Harder on Myself

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I’m a not a dating coach. But I know a lot about dating. I am not a psychologist or a Guru. I’m just a man. A Scholar of sorts. A problem solver. I can at the very least help point you in the right direction because all I’ve obsessed over is this one thing since my teenage years. How to be free. I’m here to ask others what they did, Why they did it and how you can too. Some answers come from books, and some will come from real life chats. I’m not here to impose my own uninformed personal opinion. I’ve been studying this stuff for a long time. So Come join me as I try to make myself useful!

Lucas V


    • Feb 22, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    The Sunken Place

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 14:34


    When you've given into the face value of things and are left with no substance.

    Redpill Nonsense

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2022 24:05


    I'm this video I talk about the toxic Redpill community and how it disguised itself as masculinity --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    #3 Chivalry

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 20:53


    How Romance actually prevents Simpage --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    #2 To Make a Woman Cry+Bonus

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 40:57


    Men and Women both set out to hurt one another sometimes. Today more than ever with or without realizing it. Some ppl get off on getting you to react. Here's how to avoid that. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    #1 The Modern Metaverse

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 57:28


    Please see “intro #1 “ for description --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Traffic

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 9:23


    Everyone's got a different destination --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 8:07


    Learn to self soothe

    The Rules

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2021 6:32


    We need to sit down and sort ourselves out. This is how we do it

    Revenge: Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2021 37:14


    I got cut off by a phone call but I will continue this on episode 2 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Freestyle Poetry Series:The Woman.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 4:49


    Freestyle Poetry Series: The Woman --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ace Up You're Sleeve

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 8:23


    We may not have a much time as we think. Tomorrow never comes --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    How to Not take things personally

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2020 33:16


    Just because MJ did. Doesn't mean you should. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Commentary: Calibration

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2020 20:29


    Commentary in my previous episode. Calibration --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Calibration

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 17:05


    Calibration

    I Just Want A Tiger

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2020 19:35


    Don't become a slave to the fantasy of what you want, Disregarding the dangers of what it can pose to both your physical and mental health. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Hostage Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 10:20


    You should never be in a relationship where you're terrified to lose the other person or stand up to them --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Infinite Trust

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 13:10


    Just an early morning episode about giving yourself infinite trust in doing the things in life that you want to do. Only you really know you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    How to successfully make mistakes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 10:05


    Just a video exploring ideas on how to successfully make mistakes --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Why We Resent Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 8:29


    An exploration of why we resent people in our lives --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Mind of a Man series

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2020 31:16


    Exploring what men really think and what they really want in order to become healthy and Channel their energy the right way --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    What's your Normal?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 25:26


    An episode talking about how we unknowingly sabotage ourselves to accept crappy behavior because we don't understand what constitutes good behavior. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: That Movie can't decide for you.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 7:30


    We are the drivers in lobby n our journey and we are the writers of our story --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Big Brother ASMR

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 13:12


    I felt compelled to help get people off of their asses --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Chasing /Mental Capital

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2020 24:19


    Here's an observation of why I believe people chase others and how we can learn to fill the void --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Being an adult equals being a leader

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 9:40


    Just a rant about how being a leader actually doesn't take much besides acting like an adult --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Niche

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 7:00


    Just an episode talking about focusing on what your good at vs focusing on what makes you money. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: An Extra dose of Clarity

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 5:49


    More clarity tips for y'all . --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Clarity in Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 28:56


    Here's an episode about why having clarity about what you want will help you attract the kind of person that you want much sooner than sifting through tons and tons of people hoping to land on the right one --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    A Case for Single Mothers

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 24:43


    Maybe I should stay in my own lane but I just feel as though single moms get more hate than I deserve in the dating world. Here's my opinion --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Dating App Woes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 18:55


    Dating apps are very frustrating and just won't work for most men. Not saying they are impossible. But they are just more work than it's worth --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Eternally Longing for Something

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2020 17:05


    In this episode I talk about how we're constantly living in a never ending cycle of longing for things we should've let go of a long time ago and how move on with our lives. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Women want to me Mindfucked

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2020 30:01


    Another crazy mf rant --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Why I'm single

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 14:53


    Just me ranting about why I'm single. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Everyday People Featuring :Saturno

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2020 36:58


    Just mean and my friend Saturno. He's the first official guest on the podcast! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Who Should Pay for the First date.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 12:09


    The modern dating reality is here to stay. But it isn't working for most of us. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Being Ghosted: An In Depth Look

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 11:48


    Here's a brief analysis on a few types of ghosting and how to overcome it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Review your life.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2020 32:30


    This episode I talk about how we've been living in times for quite a while or everyone else's opinions and reviews matter more than our own. but the only way for us to actually feel valuable and free is to discover things on our own for better or for worse --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Social Dilemma: Commodifying Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 20:32


    The Future of human connection is for sale. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologues: Feel Vs Be

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 7:36


    That image you have isn't you. It's on Lease. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Car Monologue: Design you're life

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 9:56


    We can all be who we were truly meant to be! We are the architects of our future! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Untitled #2 Random Thoughts in the Car.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 5:32


    I tend to record even when not at home. Random, Thoughts that I really want to put out there. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Untitled #1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 8:15


    Random rants that I could've deleted but didn't. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    A Message to Shitty People.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 5:51


    Had to get this one out there --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    shitty people
    Mental Health Series: 2 Anxiety: A self psychoanalysis

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 30:03


    Here I try to go deep into my own mind. I hope this helps answer some of your own questions! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Mental Health Series: Anxiety

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 29:08


    Here I give you some tidbits about the origins of my anxiety. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Attention Whore

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 20:51


    Me speaking on my perception of how modern day women seem to use their male counterparts for validation. There's something deeper going on it seems. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Mind Trap: Fuck Validation!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2020 22:39


    Fuck Validation of Others! It's Traps Us! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Social Dilemma 2: Pop Culture Hive mind

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 27:03


    I Do my best to explain how we tend to get lost in the pop-culture hive mind and we often forget about the people outside of it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    What do I want again? I forgot.

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 21:28


    We often forget why we are even doing what we're doing in the first place. It's so caught up an auto pilot that we forgot what our mission even was --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Exploring Shame

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 7:07


    I really think that a key factor in helping ourselves heal is we have to go into the dark valley of shame. In the future I hope we can explore this more because I think it could really help bring people to a place where they can be free --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Social Dilemma

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 10:21


    I discuss a bit of the Netflix document The Social Dilemma --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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