Spicier Than Therapy with Twen & Tyr

Crisis Hotline Information And, since this episode had some technical sound issues that I didn't have the bandwidth to go back and re-record, here's a transcript of the script. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Give yourself grace, love, and patience. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Twen & Tyr are back with a brand new episode talking about Sex in the Apocalypse, Adventures at DragonCon, and all the crazy shenanigans they got up to recently! Follow along as the madness runs the gamut from burlesque to zombie flesh lights. Its a vibe! *Link mentioned in episode* https://www.thesocietyofsin.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

In this week's episode Twen gets to sit down with Stephanie Matto best known for her time on Reality TV show 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, and Single Life. However, fans may also like to know that she is a CEO & founder of a tech startup, adult content creator, YouTuber, and rare disease advocate. While her reality TV days may be numbered, her fart jar career is over, her 18+ fan subscription platform Unfiltrd appears to be only getting bigger!  Notably, Stephanie is the CEO & Founder of Unfiltrd, which is a first of its kind platform which incorporates elements of a fan subscription platform with live entertainment to create a truly unique experience for creators and fans alike. Most recently, her 2 year old platform partnered with industry giant Deja Vu in order to create a revolution in the sex tech and live adult entertainment industry. Stephanie is always striving to evolve as an entrepreneur, while also staying true to her content creator roots.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Twen & Tyr talk about Compersion in polyamory and ethical non monogamy. What it is, what it isn't, and how it relates to feelings of jealousy and insecurity. They also talk about how to practice feeling compersion, and take viewer questions and discuss narcissists. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Howdy! Twen and Tyr discuss the tough questions we get a lot regarding polyamory, poly relationships, and polycules. We've gotten questions via email, Tiktok, and YouTube video comments. So we're helping you answer the burning inquiries you have. Also feel free to shoot us an email with your questions @ SpicierThanTherapy@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome to Season 4 of STT! We're so happy to have you along while we ramble incoherently about life, relationships, and what we've been up to the last few months. We'll also be talking about boundaries, rules, and agreements in polyamory. So whether you are new to poly, or listening in with your entire polycule, snuggle in and get cozy and irreverent with us! *Information on DisabiliTease Festival* The DisabiliTease Festival (DTF) provides a platform for people with disabilities to showcase their talents in the areas of burlesque, cirque, cabaret, and drag. This Festival works to challenge and overturn the notion that having a disability decreases or interferes with a person's desirability, allure, or competence as a performer. Tickets are now on sale for watch parties of the 2020, 2021, and 2022 festivals!To prepare for the hybrid 2024 Festival in Minneapolis, DTF will highlight Disability Pride Month while showcasing previous years' shows. Join the watch parties, live chat, cheer, tip the performers, and enjoy the community with other party-goers.The Festivals will stream July 7-23 via Zoom, with each show year having its own weekend. Friday and Saturday shows will be presented at 7 pm CDT. Sunday shows will be presented at noon CDT.“These watch parties are a great opportunity for audience members to watch shows they missed or couldn't get enough of. It's also a time for performers to receive more love and appreciation for their work,” says producer Minda Mae.Purchase general tickets for $15 or use the “Pay What You Can” option to choose any amount. All watch party proceeds will go towards the hybrid 2024 Festival.https://tinyurl.com/DTF2023WatchParties --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Ayooo! This week Twen & Tyr discuss Hierarchy in Polyamory. Its a deep dive into the good, bad, and the reality of prioritization in polyamorous relationships. Twen & Tyr also discuss kitchen table polyamory, polyfidelity, and Tyr's new obsession with the phrase 'Garden Party Polyamory'. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome back! Twen & Tyr discuss what's been keeping them busy recently and the importance of being transparent in both the poly & kink worlds. We also talk about Twen's new Burlesque show 'Noches de Cabaret'....which is Dope. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/spicierthantherapy/support

On this episode we discuss the importance of Before Care or Pre-Care in the BDSM world. We explore the concept and discuss the ways in which it also applies to polyamory and relationships in general. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome to 2023! We're back with our first episode of the new year. We talk about cheating in polyamory, our plans for 2023, and what you can expect from Spicier Than Therapy this season. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This is the final episode of 2022! Our Holiday Special episode where we talk about everything that has happened this year, how we got here, and what this year means to us. We also, for the first time ever, take live questions from the audience in this unedited episode. Hear us in all of our neurodivergent glory! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We continue our BDSM educational conversation with a deeper dive into switches! We explore the switch mindset more in-depth, talk about liminal transitions, and answer some FAQ's from our discord peeps! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We continue our Season 3 opener with Part 2 of our interview with Cate Osborn (CatieOsaurus) - one half of the 'Catie & Erik's Infinite Quest: An ADHD Adventure' Podcast. We discuss safety on the interwebz, social media presence, and neurodiversity on the second half of our interview! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We kick off Season 3 with an interview with Cate Osborn (CatieOsaurus) - one half of the 'Catie & Erik's Infinite Quest: An ADHD Adventure' Podcast. We talk about all things kinky, neurodivergent, and social media-y in this exquisite part 1 interview! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

In the 1st episode of this 2-part season closer, Twen & Tyr talk about Switches in the BDSM & Kink world. Twen gives her own personal observation on Switch mentality, mindset, and practice. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Twen takes a week off to recover and Tyr walks you through the wonderful world of mentoring within BDSM & Kink! We discuss the value of finding a mentor, the benefits a mentee will receive, and how to find a mentor within your local community. The books mentioned during the podcast are 'The Ritual of Dominance & Submission' by David English and 'The Heart of Dominance' by Anton Fulmen. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

The team travels to Atlanta to hang with 65k of our newest friends! Twen & Tyr discuss all their favorite experiences they had at DragonCon 2022. They talk performances, panels, swag, and getting to meet some awesome new people. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

In this episode we take the time to answer the burning questions that YOU, the listener, have for us. In this Live Q&A you hear us go in depth on BDSM & polyamory, as well as get to hear us laugh it up as listeners pose some truly fun questions. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This week we are finishing our interview with Den Schaeffer-Smith! Den is the current title-holder for the Midsouth Kink & Leather Sir and has been a member of the BDSM & Gay Leather Community for more than 30 years! We talk to Den about his experience within the community, the lifestyle, and his experience with and opinions on Old Guard. Resources: Hoist Memphis TN Leather Club Friends For Life OutMemphis Dru's Bar Pumping Station Atomic Rose --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This week we have the honor of interviewing Den Schaeffer-Smith! Den is the current title-holder for the Midsouth Kink & Leather Sir and has been a member of the BDSM & Gay Leather Community for more than 30 years! We talk to Den about his experience within the community, the lifestyle, and his experience with and opinions on Old Guard. You can find out more information about the organization's Den mentions by searching for the TN Leather Tribe and HOIST, both out of Memphis! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This episode discusses one of the most important factors in establishing a healthy, communicative Dom/Sub dynamic; VETTING! We discuss the importance of vetting, the concept behind it, and the steps to vetting from both the Dom and the Sub perspective. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome to the first episode in our four part series on BDSM & Kink! We discuss basic concepts and ideas within the community as well as define some introductory terms. We end today's episode with a discussion on what to watch out for when entering the world of kink. For some helpful terminology, check out this link: https://rekink.com/terminology/glossary-of-kink-terminology-a-to-i/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We continue our conversation with therapist and coach, Heidi Savell, on the topic of advanced polyamory. This is also our first ever video podcast episode we've ever uploaded! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome to Season 2! This episode we interview therapist & coach Heidi Savell, who has been helping polyamorous people find satisfaction in their relationships for more than a decade! We're talking advanced polyamory strategies! Find Heidi Savell at: www.Shelovesradically.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This episode runs the gamut of topics. Neurodivergent brain is in full effect as we seamlessly flow from one topic to the next. We cover boundaries in relationships, communication, mental health, microdosing, and take questions from our LIVE audience! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We continue our conversation on dating by discussing hook-up culture and friends with benefits. We also talk about Tyr's '2 Hook Up Rule'. Twen & Tyr answer questions from the live audience! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Wondering where last week's episode was? What about this week's episode? Well, we give you a small update on what has been going on in our world. We return to our regularly scheduled programming next week. Big love to you all! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This week's episode is especially dedicated to all the BHOF 2022 winners, including the new Miss Exotic World: Lou Lou la Duchesse de Riere of the Mohawk Nation! This week, we dive into what is Burlesque, and why is it so special to Twen? How did it come about? How do acts come together? And is it like the movie? Other artists mentioned: Bella Sin Izhonny (Isaiah Tillman and Johnny Nuriel) Judith Stein Toni Tobasco Tempest Storm Lotti Ellington Toni Elling Catherine D'Lish Ginger Snaps Remy Dee Miss Audacious Fritz Kreig Dirty Martini Medianoche Frankie Fictitious Phoenix Ablaze Mecca Mwah Barbie Qued QCG Productions Manuge et Toi --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

We discuss the trials & tribulations of being on dating apps, horror stories in dating, and how to have a better overall experience on these apps. We also spend a good amount of time picking on Tyr :) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

This week we jump into the topic of mental health, the stigmas surrounding it, and what we've been going through of late. We also discuss Stoicism as a concept from a high level as well as our ongoing affinity for the card game Unstable Unicorns. Join us we have a serious conversation that veers into the silly and inane. Just like you were hanging out with us at our house! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

In this 3rd episode on Polyamory, we finally get around to discussing how we personally approach poly in our relationship. We talk about setting boundaries, communication before shenanigans, and approaching other poly people. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Twen & Tyr continue their discussion on polyamory by talking about the toxic traits sometimes found in the lifestyle. We'll define toxic poly, give some examples of it in relationships, and offer ways to avoid engaging in unhealthy polyamorous relationships. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

A special, and poignant episode, where we talk about the leaked Supreme Court draft opinion, its impact on Roe v. Wade, and its affect on the poly and kink communities. Resources: Center for Reproductive Rights - www.reproductiverights.org The Trevor Project - www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Twen & Tyr discuss polyamory! Its definition, types of poly relationships, important things to consider, and how poly fits within the overall umbrella of ethical non-monogamy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

Welcome to Twen & Tyr's very first episode! Our podcast discusses polyamory, kink, relationships, neurodiversity, communication, and everything that goes in to establishing and maintaining healthy relationships. This first episode allows us to introduce ourselves to you, the listener, tell you what we're all about and how we got here. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/spicierthantherapy/support

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