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Your Morning Show On-Demand
ICYMI with Hoody: The Week Of November 1st, 2025

Your Morning Show On-Demand

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2025 48:03 Transcription Available


What were some of our favorite segments from this past week? Join Hoody as he goes through some of the best things from the past five days of the show, including: War Of The Roses, Asking For A Friend, How Did You Get Revenge On An Ex?, and more!Make sure to also keep up to date with ALL of our podcasts we do below that have new episodes every week:The Thought ShowerLet's Get WeirdCrisis on Infinite Podcasts

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: The pursuit of endless bliss

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2025 44:29


This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* episode about the pursuit of endless bliss. Many people arrive to therapy with a "fantasy goal" thinking they want to be calm, happy, and relaxed all the time. Through two #lovelylistener stories, Jake and Simon talk about how to find a realistic sense of joy, happiness, purpose, and pleasure and what we can (or should) expect from life. This episode is for those wondering why the pursuit of endless bliss doesn't produce the feelings (and lasting results) they promise.Read more: The Pursuit of Endless Bliss by Jake Ernst.Don't forget, Mary: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.comCreators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc
#139: Navigating Holiday Gift Giving and Money: Unwrapping Expectations

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2025 29:06


In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, co-hosts Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagel, and Teighlor Polendo discuss the holiday pressures of gift-giving. They share insights on finding meaningful and thoughtful gifts, the impact of mismatched gifts, and how to avoid financial stress during the holidays. The conversation explores the importance of communication and relationships, practical gift ideas, and the benefits of generosity for both the giver and the receiver. Tune in for tips on how to make your holiday gifting more thoughtful and less stressful. Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Resources :  Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer https://milkweed.org/book/braiding-sweetgrass The Psychology of Gifting https://www.reachdesk.com/blog/the-psychology-of-gifting-how-giving-drives-stronger-business-relationships The Psychology of Giving: Money and Generosity https://team.monetagroup.com/the-psychology-of-giving-money-and-generosity/ Dr Orna - Interview Clip - why talking about money is difficult (1:22) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uKgB41pMf-s

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Do We Have An Enemy? - Asking For A Friend Week 12

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 33:25


Do We Have An Enemy? - Asking For A Friend Week 12 by The Porch Community Church

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: Is therapy harming kids?

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2025 48:16


This Isn't Therapy...this is an *encore* critical look at the argument that children need less therapy, not more, and how this "mental heath culture" is stripping parents of autonomy, ultimately causing more harm than good. In this episode, Jake and Simon dive into a review (written by Anna Nordberg for Slate) for a book by a right-leaning conspiracy theorist titled Bad Therapy. "In Bad Therapy, Shrier [the book's author] ladles heavy helpings of anecdote over some scientific research to argue that therapists, school counselors, and the language of therapy that has influenced parenting in the past decade or so are, in her view, harming kids." So, what really is harming the kids? Is it therapy or maybe, just maybe, it's something else...Source: Who's Making The Kids Cry by Anna Nordberg for SlateP.S. Don't forget: Submit a quandary, query, or question with our newest segment Asking For A Friend...Contact: thisisnttherapypodcast@gmail.comCreators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Jake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonEpisode mixed by Jordan Paluck

The Thrifters
Are Resellers Evil? ...Asking for a Friend...

The Thrifters

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 29:37


Amanda here, back to talk for a minute about the title itself: Reseller. Is that what we are? Because if that's all we do, buy old clothing and resell it, there's a lot of people out there saying that we are like, SUPER-BAD for doing it. But aren't we doing so much more than that? and even if that is all we are doing, scooping up truckloads of "used clothing" and selling it at a higher price, I genuenly don't know who that is hurting or how it would make a reseller....EVIL??Let's discuss.*********The Thrifters Podcast comes to you commercial free and is supported by listeners like you! If this podcast has brought value to your life and business, how about sending a little something Amanda's way? Buy me a Coffee is like a tip jar. No subscription necessary. Thanks, we love you!buymeacoffee.com/thethriftersThank you for your support!Amanda sells Live every Friday at 6pm Pacific - VCA on FacebookFollow Amanda @Irreverentfinery on Instagram IrreverentFinery on Etsy Edited by Ben Walker-StoreyMusic by Kevin McLleod, incidentals by Ben Walker-Storey

Family Life Church-Hermitage, PA
Asking for a Friend, Week 3, Chris Massey- 10.19.2025

Family Life Church-Hermitage, PA

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 32:14


Scripture: Eph. 4:30, 6:10-12, 1 Pet. 5:8-9, Eph. 6:13-18, John 16:33 Main Points: Dark Spirituality: There is an exponential increase in fascination with paranormal activity and dark spirituality. While this reveals that people are searching, it has implications for the Church. Vigilance: Christians do not need to fear the inevitable attacks of the enemy as long as we remain ready for attack through vigilance and spiritual preparation for war. Spiritual Obesity: The Church is stuffed to the brim with popular sermons and professional worship. It has depleted our need to live the Gospel and make that our worship. Unless we recognize the value of the Gospel and live our worship, we are not ready for Spiritual Attack.

Your Morning Show On-Demand
ICYMI with Hoody: The Week Of October 18th, 2025

Your Morning Show On-Demand

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2025 49:51 Transcription Available


What were some of our favorite segments from this past week? Join Hoody as he goes through some of the best things from the past five days of the show, including: War Of The Roses, the No-Shoes-Allowed trend, Asking For A Friend and more!Make sure to also keep up to date with ALL of our podcasts we do below that have new episodes every week:The Thought ShowerLet's Get WeirdCrisis on Infinite Podcasts

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: The pressure to be happy

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2025 40:14


This Isn't Therapy... it's the *encore* episode about the pressure to be happy. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how to feel authentically happy when there's a lot of pressure to perform positivity or force happy feelings. Jake and Simon hear from two Lovely Listeners who wonder about the true meaning of happiness and how to spot the difference between authentic joy versus fake happiness. In a culture that might encourage us to "just think positive!" we're asking "...should we?"Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...Creators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Validate us by...Following us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Following us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcastJake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimon

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc
#138: The Power of First Impressions: Navigating The World of Appearances

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 27:08


In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, co-hosts Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagel, and Teighlor Polendo explore the profound impact of appearance on personal and professional relationships. From the concept of “pretty privilege” to the influence of grooming and scent, they delve into how your look can shape perceptions and opportunities. The discussion includes insights on confidence, the balance between natural beauty and grooming, and the societal biases tied to physical attributes. Listen in as they share practical advice on controlling aspects of your appearance to make positive first impressions and achieve your goals. Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Resources :  Beauty and the Labor Market: Accounting for the Additional Effects of Personality and Grooming (Robins, Homer & French, 2011) https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-9914.2010.00511.x The Role of Fragrance and Self-esteem in Perception of Body Odors and Impressions of Others https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8592444/ Links : AFAF Episode #95: Can't Touch This! The Power of Nonverbal Touch https://youtu.be/4uMLVaXXDQg AFAF Episode #99: I Don't Like Your Tone! The Power of Nonverbal Paralanguage https://youtu.be/Bpyaqgug-XQ

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Q&A-Asking For A Friend Week 10

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 50:30


Q&A-Asking For A Friend Week 10 by The Porch Community Church

Your Morning Show On-Demand
That Time Sos Wanted A Haunted Sleepover!

Your Morning Show On-Demand

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 91:51 Transcription Available


It's spooky season y'all...It's only fair we find the spookiest place to have a show sleepover right?! Join Intern John, Sos, Rose, Hoody, Erick, and Savera as we pinpoint some possible places to have a spooky sleepover, we do an all NEW batch of Asking For A Friend which were wild..., We find out how you guys got revenge on your ex's, Plus we do an all NEW Asking for a friend where the votes were pretty divided!  All that and more in today's show!   Make sure to also keep up to date with ALL of our podcasts we do below that have new episodes every week:  The Thought Shower Let's Get Weird Crisis on Infinite Podcasts 

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 5: Suffering

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 43:25


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Brandon is joined once again by Scott Lasater to do a deeper dive on the topic of suffering.

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 5: Suffering

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2025 43:25


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Brandon is joined once again by Scott Lasater to do a deeper dive on the topic of suffering.

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: How social media is re-wiring our brain

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2025 32:41


This Isn't Therapy... it's the *encore* surprise solo session with Jake! In this episode, Jake shares two snippets from his weekly newsletter Just Trying To Help. Jake walks us through his theories for how social media is re-wiring our brains, reshaping our moods, and changing how we connect.P.S. Happy Leap Year! Ribbit Ribbit!Read the full articles here:How Social Media Re-Wired Us AllThe Rise of Algorithmic MoodsGot a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...Creators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Validate us by...Following us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Following us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcastJake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimon

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Is Church Optional Asking For A Friend Week 9

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2025 31:58


Asking For A Friend – Why Church? Which Church? This week's Asking For A Friend question is two-fold: Why Church? and Which Church? Do we really need the church to follow Jesus, or can we do it on our own? And if we do need it, how do we know which church is right? Pastor Shannon Patterson walks through Scripture to reveal why the Church is God's divine plan for His people through Jesus Christ—and what kind of church helps you grow in love for Him. Learn how to: • Recognize what makes a church truly centered on Jesus • Understand the difference between essentials and non-essentials of faith • See your vital role within the body of Christ Whether you've been part of a church your whole life or are just beginning to explore faith, this conversation will challenge and encourage you to see the Church in a whole new way.

The Point VA
Asking For A Friend: Keeping the Faith When You Can't Keep the Lights On

The Point VA

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2025 39:19


What do you do when the bills stack up and faith feels hard to hold onto? In week four of our series, Asking for a Friend, Pastor Gabe unpacks 2 Kings 4 and shows how God meets us in our financial stress with wisdom, provision, and hope.

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 4: Resurrection

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 57:58


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back again to dive deeper into why we believe in the resurection!

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 4: Resurrection

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 57:58


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back again to dive deeper into why we believe in the resurection!

Doc's Dumb Dumb of the Day
"Hey, ChatGPT, Can I Go To Jail For This Crime? Asking For A Friend"

Doc's Dumb Dumb of the Day

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2025 1:52


If you're going to consult with artificial intelligence to see if a crime would result in jail time, do it BEFORE you commit the crime, not after.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: doom-slang is making us numb

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2025 46:26


This Isn't Therapy... it's an *encore* doomy episode about the ever-evolving landscape of doomslang. Doomslang, coined by author and linguist Amanda Montell, is a term used to describe dystopian jargon like “dumpster fire” and “doomscroll” and “bed rot”. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how the constant conjuring of End Times is having surprising, unintended, and maybe even dangerous, consequences. From bed rot to brainrot, this episode sure packs a doomsday punch! Oh... and be sure to tune in this week for a very imporant Summertime announcement!Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...Creators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Validate us by...Following us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Following us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcastJake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimon

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 3: Bible

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 58:57


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to talk about the validity and reliability of the Bible.

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 3: Bible

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2025 58:57


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to talk about the validity and reliability of the Bible.

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc
#137: Don't Say It! When NOT Talking Is the Best Communication Strategy

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 23:17


In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, co-hosts Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagel, and Teighlor Polendo discuss the importance of editing our speech and the adage, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." They explore the impact of words on relationships and communication, providing insights into when silence is more beneficial than speaking. The conversation touches on practical tools for better communication, the power of curiosity and creativity in speech, and the need to avoid judgmental tendencies. Tune in for practical advice on managing the power of words and improving your relationships. Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Experts :  Dr. Newberg, Dr. Waldman, Dr. Puff, Dr. Segal Resources :  Newberg and Waldman's Book: Words Can Change Your Brain https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/309487/words-can-change-your-brain-by-andrew-newberg-md-and-mark-robert-waldman/ Dr. Puff's Article: The Power of Our Words https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meditation-for-modern-life/202301/the-power-of-our-words Dr. Segal's Article: What We Say Matters https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-empathy/201810/what-we-say-matters

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Is There A Seat For Me At The Table? - Asking For A Friend Week 8

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 24:18


This week in our Asking For A Friend series, we ask: Is there a seat for me at the Father's table? Through Luke 15, we explore Jesus' story of the prodigal son—mud, mess, repentance, and the Father who runs toward us with open arms. Repentance isn't about guilt or trying harder; it's about turning home to grace. No matter how stuck or broken you feel, there's a seat for you at God's table.

Sunrise Church Podcast
What Do I Believe About the Holy Spirit? | Asking for a Friend Pt. 4 | Pastor Steve Garcia

Sunrise Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2025 41:24


Asking for a Friend Who—or what—is the Holy Spirit? For many, the Father and the Son feel understandable, but the Spirit remains mysterious. Is He just a force? A ghostly presence? Or something more? In the finale of our Asking for a Friend series, Lead Pastor Steve Garcia explores one of the most misunderstood topics in Christianity: the Holy Spirit. From creation to Pentecost to His ongoing work in our lives, the Spirit is not an “it”—He is God, personal and powerful. If you've ever wondered how the Spirit moves, speaks, or empowers believers, this message will open your eyes to God's presence and power within you. - NEXT STEPS  Looking to take your next step?  We want to help! Text the word NEXT to 909-281-7797 or visit sunrisechurch.org/nextsteps. - GIVE TO SUNRISE CHURCH Imagine what God can do through our giving. You can give today at sunrisechurch.org/give  - FOLLOW US ON SOCIAL MEDIA  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SunriseChurchCA  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sunrisechurchca  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/SunriseChurch

The Point VA
Asking For A Friend: Last One Standing

The Point VA

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 35:21


How is it possible to be surrounded by people and still feel completely unseen? In this Asking for a Friend message, Pastor Tim opens Job 19, Genesis 16, 2 Timothy 4, and the Gospels to show how Scripture meets us in our loneliness. From Job's cry to Hagar's encounter, and from Paul's cell to Jesus' cross, we discover that while people may walk out, the God who sees, the Lord who stands, and the Redeemer who lives will never abandon us.

MDUMC
Asking for a Friend: Why Do We Need Friends ? | Rev. Seann Duffin

MDUMC

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 23:16


MDUMC
Asking for a Friend: Why Do We Need Friends? | Rev. DeAndre Johnson

MDUMC

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025 22:39


The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 2: The Telescope

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 41:53


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to do a deeper dive into the science behind a telescope and how that points to an intelligent creator. 

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 2: The Telescope

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 41:53


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to do a deeper dive into the science behind a telescope and how that points to an intelligent creator. 

This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: We talk to an AI therapist!

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 41:20


FROM THE VAULT: This Isn't Therapy... it's the *encore* episode about AI therapists and if they can ever replace the real thing. In this episode, Jake and Simon discuss a recent BBC article about why teens are seeking out AI therapist bots and what that means for the future of mental health. Conversational AI or, in other words, "chatbots with a personality" are gaining more attention and users are finding new therapy-ish use-cases on platforms like Character.ai and Replika. The pros, the cons, the risks, and the benefits. All that and more!BBC Article discussed: Young people turning to AI therapist botsGot a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...Creators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Validate us by...Following us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Following us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcastJake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimon

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Why Does God Allow Suffering - Asking For A Friend Night Edition

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2025 28:22


Why Does God Allow Suffering - Asking For A Friend Night Edition by The Porch Community Church

Sunrise Church Podcast
What Do I Believe About the Spiritual World? | Asking for a Friend Pt. 3 | Steve Garcia

Sunrise Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 50:50


Asking for a Friend In Part 3 of Asking for a Friend, Lead Pastor Steve Garcia dives into one of the most mysterious—and often misunderstood—topics in the Bible: the spiritual world. From angels and demons to spiritual warfare and unseen battles, Scripture pulls back the curtain to reveal a reality that is both sobering and hope-filled. Whether you've had questions about guardian angels, demonic oppression, or why the Bible talks so much about spiritual battles, this message will help you see the unseen through the lens of God's Word.

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Can't My Relationship With God Be Private? - Asking For A Friend Week 7

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 31:09


Many of us wonder if faith can just stay between “me and God.” But as Pastor Shannon reminds us, the gospel has always been an invitation meant to be shared. Drawing from Jesus' parables and the account of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8, we see that God's design is for our faith to transform not just us—but the people around us. Listen in as we talk about: Why faith can't remain hidden How invitations open the door to transformation The importance of bold witness in a world full of struggle and pain Whether you're exploring faith, recommitting, or simply wrestling with the question yourself, this conversation is for you.

The Point VA
Asking For A Friend: The Wounds Within

The Point VA

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2025 34:43


When life feels heavy, sometimes the hardest battles aren't just around us but within us. In this Asking for a Friend message, Pastor Tim unpacks Psalm 42 to show how God meets us in our deepest wounds, whether from our own spiraling thoughts or the words of others, with hope, healing, and redemption through Jesus.

Sermon Audio – Cross of Grace
Asking for a Friend - How can we hold onto our Shared Humanity in a Divided World?

Sermon Audio – Cross of Grace

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2025


Matthew 18:21-22Then Peter came and said to him, “Lord, if my brother or sister sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy times seven. I loathe physical therapy. Thanks to having the back of someone 3x my age, I have been quite a few times in the last ten years. Everytime I go, I am paired with a guy about my same age but who is in impeccable physical condition, which already makes me feel worse. Then they put me through a circuit of ridiculous exercises, things with bands, an impossible balancing board, and stretches that make me feel like something could snap at any moment. Exasperated, after throwing a ball against the wall while balancing on one leg, I asked, ‘What in the world does this have to do with making my back feel better?!' My therapist said, ‘Your low back is weak. We can strengthen it some, but not much. Instead, if we focus on everything else around your low back, your hips, your core, your flexibility, then the pain will start to go away, but not entirely. You'll be able to function, just not fully; your discs are too damaged. So focusing solely on your low back will never bring the healing you want. You have to focus on everything else around it.”Now talking about my woes with physical therapy may seem like a non sequitur to the final question in our series: How do we hold on to our shared humanity in a divided world? But I promise it will come back around. So stay with me. One thing among many I have loved about this series, Asking for a Friend, is that all of the questions have been timely; relevant not just to our life together, but to much that is happening in the world around us. Today's question is one we all want an answer to. The questioner had more context: they said, “as we get more and more divided, it seems like faith communities are pushing further and further to the extremes. In doing so, we lose the ability to see our shared humanity. What do we do? How do we move forward”? Division and conflict have become a staple of American life. And that's not just an anecdote, though I am sure you have your own story. According to Pew Research Center, compared to similar nations,we Americans hold much deeper divisions within nearly every facet of society: politics, race, and even agreement on basic facts. Ironically enough, polarization is now a defining feature of these United States.Faith communities are no different, especially along partisan lines. These days it's more likely that the way someone votes determines what church they attend than their theological views. Which means, more churches are becoming homogenous in their political beliefs, more people are leaving churches from political partisanship, and there are fewer and fewer purple congregations. For the most part, churches are not sorting themselves, they are already sorted. And in just the past two weeks, headlines have piled up calling this moment an inflection point—a crisis. It sure feels like it. Unity? Seeing our shared humanity? It seems nearly impossible—for churches, for the nation, let alone the warring parts of the world. So what do we do? I think we, as a church, go about unity like physical therapy.It may sound counterintuitive, but if unity is the goal, don't focus on it. If we insist on “being united”, if we tell ourselves and others, “we are a united congregation,” we won't be—and everyone will end up disappointed, or worse.Dietrich Bonhoeffer once wrote, “He who is in love with his vision of community will destroy community. But he who loves the people around him will create community wherever he goes.” The same is true of unity. If we love the idea of unity more than the people in front of us, we'll never achieve it. This is exactly what allows a group like Zeitouna to exist. Zeitouna is a group of six Jewish and six Palestinian women who, despite deep divisions, have learned to see each other's shared humanity. For over twenty years, they have gathered in each others' homes every other week, sharing dinner, and engaging in intentional Dialogue. They listen not to formulate a response, but to understand the other's point of view. Their goal is not to come to an agreement. How could they? Instead, they work on creating shared understanding—by listening, speaking from their own experience, slowing down, and pausing more. They focused on so many other things, not just the issues. And only then were they able to see one another for what they truly are, human. Irene, a Jewish member, said, “My heart has been opened to those who scare me.” Wadad, a Palestinian member, said, “Through Zeitouna I've learned to hear the voice of the ‘other'—her pain and her joy—realizing it mirrors my own.” They never chased unity itself. They focused on other things, and unity formed along the way.Instead of chasing unity, let's focus on our shared humanity, on forgiveness, and on grace.Now, in the church we love to say that every person is made in the image of God. And that is true. But if we stop there, we can fool ourselves into thinking that image means we are inherently good, virtuous, capable. Scripture, and our experience, say otherwise. Paul reminds us that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” The image of God in us is real, but like funhouse mirrors, it is fractured and distorted. So what do we share, really? We share our limits. We share our failures. We share our tendency to mess things up and let each other down. Our weakness, not our strength, is our common ground. And friends, that might sound like bad news, but it is actually quite the opposite. Because when you stop expecting other people to be more virtuous, more stable, or more capable than you are—you find yourself a little less disappointed. A little more patient. A little more compassionate. It frees us to meet one another not with unrealistic expectations but with grace. But that also means we will need to forgive, and to do so often. Like Peter, we ask “how often”? More than we want to, more than what seems right, honestly more than we think we can. Because it's not so much that someone will wrong you 490 times, but that it might take 490 attempts at forgiving one offense before we've really done it. All of that is hard. Which means, if we are going to see our shared humanity, forgive one another, and live as a functioning community, it will only be out of gratitude for the grace of Jesus, who has already done all of that for you and always will. When we dwell on the grace poured into our lives, it spills over—flowing from our hearts out into the world, giving others the mercy and love Jesus has already given us.Just like physical therapy, if unity is the goal, focusing on it will only lead to more pain, disappointment, and ultimately division. Because we will, and likely already have, let each other down. But I am asking you to stay. Stay even when there's disagreement, stay when feelings are hurt, stay when it feels easier to walk away. Because if we leave every time, we miss what Jesus is capable of through forgiveness and grace. So let's focus on those things now: on shared humanity, on forgiveness, on the grace already given to us. And then by the mercy of God and the work of the Spirit, unity will begin to take shape. It may not be perfect. The pain may not entirely go away. But we will be able to function. We will be able to live together as God's people. And we will have hope for the unity that is to come to all people, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

MDUMC
Asking for a Friend: Where Do I Belong? | Rev. Seann Duffin

MDUMC

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2025 17:18


This Isn’t Therapy
ENCORE: what to do when therapy isn't working

This Isn’t Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 46:58


This isn't therapy... and it's not working out, either! In this *encore* episode, Jake and Simon discuss what to do when therapy isn't working. Importantly, they talk about how to know if therapy is actually working and what to do when you feel like it's not. This episode is based on a Lovely Listener question: "If I cry in therapy, does that mean it's working?" Strap in!Got a quandary, query, or question? Submit your Q (anonymously) to Asking For A Friend...Creators & Guests Simon Paluck - Host Jake Ernst - Host Hello, hi! Validate us by...Following us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣Following us on TikTok: @notatherapypodcastJake Ernst: @mswjakeSimon Paluck: @directedbysimonOriginal music composed by Kat Burns and performed by KASHKA.

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 2: Science - The Microscope

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 52:46


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to do a deeper dive into the science behind a microscope and how that points to an intelligent creator. 

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 2: Science - The Microscope

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2025 52:46


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Scott Lasater is back this week to do a deeper dive into the science behind a microscope and how that points to an intelligent creator. 

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc
#136: Siblings Matter! Communication Strategies for Adult Sibling Relationships

Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 34:54


In this episode of Asking For A Friend with TalkDoc, co-hosts Dr. Pamela Kreiser, Meredith Edwards Nagel, and Teighlor Polendo explore practical ways to enhance communication and strengthen relationships among adult siblings. They discuss common challenges such as dealing with aging parents, inheritance conflicts, feeling left out, and more. The hosts emphasize the importance of employing softer startups, repair attempts, and collaborative efforts. They reveal strategies to break old patterns and foster healthier interactions, focusing on curiosity, clear communication, and setting boundaries. Tune in for valuable tips on navigating complex sibling dynamics in your adult life.  Music by epidemic sound. SHOW NOTES: Experts :  Dr. Karl Pillemer, Stockner et al., Dr. John Gottman, Jeffrey Kluger Resources :  Journal of Family Psychology Article by Stockner, et al.  https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7012710/ Dr. Karl Pillemer's Book - Fault Lines https://www.karlpillemer.com/ Dr. John Gottman https://www.gottman.com/ Jeffrey Kluger from his TED Talk on the Sibling Bond https://ed.ted.com/lessons/jLvoMSWT

Sunrise Church Podcast
What Do I Believe About Miracles? | Asking for a Friend Pt. 2 | Pastor Steve Garcia

Sunrise Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2025 40:25


Asking for a Friend Are miracles real—or just rare coincidences we exaggerate?  In Part 2 of Asking for a Friend, Lead Pastor Steve Garcia tackles one of the most fascinating questions people ask about faith: What do I believe about miracles? From Jesus raising the dead to modern-day claims of healing, this message explores what separates the improbable from the truly impossible—and why it matters for your life today. Don't settle for shallow answers or sensational claims—dig deep into what God says about the supernatural. If Jesus really performed miracles, then maybe we need to take His message seriously too.

The Point VA
Asking For A Friend: When My Mind Feels Like My Enemy

The Point VA

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2025 47:24


We all face moments when life feels overwhelming and our mental and emotional health is under pressure. In this Asking for a Friend message, Pastor Gabe Turner looks at Elijah's struggle in 1 Kings 19 to show how God meets us in our valleys with rest, hope, and renewal.

Your Morning Show On-Demand
ICYMI with Hoody: The Week Of September 13th, 2025

Your Morning Show On-Demand

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2025 50:57 Transcription Available


What were some of our favorite segments from this past week? Join Hoody as he goes through some of the best things from the past five days of the show, including: War Of The Roses, Asking For A Friend, how much a breakup costs in 2025 and more!Make sure to also keep up to date with ALL of our podcasts we do below that have new episodes every week:The Thought ShowerLet's Get WeirdCrisis on Infinite Podcasts

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 1: Truth

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2025 58:11


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Today we're joined by Scott Lasater to do a deeper dive into our sermon this past Sunday on Truth.

The Chapel Fort Wayne
Chapel Podcast | Asking for a Friend | Part 1: Truth

The Chapel Fort Wayne

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2025 58:11


Welcome to The Chapel Podcast! We recognize that 60 minutes on a Sunday morning is not enough to share all that we'd like in our announcements and sermons, so we've created this space in order to further conversations, make connections, and provide clarity.Today we're joined by Scott Lasater to do a deeper dive into our sermon this past Sunday on Truth.

Planet Money
Asking for a friend … which jobs are safe from AI?

Planet Money

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2025 28:51


There's one question we seem to be hearing everywhere: “Is my job safe from AI?” Dozens of you, our listeners, have written to us about this. Saying things like, “Maybe my yoga teacher side gig is actually my safest bet now,” and “My parents were in real estate, and I never thought I'd say it ... but maybe that's what I should do?”  If only there were a list that could tell you which jobs are safe from AI. We go looking for that list…and find that the AI future is going to be even weirder than we'd imagined.Today on the show: We talk to two researchers who have come up with some first drafts of the future. We learned more about the machines that might be coming for our jobs, and also, more about what it actually means to be human.Subscribe to Planet Money+Listen free: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, the NPR app or anywhere you get podcasts.Facebook / Instagram / TikTok / Our weekly Newsletter.Today's episode was produced by Eric Mennel and edited by Marianne McCune. It was fact-checked by Sierra Juarez and engineered by Robert Rodriguez. Alex Goldmark is Planet Money's executive producer. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Sunrise Church Podcast
What Do I Believe About Sin? | Asking for a Friend Pt. 1 | Pastor Steve Garcia

Sunrise Church Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2025 49:42


Asking for a Friend Is sin really that big of a deal? What even is sin? And how does it affect my life today? In Part 1 of our new series Asking for a Friend, Lead Pastor Steve Garcia tackles one of the most pressing questions Christians (and skeptics) wrestle with: What do I believe about sin? From the Garden of Eden to the cross of Jesus, this message unpacks where sin came from, how it impacts every part of our lives, and why Jesus is the only hope we have for freedom.  

Solomons Porch Valdosta
Why Does The Church Talk About Money? - Asking for A Friend Week 5

Solomons Porch Valdosta

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2025 45:16


This week in Asking For A Friend, we tackle the question: Why does the church talk about money? Jesus says we can't serve both God and Mammon—and nothing competes for our hearts like money. Discover two biblical strategies to break free from money's grip and learn how generosity transforms our lives for eternity.