Becoming a Unicorn with Mrs. B

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This podcast will explore the real world nuisances of unlocking the magic in us all. A truly unapologetic space, this podcast was designed for the “Real Weirdos” that have always been classified as “too something”. Combined with real life scenarios discussions, evidence based mental health support, and a heaping dose of self care this podcast will: call you to the carpet, snatch a wig or two, and get you all the way together as you unlock your inner unicorn- Good,Bad, or indifferent.

Kendra Miller Benson


    • May 8, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    A message for the LATE Bloomers

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 30:51


    We hope your spring is off to a great start! In this long awaited reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable we dive into the concept of blooming “late” and how being late is truly subjective because we bloom in OUR own season. So grab a snack and take a listen to how we break down blooming on purpose. You don't want to miss another candid conversation about the ebbs and flows of learning and unlearning in this rollercoaster we call life.

    Unapologetically HER

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2024 32:26


    We're back!!!!! I know we say that alot but thanks for rocking with us even in the ebbs and flows of imposter syndrome, professional burnout, and a whole lot of self work. Coming off the heels of the high that is Black History Month, the unicorn roundtable is reconvened to talk about that it means have the stance of "sorry not sorry", How to navigate showing up as the most authentic version of yourself, and some of the pitfalls you learn on your journey of letting your NOT SO LITTLE light shine.

    Vulnerability be Hard

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 32:44


    Whether you agree or not, change is inevitable. Such as with the seasons we often times have little control over slowing down change but in this episode we talk about how vulnerability helps with the transition and how to lean into your vulnerability with friends, family members, and lovers. Grab your good girlfriend, your favorite cocktail and maybe a snack because this is another gem filled episode promised to make you take inventory of how you're showing up when things feel out of your control.

    RSVPing to tables no longer serving you

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2023 31:42


    In life we always talk about getting a seat a the table but we talk less about RSVPing No to the tables no longer serving you. In this convening of the Unicorn Roundtable to we talk about how to identify when the table is no longer serving you, findings the tables that honor your highest self, and how God creates the table for us when we have enough courage to move in alignment with where he wants us to be. Per usual, grab your good girlfriend, your favorite cocktail, and take a listen to how we navigate this topic as 30 somethings still very much still figuring this life thing out one day at a time.

    The Road to becoming your highest Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2023 37:45


    In this special roundtable convening, we share the mic with a fellow podcast creator, Entrepreneur, and Boss Lady to discuss the journey to becoming your highest self, what its gonna costs you, and what lessons we have learned along the way. We get raw about what it looks like to navigate the responsibilities of our day to day lives, the never ending journey of getting your ish together, what hyper independence looks like, and how your highest self evolves with you. Grab your favorite cocktail, your good girlfriend, and a lil snack and join us on another session of truth. There are no limits except the ones you give yourself so envision your highest self and BECOME HER.

    The Window to the Wall

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2023 32:10


    In this episode the Unicorn Tribe gathers for a convening of the Roundtable to discuss how the walls we build in the journey of becoming the best version of ourselves out of the necessity can also be our downfall in relationships as we seek to build deeper connections. Another raw conversation, we discuss the nuisances of survival mode, allowing yourself to need others, speaking up for yourself, and how to be vulnerable enough to drop some of the walls built out of protection. Grab a good girlfriend, mix up your favorite beverage, and get comfy cause of course this episode is going have you examining your own dispositions. Your castle walls may be too high sis....................

    The Lessons of 2022

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 28:29


    Hey yall in this very raw conversation about the shit show/level up the 2022 really was. This episode will be a bit gritty but super real as this recording is full of imperfections such as the twist and turns of real life. We will be calling ourselves to the carpet per usual and really just telling it like we experienced it. We will share some of our individual lessons about relationships, evolving into your higher self, reestablishing a relationship with a higher power, calling yourself out the hand you have played in how your life played out, and everything in between. This wont be your normal Year in Review episode but simply a deep dive into how 2022 has shaped us into BETTER versions of ourselves. So grab your favorite beverage and a homegirl or two and take a listen  to how 2022 was everything we needed and so much more.  Also follow us on all social media platforms for more exclusive content @unlockyourunicorn  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Healing is Hard Sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2022 33:48


    Healing can be hard and scary especially trying to navigate healing while live your best life, while exceling in your career, while honoring your inner child, while drinking your water, while being a good homegirl/sister/friend, while minding your business, while texting people back, while getting enough rest, while trying to exercise regularly, while trying to eat right, while finding time to hang out with your family, while reading 6 books a month and all while simultaneously loosing your shit every other day. But whew child getting to the other side is so worth it. Newsflash: That healing is also gon to cost you some things but we have got to do it anyway. In this special episode of the Unicorn Roundtable we share what our individual healing journey looks like and how the journey has made us into who we are today. Grab your favorite beverage and take a listen. Follow us on Instagram @unlockyourunicorn for more! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Making Room for the spaces that Honor the truest YOU

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2022 36:35


    In this reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable the Unicorns discuss how they navigate different spaces and stages of their life showing up as their truest version of themselves a little more each day. Lets face it we have all morphed to be what everybody needed us to be at some time or another. All the while neglecting who YOU needed to be for yourself in some instances. The unicorns get real about their journey to finding the spaces that honor them, how those spaces evolve with time, and the support needed from those around them during those transitions. Grab your favorite beverage, a comfy throw, and some headphones cuz you know we tend to give you the uncensored truth. You don't want to miss another candid conversation but 30 something women who are all unapologetic about what we want the world to know! Follow us on instagram @unlockyourunicorn  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Reinvention of the Unicorn Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 35:04


    Join us as we continue the conversation on the Journey of Reinvention with our lovely guest unicorn, Ms. Ashleigh McGill. In this candid conversation, we explore the moments when we determine reinvention is needed, how we come back from one of the most devastating transitions, rebranding to monetize your gifts, creating healthy boundaries, and motivating yourself to do what you need to do to live life on your own terms. This journey is not always pretty but on purpose. Reinvention is about deciding that you are not focusing on what you don't have but instead you are focusing on what you do have so that you can use those tools to live your life by design. Surrendering to the journey wont always be easy but if you hold tight to who you are, no matter how you reinvent yourself your light we continue to shine bright in any room you enter. Reinvention is necessary, nobody's working this hard to stay the same.  Pivot as many times as you need. You owe it to yourself! Be BOLD Unapologetic and the ones that are suppose to be there will remain constant.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Reinvention of the Unicorn

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2022 38:53


    Change can be scary but change can also be the catalyst to the life you always dreamed up. Half of the battle is taking the risk in embracing the pivot. In this reconvening of the Roundtable we will discuss the growing pains of divorce, relocation, and parenting. Grad your favorite beverage this is going to be a good one! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Its the soft life for me sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 41:11


    If you haven't been living under a rock then we are positive you have been seeing the new social media trend being described as the soft life. This happens to actually be one of our favorite things to watch. Who wouldn't want a life of ease, peace, and comfort?! In this episode and divine conversation the Unicorns describe what the soft life truly means to them and how they have individually worked to debunk their own misconceptions. Pull out a comfy blanket and grab your favorite snack this one feels like a conversation with your good girlfriends. You know the ones that keep all of your secrets, encourage you, and speak life into you. This episode is guaranteed to having you fantasizing over what you want your soft life to look life. Yes you deserve ease! You were not destined for a life of chaos. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Embracing the Unknown

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2022 31:41


    If you're anything like us, pandemic has seemed to be going on for what seems like 5 years now. Our everyday lives have morphed so much, things that once seemed major don't carry the same importance, and daily routines that used to be the fabric of our lives seem redundant. It has been quite an experience for us all, TRULY. The fact that you have survived and can listen to this podcast is a blessing in itself. In this candid conversation we will briefly explore some of the ways pandemic has affected us individually (good and bad) and how we have uncovered new versions of ourselves in the process. Grab your favorite beverage and take a listen as get real about how the last 2 years have changed us. You don' want to miss this special reconvening with one of our resident unicorns. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    You vs The Life you Deserve

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 55:50


    Its a hard truth uncovering that you have in fact been the one in your way this whole time. That's enough to make you cry all night lol In this episode, the Unicorns unpack the journey to "getting out of our own way". In this candid conversation we discuss some of the common pitfalls, lessons, and misconceptions we have experienced along the way to becoming.......You don't want to miss this raw unedited Unicorn Roundtable experience. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Its gonna cost you some things sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 26:52


    In this long awaited reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable we will dive into what evolution means to us and some of the lessons we are learning in our individual journeys of constant evolution. Get comfy and grab your favorite beverage because this one is guaranteed to make you examine your own journey. This is a real conversation from two thirty something professional women who open up about the return on investment of evolution. The not so glamourous side of honoring the things you need in this very moment. Take what you need and leave the rest for someone else. This is going to be a good one...................................................... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Lessons of 2021 and everything in between

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 38:24


    Hey sis Hey! We know this has been quite some time since you heard from us last. We cant believe how fast this past year flew by. It was for sure a year of the highest of highs and some pretty low lows. If you guys are anything like us 2021 just felt like "life was lifeing a little bit harder that normal sis". Which we know is all apart of the journey right? Nonetheless we are back with some "good good" words for our resident unicorns to help you start your 2022 off with INTENTION. In this reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable we discuss the unfiltered lessons of 2021 learned, how 2021 has changed us, what we are looking forward to from 2022. We intend to make this our best year yet! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    It's the Selfcare for me

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2021 28:51


    Selfcare? hmmmm Is this a new phenomenon or has the world found a new word to fixate on? In this mini reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable we discuss what Selfcare really means to us individually and how the world has seen it as a luxury for so many of us since the beginning of time. On the heels of World Mental Health Day is there respite for the "STRONG FRIEND" A label that for so long has seemed like a badge of honor is now viewed as a heavy prescription filled with support for everyone else except for the ones who really need it. Strong black woman- this one is for you. Take the cape off sis, the World needs you WHOLE. You don't want to miss this candid conversations with 30 something women with different realities but the same goal: EASE. Not perfection, but ease in our families, relationships, careers, and partnerships.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Finding Balance in Your Femininity Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2021 23:07


    I know you've been waiting on Part 2 for a while.....We apologize for the wait but I'm sure you understand Life sometimes comes at you fast and you just have to slow down and BE.  Sidenote: Remember to CELEBRATE you in this very moment. If you are anything like us........You are standing in the midst of several answered prayers.  In this Gem filled reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable (Part 2) The unicorns continue to get real about the struggles of finding balance in our femininity while living in a world that demands masculinity for survival and protection. Per usual this is a REAL CONVERSATION BY REAL QUEENS just trying to figure this this we called life out. Unfiltered realness and perspective of African American 30 somethings from different walks of life and different realities. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Finding Balance in Your Femininity Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2021 30:07


    Welcome to Season 2! You are in store for even more episodes of pure uncensored realness. The unicorns reconvene for this very special episode celebrating one year since its start. We dive in how out of survival we as women sometimes struggle with embracing our femininity or even finding places worthy of that femininity. The Unicorn Committee pulls back the onion on how a imbalance in your femininity attributes to stress and taking on battles that we may not have necessary meant to fight alone or take them on in the first place. There is beauty is finding your softness and even being in a space to activate that. Sometimes the Independent women needs a break too. That cape must be heavy sis. Stay tuned to Part 2. It's heating up….. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The lessons of our 20s: The Ships have sailed

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2021 37:42


    In this reconvening of the Unicorn Roundtable we discuss the lessons we learned throughout our 20s regarding the relationships that have shaped us into who we are today. This episode explores the nuisances of coming to age as a 21 century women, what barriers we experience unlocking the current versions of ourselves, HOW NOBODY TRULY KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING IN THIS LIFE THING, and how we combating FEAR moving through it to unlock our inner unicorn.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    fear lessons ships have sailed
    Thee Black Girl: The Good, The Bad, and the Magical

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 36:10


    In this episode the Unicorn Roundtable is reconvened just in time to close out another Black History Month. Black has always been king in our eyes but it has also come with its own war wounds, trauma bonds, and inequalities.  So we take the moment to discuss the fabric of the black women, how that has attributed to our way of existing, and how we have experienced that throughout our years. This is a REAL conversation by REAL queens celebrating the UNAPOLOGETIC MAGIC of the black women not just the pretty wrapped up versions we often time show the world. Being a black woman is hard but WE WOULDNT TRADE IT FOR ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Being Okay with Being Misunderstood

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2021 35:28


    On this episode, the Unicorn roundtable is reconvened to talk about the journey of being okay with being misunderstood, how our life experiences have attributed to this sense of being, how to be okay with rejection, and how we work to not fall back into those patterns of seeking approval at the costs of our own mental health. Lets face it..............We might not be everyone's cup of tea but we just might be their shot of henny and that's PERFECTLY FINE! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    2020 Year in Review: The Good, Bad, and Indifferent

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2021 61:14


    What a year 2020 was. Just being able to say we made it another 365 especially this year is a blessing in itself. The Unicorns get together for a no nonsense chat about what 2020 looked like for them individually because while 2020 was tough it was very necessary for some. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Shine Baby Shine!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 38:56


    In this episode, we reconvene the Unicorn Roundtable for a snatch edges that may be super timely for most of us while we are planning to conquer our new year. Of course this episode leaves you with the bomb one liners, the gems of course and just the right amount of "stepping on toes" to make anybody introspective. We dive into the idea behind diming your light, why we do it, why it is a detriment to your FULL SELF, and why that version of you is not equipped for your next level. Not the mention, The Unicorn Tribe recaps how they have dimmed their lights to fit in rooms that were never meant for them as well as providing insight on each of their individual journeys of self evolution. LONG STORY SHORT........ You weren't meant to fit in. You are the light.....SO SHINE BABY SHINE --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Miseducation of the Unicorn

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2020 45:45


    In this episode we will introduce our illustrious Unicorn Tribe. This tribe is made of black educated millennial women with dialect in pop culture, career, politics, trap music and everything in between. In their inaugural episode, the tribe will unpack what they interpret an unicorn to be and all the magic that surrounds the state of being. Grab your favorite beverage and Come sit at the Unicorn Roundtable! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Find your tribe sis!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2020 16:12


    In this episode we will breakdown 3 critical points to consider when on the journey to find and uncover your tribe! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    It’s a Mirror not a Window sis

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2020 12:10


    In this inaugural podcast episode we jump right into how ALL relationships are hard work, evolve over time for good and for bad, but demand a level of internal reflection. Grab a cup of tea and allow this episode to draw light on how the demise of relationships result in an opportunity for us to own our own insecurities. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Becoming a Unicorn with Mrs. B (Trailer)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2019 0:27


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