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Girl, we have to talk is a podcast about issues that women face at all ages and stages. Throughout life women lose touch with great friends because of marriage, dating, babies and all of the things in between. This podcast is a chance for me to catch up with some great friends and also shed some lig…

Girl, we have to talk


    • Apr 23, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 41m AVG DURATION
    • 88 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Girl, we have to talk

    Azors, friendship grief and honeymoons

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2023 34:01


    Have you heard of the Azors? Jamie & Iris discuss late honeymoons and more on this episode.

    Summer House, Vanderpump & potentially abusive boyfriends

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2023 52:48


    Iris & Jamie discuss two shows Jamie never watches and answer a question about a controlling boyfriend

    Coming from a place of love…

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2023 22:43


    Iris & Jamie have a question episode. We discuss loving someone who might not be right for you.

    The baby debate

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2023 55:06


    Iris & Jamie discuss an article and it brings up questions of motherhood, family and accountability.

    Brick Walls…folks we will never talk to again

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2023 57:50


    Jamie and Iris follow up on the brick wall discussion! Join us as we rehash the friendships we will never repeat.

    Trauma Bonds, Brick walls and Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2023 37:29


    Iris & Jamie give their thoughts on a friendship question.

    Let's focus on the sex talk….

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2023 37:34


    Iris gets to chat with Bree about her life, new job, new man and threesomes galore.

    Walking away from the love of my life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2023 21:03


    Iris & Jamie discuss a relationship article. Per usual Iris is annoyed and Jamie is sympathetic. Let's see where this goes. Link to article: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/30/ex-everything-complete-me-broke-up

    Taking friendship applications….

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2023 39:30


    Iris & Jamie catch up and discuss a Reddit question.

    There was conflict…We had Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2023 51:39


    Iris & Jamie get real about why they stopped recording last year and how they are back now.

    Welcome back & other things

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 35:00


    Welcome back! We have to catch up as so much has happened over the last year. Sorry we have been absent but we hope you missed us!

    AJLT, West Elm Caleb & New relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2022 56:07


    We discuss it all!

    But he's family!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2022 19:44


    Jamie & Iris dive straight into a question about doing the rest get thing vs protecting your family.

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    We're back!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2022 55:42


    We are back and ready to self care our butts into 2022! We chat about what's been going on during our fall break. What self care means to us. New love. Old friends. And most importantly what we are watching!

    Fertility Secrets or Shame?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2021 27:00


    It's the end of season 3! What better way to end things then to answer a question from Reddit. This one is fertility secrets.

    Keep your money to yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2021 26:06


    Iris and Jamie answer a question about paying bills, control and step parenthood

    Ending toxic friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2021 52:11


    Jamie & Iris have a toxic friendship question. How to cut someone out who is taking over your happiness

    Relationship Drama…who is to blame?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2021 36:57


    Question Episode! Jamie and Iris chat about a question regarding missed youth and relationship frustration.

    Family lies and family ties

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2021 19:51


    Jamie & Iris discuss a question regarding family history and lies

    Old enough to be dangerous

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2021 29:05


    Jamie & Iris discuss getting older and potentially being close to middle age.

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    I went through your texts…

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2021 25:37


    Iris & Jamie discuss a daughter discovering her mother's true feeling in a potentially drunken text

    Career Vibes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 47:15


    Jamie & Iris meet with Lauren and discuss work, travel and friendship

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    Is it an ultimatum or a boundary?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2021 41:41


    Jamie & Iris are back with…better reception. Responding to a question from the Atlantic.

    What kind of friend are you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2021 68:23


    Iris & Jamie discuss fly bye friendships, R&B and more

    Blast from the past friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2021 37:53


    Iris & Jamie answer a question from a women who distanced herself during the pandemic and is considering rekindling a friendship.

    You can't be an assh@le and stay at my place

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 31:53


    Iris & Jamie answer a question about kicking your friend to the curb…literally

    What's new in love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2021 54:52


    Iris & Janie discuss what's new in love, Mare of Eastown and psychopaths.

    Mommy shaming isn’t welcome! Even if you are my best friend

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2021 16:25


    A quick one! Overbearing mom friend gets the tell off...and an apology

    Politics, Migraines & Celeb news

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2021 57:48


    Iris & Jamie have the most random conversation....but it ends with Bennifer...and Jay Cutler.

    Not ready for marriage...but what if he is?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2021 40:25


    Iris & Jamie disagree over the topic of unprovoked proposals.

    Rachel Hollis, Khloe Kardashian.....& Scott Peterson?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2021 45:33


    Trials by media & influencer culture. Are they one in the same?

    I don’t want to be your baby mama...and other $hit!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 36:26


    Jamie & Iris discuss a question from an expectant mother and dive into the nuances of relationships.

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    Let’s talk about murder

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2021 58:24


    Iris & Jamie talk about some recent murder documentaries, what they are watching now and Meghan & Harry

    A difference of perspective

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 39:12


    Jamie & Iris answer a question about removing a tattoo for a lover. Would you or wouldn’t you?

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    Human Design and other bullsh*t

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2021 62:04


    Iris & Jamie discuss Human Design, Mad Hatter tea parties and Hamilton

    Don’t talk about my kids!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2021 23:31


    Iris & Jamie have a AITA question about parenting and gender roles

    Single in your 30s

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 80:15


    Jamie and Iris are joined by Erin to discuss dating and being single in your 30s.

    Trust us...you don’t want to cheat

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2021 18:12


    Iris & Jamie discuss a question from a partner that’s curious about what love might look like outside of their marriage.

    It’s Britney Bit$h!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2021 61:51


    Iris & Jamie chat schools back in session, Britney Spears and transitional friendships

    Touch yourself (but only if you want to)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2021 38:33


    Iris & Jamie tackle a question about self pleasure

    Covid Brain

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2021 69:33


    Iris & Jamie are getting back into the swing of things. They discuss transitions at work, vaccinations and vacations.

    Infertility shouldn’t be a deal breaker

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2021 30:13


    Iris & Jamie answer a question regarding infertility.

    Big Friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2021 52:45


    Iris & Jamie discuss the book, Big Friendships and how it has helped them grow.

    Is it time for a divorce?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2021 32:55


    This week Iris is joined by Tiffany! Nature lover, long time friend, fellow podcaster, coach and therapist! Whoa that is a mouth full! I talk her ear off and then we discuss a turbulent marriage. How to reach her! Website-https://www.shesalivetothrive.com/ Podcast-https://www.shesalivetothrive.com/ http://Instagram-www.Instagram.com/shesalive2thrive http://www.confidentlifecounseling.com

    Let’s talk about weight loss

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 43:54


    Iris is joined by her nearest and dearest friend Anajah! They talk musical theater, New Years resolutions and weight loss surgery

    Your boyfriend....is racist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2021 54:05


    Iris is joined by Pam & Megan to discuss a question from an 18 year old women with a problematic partner.

    Toxic Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2021 46:57


    Iris is joined by her friend Jenn and they discuss therapy, self image, toxic parenting and moving to the burbs!

    Does this make me look fat?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2021 24:39


    Iris is joined by returning guest Bree! They have a question from a friend struggling with self image.

    Happy New Year! Let’s welcome back our friend Nena!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2021 56:50


    Jamie has a busy January so Iris is riding solo...WITH GUESTS! This week Nena is back and we are talking New Years resolutions, work place habits and crappy bosses.

    An interview with my Ex Best Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2020 46:44


    This podcast started because of a friendship break up...here’s the other side of the story

    The end...last episode!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 11:59


    Iris & Jamie end season 2! Also answering a question about being the other women.

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