Podcasts about attachment styles

In today's solo episode, I dive deep into something that's been heavy on my heart lately — especially as a new mama — and that is breaking generational curses. I'm talking about how to identify the patterns in your family that may be unhealthy, unbiblical, or downright toxic — and how to STOP them from continuing in your life, your marriage, and your kids' lives. I share tons of biblical encouragement, examples from my own journey, what I've learned through therapy and inner healing, and how you can partner with God to be the change in your family tree. Even if this episode feels a little heavy, I promise — it's packed with hope, grace, and practical steps you can take TODAY.

Friendship is one of the topics we get asked about most, so we brought back Dr. Marisa Franco, one of the world's leading voices on human connection. We dive straight into the heart of modern friendship and start with something that influences every relationship we have: attachment styles. Marisa explains how these patterns begin in childhood, how they show up differently in adulthood, and why none of us fit neatly into one category. We explore one of the biggest questions we hear from listeners: if you tend to be anxious or avoidant, do you end up attracting friends with the same tendencies? Marisa shares one of her biggest challenges in her research—secure people continue to find each other easily, while those who struggle with connection often repeat the same patterns with similar types of friends.Since many of you are new moms or navigating school-aged seasons, we ask Marisa what to do when a friend needs more from you than you can realistically give. She reminds us that it's okay to say no and that saying no with kindness helps preserve the relationship.Although friendship looks natural from the outside, we share honestly that it hasn't always been effortless for us either. Amy opens up about how isolating early motherhood felt and why making new friends during that time was unexpectedly hard. If you're in a season where friendship feels like it has to fall to the bottom of the list, Marisa offers a powerful reminder of why connection still matters—and what small steps can help bring it back to the forefront.Finally, we talk about the hardest part of friendship: knowing when it's time to end one. Should you let the relationship fade or have a more direct conversation? Marisa shares how to discern which path is right, and she gives guidance on something we rarely talk about—grieving a friendship.LINKS AND RESOURCES:Listen to HERself episode #145 Dr. Marisa Franco on the Importance of Adult Friendship; https://www.herselfpodcast.com/listen/adultfriendshipRead Dr. Marisa Franco's Book; Platonic: https://amzlink.to/az0lb2DLKWeWk Follow Marisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarisagfranco/Dr. Marisa's Website: https://drmarisagfranco.com/HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastLMNT: Free Sample Pack with purchase:  drinkLMNT.com/HERSELFLet's connect!HERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

Welcome back to the Attachment Style SOS Series! In today's episode, I'm diving deep into disorganized attachment. The style that feels like craving closeness one moment and wanting to run for the hills the next. If relationships feel like emotional whiplash, if you've ever felt “too much,” “too complicated,” or like you become a different person when you're triggered… this episode will help you understand why. As someone who lived this pattern for over a decade, this one is incredibly close to my heart.Inside the episode, we cover:What disorganized attachment actually feels like, why it shows up as emotional chaos, and the science behind your attachment system and survival system firing at the same timeIdentity fragmentation and “shape-shifting”, why you lose yourself in relationships, and how to rebuild a cohesive, secure identity from the inside outCultural misunderstandings & the ADHD link, how society mislabels this style and why emotional regulation challenges feed into ADHD (and vice versa)If you're listening and thinking, “Wow… this is me,” or “This explains so much about someone I love,” please know this: you are not broken. Your nervous system adapted to chaos—and that means you can absolutely learn safety and become securely attached.And hey, if you're ready to actually do this healing work with guidance, structure, and support… Now is the moment.The Empowered.Secure.Loved Program is closing its application doors for the year, and this is truly your final chance to grab the Black Friday Offer before it expires. Once doors close, we do not know when (or if) enrollment will open again in 2026.If you've been feeling that nudge—Should I do this?—this is your sign.Apply now, get a spot while you still can, and start 2026 with real hope, real support, and real transformation.

A few weeks ago I talked about avoidant attachment, but I realized I needed to take you deeper. There are actually two very different forms of avoidant attachment, and understanding the difference can completely change how you interpret your spouse's behavior and how you respond to it.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the difference between dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant attachment, how each one develops, and the specific ways they show up in marriage, especially after kids. I'm also sharing which one my spouse resonates with and how understanding this has changed the way we navigate conflict, emotions, and connection in our relationship.If your partner withdraws, minimizes emotions, gets overwhelmed by big feelings, or swings between closeness and distance, this episode will help you finally understand why.Tune in to discover:• The core fear behind avoidant attachment and why it develops• Key traits of dismissive avoidant partners and how they show up after kids• Why fearful avoidant partners crave closeness but also pull away• How these styles influence conflict, emotions, and communication• Why understanding your partner's pattern helps you respond with more confidence and careConnect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-callThe Us System: https://marriedafterkids.com/the-us-systemGet your FREE EBOOK! 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebieFollow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids

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In this episode I sit down with Cole Zesiger on zoom for a brutally honest conversation about relationships, breakups, and the attachment styles that shape how we love.Whether you're navigating a breakup, trying to understand your partner better, or just curious about why you love the way you do this episode is packed with real talk, personal insight, and genuinely helpful perspective.We'd like to thank this weeks sponsors RT Plumbing & Gas, Pitch Roofers, Haven and U-Test. Links to both can be found below.rtplumbing.gas@gmail.comwww.pitchroofers.co.ukwww.u-test.co.ukhttps://www.mysafehaven.co.uk/This podcast is edited by Ten10 Medias www.ten10medias.com

Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizIn this first episode of our four-part series The Intimacy Gap, E.J. and Tarah Kerwin explore why most couples experience differences in emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy — and how these discrepancies can lead to frustration, disconnection, or misunderstanding.They share the real numbers (80% of couples face this issue), explain how attachment styles and nervous system regulation impact intimacy, and offer tools to start healing the distance.If you've ever felt like one partner wants more closeness than the other — emotionally or sexually — this episode will help you understand why and begin building empathy, safety, and lasting connection.Topics Covered:What the “intimacy gap” really meansEmotional vs. physical vs. sexual intimacy differencesHow upbringing and attachment shape desirePractical tools for curiosity instead of blameHow to start safe, non-defensive conversations about intimacyTimestamps00:00 – Introduction Welcome to The Intimacy Gap (Part 1) on the Relationship Renovation Podcast.01:35 – Why “The Intimacy Gap”? Why so many couples experience emotional, physical, and sexual disconnect.03:20 – Understanding Intimacy Discrepancies What it means when one partner wants more closeness or connection than the other.05:45 – The 80% Statistic Why 80% of couples face intimacy differences — and why it's normal.07:50 – Beyond Sex: Emotional & Physical Intimacy How affection, vulnerability, and communication are part of intimacy.11:20 – How Intimacy Areas Interconnect How emotional, physical, and sexual connection overlap and affect each other.15:40 – Real-Life Example: Planning & Affection Tarah and E.J. share a story about differing needs for dates and affection.19:10 – Attachment Styles & Upbringing How childhood patterns and attachment shape intimacy as adults.23:15 – Nervous System Regulation & Shame Why stress and shame block connection — and how to rebuild safety.26:30 – From Blame to Curiosity Turning frustration into curiosity and self-reflection.30:00 – Tools for Talking About Intimacy Simple ways to have calm, open conversations about desire differences.33:15 – Final Reflections Encouragement for couples to keep growing through empathy and understanding.35:00 – Resources & What's Next Info on Relationship Renovation at Home, Patreon community, and Part 2: The Silent Saboteurs.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Send us a textIn this powerful episode of The Sober Butterfly Podcast, Nadine sits down with Bryan Power to explore how attachment styles, childhood wounds, emotional triggers, and deep inner work can transform relationships from the inside out.Bryan shares his remarkable journey—from a sudden breakup and restraining order to rebuilding a healthier, stronger marriage through self-awareness and integrated attachment theory. Together, they unpack the six pillars of emotional healing inspired by Thais Gibson's work: core wounds, needs, emotions, boundaries, communication, and behaviors.This episode offers actionable tools for anyone navigating relationship challenges, breaking toxic patterns, or healing from trauma. Whether you're partnered, single, or somewhere in between, Bryan's story is a reminder that change is possible—and love can be rebuilt when we learn to understand ourselves.Resources Mentioned:

So many of us stop drinking and then realize, “Oh wow, my relationship with my body and with food is really complicated too.” Maybe you're thinking about what you eat all the time, swinging between being “good” and “off the rails,” or feeling like you need to weigh less, eat less, or control more to finally feel “enough.” In this episode, we're talking about intuitive eating and attachment styles — and how they show up in your relationship with food, your body, and your sobriety. I asked Tiffany North, RN, integrative nurse coach, certified intuitive eating professional, and author of Enough: Heal Your Relationship With Food and Body Using Attachment Theory, to share how you can use intuitive eating and attachment theory to heal your relationship with food and your body so you can feel more peaceful, grounded, and at home in yourself in sobriety. For the full show notes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/from-diet-culture-to-self-trust-intuitive-eating-attachment-styles-and-alcohol-free-living/ 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking  — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking  Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks? ☕ Buy me a coffee! In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language. So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I'll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday 

If you've ever wondered which relationship skills actually make non-monogamy easier, healthier, and less chaotic, this episode is your new favorite deep dive.Today I'm talking with couples therapist Dr. Dan Sneider, who works with both monogamous and non-monogamous partners and brings a grounded, compassionate, very human approach to communication, trust, and emotional safety.We get into the skills that truly make the biggest difference, including:• How to communicate without spiraling• How to know when you're going too fast• How to tell old baggage from a real relationship issue• The 5 to 1 positivity ratio and why it matters• What emotional safety feels like in your body• How to navigate the sex and feelings part of non-monogamy without gaslighting each other• Why “go slow to go fast” works every single timeWhether you're opening up, rebuilding trust, or trying to deepen connection, this episode gives you practical, usable tools you can apply right away.

You may have heard about secure attachment styles, but have you had the opportunity to listen to Clayton Olson speak about your type? He will clarify every question. He masterfully attends to ideas spoken out loud and the nuance suggested in every story. Catch our conversation and follow him on YouTube. @claytonolsoncoachingHe's the best of the best.I also have a few announcements:My new Writer's Membership has an array of support for the beginner and the experienced writer. You can work at your own pace and also take part in the live group coaching. You'll love the platform where the technology is straightforward. I promise

Welcome back to Part 2 of the Attachment Style SOS Series! Today I'm breaking down avoidant attachment in a way that finally makes sense through the lens of the nervous system, your early experiences, and the cultural messages that reward emotional distance. If you've ever craved connection but shut down the moment it gets close, this episode is going to be a game-changer.Inside the episode:Why your nervous system sees closeness as overwhelm, not safetyThe childhood patterns that taught you to suppress your emotionsHow culture glorifies independence and unintentionally reinforces avoidance✨ Last chance to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program!We're closing applications this year, and this is the final opportunity to join us with the Black Friday Offer before it's gone forever. If your healing has been on the back burner, take this as your sign, apply now.

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Struggling with relationship anxiety and fear of intimacy or rejection? This episode will guide you through anxious and avoidant attachment patterns, to the core healing that can help us find confidence and security in relationships.I'm joined by Trevor Hanson, a marriage and family therapist who has helped thousands of individuals and couples heal attachment wounds and build secure, connected, confident relationships. His work has been featured by the Gottman Institute, and he's the founder of The Art of Healing, where he teaches frameworks for transforming insecurity into emotional safety.We break down the real reasons we often feel insecure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful in relationships… and how to finally feel secure, grounded, and confident in love. You'll learn the tools, communication shifts, and emotional skills that create safe + connected relationships.In this episode, we cover:How to build real confidence in relationships (and the cost of not working on your confidence)Why insecurity, fear, and jealousy appear — even in good relationshipsPractical tools for anxious attachment self-soothingWhy fear is the #1 killer of relationships and how to move through itHow avoidant partners can build emotional intimacy without feeling overwhelmedFear-based motivation vs love-based motivationHow to navigate communication “landmines'How to support a partner who feels fear or anxiety in the relationshipThe TEMPO framework and how it interrupts anxious spiralsFollow Trevor on InstagramTrevor's website: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com  Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

In this episode, I sat down with Thais Gibson, the founder of The Personal Development School and a true pioneer in attachment healing. We broke down the science behind anxious, avoidant, fearful, and secure attachment — what each one looks like, how it's formed, and how to heal and reprogram those patterns using neuroplasticity. We talked about how your attachment style is actually your relationship to yourself first, not just how you show up in love — and how to finally meet your own needs instead of chasing people to meet them for you. This is one of those episodes you'll want to take notes on — it's loaded with practical tools, from how to stop refeeding old wounds to how to build emotional safety within your nervous system. You'll hear us dive into: What attachment theory really means and why you aren't born with a style — it's conditioned. The six pillars of Integrated Attachment Theory. How to identify and rewire your core wounds through repetition and emotion. The real difference between self-soothing and self-numbing. The unique "superpowers" of each insecure attachment style. Tangible 21-day practices to start creating security from the inside out. Take the Attachment Style Quiz Thais' Instagram   Fitness, health, and holistic wellness for $22/month Interested in a luxury 1:1 online health coaching experience? Look no further than FENIX ATHLETICA, where we fuse science and soul for life-long transformation (inside AND out). LMNT is LMNT is a DELICIOUS, science-based electrolyte drink mix with everything you need and nothing you don't. No sugar. No coloring. No artificial ingredients. No gluten. No fillers. No BS. Head to drinklmnt.com/emdunc to get a FREE variety pack with your purchase! Follow me on Instagram Follow EMBody Radio on Instagram

What if the biggest relationship problems you're struggling with… aren't actually your fault? Today, we sit down with Oxford-educated Behavioral Scientist and High-Performance Relationship Coach, Katarina Polonska, to deep-dive into Attachment Theory and Relationship Styles.-----------------------------------------------What if the biggest relationship problems you're struggling with… aren't actually your fault?This episode's guest, Katarina Polonska, is an Oxford-educated behavioral scientist and high-performance relationship coach whose life story is as powerful as the science she teaches.She went from calling off her wedding, battling an eating disorder, and rebuilding her identity from scratch……to becoming one of the sharpest thinkers in the world on attachment theory, partner selection, and why high achievers struggle in love.In this episode, Katarina breaks down the real science behind attraction, emotional patterns, and why we keep choosing partners who hurt us. She reveals:⭐ Why intelligent, successful people often repeat the same relationship mistakes⭐ How early attachment styles shape every romantic decision⭐ The behavioral “scripts” that sabotage dating and long-term love⭐ How to stop overfunctioning, people-pleasing, and self-sacrificing in relationships⭐ The biggest shift in modern male/female dynamics—and why it's rewriting the rules⭐ Why calling off her own engagement became her greatest act of emotional courage⭐ The 3 micro-steps anyone can take to repair (or attract) a healthy relationship⭐ The truth about dating apps and why so many feel emotionally exhaustedWhether you're single, dating, or decades into a relationship, Katarina's insights are refreshingly blunt, deeply compassionate, and rooted in science—not clichés.If you've ever asked yourself:“Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?”“How do I break this cycle?”“How do I finally feel secure in love?”…this episode will change how you think about relationships forever.

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If you've ever felt like your emotions take over the moment a connection feels uncertain… or you find yourself spiraling, overthinking, and craving reassurance even when you know it's “too much,” this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. Today, we're diving into anxious attachment through a compassionate, science-backed lens, exploring your nervous system, your past relational experiences, and the truth that nothing is wrong with you. Your reactions make sense. And yes, you can absolutely heal.Inside the episode, we cover:The nervous system science behind anxious attachment - why your body stays in threat anticipation mode and why reassurance-seeking feels uncontrollable.The real roots of anxious attachment - inconsistent caregiving, emotional invalidation, early relationship trauma, and how those patterns shape adult relationships.The cultural pressure cooker - how modern dating, ghosting, and the “cool girl” narrative intensify anxious attachment and dysregulate your system even more.If this episode resonated and your heart is saying, “I can't do another year of these patterns…” I want to lovingly encourage you to take action now.Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program close this year, and we have extremely limited spots left. If you know you're ready to become securely attached and change your relationship patterns for good, this is your chance.And because it's Black Friday, you can also unlock the Secure Love Accelerator for over 70% off, but only while spots last. This is the most affordable way to start transforming your attachment system, and the offer will not return.Apply to ESL now or grab your Accelerator spot before the Black Friday offer closes.Your future self (the secure, grounded, loved version of you) will be so grateful you said yes.

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

This is a continuation of the attachment style series! So many of us are avoidant *and don't even know it.* We avoid conflict, people please, shut down, and/or chronically fail to voice our needs in relationships (yes! this is what a fear of intimacy looks like!). So how do we go from avoidant attachment to a healthier, more secure attachment? In this episode, Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM, LAc, joins me to dive into how we got here, how it hurts us (aka it's literally impacting your health), and how we start to heal. Want to work with Dr. Mueller? Check out her Eternal Honeymoon course! It's for couples who want to reignite the sexual spark. You'll get solutions and strategies for improving libido and drive (read: having mind-blowing sex again). Great for singles who want to improve their sexy-time communicaton skills, too!Looking for more episodes on attachment styles? Try episode 6—it's all about the anxious/avoidant relationship trap. You can also try any of these episodes—they're all about anxious attachment: episode 14, episode 88, and episode 89.Want to work with Remy? Go ⁠⁠here.Find us on:Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=haGEv_CHOq4&utm_content=yt-11-21-25&el=podcast When you love someone deeply but every argument feels like hitting the same wall — one partner chasing, the other shutting down — it can be excruciating. You want connection and resolution, but every attempt only pushes you further apart. In this episode, Thais Gibson reveals five crucial steps to break free from the Anxious–Dismissive Avoidant argument cycle. You'll learn how to de-escalate conflict, communicate your needs without triggering defenses, and turn disagreement into emotional closeness and repair. You'll learn: ✅ The core triggers for both Anxious and Dismissive Avoidant partners ✅ How to identify emotional patterns that keep you stuck in painful cycles ✅ A powerful somatic technique to calm your body during conflict ✅ The “one topic per conversation” rule that prevents spiraling arguments ✅ The step-by-step framework for validation, communication, and resolution ✅ Why learning your needs — and expressing them — transforms every relationship Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – When A Dismissive Avoidant Argues with An Anxious Attachment Style 01:30 – 5 Steps To Change How You See Conflict 02:27 – Step 1. Know Your Triggers. 02:53 – Anxious Attachment Style Biggest Core Wounds 03:20 – Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Biggest Core Wounds 04:48 – Step 2. Practice a Somatic Processing Skill 05:25 – Research on Triggering Experiences 06:54 – Step 3. Stick To One Topic Per Conversation 07:26 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 08:15 – Steps 4 & 5. The Validation, Need, Validation Framework 09:20 – Locked in Trigger Cycles 10:00 – Framework for Conflict Resolution 11:50 – Arguing Isn't About Right or Wrong  12:26 – Announcement: New Livestream Podcast! Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

She thought everything was fine. Then, he dropped a bombshell/ “I'm not sure I'm in love with you anymore.”Trying to be understanding, she gave him an easy out. She said, “It's okay if we need to break up.”But he wouldn't take it. He was confused. He wanted to keep trying.And just like that, they were trapped in a exhausting cycle of push-and-pull-a classic anxious-avoidant trap-until he finally ended it for good.Now, she's left heartbroken and overthinking everything. She's asking all the classic questions:How do I get over a breakup when I still have feelings?What does it mean when he says he loves me but isn't in love with me?Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners?Is there any chance of getting back together?If this story hits home, you're not alone. These painful patterns often point directly to our attachment styles.In this recorded session, we sit down with Sarah to understand her anxious attachment style and how it showed up in her relationship. We'll break down-The hidden signs of an anxious attachment style.How fear of abandonment can accidentally sabotage your love life.Practical steps for healing a broken heart and creating secure attachment.How to stop the cycle of on-again, off-again relationships and learn how to move forward for good.I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

Any takeaways from this episode?Welcome to the Rom-Com Rescue Holiday Extravaganza!  Six holiday rom-coms over the next six weeks!Conscious uncoupling, gingerbread throwdowns, one last “totally normal” family Christmas, inconvenient new crushes… and Pearson Fodé in candy-cane underwear. That's right. We went there.This week on RomCom Rescue, Kira and Dr. Izzy break down Netflix's brand-new 2025 holiday rom-com Merry Little Ex-Mas starring Alicia Silverstone, Oliver Hudson, Jamila Jamil, and Pierson Fode— and let's just say: It is was rough for us.Not magical. Not cozy. Not even Hot Frosty-level cute.But it is full of relationship red flags, questionable choices, unmatched chaos, and enough emotional immaturity to keep two therapists busy until 2028.We cover:

Take our FREE Christian Polarity Quiz to discover your God-given feminine design for lasting love: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjoying really good communicaSupport the show

Oh my gosh… this episode is SUCH an important one. I'm breaking down the brand-new research on attachment trends for 2025, and I'm giving you a full masterclass on the four attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganized (fearful avoidant), and secure.Whether you're brand new here or you've been with me since the early days, this is a must-listen episode for anyone who cares about their emotional health, their relationships, and their growth in 2025 and beyond.Inside the Episode:Why our hyper-digital, overstimulated, exhausted world is fueling a major spike in avoidant attachment.The three non-negotiables you must understand if you want to change your attachment style—plus the four intentional steps to actually rewire your brain for secure love.A deep dive into the “functional avoidant”—how to spot it, how it develops, and how to heal if this is your pattern.If you're tired of repeating the same relational cycles… if you're done feeling disconnected or shut down… if you're ready to move out of insecurity (or being a functional avoidant) and into true emotional availability and safety—this episode is your blueprint.And here's the truth I need you to hear:Your past does not determine your future relationships. You get to choose secure love.If you know you need a clear, proven framework to help you make that shift, the Empowered. Secure. Loved. Program is where that transformation happens. We have very limited spots left and applications are closing soon. If this is on your heart… trust that.

In this episode, I discuss seven flaws of Attachment Style Theory as it pertains to marriage counseling.

Psychotherapist Frankie Olivia discusses relationship attachment styles, where our relationship trauma actually stems from, why anxious women are typically attracted to avoidant men and how to break our past cycles to finally become securely attached in relationships.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this introspective but delightfully nerdy episode, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive deep into the world of attachment styles—how they form, how they play out in relationships, and how they show up in the stories we love. They kick things off by examining their own tendencies, exploring how their personal attachment patterns shape the way they connect with others.From there, the conversation launches into a character-driven breakdown of famous fictional relationships. They analyze the anxious-avoidant chaos swirling around Anakin and Padmé in Star Wars, the stop-and-start emotional boomerang that defines Ross and Rachel on Friends, and the surprisingly secure, gloriously spooky devotion between Gomez and Morticia Addams. Along the way, they highlight how attachment theory helps make sense of why these couples resonate—or unravel.The duo then shifts gears into their Songs of the Week and introduces a brand-new YouTube Music playlist they've curated for listeners. Professor Aubrey discusses New York Groove from KISS/Ace Frehley, while Tim brings the heat with Nobody Speak by DJ Shadow. Tim also shares a link to an Ace Frehley Tribute Playlist he's crafted on YouTube for anyone wanting to dive deeper into Frehley's work.It's an episode filled with emotional insight, pop-culture fun, music recommendations, and the trademark warmth and wit that define Friends Talking Nerdy. A perfect listen for fans who love a little psychology sprinkled into their fandoms.As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.Head to Friends Talking Nerdy's⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for more information on where to find us online.

In this powerful 1-2-1 coaching episode of The Feel Inspired Podcast, Amit Sodha (The Love Doctor) breaks down one of the most common yet misunderstood relationship patterns: the anxious–avoidant loop.If you've ever found yourself in a cycle where one person pulls away and the other panics… where connection feels amazing one minute and destabilising the next… or where communication breaks down right when you need it most — this deep dive is for you.This episode comes from a live coaching session with a client who repeatedly found herself stuck in the anxious–avoidant cycle.For privacy, her questions have been edited out.In this video, Amit unpacks:✨ What triggers the anxious–avoidant dance✨ The neuroscience behind why partners pull back or cling on✨ How attachment styles shape attraction, conflict, and emotional safety✨ Why “mixed signals” aren't actually mixed — they're patterned✨ How to break the loop so it never hijacks your relationships again✨ Practical tools to identify your triggers and regulate in real time✨ How to date with secure energy and attract emotionally aligned partnersWhether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, this coaching session will give you deep insight into how these patterns form — and more importantly — how to heal them so you can experience real connection, stability, and love.If you're searching for answers on:anxious attachmentavoidant attachmentanxious–avoidant relationshipsdating someone avoidantemotional unavailabilitytrauma bondsrelationship patternsattachment style healingwhy you attract the same partnershow to communicate your needshow to become more secure in dating…you're in exactly the right place.This episode is your roadmap to breaking the cycle once and for all — so you can show up confidently, communicate clearly, and create the healthy, secure relationship you deserve.

Take our FREE Christian Polarity Quiz to discover your God-given feminine design for lasting love: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjoying really good communicaSupport the show

In this episode, we learn how understanding attachment theory can help couples grow closer to one another as they reflect the steadfast love and reliability of God.--The PursueGOD Family podcast helps you think biblically about marriage and parenting. Join Bryan and Tracy Dwyer on Wednesday mornings for new topics every week or two. Find resources to talk about these episodes at pursueGOD.org/family.Help others go "full circle" as a follower of Jesus through our 12-week Pursuit series.Click here to learn more about how to use these resources at home, with a small group, or in a one-on-one discipleship relationship.Got questions or want to leave a note? Email us at podcast@pursueGOD.org.Donate Now --Attachment theory is one of the most studied and trusted frameworks in relational psychology. It was developed by John Bowlby and expanded by Mary Ainsworth. At its core, it explains how the earliest bonds we form with our caregivers shape the way we understand love and connection later in life. As children, the consistency—or inconsistency—of a caregiver's attention and responsiveness teaches us how to view ourselves and others. Those early impressions don't disappear; they resurface in adulthood, often getting triggered in the context of our romantic relationships.Attachment TypesSecure: A secure attachment means you can trust that the people you love will be there for you. It forms when, as a child, your caregiver consistently responded to your needs with care and reliability. That steady presence builds confidence that you are worthy of love and that others can be trusted. As an adult, secure attachment shows up as the ability to build healthy, balanced relationships—where closeness feels safe, independence isn't threatening, and conflict doesn't shake the foundation of trust.Anxious Attachment: Anxious attachment develops when love feels uncertain or inconsistent. As children, those with anxious attachment often had caregivers who were sometimes responsive and other times distracted or unavailable. This unpredictability creates confusion and insecurity about whether their needs will be met. As adults, people with an anxious attachment style tend to crave closeness but fear abandonment, which can lead to clinginess, overanalyzing, or difficulty trusting their partner's commitment. Avoidant Attachment: Avoidant attachment develops when closeness feels unsafe or unnecessary. As children, those with this style often had caregivers who were emotionally distant, neglectful, or dismissive of their needs. To cope, they learned to rely on themselves and minimize their need for comfort or support. As adults, people with avoidant attachment tend to value independence so highly that intimacy can feel uncomfortable or even threatening. They may pull away when relationships get too close, struggle to express emotions, or downplay the importance of love altogether. The Attachment Alarm When your partner feels distant or inconsistent, your “attachment system” goes off. This is the brain's way of monitoring whether you are safe and secure in the relationship. Anxious attachments are particularly sensitive to this. Once activated, the anxious will engage in protest behaviors which means doing whatever it takes to feel safe again (calling, what's wrong, imagination runs wild). If an avoidant, you will likely push away and might think your spouse is overreacting and can be...

Send us a textIn this insightful episode, Barb sits down with our favourite relationship coach Tim Wade to explore the often misunderstood world of Avoidant Attachment. Together, they unpack how this attachment style develops, what it looks like in relationships, and why those with avoidant tendencies may struggle with closeness despite craving connection.Tim sheds light on the emotional patterns that drive avoidant behavior and offers practical advice for fostering deeper intimacy — whether you're the one pulling away or loving someone who does. Find Barb on Instagram @barbjanet .If you like our show, make sure you follow us on your favourite Podcast player. Feel free to rate and review our show and tell us what you'd like to hear, and what other topics you'd like Barb to explore!

Dr. Alexandra is in-studio with her husband, Todd, for this special two-part conversation about loving across potentially dealbreaking differences. Inspired by the Netflix show, Nobody Wants This, starring Kristen Bell and Adam Brody, Dr. Alexandra and Todd reflect on navigating a faith difference, with Dr. Alexandra ultimately converting to Judaism in preparation for their marriage. They discuss the larger question: how can a couple go about navigating ANY potentially dealbreaking difference? In this second part of their studio conversation, Dr. Alexandra and Todd talk about scorekeeping, with gender differences, attachment styles and general disposition/worldview in mind, best practices for the “winner” and “loser” in a change/sacrifice scenario, how to approach making sacrifices to stave off resentment…and then the REAL juicy stuff: does Todd hate that Dr. Alexandra is now a Swiftie like him? Plus, hear her hot take on shelving conversations for later.Resources worth mentioning from the episode:Reimagining Love Episode, Nobody Wants This: How to Love Across Potentially Dealbreaking Differences (Part 1) with My Husband, Todd https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/nobody-wants-this-how-to-love-across-potentially-dealbreaking-differences-with-my-husband-todd/Watch our FULL IN-STUDIO CONVERSATION on YouTube:https://youtu.be/4R40kazeU4Q?t=9Reimagining Love Episode, Love Stories: Toddcast https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/love-stories-toddcast/Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass:  http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode, Victoria explores attachment theory and DISC. From childhood caregiver bonds to professional relationships, Victoria unpacks how our early emotional experiences influence how we lead, connect, and collaborate.Listen in to learn the four main attachment styles - Anxious/Preoccupied, Avoidant/Dismissive, Fearful/Disorganized, and Secure - as well as the workplace applications, emotional regulation strategies, and “superpowers” for each. Victoria and Heather also share their own quiz results, laugh about their high-C tendencies, and reveal how self-awareness and emotional intelligence can help shift attachment patterns toward security.Victoria often says DISC is a great tool to have in your toolkit. So, what would DISC look like as tools you might find in a toolbox?High D - Hammer; maximum output, one hit could get the job doneHigh I - Flashlight; bright, illuminating the wayHigh S - Wrench; slowly, steadily does what's neededHigh C - Level; ensures accuracy and precisionEpisode Timestamps00:00 – Are you laughing?01:00 Today's Mood Meter02:00 – DISC as tools in a toolbox03:00 – What is Attachment Theory? 04:00 – How early experiences shape adult relationships06:00 – The Four Attachment Styles explained and how to take the quiz at attachmentproject.com08:00 – Style 1: Anxious/Preoccupied13:00 – Style 2: Avoidant/Dismissive17:00 – Style 3: Fearful Avoidant/Disorganized19:00 – Style 4: Secure21:00 – Leadership through attachment22:00 – Can your attachment style change?23:00 – “It's a sketch, not a portrait.” Using DISC and attachment insights to grow self-awareness24:00 – Closing thoughts and where to learn more about attachment stylesNotable Quotes “I think it's important to clarify that attachment is a spectrum, and so you may not fit one completely.” “Our greatest challenges often reveal great strengths. Our attachment styles can also be our superpowers.”“It's a sketch, not a portrait… we have all four DISC factors in us somewhere.”Resources MentionedTake the free attachment style quiz and explore detailed resources: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/Mark Brackett's How We Feel app and the Mood Meter framework: https://marcbrackett.com/how-we-feel-app-3/Key Takeaways:Attachment theory shapes how we connect, communicate, and lead based on early caregiver bonds.It's a spectrum — your style may shift across personal and professional relationships.Each style has both triggers and strengths:● Anxious: Seeks reassurance; strong collaborator.● Avoidant: Values independence; focused achiever.● Fearful: Cautious but highly responsive.● Secure: Balanced, trusting, and empathetic.Self-awareness and emotional regulation help shift from reaction to response.Attachment styles can evolve through secure relationships, therapy, or emotional intelligence work.If you're interested in learning more about team building, coaching, strategic hiring, and onboarding, let's connect!

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDCheck out Kevin's other resources here: https://KevinAnthonyCoaching.com/LinkInBioSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to leSupport the show

Transform Your Life and Relationships This Black Friday! Get 14 Days Free Inside the Personal Development School's All-Access Pass, Including 65+ Powerful Courses, Live Webinars, and a Thriving Community. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-10-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant starts dating an Anxiously Attached individual, the attraction is instant, but so are the triggers. What begins as magnetic chemistry often becomes a cycle of closeness and withdrawal, as both partners try to meet old needs in new ways that feel both familiar and painful. In this video, Thais Gibson explores the hidden dynamics between Dismissive Avoidant and Anxious attachment styles during the dating stage, revealing what draws them together, what drives their early challenges, and how they can navigate the push-pull cycle with awareness and communication. You'll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive and Anxious types feel such strong initial chemistry ✅ What early needs and wounds this pairing unconsciously fulfills ✅ How their opposite traits — independence vs. connection — create both attraction and conflict ✅ The most common breakdown points in the dating stage ✅ How to recognize and stop the “trigger cycle” that keeps them repeating painful patterns Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – When a Dismissive Avoidant Dates An Anxious Attachment Style 01:14 – Exclusive Series for the Entire Month 02:06 – 1. They Are Attracted to Each Other Early On via Trait Variety  04:20 – Black Friday: 14-Day Trial Promo 04:40 – The Mystery of the Dismissive Avoidants 06:43 – 2. The Dismissive Avoidant's Unmet Needs From Childhood Are Met When Dating  07:32 – 3. Anxious Preoccupied Individuals Struggle to Move Slowly in Relationships 09:33 – How They Trigger Each Other  12:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants and Anxious Preoccupied Individuals  15:36 – The AP (Anxious Preoccupied)/DA (Dismissive Avoidant) Trigger Cycle   17:20 – Coming This Month: How to Navigate Relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

Take Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Quiz To Get A Loving, Long-Term & Committed Relationship With A Man You Desire ASAP Click: http://MagnetizeYourMan.com/PDSUBSCRIBE FOR GOOD LUCK IN LOVE!Discover A Powerful Psychological Trigger To Make Any Man DESIRE You: http://TriggerHisDesire.com3 Texts He Can't Resist: http://MagnetizingMessages.comHow To Get A Man To CHASE You For A Relationship: http://iMagnetize.com3 Words That Attract Men Like Crazy: http://FascinationPhrases.comDo This And He FEELS Love For You: http://UltimateLoveRecipe.com3 Female Behaviors That All Men LOVE: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/attractioncodes/video Peek Inside Of The Male Mind: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/go/insidethemalemind/videoGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Book On Amazon Here: https://amzn.to/2UZcmveGet Our "Magnetize Your Man" Audiobook Here: http://adbl.co/38uAgoFJoin Our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” Facebook Group: http://MYMFBGroup.comFollow Us On Instagram: https://Instagram.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@MagnetizeYourMan Subscribe To Our Podcast: https://MagnetizeYourMan.buzzsprout.com/shareFollow Us On Facebook: https://Facebook.com/MagnetizeYourManFollow Us On X: https://Twitter.com/MagnetizeMenFollow Us On Threads: https://Threads.net/@MagnetizeYourManCheck Out Our Blog: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/Blog~ Your Expert Love Coaches, Brody & Antia Boyd ~Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combined to magnetize their man to share their life with & have a loving, long-term & committed relationship ASAP without loneliness, trust-issues or emotionally unavailable men.Antia studied Attachment Styles & Personality Psychology at U.C. Berkeley, Brody has a degree in Communications & Interpersonal Relationships and they have been keynote speakers on hundreds of stages, radio & TV shows all over the world including Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club and Good Morning San Diego.They have also been featured on ABC Radio, Brides Magazine & The Great Love Debate and for over a decade studied EVERYTHING they could get their hands on in the areas of male psychology, feminine communication & creating an incredible relationship fast without low-confidence, anxiety or rejection.They look forward to helping YOU to attract your man for a happy, healthy and supportive relationship the easy way and becoming one of their newest success stories soon as well! Check Out Antia's Full Love Story: https://MagnetizeYourMan.com/AboutAntia~ Incredible Client Love Stories & Reviews! ~“My man and I are very happy as we are exploring and enjoy our new life together. Our coaching together was very helpful in my ability to stay centered in the reality of a true intimate loving relationship unfolding. It has also helped me in nurturing it too. Thanks so much for your support!” -A. G.“One year since the day my fiancé and I met is just around the corner, and we are now married! We are in love and don't want to live life without one another. I have lived with him for 6 months and have been the happiest I have ever been in my life. Thank you so much for the coaching… I will check in very soon. Lots of love!” -L. W."My guy is so easy to love and be with. It's a treat to share time with him. He now makes me feel so special in his ways. He isn't afraid to be himself with me... the best compliment. LOVE the program, and now I'm learning how to be in a healthy relationship!" ~F. W."I just wanted to let you know that I met a really great guy.  He has done a lot of personal work and we are enjSupport the show

Business breakups and friendship dissolutions don't get talked about enough in the online space — yet these are the wounds that cut the deepest and take the longest to recover from. Losing someone who you once built ideas with, dreamed with, planned with, trusted with your fears… hits the nervous system differently than a romantic breakup.    In today's conversation, I'm joined by Psychologist and Attachment Style Expert Dr. Morgan Anderson — and we're talking about the silent trauma of losing friendships and partners you once shared your vision with.    TIFFANY CARTER RESOURCES MENTIONED:    My Exclusive 2-Month Private Business & Money Coaching Program: APPLY HERE  *at this level, I only take 4 clients at a time    ProjectME Posse Business & Money Coaching Membership Details + Join HERE    Connect with Tiff:  Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany   Tiffany on TikTok @projectme_with_tiffany  Tiffany on YouTube: ProjectME TV  Tiffany's FREE Abundance Email Community: JOIN HERE > The Secret Posse     DR. MORGAN ANDERSON RESOURCES:  Instagram: @drmorgancoaching  Podcast: Let's Get Vulnerable   Free Attachment Style Quiz HERE    Inside this episode, we unpack:    > Why the loss of a business friend can feel like identity collapse
  > How attachment styles play out professionally, not just romantically
  > The psychological reason betrayal from a friend hurts more than betrayal from a romantic partner
  > The nervous system imprint that happens when someone you trusted "switches on you"
  > How to separate who YOU are… from what their decision says about THEM
  > Why high-achieving women are more prone to friendship breakups during seasons of expansion
    > How the body grieves business dissolutions even when the mind says "it's for the best"
  > What unresolved childhood wounds get reactivated when a business bond shatters  > How to rebuild self-trust after someone you loved or respected uses access to harm you    This is a validating, honest, deeply needed conversation for any entrepreneur who has walked through the pain of losing a relationship that once held meaning — and who wants to understand what that rupture does to your body, your safety, your trust, and your business. 

Ever wondered what it's like to go from a tiny hamlet in England to the heart of Manhattan—and then channel all those big feelings into powerful, honest music? On this episode of Bringin' It Backwards, Adam Lisicky sits down with Ella Rosa, an artist whose journey might just inspire you to rethink what's possible. Ella opens up about her move from Reading, England to New York City at age eleven, tackling the culture shock and homesickness that shaped so much of her early songwriting. She shares how classical training, opera, and musical theater led her to top-lining EDM tracks in New York's nightlife scene—sometimes sneaking out of the house to perform in clubs before she was even old enough to drive. From writing in packed studios as the only girl in the room to forging her own path with deeply personal songs, Ella paints a vivid picture of what it means to stay true to yourself as an artist. They dive into the release and impact of her breakthrough EP, Anxious Attachment Style, and chat about her latest singles—plus why she's obsessed with making music that makes you feel something and throwing parties that bring LA together. Whether you're figuring out your sound or just need a boost of creative affirmation, this conversation shows how embracing your weirdness is often the secret sauce in moving forward. Don't miss this candid, insightful episode—hit subscribe to Bringin' It Backwards and listen as Ella Rosa reflects on her rise, her honesty, and what she wishes every young artist knew.

Today we dive into the mind of an avoidant- - what makes them shut down? - what are the thinking when they shut down? - what are the feeling when they have the urge to run away or shut down? - why do they walk away? And what you and your partner can do to save your relationship. I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Support the show

In this episode (originally aired on 5/8/24), I sit down with clinical psychologist, Dr. Jaclyn Nofech-Mozes, to discuss all things parent-child attachment, why we all have the tools to attain secure attachment, and why we can't be perfect parents. Jaclyn explains the four attachment styles, the primary components of secure attachment, and what “rupture and repair” means. She also shares why it's essential to know your “shark music” as a parent, whether sleep training, breastfeeding, and daycare/nannies affect attachment, and how child attachment changes with age. Finally, she discusses fostering secure attachment with your child as the non-birthing parent, the impact of maternal mental health on attachment, and how we can initiate repair if there has been a rupture.Key Takeaway / Points:Dr. Nofech-Mozes' background as a clinical psychologistWhat is parent-infant attachment?On the four attachment stylesWhy we don't need to be the perfect parentThe primary components of secure attachmentOn “rupture and repair”On recognizing your “shark music”Whether sleep training, breast feeding, and daycare/nannies affect attachmentHow child attachment changes with ageHow you can develop a secure attachment with your child if you had an insecure attachment with a parent growing upOn fostering attachment with the non-birthing partnerWhy some mothers feel that “instant bond” and others don'tOn the impact of maternal mental health on attachmentAdvice for how to initiate repairWatch this episode on YouTube HEREDr. Jaclyn Nofech-Mozes practice: OrKid PyschologyFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogersSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogersYoutube: Cameron Rogers

In this episode, we dive into Part 2 of the Love Is Blind Season 9 recap and let me tell you, it's a juicy one. This isn't just reality TV talk. It's about self-awareness, emotional regulation, and real relationship growth. We're unpacking what Love Is Blind teaches us about attachment styles, boundaries, and what truly creates lasting love.Inside the episode:

️ Grab the 5-day INFP tutorial and join 5,000+ people getting rare weekly insights → http://geekpsychology.com/infp-5day▶️ Ready to go deeper? Check out the Evolve Community at http://evolve.geekpsychology.comMost people think they want deep connection—until old patterns show up. You chase, pull back, shut down. Sound familiar?In this conversation with neuroscientist and author Dr. Dario Nardi, we break down the 9 attachment styles (not just the basic 4) and how your Myers-Briggs type secretly influences the way you love, trust, and sabotage relationships.Whether you're an INFP stuck in the push-pull cycle, an INTJ lone wolf, or an ENFJ anxious pursuer, this video will help you finally understand why you keep repeating the same patterns—and what you can actually do about it.We cover:• The 4 classic attachment styles (and why they're incomplete)• The expanded 9-style model with your personality type's "home base"• Why gender socialization vs. type creates inner conflict• Defense mechanisms that keep you blind to your own pattern• The shocking stat about how many people struggle with this• Real therapeutic tools that work (EMDR, somatic practices, and more)If you've ever felt confused about why relationships feel so hard, this is your roadmap. Resources mentioned:• "Learning Love" by Thais Gibson (https://amzn.to/47mlBvx)• Elena Wolf (therapeutic consultant) (https://www.ilenewolf.com/) Chapters:Let's figure this out together. Drop a comment with your type and attachment style—I read them all.0:00 - Why Deep Connection Feels Impossible3:55 - What Your Ex Sees That You Don't4:51 - The One Question That Reveals Everything6:07 - The 4 Styles Everyone Gets Wrong6:25 - What Makes Someone 'Securely Attached'?8:15 - The Attachment Style That Confuses Everyone10:44 - Why You Can't See Your Own Pattern26:09 - The Lone Wolf's Secret28:31 - The Player's Secret Emotional Avoidance30:05 - Why INFPs Feel Everything (And Run Away)32:27 - When Stoic Becomes Your Survival Mode32:59 - The Controller: The Style Nobody Mentions34:40 - The Caretaker's Invisible Trap39:19 - Gender vs. Personality: Which Controls You More?41:55 - Your Type's Secret Relationship Weakness1:04:18 - How to Actually Heal (Not Just Understand)1:05:30 - The Childhood Wound You're Still Protecting1:08:34 - Why Talk Therapy Isn't Enough1:18:16 - The Stat That Changes How You Date1:19:18 - The Relationship Hierarchy That Changes EverythingTools Used (Affiliate Links):Video and audio editing is easy with Descript: https://descript.cello.so/xEAztGmHclI

Dr. Alexandra is in-studio with her husband, Todd, for this special two-part conversation about loving across potentially dealbreaking differences. Inspired by the Netflix show, Nobody Wants This, starring Kristen Bell and Adam Brody, Dr. Alexandra and Todd reflect on navigating a faith difference, with Dr. Alexandra ultimately converting to Judaism in preparation for their marriage. They discuss the larger question: how can a couple go about navigating ANY potentially dealbreaking difference? You'll hear their reflections on Dr. Alexandra's decision to convert to Judaism, as they discuss the implications of being the 'sacrificing partner' versus the one being 'sacrificed for'. You will also hear how attachment differences and family of origin dynamics impacted their relationship and what they've learned from it all over the years. You'll come away from this episode with:A deeper understanding of how interfaith dynamics can enrich or challenge relationships.Insights into the importance of communication in overcoming differences.Practical advice on navigating family of origin roles and attachment styles to enhance relationship intimacy.Resources worth mentioning from the episode:Reimagining Love Episode, Love Stories: Toddcast https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/love-stories-toddcast/Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass:  http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Welcome back to the Let's Get Vulnerable Podcast! In this long-awaited two-part series, I break down Love Is Blind Season 9 through the lens of attachment theory and real-world relationship psychology. In Part 1, I dive deep into three of this season's most talked-about couples, Jordan & Meg, Joe & Madison, and Nick & Annie and unpack the attachment style dynamics, emotional patterns, and compatibility clashes that played out on screen. Whether you've seen the show or not, you're going to see your own relationship lessons reflected here.Inside the Episode:Jordan & Meg - Why emotional safety alone isn't enough if your lifestyles and core values don't align.Joe & Madison - The painful reality of the anxious-avoidant dance and how self-rejection often masquerades as romance.Nick & Annie - Fantasy relationships, love bombing, and what it really takes to build a secure connection after the honeymoon phase fades.If you're ready to stop re-living the same dating patterns and actually become the securely attached version of you, this is your moment. The Empowered.Secure.Loved Relationship Program is closing applications this year, and spots are filling fast. This is the last chance to work with me and rewire your attachment style for good.

Jillian breaks down one of the most talked-about topics in modern psychology: attachment styles. But instead of sticking to labels, she challenges the oversimplified ways we use them—and offers a more grounded, compassionate way to understand why we love, cling, or pull away. Jillian shares personal insights into how she healed her own attachment wounds and explains the deeper influences of culture, family conditioning, trauma, and life context on our relationships. This is your guide to moving beyond “anxious” or “avoidant” and toward true emotional security and connection. Download Jillian's FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you've ever wondered why you over-give to keep the peace, shut down to stay “strong,” or feel that push-pull of wanting closeness but fearing it—your attachment style is likely running the show behind the scenes.In this episode, I'm joined by Jessica Baum, therapist and author of Anxiously Attached and Safe. We break down attachment theory in real, everyday terms—how early experiences shape the way you love, what “secure” actually feels like in your body, and how to move from survival patterns to safe, connected relationships.We're diving into:✔️ The 4 attachment patterns (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized)—and why most of us are blends depending on the person and season✔️ How anxious people-pleasing/self-abandonment and avoidant “I'm fine” independence form—and practical steps to heal (interoception, anchoring relationships, and rupture & repair)✔️ Raising (and re-raising) secure: what kids need now, why it's never too late to repair, and the role of friendship/community in feeling safeIf you're ready to stop waiting for the other shoe to drop and start feeling secure from the inside out—this conversation is for you.

Okay, y'all… we need to talk about this season of Love Is Blind.

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What if the way you love, fight, or text back all comes from how you were held as a baby?