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Hosts Christopher Stanley and Sergio Moyer have been gay for more than 25 years; that's collectively 50 years of gay life! In addition to being gay, we’re practically wild animals – BEARS. From both of us working at the Happiest Place on Earth, to backpacking through Europe and traveling the world, living in different countries, to surviving a stroke, gay divorce and complex family relationships. Together we explore and help you navigate the waters of Problematic Gay life. From sex parties, music festivals, divorce, medical recovery, and a dash of magic mushrooms all the way to the most embarrassing moments in life we help navigate it all. Join us on Fridays for laughs, tears, unsolicited advice from your favorite Problematic Gays.

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    • Jul 12, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 59m AVG DURATION
    • 37 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Problematic Gays

    Premature Epijaculet If

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 4:08


    In this Short episode Sergio share two songs. We will be returning to our full episodes soon.

    Coloradical

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2024 40:29


    Hold on to your hiking boots! In this hilarious episode, hosts Christopher and Sergio unravel the epic saga of Christopher's trip to Colorado. Expect tales of majestic mountains, bizarre mishaps, and enough drama to rival a reality TV show. Tune in for a comedy-packed episode that proves travel isn't always picture-perfect – but it's always entertaining!

    Two Songs and Some Tea

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2024 5:40


    In this tiny episode Sergio shares two songs and brings up The Mike Pence Tractor Gate.

    Hi, I'm your date's Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2024 62:56


    Join us for another dive into the nuances of gay dating and not so clear communication. Christopher and Sergio discuss problematic issues that hit close to home. Come listen, laugh and maybe even judge (I mean reflect) on all this nonsense.

    Make Your Own Theatre

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2024 73:41


    It's Pride Month! We have two special guests in this episode along with some insights on having a deeper connection in places you wouldn't think. Join us for a moment of humor with Hot Tea, fun songs and your favorite Problematic Gays.

    Here To Take Away Nut Pain

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 30:10


    You'll find this episode to be short and sweet (depending on your tastebuds). Hurry and Subscribe but don't hurt your nuts in the hustle.

    Healing, But It Still Can Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2024 55:40


    In this uproarious episode of Problematic Gays, join hosts Christopher and Sergio as they oscillate wildly between the utterly absurd and the deeply profound. One minute they're laughing and the next they're unpacking the real talk about healing from trauma—because getting better doesn't always mean everything's okay. Strap in or strap on and join us!

    Mother's Day Buffet

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2024 45:58


    Christopher and Sergio share their Mother's Day misadventures. Christopher details a disastrous buffet experience. The episode heats up with Christopher's shocking tale from a past seduction attempt by a woman and her husband, leading to an awkward reunion at a convention 10+ years later. From salacious scandals being discussed to unfounded conclusions, it's an episode full of surprises and laughs. Subscribe today and join us weekly!

    Big Titty Latinas

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 68:35


    In this enchanting episode of Problematic Gays, Christopher welcomes his good friend Anthony to fill in for Sergio, who's off to training. Together, they dive into the magical world of Disneyland, sharing hilarious stories and bizarre happenings from the happiest place on Earth. But it's not all fun and games; they also tackle the intricate complexities of raising a young adult in today's world. Tune in for a rollercoaster ride of laughs, insights, and unexpected twists in this must-listen episode!

    Entry Denied

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 90:48


    Join Christopher and Sergio on their journey of laughter as they delve into the depths of trauma and healing. With Sergio's hilarious antics, like getting denied re-entry to a concert, and Christopher's tales of dating woes and undeniable attractions, this podcast offers a unique blend of humor and heartfelt storytelling. Get ready to laugh, cry, and maybe even learn a thing or two about navigating life's ups and downs. Follow us and subscribe today.

    P Did It

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2024 68:10


    In this episode, Christopher and Sergio unpack the recent events regarding P Diddy, delving into the scandal and its implications, tackling topics like the vulnerability of children and the complexities of trauma. Join them as they navigate these discussions alongside Christopher's adventures, from cruising with Virgin Cruise Lines to exploring the world with DNR travel family. Subscribe today and don't miss an episode.

    Before The Sail

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2024 84:31


    Havd you subscribed yet? Today is the day to do it! Join Christopher and Sergio on their latest episode for laughs and some great discussions. They're definately not PC but FUNNY they are. 

    Why Are You Dating a 5?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2024 56:54


    In a world where dating can often feel like navigating a minefield of insecurities and expectations, Christopher shares his candid experiences and insights into the all-too-familiar phenomenon of facing criticism and attempts to tear one down before a date. With humor and vunerability, he explores the challenges of maintaining self-confidence and resilience, offering valuable tips for reclaiming one's power ad authenticity. But the conversation doesn't stop there. Sergio sheds light on his intriguing role as a repo man for Christopher's company. As the discussion deepens, the hosts delve into the profound topic of processing through trauma and finding meaning in life's most challenging moments. Listen and subscribe today. 

    Doggy Style with the Dog Walker

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2024 83:47


    Tune into our latest episode where Sergio delves into the intricate dynamics a large family, shedding light on the joys and challenges that come with it. Meanwhile, Christopher hilariously recounts his nightmare date, complete with an unexpected canine companion. But that's not all- brace yourself for the shocking tale of an employee at Christopher's company who finds themselves in hot water for engaging in som every inappropriate office behavior. Subscbribe today. 

    Not My Monkeys, Not My Circus

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2024 74:34


    Get ready for a rollercoaster of laughs as Christopher spills the beans on his wild Vegas adventure to catch Madonna's show –and yes, there were chai-smoking escapades involved! Joined by a cast of characters that make the Hangover crew look tame, Christopher's invited guests bring a whole new meaning to the term "entertainment." In a surprising turn, Sergio dives deep into the trauma segment, sharing his unique perspective on loss, while Christopher hilariously recountslosing his father in a way that only he can. Buckle up for a podcast that's part comedy, part chaos, and 100% unforgettable!

    No Shirt in the Bathroom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2024 78:27


    In this episode, Christopher bravely explores the journey of resolving deep-seated trauma connected to his mother, while Sergio, on 'no tea, no shade', unveils Tina's shocking discovery of her ex-husband's hidden truth through a Grindr catfish reveal. Brace yourself for real conversations, emotional revelations, and a deeper understanding of the complexities within our dynamic relationships. Listen and subscribe today.

    No Shirt in the Bathroom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2024 76:00


    In this episode, Christopher bravely explores the journey of resolving deep-seated trauma connected to his mother, while Sergio, on 'no tea, no shade', unveils Tina's shocking discovery of her ex-husband's hidden truth through a Grindr catfish reveal. Brace yourself for real conversations, emotional revelations, and a deeper understanding of the complexities within our dynamic relationships. Listen and subscribe today.

    Yes, Problematic

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2024 48:26


    Join Christopher and Sergio in the latest episode of 'Problematic Gays' as they navigate through a sea of drama. Christopher delicately revisits a previous episode, shedding light on the complexities of human behavior. Get ready for an insightful journey into the nuances of relationships and the challenges they bring, all delivered with a touch of humor and understanding. Subscribe today on your favorite platform and don't miss the laughs and insights.

    In the closet and out

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 63:26


    Join us on Problematic Gays as special guest Anthony takes us on a heartfelt journey, sharing the intricacies of navigating a previous heterosexual relationship while acknowledging his true, homosexual identity. Delve into the challenges he faced and discover insights on coming to terms with authenticity and self-discovery. Listen and subscribe to our new episodes every week.

    Returning from Bear Week

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 61:48


    In this riveting episode, Christopher shares the highs and lows of his week-long escapade in Puerto Vallarta. Join the conversation as they delve into the delectable experience of indulging in bear week festivities. However, the tone takes a serious turn as the hosts discuss the pitfalls of drug use and the chaos of unorganized events during their trip. Get ready for an emotional rollercoaster as the aftermath of a friendship fallout, revealing the shocking revelation of one friend attempting to sleep with another's husband. Meanwhile, back in San Diego, Sergio, recounts his time spent with family during his grandma's recovery. Tune in for candid conversations and personal revelations. Listen and subscribe today.

    Sweet Tea Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2024 93:05


    Get ready for a wild ride with Problematic Gays! Join Christopher, his loud and proud aunt, and his cousin from Tennessee as they bring Southern charm and sass. Will they spill the sweet tea on Christopher's life? Tune in to find out what happened and catch Sergio on his journey to the Bay Area to see his 'special friend' – it's the podcast where family, friends, and bras collide!

    Ursula's Tentacles

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 75:31


    Join Christopher and Sergio in this lively podcast episode as they welcome their professional dog sitter friend, Kathleen, all the way from Pasadena. Get ready for some intriguing tea in the No Tea, No Shade segment, where Christopher spills a story with tentacles. Subscribe now to catch all the antics and laughter!

    No Invite No Threesome

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2024 64:02


    Christopher explores his experiences in Denver and the dynamics of friendship drama. The complexities of having friends falling out with each other and having to be a neutral party. On No Tea No Shade The takeaway seems to be on the importance of receiving a clear invitation. Come laugh at us if not with us on this episode of Problematic Gays. Hit the subscribe button and don't miss another show. 

    The New Year is upon us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2024 45:38


    In this episode of Problematic Gays, Christopher gears up for a New Year celebration in Denver, while Sergio opts for a cozy celebration at home in San Diego. Join them for some lively discussions and reflections as they say good bye to 2023. Follow Us on Facebook, Problematic Gays or visit www.problematicgays.com

    A Word From The Hosts

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2023 3:16


    2023 is coming to an end and Sergio and Christopher have a few final thoughts as they round out the year. Join them in January for all new episodes.  Follow Christopher and Sergio on social media and visit www.problematicgays.com.

    Off to Orlando

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2023 67:42


    Christopher and Sergio are off to an unforgettable adventure as they lead a lively group of 20 people under one roof to celebrate Christopher's 40th birthday in Orlando. Listen as they explore a grand mansion with hidden passages and rooms, creating unexpected moments and confessions. They dive into the enchanting world of Disney and the thrilling rides at Universal Studios, all while enjoying food, drinks, and hilarious escapades. For an exclusive look at their journey, follow Christopher and Sergio on social media and visit www.problematicgays.com. Get ready for a celebration like no other!

    Friendship Reunion

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 77:48


    Christopher and Sergio chat the night away with Dusty again   Come join us on another episode where we dive into the inner workings of our friendship. Dusty, Sergio and Christopher will bring you to the edge of tears and side splitting laughter in this episode.

    Unsolicited Advice -Encore

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2023 79:30


    We took a week off because we are traving but we will have a new episode for you in a couple of days.  Our First Episode! We talk about the shenanigans you can find yourself in at Folsom Street Fair. Christopher's Awesome Halloween party where his Grindr DL neighbor's son get outed for being a dominant curious top. 

    Cruises and Snafus

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2023 59:27


    Christopher embarked on a European adventure, starting with a cruise under an Italian-owned company that left much to be desired in terms of customer service. Unfazed, he hopped on another cruise, this time with a familiar and reliable NCL cruise company, ensuring a much more enjoyable experience. Their plans for a Mexican Riviera cruise hit a snag with a last-minute cancellation. Undeterred, the dynamic duo turned the setback into an opportunity and crafted an unforgettable vacation in Mexico City.

    The Heartache of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2023 92:19


    In this emotionally charged episode, join Christopher and Sergio as they bravely open up about the intimate details of their breakups in an impromptu discussion. Despite the unique circumstances that led to their separations, they explore the universal threads of pain and resilience that bind us all. Of course all with hot tea and lots of laughs along the way, this is an episode you don't want to miss.

    EP. 6- To Not Know Who You Know (at least not who they sleep with)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 39:27


    As a Queer Woman being married to a Cisgender Heterosexual is one of Molly's challenges in life. Special guests and life long friends Sara and Molly share their experiences and perspectives on Queer issues.

    Ep. 5- Gender Journey Chat with Kat

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 41:42


    Special guest Kat talks about their gender journey in this episode. Having a conversation about things we want to better understand when it comes to gender identity and other issues is the theme of this episode. Join the conversation by calling our Hustle Hotline 844-333-GAYS (4297)

    Europe Bound and Cruise Bound

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2023 70:19


    Christopher is getting ready to go on European adventure, meeting up with DNR peeps on a cruise. Tiffany is joining Christopher on this adventure and she shares her cruise hook up romance tales.

    Talking about the SD scene with Ms. Dust

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2023 81:50


    Christopher and Sergio talk with their friend Dusty, the three of them met as teenagers working at the happiest place on earth. The discuss the San Diego gay club scene.

    Talking With Tom

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2023 62:28


    Sergio explores the new neighborhood night life, Christopher reflects on how the queer community is affected by recent events. Guest host Tom shares how he's connected to the show's producer.  Join the conversation on the deep topics we discuss.

    Unsolicited Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2023 75:08


    Our First Episode! We talk about the shenanigans you can find yourself in at Folsom Street Fair. Christopher's Awesome Halloween party where his Grindr DL neighbor's son get outed for being a dominant curious top. 

    Welcome to Problematic Gays

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2023 11:17


    Hosts Christopher Stanley and Sergio Moyer have been gay for more than 25 years; that's collectively 50 years of gay life! In addition to being gay, we're practically wild animals – BEARS. From both of us working at the Happiest Place on Earth, to backpacking through Europe and traveling the world, living in different countries, to surviving a stroke, gay divorce and complex family relationships. Together we explore and help you navigate the waters of Problematic Gay life. From sex parties, music festivals, divorce, medical recovery, and a dash of magic mushrooms all the way to the most embarrassing moments in life we help navigate it all. Join us on Friday October 13th and every Friday after for laughs, tears, unsolicited advice from your favorite Problematic Gays. Facebook.com/problematicgays Instagram @ProblematicGays Twitter @ CosasDanadas TikTok @CosasDanadas  

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