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Loren Tolman offers tried and true principles for becoming Financially, Emotionally, Mentally and Spiritually Successful. Providing sincere support, motivation, sales training and tools for changing your perspective and mind state. Happiness and Purpose live here.

Loren Tolman


    • Oct 4, 2017 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 13m AVG DURATION
    • 69 EPISODES


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    #Resentment

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2017 14:06


    Taking poison and expecting others to die lately?  Ya, me too.  Solutions ahead.

    # KNOW YOUR LIMITS

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2017 14:06


    1-  Attack the things I can absolutely do! 2- Do not waste time on things I cannot control! 3- Know the difference between 1 and 2 and you will be successful. Boom

    #70 HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2017 14:06


    This is the difference between watching the clock… and being unable to sleep because you are so excite to get back to the office.  Excitement, enthusiasm, passion, drive and purpose will be discussed in todays episode.  And of course, how to get and STAY motivated.

    #69 – How we can all win!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2017 14:06


    There is a way to have everyone have their cake and eat it too.  Today I will break down the strategy for healthy relationships and  abundance.  A strategy that will have a positive effect on your family, your clients and of course…you.

    #68 THE NEW DIGITAL WORLD

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2017 14:06


    Today we discuss how to stay relevant in the brave new digital world.  Be it your business, social media and or life style.

    #67 Stepping out of our comfort zone.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2017 14:06


    Your car may stay spotless if you keep it in the garage… but you will never go anywhere.   Why playing it safe creates silent desperation and regret.  

    #66 The Fear Of Failure

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2017 14:06


    The surprising methods to getting over the fear of failure.

    #65 Mindfulness

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2017 14:06


    How is it possible that being present is the solution to 95% of my problems?  The answer lies in the fact that mindfulness increases the quality of our actions by 100%.

    #64 Perfectionism

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2017 14:06


    What a nightmare.  The attempt to avoid our own birthright…being flawed.  No one has ever done it all perfect and why would they even want to?

    #63 COMMIT FOR THE WIN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2017 14:06


    Begin with the end in mind.  Enjoy the fruits of your labor and when all else fails…remember why you are working this hard…remember why you made the commitment to do what ever was necessary to accomplish your goal.

    #62 Give first…then Receive

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2017 14:06


    If you want to be happy and prosper… seek to give first.  Give and then receive.

    #61 You know it’s right when it’s easy.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2017 14:06


    You know it’s right when it’s easy…In your body, mind and spirit.

    #60 Blind Spots

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2017 14:06


    Blind Spots our the areas of our lives that we cannot get to alone.  Here are some powerful tools to leverage them.

    The importance of mentorship!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2017 14:06


    There is no faster way to grow, learn and obtain tremendous success than good mentorship.

    #The power of momentum

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2017 13:30


    One of the most powerful tools for massive growth, productivity and success.   Once you have Big Mo,  you are basically unstoppable.

    # 57 Patience, the definition of maturity.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2017 14:06


    It’s an everything now culture here in North America.  But those who make it have the ability to postpone gratification.  How to cultivate patience is todays topic.

    #56 How to be stress free.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2017 14:06


    We are show you how to become stress free.  We are overwhelmed, afraid and unsure of ourselves these days.  But there are solutions.

    #55 Empathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2017 14:06


    It can’t be all about you all of the time.  If you really want to be successful – you need to be able to put yourself into the other persons shoes FIRST!  Seek to give and then you will receive.

    #54 Know your worth.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2017 14:06


    How to define your self worth determines compensation and confidence.  Today we discuss how to cultivate healthy personal value.

    #53 When having a bad day…

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2017 14:06


    If you are o.k. with having a bad day…are you still having one?

    #52 The death of retail?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2017 14:06


    The writing has been on the wall for a long time,  but there is still a chance to survive and adapt.

    #51 Preference Vs. Necessity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2017 14:06


    When I do not need something…I can have it as a preference…This makes for high quality living.

    #50 How to get Rich

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2017 14:06


    I know many wealthy men and women.  They have ALL employed this strategy to obtain the freedom they now enjoy.

    #49 The Habit game

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2017 14:06


    This episode alone can change your whole life for the better.

    #48 Until I’m all used up.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2017 14:06


    I want to live until I am all used up…having gave everything I had to this world and everyone in it.

    #47 Limiting Beliefs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2017 14:06


    Our belief systems effect every aspect of our life.  Today we put it into perspective in a way that can change everything for the better.

    #46 Whats your plan?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2017 14:06


    It’s important,  but it’s only a road map.  If you get to the destination another way…that’s o.k. too.

    #45 Self Doubt

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2017 14:06


    We all have it…the question is… what do we do with it?

    #44 F%$k Regret

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2017 14:06


    As if we get fit and THEN go to the gym, be serene and THEN meditate or be an expert and THEN go to school.  Thats not realty is it?  Then why do we expect to know the lessons of life before we have the experiences that teach them to us?  That’s why regret is … Continue reading #44 F%$k Regret →

    #43 What does it all mean?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2017 14:08


    We find purpose in the most unlikely of places…

    #42 Just for today.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2017 14:06


    How would you treat this day… all of the little things you normally take for granted… the things that you dislike…if this was the last day you had?  I think it would all shine bright.

    #41 This is not the dress rehearsal.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2017 14:06


    This is it folks…right here and right now.  The only way around is through.  Just begin, thats all it takes.

    #40 Out with the Old-In with the new.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2017 12:15


    We have to mourn the old cloths we never wear and make room for the new in our lives.  

    #39 Compare and Despair

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2017 14:38


    Why do we compare our insides to other peoples outsides?  This is why…

    #38 Second Chances

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2017 14:10


    How often do we get a second chance?  You would be surprised.

    #37 When things fall apart.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2017 14:10


    Where do we turn when we run out of road?  Having been to hell and back many times, I discuss how to transmute any  difficulty.

    # 36 Passion!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2017 14:10


    The motivation and fuel for all the hard work is found in our passions.

    #35 Humility

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2017 14:10


    Those who are humbled… and those who are about to be.

    #34 Lonely in a crowded room.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2017 14:10


    We all know the feeling.  How is it possible to be with people and still feel alone?  Today we will discuss how to eliminate loneliness from our lives once and for all.

    # 33 BEING JUDGED

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2017 14:06


    Navigating life is challenging enough without the endless judgement of people, society, and family.  Today we address this ego driven behaviour and how to deal with it in a healthy way.

    #32 Insecurity

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2017 14:06


    Feeling insecure is a challenge for most people.  How do we handle it?  The first step is getting honest about having it.

    # 31 SEXY

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2017 14:06


    It’s all a matter of perspective.  A great figure, amazing lips, or  talent beyond words.

    #30 Nothing Is Personal

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2017 14:06


    Nothing any ones says or does is personal.   Only when they touch a nerve do we begin taking on their poison.

    #29 SHAME

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2017 14:10


    Nothing hurts more than shame.  Yet our culture runs ramped with it.  Today we discuss the challenges, consequences and solutions to shame.

    #28 “The Good News About Guilt”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2017 14:06


    There is a big difference between guilt and shame….and it turns out to be a wonderful asset if used correctly.

    # 27 The Problem With Denial

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2017 14:10


    It’s easier to face it…though we do everything possible to avoid the truth – the consequences can be severe.

    #26 “Daring Greatly”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2017 14:10


    It’s not the critic who counts…The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming.

    #25 Boundaries Create Abundance

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2017 13:58


    Recent Studies have shown that the most successful, compassionate individuals – also have the healthiest boundaries.

    #24 Speak up! I’m Not A Mind Reader.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2017 14:10


    We are all aware that communication is key.  Expecting someone to read your mind and then becoming resentful when they don’t pick up on your telepathic dialog is called manipulation.

    #23 Move Your Ass

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2017 14:05


    Nothing happens if nothing happens. We have to move our ass and take action.  Lets get to it then!

    #22 Only As Sick As Our Secrets

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2017 14:05


    Today we discuss the con’s of holding onto our secrets and the pro’s to letting them go.  We also cover HOW to shed them.

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