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Is it weird to like your ex's engagement photo on Instagram? Jared poses the question to Jordana, kicking off an episode full of honest, hilarious, and sometimes cringey dating moments. The hosts dive into a listener's story about being judged for her body count, exploring how sexual history conversations can shift a relationship's tone. They break down a musty dating dilemma what to do when your date smells off despite checking every other box. Another listener struggles with her boyfriend keeping sentimental letters from exes, raising questions about emotional baggage and boundaries. Red Flag or Dealbreaker brings even more dating chaos, from chronic lateness to the sting of not having your number saved. Whether it's intimacy, hygiene, or digital etiquette with your ex, J&J offer sharp insights and plenty of laughs. Watch full ep here!
A P1 emailed us with a question about his girlfriend dancing with her bosses asking if it was a red flag or a dealbreaker, here is what we think
This week on U Up?, a listener asks whether a relationship can survive without sexual chemistry when her otherwise perfect boyfriend just isn't into sex. Jared and Jordana also debate a Red Flag or Deal Breaker: is it a turnoff if your boyfriend uses prepaid Visa gift cards to buy an engagement ring? Plus, a cringeworthy dating moment when a Bumble match splits the bill, then retracts an extra tip to save $12. From low sex drive to money-related red flags, J&J break it all down with humor and real talk! Watch here on YouTube! Tune in for relatable dating advice and if in NYC, come to the live show!
Resentment isn't just a feeling—it's a spiritual disease? In this power-packed episode, Raghunath and Kaustubha discuss one of Bhakti-yoga's most liberating teachings: the more we hear about the life and character of Lord Rāma, the more the disease of envy is cleansed from our hearts. This is a real look at the subtle ways hostility creeps into even spiritual communities… and how to root it out before it festers into full-blown inner plague. Key Highlights: * “No hostility in the heart of a yogi”—what this really means and why it's non-negotiable * The mind always finds a way to rationalize animosity (and what to do about it) * The ‘hot coal' analogy that might change how you handle resentment forever * Sauerkraut, ego death, and learning to see others through Rāma's eyes * Why spiritual life means no selective love — even for that one person Drop the hostility. Pick up the stories of Lord Rāma. And let the heart realign with the divine.
Resentment isn't just a feeling—it's a spiritual disease? In this power-packed episode, Raghunath and Kaustubha discuss one of Bhakti-yoga's most liberating teachings: the more we hear about the life and character of Lord Rāma, the more the disease of envy is cleansed from our hearts. This is a real look at the subtle ways hostility creeps into even spiritual communities… and how to root it out before it festers into full-blown inner plague. Key Highlights: * “No hostility in the heart of a yogi”—what this really means and why it's non-negotiable * The mind always finds a way to rationalize animosity (and what to do about it) * The ‘hot coal' analogy that might change how you handle resentment forever * Sauerkraut, ego death, and learning to see others through Rāma's eyes * Why spiritual life means no selective love — even for that one person Drop the hostility. Pick up the stories of Lord Rāma. And let the heart realign with the divine.
The Conversation is BACK, and in this short but sweet episode, we discuss power outages, cannabis in relationships, and if the legal market's weed is really as clean as they claim. So sit back, relax, grab something to smoke on and get ready for a Cultivation Conversation. Please follow the show at @cultivation.conversation and follow your hosts at @girlgogrow, @therealgreenmonsta & @captainautoflower. Don't forget to like, comment, share & subscribe because all of that helps us A LOT! Thanks everyone and enjoy the show.DISCOUNT CODESAUTOPOTS - Use code "CC10" on autopot-usa.comMICROBELIFEHYDRO - Use code "CCMLH15" on https://microbelifehydro.comAC INFINITY - Use code "cultivation" on acinfinity.comINSECT FRASS - Use code "CC10" frassvalley.comEVERYTHING - Use code "CC10" on mass-hydro.com__________________________________________________If you would like to support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/CultivationconversationJoin us on Discord https://discord.com/invite/xcCSBQxyYBFollow us on Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/cultivationconversationOur Website https://cultivationconversation.com/Products We Use https://cultivationconversation.com/what-we-use/
In this episode, we're playing a game of Dealbreaker. We're reading through a bunch of relationship scenarios and deciding whether each one is a red flag or something we could look past. From petty habits to major icks, we're giving our honest takes and a few hot ones too. Play along with us! Which one of these would be a dealbreaker for you?
The Conversation is BACK, and in this short but sweet episode, we discuss power outages, cannabis in relationships, and if the legal market's weed is really as clean as they claim. So sit back, relax, grab something to smoke on and get ready for a Cultivation Conversation. Please follow the show at @cultivation.conversation and follow your hosts at @girlgogrow, @therealgreenmonsta & @captainautoflower. Don't forget to like, comment, share & subscribe because all of that helps us A LOT! Thanks everyone and enjoy the show.DISCOUNT CODESAUTOPOTS - Use code "CC10" on autopot-usa.comMICROBELIFEHYDRO - Use code "CCMLH15" on https://microbelifehydro.comAC INFINITY - Use code "cultivation" on acinfinity.comINSECT FRASS - Use code "CC10" frassvalley.comEVERYTHING - Use code "CC10" on mass-hydro.com__________________________________________________If you would like to support us on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/CultivationconversationJoin us on Discord https://discord.com/invite/xcCSBQxyYBFollow us on Twitch https://www.twitch.tv/cultivationconversationOur Website https://cultivationconversation.com/Products We Use https://cultivationconversation.com/what-we-use/
A new Dave and Jeff Show Podcast is now available. We talk about deal breakers on a first date and Dave tells Jeff about his terrible week.
Today on The Social, should you treat marriage like a 4-year sports contract? Some men think so. Then, with the high cost of eggs, Americans are coming up with alternative foods to dye for Easter! And, how should a boss handle an employee who dresses too sexy for the office? Plus, would you let strangers borrow your clothes? And, would you break up with someone who farts in their sleep?
Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!We are so excited to bring you another amazing ep. The girls had some amazing conversations today and heard from listeners who had wrote in following on from our previous episode where they spoke about the exhaustion of being single and 'dating' in this day & age. They heard different opinions & thoughts around navigating the single world when it can be constantly disappointing. The girls than answered a listeners dilemmas who wrote in asking for advice on a guy she can't stop thinking about & is he the one that got away??? In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between! As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!If you'd like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below: Instagram: @thegroupchatTik Tok: @the.groupchatpod Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com follow Liv on socials: Instagram: @oliviamesciaTiktok: @oliviamesciafollow Ash on socials:Instagram: @ashleymesciaTik Tok: @ashleymesciaSee you next Thursday xx*We'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.* Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Listen to the No Chingues crew talk about all of the day's chingaderas: · Guey, Where's My 401K?· Remember QAnon Pizza Shop Pedophiles· TARIFFying· Penguins Get Tariffed· Courage: We're the Only FUCK THEM PENGUINS Podcast· Jorge Isn't Into That· Dick-Shaped Space Ships· Elon Musk, Undefeated Apartheid Clyde POS· Pick Your Favorite Sad, Terrible Rich Fuck· Hip Hop's Love Of Billionaires· Stop Swinging on Them Wealthy Balls· Kaepernicus · When is Enough Enough For Pitiful Billionaire Men?· The Musks Are A Family of Depraved Weirdos· We Get Topsy Turvy· We're a Religious Podcast Now: Shout out to Pilates Jesus and His Biblical Take on Bathrooms· Hybrid Ass Balls· Dave Portnoy's Dealbreaker is Him Losing Money, Not Nazi Adjacent Shit· Bad Game Show: Can You Out-Spectacle Nazis?· Corey Booker· Jasmine Crocket Creates Spectacle · Grocery Store Tacos and Sandwiches· We Hit the Mailbag· Stand on Them Nuts· Shoutout to Fuck Bois We have no idea what we're doing... but we're keeping it moving with the unearned confidence of a mediocre White man!¯_(ツ)_/¯Listen, subscribe, share, and leave a five-star review! (or go to hell).Follow The No Chingues Crew on Threads, BlueSky, TikTok, Instagram. Martin Malecho – BlueSky TikTok, Threads
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their seamingly perfect partner because he wasn't attracted to him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Straw Gate: Is this a Deal Breaker? full 484 Tue, 08 Apr 2025 15:32:48 +0000 4wMoczkqxZ83r0EQfipZniTz9YCIfGw9 music PXY Mornings with Moose and Breezy music Straw Gate: Is this a Deal Breaker? Join Moose and Breezy as they discuss current trends, lifestyle and entertainment, and everything happening in Rochester. 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Music False https://player.amperwavepodcasting.com?feed-link=https%3A
Communication is everything in a relationship. It's how you build trust, stay connected, and navigate life together. But what if the guy you're seeing is bad at communicating? Does it mean the relationship is doomed, or is there a way to work through it? In this episode, we're diving into how to handle a partner who struggles with communication. Is he just a bad texter, or does he shut down in person too? Is this something you can live with, or is it a dealbreaker? Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.comConnect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindelBooks:- Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year- How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top MatchmakerPhoto credit: Mike McGregor Photography
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Welcome to Episode 145! Tony is on vacation so get ready for a Mike and Sam ep as we go DEEP on strategy. Today we talk about getting targeted out of a game by an opponent, Howling Mine's best friend Smothering Tithe, and the etiquette of keeping or breaking deals when a commander game is down to 2 players. Also Warcraft 3 nostalgia, and if you give a Moose a Muffin, you will get mauled. Stay Salty! ____ Buy DragonShield Sleeves from our affiliate link! Use code "staysalty" all lowercase, all one word for a discount! Find HSM merch on our website and our Bonfire site! Get HSM playmats from our friends at Jank Mats! Use our affiliate link!! Email your salty stories to thehowlingsaltmine@gmail.com! Find links to all our social media pages on our Linktree! Check out our Moxfield! Podcast art by the talented Devin Burnett! @j.d.burnett
In this episode, Jordana's feeling a little bruised and Jared is unpacking the paradox of love's give-and-take. First, J and J dive in, tackling a tried and true listener dilemma—should you be dating when your life feels like a total layover? Then, they break down the all-too-relatable struggle of texting purgatory on dating apps—are NYC men just looking for pen pals? Next up, Petty or Prudent features a long-lost (and very aggressively reclaimed) pair of grandma's sneakers. And today's Red Flag or Deal Breaker debates some truly wild dating scenarios: a guy posting a second-date photo as his Facebook cover, a woman totally unphased by playing her dad's love interest in a musical, and the ultimate modern communication nightmare—someone who only sends voice memos. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ben likes to run, and Donna doesn't, but if he had made that the issue while they were dating, they wouldn't be married today! He learned that he didn't *really* care about his girlfriend loving to run like he did, so it wasn't a dealbreaker! Ben Stuart's book, "Single, Engaged, Dating, Married," played an important part in the beginning of Sadie and Christian's dating relationship. Today, Ben and his wife, Donna, join Sadie to talk about all things singleness, how they started dating, how you know if the person you're dating is "the one," and why, in a new update of the book, Ben included a chapter on breaking up. Sadie talks about a defining moment for her when she fully intended to break up with Christian and how his reaction and statement completely changed her heart—she went from wanting to break up to wanting to marry him. Donna and Ben both share about their time apart when Ben asked for a pause and a letter-writing part for their relationship—and what that eventually proved to them both about the other. If you're in any of these phases, you won't want to miss this encouraging conversation about godly ways to approach finding a spouse. This Episode of WHOA That's Good is Sponsored By: https://drinkag1.com/whoa — Get a lululemon Exclusive Everywhere Belt Bag and AG1 Welcome Kit, with your first subscription, while supplies last with your lululemon membership. https://liberty.edu/Sadie — Get your application fee WAIVED when you start your future with Liberty University today! https://drinklmnt.com/whoa — Get a free LMNT Sample Pack with any purchase! - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
He's funny. He's hot. He's Marco DelVecchio. Three sort-of straight white guys break down every relationship issue under the sun... including: is herpes a dealbre
This week on U Up?, we're making the most of our extra hour of daylight, mostly by making excuses to leave work early. Jared's fresh off of a trip to Boca and has the fresh tan to prove it. Jordana's planning for her own winter getaway with an upcoming trip to the Cayman Islands. Jared tells us about a strange run-in he had with a fan while on a swanky date. Later, we hear from a listener who's conflicted about whether or not she should go on a girl's trip to Miami because it makes her boyfriend uncomfortable. On “Awkward Encounter,” an apartment nightmare turns into a reality when a listener's sister finds out her ex boyfriend's new girlfriend moved into the unit next door. On “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?”, we got bet bragging, dog poop hurling and trauma dumping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Happy Thursday! We're back with another episode, and this one's fun. First up—Apple just dropped a kid-friendly watch?! (Have they been listening to the pod??? LOL) Then, we get into date night swaps with the neighbors (GENIUS), house hunting stress (shoutout Zillow addiction), and a shocking revelation… Harrison just found out babies under six months can't wear sunscreen (ps. Tate has NEVER worn sunscreen - apparently he just didn't know why lmao). Introducing our new segment (OK we're just testing it but…): Table Topics! It's all about the convos you'd have at dinner with your “parent friends” - relationships, pop culture, personal finances, parenting—and we want to hear from you! This week: Is “no kids ever” a relationship deal breaker? Plus, pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Let us know in the comments if you like the new segment, and drop a voice memo with your question/comment/take for next week - https://memo.fm/twoparentsandapod/ And, of course, we're ending with the usual chaos—plane crashes, Katy Perry in space, and people (read: Harrison) screaming at Waymo cars. We LOVE YOU GUYS!! Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:01:10 Apple came out with a kid-friendly watch?! 00:04:25 Date night swaps with the neighbors 00:07:40 Do you have a “side of the bed”?! 00:09:45 The house hunting continues… (s/o Zillow) 00:18:48 Harrison learns babies under 6 months can't wear sunscreen 00:22:53 Table Topic: Is “no kids ever" a relationship deal breaker? 00:36:55 Table Topic: Getting out of your comfort zone 00:42:57 Things We DMed Eachother: Plane crashes & Katy Perry going to space 00:49:20 Brain Break: Yelling at Waymo's 00:54:05 LOVE YOU GUYS! #twoparentsandapod ---------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: Hers – Start your initial free online visit today at https://forhers.com/ALEX for personalized weight loss treatment options. Restrictions apply. Prescription required. Wegovy® and Ozempic® are not compounded. See site for details. Hungryroot – You're going to love Hungryroot as much as I do! Take advantage of this exclusive offer: 40% off your first box PLUS a free item in every box for life. Go to https://Hungryroot.com/justalex and use code JUSTALEX. MeUndies – Get 20% off your first order, plus free shipping on orders of $75 or more at https://MeUndies.com/alex with promo code ALEX. Magnetic Me – Order Magnetic Me today! For yourself… or as a great gift for any parent! New customers get 15% off their first order at https://MagneticMe.com. ---------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on Spotify/Apple Podcasts: https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnHmNzOX9MdnzyU4bD?si=5e715ebaf9014fac https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-parents-a-podcast/id1737442386 Follow Two Parents & A Podcast: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/twoparentsandapod TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@twoparentsandapod Follow Alex: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/justalexbennett TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@justalexbennett Follow Harrison: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/harrisonfugman TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@harrisonfugman ---------------------------------------------------------------- Powered by: Just Media House -- https://www.justmediahouse.com/ ---------------------------------------------------------------- Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Spring is only a few weeks away and J&J are here to get your dating life in tip-top shape. Jordana recounts a late night with the Betches that turned hairy when they almost got deserted at a Long Island steakhouse. Then, Jared gives his tips on how to make your dating app profile stand out and catch attention in only half a second. Later, Jordana explains how to work through an awkward texting dynamic early on in dating and Jared shares his own head-scratching situation. Then we dive into our listener inbox and J&J talk a listener through how to follow up with a stranger he met in a real life meet-cute without seeming creepy. On “Are We Dating?”, J&J help out a listener whose weekend trips with her situationship have her stuck in the “back alley” of dating. Another listener writes in with fears that the guy she's interested in may have put her on the back burner. On this week's “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?”, aggressive texts, anti-vegetarian dating profiles and piss pots. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Mary Kay Cabot joined Baskin and Phelps and shared her takeaways from the NFL Combine in Indianapolis. She discussed the reports on Shedeur Sanders' interviews and personality drawbacks and explained why she didn't think it would be an issue. She also talked about why you can't read too much into reports at this point in the off season and why she thinks the Browns should be taking a quarterback at no. 2.
Would this be a fair trade off? No tailgating for RFK Stadium 2.0?
Full show - Wednesday | Tech screwed me over | News or Nope - Michelle Trachtenberg | OPP - Call her Mom | Don't fall for the Toll Scam | How being in love changes your personality | Sharing your location is a dealbreaker | Slacker needs a woman | Stupid stories @theslackershow @thackiswack @radioerin
Sharing your location with your partner is the latest trend in Gen Z dating. Do you share your location with anyone?
Ryan and Lily met on OK Cupid. They go to dinner where Ryan whips out a coupon. Is this the deal-breaker?
Jared's officially off on his Australia and New Zealand tour and hopes to meet some of our down under listeners at his upcoming shows. Later, he tells a story about his own awkward encounter with a gastroenterologist and Jordana dissects a texting exchange Jared had with a woman he was seeing that turned sour. We dive into our email inbox and hear from a listener who is worried that sleeping with a new romantic interest on their first date may have jeopardized their chance at a committed relationship. Then we hear from a listener who isn't sure if shooting her shot was worth it. And this week's Awkward Encounter has us wondering if there's any situation where a cheese grater is a remotely acceptable birthday gift. Later on Red Flag or Deal Breaker, we hear about some eligible bachelors who are still legally married (possibly for financial reasons), who use bots to flirt with women and who ask you to go barefoot at a bar on the first date. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is Taking the Last Name a Dating Deal-Breaker by Maine's Coast 93.1
This bonus episode is sponsored by Netflix! J and J are reflecting on five years of "Love is Blind" and they're doing it in the most authentic way possible-in the pods! They find out the hard way what it's really like to communicate in the pods as they test themselves on their emotional intuition. Then, they go on to share their two cents on the communication styles of some of the most iconic couples while breaking down the impact the show has had on modern relationships. Plus, Jared and Jordana go in for a round of Couples Court as they ponder why we don't walk away when a partner gives us the shrug? They round out the episode with an epic Love Is Blind version of Red Flag or Deal Breaker, pod edition. Don't miss Season 8, streaming now only on Netflix – new episodes drop this Friday! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Do you often fight with your partner? Do you find it hard to speak your truth in relationships? Today's guest is author and relationship expert Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W., who is a psychotherapist and marriage counselor. Linda talks about how there's an “art” to fighting. Even in the greatest, happiest relationships, conflict can arise. Most challenges and problems can be worked out. If we are vulnerable, we see that underneath the anger and resentment, there's usually disconnection and fear. We can feel misunderstood and lonely but if we open up and express our vulnerability, it invites connection. Linda discusses how to set boundaries and take responsibility for our feelings. She talks about how opposites can attract as each brings different traits to the table. We all have golden light, but dark shadows as well. We can learn from each other and embrace one another's strengths. She also talks about how people search for the “perfect partner.” This can actually be a way to protect oneself, as no one is perfect, but we can look at the good in others. We can practice our skills, and even if relationships don't last, we can still move forward by taking a risk on someone and looking for kindness. Sometimes people absolutely won't agree on certain important aspects. Perhaps there are fights involving one who spends money and one who saves money. If you listen to each other patiently, and with curiosity and wonder, much can be learned and resolved. It's a matter of finding common ground. It doesn't have to be a dealbreaker. Addictions may be a dealbreaker. It's not the addiction itself; it's if the person doesn't want to find help. If people really listen to each other with understanding and respect, needs can be met. Linda also talks about how infidelity doesn't always have to be a dealbreaker. It may be a one-time mistake, and the person may have learned a lesson. It IS possible to forgive. Fears will come up and it will take time. It's a matter of trust and it may be possible to work it out. Being in a relationship takes a lot of work. It's about being conscious. Linda discusses modern families and how there may be completely unequal levels of income. It's important to talk about and get to the roots underneath the discomfort. If couples lean into the challenge, it can be a very fruitful conversation of balance. This is especially prevalent in the United States where people are so focused on money. It is possible to be a contribution, even if finances are unequal. The biggest fights occur when people don't feel the depth of love. Success in the US is defined by money, status, and finances. Linda's definition of success includes how many loving relationships we have in our lives. If you make it the priority, you won't suffer by feeling like you are lacking love. When you get triggered, and you are angry, it's important to take a few breaths. Take a break when you are in a fight. Breath and settle down. Think about what's hurting you and scaring you. That's a helpful, connecting conversation. By doing this, you can feel heard. That's loving behavior. Having a safe word also helps. When you take a “time out,” do not stomp off and slam the door. That's a message saying your partner is impossible. It's important to both agree ahead of time that this is the best way to calm down and compose yourself. Come back with the intention to learn and understand. This respectful attitude builds back the trust. Linda and her husband, Charlie Bloom, are co-authors of several widely acclaimed books including, “101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last,” which has sold more than 100,000 copies, and “Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truths from Real Couples About Lasting Love, Happily Ever After and Thirty-nine Other Myths about Love,” She offers educational and counseling services to individuals, couples, and organizations. She is a regular presenter at Esalen Institute and Kripalu Yoga Center. Info: www.bloomwork.com
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Jordana's gone full-on suburbs. She's enrolled in a “tennis clinic” and in between perfecting her serve is trying to infiltrate the neighborhood gossip circle. She continues to debate the pros and cons of pulling the trigger on getting a dog. Later, J&J give a pep talk to a listener who recently went through a bad breakup after realizing that she and her longterm partner were not on the same page regarding kids. On Awkward Encounter, things get messy after a dog steals a listener's menstrual cup. And this week's Red Flag or Deal Breaker? has Jared and Jordana wondering if bad hygiene is a valid reason to dump someone. Have a dating question for Jordana and Jared? Send an email or voice memo to uup@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at our dating hotline 212-589-8903. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We go through relationship scenarios and decide whether or not they are dealbreakers. We also shout out President's Day and time travel!
It's February, which means we can all complain about it officially being the coldest month of the year. To start things off, Jordana tells Jared about her sister's recent stay at her place and the creative new ways her seven-year-old nephew stress tested her new furniture. Jared's hot off of a star-studded show at the Comedy Cellar, where Madonna inexplicably performed a 40-minute comedy set. Later we dive into our mailbox, and hear from a listener who worries that all her longterm relationships will end up with a dead bedroom. Also, a recent divorcee finds herself stumbling through her reentry into the dating world and regrettably commissions a pet portrait for a man she was casually seeing whose dog died. In “Awkward Encounter,” Jared & Jordana advise a listener who just realized she went on dates with two guys who are close friends and debates whether or not she should tell them. In “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?“, we hear about a guy who pretends he went to an Ivy League school, an ex-boyfriend who might be a little too obsessed with his sister and a woman who won't stop comparing the man she's seeing to her ex. Have a dating question for Jordana and Jared? Send an email or voice memo to uup@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at our dating hotline 212-589-8903. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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We're one month into 2025 and J&J are here to keep you motivated, even if you already quit your New Year's Resolutions. Jordana is fresh off of hosting a housewarming party and Jared is struggling to find time to write a book about dating while actively still dating. Later, we hop into emails, including a listener who wonders if her friends actually need to know the guy she's dating and we answer the mother of all dating questions: How do I approach the gym hottie without being creepy? Today's “Awkward Encounter” takes us to church with a wild listener story about hooking up with their former worship leader. On “Red Flag or Deal Breaker,” J&J debate if terrible reviews on RateMyProfessor are a good reason to not date someone, consider what proper texting etiquette looks like during a national emergency, and question whether it's bad form to refuse to go to a certain dating spot because it isn't romantic enough. Have a dating question for Jordana and Jared? Send an email or voice memo to uup@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at our dating hotline 212-589-8903. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Join Sandra, Lester, Brenda, Calvin, Rose, Pearl, and Mary, on a very special episode of 227. New neighbor, Karl4Real, who's a huge asshole, shoots off his dick in the stairwell with a gun he stole from Calvin. The 227 gang rallies to save Karl's sad, blown off crank. Can Sandra somehow suck a peener back ON? Tune in for the shocking conclusion. Really lookin' forward to the weekend, you guys. Subscribe for K4RDS if you can handle it Listen to our friends Dealbreaker on Spotify
It's the dead of winter and we're all in “hamper girl mode.” Jordana and Jared shake off the cold by jumping into some heated dating questions. Can a person have too many ongoing chats on a dating app? How do I know if breaking up was the right decision? And TikTok has spoken: Ghosting is out and “avoidant discarding” is in. J&J discuss this new dating term and how it's even worse than just leaving someone on read. Later, a listener meets his Reese Witherspoon-esque dream girl. The catch? She lives in a completely different city. J&J give him pointers on how to set up a second date without scaring her off. The “Awkward Encounter”, a typically smooth bartender dreads a looming speed dating event he signed up for. J&J coach him on how to make a great first impression. Then we play “Red Flag, Deal Breaker?,” about a post-sex breakup comment, missing ice cube trays and a date who is only looking for one thing. Have a dating question for Jordana and Jared? Send an email or voice memo to uup@betches.com or leave us a voicemail at our dating hotline 212-589-8903. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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In the midst of reflecting and changing, this episode is on theme for the new year shifts you're trying to make happen! After J&J catch each other up on their holiday breaks, a listener committed to keeping casual wonders how she can keep her anxious dating habits at bay. The Awkward Encounter would be a nightmare for any parent and teen. Then, after dedicating his 20s to his career, a 30m listener asks how to make his focus more dating-centric. Can a demanding job complement his dating life or is it time for a career change? The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about strange Instagram follows, working throughout a date, and a quirky reuse choice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week, J & J are fresh off a dinner party together, but Jared's own awkward encounter at a bar afterwards has him regretting that nightcap martini. After some daydreaming about winter getaways, we dig into the e-mails, starting with a listener who put their friend onto the pod, watched them succeed at finding love, but keeps striking out on their own. They tackle a couple of listener's dating app woes, like should you stop replying if they make an edit to their profile you really dislike? Today's "Awkward Encounter" pushes the boundaries between “awkward” and “heartbreaking,” with a write-in from a woman who thought she was getting a ring but got a break-up instead. Keeping the New Year unhinged, “Red Flag or Deal Breaker” covers disclosing food allergies, being pushy about “going to my place”, and talking about your parents sex lives on a first date… which we think might require a little more professional help. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Happy New Year, U Up? listeners! J&J are ringing in the New Year doing what they do best: going a little bit off the rails. Jared plans to celebrate the New Year by toasting his martini to the moon (and hopes you will toast him back, wherever she is). They reflect about their 2024, before diving into some of Jared's 2025 dating resolutions which include new-and-improved dating lines, personal improvement, and why you should be an even worse first date. Then, we hear from one listener who wants to know if she should be vision boarding her relationship, and an older listener grappling with a middle-aged breakup. Finally, we end with a quick “Red Flag or Deal Breaker,” where every write-in has us asking, “what's going on with men??” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
After a couple weeks away from the studio and just days after Jared's special taping, Jordana starts this episode by giving Jared his flowers and catches him up on her girls' trip as the hosts settle back in. The first email asks for advice for everyone traveling to stay with family over the holiday season. How do you balance dating and family time when you're away from your city, but don't want to take a break? The Awkward Encounter, sponsored by A24's Babygirl, comes from a woman unsure when to bring up her kinks to find the right partner. Next, a listener with a calculated approach to her dating life is starting to second-guess herself after her friends' judgment about her current situation. The episode ends with a round of “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about family baggage, an angry cat, and a vegan's roach reservations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why won't Jared go to therapy? We get this question often and, this week, he shares his own thought on why as well as a helpful TikTok, "Men Who Wear Masks And Struggle With Conflict" by @elisemicheals. Plus, he and Jordana are slipping more into f*ck it mode for the holidays. The first email is advice ahead of office holiday party season when your coworkers knew your ex: how do you introduce your new boyfriend to your coworkers without any awkward moments? The Awkward Encounter has a strange condom request. Then, we hear from a listener who's growing frustrated with a conversation ick with the guy she's dating. Every time she shares a story, he somehow makes it about himself. Can they get over these conflicting communication styles? The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about turning a submission into a Hinge prompt, an off-putting first date experience, and acting like a baby when you're sick Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices