A weekly podcast about my life as an amateur porn actor and producer. Frank talk about sex, making amateur porn, BDSM and generally what it's like to have a monetized sex life.
This week I answer a listener's question "Do you think BDSM can be therapy? Join me as I talk about potential pitfalls and benefits of therapeutic Kink. Show notes and links can be found at:www.WickedFellow.com
This week I dive in the question of how Artificial Intelligence will affect the adult entertainment industry. Will powerful A.I. tools make porn safer for all of us?, will computer generated porn take over and displace human performers? What does the near future hold for all of us?” Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
This week: BDSM breakups. How do Kink and BDSM breakups differ from your normal vanilla break up? What can Doms do to help provide relationship aftercare, what happens when a sub wants to break up with their Dom? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
This week: Surviving breakups. I talk a lot about how to have successful healthy relationships on this podcast but sometimes things just don't work out. I talk about how to get through the end of a relationship and hopefully come out the other side with your friendship intact. I also answer some listener questions about my relationship with leather, other men, and why I haven't released any adult content in a while. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
This week: part two of my interview with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. With trans and gay rights being a hot topic in the news we talk about why and how these social issues have become a political battle ground. We also talk about how some groups actively recruit disenfranchised and isolated men. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRaceShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In the weeks episode I have a conversation with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. What does it mean to be “a real man”? Who gets to decide what a man should be and how they should act? Join us for part one of this conversation in my ongoing series about non toxic masculinity. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRaceShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
“In the weeks episode I tackle the very difficult subject of whether or not I believe mainstream porn can lead people down a path to CSAM, especially porn that has an “Age Play” element. This a very sensitive subject for many and I do want to warn anyone listening that I do discus the exploitation of children in the episode. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I talk about age verification, how do we make certain that kids aren't watching porn. Can we have reliable age verification? What age is OK for porn? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Is rough porn, or pornography in general, unethical? Does watching rough pornography cause people to commit crimes or become abusive? Are content creators responsible for the actions of their viewers? In this first part of a new series I give my thoughts on these questions sent in by a listener. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Would legalizing sex work resolve the Incel problem? Should “Real Men” bother with consent or just do what they want? On this weeks episode I talk about these issues and more. Thanks to our new Patrons: Saavik, Miss D, and MJ your support is so important to the this podcast. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In our first episode of the new year I wanted to get back to some Kinky fundamentals and with Consent being of foundational importance to any relationship I wanted to take a deep dive and talk about this very important issue. What is consent? How do you give it, how to receive consent, how is consent withdrawn? What is a violation of consent? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I talk about Kink and mental health, specifically when does kink go from being a healthy and fulfilling part of your life to becoming something that causes you distress and and real harm. A very good article about the fight to de-stigmatize Kink and BDSM can be found herehttps://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/01/bdsm-versus-the-dsm/384138/Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode we continue our conversation with author and activist Race Bannon, we talk about the more fluid role of domination and submission in the gay kink scene in contrast with the more rigid roles in the straight scene. You can find more info about Race here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRaceShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
This week we have the second part of my conversation with Katja about playing with multiple people in a three way plus situation, negotiating Power exchange with more than one person and I also answer a listener's question about some Kinky Dating red flags. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
This week we have our season 3 premier and we are happy to bring you an interview with author and activist Race Bannon. Katja and I had a wonderful interview with Race and in this first part of the interview we talked about his origins in the Kink and Leather community, changes he's seen in those scenes, and some differences and commonalities between the gay and straight kink communities. Links for Race Bannon here https://linktr.ee/BannonRaceShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode we are joined by MeanStreakMileWide for a conversation about how the Kink world intersects with the Legal world. We talk about how consent works in a legal setting, contracts between Doms and subs, how important societal changes effect our lifestyle and more. While we are talking about the law in this episode, remember that this is for education and entertainment purposes only, it is not legal advice and does not establish an attorney client relationship. If you are in a kinky legal situation or any kind of legal situation, its important to consult with a lawyer licensed to practice in your jurisdiction. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode Katja and I talk about our experience playing with multiple people in Kink environments, both intimately and non intimate settings. We also have some great news about our upcoming season of Wicked Wednesdays Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks epidote I answer a listers question about how to know if they are submissive as well as how I know when I'm talking to someone who is submissive or dominant. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this episode I answer some great questions about collars from our last episode and give more tips and advice for healthy happy three way sex. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this episode I answer a listeners question about collars, what they mean in the BDSM and Kink scene above and beyond a piece of play equipment. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I talk about threesomes, how to have safe healthy sexual relationships with more than one person. In this first episode I address the importance of communication and consent when you first approach the idea of introducing another person to your relationship.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I answer a couple of questions and concerns from last week and talk about how I got started in Kink and PornShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I talk about dealing with stress in healthy ways, specifically about combating intrusive thoughts and anxiety that all of us deal with. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice on what to do and what not to do in Poly relationships as well as answer some questions from our last poly episode. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice about how to be a Dominant person without alienating everyone around you, both in and outside of BDSM and Kink relationships. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I ask Katja to put on her constitutional scholar hat and help us understand how overturning Roe v Wade is not just undermining reproductive rights but how it might very well have dire consequences for the Kink and LGBTQ+ community. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I want to talk about Trust, earning it, keeping it, dealing with trust issues from past bad relationships and finding the courage to trust again. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films.This week I address a listeners question about whether it's an issue or not to have a significant age gap in a BDSM relationship or in relationships in general. I talk quite a bit about my own experience in being both the younger and older person in a long term relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films.This week Katja joins me for an in depth conversation about Kink and family, How and when to talk to kids about sex and Kink, why its so hard to speak candidly with family about intimate matters and how to balance a BDSM relationship with a family relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films.In this weeks episode I discuss about when and if to talk to your family about kink, especially in relation to kids. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I explain the three levels of submission as I see them; Fear, Reward, and Fulfillment. I also discuss the importance of clarity in Dom/sub communication. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I go over the qualities I think are necessary to be a happy and successful submissive. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I have a conversation with Katja about qualities she looks for in a Dom as well a wide ranging discussion on Dom vs Dommes.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comShow notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I go over seven virtues that I believe it takes to be a good Dom. What are your thoughts? I always welcome feed back and I'm interested in your thoughts on these as well as other attributes you believe are important for a good Dom to possess. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I give some advice on how to interact with people who are new to the scene especially in regards to personal safety with a bonus Q&A with my subs where they get to ask me anything and I have to answer. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I answer a listener's question about how consent makes it OK to "hurt" or other wise harm someone you care about in BDSM relationships. I also talk about how to help your partner get over that initial hesitation they may have when it comes to BDSM. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode Wicked Katja joins me for an in depth discussion on how an online BDSM relationship transitions to an in person relationship, how we managed our long Distance D/s relationship over several years, how our 24/7 Dominant/submissive relationships works day to day and I also talk about some new episodes and projects I have planned for the coming year Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I talk about Sadism, humiliation, and degradation play in BDSM (you dirty little sluts) How Sadism, which would normally be a negative personality trait, can be a healthy and positive aspect of Kink and BDSM relationships. I also discus how to negotiate boundaries in humiliation and degradation play. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this weeks episode I catch up on some of the questions I've received recently including: Is there a hierarchy in Polyamorous relationships? What are some relationship red flags for you? Can you have a romantic BDSM relationship and why are you so sweaty? Answers to all those questions and more in this weeks episode.Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this episode I talk about how to deal with jealousy in Polyamorous relationships, successful ways of harnessing and redirecting that energy into positive outcomes, and caution against allowing NRE (New Relationship Energy) to cause you to neglect your current partners. I also talk about introducing your monogamous partners to the idea of polyamory. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this episode I talk about Daddy Doms, Mommy Dommes, and Big/little play in general. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com
In this episode I answer a listener's question about how to ask their Dominant for more intensity in a session, why can't my submissives look me in the eye, how I feel about my gay fans, and what's my favorite food, all that and more. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I talk about Primal Domination and Prey style submission including the importance of establishing consent in a BDSM style that is long on action and short on discussion. I also answer some listener questions from last weeks episode about common submissive issues like low self esteem and my rather cynical philosophy on human motivations.Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.ComJtvNoZuIZ2JcIPuOXJjK
In this episode I open our section on Domination with my personal Dominant philosophy as well as addressing some bad habits and toxic traits I often see in Dominants. Why do Doms do what they do? What do Doms get out of a D/s relationship? What is my personal philosophy on Domination, all those questions and more in this weeks episode. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I wrap up the Submissive portion of our series and talk about Pain Sluts and Switches with an emphasis on the importance of intensive aftercare often required after extreme play. Show notes and Links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I answer a listener's question about Polyamory and BDSM and address some common misconceptions about Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. This will be the first in a series about Poly and how poly and BDSM overlap, as well as some more generalized poly relationship advice. I also talk about the dangers of assuming that monogamy works for everyone and the problems with trying to force everyone into lifelong monogamous relationships. We will be returning to our BDSM 101 Series next week. Full show notes can be found at www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode continue our BDSM 101 series and talk Service, Tame me, and Slave style submission. I also give a business update and offer some advice on the importance of diversification if you are an online creator. www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I answer some listener questions about what to expect and how to behave at your first event what my secret kinks are, and inclusivity in the BDSM scene. You can also listen to this on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and most other podcasting sites www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I talk about Brat Play, Good Girl/Boy Play and Age Play. I also talk about the importance of accepting peoples kinks. You can also listen to this on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and most other podcasting sites www.WickedFellow.Com
In this episode I talk about the nature and spectrum of submissiveness and go more in depth on Bedroom/Romantic submissives and also Rope/Bondage submissives. www.WickedFellow.Com
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