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In this real-talk episode of Success Unlocked, Dr. Adrienne Shnier sits down with the brilliant (and now Osgoode Law School–bound) Veronica D'Ambrosio to talk about everything the highlight reel doesn't show. Spoiler: getting into Osgoode isn't just about a perfect LSAT score; it's about mindset, accountability, and doing the inner work no one tells you about.Veronica opens up about what it takes to get in - from managing the anxiety of “the unknown,” to resisting the urge to compare yourself to every other overachiever online. She shares how travel became self-care, why she stopped chasing gold stars, and how the Apply Yourself Global program gave her structure, clarity, and a whole new kind of confidence.This episode is your reminder that you don't need to be perfect; you just need to be honest, consistent, and strategic. And yes, you can do hard things (like getting into one of the top law schools in the country) without burning out.If you're in the thick of applications, this one's your permission slip to stop spiraling and start owning your story. What You'll Learn:Why starting early isn't just smart - it's your secret weaponHow to stop making everything feel like punishment and start using rewards as motivationWhy authenticity > copy-paste personal statements (every single time)What to do when comparison kicks in and your confidence tanksThe underrated power of having actual support instead of relying on Reddit threadsHow to lean into structure and coaching calls so you don't lose steamWhy your “why” matters more than your scoresThe truth: You don't need to do this alone, and you shouldn'tTimestamps: 00:00 – Veronica's Journey: Real, raw, and unfiltered 02:35 – Why Travel Is More Than Just a Break 06:43 – Reward vs. Necessity: The Mindset Shift That Changed Everything 07:45 – The Anxiety of the Unknown (and how to stop spiraling) 11:15 – Starting Early: Not Optional 15:37 – Inside the Program: Structure That Actually Works 20:53 – Building a Community That Gets It 23:59 – Accountability Calls: Yes, You Need Them 25:09 – Reflections That Change Your Trajectory 25:56 – Finding Your Why (and owning it) 32:03 – No One Cares About Perfect—Be Authentic 37:10 – Stop Comparing. Start Owning. 43:29 – The Power of SMastering Academic Applications: From Scratch to Submission is now open for you to complete your applications in 12-weeks! With live coaching, you develop your applications & gain insights into your applications processes like never before. Join us now using this link to enroll!Connect with Adrienne! Looking for support with your graduate or professional school applications? Connect with us at Apply Yourself Global™! Email me personally at adrienne@applyyourselfglobal.com. You can also DM me on Instagram @applyyourselfglobal. Ask the Expert Have any questions on applications, success, test prep, and more? Send your questions us, or you can submit an audio file via Instagram DM and we can feature you on the podcast! Work with Adrienne
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Fat Loss Simplified: tips for weight loss, workouts, nutrition, fitness, and a balanced life
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Don't do fitness alone. Go here: https://www.beginwithin.fit/Ever been scrolling through your feed when you're hit with one of those "What's your excuse?" fitness posts? You know the ones—an impossibly shredded person flexing with a caption that's basically saying "look at me, now feel bad about yourself." In this episode, I tackle this confidence-killing phrase head-on and offer a much healthier alternative that might just transform your fitness journey.In this episode, you'll discover:Why comparison is the ultimate confidence killer and how it distracts you from the only progress that mattersThe uncomfortable truth about those "perfect" fitness photos that you're never toldWhat's infinitely more powerful than "What's your excuse?"How to REALLY measure successThe secret to building lasting confidenceIf you're enjoying the Begin Within Health Show, please consider subscribing/following and leaving a 5-star review! It helps the show reach more people who could benefit from these conversations.Follow for more:https://www.instagram.com/natesleger/https://www.tiktok.com/@nateslegerhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/beginwithinfithttps://www.youtube.com/@beginwithin3785
Are you spiritually stalking other believers on Instagram? In this eye-opening episode of "You, Me, and Jesus," Keenya gets refreshingly honest about her struggle with "spiritual FOMO" and the comparison trap in her faith journey.Discover the freedom that comes when you embrace your unique path with God rather than trying to copy someone else's. Keenya shares her hilarious and humbling experiences with comparing her spiritual life to others, and the practical steps she took to break free from comparison spirals. Learn how to celebrate others' spiritual journeys without trying to duplicate them.In our "What Would Jesus Actually Do?" segment, we explore how Jesus might respond to someone constantly comparing their faith journey to others on Instagram—affirming their unique design and redirecting their focus to their personal relationship with Him.This episode is perfect for anyone who has ever felt "behind" in their faith journey, intimidated by others' spiritual disciplines, or frustrated that their relationship with God doesn't look like the ones they see online.If you felt empowered by this episode, take a screenshot for your stories and tag Keenya on Instagram @keenyakelly. I would be honored to hear your takeaways and re-post your share!Important Links from the show:Understanding your spiritual gifts is definitely one of the foundational things that every single Christian needs to know.If you'd like a quick and free spiritual quiz assessment to understand why and how God gifted you what you have in life click here https://keenyakelly.com/ministry/!Subscribe to our new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@youmeandjesus Connect with Keenya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keenyakelly/ Connect with Keenya on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keenyakelly Connect with Keenya on Twitter: https://twitter.com/keenyakelly For more information on courses and resources: https://keenyakelly.com/Are you building a business and you want to know what God is saying to you about your business?Looking for strategy on what to do next with your business or market your business in a way that's Christ focused?Click the following link to book a creative consulting session to get a strategy together for your business that is faith focused: https://keenyakelly.com/creativeconsulting/
This Mother's Day, we're reminding women to stop comparing their calling to others. You were intentionally and beautifully created by God for a unique purpose. Comparison distracts and discourages you from walking confidently in what you were made to do. True success is being faithful where God has placed you—loving your family, honoring Him, and using your voice, gifts, and story to bless others.
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You guys! Comparison steals joy! I know it is so easy to compare ourselves to others or a different version of ourselves, but it doesn't serve us! You're doing awesome! I'm right here with ya girl!Support the show
Have you ever considered what the comparison trap is stealing from you? If you've ever compared yourself to others as a singer / artist and come up short in your mind, then today's episode will be the gentle nudge of tough love that you need to break free from this all-too-common creative block. I'll be sharing with you 3 reasons to stop comparing your voice to others ~ and revealing the truth of what it's really robbing you of as an artist. Because life is short. And the joy of creating and expressing yourself through your voice ~ as an artist, a singer, a songwriter, a performer ~ is available to you and possible for you. But first, you must let go of the comparison, the self-doubt, the judgment, the fear ~ all the creative blocks that are keeping you from living your most creative life.
#128: In this episode, Abby shares REAL & ACTIONABLE tips to stopppp getting stuck in the comparison trap. If you've been feeling overwhelmed - like you're behind in life compared to everyone else, this episode is a MUST LISTEN. Get ready to have your power re-activated and step back into your light (& stay in your damn lane!)
Jared takes aim at the Tennessean's Gentry Estes over his lamentations comparing the struggles of Nashville's top sports teams' free agency misses.
You walk into the room and before you even sit down, you're scanning — silently ranking who's more accomplished, more confident, more “legit.”In this episode, we unpack why that mental habit is draining your executive presence and power, and what it costs ambitious leaders who still feel like outsiders.If you've ever felt small in a room you've earned your way into, this conversation will shift the way you lead and the way you see yourself.
Have you ever looked at someone who just seems to be a natural at something – whether it's sports, music, or academics – and thought, 'Why can't I do that like they do?' Or maybe you've worked hard at something only to feel discouraged when someone else does it effortlessly. It's frustrating and disheartening. But here's the thing – there's a big difference between ability and aptitude. Understanding that difference can change how you see yourself and your efforts. Today, we're going to unpack this idea together. We'll talk about what these terms really mean, why comparing your abilities to someone else's natural talent doesn't make sense, and how you can shift your mindset to focus on your own progress. Stop comparing your hard work to someone else's. Everyone doesn't have the same ability and aptitude. Follow Connie: Facebook Instagram X.com Read the full show notes with links here: Stop Comparing Yourself: Ability vs. Aptitude Popular shows you might have missed: Avoid Mom Burnout Mom: Overload: Stop Stress Before it Breaks You Hi friend, I need your help. If you think a friend would like this episode, please share it with them. They will be so glad you did. Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/
Why do we keep comparing AI to humans? Jaron Lanier — virtual reality pioneer, digital philosopher, and the author of several best-selling books on technology — thinks that we should stop. In his view, technology is only valuable if it has beneficiaries. So instead of asking "What can AI do?," we should be asking, "What can AI do for us?" In today's episode, Jaron and Sean discuss a humanist approach to AI and how changing our understanding of AI tools could change how we use, develop, and improve them. Host: Sean Illing (@SeanIlling) Guest: Jaron Lanier, computer scientist, artist, and writer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
A Phil Svitek Podcast - A Series From Your 360 Creative Coach
I break down a subtle trap many of us fall into—we compare ourselves not to one person, but to a collage of people, mistakenly treating their combined successes as if they belong to a single superhuman. No wonder we feel like we're not doing enough. But when we separate these individuals and actually study their journeys, we find the challenges, setbacks, and slow growth that got them to where they are. This isn't about minimizing their success—it's about making your own path feel more real, grounded, and doable. You don't need to do everything all at once.
In this episode of The Best You Podcast, Nick sits down with Sheena Yap Chan—Wall Street Journal bestselling author, keynote speaker, and host of The Tao of Self-Confidence—to uncover what it truly takes to build lasting self-confidence in a world full of comparison and perfectionism. Sheena shares her inspiring journey from self-doubt to self-belief, and the powerful mindset shifts that helped her get there.If you've ever struggled with low confidence, constant comparison, or feeling like you're not “good enough,” this conversation will empower you with practical tools and the encouragement you need to shift your mindset and build unshakable confidence.In this episode, you'll learn:● Why perfectionism is one of the biggest confidence killers● How to stop comparing yourself to others and start owning your uniqueness● Sheena's personal story of overcoming shame and embracing her identity● How to rewire your internal dialogue to build self-trust and belief● Confidence tips you can start practicing TODAY
Please support the show by clicking here: https://2kgam.es/4df6qnM NBA executive Scott Perry joins Mo Mooncey & BJ Armstrong to discuss: - Julius Randle's resurgence with the Timberwolves - Quentin Grimes star performances - How does Shai Gilgeous-Alexander compare to Kobe Bryant and other historical greats? - The Hoop Genius official March Madness bracket prediction Join the conversation in our discord: https://www.discord.me/hoopgenius
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Have you ever looked back at an old photo or memory and suddenly felt a pang of jealousy for your past self? Maybe you used to be more motivated, more social, more confident—or at least, that's the story your brain is telling you. In this episode, we're unpacking why we romanticize the past and compare ourselves to who we used to be. You will learn... - the different ways we compare our current selves to our past selves - the psychological reason behind this self-comparison - how sociocultural conditioning promotes competition and comparison - how to stop comparing yourself and embrace who you are now Remember: Your past self isn't better than you—she's just different. She has wisdom to offer you, just as you have wisdom to offer her. Allow all parts of yourself to sit at the table. Mentioned In This Episode... TED Talk: The Riddle of Experience vs. Memory by Daniel KahnemanThe Myth of Meritocracy Runs Deep in American History TED Talk: How to talk to the worst parts of yourself by Karen Faith Movie Recommendation: Midnight in Paris If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends to spread the gift of self-love! Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast Deepen your self-love journey with Mary's books: 1. The Gift of Self-Love, an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. 2. 100 Days of Self-Love, a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.
Stop comparing other people's wins to your progress. You're not in a race with anyone else.A lot of times, we can get caught up in what we see on social media, judging our own progress and success based on what other people post.But what you don't see is all the work, energy, trials and tribulations that they went through to get there.Remember, success isn't an overnight phenomenon. It's the result of consistent effort, taking one step at a time.Every day, make those small decisions and take those actions that move you forward. And don't forget to celebrate the small wins along the way. Stay focused, stay the course, and go at your own pace.Resources:Adaptive Marketing Program - Adaptive Marketing Program is an exclusive opportunity for online business owners, coaches, course creators, and membership site owners to play bigger and bolder in their business and explode their bank account with more clients!For a list of our resources & recommendations visit: https://onlinemarketingpodcast.com/learn-with-paul-melissa/Connect with us on social!Instagram: @realpaulpruitt & @realmelissapruittFacebook: @realpaulpruitt & @realmelissapruitt
Have you ever caught yourself comparing your financial journey to someone else's? Maybe you've felt like you're just not "good with money" because others seem to have it figured out. This shame traps you in a cycle of avoidance and keeps you stuck in unhealthy financial choices that hold you back from meeting your goals.In today's episode, I explain reflection shame, how it might show up for you, and why a fixed mindset is keeping you from making progress in regaining control of your finances. I discuss how to break free from shame and the impulse to compare yourself to other people. Then, I give you actionable steps to help you shift your mindset and start aligning your spending and financial habits with what you want to do with your goals.Whether your goal is saving, paying down debt, or just learning to track your spending, today's episode teaches you the tools to stop comparing and start growing. Listen for key insights on reflection shame… [01:00] Ways shame might show up for you [04:56] How a fixed mindset is keeping you stuck [20:14] Steps to shift your reflection shameTune into this episode of Money Files to learn how to shift your reflection shame so you can stop comparing your finances to others and begin establishing financial security. Get full show notes and the episode transcript: https://wealthovernow.com/how-to-stop-comparing-your-financial-journey-to-others/Links mentioned in this episode…Set up a call | Financial Coach Washington, DC | Wealth Over NowDownload my FREE spending planMindset: The New Psychology of Success: 9780345472328: Dweck, Carol S.: Books140 | Why Non-Budget Victories Are the Building Blocks to Paying Off Debt and Saving Money
Your timeline is yours. Stop comparing your timeline to everyone else's.Join my masterclasses:Dare to Detach - detach from the past and rewire your mind for good in just 4 days. Mind Body Soul Reset - reset your energy field and have people asking “what did you do differently?!”My instagram: @lyss Podcast: @dateyourselfinstead
You look around you and all you see is others achieving things that you aren't (yet) - or doing things that you could only wish you could be doing as well? Is this sustainable? How can you break the urge of comparison? In this episode, I share my own journey with the overwhelm of comparing myself to others and break down some actionable steps and mindset shifts you can set in motion to start changing your perspective on yourself and your life. Connect With Me Website: www.dreamsindrive.com Instagram: @rainshineluv @dreamsindrive Newsletter: Sign up here Substack: The Road Trip
If you've ever put someone on a pedestal, compared yourself to a “perfect” role model, or felt like you'll never measure up—this episode is for you.Today, we're diving into Chapter 2 of Make Changes That Last, where Dr. Rangan Chatterjee challenges one of the biggest obstacles to personal growth: the myth of the hero.We all have heroes—celebrities, athletes, influencers, even people in our own lives. But what if idolizing them is actually holding us back? What if constantly comparing ourselves to someone else is the very thing preventing us from thriving?Let's get into it.(Recap of Chapter 2 from Make Change Last by Dr. Rangan Chatterjee)References:“Make Change That Lasts. 9 simple ways to break free from the habits that hold you back.”Dr. Rangan Chatterjee Brain.fm App(First month Free, then 20% off subscription)Discount Code: coachdamiensdCaldera Lab Skin Carewww.calderalab.comDiscount Code: CoachDLinks:IG:@coachdamien_sd@damienrayevans@livinthedream_podcast YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCS6VuPgtVsdBpDj5oN3YQTgFB:https://www.facebook.com/coachdamienSD/
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3502: Joshua Becker explores why comparison is so harmful and offers practical steps to break free from it, including practicing gratitude, appreciating your unique journey, and seeking inspiration without unhealthy competition. By shifting your focus inward and measuring progress against your own growth, you can cultivate a more fulfilling and content life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/compare-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Comparisons are always unfair. We typically compare the worst we know of ourselves to the best we presume about others." "Gratitude always forces us to recognize the good things we already have in our world." "Stop comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reels." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3502: Joshua Becker explores why comparison is so harmful and offers practical steps to break free from it, including practicing gratitude, appreciating your unique journey, and seeking inspiration without unhealthy competition. By shifting your focus inward and measuring progress against your own growth, you can cultivate a more fulfilling and content life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/compare-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Comparisons are always unfair. We typically compare the worst we know of ourselves to the best we presume about others." "Gratitude always forces us to recognize the good things we already have in our world." "Stop comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reels." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3502: Joshua Becker explores why comparison is so harmful and offers practical steps to break free from it, including practicing gratitude, appreciating your unique journey, and seeking inspiration without unhealthy competition. By shifting your focus inward and measuring progress against your own growth, you can cultivate a more fulfilling and content life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/compare-less/ Quotes to ponder: "Comparisons are always unfair. We typically compare the worst we know of ourselves to the best we presume about others." "Gratitude always forces us to recognize the good things we already have in our world." "Stop comparing yourself to everyone else's highlight reels." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever caught yourself comparing your success to someone else's? When I watched Demi Moore's recent Golden Globe speech, it hit home. Comparison is something ALL ambitious leaders struggle with, no matter how successful or experienced you are. And today, we're tackling it head-on. Picture this...You're feeling on top of the world -- fulfilled by your work and completely satisfied with where you are in life. Then out of nowhere, it all comes crashing down. You're scrolling LinkedIn and see a peer being featured in a major industry publication. Or a colleague lands the promotion you were hoping for -- taking on a bigger role, leading a high-profile project, or stepping into the C-suite.Suddenly, the confidence and excitement you had about your progress disappear. You start questioning yourself and doubting your abilities.What you're experiencing is career ‘comparisonitis'. And you're not alone. Comparison culture is everywhere -- especially in a world of social media and ‘perfect' Instagram feeds. They say comparison is the thief of joy, but it's also the thief of progress. It pulls you away from your own goals and often leads to inaction.Does it feel like everyone else is getting ahead -- faster than you?In today's episode, I share five practical strategies to stop the cycle of comparison -- once and for all!You'll learn:The psychology behind comparison, WHY you fall into the trap and the first step to break freeMy personal experience with comparisonitis -- and two ways to transform it into fuel for successHow to redefine success on YOUR own terms and train your brain to let go of career comparison for goodThe simple mindset shift to silence self-doubt and help you make a real impactSo hit play NOW -- and let's dive in!Thanks for listening. If you enjoyed this episode, please follow the podcast now and leave me a 5 star rating and review. This is how other people can find this podcast and benefit too!Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars and then select ‘Write a review.' Then, be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!LINKS:Ready to shift out of self-doubt and break free from comparison? Check out the Ignite Your Career program for high-achievers who want to take ownership of their careers with clarity, confidence and a strategic plan.If you're interested in working together in 2025, I invite you to book a free Career Clarity Call with me here.Learn more about what I do at staceyback.com or connect with me on LinkedIn or Instagram.
In this conversation I share with you how to get of out the cycle of comparisons when it comes to your relationship with God. At times we will believe that God isn't speaking to us because it doesn't look the way it does for others. Not realizing that the way he may decide to move in one person's life could simply be different than the way he decides to move in yours. And that's okay. If you focus so much on how God is moving in someone's else life you will miss the way he is moving in yours. This episode helps you break out of that trap of comparison. Join The Closer to God Challenge: https://stan.store/darinstarks/p/closer-to-god-challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of The Best You Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Scott Kaufman, a psychologist, speaker, and best-selling author, to discuss how to shift from a victim mindset to an empowerment mindset and unlock your full potential.Dr. Kaufman shares key insights from his new book, Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential, and provides practical strategies to regulate emotions, overcome setbacks, and take control of your future.If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, comparison, or feeling stuck, this episode will help you break free and start living with purpose and confidence.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Emotional Regulation and Emotional Inhibition 5:04Overcoming a Victim Mindset 10:18How to Prioritize Your Life 18:54Rise Above Book 24:26Don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube so you never miss an episode!Links:Rise Above Bookwww.scottbarrykaufman.com@ scottbarrykaufmanSchedule a Free Health Consultation with Nick today at www.nickcarrier.com
Do you ever feel like you're falling behind in your legal career while everyone else seems to be moving faster and achieving more? In this episode, I break down the comparison trap and share the Freedom Framework—a powerful strategy to shift from envy to empathy, track your personal milestones, and align your practice with your values. You'll learn how to redefine success on your own terms, stop measuring yourself against others, and build a fulfilling legal career with confidence.Get the Values Alignment Guidehttps://upbeat-trailblazer-9238.kit.com/1604bbf4cbWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-freeWould you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call
You have to let go of your ungodly timeline of who and what you thought you'd be by now. This is one of the greatest lessons I've learned and had to walk out these past few months! In this episode I take you through my own process of accepting God's timeline for my life and getting out of comparing my life to others! (The audio is a bit distorted but I still hope this blesses you) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Many of us feel lonelier than ever, but what if there were ways to start building connections and overcome that loneliness? Author Becky Harling joins us to discuss powerful mindset shifts for loneliness that we can implement today.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[04:56] Why Do We Feel Guilt and Shame Around Loneliness? [06:57] How Can We Break Free From The Things That Keep Us Stuck in Loneliness?[10:15] How Does Authentic Connection Relate to Our Connection With The Lord?[13:36] Why is Embracing Humility an Essential Step in Working Through Loneliness?[16:05] “Stop Comparing and Start Cheering”[19:38] How Has The Cultural Shift Towards Self-Sufficiency Kept Us From Giving and Receiving Comfort? [26:58] Why Is It Important to Overcome Being Easily Offended?[36:41] Alicia's Reflections: Ask Yourself “What Is My Responsibility and How Can I Look At Loneliness in a New Light?”RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Want to see what Emotional Confidence is about? Download the first chapter for FREE!Connect with author Becky HarlingRELATED EPISODES:238: “How Can I Feel More Connected + Less Lonely This Year?”Send us a text
In this talk about comparison, I'm sharing my own journey of comparing myself to others and how I've navigated the struggles along the way. I'm sharing the importance of awareness around social media, setting boundaries, trusting your judgement, and having compassion for others. I'm also sharing how to use comparison as a tool for clarity around your own deepest desires. Sacred Spring Semester Enrollment - ttps://mollylovesmornings.com/sacredspring Daily Practices on Wild Minds App Apple - https://apps.apple.com/lb/app/wild-minds-meditation/id1598957508 Daily Practices on Wild Minds App Google - https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.wildminds_front&hl=en_US&gl=US The Manifestation Portal - https://mollylovesmornings.substack.com Instagram - @mollylovesmornings
Tactical "stop it" approaches to self-comparison DO NOT WORK for perfectionists. Find out WHY along with the hidden costs of comparing yourself, why the approach you've taken to stopping self-comparison hasn't worked, what you actually need to do and scientifically what causes perfectionists to have an even harder time than non-perfectionistic people in rewiring this habit. On paper, you've got it together— isn't it time you felt like it? Whether it's becoming much more DECISIVE in everything you do, stop playing out worst case scenarios in your head or becoming JOYFULLY PRESENT AMBITIOUS again, Perfectionism Optimized, private 1-1 coaching gives you the life-long skills to *finally feel* as amazing on the inside as your life looks on the outside. Get your stress-free start today at https://courtneylovegavin.com/rewireTIMESTAMPS:00:00-Why self comparison tactics fail perfectionists01:41-The hidden costs of comparing yourself06:31-Recognize self comparison as a type of self punishment.10:11-Why intellect isn't enough to rewire perfectionist tendencies12:13-Developing skill sets over gathering knowledge15:00-Why it's scientifically harder for perfectionists to stop unhealthy self-comparison16:08-Acceptance vs. judgment in rewiring perfectionism18:00-What Silver vs. bronze medalists show us about comparing yourself to others21:30-Choosing growth over fear of failureResources Mentioned In Episode 246:Perfect Start Introductory Session Single Coaching SessionComparing Yourself (pt.1) Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 245Intrinsic Motivational Patterns Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 66Citations/Sources:Curran, T., & Hill, A. P. (2019). Perfectionism is increasing over time: A meta-analysis of birth cohort differences from 1989 to 2016. Psychological Bulletin, 145(4), 410–429. https://doi.org/10.1037/bul0000138 Sirois, F.M., Monforton, J. and Simpson, M. (2010) "If Only I Had Done Better": Perfectionism and the Functionality of Counterfactual Thinking. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin , 36 (12). 1675 - 1692. ISSN 0146-1672 https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167210387614Stoeber, J., & Diedenhofen, B. (2017). Multidimensional perfectionism and counterfactual thinking: Some think upward, others downward. Personality and Individual Differences, 119, 118–121. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2017.07.009
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If you've found yourself comparing your new relationship to your ex, you're not alone—and it doesn't necessarily mean you're not over them. In this episode, I break down two powerful steps to help you move past those comparisons and focus on what truly matters: creating clarity and deeper connection in your current partnership. Whether you're sabotaging a great relationship, feeling like something is missing, or stuck in a conflict with your new partner, this episode will help you take the right actions to build the relationship you deserve. Tune in to find out how to stop looking back and start moving forward!
Episode Description: In this episode of What If for Authors, Claire dives into the deeply ingrained habit of comparing ourselves to others—why we do it, how it affects us, and how we can learn to shift from harmful patterns of comparison toward curiosity and growth. Whether you're a writer struggling with self-doubt or simply a human navigating the complexities of social dynamics, this episode is packed with insights and actionable advice. Key Takeaways Why We Compare Ourselves to Others Evolutionary roots of comparison and its role in social survival. How Comparison Impacts Writers From comparing your books to others in your genre to the challenges of writing to market. The Enneagram and Comparison How each type's core fear influences the way we compare and react. Shifting from Judgment to Curiosity Practical tips for recognizing harmful patterns of comparison and replacing them with curiosity. When to Take a Break Why stepping back from comp authors or genre-specific reading may help reset your mindset. Why Listen: If you've ever felt bogged down by comparisons and self-doubt, this episode will help you take the first steps toward freeing yourself from the cycle. Tune in and start embracing your unique path as an author. Support the Show: If you found this episode helpful, please leave a review on your favorite podcast platform and share the show with your fellow authors. Every review helps more writers discover this resource. Join the Conversation: Share your thoughts and questions by reaching out to Claire at contact@ffs.media. Happy Writing!
The best podcast for military veterans, police officers, firefighters, and first responders preparing for life after service. As a military veteran or first responder, you need to plan and implement strategies to prepare for your transition into civilian life. In Round 52 of the Tactical Transition Tips series on the Transition Drill Podcast, advice is tailored to police officers, first responders, and military veterans at various stages of their career transition. Whether you're on the cusp of change, planning a few years down the line, or envisioning a decade ahead, this episode has you covered. In this episode, the three transition tips addressed are: Close Range - Focus on Personal Goals Medium Range - Benchmark Only Against Yourself Long Range - Focus on Core Values Your host, Paul Pantani, leveraging personal experience, offers actionable strategies. This tips series provides invaluable insights and practical tips to help you successfully navigate the complexities of changing careers. These vital topics offer guidance and support for navigating the complexities of transition planning for life after service. SPONSORS: Trident Coffee Get 15% off your purchase Link: https://tridentcoffee.com/discount/TDP15 Promo Code: TDP15 HUMAN PERFORMANCE TRT Get 10% off your program Web: https://hptrt.com Promo Code: TDP ACCESS ALL PODCAST LINKS: https://linktr.ee/TransitionDrillPodcast QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS: paul@transitiondrillpodcast.com
Rob and Kelvin debate whether it’s fair to keeping calling Patrick Mahomes the Michael Jordan of football. Plus, FOX Sports Radio NBA insider Mark Medina swings by to discuss Kawhi Leonard’s slow ramp-up from injury, why LeBron James’ goals for this season feel so unrealistic and much more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this latest instalment of the Ninja Selling Podcast, host Eric Thompson is joined by Jerry Beers, a respected Ninja coach, to explore effective business planning strategies for achieving a phenomenal 2025. They delve into the powerful "stop and start" list methodology, and uncover surprising parallels between law enforcement and real estate success. Listeners can anticipate practical takeaways ready for immediate implementation! This episode focuses on strategic planning and self-reflection, examining both actions to cease and activities to initiate within one's real estate business. Together, Eric and Jerry unpack the importance of thoughtful analysis before abandoning strategies, highlighting the significance of self-compassion alongside high standards, the pitfalls of comparison, and the need for simplified processes. Our two experts finish up their informative and inspiring conversation with a focus on cultivating patience and the power of consistent effort for long-term success - a powerful conclusion to an undeniably powerful episode. Episode Highlights: 00:00 - Leveraging Law Enforcement Skills in Real Estate 02:22 - Coaching Lessons from Leadership and Training 03:13 - Why Law Enforcement Professionals Excel in Real Estate 05:34 - Adapting to Client Needs for Effective Communication 08:28 - Analyze Before You Stop: Improving Business Efforts 09:03 - The Power of Self-Awareness and Grace in Business 11:54 - Stop Comparing; Start Celebrating Your Success 12:57 - Keep It Simple: Overcoming Business Overcomplication 16:26 - Patience and Consistency: Long-Term Success in Real Estate 18:44 - The Compounding Effect of Daily Real Estate Practices 19:18 - Closing Thoughts: Planting Seeds for a Prosperous Future Key Takeaways: "Stop being too quick to stop something. Start fully analyzing your effort." "Stop giving yourself a hard time. Start giving yourself grace." "Stop comparing your success to others. Focus on your own success." "This business is only complicated if you let it be complicated." "Stop making things complicated. Start making things easier on yourself." "What you focus on expands. Focus on your strengths, not your gaps." "Start being patient. Play the long game and see the effect of compounding." "Nothing happens overnight. Consistency and time are key to growth." "Meet people where they're at by asking great questions and using The Platinum Rule." Links: www.TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Email: TSW@TheNinjaSellingPodcast.com Leave a voicemail at (208) MY-NINJA Ninja Selling www.NinjaSelling.com @ninjasellingofficial Ninja Coaching: www.NinjaCoaching.com @ninja.coaching Ninja Events www.NinjaSelling.com/Events The Ninja Selling Podcast Facebook Group Ninja Coaching Book Study Ninja Mastery Ninja Selling by Larry Kendall Ninja Sailing
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The Democrats and their surrogates are getting desperate. NFL writer Jim Trotter is leading the charge in sports media by attacking Nick Bosa's MAGA hat and invoking the name of Colin Kaepernick. In the entertainment field, D.L. Hughley hosted the BET Black Men Summit to browbeat men for not voting for Kamala Harris, and Julia Roberts asks women to lie to their husbands about who they voted for. Meanwhile, the sitting president, Joe Biden, calls Donald Trump supporters “garbage.” It's a scramble drill. Today's Sponsors: Prize Picks PrizePicks is America's #1 daily fantasy sports app with over 5 million active members. Download the PrizePicks app today and use code FEARLESS or just click the link https://prizepicks.onelink.me/LME0/FEARLESS and get $50 instantly when you play $5! You don't even need to win to receive the $50 bonus, it's guaranteed! “PrizePicks. Run Your Game!” Get 10% off Blaze swag by using code Fearless10 at https://shop.blazemedia.com/fearless Make yourself an official member of the “Fearless Army!” Support Conservative Voices! Subscribe to BlazeTV at https://get.blazetv.com/FEARLESS and get $20 off your yearly subscription. CLICK HERE to Subscribe to Jason Whitlock's YouTube: https://bit.ly/3jFL36G CLICK HERE to Listen to Jason Whitlock's podcast: https://apple.co/3zHaeLT CLICK HERE to Follow Jason Whitlock on Twitter: https://bit.ly/3hvSjiJ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Rich Zeoli Show- Hour 1: 3:05pm- Virginia Asks SCOTUS to Allow Removal of Non-Citizens from Voter Rolls. Zach Jewell of The Daily Wire writes: “Virginia filed an appeal in the U.S. Supreme Court after a Biden-appointed judge ruled last week that the commonwealth must put non-citizens back onto its voter rolls just days before the 2024 election.” You can read the full report here: https://www.dailywire.com/news/its-commonsense-virginia-asks-scotus-to-allow-removal-of-non-citizens-from-voter-rolls 3:20pm- Senator Joni Ernst—U.S. Senator from Iowa—joins The Rich Zeoli Show to discuss campaigning throughout Pennsylvania on behalf of Donald Trump and Dave McCormick. Plus, she weighs-in on a critically important topic: pork belly or bacon? Sen. Ernst serves on the Armed Services Committee and is the Ranking Member of the Business & Entrepreneurship Committee. She's also Chair of the Republican Policy Committee. 3:40pm- While speaking with the press, New York City Mayor Eric Adams (D) called out the media for continually comparing Donald Trump to Adolf Hitler and referring to him as a fascist. Adams stated: “I refuse to participate in that…enough of this.”
The Rich Zeoli Show- Full Show (10/25/2024): 3:05pm- On Tuesday, The Atlantic published a piece written by Editor-in-Chief Jeffrey Goldberg which alleges that Donald Trump praised Nazi generals for their loyalty, and that he once demeaned fallen American soldier Vanessa Guillen—refusing to pay $60,000 for her funeral. On Wednesday, Guillen's sister—Mayra Guillen—responded to Goldberg's claims via her X account: “Wow. I don't appreciate how you are exploiting my sister's death for politics—hurtful & disrespectful to the important changes she made for service members. President Donald Trump did nothing but show respect to my family & Vanessa. In fact, I voted for President Trump today.” During a CNN townhall event, Kamala Harris explicitly stated that she believes Trump is a “fascist.” White House Press Secretary Karine Jean Pierre echoed identical sentiments on behalf of the Biden-Harris Administration. On Friday, an Auschwitz survivor named Jerry Wartski appeared in a social media video demanding that Harris apologize for the outlandish comparison: “I know more about Hitler than Kamala will ever know in a thousand lifetimes. For her to accuse President Trump of being like Hitler is the worst thing I've ever heard in my 75 years of living in the U.S." 3:20pm- No, Trump is Not a Fascist. Rich Lowry of National Review writes: “Kamala Harris has officially ended the ‘joy' phase of her campaign, and has instead entered the ‘Trump is a fascist” stage. Asked at a CNN town hall whether she thinks Donald Trump is a fascist, Harris said, ‘Yes, I do.'…Until now, Harris has tended to make a case against Trump as a standard Republican who caters to the needs of the wealthy. Now, she's portraying him as an American Mussolini.” You can read the full article here: https://www.nationalreview.com/2024/10/no-trump-is-not-a-fascist/ 3:40pm- The International Association of Fire Fighters Local 22 of Philadelphia announced that they are ending their endorsement for U.S. Senator Bob Casey's reelection campaign (D-PA) and will now be supporting his challenger, Republican Dave McCormick. 4:05pm- Congresswoman Elise Stefanik—U.S. Representative for New York's 21st Congressional District & House Republican Conference Chair—joins The Rich Zeoli Show to react to Kamala Harris and the far-left baselessly comparing Donald Trump to authoritarians. Rep. Stefanik notes that the claims are obviously ridiculous and false, and the strategy illustrates that Democrats don't have policy ideas that are resonating with Americans. 4:20pm- Rich takes calls from listeners—what are you expecting on November 5th? 4:25pm- On Friday, the Department of Justice (DOJ) announced it had filed a lawsuit against the Virginia State Board of Elections for removing non-citizens from their voting registration list. In August, Governor Glenn Younkin signed an executive order which was designed to “cancel the registrations of non-citizens who have registered to vote in a local, state, or federal election by falsely claiming that they are a citizen, including the forging of documentation or any other means of improper registration.” Why is the Biden Administration fighting Virginia over its prevention of non-citizens from voting in the 2024 election? 4:40pm- Dr. Victoria Coates—Former Deputy National Security Advisor & the Vice President of the Davis Institute for National Security and Foreign Policy at The Heritage Foundation—joins The Rich Zeoli Show and reacts to Auschwitz survivor Jerry Wartski demanding that Kamala Harris apologize for outlandishly calling Donald Trump a “fascist.” Dr. Coates is the author of the upcoming book: “The Battle for the Jewish State: How Israel—and America—Can Win” which features a forward from Senator Ted Cruz. 5:00pm- During a Trump campaign event on Tuesday, former Congresswoman Tulsi Gabbard—who served in the House of Representatives as a Democrat—announced that she was joining the Republican Party. She appeared on Fox News and explaine ...
In this episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rachel delves deep into the concept of the Law of Attraction and how our focus on certain thoughts can shape our life experiences. She answers listener questions, offering advice on managing comparisons with others, and maintaining a positive outlook despite challenges.Get the Start Today Journal - https://starttoday.com/products/start-today-journal00:00 Introduction to Obsessive Thoughts and Trauma01:04 Welcome to the Rachel Hollis Podcast01:44 Back to School Chaos03:36 Navigating New School Dynamics06:22 Ask Rach: The Law of Attraction08:29 Crystal's Question on Hormones and Spirituality10:02 Understanding the Law of Attraction13:55 The Impact of Focus and Intention25:12 Frozen Chicken Patties: A Quick Fix for Dinner26:04 Embracing Imperfection: Allowing Yourself a Break27:47 The Start Today Journal: A Tool for Positivity29:28 Navigating Stepmotherhood and Fertility Challenges33:25 Finding Peace and Abundance in Difficult Times50:06 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsHave a question you want Rach to answer? An idea for a podcast episode??Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Sign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.