The Blac Moment

What if some of the things you call your personality are actually patterns you learned in childhood?In this episode of The BLAC Moment, I sit down with Rashida M. Pangabu for an honest conversation about the childhood experiences we carry into adulthood, often without realizing it.We talk about shame, trust, emotional abuse, false accusations, parenting, asking for help, forgiveness, sibling differences, generational patterns, and healing.Why do some adults find it so difficult to apologize?Why can children raised by the same parents grow into completely different adults?Why do some of us struggle to ask for help even when we desperately need it?What happens when parents mistake control for protection?And how do childhood experiences shape the way we trust, communicate, love, parent, and respond to conflict as adults?This isn't a conversation about blaming our parents or remaining trapped in the past.It's about understanding the past well enough to stop unconsciously repeating it.In This ConversationHow childhood experiences follow us into adulthoodThe hidden impact of shameWhy asking for help can feel so difficultWhat false accusations can do to trustEmotional abuse and the wounds people cannot seeWhy some adults struggle to say, “I was wrong”Why siblings can experience the same family completely differentlyThe difference between parental guidance and parental controlWhat happens when children don't feel trusted by their parentsHow childhood experiences affect adult relationshipsBreaking generational patterns instead of passing them onUnderstanding intentions versus understanding impactLearning to trust again after being hurtHealing without pretending the past never happenedBecoming the parent, partner, sibling, or person you consciously choose to beThe Bigger QuestionAt some point, we have to ask ourselves:What did my childhood teach me that I no longer need to carry?Growing older happens automatically.Healing doesn't.Sometimes becoming requires looking honestly at where we came from, understanding what shaped us, keeping what served us, and having the courage to unlearn what didn't.Because the patterns we refuse to confront don't simply disappear.We risk passing them on.BLAC ReflectionEvery leader has a BLAC Moment.Ask yourself:What did I learn about love, trust, shame, conflict, and vulnerability as a child?Which of those lessons still shape my relationships today?What ends with me?This conversation isn't about having a perfect childhood.It's about deciding what kind of adult you want to become despite it.

What happens when something as natural as a menstrual cycle becomes a barrier to education, confidence, and opportunity?In this episode of The BLAC Moment, Cornelius Kayode sits down with Amdiya Abdul Latiff, founder and CEO of Eco Me Africa, to explore one of the most overlooked challenges facing millions of girls and women: period poverty.This isn't just a conversation about menstrual health. It's about dignity, education, equity, and the systems that continue to fail young girls.Amdiya shares her journey into social entrepreneurship, the moment that compelled her to act, and how Eco Period Pad is creating sustainable solutions that empower girls while protecting the environment. Together, they unpack the myths surrounding menstruation, the cultural stigma that still exists, and why access to menstrual products should never determine whether a girl attends school or pursues her dreams.Throughout the conversation, you'll discover why period poverty is not simply a health issue, but a social, economic, and human rights issue that affects entire communities.In this episode, you'll learn:What period poverty really means and why it affects millions of girls.The hidden ways menstruation impacts education, confidence, and opportunity.Why stigma around periods continues to exist across many societies.The environmental cost of conventional menstrual products.How sustainable menstrual solutions can improve both lives and the planet.The story behind Eco Period and the vision driving its work.What governments, schools, communities, and individuals can do to help end period poverty.Why dignity should never be considered a luxury.Whether you're a parent, educator, policymaker, entrepreneur, student, or simply someone who wants to better understand the challenges many girls face every month, this conversation offers insight, compassion, and practical hope.At The BLAC Moment, we believe every extraordinary life is shaped by ordinary moments that change the way we think. This episode is one of those moments.Learn. Unlearn. Relearn. Evolve.Connect with The BLAC MomentYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theblacmoment Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2L6vJXmg9PQgU5v5wQql7W Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gh/podcast/the-blac-moment/id1784812849 Website: https://theblacmoment.comFollow Amdiya Abdul Latiff & EcoperiodpadLearn more about Eco Period's work and discover how you can support efforts to end period poverty and promote menstrual dignity in Ghana and beyond.If this conversation challenged your perspective or taught you something new, please follow the show, leave a rating and review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it.Stay Kind. Stay Epic. This is The BLAC Moment, where extraordinary lives reveal ordinary moments.

What if the greatest environmental crisis isn't the waste we throw away, but the way we've learned to see the world?In this episode of The BLAC Moment, award-winning Ghanaian fashion artivist, eco-feminist, and curator Beatrice "Bee" Arthur invites us to rethink everything we believe about waste, beauty, identity, and the responsibility of building a better future.From growing up in Ukraine under the guidance of a grandmother who survived World War II, to becoming one of Africa's leading voices in sustainable fashion, Bee's journey is one of constant unlearning and courageous becoming. She shares how history shaped her worldview, how environmental destruction is deeply connected to the stories we tell ourselves, and why creativity is one of the most powerful forms of activism.Winner of the KORA All Africa Fashion Award and recipient of the Maven Heroes Award, Bee has exhibited her work across Africa and Europe, proving that discarded materials can become masterpieces and that ordinary people can become extraordinary builders of change.This isn't just a conversation about fashion or climate change. It's about the kind of people we must become if we hope to leave the world better than we found it.In This ConversationWhy environmental pollution is ultimately a human problem before it's an environmental one.Growing up in Ukraine and the lessons passed down from a grandmother who survived World War II.The beliefs Bee had to unlearn to become the woman she is today.How art, fashion, and culture can become powerful tools for justice and transformation.Why sustainability begins with changing our mindset, not simply changing our products.The hope that continues to drive Bee's work despite the world's biggest challenges.About Beatrice "Bee" ArthurBeatrice "Bee" Arthur is a Ghanaian fashion artivist, eco-feminist, curator, and creative visionary whose work transforms waste into art, fashion, and cultural critique. A winner of the KORA All Africa Fashion Award and recipient of the Maven Heroes Award, she has showcased her work across Africa and Europe while leading global conversations on decoloniality, identity, sustainability, and environmental justice.Memorable Quote"The future won't be built by people who consume more. It will be built by people who learn to see differently."BLAC ReflectionEvery leader has a BLAC Moment. Take a moment to reflect:What belief about success, consumption, or identity do you need to unlearn?What are you throwing away that still has value?How are you building a world that future generations will thank you for?Stay Connected

In this powerful and deeply moving episode of The Blac Moment, we sit down with the inspiring Isabelle Lewis, who opens up about her journey from struggling with depression as a child to becoming a beacon of hope and strength for over 60 teenagers today.Isabelle's story is one of resilience, purpose, and transformation. She shares how growing up with a father who, after a life-altering accident, could only express emotions through anger shaped her understanding of emotional resilience and mental health. Despite the challenges, she turned her personal pain into a mission to uplift and support others.This episode is a raw and heartfelt exploration of how wounds can become windows for change, how personal struggles can ignite a passion for service, and how healing is possible—even in the darkest seasons of life.✨ Tune in to be inspired, challenged, and moved by Isabelle's powerful story.

Welcome to another episode of The Blac Moment! Today, we delve into a profound topic: Choosing to love God with all your heart and placing your trust in Him, especially during the most challenging times. Our host, Cornelius Kayode, known as The Blac Shrec, shares powerful insights and inspiring stories about the miracles that unfold when we fully commit to loving and trusting God.Choosing to love God with all your heart is more than a declaration of faith—it's an act of trust, especially in difficult situations. It's easy to love and trust when life is smooth and predictable, but the real test of faith comes during life's storms. When faced with uncertainty, loss, or adversity, our natural inclination might be to question and doubt. Yet, it's precisely in these moments that our trust in God becomes most crucial.Cornelius Kayode passionately discusses how, in times of trial, our decision to love God wholeheartedly opens the door to extraordinary miracles. He shares compelling stories of individuals who, despite facing seemingly insurmountable challenges, chose to anchor their faith in God. These stories are not just tales of survival but testimonies of divine intervention and transformation.Consider the story of a family facing financial ruin, yet choosing to remain steadfast in their love for God. Through unwavering faith and trust, they witnessed unexpected provisions and opportunities that turned their situation around. Or the individual battling a severe illness, who, instead of succumbing to despair, leaned into their faith and experienced a miraculous recovery.Cornelius emphasizes that trusting God with all our heart means surrendering our fears and doubts to Him. It involves believing that His plans for us are good, even when we can't see the full picture. This level of trust brings peace that surpasses understanding and ignites hope in the darkest moments.When we choose to love God fully, we align ourselves with His divine purpose. This alignment invites God's power to work in our lives in extraordinary ways. Miracles happen when we step out in faith, trusting that God's love and wisdom will guide us through any situation.Join us in this episode of "The Blac Moment" as Cornelius Kayode, The Blac Shrec, delves deeper into these transformative experiences.Stay tuned, and let's embark on this journey of faith together, discovering the incredible power of loving God with all our heart.

In this deeply introspective episode of The Blac Moment, listeners are invited to immerse themselves in the riveting journey of Mr. Nii Ayi, whose life story serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. With raw honesty and vulnerability, Mr. Ayi opens up about the profound struggles he faced with depression, shedding light on the overwhelming darkness that once consumed him.Through poignant anecdotes and introspective reflections, Mr. Ayi takes us on a soul-stirring exploration of his innermost battles, navigating the treacherous terrain of mental health with unwavering determination. As he recounts the harrowing moments of despair and hopelessness, listeners are offered a glimpse into the sheer magnitude of his anguish, yet also the flicker of resilience that refused to be extinguished.But this episode is not merely a narrative of suffering; it is a testament to the transformative power of adversity. With each setback, Mr. Ayi found new depths of strength within himself, drawing upon his inner reserves to embark on a journey of self-discovery and redemption.As the narrative unfolds, we witness the gradual metamorphosis of Mr. Ayi from a victim of circumstance to a catalyst for change. His experiences, though deeply personal, resonate on a universal level, offering solace and inspiration to those grappling with their own demons.But Mr. Ayi's story doesn't end with his triumph over personal adversity; it is just the beginning. Fuelled by a newfound sense of purpose, he emerges as a revolutionary force, challenging the status quo and advocating for societal change. Through his unwavering commitment to justice and equality, he becomes a beacon of hope for countless others, galvanizing communities and sparking a movement that reverberates far beyond his own struggles.In this episode of The Blac Moment, Mr. Nii Ayi's journey serves as a powerful reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is always the potential for transformation. It is a story of resilience, redemption, and revolution—one that will leave listeners inspired and empowered to confront their own challenges with courage and conviction.

On this episode of The Blac Moment Podcast, i delve into a personal journey triggered by the loss of my first wife, Emerald, on March 23rd, 2016. Her passing plunged me into the depths of despair, akin to staring into an unfathomable abyss. Reflecting on the suffering of Christ during His passion, I gained a newfound understanding: it wasn‘t solely about His resurrection, but the agony He endured. Realising the innocence of one who bore such torment for my sake transformed my perception of pain and suffering. Join me as i share my insights and revelations, discovering light amidst the darkness. Listen now to explore my experiences and the invaluable lessons gleaned from anguish on The Blac Moment Podcast.

On this deeply moving episode of The Blac Moment, prepare to be touched to the core as Mr. Kobina Otchere bares his soul, sharing the rawness of his journey. Through his struggles, pain, and hard-earned lessons, he‘ll show us the strength of the human spirit.As your host, Cornelius Kayode AKA The Blac Shrec, I‘ll delve into the topic of judgement, exploring the impact it has on our lives. Remember the poignant words from Shrek: “They judge me even before they know me.“ Let‘s uncover the power of empathy and understanding, and the beauty that lies beyond the surface. Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster.

In this captivating episode of The Blac Moment Podcast, we explore the transformative journey of Jackie, a true embodiment of courage and the pursuit of happiness. From the tender age of 17, Jackie dreamed of traversing the globe, yearning for the freedom and adventure that comes with travel. However, the weight of fear, both from within and from the concerns of loved ones, kept her tethered to a conventional life devoid of the joy she sought.This episode unveils Jackie's awe-inspiring leap of faith, breaking away from the expectations and fears that bound her to an unfulfilling existence. Embarking on a journey of self-discovery, Jackie has since visited over 20 countries, embracing the lifestyle of a digital nomad, and enriching the lives of people and animals she meets along her path.Dive into Jackie's story as she shares the intricate details of her adventures, the challenges she faced, and the euphoria of living a life aligned with her deepest desires. Her tale is a vivid testament to the power of facing one's fears, the beauty of embracing different paths, and the boundless joy of chasing true happiness.Jackie's journey is not just a narrative of personal achievement but a beacon of inspiration for anyone standing at the crossroads of life, hesitant to step into the unknown. It's a reminder that the pursuit of happiness often requires us to dare boldly and venture beyond the familiar.Tune in to discover how daring to be different can lead to the most fulfilling journey of all - the pursuit of one's own happiness.www.theblacshrec.com

In this episode of The Blac Moment Podcast, we delve into the transformative power of the energies that influence us. It's a reflection on whether individuals can truly change and what sparks significant shifts in our lives. The essence of the discussion highlights how the company we keep and the energies we engage with can profoundly shape our beliefs and self-perception.We explore the importance of guarding our space against negativity and self-doubt shared by others, recognizing how easily we can internalize these destructive beliefs. Emphasizing the significance of being selective about the energies we welcome into our lives, this conversation encourages us to surround ourselves with people who elevate and inspire us, thereby fostering a positive internal dialogue.Excitingly, we introduce our upcoming guest, the dynamic and adventurous Jacky, who embodies the spirit of positive energy and change. Living as a digital nomad, Jacky merges her love for adventure with a deep commitment to service. Her admirable efforts range from aiding a dog shelter in Thailand to contributing to the well-being of children in Ghana through her work with Maven Heart Foundation Ghana ( mavenheart.org ).Join us for a compelling episode this Saturday across various platforms, including YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and GoodPods, to hear how Jacky's journey exemplifies the essence of The Blac Moment. Tune in to be inspired by her story and to reflect on how positive energies can influence personal growth and transformation.

Join us on a deeply personal journey with Sika Amakye, a young Ghanaian artist who encountered profound grief at the tender age of 15 after the loss of her mother. In our podcast, Sika opens up about her path through sorrow, the invaluable lessons she's learned, and her experiences in facing grief head-on, rather than avoiding it. She delves into the power of empathy during life's most challenging moments and shares how it played a pivotal role in her healing process. Tune in for an insightful exploration of coping with grief and the transformative impact of understanding and empathy.

The incredible Sika Amakye shares her inspiring journey, lessons, and experiences and especially the role of empathy in her life and communitySika is a young amazing Artist with the Judithellen Prize and her resent art exhibition ‘Like a Memory of Night‘ embodies essence of spirituality and empathy. Make sure to subscribe and turn on your notifications for the next episode drop!