Tuha’s Thoughts

In this episode, I get to sit with two amazing ladies who are wives and recently married too. We try to speak to things that we have been told and things that were never told to us before marriage. If you or someone you know has not stepped into the season of marriage, please listen in and let us know your thoughts. All our marrieds, please share all those things that no one told you about before you got in.

In this podcast, I sit with 3 gentlemen who are husbands and career men. Together they share some insights on things they wish women understood and saw from their perspective. Join Mr.Kasami, Mr.Matsiko, Mr.Biryaho and myself as we try to summarize some of these matters.

As controversial as this can be, we are all entitled to believe what we choose to but in this podcast, I share with you my personal views on if we should share and what impact that could have on you as a couple.

Do you sometimes wonder how other peoples lives seem to be perfect while yours is on a high and low? Well, dive in with me as I share the facts of the world of fiction given to us especially by social media. The facade of it all and the reality of life!

The world will view you in judgmental ways and you will judge yourself and sometimes it's not entirely on you. Weight is a battle that many people are fighting and sometimes we are not sure of why we are that way and how to win that battle. Join me as I take you through my journey and how I ended up on a Ketogenic diet

In this episode, I give a depth on our honeymoon trip in 4 European countries (Belgium,France,Italy and Greece). How to make this possible while planning a wedding and how to make sure you have the best time of your life.

In this episode, I talk about why you should travel, how you should travel and how to start on this journey of travel even if it is your first time.

Growing up, we forget about the little child in us that helped us to become who we have become. We forget to forgive her/him for the mistakes or even to praise her/him for the good things and for the foundation they set for us. This I explore with notes to my younger self.

When we get married, some lines are blurry and yet they should not. Finances is one of the most vulnerable topics and I take you through some tips for you to explore on getting ahead of your finances in marriage.

In this episode I discuss on how we should choose the people we walk the journey of marriage with and why they are the choice we make.

It's the month for women and what better way to celebrate than to give ourselves little gifts of how to be better. What better way is there for us than to have confidence. Men and women, we all need that room to build confidence. In this podcast, I highlight the first step for you to building confidence.

It's been a rollercoaster year for all of us in one way or the other. From losing loved ones to losing jobs, to seeing happy moments and little pieces of heaven through it. Let me tell you a little about mine and what I think you can carry to the next year. Also, a prayer for a new year. Happy new year my friends. The Lord bless you and keep you for me.

This year has been my most traumatizing year and for most of us, I know the feeling is mutual! But what do we do when we lose someone special and we have to face the most wonderful time of the year without them? Do we sit back and cry or do we face it head on?

Covid 19 is here again, but it never left. It got crazier but we are stronger. We are feeling low but we have a power in us greater than we could imagine. We maybe apart but we are stronger together. I encourage you, that you are not alone, you are not failing. We are going to get through this. Hold on and don't let go!!!

I dive into my personal space with a sad reality that I am dealing with right now but bringing with me the strength from recognizing when we need to Stop our selves, pause and then breathe. Take care of you before you can ably take care of others.

I sit with an old friend to share his story on what depression is like. How he knew it was the problem and how it slowly grew from something small to something deadly. This could be your story or is it your story?!?

Join Brian and I as we continue to talk more about finances and to talk about budgeting and how you need to get things in line to achieve a high level of financial discipline.

In this part, I start off this year with a bit of financial wisdom from me to you. No, am not there yet but I have read and learned a lot of things along the way too. So, I hope you enjoy this and also bless it to someone else. FYI don't forget to share.

Some hints on what I have learned this 2020. It's been a year we will all remember most definitely

You know God can say no, but why did he say NO? Ruby and I try to understand this dynamic

We explore the challenges that we face when God says no. Why does he say no anyway. When do you know that he is saying no.

It's not that prayer doesn't work, it's our intentions, our perspective and everything in between. Join me with Ruby and Rosette as we try to navigate the power of prayet

I give you my perspective on peer pressure. Why you should not focus on it and why you are more than the peer pressure around you. Life hands us opportunities and challenges but you have to make the decisions for you not the other way round.

This is Anita reminiscing and thinking about how thirty will be and where she has come from. Just me being me.

We go further in understanding the males perspective on marriage and singleness.

We dig a lot bit deeper into the mans mind and try to understand a mans side and perspective on marriage and their formal single life before marriage

My perspective on this matter with Laura. Some girls like us don't want complicated things. Simplicity also goes a long way. You should try it some time

To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect. Criss Jami, Venus in Arms

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages. Friedrich Nietzsche

“So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday. Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook

I speak to two friends, one an employee and the other an employer and we see what this is all about. As the discussion continues let's normalize this talk in our work spaces. As women how do we go up the ladder but still be allowed to be the women that we are.

If they substituted the word 'Lust' for 'Love' in the popular songs it would come nearer the truth. Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could. Louise Erdrich, The Painted Drum

Conversations with guest host CHARITY MARIE about the joys of making friends over the years, keeping these friends and celebrating them.

It is a PROCESS NOT A DESTINATION! It is the DRIVE NOT WHERE YOU ARE GOING! It's easy to improve your mental wellness knowing that you keep learning more about it and rediscovering more about yourself. There's a lot of great things you can do when your mental state is growing to the better side of life.

Are you single? Did you want to be single? What are you looking for? Are you happy where you are? What are you doing in your journey ?

What goes around comes around. Even if we don't see it. Giving always comes back to you. Basically give to receive.

How do we keep gratitude apart of us? How do we use gratitude to make our lives better? You are not alone in the ups and the downs but let gratitude keep you afloat.

We all are victims of life's challenges and this has made us forget what we dreamed we could achieve. It's not too late either way.

This is basically my start up episode. Let's get comfortable with each other and why I chose to start a podcast