The Well StudentCast

How do we be in the world but not of the world? And what does that even mean? Life Group leaders Mckenna Gilman and Brett Karaker join Brynn and Ka'eo to discuss whether loyalty to Christ trumps being liked by people, how to be relatable and have empathy without being influenced by society and culture, and whether it is okay to listen to Taylor Swift.

How far is too far regarding physical, emotional, and spiritual boundaries in dating relationships? This question often comes up when establishing boundaries. Brynn and Ka'eo give practical advice on setting boundaries and asking the follow-up question, how can I best honor God in this relationship?

Our day-to-day relationship with God can start to feel passive compared to the mountaintop highs and valley lows. The problem isn't the Lord's presence; it's our awareness of Him. Brynn and Ka'eo talk about the in-between and practical ways to have an active faith.

Is attending Youth Group really that important in high school? Graduated seniors Jake Wyatt and Jenna Obwald join hosts Brynn and Ka'eo to reflect on the impact student ministries had in their lives and encourage those moving into their next year of high school.

We know the Lord created us in His image, but how do we deal with negative body image? Finding freedom from negative body image isn't found through changing our bodies, but by changing our perspective. Brynn and Ka'eo talk about practical ways to reframe our mindset as we head into summer.

The pain of rejection is beyond missing out on what you've been rejected from; it's all the lies and doubts we add to it. We face it when it comes to romance, college, job applications, friendships, and sports. So, how do we deal with rejection in a healthy way? Brynn and Ka'eo discuss how to separate self-worth from rejection and practical things to work toward when feeling hurt.

Where is the Lord amid our anxiety? If I have anxiety, does that mean I am not trusting God? Life is stressful, but there are moments when things go beyond our window of tolerance. Brynn and Ka'eo discuss general anxiety and fear and practical ways to process these feelings with God.

We've all heard that words have power. But what does it mean to use our words for good? Leaders Alex Register and Donovin Guerrero join Brynn to talk about tangible ways to avoid gossip and choose life-giving words.

Loneliness is a difficult feeling to deal with. Making friends and feeling fully accepted is hard, especially in the first year of college. Leaders Sawyer Fischer and Brett Karraker join Brynn to share their experiences with feeling alone and how they dealt with the season of loneliness before finding community.

Can friends fight? A lot of times conflict is seen as a negative sign of unhealth. So how do we fight in a way that honors God? Brynn chats with seniors Kendall Bell and Ella Slayden as they share what is worth a conflict conversation, and their experiences navigating conflict.

Can Christians have New Year's resolutions? Is it bad to have goals apart from reading the Bible more? Jordan Hogue and Michael Warkentin join Brynn to talk about moving toward God by building small rhythms of grace.

The pressure of finding someone is on during the holidays. James Bitter and Mallory Mueller are back to follow up the question, what do I look for in a guy with what do I look for in a girl?

The pressure of finding someone is on during the holidays. James Bitter and Mallory Mueller are back to ask the question, what do I look for in a guy? And in part two, what do I look for in a girl?

In part one, we asked what predestination is. The bigger ideal this question digs into is free will and having autonomy over our lives. If God loves everyone, why doesn't he choose everyone? In part two, Mike Slayden joins Brynn and Ka'eo to discuss what predestination is not.

What is predestination? This topic often causes fear. However, in the Bible, predestination is meant to give us comfort and security. The bigger ideal this question digs into is free will and having autonomy over our lives. In this episode, Mike Slayden joins Brynn and Ka'eo to discuss what predestination is and, in part two, what predestination is not.

Why do we worship God? And what even is worship? In church settings, we are familiar with worship through singing and we often associate worship with a genre of music. Today, Donovin Guerrero joins Brynn and Ka'eo to talk about different types of worship as they answer the question of why we worship God.

How do we stop our dreams and desires from robbing our appreciation for what we have now? Instead of waiting and counting down the days to the next phase of life, what would it look like to invest in the relationships and situations you are in right now? Brynn and Ka'eo open up about their struggles with being present in life and discuss how to seek the Lord in times of discontentment.

The Bible talks about salt and light. But what does it mean to "be a light" to others? And how do we be a light on a school campus? Life group leader Brett Karraker joins Brynn and Ka'eo to discuss practical ways to influence people for Christ.

On today's episode, Brynn and Ka'eo are joined by sophomore Moriah Reyna as they ask, How do I stop comparing myself to others? When we compare, we either tear ourselves down or validate our pride. They discuss mindsets to help combat comparison and practical ways to focus on the truth of God's Word and what healthy comparison looks like.

How do I know if I'm leading someone on? How do you know if you are unintentionally giving someone mixed signals? And how do you tell if someone is leading you on? Today Brynn and Ka'eo help answer these questions and discuss how to handle these awkward conversations.

On today's episode, Ka'eo and Brynn talk with students Logan Demanby and Mason Hemaiden, who went on an Exposure Trip to the Dominican Republic this summer. They share the joys and challenges of traveling to a different country and reflect on what it truly means to live on mission, even when we are not abroad.

Camp is designed to help us feel close to the Lord. So what do we do after camp so our faith is not just a camp high? Brynn and Ka'eo sit down with Ella Slayden and Griffin Bletscher, who just returned from Hume Lake summer camp. They discuss how God is the same at camp and home, even if we don't experience the same feelings in both places.

As Christians, what should our filters be regarding what we post on social media? Brynn and Ka'eo talk about how social media is not inherently wrong while recognizing that our social media reflects who we are and who's we are.

What should we do with all our extra time this summer? Ka'eo and Brynn make a summer bucket list that includes creating a routine with the Lord, investing in community, and resting well without numbing out.

You asked, and we are answering. Join Brynn and Ka'eo for part two of a rapid-fire asking for a friend so you don't have to. This episode covers knowing the difference between God's will and our will, holding friends accountable, and finding a new community.

You asked, and we are answering. Join Brynn and Ka'eo for part one of a rapid-fire asking for a friend so you don't have to. In this episode, we cover summer flings, inner circle friendships, and how to forgive without bitterness.

You've probably heard the caution to "guard your heart." But what does that actually mean? Brynn and Ka'eo clarify that guarding your heart does not mean repressing feelings, and they give advice on how students can do this in healthy and God-honoring ways.

Between school, sports, and parents, students typically have less control over their schedules than adults. So is it possible for students to feel burnout too? Today Brynn and Ka'eo share their experience with the Sabbath and advise on how to deal with burnout as a student.

People often try to disprove God's existence by asking if God is good, why do bad things happen? Today Brynn and Ka'eo pose one of the most challenging questions we get asked as Christians as they go back to the beginning to look at what good and evil actually are and what that means for us today.

How do you know you are saved? And can I lose my salvation? Today Brynn and Ka'eo ask one of the biggest questions that we as Christians can have as they walk through the Roman Road and turn to the Bible to explore what salvation really is.

Do you ever feel like you are "doing, doing, doing" and it is never enough? Join Brynn & Ka'eo as they discuss how we find ultimate freedom in all that we do when we are resting in who God created us to be.

How do I find a mentor? And do I even need one? On this episode, we look at why mentors are important. Ka'eo and Michael discuss what to look for in a mentor, how to find one, and give advice on navigating mentor relationships.

The Great Commission tells us to go out into all the world and preach the gospel. But are missionaries still relevant with today's technology? Ka'eo and Michael sit down with former missionary, Rosa Torres, to discuss global missions, the impact of technology on missions, and common misconceptions about going abroad with the church.

Our faith is more than mountaintop experiences and "camp high" moments. How do we pursue God in the day-to-day and mundane moments? Join Brynn & Ka'eo as they discuss what they have done in seasons where God felt distant.

We are called to be in the world but not of the world. As a Christian, is it wrong to go to parties? Brynn and Ka'eo sit down with WSM alumn Gabi Moss to discuss character witness, motivations for being at parties, and how to be a light in worldly places.

New Year's resolutions can seem like a fad. But is setting goals bad? And am I the only one who is nervous about what the Lord might do this year? Ka'eo and Brynn talk about fears, resolutions, and submitting plans to the Lord.

Our 2022 recap!

We have all heard that "Jesus is the reason for the season." So can Christians celebrate Santa? In this bonus episode, Jordan Hogue and Michael Warkentin join Brynn McIlhatton as they discuss how we can navigate enjoying the fun things of the holiday season without distracting from Christ's coming.

As we head into finals week, we often fear failing. Fear of failure is ultimately misplaced identity looking to something other than God to define our worth. Join Brynn, Jordan Hogue, and senior Cooper Saelzer as they discuss true success in bringing glory to God, and not ourselves.

The Bible tells us not to be anxious about anything. So is having anxiety a sin? And how do you tell the difference between being anxious versus having anxiety, or being depressed versus having depression? Ka'eo and Brynn ask your questions about mental health with licensed counselor Ben Carr, LMFT.

Is it bad to enter into a relationship during the holidays? And if we are getting cuffed, how do we make sure we're not using someone to fill a void? Brynn and Ka'eo talk with Pastor Michael about loneliness during the holiday season and biblical ways to navigate cuffing season.

In high school, the pressure is on when it comes to what will look good on a college app or resume. The more you do, the more attractive you will be to an admissions office. So are you more than your resume? Brynn and Ka'eo talk with Senior, Nina Navarrette about dealing with this pressure and what the Lord says about our worth and His will for our life.

What do we do when other people are talking about us? And how do we avoid being gossips? Join Brynn and Ka'eo as they talk about talking about others.

Is it ok to date someone who's not a Christian? Who should bring up boundaries? On this episode, we scratch the surface of the high school relationships conversation with life group leaders Mallory Mueller and James Bitter. Join us at our Song of Solomon Conference to dive deeper into community and God's word as we navigate God's design for relationships in our life.

Between practices, tournaments, homework, and all the other things that come with being a student-athlete, it can feel like there is no time for anything else. Join varsity baseball player, Jake Wyatt, and cross country/track athlete, Sydney Sundgren, as they talk with Ka'eo and Brynn about their experience of prioritizing their faith in the midst of a busy athletic life.

Conflict doesn't have to be a Will Smith vs Chris Rock moment. And it doesn't have to be the end of a friendship. In this episode, Brynn & Ka'eo discuss how to fight for your friendship instead of against it.

Between school, friends, and social media, our world has a lot of opinions on the topic of sexuality. Does the Bible restrict this area of our lives? And does being a Christian mean that we have to hate others? Brynn and Ka'eo sat down with guest Denny Burk to ask the question "What does the Bible say about sexuality?"

There are a lot of misconceptions about forgiveness. "Forgive & Forget" is a phrase most of us have instilled in our brains from a young age. But what is Biblical forgiveness? Brynn, Ka'eo, and senior, Brandy Penberthy, start to answer the question "How do I forgive someone who hurt me?"

You've heard of the "camp high" and feeling so close to God during summer camp. But that feeling fades when you return home back to reality. Today we are asking, what do I do after camp?

We are created for community. But how do we find it? Ka'eo & Brynn discuss how to battle loneliness, identify good friends and how to enter into a community where you are known.

FOMO is real! Have you ever seen your friends hanging out without you and it totally ruined your day? Brynn and Ka'eo are asking the question "What do I do when I feel left out?"