Have you ever woken up and asked your self, what the hell is my life? What is this reality I am living and how in the world did I get here? Welcome to my life darlings! Hi I am Ruthie, I am a 35 yr old sassy Latina, Single AF, I recently lost my dad, and to top that all off I am currently living with my mother! If you would have told me at 25 that this would be my reality at 35 I would have laughed at you. But guess what? This is my Unexpected Reality! Unexpected Reality aims to pull back the curtains and show you the behind the scenes reality that most people go through but won’t talk about. Join me every week as together with some of my closest friends, family members and favorite influencers, we chat about relationships, faith, mental health, grief, finances and so much more to discover what happens behind that pretty Instagram feed and how it affects our daily lives.
Today I am telling you guys all about my car accident last Friday. It was hands down one of the scariest moments of my life, but I am so thankful that I am here to be able to tell you all about it. Worship Song of the Week: Jesus, Take the Wheel by Carrie Underwood Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k
I am back!!! After being MIA for the last few weeks I am back with a new episode and filling you on what's been going on these past few weeks! This episode is a short one, but make sure to tune in next week as we are back with full episodes! Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k
On this weeks episode we are talking about the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement. How we can help and educate ourselves while becoming allies to the black community. My friend Evelyn talks to us about her history with racism, growing up in the black community and what we can all do to improve the current landscape. This week's Worship Song of the Week is: Encourage Yourself by Donald Lawrence and The Tri City Singers Want to help? Check out the following organizations: George Floyd Memorial Fund Minnesota Freedom Fund Reclaim the Block National Bail Out Black Lives Matter Bail Project Black Visions Collective Campaign Zero National Bail Fund Network The Innocent Project Run with Maud Justice for Breonna Equal Justice Initiative Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @evelynelle_ YouTube Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k
This week is extra emotional for me because Friday is the one year anniversary of dad's passing. It's so crazy that its already been a whole year! In today's episode I chat about finding out dad had cancer, how we handled it as a family and how he should us all to live our lives to the max. This week's Worship Song of the Week is Spend a Life by David Dunn Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k
On today's episode we are talking about Mental Health Awareness Month and why I think everyone should be in therapy. How therapy was helped me in some of my hardest seasons, what I have learned and why I keep going. I also give you a little insight into the re-opening of Disney Springs here in FL. This week's Worship Song of the Week is The Breakup Song by Francesca Battistelli Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k
On today's episode we talk to Sabrina Servance, past cast member of Big Women: Big Love and my personal friend. We chat all about her experience on the show, dating in NYC vs Orlando, and meeting her fiancee Addison. In the midst of everything she gives us some great hot tips for dating and some pretty hilarious stories! I also share a little about my obsession of the week the Becoming documentary on Netflix with Michelle Obama and give you a little update on my week. This week's Worship Song of the Week is Oceans by Hillsong Worship Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @sabrinastyled www.sabrinaservance.com Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
On today's episode we are talking to the Influencer Marketing Queen Bee Loraima Tolentino! She is the founder of Abeja Social and is giving us some insight on how her company came to be and her passion story behind it. She also gives me some unexpected dating advice that I am living for and talks to us about how letting God guide her helped her find her purpose in life. This week's Worship Song of the Week is Graves into Gardens by Elevation Worship Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @lorrietino @abejasocial Abeja Social Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Did you know that April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month? In this weeks episode I talk to my sister Christina about how Child Sexual Abuse affected us both. We share our stories, how we found out it happened to one another, how it affected us, and where we are now in our journeys. It's a powerful conversation we have never had until now! I also talk about my TV obsessions of the week, Never Have I Ever and Unorthodox If you our anyone you know is a victim of Sexual Assault and need help, please contact the RAINN hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or via their online chat. This week's Worship Song of the Week is "Nobody" by Casting Crowns feat. Matthew West Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @christinafonseca_ @marypopinsfl Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
This weeks episode is super emotional. In honor of what would have been dad's birthday this Saturday I am talking all about being a daddy's girl and some of the stories I treasure the most. What it was like being considered his soulmate and what the relationship means to me and how it has shaped me into the woman I am today! I also talk about my TV obsession of the week, Too Hot to Handle! This week's Worship Song of the Week is "Oceans" by Hillsong UNITED Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
On today's episode we chat to my friend Christina about her Unexpected Reality, of being 24, divorced and a single mom to 2 little girls. She opes up about her story and how God has been with her through it all. I also chat about my latest obsession "Little Fires Everywhere" Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @christinaadominguezz @lunamiaartistry Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
On this weeks episode we are joined by Jordan and Earl from Elevated Wealth Group and discuss all your financial questions. From budgeting and saving, to tackling that debt and when is the right time to invest. They also give some tips on how to work through your finance in the midst of a pandemic. I take you through what helped me learn more about finance and talk to you guys about David Ramsey and his Financial Peace Course Books and IG Accounts Recommended: The Power of Zero Saving Your Future @earnyourleisure Try Financial Peace! Check out Every Dollar for budgeting Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @wordswiththejem @earlrimple @elevatedwealthgroup Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Today's episode is all about dating in the midst of this crazy pandemic. We have the ladies from Swiped Out Podcast and we are chatting about our favorite dating apps, must do's and no-no's, virtual dates, crazy pick up lines and all the madness in between. I also share my personal experience with dating while in quarantine and how its been going for me so far! We also chat about everyone's current Netflix obsession Tiger King. Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @swipedoutpod @madisonasums @asavvystory Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
This week I am joined by my friends and Clinical Social Worker, Michelle Turner. We are chatting all about Coronavirus and how to manage unexpected anxiety and depression. Michelle shares some tips on how to stay sane and reminds us that we are all on this together! I also chat about my new Netflix obsession Tiger King and give you some suggestions on what to do with all your free time since you should be STAYING HOME!! Check out my Worship Song of the Week Playlist Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @michellemariturner Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Today we have part 2 of our Love Is Blind episode featuring cast members LC Chamblin and Lexie Skipper. On this second part we learn a little bit more of Lexie's journey that we didn't get to see. How her relationship with Westley came to be and where they are now. LC and Lexie also answer some of your burning questions from the show, including their thoughts on Jessica, who they are still friends with and if they believe that Love is Blind. I chat a little bit about the Coronavirus and recommend my worship song of the week which is perfect for the times we are living! The Blessing by Kari Jobe and Cody Carnes Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @123laurenc @lexieskipp Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Welcome to episode number 6! Today we have the lovely Lauren "LC" Chamblin and Lexie Skipper from everyone latest obsession "Love is Blind". I had so much fun doing this interview that we chatted for 2hrs, so we are dividing the episode into two! On today's episode we chat about how they were casted, dating in the pods, who they made a connection with and we dig deeper into LC's relationship with Barnett and everything she learned from that experience. I also give you guys a little recap on the WILD Bachelor finale! This weeks worship song of the week is Faith by Jordan Feliz Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @123laurenc @lexieskipp Thank you guys again for listening as always make sure to Subscribe if you haven't, leave us a rating and a review and share with your friends and family! Finally I would love to hear from you! Send me your questions, suggestions or if you just want to chat, email me at unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
On this weeks episode we have my good friend and work wife, LaRai. We get candid and personal about our vaginas, specifically yeast infections. This episode is hilarious! We share some of the wild at home remedies we have heard about, should you talk to your partner about your yeasty and if its a good idea to have sex while you have one (Spoiler: ITS NOT!) We also play a super steamy round of 20 questions and I recap the best thing on TV at the moment, Love is Blind and talk about our new Bachelorette, Clare Crawley! If you want to try Boric Acid suppositories these are the ones we mentioned: ***Make sure to consult a doctor before using any products you have never used before*** Love Wellness "The Killer" Seroflora Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @lalalalarai Email unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com to send me your feedback, thoughts or if you just want a friend to chat to. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Obsession of the Week: Love is Blind on Nextflix CARLA WILMARIS Finding out she is my long lost neighbor Quitting her job in accounting and becoming a full time podcaster Turning her passion into a business Creating her Idea to Launch Academy Being a single mom to a teenager Rediscovering her faith We played a fun round of 20 questions with Carla. Congratulations to the giveaway winners: Isamar Montanez and Michelle Turner Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @carlawilmaris @shitim30podcast Email unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com to send me your feedback, thoughts or if you just want a friend to chat to. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Welcome to Episode #3!! On today's episode we welcome guest LEOMIL PARILLA and talk about... The birth of his company “Nube” His coming out story Being the son of two moms Embracing your sexuality Rising again after hitting rock bottom Becoming a flight attendant Finding love after heartbreak We played a fun round of 20 questions with Leomil. Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca @leomil Reminder to Subscribe and Review for your chance to win one of 2 $50 Visa Gift Cards. Email us (unexpectedrealitypodcast @gmail.com) a screenshot of your review to enter. Follow us on Instagram for bonus points! @unexpectedrealitypodcast Email unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com to send me your feedback, thoughts or if you just want a friend to chat to. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Welcome to Episode #2! On today's episode we chat with JACKIE AVRUMSON about... Dating in your 20’s vs 30’s Should a guy pick up the bill on a first date? Dating in LA vs. NYC Finding your person and going all in. MUST WATCH TV Haven’t watched Younger on TV Land?! Make sure to catch up before Season 7 Premieres this Summer Connect with us on social media @ruthiefonseca @nycbridalstylist @unexpectedrealitypodcast Reminder to Subscribe and Review for your chance to win one of 2 $50 Visa Gift Cards. Email us (unexpectedrealitypodcast @gmail.com) a screenshot of your review to enter. Follow us on Instagram for bonus points! @unexpectedrealitypodcast Email unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com to send me your feedback, thoughts or if you just want a friend to chat to. Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Welcome to Episode #1!! I am your host Ruthie Fonseca and I am so glad you are here. In today’s episode we'll be chatting about: EXPECTATION VS REALITY Moving to Orlando after hurricane Maria Living a new normal in a city I never thought I would move to Finding out dad’s diagnosis Grieving dad’s death Coming to term with my Unexpected Reality WORSHIP SONG OF THE WEEK When we fall apart by Ryan Stevenson Connect with us on social media @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca GIVEWAY ANNOUNCEMENT! As a huge thank you and to celebrate the launch of Unexpected Reality I will be giving away 2 $50 Visa Gift Cards! All you have to do is Subscribe, Rate and Review the podcast.. Email us (unexpectedrealitypodcast @gmail.com) a screenshot of your review to enter. Follow us on Instagram for bonus points! @unexpectedrealitypodcast Want to Launch your own Podcast? Join Idea to Launch Academy and go from Idea to Launch in 5 weeks! https://ideatolaunchpodcast.teachable.com/courses/idea-to-launch11?affcode=433071_e3qom5k7
Have you ever woken up and asked your self, what the hell is my life? What is this reality I am living and how in the world did I get here? Welcome to my life darlings! This is "Unexpected Reality" a weekly podcast that aims to pull back the curtains and show you the behind the scenes reality that most people go through but won’t talk about. Join your host Ruthie every week, as together with some of her closest friends, family members and favorite influencers, they chat about relationships, faith, mental health, grief, finances and so much more, to discover what happens behind that pretty Instagram feed and how it affects their daily lives. Take this journey together and discover your Unexpected Realities, and learn from others how you can make the best of them and not let them define you. Instagram: @unexpectedrealitypodcast @ruthiefonseca Facebook: @unexpectedrealitypodcast Email: unexpectedrealitypodcast@gmail.com
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