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In this episode of The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, we sit down with author, speaker, and betrayal-recovery coach Vicki Tiede to discuss the complex and often isolating experience of discovering a spouse's same-sex attraction. With both professional insight and compassion, Vicki brings clarity to a topic that is frequently misunderstood and emotionally overwhelming for many women.We explore how this type of discovery can feel both similar to and distinct from other forms of sexual betrayal. Vicki provides guidance on separating attraction from identity and behavior, identifying safe and aligned professional support, and establishing boundaries that protect a woman's well-being. This episode offers a thoughtful perspective, practical direction, and a message of hope for those navigating this unique aspect of betrayal trauma.Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Vicki provides a clear definition of same-sex attraction that may differ from common assumptions, helping reduce confusion and increase understanding. • The trauma response to this discovery can mirror other forms of betrayal while also introducing unique challenges related to identity, trust, and relational security. • Distinguishing between attraction, identity, and behavior is essential for avoiding inaccurate assumptions and making grounded decisions. • When seeking support, it is important to find professionals who are trauma-informed, partner-sensitive, and aligned with personal values and safety needs. • A wife can acknowledge her husband's internal struggle without assuming responsibility for managing it or compromising her own well-being. • Establishing clear boundaries, protective agreements, and safety structures is critical in the early stages following disclosure. • Even in the midst of confusion and overwhelm, there is a path forward, and support is available.Connect with Vicki Tiede Life Renovation Counseling & Coaching: https://liferenovationcc.comConnect with Us Watermark Coaching: https://www.watermarkcoach.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/watermarkcoachingThis episode is sponsored by Pure Life Alliance Learn more at: https://www.purelifealliance.org
With special guest Vicki Tiede, we address a reality for some Christian heterosexual marriages, same-sex arousal or attraction. What does it mean? And what can you do? Sponsors Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network. From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Mark 10:6–8 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2 Resources Life Renovation Counseling & Coaching - Mike & Vicki Tiede Courageous Hearts Group w/Vicki Tiede When Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki Tiede Sexual Clarity for Christian Women w/Bonny Burns Same-Sex Attraction—Confusion To Clarity (free download from Vicki) Are We Naturally Monogamous? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. Parker Virgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
Vicki Tiede habla sobre el momento en que se dio cuenta de que el comportamiento adictivo de su exesposo no iba a detenerse. Siguiendo un consejo piadoso, Vicki salió de su hogar, en un intento de protegerse y de guardar a su hija. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29
Vicki Tiede habla sobre el momento en que se dio cuenta de que el comportamiento adictivo de su exesposo no iba a detenerse. Siguiendo un consejo piadoso, Vicki salió de su hogar, en un intento de protegerse y de guardar a su hija. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29
La pornografía perjudica a muchos matrimonios. Vicki Tiede lo sabe. Ella recuerda haber encontrado las revistas inapropiadas de su exesposo. Alterada y embarazada, buscó ayuda de su pastor y renovó el compromiso con Cristo para su vida y su matrimonio. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29
La pornografía perjudica a muchos matrimonios. Vicki Tiede lo sabe. Ella recuerda haber encontrado las revistas inapropiadas de su exesposo. Alterada y embarazada, buscó ayuda de su pastor y renovó el compromiso con Cristo para su vida y su matrimonio. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/692/29
With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Listen now: Support HFW through a donation Today, we are continuing our discussion with Vicki Tiede. Vicki is a certified APSATS partner coach whose specialty is walking with wives who have same sex attraction in their story with their sexually addicted spouse. Vicki is a betrayal trauma recovery coach, speaker, and the author of “When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart.” Vicki has a passion for helping women navigate the pain of betrayal, particularly in relationships impacted by infidelity and pornography. She has a particular interest in supporting women whose husbands struggle with same-sex attraction. Vicki and her husband Mike also work with couples ready for relationship restoration. We Will be Discussing: What is the value of being in community with other women who have this aspect in their story? What hope can we leave our listeners this week? Resources mentioned in this show: Life Renovation Counseling and Coaching – Learn more about Vicki and/or make an appointment through this website. When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki Tiede. Homosexuality and the Christian by Mark Yarhouse.
With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we are talking through a specific betrayal for many women. Over the course of the 10+ years I have been walking through betrayal stories with other women, many have a story that includes Same Sex Attraction. During discovery or disclosure women learn that their husband has been acting out with men or viewing same sex pornography. Typically, we approach our topics with a broad stroke to discuss betrayal as a whole. Today we wanted to sit with author and recovery coach, Vicki Tiede, who has walked this path and bring hope to women who are trying to heal from their husbands' SSA and addiction. Vicki is a betrayal trauma recovery coach, speaker, and the author of “When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart.” Vicki has a passion for helping women navigate the pain of betrayal, particularly in relationships impacted by infidelity and pornography. She has a particular interest in supporting women whose husbands struggle with same-sex attraction. Vicki and her husband Mike also work with couples ready for relationship restoration. We Will be Discussing: What are some of the fears that come up for a partner when they discover same-sex attraction and their husband's story Does recovery look different for women whose stories involve same-sex addiction? Resources mentioned in this show: Life Renovation Counseling and Coaching – Learn more about Vicki and/or make an appointment through this website. When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki Tiede. Homosexuality and the Christian by Mark Yarhouse.
Host: Patty Glick & Vicki Tiede, Integrated Presidential Directors TOPICS: Fall Forward Into Health
Patty Glick and Vicki Tiede set the tone for using the structure built into the Coaching Guide
If 50%-60% of Christian men are addicted to pornography, that means there is an additional 50%-60% of wives, children, family, and friends that are impacted as well. Vicki Tiede speaks on her new book and walks us through part of the grieving process of betrayal.
Dr. Tim speaks with Vicki Tiede about healing your wounded heart, when your husband is addicted to pornography.View on our Website
Join us today as we continue our Truth Matters series as Vicki Tiede shares her story of how pornography destroyed her first marriage. Vicki is the author of "When your husband is addicted to pornography."
Join us as Vicki answers important questions about pornography in regards to our children, how to heal and forgive, and practical life application to this devastating issue.
We are going to do something really fun this week, something that we have never done before. We are going to take a look in the rear view mirror, at some of the shows in the past. And we started yesterday off with the very first show. The second show that I want to revisit this week is show number 18. It originally aired on Feb 17, 2013 on FaithTalk 1360 out of Phx Az. Guest: Vicki Tiede Book: When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart. Pornography might be your problem or your spouses problem, but intimacy is about both of you under the covenant of marriage from Almighty God. Does your spouse have a recovery plan for pornography?
On this episode of Theology Gals Coleen and Ashley talk with Vicki Tiede about her book When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart. This episode is not just for women who find themselves with a husband addicted to pornography. This episode is for all Christian women because we also address other topics including how we can help our sisters who are struggling through this situation. Episode Note: Because this is a sensitive topic, please do not listen with children in the room. This episode is also not appropriate for our teenage listeners. Episode Resources: When Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki Tiede Vicki Tiede's Website Vicki Tiede’s blog Information on support groups Check out the rest of Vicki’s books Click here for all Theology Gals podcasts and blogs. Women can join our Facebook Group Theology Gals-Ladies Theology Discussion and Encouragement Follow us: On Facebook On Twitter @TheologyGals On Instagram theologygals Email us at theologygals@gmail.com If you'd like to ask Theology Gals a question which may be answered on a future episode, you can text or leave us a voicemail at 951-364-0221. You may also send an email. Consider supporting Theology Gals with just a few dollars a month.
Pornography might be your problem, but intimacy is about both of you under the covenant of marriage from Almighty God. Does your spouse have a recovery plan? This show is a "must-listen" for your marriage, and this book is a "must-read" as well! Guest: Vicki Tiede Book: When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart Lust problem? Get help right now and join our free online community here. Like what you hear? Support the ministry through prayer and becoming a financial Purity Partner. Click Here!
If 50%-60% of Christian men are addicted to pornography, that means there are an additional 50%-60% of wives, children, family and friends that are impacted as well. Vicki Tiede speaks on her new book and walks us through part of the grieving process of betrayal. Guest: Vicki Tiede Book: When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart Lust problem? Get help right now and join our free online community here. Like what you hear? Support the ministry through prayer and becoming a financial Purity Partner. Click Here!