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We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat with the crew about being on their Queen Elsa ish...letting go. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and what they're looking forward to in this new season.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Are You Loyal to Your Gender or Your Relationship? Shan Boodram sits down with Khadeen and Devale Ellis, the dynamic married duo known for their raw honesty, humor, and insights on love and relationships. Together, they share how they saved their marriage by breaking free from traditional gender roles and prioritizing their partnership above all else. Khadeen and Devale Ellis are actors, content creators, and authors of the best-selling book We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want From Your Relationship. Known for their hit podcast Dead Ass and their viral YouTube channel chronicling their family life, the Ellises have inspired millions with their relatable and unfiltered take on marriage, parenting, and personal growth. In this episode the couple talks about the controversy over Devale's vasectomy, being called a simp, making a plate for your husband, and putting your career on pause so the family can win. Thank You Khadeen and Devale https://www.instagram.com/khadeeniam/ https://www.instagram.com/iamdevale/ Read or listen to their book: https://www.amazon.com/We-Over-Counterintuitive-Everything-Relationship/dp/0593577604 Thanks Arya for sponsoring this episode: Arya is a service for couples that helps them break their sexual routine with the help of an intimacy concierge that serves up curated sexy scenes monthly to sign up or learn more go to http://arya.fyi/shan
Styles change for every generation. The things certain styles used to mean to our generation, don't carry the same weight to our kids' generation. In this episode, Khadeen & Devale express how they address their fears when it comes to their kids' changing styles, while still trying to understand their perspective on trends, personal style and expression. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The dream of a lifetime for a woman in entertainment is to be the host of her own TV show. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen speaks with a woman who has made that dream, and many more come true. Khadeen talks with Sherri Shepherd about her journey to the top and what matters the most to her along the way. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hey BA fam! On this week's How-To Monday, we're featuring Khadeen & Devale Ellis, who share how their marriage dynamic has changed since having kids, their journey with finances, and how they have held each other down throughout their marriage.Drop us a note at brownambitionpodcast@gmail.com or hit us up on Instagram @brownambitionpodcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hey BA fam! On this week's How-To Monday, we're featuring Khadeen & Devale Ellis, who share how their marriage dynamic has changed since having kids, their journey with finances, and how they have held each other down throughout their marriage. Drop us a note at brownambitionpodcast@gmail.com or hit us up on Instagram @brownambitionpodcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The secret to having a great marriage is keeping the spark alive. That means date nights, acts of service and having sex like two strangers who just met at a bar. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss how they keep their relationship hot, steamy and interesting with casual sex. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We might feel young, but when it comes to the fashion, technology, lingo and trends that our kids are hip to, we are completely out of the loop. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about how they are trying to keep up with what their kids know, so that they can be better parents. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As the oldest sister and the mother of four boys, Khadeen knows the value of having a bond with your siblings. Whether it's getting through the awkward parts of life with the help of a big sister, or banding together to get your parents to do what you want them to, the power that siblings have when they are close is unmatched. In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to Etienne and Ivy Coco Maurice about how their bond and the love they have for each other helps them show up for our community in a big way. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After a long day of work, errands, and an attempt at self-care, the question every mom hates to hear - what's for dinner? In this episode of Dead Ass Presents A Day with Kay, Khadeen talks to food blogger, tv host and chef, Alex Hill, about how her love for creating fun, flavorful dishes, keeps her motivated to enthusiastically answer that question every single day. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of MahoganyBooks Front Row: The Podcast, authors Khadeen and Devale Ellis delve into their book, We Over Me, to discuss the intricacies of relationships and marriage, sharing their journey from dating to married life. The couple discusses key elements of a healthy relationship, such as faith, financial management, and effective communication. They offer insights into the importance of authenticity in relationships, the distinction between men seeking partners versus wives, and the impact of leading by example. Personal anecdotes and experiences underscore the significance of vulnerability and honesty, providing valuable advice for those in relationships or aspiring to understand the dynamics of a successful marriage. The episode concludes with an inspirational segment on the influence of African American literature.Discover a world of Black LiteratureVisit MahoganyBooks and use code 'Front Row' to save 10% on your first purchase. #BlackBooksMatterDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.
It's time for listener letters! But this time, the Dead Ass podcast producer, Tribble, steps out from behind the mic and joins Khadeen to give their best (not toxic at all) advice! Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After being diagnosed with breast cancer, Grace Azubike immediately sprung into action. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to her dear friend Grace about her mission to help women survive. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A new mother to a child of her own, and a bonus mom to her partner's kids, Jasmin Brown is not worried about what the internet has to say. In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks to our internet bestie WatchJazzy about the highs and lows of motherhood so far, her journey as a comedian and why the third time's a charm. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sanya Richards-Ross is a mom, wife, entrepreneur and an Olympic medalist, many times over. For 18 years, she has been the fastest woman in America. But this year in at the Olympic games in Paris, we'll be watching to see if that record will make it to 19! In this episode of A Day With Kay, Khadeen talks with the world class athlete about her rise to track stardom, her family life, and being the owner of the official pajama line of the 2024 Olympic Games. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to social media, the trolls be trolling! But when you live authentically, ain't nothing nobody can tell you, that you haven't already said. In this episode, Khadeen sits down with comedia, social media star and podcast host, B. Simone, about her journey to not giving AF about what the comments say. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sometimes you have to take the road less traveled to get to your dream. In this episode, Khadeen chats with her sister, Sakari, about her unconventional route to the nursing career of her dreams. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Devale is a star with a glow that can be seen from outer space. But don't get it twisted, Khadeen is the sun! In this episode, the Ellises talk about why A Day With Kay is a project they are pursuing now. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When you make a vow to have and to hold your spouse through sickness and in health, what you're really vowing to do is support your partner through life's changes. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss supporting your spouse as they grow and change. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Knowing your spouse well is more than just knowing their likes and dislikes. It's also knowing their history. In this episode, the Ellises talk about how going back to Khadeen's father's home, St. Vincent, helped Devale get to know his wife a little better. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Life is messy. WE are messy. What does it look like to be responsible for ourselves and each other, and how do we get to we over me, as it relates to a clean home, a happy and healthy family environment, and more? The Dads dive into their own personal experiences, and discuss essential tips for a clean and happy home. It can be tough when those you live with have different ideas of "clean." Here are some tips to have a productive conversation: Find Common Ground: Shared Vision: Instead of focusing on blame, discuss the benefits of a cleaner space. Maybe it's reduced stress, easier to find things, or a healthier environment. Respect Differences: Acknowledge that everyone has their own comfort level with cleanliness. Open Communication: "I" Statements: Use "I" statements to express how the messiness makes you feel, e.g., "I feel stressed when the dishes pile up in the sink." Avoid accusatory statements like, "You always leave your mess everywhere!" Active Listening: Listen to their perspective too. Maybe they didn't realize how much the mess bothered you, or they have a time crunch for cleaning. Finding Solutions: Cleanliness Standards: Discuss what "clean" means to everyone. Maybe it's not about a spotless house, but having clear pathways and surfaces for essential tasks. Chore Delegation: Work together to create a chore chart that assigns tasks based on preferences and abilities. Maybe someone hates dishes but loves vacuuming. Compromise: Be flexible. Maybe some areas are kept tidier than others, or cleaning schedules are adjusted. Additional Tips: Focus on Teamwork: Frame cleaning as a team effort to maintain a happy and healthy home environment. Positive Reinforcement: Acknowledge and appreciate each other's efforts when someone cleans up. Make it Fun: Play music while cleaning, turn it into a competition, or make it a family activity. Remember, the goal is to find a system that works for everyone. Be patient, understanding, and open to compromise. There are resources online and in libraries about chore charts and creating a cleaning routine for families. We Over Me by Khadeen and Devale Ellis --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theadhdads/support
The way we see the world is determined by our personal experiences. But what we've been through isn't always the whole story. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the downfalls of choosing our perception over seeing reality. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
If you're a millennial, your parents are aging and it's about time that you have to take more responsibility for them than you ever have. That comes with managing their finances. But do you know how? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about some of the ways you can start planning for your parents' future, now. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to living the life you want, are you going after your wildest dreams, or are you complacent with where you are now? That's the question Khadeen and Devale assess in this episode. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's the drama for me!! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale get all up in your business with a whole episode of listener letters. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Growing up in Brooklyn in the 80s and 90s, kids did not have many role models in the media industry to admire, so sports became the main outlet and focus for Devale Ellis, who followed this path with football always being his plan B while acting and entertaining were his real dreams, Devale used the game of football to teach him about being a better man, better teammate and better person because The football player turned actor and Internet personality, joined Ryan, Channing and Fred to share an inside look into his journey through the ups and downs, beating underdog odds and eventually landing him on the big screen while amassing a large social media fanbase. Walking on to Division I football, making the team, being undrafted and making a NFL roster are rare instances but for Devale, it's just about outworking the next person and being the 1% of the 1% which is why becoming a star actor and YouTube phenom was never out of a reach with dedication and effort. Before making it to the NFL playing with the Detroit Lions and Cleveland Browns, Ellis was a wideout alongside Marques Colston at Hofstra University. Having played basketball most of his life, Devale relied on his athleticism to perform at the college level, but he tells the guys about how his dream for a scholarship led to him wanting real money at the professional level.Starting his NFL career in Detroit, Devale's motivation to outwork people landed him a roster spot but as he peels back the layers of his experience, revealing his struggles mentally and emotionally, he opens up to the guys on how his addiction to painkillers began, turning to pills to try and mask his insecurities and frustrations with football. With his passion fading for the game, his Plan B quickly became his Plan A as he transitioned from the NFL to Hollywood, becoming an actor and entertainer. Today, Devale s best known as a family man who's a star on Tyler Perry's Sistas show amongst other projects while creating a platform with his wife Khadeen that has become a hit. His social media framework is filled with a lot of positive messages while sharing daily experiences to allow people a peek into his life and the lessons along the way. Sharing with the guys how instrumental Tyler Perry has been in his career and as a mentor in life trying to navigate each day. Perry has helped him continue to grow with opportunity and fame, but Devale explains the importance of always supporting his people while taking the characters he plays on tv to set an example that there is always hope for a different outcome. While Devale posts lots of moments with his family online, he says the 1 min he shares out of the 1,440 minutes in a day is such a small representation of his life and who he is which is important to him to keep some aspects close to his heart. He stresses the importance of open communication between him and his wife as well as with their sons, allowing them to experience life as it happens and tackle tough topics straight on whether it be racism, bullying, work ethic or debunking false perceptions of black culture, Devale prides himself in setting an example by sharing life experiences and showing the world, even people who hit obstacles have a way of achieving their dreams. Life never works out quite as we planned or imagined, but sometimes it can work out even better and Devale has embraced the better and all the growth that has come with each success and even the failed opportunities too. As a father to young boys, Devale emphasizes how everything is centered around emotional maturity, having a strong family and the means to get by each day. Devale is honest about the paths he's walked, mistakes he's made and how each part of his journey has shaped him into the man, husband and father he is today. New episodes drop on Tuesdays at 12 p.m. ET and Fridays at 3:30 p.m ET Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're lucky to still have your parents around, it's probably about time to start taking care of them. And not only that, but learning how to have hard conversations about estate planning and their future wishes. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about the challenges that come with parenting their parents. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When we tell our kids how much we've sacrificed for them, we unknowingly create a guilty conscience in them that they will eventuall have to heal from. But they still need to learn how to be responsible and take things seriously right? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss how they try to empower their kids without the guilt. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Yesterday was Devale's 40th birthday. And to prepare for this momentous occasion, he's been making sure his body is ready for the years to come. In this episode, Khadeen talks to Devale about what he's learned about his health, and what changes he's prepared to make to ensure his longevity. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Ellis Family platform is built on love. Love for family, friends and most importantly, the people that support them. But do the fans love them back? And if they do, do they know how to act? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale share some awkward fan moments and discuss what supporters should consider before approaching their favorite celeb in public. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Excited to kick off season 4 with my good sis, Khadeen Ellis. A lot of y'all see her on social media and know her as a wife and mom to 4 whole boys, but she is so much more than that and I felt it as important for you to see her heart and hear her voice.
If you missed the Love Against The World Tour, sorry about your luck. The shows were packed, the crowds were hype and the Ellises and the Dead Ass team showed all the way out! In this episode, Khadeen and Devale talk about their favorite moments of the tour. Plus, find out if they've changed their minds about doing it again. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to women turning 40, the conversation tends to be about perimenopause, weight gain and wrinkles. But not in this house! In this episode, Khadeen talks about why she loves being 40 so far. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The upcoming Love Against The World Tour is the fifth tour for the Dead Ass Podcast and we's ti'ed, boss! Khadeen and Devale are focusing on new things and taking a break from the tour is going to be necessary to bring those goals to fruition. But in this episode, the Ellises reminisce on their favorite moments from the past, and gush about what they're excited about for the future. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Khadeen's favorite part of the show is the whole show in this episode. It's all listener letters! Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Since 2020, Lynae Vanee has been giving us the tea on all things political that affect our communities. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale sit down with Lynae to hear why she chose this path. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
When it comes to social justice, we often look to the people who are most visible for the right thing to say. But should celebrities always be expected to speak? Especially when you don't want to hear what they have to say? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss celebrity decorum around advocacy and visibility. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Trying to raise boys into responsible young men is a hard task. But the pressure we put on our kids can be even harder. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss taking a step back to teach their son to step up. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Ellises know what it takes to start a new business. But what's the secret sauce? In this episode Khadeen and Devale discuss what it takes to be successful in entrepreneurship. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Ellises walked in New York Fashion Week! The Actively Black runway show was high class, star studded and packed out. But everything that glitters ain't gold. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss why they almost didn't make it down the runway. Dead ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What would you do if you found out you were allergic to all the foods you love. Well, in this episode Khadeen talks about her journey with a naturopathic doctor, and her brand new diet. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
After finally executing Operation SDB (Snip Dem Balls), the Ellis clan is set in stone. But Devale might not feel the way he felt about his vasectomy when he got it. In this episode, Khadeen talks to Devale about the regret he feels after deciding, permanently, not to have more children. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As the oldest of the Ellis kids gets ready to start middle school, Khadeen and Devale are getting ready for the changes that come with it. More homework, harder classes, and raging hormones. In this episode, the Ellises discuss what they wish they would have known about sex and sexuality in middle school. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
It's Bey Hive season!! With Beyoncé's Renaissance Tour touching down in the US this week, the stans are ready to party with the queen (no non-disclosure). But Kay got to see her first tour stop in Europe a few months ago, and how that happened is quite the story. In this episode, Khadeen gives us the tea about her trip to Sweden to see the other Yoncé. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
As social media boasts weddings more extravagant every year, the expectations on engaged couples can be high. But what are the real standard wedding costs? In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss the hype vs. the reality of wedding costs. Dead ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The streets are talkin' and they're saying Khadeen got a lil' work done. Is it true? In this episode, the Ellises give us the real tea. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today we interviewed Khadeen & Devale Ellis! We spoke about the importance of communicating what you need out of your partner in your relationship, maintaining a good family balance, and prioritizing marriage. We hope you enjoy this interview and let us know below if you have any tips for our community! Check out their current projects here including their book, tour, and podcast! ▶ https://linktr.ee/TheEllisesNetwork Khadeen's Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/khadeeniam/?hl=en Davale's Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/iamdevale/?hl=en Love, Shawn and Andrew Follow My Instagram ▶ http://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ http://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew's Instagram ▶ http://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew's Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en Like the Facebook page! ▶ http://www.facebook.com/AndrewDEast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices