You'll Never Believe This

Have you ever been misunderstood? Misspoken? And done so completely innocently? Well, this is the episode for you. Learn from our mistakes. It's the least we could do for you. And don't forget to laugh. We sure did!

Have you ever had a case of the 'Mondays'? Felt burnt out? How do you push through or reset your meter? Today we're talking about how we 'press on' even when we're not feeling out best.

In the last number of months there have been attacks on Christian Holy sites in Jerusalem. The news reports in America are spinning the narrative that these incidents are due to Israeli government policy. Ralph and I discuss whether or not these anti-non-Jewish sentiments (say that 3X fast) are the norm in the region or if they're the result of fringe groups. We also discuss Joe Rogan's recent statements and what should be classified as antisemitic and what should not. But not to worry, we still have fun!

What do you do every day, without fail? Maybe it's your coffee in the morning. Maybe it's working out. Or maybe even never missing a sunset. Whatever it is, it's part of what makes us who we are and it's something to be proud of. 

Are you still thinking about getting off the grid but need that extra push? We're here for you! In this episode, Ralph talks to one of his first congregants Caroline about her experience unplugging from the daily grind. If you notice it's dated, you're right on track. This was from a wase back during the height of Covid. Enjoy!

Have you ever thought about just taking off? Throwing your cell phone in a pool and leaving it all behind? Well, during Covid, our friend Lauren Fontaine Feehrer took her family and did just that (except the cell phone part). They toured the country. It's quite a story.  On a technical note, we recorded the episode a ways back so get ready to reminisce!

Some people think it's where the heart is. Others think it's where you lay your hat. While still others, it's on the range. But what we can all agree on is there's no place like it. Today, we're delving into what home means to us. So, come on over!

Is there any value in self-deprecation? Are there times when it's helpful? We'll dive into the ins and outs of putting yourself in your place. You never know, you might actually be better off than you think!

Now that we've apologized, can we forgive those who've wronged us? How much do we need others to forgive us for the wrongs we've done? And what happens if forgiveness never comes? Today we talk about how to forgive and be forgiven and how to press on if things never go back to the way they were.

We're back baby!! How hard is it to apologize? Does deserving an apology give us power over those who wronged us? Join us today for Ralph's attempt at making amends with Hayim. What do you think he did? Do you think he'll be forgiven...?

What's the relationship between tangible items and energy? Do crystals have healing power? Does holy water actually do anything better than water? Many of us have ideas that power, energy, and God are only found in living beings. But, what if God was truly among everything in the form of vibrations and energy capable of amazing things. You'll Never Believe this!

We often struggle with whether God is doing one thing at one place at a time, or everywhere always. Either way, what the heck is with natural disasters, disease, murder, and tragic deaths!?!? Huh, God! What's the deal?! Maybe, there's a middle ground to consider how we're a part of helping God create a better world.

What's the balance between things you learned from school and things you learned from life? Are you successful more because of book smarts or street smarts? We talk about how learning beyond your academic focus can really accelerate your career, but also your peace of mind and relationships. STREET SMAHTS!

It's really hard looking back at who I used to be and what I used to do without being embarrassed, ashamed, or resentful. Yet, young Ralphy made me the Ralph I'm proud of today. Lets talk about how we incorporate our experiences into a whole-person view that is healthier.

What makes you overwhelmingly anxious? Like tight chest, deep headaches, sweats, on the floor anxious? How in the world do we get out of that? More importantly what makes us vulnerable to those anxiety attacks. Well, we'll talk about them today...but, dot may not be that much help.

You asked. We answered! Here are some unbelievable answers to some believable questions. Got questions? Email us: ynbtpod@gmail.com

There are definitely people who disagree with you. How do we offer tolerance to those we disagree with and where's the boundary? We talk about transgender bishops, the violence in Israel, and loving our neighbors today as a way to bring different people together in mutual respect rather than division. 

We talk so much ABOUT people we disagree with but very rarely talk WITH them. There's a cancel culture more interested in tearing people down than they are in helping grow and change people. How do we be direct and respectful? And when will they release a Hamlet musical?

No religion is perfect! What annoys you about religion? Those things bug us too. Let's talk about them and how to move past them. Or not.

What would it mean for you to feel completely free? Is freedom ever truly achievable or is it just a myth? Lets talk more

It took Jamie 10,000 hours to land one surf trick over the course of twenty years! And we've only got 9,956 hours of podcasting until we've mastered it according to Malcolm Gladwell. In his book, Outliers, he proposes it takes 10,000 hours to master a skill or craft. Today we discuss how valuable and worthwhile those hours are.

Hayim and Ralph try to convert one another to the other's religion. Boy! This could get one of us fired.

You asked, unfortunately we answered. Enjoy the randomness and banter.

Our fabricated "expert" opinion on vaccines

We all have intense experiences and stories about music. Music has the ability to meet our emotions intimately, connect us to massive amounts of people, and warp our consciousness into the past. In our language, that's a spiritual experience. Let's talk more about the unbelievable power of music.   Don't forgot to like, subscribe, share and follow us https://www.facebook.com/YoullNeverBelieveThis https://www.instagram.com/ynbtpod/   Show notes:  Keter Malchot, Yishai Ribo https://music.apple.com/us/album/%D7%9B%D7%AA%D7%A8-%D7%9E%D7%9C%D7%95%D7%9B%D7%94-single/1505531283  

How do you handle stress effectively without imploding? Covid, the election, and 2020 in general has really added to all our anxiety and limited our outlets. Let's talk about what else might help

How do we represent ourselves proud of the religions, ethnicities, and lifestyles that make us unique without offending other people? Today we discuss the nuances of claiming religion. Also, Jamie tries to avoid divulging the embarrassing details of his toilet water fetish, gets the name of his own podcast wrong, and hopes you think all Jews surf 100 ft waves.

It seems the world has forgotten how to disagree and still get along. There's a lot of hate speech, slander, and plain nastiness going around. Let's talk about how to disagree well and still treat others with dignity and respect.    Don't forgot to like, subscribe, share and follow us https://www.facebook.com/YoullNeverBelieveThis https://www.instagram.com/ynbtpod/   Show notes:  Arnold Schwarzenegger's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_P-0I6sAck   Dave Chappelle's acceptance speech I 2019 Mark Twain Prize https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aeYA72NLaDE&feature=youtu.be

We honor the life, death, and legacy of Martin Luther King Jr today remembering his words, "“NEVER, NEVER BE AFRAID TO DO WHAT'S RIGHT, ESPECIALLY IF THE WELL-BEING OF A PERSON OR ANIMAL IS AT STAKE. SOCIETY'S PUNISHMENTS ARE SMALL COMPARED TO THE WOUNDS WE INFLICT ON OUR SOUL WHEN WE LOOK THE OTHER WAY.”    Follow us https://www.facebook.com/YoullNeverBelieveThis https://www.instagram.com/ynbtpod/   Quotes from MLK: The Autobiography of Martin Luther King Jr. Edited by Clayborne Carson   Chris Rock's Standup Special on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81397260?s=i&trkid=13747225&t=amsg

Come find out how and why Ralph became a pastor out in California.

Today we wrestle with the balance between larger corporations and supporting local businesses; along with how we've lost the interpersonal nature of life due to cancel culture, usership entitlement and on-demand content. 

How do you get back up and try again after massive failures? Surfers do this EVERY SINGLE SESSION! What can we learn from mistakes, setbacks, and struggles? And what bad practices keep us from getting back up.

Like the great Jewish superhero Spiderman says, "With great power comes great responsibility." Leaders face constant assumptions, expectations, and backlash. This is especially true during tough decision like responding to covid. Join us as we discuss the burden of leadership and ways to help not get overwhelmed by the pressure

Jamie and Ralph got to interview coach, guide, author, and friend, Rich Curtis today! You'll love his humor and insight to changing your life through stories about yourself. Check out the episode then visit http://www.richcurtis.com/ for more on him.

Ever wonder why you're chronically tired, or not feeling fully energized? There is a rhythm of work and rest baked into the universe called sabbath. It's the need to completely recharge apart from productivity, efficiency, earning money. Sabbath is about finding your worth in who you are, not just what you do. 

The Supreme Court just intervened to overturn NY Gov Cuomo's coronavirus restrictions on houses of worship. Who makes these rules? Why are governors and judges getting involved? Today we discuss how leaders conduct themselves with the best interest of health, law, and safety in mind during this pandemic.

Ever wonder what makes surfing so special? Many of us believe surfing is an unparalleled spiritual experience. Today we discuss why, tell surf stories, and explore the rush of riding waves.

Ever wonder why Jamie became a rabbi. Wonder no more! All the juicy details on today's episode

Jewish Holidays, RGB RIP, and Comedy

Today is election day and we have the most ridiculous and hilarious political rant for you to take a break from all the conflict! This is meant to be comical. Don't take it seriously.

Today we'll discuss how religion and faith should and should not be involved in the legal system using Amy Coney's Barrett's appointment to the supreme court as an example.

Check out a clip from our very first episode of You'll Never Believe This!

Jewish mothers, stand-up nostalgia, and the art of preaching.