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In 2012, comedian Tig Notaro was diagnosed with invasive cancer, got pneumonia, contracted C. diff, went through a breakup, and then lost her mother - all within four months. Tig joins Nicole to talk about how surviving that period changed her outlook on life, how she rebuilt, and how an ironic “sweet dreams” text turned into the most adorable relationship with her wife Stephanie. They talk about how commitment ended up giving Tig a sense of freedom, finding comedy in the darkest moments in life, raising twins, and her new documentary Come See Me in the Good Light.Check out Tig's new film, Come See Me in the Good Light, on Apple TV+. And listen to her podcast, Handsome.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your unique gifts this year, go to uncommongoods.com/dateme.Jones Road Beauty: Use code DATEME at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Cool Gloss with your first purchase! These sell out fast so get them while they last! Quince: Step into the holiday season with layers made to feel good, look polished, and last— from Quince. Perfect for gifting or keeping for yourself. Go to Quince.com/dateme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too.Squarespace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Betterhelp: Visit Betterhelp.com/DATEME today to get 10% off your first month.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Episode 176: Exploring Non-Monogamy & Dating Apps with Öykü from Beyond Dating AppWhat if everything we were taught about love, sex, and relationships was designed to keep us playing small?

Health Hacker TIM FERRISS reveals how to naturally calm anxiety, lower stress, balance your nervous system, and boost mental health - without medication. Tim Ferriss is an entrepreneur, investor, lifestyle guru, and host of The Tim Ferriss Show. He is also the author of 5 #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestselling books, such as: ‘The 4-Hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich'.  He explains: ◼️Why stimulating the vagus nerve may hold the key to anxiety relief ◼️How HRV became the #1 biomarker he tracks, and how to improve it fast ◼️His go-to 5-day reset protocol for nervous system healing  ◼️What most people get wrong about managing stress, and how to fix it today ◼️The #1 diet mistake that could be fueling your anxiety [00:00] Intro   [02:45] My Mission: Simplify Complex Ideas   [03:36] Framework for Fast Learning   [08:00] Choosing the Right Projects   [10:21] Importance of Small Steps for Big Results [12:46] Why Humans Need Purpose  [15:45] Tim's Sexual Abuse Story [25:48] How People Deal With Trauma   [31:58] Practical Steps to Prevent Suicide   [35:49] Humans Aren't Programmed to Be Alone   [39:18] Accelerated TMS for Depression and Anxiety   [42:45] Metabolic Psychiatry   [44:08] Psychedelic Treatments for Mental Health   [45:38] Vagus Nerve Stimulation   [50:11] Ads   [53:22] The Future of Health: What's Coming Next?   [57:21] What's Guiding You Today?   [59:30] Dating Apps and the Paradox of Choice   [1:02:49] How Would You Spend Your Last Day on Earth?   Follow Tim: Instagram - https://bit.ly/49gqgRc  TikTok - https://bit.ly/4oHX0ro  X - https://bit.ly/4qW09oI  You can purchase Tim's new COYOTE card game, here: https://amzn.to/489NdnV  You can purchase Tim's book, ‘The 4-Hour Work Week', here: https://amzn.to/3LysDoy  Read Tim's deeply personal reflections on suicide, here: https://bit.ly/4i1NnRS  If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help. You're not alone. 

Send episode requests hereI can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated.When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?" The answer? It's my mindset. I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything.In this episode, I'm sharing the three mindset shifts that keep me magnetic, energized, and successful on dating apps while other women are deleting them out of frustration.You'll discover why focusing on the "wrong" men is draining your energy and what to do instead so you can stay in momentum instead of feeling stuck.After listening, you'll understand how to stop making everything on the apps a problem, how to turn every unmatch and fizzled conversation into valuable data instead of disappointment, and why experimenting instead of complaining is the key to actually meeting quality men.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

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Marriott and Sonder’s messy breakup leaves guests stuck in the middle as cancellations and confusion pile up. Then, Andy introduces Frolly, the new dating app bringing dog lovers together - because why not find love through your pup? Finally, we explore the haunting yet heartwarming story of the dogs of Chernobyl, the resilient descendants of pets left behind who’ve adapted to one of the most radioactive places on EarthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

With the rise of Trumpism, more and more conservative men are lying about their politics on dating apps. We swipe through some numbers and explanations.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Send us your thoughts and possible requests for show topics. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR SHOWWhat happens when three opinionated hosts invite three Jersey women to dissect modern dating with zero filters and a lot of receipts? Sparks fly, rules get rewritten, and the truth about apps, scams, red flags, and real chemistry spills out in full color. We set the tone with tech chaos and holiday snark, then dive into the meat of it: why Hinge roses and premium paywalls turn connection into microtransactions, how filters and height inflation erode trust, and why chatting for weeks only breeds projections. The women's stories are brutally relatable—scammers with overseas “bank lockouts,” rent-ask bots, and first dates that fizzle after two Foreigner songs—while the guys admit the male versions of self-sabotage, hedging, and performance-mode dating.We push for a saner playbook: meet faster, keep the first date short and public, and cut your chat queue to two or three to lower the noise. Single parents get real about time: kid ages, custody rhythms, and mom guilt can derail momentum even when the spark is real. The crew doesn't shame meds or history; they call for honesty. If there's an antipsychotic on the list and you're hiding it, that's different from being transparent about everyday treatment and showing stability. We laugh about museum marathons, karaoke misses, and the worst selfie angles on Earth, but the takeaways stay sharp: use current photos, drop the filters, and write profiles that sound like your actual life. Offer a clear plan, respect boundaries, and notice who shows up like they text.By the end, we land on a hopeful note that isn't naive. Apps are tools, not casinos. You can set a tighter radius, meet sooner, protect your drink and your time, and still stay open enough to let something real start. If you've felt burned out, this conversation will leave you with practical steps, better filters for red flags, and a reminder that a good laugh can reset your dating mindset. If you enjoyed the ride, follow the show, share this episode with a friend who's swiping, and leave a quick review—it helps more listeners find us and keeps the good conversations coming. https://www.thetakeitdeepshow.com

Comedian and friend Oscar Montoya (Dropout TV, Drag Her) is back for another kiki. They talk about the best slutty Halloween costumes, the casual racism in early-2000s fashion, recounts stories of wild audience members, dating someone as a "bit", and Nicole shares the time she officiated a wedding proposal while soaked in toilet water. It's a nice fun time.See the Bad Drag Race finale in LA Nov 15th, co-hosted by Nicole, Oscar, and Mano. Get tickets here.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsor:Uncommon Goods: To get 15% off your unique gifts this year, go to https://uncommongoods.com/dateme.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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In todays Down in the DM Breakdown DCS talks to a couple that has been together for a minute now but he still has dating apps on his phone. Is she justified in going through his phone cause of the apps? Plus DCS talks Tom Brady cloning his dog. Is that weird?

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Genre: Thriller: In dieser Folge widmen wir uns Swiped (2025), dem Film, der die Erfolgsgeschichte hinter einer der bekanntesten Dating-Apps neu interpretiert. Im Zentrum steht Lily James als Whitney Wolfe Herd, die charismatische Gründerin von Bumble. Wir sprechen darüber, wie James diese komplexe Figur zwischen Visionärin, Unternehmerin und verletzlicher Idealistin zum Leben erweckt. Hat ihre Darstellung Tiefe und Entwicklung oder bleibt sie im Glanz der Start-up-Welt gefangen?Ein weiterer Schwerpunkt unserer Diskussion: die Bedeutung des Hinweises „inspiriert von wahren Begebenheiten“. Was heißt das eigentlich für uns als Publikum? Wie sehr dürfen Filme die Realität dehnen, um eine größere Wahrheit zu erzählen und wann kippt Inspiration in Fiktion um?Gemeinsam fragen uns, ob der Film wirklich das Versprechen einlöst, die Schattenseiten der App-Kultur offenzulegen. Viel Spaß bei dieser Episode! Die Episode kann Spoiler enthalten, die Stellen werden im Podcast genannt. --------------------------------------Ihr habt Filmtipps für uns? Filme, die wir sehen und besprechen müssen? Dann schreibt uns!Wir freuen uns über ein Abo! Folgt uns auch gerne auf:Instagram: popcorn_zum_mitnehmen Facebook: Popcorn zum Mitnehmen Threads: popcorn_zum_mitnehmen TikTok: popcorn_zum_mitnehmen Ihr habt Lust auf Blogs zu weiteren Filmen oder weiteren Informationen zu unseren Podcasts? Dann ist unsere Homepage genau das Richtige für Euch:Popcorn zum Mitnehmen: HomepageHelmut auf: LetterboxdCover by Karina: Instagram: karina_ist_kreativDiese Episode (Ep. 164) enthält unbezahlte Werbung.--------------------------------------Impressum des Podcasts--------------------------------------Anmerkung: Es handelt sich bei den von uns im Podcast genannten Filmen, Streamingdiensten, etc. um persönliche Empfehlungen, wir werden von niemanden bezahlt, beispielsweise Streamingdienste, etc. zu nennen. Sollte es bezahlte Werbung im Podcast geben, wird dies im Podcast explizit genannt, und Ihr könnt dies auch in den Shownotes nachlesen.

Send episode requests hereI've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?”In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency.You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating apps….and some of them are the exact opposite of what dating coaches tell you to do. I'm breaking down the tactical things I'm doing every single day that make accomplished, intentional men show up in my rotation instead of low-effort guys who can't plan a date.After listening, you'll understand why your current approach keeps you hidden from the men you actually want and what needs to change if you want to stop being frustrated and start getting pursued.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Kath and Pat discuss "Chatfishing", the name The Guardian has coined for people who use Chat GPT to help with (deceive?) their matches on dating apps. The information in this episode comes from the Guardian article on Chatfishing, by Alexandra Jones, which you can read here: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/oct/12/chatgpt-ed-into-bed-chatfishing-on-dating-apps

You won't believe what many consider is the best dating app... See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

-The Final Flush for Cincinnati Cyclones Tix!-People are Dishonest on Dating Apps? Shocked!-The Dad Joke of the Day!-How Many Taps Ya Got for Pick Your Prize?-Good Vibes: Bunches and Bunches of Bunnies Returned!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What are the top things that people just don't want to see when they are on dating apps? Joe breaks down the top of the things people get the ick from on all apps... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What are the top things that people just don't want to see when they are on dating apps? Joe breaks down the top of the things people get the ick from on all apps...

Are you struggling with online dating? The truth is that dating apps don't work for many people and you're not alone in this experience. In this video, I go over why online dating and dating apps don't work for many men and what you can do to be more successful on and off the apps!CONTACT/ FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @courtneycristineryanEMAIL/COLLAB: courtneycristineryan@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This interview surprised me. I tried to enter it with an open heart, and didn't too too much pre-research that might sway my questions or energy toward Paul.I was honestly blown away by Paul's authenticity, the data behind why people cheat, how we can be better partners to avoid cheating, and how Ashley Madison provides a discreet platform so you're not boinking your fellow office workers and ruining your family's life.In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I talk with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, about the realities of sex, dating, and non-monogamy. Paul shares research on why people seek affairs, the impact of unmet needs in relationships, and the misconceptions around open relationships. Our conversation explores communication challenges, the evolving definition of marriage, and how platforms like Ashley Madison provide discreet ways for people to connect. Paul and I discuss the importance of honesty, consent, and creating relationship agreements that work for each unique couple.Why People Cheat: Research Insights (00:02:21)Paul discusses academic research on why men and women seek affairs, focusing on unmet sexual and emotional needs.Gender Differences in Validation & Desire (00:06:01)How men and women seek validation and desire, and the emotional needs driving infidelity.Personal Experience & Using Ashley Madison (00:08:06)Jen shares her open relationship journey and her research experience joining Ashley Madison.Why Men Send Unsolicited Photos (00:12:20)Paul explains men's motivations for sending explicit photos and offers advice on respectful communication.Safety, Trust, and Communication in Dating (00:13:29)Importance of trust and safety for women, and how men can better approach online dating.How to Write a Good Dating Profile (00:14:43)Paul gives advice on creating effective, respectful dating profiles, especially on Ashley Madison.Regulation, Pornography, and Privacy Concerns (00:23:46)Jen discusses state-level porn restrictions and concerns about privacy and government regulation.Understanding & Combating Adultery (00:24:41)Paul emphasizes the need to understand infidelity rather than just prohibit it.Affairs as a Way to Save Marriages (00:25:27)Research on how affairs can improve primary relationships and relieve sexual frustration.Sexual Communication & Advice for Couples (00:29:18)Paul gives advice on sexual communication, feedback, and the importance of openness and trying new things.Ashley Madison's Marketing & Gender Perspectives (00:31:33)Discussion on how Ashley Madison's marketing resonates differently with men and women.Dead Bedrooms & Rights to Pleasure (00:35:55)Exploring what happens when one partner loses interest in sex and the ethics of seeking pleasure elsewhere.Modern Relationships & Open Arrangements (00:36:25)How open relationships can address unmet needs and misconceptions about non-monogamy.Redefining Marriage & Relationship Norms (00:41:37)Jen and Paul discuss rewriting marriage norms, the rise of non-monogamy, and the need for personalized relationship agreements.History and Evolution of Marriage (00:42:01)Paul explains the origins of marriage, societal expectations, and evolving attitudes toward sex and partnership.COVID-19's Impact on Relationships (00:45:52)How the pandemic intensified relationship issues and increased Ashley Madison's user base.Personalizing Marriage & Relationship Agreements (00:46:36)Advocating for individualized marriage agreements and ongoing communication between partners.Five-Year Monogamy Contracts & Final Thoughts (00:48:04)Advice on periodic relationship check-ins and the future of Ashley Madison as a platform for discretion and diverse needs.**Ashley Madison**:https://www.ashleymadison.com/**Follow The Open Bedroom Podcast**:https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/

Height is something you (mostly) can't change, and yet it's one of the most contentious dating preferences - we're lying about it on the apps, rejecting lovers if they don't measure up and even turning it into a full-blown personality trait. In this episode with special cohost Blake Pavey, we're unpacking how height is affecting your love life, where this tall tale of height superiority is coming from and whether it's as big a dealbreaker as society would like us to think.

Millions of Australians are set to receive hours of free solar electricity each day even without rooftop panels. Allow us to explain. Plus, we explore "Rose Jail," the new dating app hack being used to re-train app algorithms for better matches, and check in on a colleague's week-long experiment. And in headlines today, Arise, Sir David Beckham. King Charles officially knighted Beckham overnight for his services to sport and charity; ASIO director-general Mike Burgess has revealed that an assassination attempt on Australian soil is a real possibility as foreign governments have grown more willing to do harm; While authorities in France continue to search for the missing crown jewels stolen from the Louvre last month in Paris, a report has revealed a security system password was LOUVRE; Bridgerton and Wicked star Jonathon Bailey has been named People magazine’s Sexiest Man Alive THE END BITS Support independent women's media Check out The Quicky Instagram here GET IN TOUCHShare your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice note or email us at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Hosts: Taylah Strano & Claire Murphy Guest: Annaliese Todd, Mamamia Lifestyle Producer Jess Clark, Mamamia's Managing Editor Audio Producer: Lu Hill Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Height is something you (mostly) can't change, and yet it's one of the most contentious dating preferences - we're lying about it on the apps, rejecting lovers if they don't measure up and even turning it into a full-blown personality trait. In this episode with special cohost Blake Pavey, we're unpacking how height is affecting your love life, where this tall tale of height superiority is coming from and whether it's as big a dealbreaker as society would like us to think.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Boo! Friend and comedian Mano Agapion (Drag Her, We Love Trash) joins Nicole for a Halloween special with a creepy ghost story, a "psychic" sex criminal, funeral planning, and lipstick teeth. Mano recounts the chilling time he saw a ghost in Greece, the so-called astrologer who stuck a finger up his bum, and Nicole shares her plan for a funeral birthday where friends give eulogies while she lies in a casket. Plus, Nicole realizes she's too clingy in her relationship. it's our most haunted episode yet. Happy Halloween!See Nicole and Mano live co-hosting Bad Drag Race, on Nov 15th at Dynasty Typewriter in Los Angeles.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:OSEA: Give the gift of glow this holiday with our listener discount on OSEA's clean, clinically tested skincare. Just use code DATEME for 10% off your first order sitewide at OSEAMalibu.com.NUULY: Change your clothes! Nuuly is a great value at $98 a month for any 6 styles, but right now you can get $28 off your first month of Nuuly when you sign up with the code DATEME at Nuuly.comSquareSpace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Like many of us, Michelle wasn't having much luck finding love on dating apps. So one day, she decided to stop searching for Mr. Right and start looking for Mr. Right Now. After changing her profile to a direct ask for sex… things got weird. In this episode, Jinah and Daniel dive into the wild world of online hookups, unsolicited pics, and honest sexual exploration. Joining guest Michelle is Hily's (Hily.com) resident sexologist, Dr. Mindy DeSeta, who shares expert tips on how to turn awkward sex talk into actual satisfaction.

pH-1 is back! This week, we're diving into everything from the rise and fall of dating apps, to sliding into DMs, to whether AI could ever really help us find “the one.” Nothing's off the table when pH-1 joins the crew.

Send episode requests hereYou've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them? I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything. Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men.In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisible on dating apps from women who get quality men pursuing them consistently. You'll discover why your profile looks like everyone else's and what quality men are actually looking for when they decide to swipe right and invest their time.After listening, you'll understand the three missing pieces in your dating profile that are keeping accomplished, intentional men from even seeing you—and what needs to change if you want to stop getting low-effort matches and start getting real pursuit.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?If you're ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREConnect with my friend, Dr. Jazmyne HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

If the thought of swiping again makes you want to throw your phone across the room, this conversation is for you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Erica McKay—modern-day matchmaker, relationship realist, and founder of Erica Suzanne Matchmaking—for an honest and surprisingly uplifting convo on what dating after divorce really looks like. We talk about how to date with more intention (and way less pressure), why it's essential to focus on how you want to feel in your next relationship, and the power of doing the inner work before you hand over your number. Whether you're cautiously dipping a toe into dating apps or completely swearing them off, this episode will help you date slower, date smarter, and maybe even feel excited about love again. Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 05:00 Mistakes to avoid when rejoining dating apps 08:08 Erica's story: From divorce to finding real love again 11:22 Building a coaching business as a divorced mom 12:45 Why you should visualize how you want to feel, not just what you want 19:12 Why inner work is essential before reentering the dating pool 22:04 The power of saying "yes" to new experiences 24:52 Navigating new relationships post-divorce 28:12 Dating questions to ask early—and which ones to avoid 35:54 How to date slower and deeper 40:42 Alcohol on first dates: yay or nay? 42:34 How matchmaking works (and when to consider it) 46:11 Introducing Young Lux for 22–38 year-olds Find more from Erica McKay: Website: https://www.ericasuzanne.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

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In the past few weeks clients of mine have:Let go of people they really liked but ultimately weren't the right fitSlowed down their dating practice to get more out of it (i.e. more ease, more fulfillment)Practiced taking space in the early days of a new relationship to better discern how they were feelingAnd in so doing, they're confronting pain, fear, grief, uncertainty....the meat of life :). Admittedly, I've been in a season of my life that has brought up a lot of those feelings, too. Today's episode is dedicated to the power of those emotions, those periods of life, as it relates to moving closer to what we want.Mentioned in this episode:Peter CroneWork with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

Dating in 2025 feels broken. But what if the problem isn't the apps, your body, or the fact that no one talks to each other anymore. It's just that you're approaching it all wrong?In this episode of BROADS, I'm joined by Talia Koren, host of Dating Intentionally, to talk about why dating apps actually work when you use them strategically and how to approach someone at the gym without making it weird. We also dive into why modifications matter in dating just like they do in training, and how to maintain your routine when new relationship energy takes over.Talia Koren is a dating expert, podcast host, and founder of Dating Intentionally. After going on 64 first dates in one year using apps and IRL connections, she met her husband on Hinge (he was number 56) and now teaches women how to date strategically and authentically.We Also Discuss:(04:44) The real truth about whether dating apps actually work(05:17) How to know if your profile is working (and what to fix if it's not)(06:27) Why you need 10-15 matches just to get one date(10:09) Which dating app you should actually be using(16:48) Green flags to look for on a first date(19:24) When lifestyle differences become deal-breakers(22:02) What to do when your partner doesn't share your fitness lifestyle(30:09) The harsh reality about what holds people back on dating apps(32:52) Why being muscular is actually an asset in dating(38:22) How to approach someone at the gym (and actually get their number)(46:35) What to do when a new relationship derails your fitness routineThank You to Our Sponsors:Timeline: Get you free 3-day trial of Mitopure gummies. Head over to timeline.com/taragummies to claim yours.Gym Starter Guide: Ready to stop waiting for "someday"? Download the free guide at https://www.broads.app/gym-starter-guide Check out more from Broads:Website: https://www.broads.app/Instagram: @broads.podcast @broads.app Find more from Talia Koren:Instagram:  @dating.intentionally

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We've got an update on the wounded hawk on Susie's property and an update on the wounded boobs in Susie's body. We hear how her second MRI went, and why she's mad as a hornet. Sarah had a breakdown about her haircut, but we cracked the case on what was really causing it. We debate what song we'd like to hear again for the first time. Susie is continuing her year of lesbian intrigue after she got hit on by a lady at a bar. We learn about the hack some people are using to beat the algorithm of dating apps that intentionally keep you from getting the people you really want for free. Susie discusses the John Candy documentary, why he was such a treasure, and how special it is when a man has a tender heart. We talk about the BTK serial killer documentary, and his relationship with his family. Plus, we welcome Chris Dalla Riva, author of Uncharted Territory: What the Numbers Tell Us About the Biggest Hit Songs and Ourselves, and hear what we can learn from all of the #1 hits in history.Brain Candy Podcast Presents: Susie & Sarah's SpOoOoOoOoktacular Spectacle, October 30, Oriental Theater, Denver, Colorado: Get your tickets! Brain Candy Podcast Website - https://thebraincandypodcast.com/Brain Candy Podcast Book Recommendations - https://thebraincandypodcast.com/books/Brain Candy Podcast Merchandise - https://thebraincandypodcast.com/candy-store/Brain Candy Podcast Candy Club - https://thebraincandypodcast.com/product/candy-club/Brain Candy Podcast Sponsor Codes - https://thebraincandypodcast.com/support-us/Brain Candy Podcast Social Media & Platforms:Brain Candy Podcast LIVE Interactive Trivia Nights - https://www.youtube.com/@BrainCandyPodcast/streamsBrain Candy Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/braincandypodcastHost Susie Meister Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susiemeisterHost Sarah Rice Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imsarahriceBrain Candy Podcast on X: https://www.x.com/braincandypodBrain Candy Podcast Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/braincandy (JOIN FREE - TONS OF REALITY TV CONTENT)Brain Candy Podcast Sponsors, partnerships, & Products that we love:Get $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to https://nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BRAINCANDYThis episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/braincandyHead to https://airdoctorpro.com and use promo code CANDY to get UP TO $300 off today! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this live episode of Boys Club, the hosts kick off the show from Williamsburg, Brooklyn, introducing new co-host Miranda and covering a broad spectrum of topics with their guests.   Special Guests: Tom Schmidt, Priyanka Desai, Paris Martineau and Dini Mullaji     They discuss the state of crypto with Tom Schmidt, covering market trends and the evolving industry landscape. Priyanka Desai from ADIN shares insights about autonomous venture networks, and Dini Mullaji explains the AI-driven matchmaking platform Sitch. Investigative journalist Paris Martineau delves into her viral report on lead contamination in protein supplements, highlighting significant health risks. Throughout, the episode maintains a blend of informative and lighthearted moments, addressing both technological advancements and pertinent consumer safety issues.   Timestamps:  00:00 Introduction and Welcome 01:15 Today's Special Episode Overview 02:41 Sponsor Messages and Announcements 08:20 Guest Introduction: Tom Schmidt 13:43 Discussion on Crypto Market and Trends 21:44 Mega Eth and Ethereum Foundation Discourse 33:03 Heist at the Louvre 38:14 Meeting and Initial Conversation 38:28 Draft Tweet Discussion 39:53 Art Blocks and Marfa Experience 41:49 Generative Art and NFTs 43:33 AI in Art and Market Trends 49:42 Venture Investing and ADIN 55:58 Shill Minute and Fun Chat 59:21 Upcoming Events and Peptides 01:09:47 Introduction to Stitch AI Matchmaker 01:11:44 In-Depth Onboarding Process 01:12:18 Hand-Reviewed Matches 01:12:33 User Feedback and Honesty 01:13:01 AI's Role in Matchmaking 01:13:28 Reflective Conversations with AI 01:13:50 Balancing Preferences and Flexibility 01:14:32 Non-Negotiables and Red Flags 01:15:02 Matchmaking vs. Swiping 01:15:11 Discussion on 'The Materialists' 01:16:26 Privacy in the App 01:17:18 Specific Dating Preferences 01:17:52 High Intent Users 01:21:36 Company Growth and Expansion 01:23:20 The Concept of Matchmaking 01:23:45 Fundraising and Future Plans 01:24:38 Seasonal Dating Trends 01:25:52 Marketing Strategy 01:29:25 Protein Supplements and Safety 01:31:26 Lead in Protein Supplements 01:33:42 Regulation and Inspection Issues 01:34:48 Consumer Advice on Protein 01:39:21 Viral Impact and Public Reaction 01:40:38 Future Investigations 01:41:27 Nick Cage Movie Marathon 01:44:15 Closing Remarks   Susbcribe to the Newsletters: https://tooonline.beehiiv.com/ https://boysclub.beehiiv.com/  

Cindy Lim is the founder and Head of Brand for a new app called Yuzu. Launched in early 2024 by Match Group (the same company behind Tinder, Hinge, etc), Yuzu brands itself as a social + dating platform aimed at the Gen Z Asian community (but open to all). Many mainstream dating apps are generalized; Yuzu is part of a trend of “niche” dating/social apps catering to specific demographics (in this case Asian community) and offering more than just dating.  The social mode emphasizes friendship/community (not just hookups/dating) which is increasingly important to younger users.  By embedding culture (heritage, interests, community events) it hopes to foster deeper connections rather than superficial ones. The core target is the Asian diaspora (Asian Americans, Asian immigrants, pan-Asian culture) looking for social or romantic connection. It also welcomes people of any race/ethnicity so long as they engage respectfully with the cultural focus.  It's especially for people who want both friendship/community and the option of dating in the same space: Yuzu tries to blend those rather than only romance. It's attracting people who are comfortable with culturally-aware branding (celebrating Asian heritage, culture, shared values) — it's not a purely “swipe and date” generic app. www.joinyuzu.com

Drag queen icon Kim Chi (RuPaul's Drag Race S8, author of Kim Chi Eats The World) joins Nicole to talk about what it's like to have never dated anyone, and whether she even wants to. She opens up about being afraid to get hurt, growing up with crushes who didn't like her back, and why are all the conspiracy nuts booed up? Kim shares wild stories from her drag-tour days (including the time she was recognized during a lap dance), having a twink convention show up at her hotel, and story about queens who skip meet-and-greets and cause chaos on tour. Plus, she and Nicole bond over their mutual hatred of Animal Crossing, her love of cottage cheese, and shares easy recipes from her new cookbook Kim Chi Eats The World.Check out Kim Chi's new book, Kim Chi Eats The World at https://kimchithequeen.com/pages/cookbookWatch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport this podcast and get discounts by checking out our sponsors:Green Chef: Make this fall your healthiest yet with Green Chef. Head to Greenchef.com/50DATEME and use code 50DATEME to get 50% off your first month, then 20% off for two months with free shipping.Quince: Find your fall staples at Quince. Go to Quince.com/dateme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.SquareSpace: Head to squarespace.com/DATEME to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.BetterHelp: Visit Betterhelp.com/DATEME today to get 10% off your first month.Follow:All Links: linktr.ee/whywontyoudatemeTour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're over-analysing texts, constantly questioning if your partner loves you, dwelling on their past relationships while also worrying if they're ‘the one' for your future - then this episode is for you. We get some expert advice from sex and relationship therapist Lauren Bradley on how to deal with overthinking in dating and relationships, how to know if you're doing it a healthy or harmful amount and how to break the anxiety pattern if it's ruining your love life.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Whether it's casual dating or locked in long term relationships, 80% of you told us that you overthink everything. We find out what that looks like for you, from chronically overthinking every text, tone of voice, needing constant reassurance and spiralling about the future - and how this kind of anxiety is affecting your love life. 

Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even when the experience leaves us drained?In this episode, I share the hidden truth that restores optimism in love, plus the one “dating app” I actually recommend if you're serious about finding a real connection. (Spoiler alert: It's not what you think.) If you've ever felt exhausted by swipes, ghosting, and endless options that lead nowhere, what I reveal in this video may be the missing piece between frustration and finally finding your person.---►► Love is Hard. Sync Makes it Easier. Join the Waitlist Now at TalkToSync.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti  The Dark Side of Lust: Why Men Chase the Wrong Women! Have you ever felt trapped in a relationship cycle that never seems to end, no matter how much you try to change? Do you wonder why it's so hard to walk away from love that feels toxic? In today's podcast, Apollonia Ponti will reveal The Hidden Patterns of Toxic Love: Why We Keep Falling for the Wrong People! and why some people repeatedly chase relationships that hurt them.  In this eye-opening episode, Apollonia Ponti uncovers the subtle red flags, emotional manipulation, and deep-seated wounds that keep people stuck in unhealthy relationships. She explains exactly why toxic love feels familiar—and how to finally break free from it. If you're tired of heartbreak, confusion, and losing yourself in love, this episode is for you. Apollonia shares the practical tools, mindset shifts, and boundaries you need to reclaim your power, rebuild self-worth, and open the door to the healthy, supportive love you deserve. Tune in until the end to learn how to break the cycle for good—and step into a future where love feels safe, fulfilling, and truly transformative! Key points in this episode! 1:40 – Lust hits hard—here's why it feels irresistible!  3:04 – Toxic relationships often start at the top—see the pattern!  4:04 – Why some women use lust to feel validated—and what it really means.  5:07 – Chasing the wrong woman? Here's what happens when you do.  7:07 – Red flags? Ignored. Here's why both men and women fall into the trap.  8:42 – No mistakes—only lessons. Learn to reframe your love life.  10:00 – Confidence isn't optional for men—it's life-changing.  11:26 – How to finally break free from chasing the wrong women.  13:28 – Seduction without the hookup? Yes, it's possible—and here's how.  15:27 – Men and beauty: why being present is harder than you think.  18:12 – Healing from a toxic woman: how one man found the right love.  Applying for a coaching or consultation call with Apollonia Ponti apply--> here!  "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" , scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.   Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:  Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en Facebook; https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/ Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Model and Drag Race pit crew member Bruno Alcantara joins Nicole to discuss his love for biting (and the time he got kicked out of a bar for it), being barefoot on set of Drag Race, working as a massage therapist and life coach, and discovering he was gay after having a couple of girlfriends. Plus, Bruno gives Nicole a happy ending massage while sharing his best advice as a life coach.Check out Happy Endings with Bruno on WOW Presents Plus.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport for this episode comes from Bumble. Start your love story on Bumble - bumble.com #bumblepartnerFollow:Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Are you frustrated with dating apps? They can feel broken due to choice overload, which leads to shallow connections and difficulty committing. Ready for something that's more intentional? My podcast guest, Ludovic Huraux is CEO of Amata, an AI matchmaking app designed for intentional daters. His first dating platform in Paris led to more than 2,000 weddings, and he later founded Shapr, a networking app that connected millions before its acquisition. He has dedicated his career to helping people build meaningful connections, both romantic and professional.In this episode of Last First Date Radio:Lessons from helping 2,000+ couples find lasting love, and what it taught him about real compatibilityWhy today's dating apps feel broken, and how people can date more intentionallyHow to get AI to think like a human matchmaker, and what early insights from Amata reveal about modern datingThe future of dating, including where technology can help, and where it should step backConnect with LudovicLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ludovic-huraux-11a441 Amata app: https://www.amata.ai/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/amata_app►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook , Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/ ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/ ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/ ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

In the world of dating apps, it's easy to get caught up in the endless cycle of messaging without ever meeting in person. Join us as we explore the art of the ask-out – or hinting at an ask-out if you're reluctant to make the first move. We discuss how to make sure your conversation doesn't go into that dreaded messaging graveyard, the balance between being pursued and taking initiative, and why understanding the limitations of dating apps may actually change your perspective of why you may not be getting asked out as often as you'd like. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comGet OUR BOOK + take the Dating Archetypes quiz: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Bioma Health: Get 3 essential ingredients your gut needs at gobioma.com/dateable* Blueland: Get 15% off cleaning products at https://blueland.com/dateable* Happy Mammoth: Try Prebiotic Collagen Protein and Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your order at https://happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE* Kensington Publishing: Check out House of Rayne by Harley Laroux wherever books are sold in print and in eBook. The gorgeous deluxe hardcover first printing is only available for a limited time so grab yours before they are gone: https://www.kensingtonbooks.com* Quince: Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Drag queen Angeria Paris VanMichaels (Winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars S9) wants your hole pic. She joins Nicole to talk about the etiquette of hooking up with a RuGirl, those confusing “boyfriend things” that blur situationships, and why being the one who always texts first is exhausting.Angeria opens up about what she really wants in a partner, how she's manifesting real love after years of being single, and the thrill of the chase. Plus, Nicole receives a sandwich in her email.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastCheck out Angeria's show, Angie's Drag Corner on YouTube at: youtube.com/channel/UChFN80b8ULqwyix0jIMkVWwSupport for this episode comes from Bumble. Start your love story on Bumble - bumble.com #bumblepartnerFollow:Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a digital world saturated with questionable dating advice from self-proclaimed gurus, Dr. Max Butterfield has emerged as a powerful and refreshing voice of reason. A professor with a Ph.D. in psychology, Max never intended to become a social media star. Tasked by a literary agent to simply build a small online presence for a book deal, he accidentally tapped into a massive cultural nerve, dissecting viral relationship videos with research-backed clarity and amassing over a million followers in just a few months. His journey is a testament to the power of authentic expertise, proving that in a sea of misinformation, people are desperately searching for grounded, scientific truth to navigate the complexities of human connection. This conversation is a masterclass in the psychology of modern relationships, going far beyond surface-level tips to explore the deep undercurrents shaping how we connect today. Dr. Butterfield breaks down why the "paradox of choice" fueled by dating apps makes us treat people as disposable and how these platforms are financially incentivized to keep you single . He and Darin dive into the critical difference between initial physical attraction and the values that predict long-term happiness, the truth about "soulmates," and the foundational skills—like managing conflict, building safety through mutual disclosure, and simple kindness—that are essential for growing a healthy, lasting partnership. What You'll Learn [04:52] The Accidental Influencer: A Quest for 100 Followers That Ignited a Movement [07:19] The Danger of Expertise: Why What You Know Can Get in the Way [09:47] The Algorithm's Easter Gift: Discovering That Instagram Is a Dating App [10:54] The Trap of Absolute Statements: Why “All Men” or “All Women” Is Your First Mistake [12:58] The Tyranny of Choice: When Endless Options Make People Feel Disposable [14:48] The Business of Keeping You Single: How Dating Apps Are Built to Fail [17:54] The Lost Art of Patience: Looking to the Past to Build a Future [19:40] The Unseen Green Flags: The Power of Genuine Curiosity [25:47] The Saboteur in the Parking Lot: Confronting Your Unconscious Patterns in Love [28:47] The Death of the Village: Losing Community, Accountability, and Self-Regulation [32:24] The Great Deception: What We Say We Want vs. Who We Actually Choose [36:28] The Alchemy of Attraction: How Your Behavior Literally Changes Your Brain Chemistry [38:15] The Four Horsemen of Contempt: Why How You Argue Is Everything [40:07] The True Meaning of Respect: It's Kindness, Not Fear [43:20] The Radical Act of Honesty: Letting the Universe Sort It Out [45:47] The Sacred Exchange of Mutual Disclosure: Building Unshakeable Safety [53:24] Stupid Games, Stupid Prizes: Debunking the “Rules” That Ruin Relationships [56:22] You Don't Find a Soulmate, You Grow One [01:04:14] The Grand Misunderstanding: What Men and Women Get Wrong About Attraction [01:15:46] The Jealousy Trap: Can Men and Women Really Be Just Friends? [01:22:35] Growing Up Together: The Secret to a 23-Year Marriage That Started in College [01:27:57] The Professor's Megaphone: Sharing Truth on a Global Stage Thank You to Our Sponsors Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com. Manna Vitality: Go to mannavitality.com/ or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your order. Find More from Dr. Max Butterfield Instagram: @drmaxbutterfield Website: drmaxwellness.com Download his Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide Find More from Darin Olien: Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Podcast Website: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences Key Takeaway “Your hormones aren't broken — they're responding to your environment, your thoughts, and your stress. When you reconnect to safety, balance minerals, and honor rest, the body remembers how to heal itself.”

Nurse practitioner and pole dancer Neda Momeni is here and teaches Nicole a lot! From her years as a labor and delivery nurse, she explains what actually happens in the hospital during childbirth and what most people never hear about until they're living it. She talks about Muslim dating, from family expectations to apps like Minder and her experience using an online matchmaker. Pressure pushed her to marry the wrong man, and she ended up going no-contact with her parents. After cutting ties, pole dancing became her outlet, and a video of her performing in a hijab went viral - sparking both backlash and an outpouring of support from women who she inspired. Plus: a hot tip why you should watch some True Crime.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcastSupport for this episode comes from Bumble. Start your love story on Bumble - bumble.com #bumblepartnerFollow:Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastakenYouTube: @WhyWontYouDateMePodcastTikTok: @whywontyoudatemepod Instagram: @nicolebyerX: @nicolebyerNicole's book, #VERYFAT #VERYBRAVE: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746This is a Headgum podcast. Follow Headgum on Twitter, Instagram, and Tiktok. Advertise on Why Won't You Date Me? via Gumball.fm.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.