How Dare You

We're back and this time discussing texting, phone calls, and FaceTimes in a relationship. Spoiler alert: we can do without the FaceTime...ever. We give tips on how to navigate texting in the beginning of a relationship and the signs you should look out for. If the texts are few and far between it may be time to move on.  Lastly, we discuss the importance of being an enthusiastic texter. Something Caroline is currently working on. Make sure to throw in that extra exclamation point...it can't hurt. As always let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

We're back with another riveting debate: what does a guy's grocery store say about him? We share our rankings of stores based on the life stage and emotional maturity of the men shopping there. Unfortunately, the higher the ranking, the higher the chance that they're taken. But just like the hot crazy matrix...there are unicorns out there! Pls find Caroline hunting for them every weeknight at Whole Foods and every Sunday at the farmers market.Also, desperate plea for someone to sneak us into Costco for the dollar ice creams. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

This week we're deep diving into Season 3 of Love is Blind. We give our thoughts on each of the couples as well as the concept of the show in general. Spoiler: we think it's absolutely insane. And we're here for it. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

Another week another topic-less episode! AKA going back and forth with random thoughts & stories from our Notes app. We discuss: why hugs should be eliminated from society, a particularly unsettling walk to the metro, and the wonder that is the Mission quesadilla.  Also, we have a new conspiracy theory! There is simply NO WAY Matt and Cole Barnett (from Love is Blind) are not related. Either 1) they're lying or 2) there's a glitch in the matrix. Pls visit our Reddit thread for more information.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

To kick off spooky season, this week's topic is extra sinister: leading people on. We discuss the aftermath of feeling rejected and the many emotions that follow. Plus, Caroline finally shares what happened with Denver man. As always, make sure to rate, review, and subscribe :)Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

This week we're talking about money ettiequte in relationships and friendships. Who should pay if someone makes more? Should you venmo request for less than $10? And when the guy offers to pay for his own birthday dinner, do you let him?Oh and one of us (cough cough Marj) is currently blocked by her boyfriend on Venmo. Should she resort to Zelle, Cash app, or leaving bills on his dresser...cast your votes.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

Back again! This week's episode is dedicated to the ick...more specifically, the relationship ick. Because no matter how much you like your partner, no one is immune. The ick can be temporary and illogical (howdareyou expect me to drive my own car). It can also snowball and ultimately result in a breakup (Exhibit A: Caroline's ex who hated travel and red wine). Either way, we've all experienced moments that force you to reflect on the person you're with...and perhaps even yourself for dating them in the first place.Also! Life hack of the week: light both the vanilla pumpkin and honey crisp apple scented candles from Trader Joe's together. Truly elite.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we're discussing rules to follow (and not follow) on a first date. We go through each of the '17 First Date Etiquette Rules' published by Bustle, and per usual we have very strong opinions. We also share our own pearls of wisdom...first date outfits, conversation starters, biggest red flags, the list goes on and on. Also, a personal message to lawyer-man's informant: HOW DARE YOU. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

Back again! No theme this week, just chatting about reality TV, public meltdowns, and the amount of carbs in a High Noon. We also share ground-breaking life updates...is Caroline a soda girl now??Joshua: if you're listening to this, please DM us and tell us if your stalker signs worked, or if it was some sort of Fantasy Football punishment. WE MUST KNOW. Everyone else: don't forget to rate review and subscribe! Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

As summer comes to a close, this week we're chatting about dating burnout. Whether you're stuck in a first date rut or reeling in the wake of a f*ckboy...we've all been there. Men and their audacity can take a toll! Unfortunately there's no straight-forward solution, everyone handles burnout differently. Some (ahem, Caroline) jet off to Italy and return with a new mindset to date intentionally. Others (no need to name names) take a 7 month hiatus and scoff at any man who dares to approach. But hey, whatever works!Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

After being MIA for a week, WE'RE BACK!! Unfortunately Caroline had a health scare so we couldn't record...but on the bright side it gave us plenty of content for this week's episode. Sparknotes version: Marj basically saved Caroline's life (nbd) and Caroline enjoyed a lovely 2-night staycation in the GW emergency room. Also, if anyone is tired of the bar/dating app scene and is looking for new ways to meet men - we highly recommend the EMS workers of DC.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

Inspired by the Facebook page dedicated to the serial ghosters of the DMV, this week's topic is ghosting. Is it ever justified? When did it become so normalized? We explore the nuances of ghosting and basic human decency in modern dating. And of course we share our own experiences (both as ghosters and ghostees).Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

Drum roll please...welcome to the 20th episode of the How Dare You podcast!! To celebrate, we're answering 20 listener-submitted questions. From finding the best margaritas in DC to ending situationships - we give you our extremely (un)qualified advice.Cheers to 20 episodes, thanks for listening along to our weekly shenanigans!Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

This week we're discussing the 5 love languages. How important are they? Are you doomed if you and your partner have different ones? We give our thoughts and of course share our own love languages...based on the results of an extremely reliable 2-minute online quiz. Future boyfriends - please take notes. This is also Marj's formal request to start a support group for gift-lovers anonymous. #endthestigmaLet's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

In honor of the current heat wave in DC, this week we're sharing our hottest takes. Meeting the parents, guys with dogs, proper sleepover attire...the list goes on. Strongly held opinions are our speciality. However !! Caroline may or may not be reconsidering her infamous stance on jeans. (Specifically jeans on men). So apparently we are open to change - anything is possible :)Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

This week we discuss chemistry versus compatibility. Which is more important? Why are we attracted  to some people over others? According to our ~research~, pheromone perfume might be the next big thing. (But we doubt it). We give our take on balancing initial spark with long-term potential. And of course we share our own experiences, including the men who repulsed us and the men who...let's just say we couldn't get enough of. Please rate, review and subscribe! And while you're at it - share with a friend, a stranger at a bar, or perhaps your latest Hinge match.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

On this week's episode, we're exploring the paradox of choice. Through dating apps and social media, we have access to more people than ever before. And in theory, the increased supply should result in better matches. But how do we maintain realistic expectations in a sea of possibility? We discuss the idea of the roster, dating burnout, and the cold hard truth of being one of many. If you're spiraling over who else he might be talking to...no judgment, we've been there. Cliff-notes version: give the people in front of you a chance. The grass isn't always greener!Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

As everyone knows, there's nothing we love more than a theme outfit. Last weekend we went full cowboy and had ourselves a perfect DC summer night. You know you're doing something right when your night ends with a postgame at the Washington Monument. Which leads us into this week's topic...the art of a perfect postgame. Lighting, music, and (perhaps most importantly), snacks - we're giving a step-by-step guide to throwing the perfect postgame. DC men...take notes.Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok

This week's topic is one of our favorites...the audacity of men. Their blind confidence is truly astounding (and tbh we're a little jealous). Pro tip: if a guy ever refers to himself as a reformed f*ckboy...run (don't walk).We're also back with more Hinge horror stories, including a Wiccan!As always please rate, review, and subscribe :)Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we discuss dating in different seasons and keeping momentum. When are the best and worst times of year to meet someone? Which holidays are best to be single versus in a relationship. And the worst of the worst- guys pen-palling over Hinge. Why do guys feel the need to message for MONTHS on Hinge without asking you out? We also give a tip of the week: don't be afraid to be the pursuer and ask for what you want. So in the spirit of asking for what we want...pleaseee rate, review, and subscribe :)Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

WE'RE BACK! Fresh off the plane from 2 weeks in Italy, we're recapping all of our shenanigans. From bar fights, to karaoke, to partying until 5 AM...we did it all (except sleep). And of course we took voice memos. Shoutout to Marj's brother for matching our insanity. Book our return flights next week?Rate, review and subscribe, and if anyone needs bar recommendations for Florence - we've got you covered. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

With hot girl summer upon us, this week's episode is about approaching guys IRL. We discuss eye-flirting, our favorite one-liners, and knowing when to walk away. Not to brag but we've got an impressive success rate, and we're giving you all our best material. Key takeaways: confidence is hot, be bold but not aggressive, and don't overthink it. Basically...."just do it - Nike" - How Dare You podcast . Leave a review and tell us your go-to opener's!Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

We're back and recapping our week. No theme, just chatting about boys, embarrassing moments, and throwing away hundreds of dollars of make up in a panic. Classic Marj and Caroline shenanigans.We also debate a deeply significant ethical dilemma: is there a statute of limitations on venmo requests? Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we're discussing our biggest turn-ons. We've got some weird ones...including grown men who cry during sports and college guys who burn incense. No judgment, please.Honorable mention to all the *manley* men out there who can change a tire, down a shot, and rock a mustache. We love you.Also, since we know you've missed it, we're back with more cringey Hinge profiles and (once again) can confirm Hinge hates Caroline. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we're covering Nick and Vanessa Lachey's latest contribution to society: 'The Ultimatum' on Netflix. We give our opinions on the couples, the premise of the show, and the (many) cringe-worthy moments. We also discuss ultimatums in general. Where's the line between setting a standard versus issuing a threat? Life tip: maybe the best ultimatums are the ones we make to ourselves. Rate, review & subscribe, and give us name suggestions for our new segment!Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

Back again! This week we're discussing "The Ick". Cuffed jeans, baby talk, insufficient Uber funds...truly that overwhelming sense of disgust and repulsion. It can appear out of nowhere, but it's impossible to ignore. And once you have it, there's no getting rid of it. Please rate, review and subscribe, and let us know what's on your ick list! Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

Get excited, this week's episode is about being bold and shooting your shot. We've all seen the trending mantra on social media: "do it for the plot". Or as we like to call it...do it for the pod. But putting yourself out there can be scary.  So we're sharing our best kept secrets, from hitting the bars in theme outfits to giving out your number. You'll thank us later.And, as usual, we have more Hinge highlights. The men of DC never disappoint. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we're coming in hot with the topic of f*ckboys. We've all dealt with them...and if you haven't, congratulations. This episode isn't for you. Our experiences include a college frat boy, the classic DC consultant, and best of all, two roommates that kept us crossing the bridge to Arlington for months. (Yes, we are embarrassed).We also discuss the psychology behind the f*ckboy appeal. Why do they do it? Why do we put up with it? Disclaimer: it's more nuanced than you might think. So let's all give ourselves a break - at the end of the day you live and you learn. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

This week we're taking a trip down memory lane and sharing our worst first date stories. A surprise three course dinner, salsa dancing, and splitting a $15 bill...what a time to be alive!And as promised, we're back with more Hinge highlights. It's rough out there, but shout out to the men of DC for keeping us entertained.Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

Back again! In honor of Caroline's birthday, we're talking about age and our experiences dating older versus younger. Spoiler alert: the 24 year olds have our hearts. And of course, we give another life hack - exit strategies for the morning after. Feel free to steal ours, or let us know your go-to.Rate, review and subscribe, but most importantly...PLEASE tell us where the 27 year old men are in DC. We're convinced they don't exist. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.

Welcome to our very first episode! This week we're discussing Hinge and our biggest profile icks. We also share our first life hack - how to get guys in standouts to respond to roses. We've cracked the code and and unlike Hinge, we're not gatekeepers. You're welcome.Lastly, PSA to check your guy friend's/coworker's/brother's Hinge profile. Chances are they need help. Let's be friends! @howdareyou_pod on Insta and @howdareyoupod on TikTok.