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Most org design conversations get forced through a narrow funnel: prove the ROI, justify the spend, make the numbers work. But if work is something most people can't opt out of—and where we spend a huge chunk of our attention and waking lives—then “it pays off” feels like a painfully small standard. This week, Rodney and Sam explore the ethical case for organizational design. They move beyond spreadsheets and profit metrics to ask bigger questions about leadership, power, transparency, compensation, and the human impact of broken systems. What do organizations owe the people who work inside them? Is better workplace design a moral responsibility — not just a financial strategy? -------------------------------- Ready to change your organization? Let's talk. Get our newsletter: Sign up here. Follow us: LinkedIn Instagram -------------------------------- Mentioned references: r/antiwork Mihaly Csikzentmihalyi and Flow Target CEO comp package (note: New CEO's comp package is roughly $16m, vs over $70m for the prior CEO in 2020) triple bottom line John Rawls and A Theory of Justice 00:00 Check-In: What's your energy like right now? 04:04 Divorcing doing what's “good work” from ROI 08:16 A “good” experience is the exception rather than the rule 10:06 Protecting yourself isn't “selling out” 15:41 Spending our attention on worthy things 21:35 Leadership vs. worker power disparity is broken 27:31 Ethically designed companies never are publicly traded 31:07 Principles and values of ethical orgs 40:35 Joy at work shouldn't be nickled and dimed 44:35 Idea 1: Don't accept performative change initiatives 47:17 Idea 2: Audit your existing principles and values 48:35 Idea 3: Don't let leadership gaslight you into conforming 50:33 Wrap up: Leave us a review and share the show with a friend Sound engineering and design by Taylor Marvin of Coupe Studios.
Living with alcoholism can make you question everything—your judgment, your boundaries, even your reality. If you're thinking about divorcing an alcoholic (or you're not ready to leave yet, but you know something has to change), this episode is for you.Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport sit down with Jeff Wright, an insurance brokerage founder and mentor who has helped countless people navigate toxic, alcohol-fueled relationships—shaped by his own childhood experience with an abusive alcoholic parent.Together, they unpack why leaving an alcoholic spouse can feel impossible (even when the situation is clearly unsafe), how trauma bonds keep people stuck, and what “self-preservation” really looks like when you're trying to protect your children and your sanity.You'll also learn the practical steps to take before you file: who to talk to (and who not to), how to make a plan quietly, how to build confidence when you feel shattered, and what legal tools can help keep kids safe—including monitoring options like Soberlink, testing, and supervised parenting time.If you've been surviving in chaos, consider this your permission slip to stop normalizing it—and start building a path out.What You'll Learn in This EpisodeWhy living with an alcoholic partner can distort your reality and decision-makingThe real reasons people stay (hint: it's often not money)What a trauma bond is and why “they hurt you, then hug you” feels like loveHow alcoholism impacts the drinker's brain—and why denial can be extremeHow to assess your home environment: stress signals, kids' behavior, and “waiting for them to come home” tensionWhat self-preservation actually means: privacy, planning, and choosing the right supportWhy your divorce attorney is not your therapist—and why you need bothConcrete action steps: quiet planning, go-bag/documents, separate accounts, and rebuilding confidenceLegal tools that can support safety for kids (monitoring/testing options and structured parenting arrangements)Episode Highlights / Timestamps00:00 The reality: alcoholism can make you question your judgment and reality00:57 Sponsor: OurFamilyWizard + discount code02:11 Who this episode is for (especially if you haven't left yet)03:07 Meet Jeff Wright and why this is his mission06:07 Jeff's childhood with an abusive alcoholic father (and lasting impact)08:17 Morgan explains why this becomes “normal” when you're living it10:29 Why people don't leave: kids, fear,...
The Soil Sisters welcome one of their former coaches and teachers, Dr. Nelson Coulter, to the podcast to discuss his experience in Texas public schools. This discussion takes a ground-level look at changing school food systems and what becomes possible when communities prioritize health. Dr. Coulter explains the steps and bureaucracy involved in formally leaving the National School Lunch Program, the budget tradeoffs required, and why small districts can oftentimes innovate faster. The conversation covers what changed after the shift—less food waste, steadier energy and performance throughout the day, improved athletic practices, reduced after-school overeating at home, and better behavioral self-regulation—along with ideas for making healthier student meals feasible in all school districts. Dr. Coulter also shares how permaculture and regenerative practices shape his family's ranch life, food production, and self-sufficiency. TIME STAMPS:00:00 Welcome to the Soil Sisters Podcast00:26 Meet Dr. Nelson “Coach” Coulter01:31 Reconnected During a Regenerative Soil Textbook Delivery03:42 Returning to West Texas & Rethinking What Schools Are For07:47 Building the Guthrie Graduate Profile (soft skills over test scores) 10:02 Replacing Test Prep with a School Garden11:58 Health Wake-Up Call: Educator & Student Wellness19:37 First Steps to Healthier Cafeterias26:36 Budgeting for Better Food30:53 Divorcing the National School Lunch Program36:20 Kids Actually Eat It: Cutting Food Waste With Real Lunches38:43 From School Garden to Cafeteria: Harvesting, Preserving, Sharing 40:12 Is This Feasible for Average School Districts? Budgets, Policy Shifts & Nutrition Booster Clubs44:40 Life on the Ranch After Retirement54:57 What Changed in Students?01:02:17 Closing Reflections: Gratitude, Guitar, Where to Read More & What's Next
Divorcing a narcissist is already emotionally exhausting, but when your kids begin turning against you, the pain can feel unbearable. In this episode, we break down what's really happening when children side with a narcissistic parent and how to respond in a healthy, strategic way. If you're dealing with parental alienation, manipulation, or emotional abuse during a narcissistic divorce, this conversation will give you clarity and practical next steps. Register for my upcoming 2-Day trainign on March 9-10, 2026: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/webinar We cover: Why kids sometimes align with a narcissistic parent The psychology behind parental alienation How narcissists manipulate children during divorce What NOT to do when your child turns against you How to protect your relationship with your children long-term Emotional regulation strategies during high-conflict co-parenting Healing from narcissistic abuse while parenting Whether you are co-parenting with a narcissist, navigating custody battles, or struggling with the emotional impact of narcissistic abuse on your family, this episode will help you understand what's happening, and how to move forward with strength. You are not alone.
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In this episode of Confident Coparenting™, Jeanne sits down with her son, Ethan, for an honest and thoughtful conversation about what divorce feels like from a child's perspective—both in the moment and years later. Together, they explore the emotions kids often carry quietly during divorce, what adults tend to underestimate, and how communication, reassurance, and emotional safety can make a lasting difference. Ethan shares what helped him feel grounded, how he navigated loyalty and pressure, and what he believes every parent should remember about their child during this time. This conversation is not about blame or judgment. It's about listening—really listening—to the inner world of kids and young adults as they experience family change. Whether you are a parent navigating divorce, a co-parent, or a professional who supports families, this episode offers meaningful insight into how parents can show up in ways that help their children feel secure, supported, and seen.
If your ex is still controlling you and you keep reacting, explaining, or trying to keep the peace… you might be actively hurting your legal case without even realizing it.Because here's the thing: divorce doesn't cure controlling behavior—it often exposes it. And control doesn't always look loud. Sometimes it looks “polite.” Sometimes it looks like silence. Sometimes it looks like a thousand tiny moments that make your stomach drop.In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, attorney Morgan Stogsdill and comedian Andrea Rappaport break down what control looks like after separation, why it escalates, and the legal + emotional action steps to shut it down.And yes—there's also a story involving a tambourine, a fire-lit “happiness class,” and a man casually threatening everyone with a tombstone. (Welcome to the show.)What You'll Learn in This Episode✅ How control shows up during divorce (even when it's not obvious)Morgan explains that control can look like:Financial control: “I'll pay when I feel like it,” monitoring spending, moving goalpostsMicromanaging parenting and second-guessing everything you doWeaponized silence / delayed responses to make you spiralMaking you feel like you need permission for decisions you don't need permission for“Polite” manipulation disguised as “concern for the kids”Why control often escalates after separationAndrea explains the psychology: when someone loses access and power, they often pull harder—because control is how they regulate their discomfort.The dangerous legal issue most people miss: “splitting”Morgan explains how controlling behavior can drive a wedge between you and your attorney—making you doubt your lawyer, hold back details, or get pulled into the ex's narrative.That's not just stressful. It can derail your strategy and cost you serious money. The communication trap that keeps you stuckIf your nervous system is hijacked every time they text you, you'll default to the old pattern:ReactingOver-explainingTrying to smooth things overTrying to get them to “understand”Which gives them exactly what they want: access.The Tools That Help You Stop the Control1) Tighten the structure (legally + logistically)Morgan explains why vague agreements don't work with controlling people. Example of vague: “reasonable communication.” Problem: “reasonable” becomes a playground for manipulation.2) Reduce accessBecause (say it with us): control fades when access fades.That may mean:limiting communicationusing a parenting appnot responding to baitpushing...
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Sharing a home with your soon-to-be ex can feel strange, lonely, and oddly practical all at once. We go straight at the discomfort and unpack why so many women make this choice for a season and how to support yourself emotionally and mentally through the transition period. If this conversation helps, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick rating. Want deeper support? Learn about one-on-one coaching at Karinnelsoncoaching.com. Your next chapter starts with one steady step. What's yours today?To download your FREE GUIDE: "7-Day Self Trust Reset" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here. If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.
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Most people expect a divorce or breakup to be painful. What they don't expect is for it to feel strategic, relentless, and never-ending. If you're separating from someone with narcissistic traits, you're likely treating it as a transition, but they're treating it like a war. Today you'll learn why divorcing or breaking up with a narcissistic partner follows a completely different set of psychological rules, the mindset shifts that help you stop taking the bait, and what you need to do differently, especially if you have kids and want to protect them long-term.____________________________Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/divorcing-or-breaking-up-with-a-narcissist Are You Divorcing or Breaking Up with Someone Who Has Narcissistic Traits? Get the Reality-Check Quiz: https://abbymedcalf.com/narcissistic-breakup-quiz Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack. You'll get...✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby_________ Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each week! https://abbymedcalf.com/loveletter-opt-in/
A talk with Jackie Miller, host of the podcast “Out of Crazy Town: Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist.” Jackie shares her personal story of escaping a coercively controlling, psychologically abusive marriage—and how that led her to try to help others navigating similar nightmarish situations. We talk about how these relationships evolve from subtle manipulation into abusive domination and control; and we talk about the mind-bending psychology of narcissistic abuse—projection, gaslighting, smear campaigns, and the delusional self-justifications that can make these people nearly impossible to understand. We also talk about why victims often seem “crazy” to outsiders, how abusers weaponize children and the legal system, and why staying calm in the face of harassment can be the most powerful defense. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Do you feel like your relationship has gotten of course? Are you unsure if you can fix it or not? If you could fix it, where would you even start? In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with couple Zeke & Terri about how their relationship got off course over the years, how it eventually led to the decision to divorce, and how they accidentally ended up rebooting their relationship and are thriving today. You'll never guess what initially got them back on track! No matter where you are in your relationship, this is a real life story that proves it is possible to fix things even when they get really bad. Sign up to Beducated and use the code LOVELAB to get 50% off the yearly pass, locked in for life. https://beducate.me/pd2550-lovelab To Find Out More About Zeke and Terri, Click The Link Below: https://www.zekeandterri.com/
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Antony's Political Error and the Path to Civil War: Colleague Barry Strauss recounts that Antony commits a major political error by divorcing Octavia, allowing Octavian to frame the conflict as a defense of Roman values against a foreign queen; despite internal objections, Cleopatra remains with the fleet at Ephesus, cementing the inevitability of civil war between the factions.
In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan sit down with high-conflict divorce coach and post-separation abuse strategist Jackie Miller to talk about what it really looks like to divorce a narcissist, survive Crazy Town, and protect yourself from financial abuse during and after divorce. Jackie shares her story of a 16+ year emotionally and financially abusive marriage, how post-separation abuse showed up through the legal and court system, and why so many smart, successful women still feel “crazy” and powerless when trying to leave a controlling or narcissistic spouse. Together, we unpack how manipulation, false narratives, financial control, and threats of litigation are used to keep you spinning — and how nervous system regulation, financial clarity, and the right support team can help you reclaim your power, make smart financial decisions, and move forward. If you're feeling stuck in a high-conflict divorce, being gaslit about money, or overwhelmed by attorneys, forensics, and financial documents, this episode will give you language, validation, and a roadmap for your next steps. About Our Guest – Jackie Miller Jackie Miller is a high-conflict divorce coach and post-separation abuse strategist who helps women and out-spouses disentangle from toxic relationships, reclaim their energy, and stop reacting to narcissistic manipulation — especially inside the family court system. A survivor of a 16.5-year emotionally and financially abusive marriage followed by a high-conflict divorce, Jackie blends lived experience, neuroscience, and practical strategy in her work. She is also the host of the podcast “Out of Crazy Town: Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist,” where she speaks directly to those navigating the chaos of narcissistic and high-conflict divorce. Connect with Jackie: Website: jackiemillercoaching.com Podcast: Out of Crazy Town – Your Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist (available on major podcast platforms) Instagram & YouTube: @outofcrazytown Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Listen as Bleu discusses the latest Messy Relationships In the R & B Music World: Kandi From Xscape Gets Divorced, Brian McKnight Still Bitter After Divorce and Remarrying, and Ray J, Brandy's Brother, disrupts his kids Thanksgiving.
This episode explores gratitude from an entirely different angle. Not the surface-level gratitude we usually hear about, but the kind that comes from the hardest chapters of life. Kara walks you through the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness and explains how emotions carry vibrational frequencies that shape our experiences. Gratitude sits at the top of the scale, yet it is often born from the moments that break us open.Inside this episode, Kara shares the stories that changed her life. Being shut out by the cool kids in 5th grade. Divorcing in her early twenties and finding her voice. The heartbreak of miscarriage and the spiritual awakening that followed, being let go from a job she overperformed in, and how it pushed her into true alignment. And the freedom that came from coming out of the spiritual closet and releasing the fear of what people think.If you are craving a deeper understanding of why the most difficult seasons often shape the strongest versions of us, this episode will speak to your heart. Kara's stories show how gratitude can transform your vibration, expand your consciousness, and help you rise into the truest version of yourself.Explore more of Kara's resources, workshops, and intuitive tools here:karmicleader.com/resources
Send us a textYou're doing all the “right” things—but the connection still feels distant. In this episode, we talk about the emotional gap between being a good partner on paper and actually meeting your person where they are—mentally, emotionally, physically.We explore mismatched love languages, how to build habits that support connection, and why shared leadership matters in every season of marriage.Plus, we offer real advice on listener dilemmas—from family disrespect to boundary breaches and emotional fatigue.Support the show Thanks for rocking with us! Don't forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://linktr.ee/lifeafteridopodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.
When divorce hits, the noise gets loud—court dates, shifting routines, hard conversations, and a flood of emotions that seem to steer the day. We walk through a clear, practical path rooted in Stoicism that helps you steady the wheel: control what you can, accept what you can't, and choose your response with intention. Instead of numbing out, we show how to use ancient tools to build very modern resilience and model strength your kids can trust.Join our Signal Channel: https://shorturl.at/8yqTbJoin The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.comDon't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/Other Resources:The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.comThe Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBpThe Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/ Listeners save 25% on 1-on-1 divorce coaching! Book any coaching between now and the end of the year to claim your discount. Don't just survive this—get a strategic plan.Sign up now: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/coaching-3/. Enter DADS25 at checkout. Support the show
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What happens when the person you're divorcing is still living under the same roof? In this episode, we're talking about one of the hardest and most emotionally draining parts of divorce — sharing a home with your ex while trying to move on.You'll learn the top 10 reasons why so many divorced moms end up stuck in this situation and how to navigate it with less stress, fewer arguments, and more peace. If you're living with a high-conflict ex and trying to keep your sanity — this episode is for you.✨ Ready for more support? Join us inside The Next Chapter Membership for our exclusive workshop, “Divorcing but Still Roommates,” where we'll teach you step-by-step how to navigate this dynamic, protect your peace, and start creating the freedom you deserve.
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Snag Our Simplified Budget System!Divorce is one of the most emotionally and financially challenging transitions you can go through — but it doesn't have to mean financial chaos.In this episode of Financial Coaching for Women, Shayna and Vanessa sit down with Linda, a listener who's in the middle of an amicable divorce but still navigating shared accounts, joint debts, and a home they co-own.Together, they walk through how to start separating finances, set up a simple money system, and communicate effectively with a spouse during such a sensitive season. You'll hear practical steps for setting boundaries, tracking shared bills, and creating financial independence — even before the divorce is finalized.If you're trying to move forward financially while everything feels messy, this episode will give you both clarity and confidence.
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He disappears, then drops a “just checking in” text.He remembers the good old days, then ghosts again.That push–pull dance isn't love — it's control.In this episode of Dear Divorce Diary, Dawn, Tiffini, and Joy unpack the hidden cost of divorcing an avoidant man — the paranoia, the false connection, the endless emotional labor — and teach you how to finally flip the script.You'll learn:
Divorce is frightening, especially from a narc. Learn valuable relationship advice on how to navigate a toxic relationship with a narcissist and understand the emotional abuse and manipulation tactics they use. This video provides a crash course on getting a divorce from a narcissist. Divorcing a narcissist is one of the hardest things you'll ever face — emotionally, spiritually, and legally. In this video, Dr. David E. Clarke, Christian psychologist and author of Escaping Your Narcissist, reveals step-by-step biblical strategies for how to divorce a narcissist safely, protect your children, and reclaim your peace.
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Divorcing a narcissist isn't just hard — it's war. In this powerful episode of the Enough Is Enough Podcast, Dr. David E. Clarke exposes the 10 shocking emotional, financial, and spiritual costs that come with ending a marriage to a narcissistic abuser. You'll learn: ✅ Why narcissists fight dirty during divorce — and how to prepare. ✅ The hidden emotional toll most victims never see coming. ✅ How to protect your children and your faith through the chaos. ✅ The truth about what the Bible really says about leaving an abusive marriage. ✅ How to heal, rebuild, and finally break free from the narcissistic cycle. Dr. Clarke combines 40 years of Christian counseling experience with biblical truth and practical steps to help you stand strong, reclaim your peace, and build a new life after narcissistic abuse.
Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)The loudest voice in divorce is often the one inside your head—the story that explains everything your ex does and why you're “right.” We dig into how confirmation bias narrows your view, fuels conflict, and drains families, and we show a better path: shifting from case-building to problem-solving with tools you can use today.We start by naming how adversarial systems reward selective evidence and turn parents into opposing counsel in their own lives. From emails read in the worst light to kids' struggles being used as proof, bias escalates stress, legal fees, and the sense of moral certainty that keeps you stuck. Then we pivot to what actually helps: future-focused questions, validation without villainizing, and the move from positions (“I want the house”) to interests (“I need stability and financial security”). You'll hear practical reframes, co-parenting communication tweaks, and real examples that replace blame with clarity and choice.For professionals—divorce coaches, mediators, therapists, and attorneys—we offer a blueprint to interrupt bias at the intake question, honor emotions without fueling grievance, and design processes that lower costs while protecting kids. For parents, we highlight simple, child-centered habits that rebuild trust and keep decisions grounded in what matters most. The punchline is simple: being right won't raise your children or heal your nervous system; building a livable future will.If you're ready to trade adversarial autopilot for collaboration and calm, press play. Then share your biggest reframe, subscribe for more grounded guidance, and leave a review to help more families find their way forward. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com
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Elena Huggins, author of Untwist Me: Uncomplicated Life Hacks for Mental and Emotional Liberation shares her personal journey of faith, trauma, and healing, emphasizing the importance of understanding the difference between being healed and being free. Our conversation delves into the complexities of trauma, the significance of processing emotions, and the role of Scripture in finding peace and clarity. Elena offers practical advice to help you navigate your own mental health challenges and encourages you to simplify your struggles to find effective solutions.Trauma can lead to complex emotional challenges that require deep processing.Healing is not the same as freedom; true freedom comes from a relationship with Jesus.Many people manage their mental health rather than truly heal from it.Scripture is the lynchpin in overcoming anxiety and trauma.Anxiety can be unlearned.Processing trauma is essential; you cannot skip steps in healing.Simplifying life's challenges can empower you to take action.Elena's book offers practical steps for emotional liberation.The supernatural power of God plays a crucial role in healing.Fav quotes: "Anxiety is a practiced behavior.""It must start with Jesus, you and Him.""Keep it simple, that's what I would say."Chapters05:47 Elena's Journey to Faith08:48 The Impact of Addiction and Trauma14:16 The Struggle with Mental Health18:14 Finding Freedom in Christ19:20 The Purpose Behind 'Untwist Me'28:47 Processing Trauma: The Importance of Healthy Reflection30:26 Divorcing from the Past: Moving Beyond Trauma33:51 Patterns of Thought: Understanding Anxiety and Depression34:38 Anxiety as a Practiced Behavior: Breaking the Cycle36:58 The Power of Scripture: Transforming Thought Patterns40:06 The Supernatural Power of God: Healing Beyond Therapy44:33 Creating Your Toolbox: Practical Steps for Recovery48:38 Simplifying Life's Challenges: Keeping It Simple*Peek Inside her book: https://amzn.to/4pNdEXpConnect with Elena: https://www.elenahuggins.com/CONNECT WITH VICTORIA:PODCAST WEBSITE: www.choose2thinkpodcast.comMINISTRY WEBSITE: www.choose2think.coFACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/choose2thinkINSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/victoriadwalkerlydon/EMAIL: choose2think@gmail.com *BOOKS:Pickleball Passion A Marriage Devotional: 21 Days to a Stronger Connection on and off the Court https://amzn.to/48wnvaVCHOOSE 2 THINK 365-DAY DEVOTIONAL: https://amzn.to/3Hcl7v1CHOOSE 2 THINK JOURNAL: https://amzn.to/3WvinND*When you click on these Amazon affiliate links, I may earn a teeny commission from qualifying purchases at no extra cost to you. Thank you for your support!DISCLAIMER: Choose 2 Think: A Christian Podcast on Neuroscience, Mindset, Thoughts, and Emotional Health is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Please consult your physician or doctor for all medical advice and counsel.Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/victoria-d-lydon/messageSUPPORT CHOOSE 2 THINK MINISTRIES AND PODCAST HERE: PATREON: Patreon.com/Choose2Thin
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Let's face it—back to school hits different when you're divorced… and especially when you're the one stuck writing 40 thank-you notes from a six-year-old who can barely write his name.In this episode, Andrea and Morgan are tackling two of the most unhinged yet relatable parenting hurdles:
Divorcing a covert narcissist is not just about paperwork—it's about survival. Today on the Covert Narcissism Podcast, I sit down with Bree Sullivan-Howell, a seasoned family law attorney with over two decades of experience and the author of Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith and Crush Your Comeback. Bree brings both practical wisdom from the courtroom and heartfelt guidance for the personal and spiritual battles that survivors face. In this powerful conversation, Bree and I dive deep into: Why narcissists view their spouse and children as possessions—and what happens when you dare to break free. The reality of post-separation abuse and how it shows up in custody battles and court filings. How legal abuse works—and why narcissists weaponize the legal system to keep control. Practical steps for documenting emotional abuse in ways that hold weight in court. The critical importance of building a support team—attorney, therapist, coach, and trusted allies—so you're not fighting this battle alone. How to become a safe haven for your children while navigating accusations of parental alienation. Why it's essential to avoid clinical labels in court and instead focus on facts and behaviors. Bree also shares her faith-based perspective on reclaiming worth, hope, and freedom—reminding us that there is life after narcissism. If you're in the thick of a high-conflict divorce, this episode is a roadmap of both strategy and encouragement. You'll walk away with clarity on what to expect, how to prepare, and the confidence that you are not alone in this fight. DISCLAIMER: THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY RENEE SWANSON, COVERT NARCISSISM PODCAST, AND CNG LIFE COACHING IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND IS NOT TO BE USED FOR DIAGNOSIS PURPOSES AND NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR CLINICAL CARE. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROVIDER FOR GUIDANCE SPECIFIC TO YOUR CASE. THIS MATERIAL DISCUSSES NARCISSISM IN GENERAL. RENEE SHARES STORIES FROM HER PERSONAL EXPERIENCES AS WELL AS FROM THOSE SHE HAS TALKED WITH FOR SEVERAL YEARS. HER MATERIAL DOES NOT CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON HAS NARCISSISM AND SHOULD NOT BE USED TO REFER TO ANY SPECIFIC PERSON AS HAVING NARCISSISM. PERMISSION IS NOT GRANTED TO LINK TO OR REPOST THIS MATERIAL TO SUPPORT AN ALLEGATION OR SUPPORT A CLAIM THAT ANY SPECIFIC PERSON IS A NARCISSIST. THAT WOULD BE AN UNAUTHORIZED MISUSE OF THE MATERIAL AND INFORMATION PROVIDED.
Amy and T.J. are scratching their heads with the rest of you as to why former MLB player David Justice would throw shade on his ex Halle Berry, 30 years after their divorce. But if you listen beyond the headline, what he goes on to say is far worse. From explaining how she proposed to him and how he dumped her, he also talks about how they could’ve stayed together… which has to be tough for his current wife of 24 years. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. are scratching their heads with the rest of you as to why former MLB player David Justice would throw shade on his ex Halle Berry, 30 years after their divorce. But if you listen beyond the headline, what he goes on to say is far worse. From explaining how she proposed to him and how he dumped her, he also talks about how they could’ve stayed together… which has to be tough for his current wife of 24 years. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Amy and T.J. are scratching their heads with the rest of you as to why former MLB player David Justice would throw shade on his ex Halle Berry, 30 years after their divorce. But if you listen beyond the headline, what he goes on to say is far worse. From explaining how she proposed to him and how he dumped her, he also talks about how they could’ve stayed together… which has to be tough for his current wife of 24 years. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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