Tearra Show

To fully embrace the new, the old must be released. ✨RECOMMENDED LISTENS✨ ‘‘Trashing' TeacupReject?! | The Long-Awaited “Inevitable” Moment' episode: https://bit.ly/3HKCJeN My Instagram(s): @TeaKupKatt - ( Instagram.com/teakupkatt ) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

This was something that I never even considered doing before... but it's for the best

Bottom line is, you wouldn't have to force what is truly meant for you. This is not to say that you're not capable of achieving what your hearts desire or shouldn't pursue what it is that you feel is right, but as a matter of saying that what is for you will be for you and will come with ease. There is no special or specific code you have to push on in order to get results that is for you/meant for you. ✨RECOMMENDED LISTENS✨ ‘My Thoughts Surrounding Manifestation'' episode: https://bit.ly/37SR3Ts My Instagram: @TeaKupKatt - ( Instagram.com/teakupkatt ) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

So what happened once I've applied the ‘long lost key' to my life…? How did this change my life? Here's my experience

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Even when things don’t make sense, eventually it will. Genuine trust is needed when navigating the unknown. Recorded: January 27th, 2021 Fri For Thought

What’s up you guys!!! I’m back from a month long break, and during that break I’ve been getting a lot of random insights from within myself, so I thought that I should elaborate on some of those insights this month :). At the end of the primary part of this episode, I’m explaining a certain point that I’ve made within the primary part because I didn’t really go into too much detail about it :/ but it explains it. Setting boundaries has been a really complicated process for me over the years and it involved me stripping certain thought processes and beliefs that has made it difficult for me to know when and how to utilize/process them. But over the past few months, and slowly over the past few years, it has gotten a lot more clearer, easier, and identifiable for me. So... yeah, I hope that this episode helps in some way :) Recorded: Jan 27th, 2021 Fri For Thought

There Is ALWAYS Something To Look Forward To :) and I think that this is a reminder that were not allowing things to pass us by when were being patient with ourselves and for the right timing/things to come through for us. There is always something new and something there for us to experience in life, so there is no need to rush the processes but to instead enjoy the flow and to allow ourselves to grow into our being. Most Important Points In The Episode: 22:00 REMINDER: Be smart about the things you do! Never do things that doesn’t resonate with you or where you want to go in life! Fri For Thought

It’s been quite a tough/frustrating time for me trying to figure out where I’m meant to go or what it is that is meant for me to do with my time here on earth. So with this process I’ve realized that its best for me to be patient with myself and to allow myself to just be open to the possibilities, even if its not necessarily clear to me right now. In the mean time, I’ve decided that it is best for me to take a break and reevaluate what I’m doing and where I am going. The good news is that this time around I have myself and I know myself, so with going through this process I will be doing/accepting/aligning with things that comes from the from the heart and things that is for me rather than only doing things because I was told to do it or doing/accepting things that doesn’t bring me joy, happiness, fulfillment, or freedom (but only external ‘stability’ and/or inner emptiness). I don’t know what I’m meant to do, what my purpose is, or what direction to take, but i’m hoping that it all become clear to me soon. Thank you guys so much for tuning into my podcast this year for the past three months! It’s really been an eye opening journey on here for me and with speaking my truth it allowed me to become aware of certain things and gather the strength to make changes in my waking life (as well as see myself in a different/better light). I hope that the episodes that I shared on this podcast with you all thus far has helped you some way shape or form, or has bought awareness to things that you may have turned a blind eye to or lacked understanding for :). Catch me in 2021

Coming from a place of bias can limit you from seeing other perspectives or things that you weren’t aware of in general. I may come back on here and talk more about this topic later on, but for now this is what I wanted to briefly touch on (: I hope it made sense so far

Not all opportunities are ‘golden’... read the fine print. Fri For Thought

It’s so much as to what should you do to get out of a situation rather than waiting/seeing what they should do in order for you to find reasons/excuses to stay in a situation. You shouldn’t have to change for the worst and/or compromise yourself for the other person or situation. You have a choice too. *SOTM ♪ Fair Chance by Thundercat * Need advice or a different perspective on something? Send in a submission by going to my website: www.thetearrashow.wixsite.com/thetearrashow It will be answered on my 'Fri For Thought' podcast segment every Friday :)! ~ Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show ~ It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post my primary segments every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ Also: add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The main question is, are you doing these things (or not doing these things) because its GENUINELY aligning with your values, growth, mindset, and where you want to go, OR, because it’s aligning with someone else’s (and that includes those closest to you as well). Once you GENUINELY answer that question within yourself, that’s when you can make sense of a lot of stuff, as well as make the necessary changes to know/do what’s best for you, your growth, and bettering your mindset/your way of doing things. Be willing to put things into question. *SOTM ♪ Fair Chance by Thundercat * Need advice or a different perspective on something? Send in a submission by going to my website: www.thetearrashow.wixsite.com/thetearrashow It will be answered on my 'Fri For Thought' podcast segment every Friday :)! ~ Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show ~ It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post my primary segments every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ Also: add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Even though unexpected change can disrupt your reality, it is needed in order to redirect you to things/places/situations that you’re suppose to go to/through/experience for the betterment of your reality and growth. By learning to find/see the good in situations/outcomes, it allows you to flow and accept the changes a little bit easier and smoother while undergoing the transitions/changes in your life. *SOTM ♪ Fair Chance by Thundercat* Need advice or a different perspective on something? Send in a submission by going to my website: www.thetearrashow.wixsite.com/thetearrashow It will be answered on my 'Fri For Thought' podcast segment every Friday :)! ~ Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show ~ It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post my primary segments every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ Also: add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

When someone or something tries to take away your warmth and inner glow, you take away their access and redirect that energy into places and situations that will appreciate, reciprocate, protect, cherish, and acknowledge that within you. It all starts with you! Do the proper changes and personal protocols necessary to continue becoming your best self. Need advice or a different perspective on something? Send in a submission by going to my website: www.thetearrashow.wixsite.com/thetearrashow It will be answered on my 'Fri For Thought' podcast segment every Friday :)! ~ Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show ~ It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post my primary segments every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ Also: add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Need advice or a different perspective on something? Send in a submission by going to my website: www.thetearrashow.wixsite.com/thetearrashow It will be answered on my 'Fri For Thought' podcast segment every Friday :)! ~ Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show ~ It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ Also: add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Add me on Instagram @TeaKupKatt :) Subscribe To My Podcast: The Tearra Show It’s Available on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Breaker, Overcast, Pocket Cast, & Radio Public. I post every Tuesday at any random time :) ❤️ New series coming soon as well, so stay tuned...

This experience showed me that allowing/staying in the same environment can hinder you from exploring/embracing new ones. Sometimes what you know isn’t what is for you and that’s okay. But let’s just put it this way. Create an environment that is tailor made for you and your growth. Allow it to come in and bloom by making SPACE. Also, allow yourself to make the necessary changes in order embrace/accept it in. Be willing to step into the unknown. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

It’s like there’s this part of me that’s trying to come up to be unearthed and bloom/blossom. How will/can I cultivate this...

Damn if you do, damn if you don’t. At the end of the day, we shouldn’t feel as though we limited ourselves by settling for things/situations/outcomes that doesn’t resonate or feel right. Heck, we shouldn’t feel as though we’re settling in life to begin with. Change the script if need be. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Be bold enough to create a shift in energies in order to cultivate a new reality within and outside of yourself (for the better). --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

When things no longer seem to resonate with who you are and where you are going, it is causing you to step into a new aspect of yourself that is waiting to be discovered and utilized for your highest good. While it can sometimes be a sad/uncomfortable thing to experience and/or witness (the old reality falling away), it is also at the same time relieving and empowering... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

There are dark attributes to things and when something is pushed or shown only/mostly in a positive light, or isn’t being properly explained, it is needed to be balanced/made aware of with darkness. Usually what’s being hidden is the process (what it is that you may have to go through) or what’s going on behind the scenes of that particular ‘manifestation’... I may in the future comeback on here and discuss the word a bit more, but here are my thoughts about the matter currently. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Often times it’s is pushed to us to think that there’s this pathway that a person needs to follow in order to become a certain way or to achieve/be a certain ‘caricature’ when In all actuality, it’s not realistic and it is limiting the individual from becoming their greatest self or preventing them from enjoying the process all together (both its imperfections and perfections). If given these particular ‘tools’ or ‘rules and regulations’, how would that be applied to fit your situation? How would that help? The process is here for a reason just to reveal to us what works and what doesn’t. It is also here for us to enjoy and genuinely/organically grow. Learn to trust yourself and your secret formula instead of feeling as though you need to trust someone else’s just to get somewhere in life or to feel important. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Don’t get it twisted, I love my privacy and I love having/being my own influence, however, it became difficult to put myself out there/open up over the years feeling as though I should be ashamed of myself and/or be afraid to shine my light/be due to countless disappointments and ignorance. I realized that I just want to be able to feel as though I can be myself, be comfortable, safe, loved, cherished, celebrated, valued, accepted, and deserving/worthy rather than feeling as though I should avoid being me (not showing myself), dim my light, and/or play small and unimportant just to avoid bullshit. AGAIN, I will always show up for myself first and foremost (because I don’t run off external gratification primarily), however, I’m doing myself a great disservice not allowing myself to unapologetically BE in the process. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Here’s a little insight as to how the Tearra show came to be :)!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Genuine effort and fake-ness shouldn’t be confused. Nobody’s perfect, but don’t use the ‘nobody’s perfect’ tactics to continue to be a crappy person. That doesn’t exempt you from putting in effort to make an actual realistic/honest change. We all got positive and negative attributes about ourselves, but by being self aware of those things and actually putting in the work to improve internally, just so you can grow and become a better person, is welcomed. Trying to cover up your wrong doings by doing weird gestures/being fake nice out the blue and putting on this image as if you’re being the ‘bigger person’ just so that it can come off as if the person on the receiving end is holding a grudge towards you (so you could either throw off/confuse/conflict people and avoid taking responsibility or so that you can avoid looking at your true self (both negatives and positive attributes)) instead of actually taking accountability and doing the work is recessive towards REAL growth. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Before you dismiss community college as a choice, listen to this. Note: at the end of the day, DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU! You are in control over whatever you choose to do with your life. Always keep that in mind. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The weird thing is, people tend to hold different descriptions of you in their mind, and interesting enough, it’s never quite the same from person to person. I’ve been called all types of things across the board, both good and bad. And now that I think about it, none of them were necessarily an ‘accurate’ depiction of me. The worst of it all though, is when someone assumes things without really ‘knowing’ what’s what and/or how you operate. Often times their depictions of you is filtered through whatever going on in their mind and spirit and whatever they deem ‘is’ (because often times they’re using you as a mirror and/or projecting (can be unconsciously) OR going based off someone else’s depiction of you). It’s best to know who and what you are in the clearest way possible because depending on others to dictate that for you would lead you down a chaotic rabbit hole. Now there is this thing where some people know things about you that you’re not quite aware of yet, BUT, by building up that self awareness and understanding/learning about yourself daily (both your positive and negative attributes and what you need to work on/currently working on about yourself) can really lower the odds of you being caught off guard (if that makes sense). It also helps to build that inner confidence. Yes we often times need that positive feedback/encouragement/or that one good calling out that sets us straight, even in the most unexpected moments because at times it can be considered as either confirmation, a reminder, comfort, care, a push to do something, a tap on the shoulder, etc. We need reminders on what we’re capable of, but, making sure that we have those reminders within ourselves first and foremost can prevent a lot of b.s. from coming through. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

My podcast isn’t supposed to be cookie cutter... it isn’t supposed to be a strain either. The things that I’m supposed to speak about has to flow outta me regardless of whether or not it comes out/appear to be sporadic. The more that I was typing scripts the more I noticed that that wasn’t it, so I’m going to do it in a way that makes sense for me moving forward. I tried to be perfect going about doing this in an organized/clean approach but the more I tried to make it go orderly the more I got irritated and felt limited and restricted. This is a place where I want to share my truth, to be free, and heard in an honest way. Living my authentic truth. There are still some things in the first podcast that gives you a general idea of some of the things that I touched on in this episode so be sure to listen to that just so you wouldn’t be as lost :)!!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

I never thought the day would come where I would be able to share my experiences with you guys! Now that I’ve been through the whole 9 yards, I felt it was necessary for me to share some of those experiences that prompted me to be in a place where I’ve transformed into something I never thought I would be in a million years. It was a lot of humbling experiences throughout this journey (that tended to start as early as high school), and while at the time I didn’t understand the reasoning behind my constant L’s, without them I spiritually wouldn’t be as evolved. So... what after this rough transition? What did this lead to? Tune in next Tuesday (09/08/2020) for Part 2 where I’ll be diving into my university experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app