Boyz!

This week I sit down to chat with Jo Ryder abut the work she does in;Porn AddictionGender Identity Support Fetishes and much more! Get in touch with Jo here: Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a 5 star review? x) 

This week I sat down with The Relationship Coach, Annie Lavin. Who is Annie? Relationship Challenges to Personal GrowthAccredited Relationship TherapistImage.ie Advice ColumnistPodcast: The Love LifeGet your place at The Art of Attraction by Clicking here!Follow Annie on Instagram by clicking here! Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a 5 star review? x) 

Disclaimer: In this weeks podcast, myself and Maggie touch on subjects relating to childhood trauma that some listeners might find upsetting. If you think that you might fall into this category, I'd suggest listening to another episode of 'Boyz!' that covers a lighter subject. Mentioned Websites:The Psychological Society of Ireland  https://www.psychologicalsociety.ieIrish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy https://www.iacp.ieClick here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a 5 star review? x) 

This week, find out what attachment style you are with my quiz. Following this, I also give a brief introduction on attachment theory and explain the 4 different attachment styles and what causes each behaviour to form. Mix - Liam Yelen in Screen Scene Post Production. Click here for Referenced Podcast. Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a follow? x) 

Mentioned podcast: Purusha Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a follow? x) 

This week I discuss, Irish house party horror stories, fetishes and the importances of keeping boundaries. I also answer listeners questions on how to communicate how you feel about someone in the early stages and how to set a romantic date. Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a follow? x) 

Here is part 2 of my interview with Sinead O'Connell, a mum of 4 who runs the OnlyFans account, '@sincitysinead' and is the star of the award winning short film, 'Call Me Mommy'. Click here for Sinead's Linktree Click here for Referenced controversial interview conducted on Opinions Matter Podcast (2:08 - 26:30) Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a follow? x) *Disclaimer, we do touch on body dysmorphia so if you think that this episode might not be suitable for you, then I would suggest listening to another episode of Boyz! podcast. 

This week I sit down with Sinead O'Connell, a mum of 4 who runs the OnlyFans account, '@sincitysinead' and is the star of the award winning short film, 'Call Me Mommy'. Click here for Sinead's Linktree Click here for Boyz! Linktree (Be sound, gimme a follow? x) 

This week I fill you in on where I've been for the past year and if you want to know more, you'll just have to listen. ;) Enjoy my loves x 

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This week I sit down with singer, song writer, producer and composer, AILSHA to discuss everything from the inspiration for her songs, 'F Boy' and 'The Disaster Song' to her current and past love life. Enjoy x Click here for AILSHA's link. Click here for tickets to the mentioned gig at Workman's. Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

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Not sure you're all ready for this weeks episode!! Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

Click here for a video on Jordyn Wood's red table talk. Click here for a video on Will Smith's red table talk. Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

This week I answer your questions. Enjoy you sexy sexy people.Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

I run through my top toxic reality TV couples today, enjoy. x See Heidi's surgery reveal here See Ronnie and Sammie fight hereSee Vicki Pattinson on the 'Ex on the beach here'Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

This week, I sit down with Shelly BJ's to to chat about everything from 'OnlyFans!', working in a lap dancing club and dating. Check out her Linktree here.Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

This week I read you a diary entry and discuss whether I think it's okay to fuck on the first date or not... enjoy

I got dumped guys! Join me while I talk about handling my latest heartbreak and also, reflect on why you should never take an ex back following my own experiences. Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

This week I review the Netflix documentary, 'The Tinder Swindler', which was directed by Felicity Morris. I also take a look at a similar case that's been in the media lately which is all too close to home. Click here to read the full article on Catriona Carey. Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page. 

Join me as I recall my most embarrassing dating story to date. I will say one thing though, I HELD THIS ONE IN for a long time and was very RELIEVED after RELEASING it ;) Enjoy x Click here for Linktree.Click here for Paradise Studio Instagram page.

In this episode, I talk about the perspective of many listeners who wrote into me admitting that they had led people on but wanted to explain things from the other perspective. I spoke my truth, now it's time to explore theirs. Enjoy x 

We're back in business baby! You are very welcome to season 2. I take a look at hold and cold behaviour and how to know when you're being pen-palled and more importantly, what to do in this situation! BEWARE: This episode contains hard hitting advice that some of you might not be ready to hear but need to! Enjoy x 

This week I dissect the Irish dating scene with co-founder, director and match maker at INTRO Match Making Agency, Feargal Harrington.For more on INTRO Match Making Agency, click here!Check out Paradise Studio on Instagram. Check out Boyz on Instagram for episode teasers x 

This week I answer some of your questions. Enjoy, my loves xCheck out Paradise Studio on Instagram. Check out Boyz on Instagram for episode teasers x 

Myself and my friend Niamh discuss everything first impressions and dissect if they really are everything. Niamh being an absolute wealth of knowledge and awareness brought some incredible points and life lessons to the table. This girl KNOWS what she is talking about and her advice is second to none. Enjoy my loves x Check out Paradise Studio on Instagram. Check out Boyz on Instagram for episode teasers x 

The real effects that chasing someone has on you and on them broken down. Enjoy my loves x Check out Paradise Studio on Instagram. Check out Boyz on Instagram for episode teasers x Cited article. 

This week, I chat all things Astrology with a very special guest. Enjoy my lovelies xCheck out @Paradise__91 over on Instagram!Mentioned Links: Click here for Rabit Hole Podcast on Apple Podcast (for other Podcast hosting sites, simply search 'Rabit Hole') Click here for access to the app co-star on Apple! (for other devices, just search 'Co-Star'Click Here for The Netflix documentary mentioned!

This week I fill you in on what's been happening in my dating life over the past month. Sorry for teasing you for so long my loves. x Follow me over on Instagram - @Boyz.podcastCheck out Paradise Studio's Instagram page - @Paradise__91

I answer your questions:Q 1. Bit personal but do you also date women and if so, will you be talking about it on the podcast?Q 2. Is it okay to date a friends ex and not tell them until I'm certain it's going to go somewhere?Q 3. Going to message in my question because it's a longish one.. basically I got with one of my brothers friends.. we were seeing each other on the dl for a few weeks and he's after finding out about it! He won't speak to me, literally won't even look at me and it's such a shit atmosphere around the house! We havnt spoke a word to each other in over a week! Am I in the wrong? Enjoy my loves xFind us on Instagram @paradise___91 and @boyz.podcast

Me and Michaela read out your icks! Thanks for not holding back guys. ;) Catch Michaela on Instagram by clicking here! 

Bilquismoon returns to the podcast to fill us in on what life is like as a stripper. For more on Harley, check her out on Instagram, Bilquismoon! This podcast is recorded in Paradise Studio (Instagram Paradise__91). Enjoy x 

This week I answered your questions. 1. "It's been 3 years and I'm still not over the one who got away, he wants to meet up for some fun, should I go?"  2."I've been on several dates with a guy and he hasn't tried to have sex with me. How would you approach the situation?" 3."I've been seeing a girl who has 2 massive huskies. Whenever we're having sex, they come into the room and watch and it makes me really uncomfortable. What would you do?" 4. Would you be put off if you found out that the person you were dating drank 2 litres of coke a day?" 5. "Does size truly matter?" and 6. "Is it acceptable to have sex with someone while they're on drugs and you're not?" While answering question one, I referenced Russell Brand's Advice on Rejection. 

This weeks episode outlines science backed tips on how to ensure a successful date! It also dishes the suss on how to know when you are turning someone ON or OFF on a date! I run through them while tying in my own experience.  This episode was inspired by a piece produced by Science of People.

This week, I go through your cringe dating stories, while tying in my own experience and advice. Enjoy x 

This week I answer your questions. It's called 12.5 because Cian is superstitious btw! Enjoy x 

When it comes to romantic decisions, do you lead with your head or your heart?

For this weeks episode, I sat down with Instagrammer, @Bilquismoon to chat all things OnlyFans! and her experience in the sex industry. This woman is beyond beautiful inside and out and so interesting to talk to. I can't for you all to hear what she had to say. I also couldn't resist divulging juicy details about my current sex life. I promise you, you'll enjoy this one, you saucy saucy devils ;) x 

In this weeks episode, I answer your questions, specifically exploring how to get over dick fright and gave my advise on how a listener can move on healthily after experiencing an ultimate betrayal at the hands of her man and a close friend! 

In this weeks episode, I discuss my experience in dating non Irish Boyz and my hatred of all things PDA. 

I pin point why it hurts to get led on so much and how to move on healthily. 

In this weeks episode I speak about the importance of confidence and self assurance whilst dating. While exploring the topic, I look back at a time in my life when I wasn't self assured and how this effected my dating relationships and the treatment I accepted from others. 

In this weeks episode, I discuss my experience in dating men younger and older than me. I also explore women age shaming other women for dating below their age and a time that I was labelled a cougar.   I also talk about maturity and times I was publicly  embarrassed on dates by men who were older but acted like they were infants. This episode also brought about my own confession of ghosting. Whoopsie! Don't shoot me ;)Produced by Cian Tisdall in Paradise Studio. 

Let's talk about dirty talk! I also explore how I moved on from, the one that got away, what it taught me and how to move on healthily. I also discuss the dumping of a life time, which happened in public. Get ready to cringe! 

*Disclaimer If you or a loved one are currently in an abusive relationship, or perhaps are not sure and need more information, you can contact the following services for support and more information. Men's Aid -  (01) 554 3811 Women's Aid - 1800 341 900Alternatively, you can click on either mentioned above to go through to their websites for contact details and further information.Both the interviewer and the interviewee are not experts in this field. This episode includes a discussion with a victim of abuse who details their experiences and may be upsetting to some listeners. If you don't think that you are in the mental head space to listen to this episode, we strongly recommend not to. On behalf of Boyz! podcast, we would also like to highlight that this is no way an attack on the male gender and we recognize that it is not gender specific. Abuse in relationships exists amongst all genders. This episode details warning signs, how to navigate abusive relations and recovery so is very informative. 

This week I dissect why it hurts so much to be rejected. I also break down how to move on healthily and see the situation for what it is, from a birds eye perspective. Of course, all while tying in my own stories of rejection and how it effected me in the moment and then, in the long run.

In this episode I talk about scenarios where I discovered that I was the other woman and how I was confronted by NoName Boyz girlfriend! I also explore the importance of trusting your intuition and the best way to act and manoever your way through a situation when somebodies being shady. 

Welcome to the official podcast, Boyz! hosted by me, Aisling Tobin. This podcast is brought to you by producer, Cian Tisdall at Paradise Studios. In episode 1, I give you a run down on what is to be expected throughout the series and unravel the 6 Tell Tale signs that you are being led on, while tying in my own experience stemming from my dating addiction. I also revisit a painful memory involving the distribution of my nude content while studying in Sligo IT.