Podcasts about attachment styles

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Business breakups and friendship dissolutions don't get talked about enough in the online space — yet these are the wounds that cut the deepest and take the longest to recover from. Losing someone who you once built ideas with, dreamed with, planned with, trusted with your fears… hits the nervous system differently than a romantic breakup.    In today's conversation, I'm joined by Psychologist and Attachment Style Expert Dr. Morgan Anderson — and we're talking about the silent trauma of losing friendships and partners you once shared your vision with.    TIFFANY CARTER RESOURCES MENTIONED:    My Exclusive 2-Month Private Business & Money Coaching Program: APPLY HERE  *at this level, I only take 4 clients at a time    ProjectME Posse Business & Money Coaching Membership Details + Join HERE    Connect with Tiff:  Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany   Tiffany on TikTok @projectme_with_tiffany  Tiffany on YouTube: ProjectME TV  Tiffany's FREE Abundance Email Community: JOIN HERE > The Secret Posse     DR. MORGAN ANDERSON RESOURCES:  Instagram: @drmorgancoaching  Podcast: Let's Get Vulnerable   Free Attachment Style Quiz HERE    Inside this episode, we unpack:    > Why the loss of a business friend can feel like identity collapse
  > How attachment styles play out professionally, not just romantically
  > The psychological reason betrayal from a friend hurts more than betrayal from a romantic partner
  > The nervous system imprint that happens when someone you trusted "switches on you"
  > How to separate who YOU are… from what their decision says about THEM
  > Why high-achieving women are more prone to friendship breakups during seasons of expansion
    > How the body grieves business dissolutions even when the mind says "it's for the best"
  > What unresolved childhood wounds get reactivated when a business bond shatters  > How to rebuild self-trust after someone you loved or respected uses access to harm you    This is a validating, honest, deeply needed conversation for any entrepreneur who has walked through the pain of losing a relationship that once held meaning — and who wants to understand what that rupture does to your body, your safety, your trust, and your business. 

Ever wondered what it's like to go from a tiny hamlet in England to the heart of Manhattan—and then channel all those big feelings into powerful, honest music? On this episode of Bringin' It Backwards, Adam Lisicky sits down with Ella Rosa, an artist whose journey might just inspire you to rethink what's possible. Ella opens up about her move from Reading, England to New York City at age eleven, tackling the culture shock and homesickness that shaped so much of her early songwriting. She shares how classical training, opera, and musical theater led her to top-lining EDM tracks in New York's nightlife scene—sometimes sneaking out of the house to perform in clubs before she was even old enough to drive. From writing in packed studios as the only girl in the room to forging her own path with deeply personal songs, Ella paints a vivid picture of what it means to stay true to yourself as an artist. They dive into the release and impact of her breakthrough EP, Anxious Attachment Style, and chat about her latest singles—plus why she's obsessed with making music that makes you feel something and throwing parties that bring LA together. Whether you're figuring out your sound or just need a boost of creative affirmation, this conversation shows how embracing your weirdness is often the secret sauce in moving forward. Don't miss this candid, insightful episode—hit subscribe to Bringin' It Backwards and listen as Ella Rosa reflects on her rise, her honesty, and what she wishes every young artist knew.

Today we dive into the mind of an avoidant- - what makes them shut down? - what are the thinking when they shut down? - what are the feeling when they have the urge to run away or shut down? - why do they walk away? And what you and your partner can do to save your relationship. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

In this episode (originally aired on 5/8/24), I sit down with clinical psychologist, Dr. Jaclyn Nofech-Mozes, to discuss all things parent-child attachment, why we all have the tools to attain secure attachment, and why we can't be perfect parents. Jaclyn explains the four attachment styles, the primary components of secure attachment, and what “rupture and repair” means. She also shares why it's essential to know your “shark music” as a parent, whether sleep training, breastfeeding, and daycare/nannies affect attachment, and how child attachment changes with age. Finally, she discusses fostering secure attachment with your child as the non-birthing parent, the impact of maternal mental health on attachment, and how we can initiate repair if there has been a rupture.Key Takeaway / Points:Dr. Nofech-Mozes' background as a clinical psychologistWhat is parent-infant attachment?On the four attachment stylesWhy we don't need to be the perfect parentThe primary components of secure attachmentOn “rupture and repair”On recognizing your “shark music”Whether sleep training, breast feeding, and daycare/nannies affect attachmentHow child attachment changes with ageHow you can develop a secure attachment with your child if you had an insecure attachment with a parent growing upOn fostering attachment with the non-birthing partnerWhy some mothers feel that “instant bond” and others don'tOn the impact of maternal mental health on attachmentAdvice for how to initiate repairWatch this episode on YouTube HEREDr. Jaclyn Nofech-Mozes practice: OrKid PyschologyFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersYoutube: Cameron Rogers

In this episode, we dive into Part 2 of the Love Is Blind Season 9 recap and let me tell you, it's a juicy one. This isn't just reality TV talk. It's about self-awareness, emotional regulation, and real relationship growth. We're unpacking what Love Is Blind teaches us about attachment styles, boundaries, and what truly creates lasting love.Inside the episode:

️ Grab the 5-day INFP tutorial and join 5,000+ people getting rare weekly insights → http://geekpsychology.com/infp-5day▶️ Ready to go deeper? Check out the Evolve Community at http://evolve.geekpsychology.comMost people think they want deep connection—until old patterns show up. You chase, pull back, shut down. Sound familiar?In this conversation with neuroscientist and author Dr. Dario Nardi, we break down the 9 attachment styles (not just the basic 4) and how your Myers-Briggs type secretly influences the way you love, trust, and sabotage relationships.Whether you're an INFP stuck in the push-pull cycle, an INTJ lone wolf, or an ENFJ anxious pursuer, this video will help you finally understand why you keep repeating the same patterns—and what you can actually do about it.We cover:• The 4 classic attachment styles (and why they're incomplete)• The expanded 9-style model with your personality type's "home base"• Why gender socialization vs. type creates inner conflict• Defense mechanisms that keep you blind to your own pattern• The shocking stat about how many people struggle with this• Real therapeutic tools that work (EMDR, somatic practices, and more)If you've ever felt confused about why relationships feel so hard, this is your roadmap. Resources mentioned:• "Learning Love" by Thais Gibson (https://amzn.to/47mlBvx)• Elena Wolf (therapeutic consultant) (https://www.ilenewolf.com/) Chapters:Let's figure this out together. Drop a comment with your type and attachment style—I read them all.0:00 - Why Deep Connection Feels Impossible3:55 - What Your Ex Sees That You Don't4:51 - The One Question That Reveals Everything6:07 - The 4 Styles Everyone Gets Wrong6:25 - What Makes Someone 'Securely Attached'?8:15 - The Attachment Style That Confuses Everyone10:44 - Why You Can't See Your Own Pattern26:09 - The Lone Wolf's Secret28:31 - The Player's Secret Emotional Avoidance30:05 - Why INFPs Feel Everything (And Run Away)32:27 - When Stoic Becomes Your Survival Mode32:59 - The Controller: The Style Nobody Mentions34:40 - The Caretaker's Invisible Trap39:19 - Gender vs. Personality: Which Controls You More?41:55 - Your Type's Secret Relationship Weakness1:04:18 - How to Actually Heal (Not Just Understand)1:05:30 - The Childhood Wound You're Still Protecting1:08:34 - Why Talk Therapy Isn't Enough1:18:16 - The Stat That Changes How You Date1:19:18 - The Relationship Hierarchy That Changes EverythingTools Used (Affiliate Links):Video and audio editing is easy with Descript: https://descript.cello.so/xEAztGmHclI

Dr. Alexandra is in-studio with her husband, Todd, for this special two-part conversation about loving across potentially dealbreaking differences. Inspired by the Netflix show, Nobody Wants This, starring Kristen Bell and Adam Brody, Dr. Alexandra and Todd reflect on navigating a faith difference, with Dr. Alexandra ultimately converting to Judaism in preparation for their marriage. They discuss the larger question: how can a couple go about navigating ANY potentially dealbreaking difference? You'll hear their reflections on Dr. Alexandra's decision to convert to Judaism, as they discuss the implications of being the 'sacrificing partner' versus the one being 'sacrificed for'. You will also hear how attachment differences and family of origin dynamics impacted their relationship and what they've learned from it all over the years. You'll come away from this episode with:A deeper understanding of how interfaith dynamics can enrich or challenge relationships.Insights into the importance of communication in overcoming differences.Practical advice on navigating family of origin roles and attachment styles to enhance relationship intimacy.Resources worth mentioning from the episode:Reimagining Love Episode, Love Stories: Toddcast https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/love-stories-toddcast/Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass:  http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Welcome back to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast! In this long-awaited two-part series, I break down Love Is Blind Season 9 through the lens of attachment theory and real-world relationship psychology. In Part 1, I dive deep into three of this season's most talked-about couples, Jordan & Meg, Joe & Madison, and Nick & Annie and unpack the attachment style dynamics, emotional patterns, and compatibility clashes that played out on screen. Whether you've seen the show or not, you're going to see your own relationship lessons reflected here.Inside the Episode:Jordan & Meg - Why emotional safety alone isn't enough if your lifestyles and core values don't align.Joe & Madison - The painful reality of the anxious-avoidant dance and how self-rejection often masquerades as romance.Nick & Annie - Fantasy relationships, love bombing, and what it really takes to build a secure connection after the honeymoon phase fades.If you're ready to stop re-living the same dating patterns and actually become the securely attached version of you, this is your moment. The Empowered.Secure.Loved Relationship Program is closing applications this year, and spots are filling fast. This is the last chance to work with me and rewire your attachment style for good.

In this episode of Headcanon, the podcast where we psychoanalyze your favorite fictional stories until they feel a bit too real, we dive deep into the hit psychological thriller YOU and unpack the twisted perspective of Joe Goldberg and his thought processes. Why do some root for Joe even when he crosses the line of morality? How does the show mirror real-world attachment dynamics and toxic love cycles? Join us as we mix pop culture with psychology- analyzing love, control, and connection!   Podcast Cover by Dime Pierson

This week, we explore two popular relationship topics: attachment styles and love languages, while addressing common myths and sharing helpful insights. Get ConnectedGeneral information on Mental Health Services at UHSTo schedule an Access Appointment, call 608-265-5600 (option 2) or log into MyUHS.Our intro and outro music is ‘Storybook' by Scott Holmes:scottholmesmusic.com

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Jillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded, compassionate way to understand why we love, cling, or pull away. Jillian shares personal insights into how she healed her own attachment wounds and explains the deeper influences of culture, family conditioning, trauma, and life context on our relationships. This is your guide to moving beyond “anxious” or “avoidant” and toward true emotional security and connection. Download Jillian's FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I recently had the incredible opportunity to sit down with a though leader and powerful woman on The Reset with Stefanie. We had a beautiful conversation that left me feeling inspired and hopeful for the future of relationships as we know them. Listen as we discuss how self-awareness and maintenance can be our greatest relationship influencers — and how small shifts in understanding can change everything.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-25-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants have a habit of resurfacing after breakups — sometimes weeks, sometimes months later — leaving their partners wondering why. But the real reason they come back runs much deeper than nostalgia or loneliness. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the true emotional mechanics behind why Dismissive Avoidants return after a breakup. You'll discover how delayed emotional processing, fear cycles, and subconscious associations drive their behavior — and how to respond in a way that protects your boundaries and emotional wellbeing. You'll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants process relationship pain on a delay ✅ How “feelings minus fears” influence their pull-back and return cycles ✅ Why distance can temporarily dissolve their fears and reignite feelings ✅ What to look for when they reach out between genuine reconnection vs. surface contact ✅ How to protect your boundaries and avoid getting stuck in an emotional loop ✅ The key to truly healing from a breakup is meeting your own needs and rewriting painful stories Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:20 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Don't Process Their Hurt Around Relationships in a Normal Way 01:41 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are in Their Feelings Minus Their Fears 02:35 – Other Surface-Level Reasons 02:59 – Step 1: Are They Willing to Do the Work to Reconnect? 03:37 – Step 2: Heal the Needs That the Person Represented 04:43 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:27 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

If you've ever wondered why you over-give to keep the peace, shut down to stay “strong,” or feel that push-pull of wanting closeness but fearing it—your attachment style is likely running the show behind the scenes.In this episode, I'm joined by Jessica Baum, therapist and author of Anxiously Attached and Safe. We break down attachment theory in real, everyday terms—how early experiences shape the way you love, what “secure” actually feels like in your body, and how to move from survival patterns to safe, connected relationships.We're diving into:✔️ The 4 attachment patterns (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)—and why most of us are blends depending on the person and season✔️ How anxious people-pleasing/self-abandonment and avoidant “I'm fine” independence form—and practical steps to heal (interoception, anchoring relationships, and rupture & repair)✔️ Raising (and re-raising) secure: what kids need now, why it's never too late to repair, and the role of friendship/community in feeling safeIf you're ready to stop waiting for the other shoe to drop and start feeling secure from the inside out—this conversation is for you.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-24-25&el=podcast Walking away from a Fearful Avoidant can feel like abandoning the person you love most. But in reality, being willing to walk away is what creates safety, self-respect, and healing for both people involved. In this video, Thais Gibson explains why walking away from a Fearful Avoidant isn't rejection — it's regulation. You'll learn how distance restores emotional balance, how it triggers subconscious accountability, and why this boundary can actually deepen real love and long-term connection. You'll learn: ✅ Why Fearful Avoidants often respect partners who set boundaries ✅ How nervous system regulation and space create transformation ✅ The neuroscience behind attachment ruptures and emotional reset ✅ How calling out unhealthy patterns builds trust rather than destroys it ✅ What “walking away” really means, and how to do it without threats or ultimatums ✅ Why this space is essential for genuine reconciliation and growth Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:08 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Like to Be Called Out 03:41 – 2. It Signals Self-Respect 04:27 – The Neuroscience Behind Taking Space From Stress 06:14 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 07:14 – 3. Fearful Avoidants Respond Well to Emotional Accountability.  08:08 – 4. This Makes a Genuine Reunion Possible 09:37 – Ancient Wisdom on Detachment 10:43 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-23-25&el=podcast When your birthday comes and your Dismissive Avoidant partner barely acknowledges it, it can feel like they just don't care. But what's really happening underneath that silence isn't usually indifference — it's emotional conditioning and self-protection at play. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down why Dismissive Avoidants seem to ignore birthdays or special occasions, and what's actually going on in their subconscious mind and nervous system. You'll discover the neuroscience behind emotional suppression, how early experiences shape avoidant reactions, and what you can do to respond with both compassion and self-respect. You'll learn:  ✅ The 5 key psychological reasons Dismissive Avoidants pull away on important days  ✅ How childhood emotional neglect shapes their response to celebration and intimacy  ✅ What brain studies reveal about emotional suppression, empathy, and joy  ✅ Why Avoidants minimize birthdays, and what it really says about their attachment wounds  ✅ How to communicate your needs clearly without triggering defensiveness  ✅ When to stay compassionate and when to recognize a pattern that won't change Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:09 – 1. Emotional Intimacy Feels Unsafe for Dismissive Avoidants 03:34 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Often Feel a Sense of Learned Helplessness  04:23 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants and Emotional Detachment 06:01 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 06:48 – 3. They Think Emotional Neediness is a Sign of Weakness 08:03 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Fear Expectation  08:54 – 5. They Never Experience Consistent Emotional Celebrations 09:50 – If You're on the Receiving End  12:13 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Support the showHeal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles and start thriving in life and love. Let's connect: https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call Welcome to Trauma Bonding to Secure Relationships with Dr Sarah — the podcast that helps ambitious individuals and couples heal trauma bonding and toxic relationship cycles to build secure attachments and loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Dr Sarah, psychologist, relationship strategist, and founder of Heal Trauma Bonding and Relationship Success Lab, this show guides you through practical tools and deep insights on: ✅ Healing from trauma bonding, anxious attachment style, and codependency ✅ Building emotional resilience and secure attachment styles a✅ Improving communication, empathy, and emotional intimacy✅ Reclaiming your identity, boundaries, and self-worth✅ Creating lasting relationship happiness and passion Whether you're recovering from betrayal, navigating codependency, or simply ready to break free from the past, this podcast gives you the clarity, strength, and strategy to move forward We hope you got massive value from this episode for your own healing and relationship progress. However if you do want to discuss your situation further, click here https://calendly.com/relationshipsuccesslab-info/discovery-call LinkedIn: Dr Sarah (Alsawy...

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Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-22-25&el=podcast If you've ever felt like you're speaking a different language when trying to connect with a Dismissive Avoidant partner, you're not wrong. They process emotions, safety, and closeness differently at both the neurological and subconscious levels, which can make even simple conversations feel confusing or one-sided. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals how to communicate so an Avoidant actually hears you, without triggering withdrawal or shutdown. You'll learn the five key principles that transform connection, backed by neuroscience and attachment theory, plus how to stay calm and secure while getting your needs met. You'll learn: ✅ The 5 keys to communicating with a Dismissive Avoidant, without chasing or pressuring ✅ How to speak to their subconscious mind so they actually feel safe opening up ✅ The neuroscience behind why Avoidants pull away when emotions run high ✅ The difference between emotional expression and logical communication — and how to balance both ✅ How to frame your needs without sounding like an ultimatum ✅ Why timing, tone, and body language matter more than words ✅ Practical scripts to get your Avoidant partner to listen and respond Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:53 – 1. Communicate Your Feelings in a Logical, Factual Way 04:29 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:07 – 2. Use Timing Properly 07:07 – The Neuroscience Behind Avoidants and Connection 09:06 – 3. State Your Needs  09:47 – 4. Leave It Open-Ended 11:04 – 5. Timebox When Asking the Dismissive Avoidant for Something 13:46 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://PolarityQuiz.comSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjoying rSupport the show

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-21-25&el=podcast Dating a Dismissive Avoidant can change you — sometimes in ways you don't even realize. Over time, their emotional distance can actually condition your brain to link love with withdrawal, connection with uncertainty, and safety with space.  In this video, Thais Gibson shares seven ways dating a Dismissive Avoidant can affect you permanently, and how to recognize if these changes are already happening. You'll learn the hidden psychological and neurological patterns that shape your attachment style and how to rewire them through awareness, self-trust, and healing practices. You'll learn: ✅ How dating an Avoidant can subconsciously train your brain to fear closeness ✅ Why you may start questioning your worth or silencing your needs ✅ The neuroscience behind rejection, distance, and emotional pain ✅ How over-functioning and hypervigilance reinforce unhealthy dynamics ✅ What to do if your relationship is starting to impact your self-worth or boundaries ✅ How to tell when growth is mutual — and when it's time to walk away Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:33 – 1. You Begin to Question Your Own Worth in This Relationship 03:13 – 2. You May Learn to Suppress Your Needs Even Further 03:41 – The Neuroscience Behind Emotional Rejection and Isolation 04:47 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:32 – 3. You May Overfunction Emotionally in This Relationship  08:20 – 4. You May Find Yourself Being Even More Hypervigilant  09:03 – 5. You Lose Touch With Secure Love 09:46 – 6. You'll See Yourself Dismissing Your Own Boundaries 10:28 – 7. You Feel Stressed More Often 11:21 – If You're the Only One Doing the Work  12:43 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration 14:28 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

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Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the same kinds of relationships—or why certain dynamics show up in both your personal life and your business?    In this episode, Nicole sits down with Jessica Baum, a 2/4 Pure Generator, licensed psychotherapist, and bestselling author of Anxiously Attached, to unpack the hidden patterns that shape how we connect, love, and lead. Jessica shares insights from her upcoming book Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, and together they explore how understanding attachment theory can become a roadmap for healing and creating more fulfilling connections. Through heartfelt stories and clear explanations, Jessica breaks down the four main attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and shows how these early patterns influence our adult lives. She explains how attachment wounds live in the body, shaping our nervous system responses and influencing the way we handle love, conflict, and even success. Nicole brings in the lens of Human Design, connecting the energetic and emotional aspects of our patterns to how we show up in our relationships and careers. Jessica and Nicole also talk about what true healing looks like: learning to feel safe in your body, finding supportive relationships that help regulate your nervous system, and honoring the coping mechanisms—or “protectors”—that once kept you safe.  If you've ever felt stuck in repeating cycles or longed for more ease in your relationships, this episode will help you see that transformation is possible.  Listen now!   Learn more about your Human Design and get your full chart for free at https://www.nicolelaino.com/chart   To download the Secret Podcast on how to Build & Scale Your Business with Human Design click here: nicolelaino.com/secretpodcast  Connect with Jessica Baum: - Visit her website at https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview  - Follow Jessica Baum on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/@beselffull  - ​​Don't miss Jessica Baum's upcoming release, Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships, out October 28. Be sure to visit nicolelaino.com/podcastlinks for all of the current links to events, freebies, and more! If you enjoyed this week's episode, I'd so appreciate you doing a few things for me:  Please subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen! Rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts.  Tag me @nicolelainoofficial on your IG stories with a story of you listening to the podcast and I'll make sure to share your post!  Interested in learning more about working with me? Click here to learn more about how we can work together.   

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Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Sarah felt seen and validated until things turned for the worse with her avoidant attached partner. He then got up and left. You will see yourself in her story? You will learn from this coaching session how to navigate feelings the confusion and feeling of betrayal after being love bombed and discarded. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=fRwZN0y1E-Q&utm_content=pod-10-15-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants rarely say what they actually feel — instead, they test it. When they want you in their life, they won't move closer right away…they'll quietly test how safe you are first. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down 5 hidden ways Dismissive Avoidants test emotional trust — and how to respond without losing your self-respect or over-giving in the process. You'll learn how these subtle “trust tests” show up in relationships, what they're really looking for underneath, and how to handle each moment with confidence and clarity. You'll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants pull away after closeness (and what they're observing) ✅ How they test emotional safety through small vulnerabilities ✅ The neuroscience behind avoidance and emotional connection ✅ What delayed commitment really means for them ✅ How to respond when they need “space” — without losing yourself Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:46 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Withdraw or Retreat After Moments of Closeness  02:29 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Will Test the Safety of Being Vulnerable  03:01 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants  04:38 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:43 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Test to See if You Accept What They Judge Themselves for  07:25 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Will Often Delay Commitment 09:02 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Often Test How You Will Handle Their Boundaries 11:00 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

What if the way you love, fight, or text back all comes from how you were held as a baby?

In this episode, Alix and Kayla get real about what it means to fight fair after six years together. From weirdly specific compliments to the unspoken rules that keep their relationship grounded, the couple unpacks how they've learned to communicate, manage triggers, and find humor in the chaos. Expect laughter, honesty, and a little courtroom energy.Timestamps:00:00 – Weirdly specific compliments

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=UZURew1Gr4o&utm_content=pod-10-13-25&el=podcast Have you ever been dating a Fearful Avoidant and everything seemed to be going great — until suddenly, they pulled away and lost interest? Or maybe you are a Fearful Avoidant and can't understand why you sometimes go cold, even when things are good. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down 5 key reasons fearful avoidants suddenly lose attraction — and what you can do to prevent it from happening, whether you're dating one or healing as one. You'll learn: ✅ Why broken trust instantly shuts down a Fearful Avoidant's connection ✅ How anxious pressure or crossed boundaries trigger loss of attraction ✅ The “expectation overload” that makes them pull back fast ✅ Why feeling trapped activates their powerful flight response ✅ How unmet needs and emotional burnout lead to sudden detachment Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:47 – Reason 1: Their Trust is Broken 01:43 – Reason 2: Violated Their Boundaries 02:53 – Reason 3: Unreal Expectations on Them 03:40 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course 04:21 – Reason 4: Feeling Trapped 05:05 – Reason 5: They Feel It's a One-Sided Relationship 06:43 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

It wasn't easy for her , but Sarah felt like she had no choice but to shut herself away or withdraw  from the demands and overwhelm - even if that sometimes came from her children. In this episode, Sarah tells what happens in the mind of a avoidant when they are going through their deactivation and what they think during this time. She also shares how she healed after her partner abandoned her and their children, and how she deals with romantic relationships now. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas - where romance meets chaos, Russian standards meet American men, and emotionally stable men are the new red flag. I said what I said.(dating podcast • Vegas trip chaos • attachment theory • love bomber or match • relationship overthinking • female hosted podcast)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The trip ended, the lessons didn't.In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I'm talking about the real game: how to keep him hooked without losing yourselfWhy even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimesHow to self-regulate before you self-sabotageFrom overthinking to attachment theoryEverything you need to know about dating an avoidantAnd how to actually win an avoidant over(dating podcast • attachment styles • relationship advice • how to love an avoidant • female-hosted podcast)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you ever wonder why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you know better? Or why you feel totally secure with some people but anxious, avoidant, or distant with others? The truth is, your attachment style might have more to do with it than you think.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Judy Ho to talk about her new book, The New Rules of Attachment. We break down how your attachment style shows up in every area of your life—not just relationships—and what it really takes to move toward secure attachment. Dr. Judy and I talk about how to reparent your inner child, nurture your authentic self, and finally create the kind of security and connection you've always wanted.   If you've been stuck in the same emotional cycles and want to feel grounded, secure, and confident in your relationships again, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/ Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 00:22 What attachment styles are and why they matter more than you think 05:58 The four main attachment styles and how they form 15:34 How attachment styles connect to love languages 18:47 What reparenting your inner child really means 25:33 How to nurture your inner child's unmet needs 26:11 Why your authentic self and inner child are deeply connected 27:37 Can you really change your attachment style? (Dr. Judy says yes!) 34:58 How parenting style and temperament affect your child's attachment 42:13 How to find balance in your parenting style   Find more from Dr Judy Ho: Website: https://drjudyho.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Happy Thursday Problemistas! We're solving problems left right and center today. No soundboard, but plenty of banter and lots of laughs, so click play and enjoy. Don't forget to leave a review. We're aiming for 1000 reviews on iTunes and Spotify, so we need all the help we can get. Whilst you're at it, send this podcast to someone who could use a therapeutic laugh. 23:40 - Question 1 - Is this a codependent corrective experience?32:00 - Question 2 - Uncommitted & casual, but he won't sleep here.44:50 - Question 3 - Two Therapists One Problem. Attachment styles.Record Your Question for Jeff and Alex : https://www.therapyjeff.com/podcastKeep up with Alex at https://alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffJeff's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeffListen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, I discuss the anxious (ambivalent–preoccupied) attachment style — a pattern marked by intensity, dependence, and a longing for reassurance.I address how this attachment pattern develops, how it can appear in adulthood, and what kinds of therapeutic and holistic supports can help someone move toward a more secure attachment style. Specifically, I discuss:* How inconsistency in early caregiving (and even threats or experiences of abandonment) can lead to an anxious attachment style and problems with emotional regulation.* The key differences between anxious and avoidant attachment patterns* What the infant-toddler attachment research revealed about early caregiving and attachment dynamics* How anxious attachment can manifest as overwhelm, and fear of abandonment in adult relationships* Links between attachment and biochemical factors such as inflammation, methylation, high copper, high pyrroles, mast cell activation, and even biotoxin illness such as mold toxicity.* Psychotherapy approaches that promote regulation and security — including learning about healthy boundaries* The importance of structure, daily routines, and developing a reliable “inner parent”* Mind–body strategies such as guided meditation, goal-focused journaling, and creative learning* How addressing both emotional and biochemical roots can support long-term healing and resilienceWith awareness, compassion, education and support, we can rewire our nervous system toward greater calm, clarity, and self-trust.As always, I welcome your thoughts and questions.Until next time,CourtneyTo learn more about non-patient consultations, treatment, and monthly mentorship groups, please visit my website at:CourtneySnyderMD.comMedical Disclaimer:This newsletter is for educational purposes and not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment for either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating (if you are a practitioner). Consult your physician for any medical issues that you may be having. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit courtneysnydermd.substack.com/subscribe

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-06-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants rarely come out and say “I'm done.” Instead, they show it through subtle but powerful patterns, often long before the actual breakup happens. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four unmistakable signs that an avoidant is emotionally checking out and shares how to protect your self-worth, regulate your nervous system, and set healthy boundaries before it's too late. Drawing on neuroscience and ancient wisdom, Thais explains how oxytocin drops, cortisol spikes, and emotional disconnection create chaos in relationships—and how to use self-awareness and communication to stop the spiral and regain control. You'll learn: ✅ The four red flags that signal a dismissive avoidant is preparing to leave ✅ How “flaw finding” and subtle criticism act as deactivation strategies ✅ Why they replace intimacy with creature comforts like work or hobbies ✅ The neuroscience of emotional withdrawal and bonding disruption ✅ How to use pattern interruption and self-regulation to stop self-blame ✅ The boundaries and conversations that separate healing from heartbreak Video Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:53 – 1. If You See Them Shutting Down Emotionally 01:52 – 2. If There Are Sudden Devaluing Behaviors or Comments 04:59 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Promo 05:31 – 3. Replacing Intimacy with Creature Comforts 06:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Relational Distress 09:16 – Pattern Interrupt 11:29 – Setting Clear Boundaries 13:44 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration 15:30 – 4. When They Stop Communicating 16:41 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-05-25&el=podcast Many Fearful Avoidants see themselves as fiercely independent—until real feelings and vulnerability take hold. Suddenly, emotional dependency sneaks in, making it feel like you lose yourself in the relationship. If this resonates, you're not alone—and there is a way to break free from the push-pull cycles. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the hidden signs of emotional dependency for Fearful Avoidants, the neuroscience and childhood roots behind it, and the exact steps you can take to heal so you can love deeply without losing yourself. You'll learn: ✅ The 3 key signs of emotional dependency in Fearful Avoidant relationships ✅ How attachment trauma in childhood wires the brain for dependency cycles ✅ Why independence flips into preoccupation when real feelings develop ✅ How neuroscience explains the highs, lows, and nervous system disruption the Fearful Avoidant's experience ✅ 3 practical steps to heal, regulate, and create secure interdependent relationships Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  01:14 – Have You Lost Yourself in a Relationship Before?  01:41 – 1. When Feelings Get Real, You Feel You Are Over-identifying With Your Partner 03:29 – 2. Although Difficult to Ask, You Seek Reassurance in a Relationship 05:12 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:48 – 3. You Sometimes Feel Emotional Highs and Lows 07:09 – The Neuroscience Behind the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style 10:34 – Step 1: Learn to Meet Your Own Needs 11:44 – Step 2: Have a Relationship With Yourself Outside of Your Romantic Relationship  12:53 – Step 3: Rewire Old Triggers From Past Relationships 13:38 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Love 14:49 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Dr. Dan Peters sits down with Dr. Jaime Goff, founder of The Empathic Leader and author of The Secure Leader: Discover the Hidden Forces That Shape Your Leadership Story and How to Change Them. Together they explore how attachment styles—formed early in life—shape the way we lead, connect, and grow both at work and at home. Jaime shares her own leadership journey, from uncovering her avoidant attachment tendencies to transforming them into opportunities for trust and empowerment, to her current work. Dr. Dan and Jaime discuss why self-awareness is the cornerstone of resilience and how compassion and curiosity can shift entire teams, families, and communities. Today's discussion dives into what makes a truly effective leader and how it's not only strategy but also self-awareness, security, and connection. This energizing episode with Dr. Dan and Dr. Goff blends psychology, leadership, and practical wisdom to offer a roadmap for anyone seeking to lead with authenticity, compassion, and courage. For more information, visit www.drjaimegoff.com and follow @dr_jaimegoff on Instagram.  Please listen, follow, rate, and review Make It a Great One on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Follow @drdanpeters on social media. Visit www.drdanpeters.com and send your questions or guest pitches to podcast@drdanpeters.com. We have this moment, this day, and this life—let's make it a great one. – Dr. Dan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We are so excited for you to listen to this conversation with our friend Dr. Alison Cook. Folks are going to feel so hopeful! It's so easy to just feel overwhelmed by the topic of attachment and she makes it feel practical, manageable, graceful, possible, hopeful. You guys, make sure you stick through the end, cause she gives us the most practical things to do in the carpool lane. You're going to love this one with Dr. Alison Cook! Ways to Follow Dr. Alison Cook: ⁠Instagram⁠  The Best of You Podcast Website: https://www.dralisoncook.com/ Dr. Alison Cook is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and host of the top-ranked The Best of You podcast, where she brings her unique blend of psychological expertise and spiritual encouragement to listeners worldwide.  She is the author of I Shouldn't Feel This Way and The Best of You, and co-author of Boundaries for Your Soul. Her work empowers individuals to experience healing and wholeness through inviting God's loving presence into every part of the soul. She and her husband, Joe, are the parents of two young adult children.  . . . . . .  ⁠Owen Learns He Has What it Takes: A Lesson in Resilience⁠ ⁠Lucy Learns to Be Brave: A Lesson in Courage⁠⁠ More Links: Sign up to receive the⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠monthly newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠raisingboysandgirls.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . . . . .  If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form. DOSE: Save 30% on your first month of subscription by going to ⁠dosedaily.co/RBG ⁠or entering RBG at checkout.  QUINCE: Give your summer closet an upgrade—with Quince. Go to ⁠Quince.com/rbg⁠ for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns.  THRIVE MARKET: Skip the junk without overspending. Head over to ⁠ThriveMarket.com/rbg⁠ to get 30% off your first order and a FREE $60 gift.  NIV APPLICATION BIBLE: Save an additional 10% on any NIV Application Bible and NIV Application Commentary Resources by visiting http://FAITHGATEWAY.COM/NIVAB and using promo code RBG.  BOLL & BRANCH: Feel the difference an extraordinary night's sleep can make with Boll & Branch. Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at Bollandbranch.com/rbg⁠. Exclusions apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Attachment has become a buzzword in parenting circles—but what does it really mean for your kids and your family? In this episode, we unpack the history of attachment theory, clear up common misconceptions, and share practical ways to think about what your child truly needs. We'll cover: Why “attachment” has resurfaced as such a hot topic. How attachment impacts early development and later relationships. The difference between holding information wisely vs. fearfully. The four styles of attachment—starting with what a secure attachment looks like. Real-life examples of how parents can unintentionally give fear too much power. Whether you've ever worried about separation anxiety, or just wondered, “Am I doing enough for my child?”—this episode will help you breathe easier and focus on what matters most. . . . . . .  ⁠Owen Learns He Has What it Takes: A Lesson in Resilience⁠ ⁠Lucy Learns to Be Brave: A Lesson in Courage⁠⁠ More Links: Sign up to receive the⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠monthly newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Connect with David, Sissy, and Melissa at⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠raisingboysandgirls.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . . . . .  If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise with us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form. JOLIE: Jolie will give you your best skin & hair guaranteed. Head to jolieskinco.com/RBG to try it out for yourself with FREE shipping.  DOSE: Save 30% on your first month of subscription by going to ⁠dosedaily.co/RBG ⁠or entering RBG at checkout.  QUINCE: Give your summer closet an upgrade—with Quince. Go to ⁠Quince.com/rbg⁠ for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns.  THRIVE MARKET: Skip the junk without overspending. Head over to ⁠ThriveMarket.com/rbg⁠ to get 30% off your first order and a FREE $60 gift.  NIV APPLICATION BIBLE: Save an additional 10% on any NIV Application Bible and NIV Application Commentary Resources by visiting http://FAITHGATEWAY.COM/NIVAB and using promo code RBG.  BOLL & BRANCH: Feel the difference an extraordinary night's sleep can make with Boll & Branch. Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at Bollandbranch.com/rbg⁠. Exclusions apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices