Join Franky & Roshell for dating and relationship discussions on messy & motivational. Each week we deliver stories from around the internet and dm's directly to us of people sharing real problems where we provide honest and mature advice.
Parents have taught their daughters to be independent women, but when a woman is behind dating and looking for love; relationships are scarce. The question is has the advice many women have been told led to no relationship because guys feel think, "She's too independent?" --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Thoughts of, "I don't love my husband anymore," may come up in marriage out of frustration, but many men and women stay in the relationship for the sake of kids and not wanting to be alone. The real question is when you don't want to stay in a relationship anymore what do you do? What type of advice would you give to someone who's marriage goals have failed and are questioning what's best for me and what direction they should go in marriage. Should he or she stay? That is where Franky and Roshell discuss today's online post with the thought of if someone is in a relationship where their partner loves someone else; would you stay? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
When looking for success, trying to convince someone that they should be with you will not work. Whether looking at men or women who are dating; relationships that are motivational and inspire are the goals. That is where today's video we are looking to bring inspiration, advice, and motivation on confidence and not letting your partner talk all over you. We will discuss a post online where someone is hurting for love in their relationship and how to know your worth whether on a date, serious relationship or in marriage. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
What are your thoughts on this wife and if she was rude to her husband? Was she out of bounds? Was he weak for not standing up for her? That is the topic of today's discussion focused on building healthy relationships and how you should treat your spouse. Even in my own life being very disrespectful is something that I have experienced. Being angry and showing mean behavior can be hard to handle for me in a relationship so why should someone be out through the same thing? Let's talk about it. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
I am beginning to wonder, "Did I marry the wrong person?" As if making it to the wedding day isn't tough enough adjusting to your new person after saying I do can be tougher. That is because after you marry someone things you did in the past may not be the same. That is where today's message leads us with a woman posting did I marry the wrong person. Join Franky & Roshell delivering mature conversations about dating, courtship and marriage with their Relationship Q&A Videos. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
The fellas might say, "Sis you looking real desperate." This is the conversation starter for today's dating and relationship discussions. Franky & Ro' talk about signals that men pick up on that may show how desperate you end up looking in the dating game. Bringing real and candid conversations looking at social media posts, appearance and more do you think these are signs of looking desperate? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Removing toxic people from your life can be challenging and with news breaking that Vanessa Bryant kicked her mom, Sophia Laine. That is where today's Relationship Q&A goes as Franky & Ro' discuss the volatile situation and tips on dealing with toxic people. Life is hard enough without having to deal with people from your family, relationships, and more bring toxic behaviors around. That is where Franky & Ro' have 5 Tips to help those wanting to know about removing toxic people from your life. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Girl is he a scammer? Well, how to know if a guy is using you for money is something many women worry about. With the internet he might be in the scammer world and figuring out how to know if a guy is using you is the topic of our relationship Q&A. Franky & Ro' react to a serious question about a guy sending signals that he might be into using you for money as a scammer. So let's get into Signs a guy is using you for money looking for a sugar mama with another one from our Relationship Drama Stories Couple Reaction. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Have you ever asked, "Are my dating standards too high?" When dating the only relationship standard you should have is something many singles and couples struggle with creating relationship drama stories. Relationship standards are guidelines that establish standards with couples. The only challenge is if you don't establish these relationship standards it can be a recipe for disaster. Bringing real questions and answers about marriage, dating, and relationships today we discussing just that on Messy & Motivational. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Some of us struggle knowing when to cut people off. In today's cancel culture, it is easy to go to the extreme of cutting people off and never speaking to them again. That is where in today's dating and relationship discussion Roshell sits down with Pamela Bell of Coffee and Conversations to discuss knowing how and knowing when is the right time to end a relationship. These are the type of situations that many relationship drama stories are built on so yes in a relationship if you have to cut people off; it can be hurtful, but the ladies discuss all these types of questions and provide answers about today's topic. So as always bringing real questions and answers about marriage, dating, and relationships today we discussing just that on Messy & Motivational. Should you cut them off? We will share our reaction helping out as relationship mentors. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Recovering from an Abusive Relationship is a challenge many individuals face around the world. That is where we get into the story regarding Megan Thee Stallion vs Tory Lanez coming out saying he shot her is heartbreaking. In a heartbreaking IG Live Megan Thee Stallion vs Tory Lanez took it up another notch as Megan discussed the internet hate, Tory Lanez team lying to the media, and more. That is where we discuss the story and give tips for those looking solutions for recovering from an abusive relationship. Bringing real questions and answers about marriage, dating, and relationships today discussing the sad story and Megan having the bravery to come out and speak as we share our reaction helping out as relationship mentors. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. #MESSYMOTIVATE #TORYLANEZ #MEGANTHEESTALLION --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Romance and the bedroom are definitely challenging when a woman says my boyfriend has a small package. That is where today's dating and relationship discussion goes as a woman writes a post wondering would it be okay to ask her boyfriend who has a small package to wear an extender. She goes on in the letter to discuss how her prior boyfriend was much larger and she says, "I love my current boyfriend outside of his small package." Join Franky & Roshell for this discussion about a boyfriend and his package being a little too small. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Love has twists, but when saying, "My spouse cheated! Now what?" It puts a different twist on things when your partner opens the door for both of you to play on the dating app Tinder. Join Franky & Roshell as they discuss everything tinder, how his spouse cheated, and provide advice on what to do now. This all stems from a Reddit Post where they write, "My wife wants an open marriage after downloading tinder." #MessyMotivate #CoupleVideos #RelationshipAdvice --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
NFL Hall of Famer and “Dancing with the Stars” winner Emmitt Smith and his wife Pat Smith jointly announced their plans to “uncouple.” Join Franky & Roshell as they discuss the announcement by the couple divorcing after 20 years and why others are doing the same. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Bringing real questions and answers about marriage, dating, and relationships today we discussing, "Why do I keep dating losers?" Join Franky & Roshell along with certified dating coach, Damona Hoffman from the Dates & Mates Radio Show & Podcast. Recognized as a love expert for BET.com, and a dating expert by DatingAdvice.com, in Los Angeles we get into challenges with women who keep dating losers and are wondering why. Join us for mature conversations about everything marriage, dating, and divorce-related on Messy & Motivational. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
With many marriages impacted by the pandemic, they are asking how to survive an unemployment crisis? Joins Franky & Roshell as they sit down for some tips all about dating and relationship discussions with a letter about a couple facing financial hardship due to unemployment becoming a part of their marriage. It is here where we discuss the current crisis and tips for learning how to survive all of the challenges presented in this current crisis. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. #MESSYMOTIVATE #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #marriageworks --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Today we are discussing an r/relationship advice post from AskReddit about someone who says, I Want my cheating ex-girlfriend gone from my life. What started as an international love has transformed into a nightmare and Franky & Roshell provide their thoughts on what to do. With ex-girlfriend drama driving this guy crazy things are getting complicated with cheating and pregnancy. So, getting her gone from his life will be an even bigger challenge. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Today we are discussing a r/relationship advice post from AskReddit about someone who says, I found out my husband's been cheating... I'm afraid of divorce! Join us as Franky & Roshell bring you dating and relationship discussions as they react to this cheating story. With her marriage on the line and finding out her husband has been cheating this is a tough one. Being afraid of divorce is something many married couples deal with and asking if I'm to blame is also discouraging. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Today we are discussing an r/relationship advice post from AskReddit about someone who says, Both of my parents are cheating on each other. Faced with moving back home during the pandemic a son has witnessed both his father and mother cheating on each other. That is where his post questions if he should address the issue with both parents or not. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Today we are discussing an r/relationship advice post from AskReddit about someone who says, I Want my cheating ex-girlfriend gone from my life. What started as an international love has transformed into a nightmare and Franky & Roshell provide their thoughts on what to do. With ex-girlfriend drama driving this guy crazy things are getting complicated with cheating and pregnancy. So, getting her gone from his life will be an even bigger challenge. Let's find out with more dating and relationship discussions. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
We are talking dating, marriage, and divorce with our Will and Jada Red Table Talk Reaction. This week Jada Pinkett Smith sat down at the Red Table to talk about the rumors about August Alsina. Moderated by Will Smith the Hollywood Couple discussed the ups and downs in their relationship from dating, to marriage problems, and thoughts of divorce. This situation has been the talk of many news and gossip outlets and we are here with our Jada Pinkett Smith Red Table Talk Reaction on our relationship advice talk show. #MESSYMOTIVATE #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #RELATIONSHIP --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Let's talk about relationships on our relationship advice talk show where today a post reads, "Should I take him back after cheating?" Join us as we get into a post about a young woman who was abandoned by her child's father. After going through a high-risk pregnancy she found out about him cheating and not being there for her. Now that his child is here she is questioning should she take him back even though he was cheating. #MESSYMOTIVATE #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #RELATIONSHIP --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Let's talk about relationships on our relationship, advice talk show as we discuss how to deal with mutual friends after a break up can be challenging especially when they hate you. Join us for a couple talk about relationship tips. Franky and Roshell discuss handling mutual friends when a break up has happened. This can be a challenging situation to deal with and that is where we look to help on our dating and relationship discussion. Things get interesting with the advice given on relationships. Join us and we hope you enjoy the talk show/podcast. #MESSYMOTIVATE #RELATIONSHIPGOALS #RELATIONSHIP --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
I can't stop crying over him is how today's post comes to us from someone posting I'm still not over my ex. Bringing you another one of our relationship drama stories we have a woman who can't stop crying over her ex-boyfriend. All she can do is think about him and even though it has been 6 months since they have broken up she is still in tears crying over him. Take a moment to hang out without Franky & Roshell on our Relationship Advice Talk Show. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
Are you wondering how to fix a dead bedroom? Thinking your husband needs a girlfriend? Well, today's post thinks the answer is letting her husband have a girlfriend. That is where Franky and Roshell discuss ways to fix the couple's bedroom issue and if her husband really needs a girlfriend. The question is whether our hosts can provide tips to bring their bedroom back to life. So join the discussion sharing tips on how to fix this concerned wife's bedroom problems. Can we help their bedroom to go from being dead to coming back to life? Find out here with another dating and relationship discussion on messy and motivational. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/messymotivate/message
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