Sharing is Caring

Happy Bi Visibility Day! - Interview with Mr. and Mrs. H from bed hoppers on bisexuality in the lifestyle Welcome to Episode 24 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. This episode is to celebrate Bi Visibility Day 2020! This episode is from episode 79 of bed hoppers podcast where Mr. and Mrs. H interviewed us on bisexuality in the lifestyle. The interview was done over skype (thanks COVID) so the sound quality isn't as good as normal, but there is a lot of great content! We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all x Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Where have we been? We discuss a major development in our lives and the impact is has had/is having. Welcome to Episode 23 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. This is a slightly shorter update episode which is also cross-over with the bed hoppers! Spoiler alert... Cherie is pregnant! Mr. and Mrs. H from the bed hoppers interview us about what impact it has had on our lives. We talk about the impact it has had many aspects of our lives, including our outlook on the lifestyle and our play together. We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all x Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

What can you do to keep up your lifestyle activities while on lockdown and self-isolating? We explore what we've been doing to scratch our itch.Welcome to Episode 22 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode we catchup on some of our meets dates from before the lockdown, as well discussing a sensual massage course which we attended via Zoom.We also discuss the various things we have done to scratch our exhibitionist itch and stay in touch with our friends while on lockdown. These include: Video calls. Various quizzes and flirting with sexy friends Chat groups. We have found that people are focusing more on building connections rather than rushing to arrange a meet. Camera shows. We have done some camera shows on Chaturbate, it's a fun way to be an exhibitionist while making a few dollars on the side! Videos on Pornhub. We've made and uploaded a few videos to pornhub and really enjoyed watching the number of views climb. Posting photos online. We really enjoy posting pictures to reddit, we've had some great conversations with people resulting from it and it's a fun way to feel sexy when you can't leave the house. Virtual parties. Since all parties have had to be cancelled, some organisors are still hosting virtual parties so you can still keep up with your friends. We answer the listener question: In your podcast you’ve said a few times that you don’t meet people online much and that you prefer to meet people at socials. Why is that? Have you had bad experiences which have put you off?Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Chaturbate referral link: https://chaturbate.com/in/?track=default&tour=g4pe&campaign=FGGYB We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

When on dates in public places or at vanilla events, what’s your view on public displays of affection/interaction outside your couple? How do some people react?Welcome to Episode 21 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we catchup on what we have been doing lately, including a couple dates, another trip to Rios and some sexy fun with Mew right after we finished recording last episode.We also discuss public displays of affection / interaction outside your couple in a vanilla setting. We have had several occasions where people have reacted in different ways, ranging from staring and reacting badly, to being intrigued and asking questions. We discuss some questions including: - People's reactions - What happens if people recognise you? - What's the impact on work? - What can you do to feel more comfortable - What do we feel comfortable doing? - What influences whether or not we are happy with PDAWe have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

In this episode we interview Mew and get to know her a bit better and learn about the lifestyle from the perspective of a unicorn.Welcome to Episode 20 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.Mew is a good friend who is also a unicorn. In this episode we speak with her and hear about the lifestyle from her perspective. Mew answers questions about what the positives? what have been great experiences? As well as discussing some of the difficulties and downsides of being a unicorn. We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Keep being amazing and sexy xSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

In this episode we recap what we did in 2019 and discuss French swinging vocabularyWelcome to Episode 19 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this bonus episode we look back at our year in review and answer the following 10 reflection questions about out year swinging: 1. What will you remember 2019 for? 2. What worked great this year? 3. What are you proud of? 4. What was your biggest challenge? 5. What did you learn about yourself? 6. Which word describes your last year the best? 7. Who needs to be acknowledged? 8. What’s something you would have like to have done in 2019 but didn’t? 9. Other than time and money, what do you want more of in New year? 10. Stepping into the New year, what is calling you and seducing you? (What will you do about it?)Cherie also discussed some french swinging Vocabulary: - Swinging: Echangisme / libertinage - Soft swap: Melangisme - Having sex next to each other: Côte-à-côtisme - Threesomes: Triolisme /Plan a 3 - Sex clubs: Club échangiste - club libertin - Polyamory: Polyamour - Penetration: Pénétration - Voyeurism: Voyeurisme - Exhibitionism: Exhibitionisme - Orgy: Orgie / partouze - BDSM: SM - Porn: Porno / film X - Vibrator: Vibromasseur - Dildo: gode - Sex toys: Sex toys - Lube: lubrifiant - Strap-on: Gode-ceinture - Squirting: femme fontaineWe have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Happy new year you sexy people!Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Drinking too much at a Killing Kittens Hedonism party - Being submissive, returnign to Rios and dealing with rude peopleWelcome to Episode 18 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we discuss attending a Killing Kittens Hedonism party, where Cherie drank a bit too much. This lead so some interesting situations and some good lessons learned!In our catchup we talk about a friend coming to stay and her finding her dominant side, and going back to Rios with a group of friends!We also address the listener question(s): I'm really interested in getting into the lifestyle, but I'm petrified to take the first steps. How soft can a soft swap be? Does it have to involve oral or can you just kiss and caress? Are you always expected to give oral if you have received? Would you suggest trying a threesome first or having sex in front of people in a sexy atmosphere?Killing Kittens website: www.killingkittens.comWe have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an great day and love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

An interview with Ramona about living with Vaginismus Welcome to Episode 17 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we are joined by our good friend, Ramona, who shares her experience of being a sexual person who is living with the condition Vaginismus.Ramona discusses what Vaginismus is and how it has impacted her life in various ways, both inside and outside the bedroom. Links: Ramona Twitter: @NotSheath The Vaginismus Network: https://www.thevaginismusnetwork.com/ Sh! Womans Store: https://www.sh-womenstore.com Dialator: https://www.sh-womenstore.com/sh-vibrating-silicone-vaginismus-set.htmlWe have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Our experience swinging when we couldn't play.Welcome to Episode 16 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.Life has been very busy lately and we haven't had the time to record! Rather than waiting longer, we decided to record and release a shorter episode, we hope you enjoy it!In this episode we recount our experience from a year ago when, due to a medical surprise, Cherie couldn't play. We discuss how we handled our existing invites and what we decided to do in the end.We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Special cross-over episode with Bedhoppers for Bisexual visibility day!Welcome to Episode 15 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this special episode, we are joined by our Friends Mr. and Mrs. H from Bedhoppers (@bedhoppersUK), and Lord Voldemort and Vanilla Ice (@HisCockHerTail) in London for a discussion about Bisexuality and bi visibility.Getting Bi song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77IsWe have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

The final three days of our trip to Cap d'AgdeWelcome to Episode 14 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.This episode is a part 2 of Cap d'Agde Diaries 2019, if you haven't listened to part 1, we recommend going back and listening to Episode 13 first.We just got back from our trip to Cap d’Agde for just over a week. Every day we recorded a few minutes about what we had been up to the previous day, so the thoughts were fresh in our mind. Unfortunately, we didn't get to record during the final three days, but we made notes and recorded once we got back to London.We also recorded a small section where we reflect on what went well, and what we would do differently next time.We did also manage to arrange a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!We enjoyed Cap d'Agde so much that we have booked to go back again at the end of this week with a friend! If you will be there between Friday 6th September and Monday 9th September, get in touch!Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

The first six days of our trip to Cap d'AgdeWelcome to Episode 13 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.This episode is a bit different, we just got back from our trip to Cap d’Agde for just over a week. Every day we recorded a few minutes about what we had been up to the previous day, so the thoughts were fresh in our mind. After looking at all the recordings, the episode was going to be really long, so we’ve decided to release it as two episodes in a couple of days.Our trip was quite different than expected, not only because we lost a couple days to getting sick in the middle, but because we ended up making so many great friends. The focus really naturally shifted to meeting people and building relationships above the sex.We did also manage to arrange a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership!We enjoyed Cap d'Agde so much that we have booked to go back again next week with a friend! If you will be there between Friday 6th September and Monday 9th September, get in touch!It’s a bit rough we were in our hotel room and it’s as much for our own memories as anything else. The recording quality isn’t the best and there is some background noise, but we hope you enjoy it.Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes.SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Being yelled at by security, Preparing for Cap, and transitioning to play timeWelcome to Episode 12 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we continue our journey and talk about our second Fever party!For our catchup, we talk about starting to pack for Cap d'Agde, seeing Mew again, and Cherie considers getting her nipple(s) pierced Main topic In our journey continues with a mixed night at Fever. We have a great night, but it is soured by something bad at the end. We talk about how important the events surrounding a party are to add to the experience.We then discuss what we have learnt from our last trip to Cap d'Agde and what we will do differently this time. Listener Question We answer a question from Fab Swingers: "We are new to the lifestyle and have been on two meets so far. Both were a lot of fun, but it took a long time for us to get the courage to move from talking to play time and it didn’t really feel natural. Do you have any suggestions on how to make this shift easier and more natural?"Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

An interview with our first unicorn where we discuss the journey of transitioning from friends, to pants-off friendsWelcome to Episode 11 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.After covering a heavy, serious topic last time, this episode is a lot more light hearted and fun! We have an interview with a good friend. We have all had a few drinks and are having some fun, so it is a bit chaotic (and a nightmare to edit!), but there is some good stuff in this episode, so it's worth a listen.For our catchup, Cherie talks about a vanilla event which she recently attended where the conversation turned to sex parties. We then recount Mew's recent sexy sleep over. Main topic Our main topic is an interview with Cyan, who was originally a school friend of Kiwi. Cyan also moved to Europe, and eventually London.In the interview with Cyan, we discuss our first experience converting from pant-on to pants-off friends. This is the first time we have all discussed it in depth together. Listener Question We answer a question from Fab Swingers: "What is a Unicorn?"Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Discussing what bisexuality means to us and how it has impacted our livesWelcome to Episode 10 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.It's a heavier topic, so this show is slightly shorter.This is an episode I’ve been really looking forward to, and worried about. It’s such a large complex topic and I want us to get it right, but still be entertaining! So to preface this episode, just a reminder that we are by no means experts and we’re on a journey of figuring all this out.For this podcast we’ll talk a bit about what bisexuality is, we’ll cover the kinsey scale, and briefly talk about labels. Then we’ll discuss how we experience the lifestyle from the perspective of being a bi couple, and finally how being bi influences our every-day livesWe are recording this on the final of pride month and we’re going to release it on the week leading up to London Pride, which is next Saturday 6th July! We’ll be there to party and we’ll bring along a few stickers.In our catchup we talk about our recent trip to the coast to visit the Bed Hoppers! While visiting, we did a short session recording for their up-coming podast, so check out their next episode if you want to hear! Main topic In our main topic we briefly cover: - The Kinsey Scale - A modified scale to account for various types of attraction - Labels - Bisexuality vs Pansexuality - Being bi in the lifestyle - How being bi impacts our every-day lives - Some issues faced by the bi community - A few famous people throughout history who were/may have been bi Listener Question We revive an old listener question from episode 3/4 when we first mentioned that we are bi and answer: “How long have you known that you were bisexual and when do you first remember being attracted to men/women?”Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all xxSupport Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

We return to Cap d'Agde and Kiwi's has his first Bisexual ExperienceWelcome to Episode 9 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.Before recording this episode we had been up all night (after a date went very well). As a result of being so tired, our accents are strong and our our stories are tangential!In this episode we’re going to talk about our second visit to Cap d’Agde. So If you haven’t listened to part one which was our first visit, it’s worth listening to that first. It was episode 8, the episode before this. Our first visit was quite tame. We were only there for two nights and one full day, so by the time we started to get into the mood it was time to leave. This time we came back prepared… Main topic For our main topic we recount our sexy adventures during our second visit to Cap d'Agde, staying at Le Jardin d'Eden. There was little sleep and much play... but you'll have to listen to find out more! Listener Question This time we answer a listener feedback e-mail about why we aren't full swap.Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Swinging in the south of FranceWelcome to Episode 8 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we jump forward in time and talk about our first fisit to le Cap d'Agde! Main topic Since we are getting in the mood for our Cap d'Agde visit in August, we discuss our first visit to Cap d'Agde.Le Cap d’Agde is literally translated as the cape of Agde and it is one of the largest leisure ports on the French Mediterranean. When most people talk about Cap d’Agde they talk about the naturist village, which is a self contained complex which is fenced off from the rest of the town, you need to pay to get in. In the naturist village there are hotels, shops, supermarkets, restaurants, night clubs, bars, post office, bank and ATMs, launderettes, hairdressers and other facilities. Looking on the official website, in all there are about 180 businesses in the village and the population grows up to 50,000 over peak season. Listener Question We answer a question about how to decide which swingers club to choose.Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Dabbling into BDSM and KinkWelcome to Episode 7 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy.In this episode we talk about our recent experience with Cherie taking on a dominant role and how much we enjoyed the (new for us) experience. Main topic For the main topic, we start to explore Kink and BDSM. Disclaimer: We are new to Kink and BDSM, so probably make mistakes! But that's why this is our journey.Since we are new to kink, we first define several terms using BDSM Wiki definitions: http://www.bdsmwiki.info We then discuss our limited experience and what we have tried, followed by discussing a list of the top 10 most common kinks in the UK (as per a LoveHoney survery from 2017). Finally, we compare our results from the BDSM test - https://bdsmtest.org Listener Question We answer a question about grooming in the lifestyle and how pubic hair is received.Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Swinger Burnout and why we haven't been as active latelyWelcome to Episode 6 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!Note: The sound quality is not as good in this episode, we will fix the problems for episode 7.We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London.First things first, we have booked our holiday in Cap d'Agde! We will be staying at Le Jardin de Babylone from Saturday 17th to Sunday 25th August 2019. If you are planning to be in Cap d'Agde at the same time, get in touch!For our main topic we talk about why we haven’t been as active over the last several weeks and address Lifestyle Fatigue, or Swinger Burnout. We discuss potential causes, including: - Illness - Pregnancy and childbirth - Too much going on in normal life - Too much going on in lifestyle - Relationship issuesWe go on to answer a couple questions: How do you relationships while having a break? and How long we take a break for? / When is it time to return? We then explore ways to explore and manage fatigue: - Make time for yourselves and your relationship - Use a calendar - Prioritise who you want to spend your time with Listener Question We answer a question submitted by someone who read our review of Le Boudoir on reddit: We've been enjoying lifestyle clubs for a while now, but are a little nervous about Le Boudoir. We've seen a bunch of reviews where couples go and then either get asked to not attend again, or are not invited to attend in the first place. We are both conventionally attractive with a touch of alternative so not too worried on that front. Our main curiosity is just what the crowd was like when you were there? We have been led to understand that fairly heavy people are basically not invited to attend. Our male half is a hair off normal BMI, and female half is around size 14-16 so we are not big, but are not gym fit either. We are losing weight and firming up and have been for a few months now (thanks swinging!), but are trying to figure out if we should get slimmer and fitter first before applying and attending, or if we are already fairly average compared to the crowd there and would be safe to take the plunge. If you could share some thoughts as to what you saw with the average and lower ends of the crowd in terms of appearance, that would be really helpful in assisting us understanding the thresholds! Much appreciated and thanks for the review from a couple of months ago. Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Recruiting a new Unicorn from TinderWelcome to Episode 5 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London.We are finally back from our holiday in New Zealand! After being home for a week, the jetlag is fading but Kiwi's NZ accent is still strong. Catchup: Neither of us had ever used Tinder before, so while in Dunedin we decided to download and try out Tinder for the first time with a couples profile. We were lucky enough to meet a beautiful single woman who shared some of the same interests as us... Blanket forts! Continuing the Journey For this portion of telling our story we talk about inviting "Tina" and "Josh" over to our flat for a bit of soft fun. Cherie's favourite part was definitely the massage with coconut oil at the end. Listener Question We answer a question submitted by a friend of ours: I’m single and want to get into the swinging scene and want to meet up with couples to play, but I don’t want to just be seen as a kind of novel for couples to use without considering my feelings. Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Visiting a nudist beach and returning to RiosWelcome to Episode 4 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London.This episode was pre-recorded because we are going on holiday to New Zealand for a few weeks! I'm actually typing up these show notes right before we run out the door to the airport. Catchup: We talk about the anti-Valentine's day social/meet and greet we went to last Thursday at which we met a single man who we have been messaging. Continuing the Journey For this portion of telling our story we talk about two parts of our journey. First, visiting a nudist (several times) beach near Komiža in Croatia. Secondly, we recount our second visit to Rios at which we met and played with another couple. Listener Question We answer a question submitted by an anonymous listener: Recently my partner and I have been talking about opening our relationship. I’m interested in getting into the lifestyle and my partner is trying to get there, but they want to go gently. What’s the best way to go about setting up something very gentle or introductory for a first experience? Feel free to get in touch, and to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to the tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more on the Sharing is Caring website.Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Pasta, Friends, and BisexualityWelcome to Episode 3 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London.In this episode we start out by discussing the episode of BBC 4 Womans hour podcast which came out on 11th Feb 2019 entitled Nelson Mandela's PA, Sewing, Porn in which they discuss the recent law changes in the UK surrounding pornography and so-called obscene acts. A transcript of our conversation and link to the episode can be found at the bottom of the show notes.For our catchup portion we talk about the "social" we attended last Saturday where we were the only couple (other than the organisers), and pole dancing.We then continue our story about our journey into the lifestyle. This time we discuss our first visit to Rios, a naturist spa in London which has couples night on Saturday.This episode we have our first real listener question!: We've been thinking about this for a while now and both want it and talking to you and your podcast has made us so much more confident to try it soon. I would love to know more about Kiwis bi experiences when swinging. I am nervous about my bicuriosity being obvious or a problem as so often only the woman is expected to be bi in foursomes. Kiwi talks briefly about being a bisexual man in the lifestyle and we decide to dedicate an episode to the topic.Feel free to get in touch, and to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Porn Law changes transcript Podcast name: BBC 4 Womans hour podcast which came out on 11th Feb 2019 entitled Nelson Mandela's PA, Sewing, Porn Podcast link: https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/womans-hour/id130950322?mt=2&i=1000429624850 I was listening to yesterday’s episode the BBC woman's hour podcast on the way home from work this evening and they did a segment a recent law change in the UK where the laws surrounding porn showing so-called obscene acts has been relaxed. Under the previous law, obscene acts included things like Female Ejaculation, BDSM and Face-sitting, which is absolutely crazy.The major change is that Crown Prosecution Service are no longer defining what is classified as obscene and have removed all examples. In a statement, they said “It is not for the CPS to decide what is considered good taste or objectionable”. Instead the guidance will give criteria which any potentially objectionable material will be evaluated against. The four main criteria are: the likely audience is not under 18 it is not otherwise linked with other criminality no serious harm is caused, whether physical or otherwise it features consenting adults, where the provision of consent is made clear where consent may not be easily determined from the material itselfThe last point is really the one which really matters: it features consenting adults, where the provision of consent is made clear where consent may not be easily determined from the material itselfNow, this isn’t just a win because it allows people to produce and consume porn which reflects their identity and desires, but as Pandora Blake, a self identified performer and porn producer who was interviewed on the podcast mentions, it mean that mainstream porn producers will need to start to show the performers giving and even negotiating consent. This is already something which is a lot more common for kink producers, but at the moment it’s not really part of mainstream porn. Anyway, I don’t want to spend the whole podcast talking about the social impact of consent in porn, so I’ll stop now. It’s a short 10 minute segment at the beginning of the episode with a debate, it’s worth listening to, I’ll put the podcast info into the show notes, go check it out after you finish listening.Support Sharing is Caring by donating to the tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more on the Sharing is Caring website.Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Meeting People UnexpectedlyWelcome to Episode 2 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London.In this episode we are trying out a new mic with much better results, let us know what you think.We discuss our resent experience of being propositioned at an immersive dinner in the Waterloo Vaults, and a few other sexy experiences of meeting people in the wild.We also discuss common swinger "symbols", some more reliable than others (hint, garden gnome does not always equal swinger).For our listener question we have text a friend and answer: Are all women in the lifestyle bi?Correction: While answering the listener question we talk about the Kinsey scale; the scale is in fact 0-6, not 0-7 as we say in the podcast. Kinsey scale: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scaleFeel free to get in touch, and to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

How we started out in the swinging lifestyleWelcome to Episode 1 of Sharing is Caring the podcast!We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. In this episode we introduce ourselves and talk about how we first got into the lifestyle, as well as recounting our first experience at a Fever party in London. We answer a "listener question" (since we don't have any listeners yet, a friend's question): Is the lifestyle full of sexy people?Feel free to get in touch, and to submit a listener question for future episodes. Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caringFind out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com