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LOVE, SEX, MARRIAGE and everything in between! Each week Khadeen and Devale Ellis spread love the Brooklyn way. Listen in as they reveal personal truths, share opinions and inspire us to level up in our own lives by giving some advice — but no matter what you hear they will always keep it 100. DEAD…

Khadeen Ellis and Devale Ellis


    • Jun 4, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 57m AVG DURATION
    • 242 EPISODES

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    The Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis podcast is truly a gem in the world of relationship and life advice. As someone who has been in a long-term relationship, I have found their discussions and insights to be incredibly helpful in navigating various situations. Khadeen and Devale have a powerful voice that has the ability to truly impact listeners, and I am grateful for the positive changes they have helped me make in my own life. Their authenticity, transparency, and relatability shine through in every episode.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is the openness and honesty that Khadeen and Devale bring to their discussions. They are not afraid to share their own experiences, both good and bad, which makes the podcast feel incredibly real. It is refreshing to hear a couple talk about the ups and downs of relationships in such a candid way. Additionally, their advice is practical and applicable, making it easy to implement into one's own life.

    Another great aspect of The Dead Ass podcast is the range of topics they cover. They tackle everything from family dynamics to personal growth, providing listeners with a well-rounded perspective on relationships and life as a whole. This variety keeps each episode engaging and ensures that there is something for everyone.

    If I had to point out one potential drawback of this podcast, it would be that the episodes sometimes feel too short. The conversations are so interesting and informative that it can be hard to believe when an episode comes to an end. However, this is just a testament to how enjoyable the content is, as I always find myself wanting more.

    In conclusion, The Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis podcast is an absolute must-listen for anyone looking for genuine relationship advice and personal development insights. Khadeen and Devale's powerful voices, open discussions, and practical advice make this podcast both valuable and entertaining. I am grateful for their impactful work and will continue to support them in their journey.



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    Latest episodes from Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis

    Black Power vs. Black Excellence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 70:36 Transcription Available


    We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Code Switching

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 60:03 Transcription Available


    When it comes to being Black in America, the hoops we have to jump through just to be recognized as worthy are ever changing. But do you think code switching is harmful or necessary for Black excellence? The Ellises and the crew give their opinions in this episode, Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Surviving Trump While Black

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 60:03 Transcription Available


    Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Navigating Burnout

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 73:20 Transcription Available


    What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk about burnout. How it feels to be tired and ambitious. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Legacy Beyond Wealth

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 79:14 Transcription Available


    We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in on the conversation. #DeadAss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Letting Go

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 56:32 Transcription Available


    The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat with the crew about being on their Queen Elsa ish...letting go. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Friendship After 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 80:27 Transcription Available


    As we get older and our lives change, so do our relationships and the requirements we have for them. In this episode, the Ellises chat with the crew about what friendship looks like for them at their big big ages. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    New Season For A Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2025 87:11 Transcription Available


    We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and what they're looking forward to in this new season.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Introducing Ellis Ever After

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2025 2:50 Transcription Available


    The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Listener Letters

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2024 70:30 Transcription Available


    It's that time again! The Ellises get all up in your business and put their two cents in. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    No Drama For Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2024 62:10 Transcription Available


    The Holiday season is here! That means spending time with family you haven't seen all year. In this episode, The Ellises talk grace and understanding when it comes to making amends before the family functions. Do we understand the intent behind the actions that cause rifts in the family unit? And are we communicating the impact that it had on our relationships? Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Nail Polish or Nah?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2024 59:20 Transcription Available


    Styles change for every generation. The things certain styles used to mean to our generation, don't carry the same weight to our kids' generation. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale express how they address their fears when it comes to their kids' changing styles, while still trying to understand their perspective on trends, personal style and expression. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Daytime Dreams with Sherri Shepherd

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2024 73:18 Transcription Available


    The dream of a lifetime for a woman in entertainment is to be the host of her own TV show. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen speaks with a woman who has made that dream, and many more come true. Khadeen talks with Sherri Shepherd about her journey to the top and what matters the most to her along the way. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Fight Night

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 63:01 Transcription Available


    There's a day that every boy Dad anticipates. The day that his son tries to knuck 'cause he is buck! In this episode, the Ellises discuss when that fateful day came for Devale and their oldest son. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Power of Conceding

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2024 65:23 Transcription Available


    When you've been in a relationship for a long time, you learn that every argument just isn't worth having. In this episode, The Ellises talk about how admitting when you are wrong, can be the best way to get along. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Get Your Freak On

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2024 53:27 Transcription Available


    The secret to having a great marriage is keeping the spark alive. That means date nights, acts of service and having sex like two strangers who just met at a bar. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss how they keep their relationship hot, steamy and interesting with casual sex. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Meet Me Next Christmas with Kalen Allen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2024 56:06 Transcription Available


    Set your alarms, because Christmas is coming! And your new favorite Christmas movie, Meet Me Next Christmas is coming to Netflix on November 6th. Kalen Allen co-stars in the film alongisde Devale, and in this episode, the Ellises talk to him about how knowing exactly who he is has helped him reach the stars. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Keeping Up With The Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2024 57:04 Transcription Available


    We might feel young, but when it comes to the fashion, technology, lingo and trends that our kids are hip to, we are completely out of the loop. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about how they are trying to keep up with what their kids know, so that they can be better parents. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Not Another Sex Episode with Shan Boodram

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 93:06 Transcription Available


    The first time sexologist and author Shan Boodram was on the show, she played the role of referee in a heated conversation about sex between this Ellises. 5 years, another child, and a vasectomy later, the conversation is a lot different. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Risk It For The Biscuit w/ Etienne & Ivy Coco Maurice

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 57:25 Transcription Available


    As the oldest sister and the mother of four boys, Khadeen knows the value of having a bond with your siblings. Whether it's getting through the awkward parts of life with the help of a big sister, or banding together to get your parents to do what you want them to, the power that siblings have when they are close is unmatched. In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to Etienne and Ivy Coco Maurice about how their bond and the love they have for each other helps them show up for our community in a big way. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Just Add Hot Sauce with Alex Hill

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2024 45:14 Transcription Available


    After a long day of work, errands, and an attempt at self-care, the question every mom hates to hear - what's for dinner? In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day with Kay, Khadeen talks to food blogger, tv host and chef, Alex Hill, about how her love for creating fun, flavorful dishes, keeps her motivated to enthusiastically answer that question every single day. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Devale's Man Cave with Nice & Neat podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2024 90:40 Transcription Available


    While a lot of people think that men can't be faithful, we found four faithful Black men saying it doesn't serve them not to be. In this episode, Devale talks with the hosts of the Nice & Neat Podcast, Duke Inehacho, Omar Bolden and Jalon Webster, about why they chose monogamy. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    PCOS with Candice w/ Candice Bolden

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 64:25 Transcription Available


    After struggling with symptoms from PCOS, Candice Bolden took charge of her fate and changed her life. Now, just months after having her first baby, her struggles are totally different! #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Cookout Ain't Dead

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 56:02 Transcription Available


    The people are saying that millennials aren't hosting cookouts, family dinners, or upholding old traditions anymore. But is that true? In this episode, the Ellises discuss why it may seem like these new generations are losing recipes. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    A Gay With Kay with Tribble

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 67:51 Transcription Available


    It's time for listener letters! But this time, the Dead Ass podcast producer, Tribble, steps out from behind the mic and joins Khadeen to give their best (not toxic at all) advice! Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Survivor's Beauty with Grace Azubike

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 55:32 Transcription Available


    After being diagnosed with breast cancer, Grace Azubike immediately sprung into action. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to her dear friend Grace about her mission to help women survive. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Third Time's A Charm with Jasmin Brown

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2024 74:08 Transcription Available


    A new mother to a child of her own, and a bonus mom to her partner's kids, Jasmin Brown is not worried about what the internet has to say. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to our internet bestie WatchJazzy about the highs and lows of motherhood so far, her journey as a comedian and why the third time's a charm. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    A Lady And A Champion with Sanya Richards-Ross

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2024 56:31 Transcription Available


    Sanya Richards-Ross is a mom, wife, entrepreneur and an Olympic medalist, many times over. For 18 years, she has been the fastest woman in America. But this year in at the Olympic games in Paris, we'll be watching to see if that record will make it to 19! In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks with the world class athlete about her rise to track stardom, her family life, and being the owner of the official pajama line of the 2024 Olympic Games. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    IDGAF with B. Simone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 66:13 Transcription Available


    When it comes to social media, the trolls be trolling! But when you live authentically, ain't nothing nobody can tell you, that you haven't already said. In this episode, Khadeen sits down with comedia, social media star and podcast host, B. Simone, about her journey to not giving AF about what the comments say. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Deferred Not Denied with Sakari Joseph

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 57:04 Transcription Available


    Sometimes you have to take the road less traveled to get to your dream. In this episode, Khadeen chats with her sister, Sakari, about her unconventional route to the nursing career of her dreams. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Be Featured at A Day With Kay Live!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 0:45 Transcription Available


    A Day With Kay is going on tour this September, and we're looking for the movers, shakers, motivators and stars in your city to tell their story! Write in to nominate yourself or someone you know to be feature in Chicago (9/5), Houston (9/8), Fort Lauderdale (9/20), or Los Angeles (9/22). Tell us why you think they should be featured. Send those letters to DeadAssAdvice@Gmail.com. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    A Day With Kay

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 58:28 Transcription Available


    Devale is a star with a glow that can be seen from outer space. But don't get it twisted, Khadeen is the sun! In this episode, the Ellises talk about why A Day With Kay is a project they are pursuing now. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    He Got Mommy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 68:20 Transcription Available


    When we hear men talk about their perception of women, could they really be talking through the wounds they have in the relationship with their mother? In this episode, the Ellises talk about the psychological effects of mommy issues. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Til Death Do Us Part

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 48:47 Transcription Available


    When you make a vow to have and to hold your spouse through sickness and in health, what you're really vowing to do is support your partner through life's changes. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss supporting your spouse as they grow and change. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    You're Just Like Your Momma

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 60:29


    Knowing your spouse well is more than just knowing their likes and dislikes. It's also knowing their history. In this episode, the Ellises talk about how going back to Khadeen's father's home, St. Vincent, helped Devale get to know his wife a little better. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Perception vs. Reality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2024 41:10 Transcription Available


    The way we see the world is determined by our personal experiences. But what we've been through isn't always the whole story. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the downfalls of choosing our perception over seeing reality. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Devale's Surprise

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2024 54:18 Transcription Available


    His birthday might have passed, but the party don't stop! In this episode, the Ellises talk about what it took to surprise Devale with a late birthday party, and the growth they realized they've made in the process. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Don't Wait To Write A Will

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2024 45:44 Transcription Available


    If you're a millennial, your parents are aging and it's about time that you have to take more responsibility for them than you ever have. That comes with managing their finances. But do you know how? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about some of the ways you can start planning for your parents' future, now. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Cycle of Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 70:09 Transcription Available


    Whether it's the death of a loved one, the loss of a relationship, or a big life change, we all have to deal with grief at some point in our lives. It's not th same for everyone, and it's never easy. In this episode, the Ellises talk about their recent run in with grief and how they are dealing with it. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Mediocrity Dwells In Comfort

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2024 53:10 Transcription Available


    When it comes to living the life you want, are you going after your wildest dreams, or are you complacent with where you are now? That's the question Khadeen and Devale assess in this episode. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Listener Letters!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2024 51:38 Transcription Available


    It's the drama for me!! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale get all up in your business with a whole episode of listener letters. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    They Took Care of You...Now It's Your Turn

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2024 48:05 Transcription Available


    If you're lucky to still have your parents around, it's probably about time to start taking care of them. And not only that, but learning how to have hard conversations about estate planning and their future wishes. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the challenges that come with parenting their parents. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    They're Your Sacrifices, Not Your Kids'

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2024 59:27 Transcription Available


    When we tell our kids how much we've sacrificed for them, we unknowingly create a guilty conscience in them that they will eventuall have to heal from. But they still need to learn how to be responsible and take things seriously right? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss how they try to empower their kids without the guilt. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Devale is 40!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2024 63:48


    Yesterday was Devale's 40th birthday. And to prepare for this momentous occasion, he's been making sure his body is ready for the years to come. In this episode, Khadeen talks to Devale about what he's learned about his health, and what changes he's prepared to make to ensure his longevity. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Put Some Respect On Being A Fan

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2024 66:35 Transcription Available


    The Ellis Family platform is built on love. Love for family, friends and most importantly, the people that support them. But do the fans love them back? And if they do, do they know how to act? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale share some awkward fan moments and discuss what supporters should consider before approaching their favorite celeb in public. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Knowing Our Kids Better Than They Know Themselves

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 44:47 Transcription Available


    Kids learn how to communicate at every stage of childhood. And while they're still learning how to say how they feel and know what they need, our parent's intuition is like a super power. In this episode, the Ellises talk about how knowing their kids inside and out has helped them in dire times. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Maybe It's Just Kotanese

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 59:43 Transcription Available


    The littlest Ellis is 2 and has been learning, growing and living his best life. But when it comes to verbal expression, he doesn't do too much talking. In this episode, the Ellises open up about learning about Dakota's speech delay, and what they've been doing to help him catch up. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love Against The World Tour Recap Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 53:51 Transcription Available


    If you missed the Love Against The World Tour, sorry about your luck. The shows were packed, the crowds were hype and the Ellises and the Dead Ass team showed all the way out! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about their favorite moments of the tour. Plus, find out if they've changed their minds about doing it again. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love Against The World Tour Recap Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 41:19 Transcription Available


    The Love Against The World Tour just ended and we went out with a bang! In this episode, the Ellises talk about how the creative direction for the tour came about and what it took to make it happen. Dead ass!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Practice Kid

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2024 45:57 Transcription Available


    The oldest child might get the most responsibilities, the most punishment and the most restrictions. But that's only because with the first kid, parents are just practicin'! In this episode, the Ellises talk about how their practice kid is becoming a young man with a big opinion. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love, Peace and Hair Grease with Monique and Melvin Rodriguez

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 31:05 Transcription Available


    In this special bonus episode, the Ellises talk to Monique and Melvin Rodriguez, the power couple behind beloved hair care brand Mielle Organics, about their journey from puppy love to love against the world.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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