Podcast appearances and mentions of damona hoffman

This week on Dates & Mates, Damona Hoffman rewinds to one of her favorite conversations with love coach and viral content creator Shaun Galanos. Shaun is the host of The Love Drive podcast and has become a rising voice in game-free, radically honest dating advice—and this episode shows you exactly why. In this raw and radically honest episode, Shaun and Damona go head-to-head on the dating games that hold us back, how to ask for what you want in bed, and what to do when someone won't give you a straight answer. From emotional stonewalling to the pressure of dating app perfectionism, they unpack it all. What you'll learn: Why radical honesty is the only dating strategy worth mastering How to bring up uncomfortable topics without pushing people away What stonewalling actually says—and how to respond to it How to explore kink, sexual compatibility, and deeper intimacy with confidence Why optimizing for the “perfect” person might leave you lonely How to hold your power as a strong woman without dimming your light This episode is part of our Rewind Series, where we revisit some of the most powerful and timeless conversations from the Dates & Mates vault. Subscribe to get every rewind episode and our Spring special bonus episodes the minute they are available. Listen to Sean on The Love Drive podcast and follow him @thelovedrive on Instagram and TikTok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Damona breaks down the 5 core dating “loops” that keep singles stuck and the step-by-step strategies that lead to lasting love. With over 15 years of experience coaching thousands of daters, Damona shares how clarity, mindset, and follow-through can radically shift your dating outcomes. If you've been swiping without success, burning out on first dates, or unsure where to even begin, this episode offers a simple and strategic path forward. What you'll learn: The five most common dating loops and how to break them How to avoid burnout by dating with clarity and purpose Where to actually meet the right people (online and IRL) Why your dating mindset matters more than your profile This is a special masterclass edition of our Rewind Series, where we revisit some of the most powerful and timeless conversations from the Dates & Mates archives. Subscribe to get every rewind episode and our Spring special bonus episodes the minute they are available. Want to go deeper? Learn more at DamonaHoffman.com Join the Dating Accelerator Program Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special Master Class episode, Damona explains the effect that text-based communication has had on dating today. But rather than thinking of it as us losing the art of communication, she proposes that we consider it as gaining another language and expanding our skills. Prepare to develop a communication code of conduct that will hopefully lead you to a deeper, more meaningful connection! Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Laura Day, New York Times bestselling author, shares the insights within her upcoming book, “The Prism: Seven Steps to Heal Your Past and Transform Your Future”. Her transformational tools will put you back in the driver's seat of your life and lead you to healthier relationships with others and yourself. Our Dear Damona question of the week: Where do you draw the line between being too picky and settling? Pre-order your copy of Laura's book,“The Prism: Seven Steps to Heal Your Past and Transform Your Future”, set to be released April 29th, by visiting lauraday.com/shop/ Follow Laura on Instagram @LauraDayIntuit  Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Francesca Hogi, TED speaker and host of the Dear Franny podcast, introduces her new book, “How To Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships.” Plus, she will break down her new definition of true love, dive deeper into the Fairy Tale Industrial Complex, explore her meet-cute mindset and so much more! Our Dear Damona question of the week: Dating apps keep feeding me the same old matches, so how do I meet someone IRL? Grab your copy of Francesca's book, “How to Find True Love: Unlock Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships”, by visiting FrancescaHogi.com/Book Follow Francesca on Instagram @DearFranny  Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of their 18th wedding anniversary, Damona's partner-in-life-and-love, Seth Hoffman, is joining her on the mic to do something they've never done before—answer your burning dating and relationship questions together! From first dates to commitment, conflict to chemistry, they're bringing  you the raw, unfiltered truth straight from the front lines of a long-term partnership with questions like: How heavy should outside opinions weigh on my relationship decisions? How do I get over my freeze response when attending singles events? What do I do when it feels like my partner isn't listening anymore? How can I encourage a more positive mindset about dating in my friend group? I lost my spouse years ago and sometimes miss the companionship. How can I open up my heart to love? Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey well read baddies! She's baaaaack! Dating and relationship expert, podcast host, and author Damona Hoffman returns for another #Black365 ep and for a much-needed update on love in the year 2025. A year after the release of her book F the Fairytale, Damona reflects on how dating has evolved—from the rise of AI-generated profiles and text traps, to the real reason we're all scared of awkward pauses. We're talking about learned dating skills, how to change your mindset for better matches, and why this is still actually the best time in history to be single (yes, even now). Plus, Damona spills on what wasn't in the book—and what she'd add in a future chapter. Whether you're in your pre-date era or just sick of the apps, this one's for the baddies rewriting their own fairytales. 02:22 Church Announcements 9:35 Coffee Break 21:55 Get into the Guest Connect with Damona- https://damonahoffman.com/ Mentioned in this episode: Books and recs- https://bookshop.org/shop/shewellread Damona's previous ep- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/she-well-read/id1506524661?i=1000648721870 We can't wait to hear from you! :) Please send any questions or comments about this episode to shewellread@gmail.com or use the form at the bottom of the SWR Podcast page: https://www.shewellread.com/contact OR leave us a Voice Note at https://www.speakpipe.com/shewellread‬ Follow SHE WELL READ! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shewellread/ TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeDCLdTX/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/shewellread More links including discount codes: https://bio.site/shewellread Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Amanda Pendleton, Zillow's Home Trends expert, examines whether shacking up with a partner actually saves you money—or if the emotional costs outweigh the benefits. Plus, we'll explore how to decide when—or if—it's the right time to merge your spaces and your finances. And later we answer this Dear Damona question of the week: How can you set up a new long-distance relationship for success? VisitZillow.com for all of your home buying needs.  Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program The Dating Accelerator, for $50 off this month ONLY:  DamonaHoffman.com/program Use the code: MARCH50 Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This round the incredible dating coach Damona Hoffman joins us to talk dating as pandemic restrictions lift, her formula for finding love and breaking the news on Tinder… Please enjoy this rereleased episode as part of our Best of Dating Games series. Join our Subscription on Apple Podcasts for ad free episodes + bonus content Check out our award winning mental health podcast HERE Find more from Bobby HERE

Hey Smarties! Today we’re revisiting an episode from earlier this year that might help you make sense of all the tit for tat tariff fight from the past few weeks. It unpacks some tariff history and the potential economic consequences of President Trump’s ongoing trade war. If President Donald Trump goes through with his plan to levy sweeping tariffs on foreign imports, it wouldn't be the first time the U.S. has done such a thing. Ever heard of the Smoot-Hawley Tariff Act of 1930? Anyone? Those tariffs are widely credited with sinking the United States deeper into the Great Depression. And although global trade looks different nowadays, they can teach us a lot about how Trump's protectionist approach to global trade could play out. On the show today, Inu Manak, a fellow for trade policy at the Council on Foreign Relations, explains how the Smoot-Hawley tariff debacle can shed light on the current moment, why the president has the power to wield tariffs in the first place, and how punishing trading partners could leave the U.S. economy at a disadvantage. Plus, what this fight has to do with the 1980s film “Ferris Bueller's Day Off” and Roomba vacuum cleaners! Later, one listener's call to visit your local butcher. And, dating coach Damona Hoffman, host of the “Dates and Mates” podcast, answers the “Make Me Smart” question just in time for Valentine's Day. Here's everything we talked about today: “Tariffs on Trading Partners: Can the President Actually Do That?” from Council on Foreign Relations “One Response to Trump's Tariffs: Trade That Excludes the U.S.” from The New York Times “The United States has been disengaging from the global economy” from the Peterson Institute for International Economics “Protectionism 100 years ago helped ignite a world war. Could it happen again?” from The Washington Post “The US is one of the least trade-oriented countries in the world – despite laying the groundwork for today's globalized system” from The Conversation Double your impact when you donate to Marketplace today, thanks to a $30,000 match from the Investors Challenge Fund: https://support.marketplace.org/smart-sn

Hey Smarties! Today we’re revisiting an episode from earlier this year that might help you make sense of all the tit for tat tariff fight from the past few weeks. It unpacks some tariff history and the potential economic consequences of President Trump’s ongoing trade war. If President Donald Trump goes through with his plan to levy sweeping tariffs on foreign imports, it wouldn't be the first time the U.S. has done such a thing. Ever heard of the Smoot-Hawley Tariff Act of 1930? Anyone? Those tariffs are widely credited with sinking the United States deeper into the Great Depression. And although global trade looks different nowadays, they can teach us a lot about how Trump's protectionist approach to global trade could play out. On the show today, Inu Manak, a fellow for trade policy at the Council on Foreign Relations, explains how the Smoot-Hawley tariff debacle can shed light on the current moment, why the president has the power to wield tariffs in the first place, and how punishing trading partners could leave the U.S. economy at a disadvantage. Plus, what this fight has to do with the 1980s film “Ferris Bueller's Day Off” and Roomba vacuum cleaners! Later, one listener's call to visit your local butcher. And, dating coach Damona Hoffman, host of the “Dates and Mates” podcast, answers the “Make Me Smart” question just in time for Valentine's Day. Here's everything we talked about today: “Tariffs on Trading Partners: Can the President Actually Do That?” from Council on Foreign Relations “One Response to Trump's Tariffs: Trade That Excludes the U.S.” from The New York Times “The United States has been disengaging from the global economy” from the Peterson Institute for International Economics “Protectionism 100 years ago helped ignite a world war. Could it happen again?” from The Washington Post “The US is one of the least trade-oriented countries in the world – despite laying the groundwork for today's globalized system” from The Conversation Double your impact when you donate to Marketplace today, thanks to a $30,000 match from the Investors Challenge Fund: https://support.marketplace.org/smart-sn

Beatriz Victoria Albina, Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, breaks down the ways a dysregulated nervous system might be getting in your way romantically, how to tune into the cues your body is sending you and how to heal ourselves for happier, healthier relationships. Then the Dear Damona question this week is: 15 years later, I find myself back in the dating pool. Where do I begin? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program The Dating Accelerator, for $50 off this month ONLY:  DamonaHoffman.com/program Use the code: MARCH50 Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mercury may be retrograde but we are moving forward on a new path to love with an All-Dear-Damona episode. This week's questions came in from all over the globe: I've been told that men should do the chasing. Do I really have to sit around and wait? How do I keep my cool when matches ask questions that I've already answered in my dating profile? I've done a lot of inner work. How much can I reasonably expect a male match to have done? A famous singer-songwriter reached out to me on Instagram. How do I know if it's the real deal? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program The Dating Accelerator, for $50 off this month ONLY:  DamonaHoffman.com/program Use the code: MARCH50 Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this jam-packed Master Class you'll learn why apathy may be the reason you're feeling burned out in dating and how empathy is the antidote. Damona shares why empathy makes you more attractive, how to cultivate it, and exercises to strengthen both self-empathy and relational empathy. Plus, our Dear Damona questions for the week include: Why are so many people less emotionally available than they say? How can we utilize roster dating for less burnout and better turnout?  I used to find joy in dating. Now it feels like a chore. How can I find joy again?  How can you get a nervous first date to open up and relax? We are giving away 3 audio book copies of F The Fairy Tale in celebration of 550 episodes of Dates & Mates! To enter, just share this episode on your social media and tag Damona @DamonaHoffman and you will be entered for a chance to get the F The Fairy Tale e-book.   If you're tired of dating burnout then it's time to identify your dating loops and move on in love. For the entire month of March, we are giving you $50 off the Dating Accelerator! Just visit DamonaHoffman.com/Course and enter the code March50 Coming up next in the Dates & Mates lineup, we have an all Dear Damona so send in your questions! Submit them on any of the socials @ DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this ad-free episode we are celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting a number of our amazing black educators, artists, and doctors who have shared their brilliant wisdom and gifts on our show. From love, dating and finding "the one" to riding him like a cowgirl, oral sex/fellatio, swallowing and deep-throating, and kink/BDSM/bondage - these 7-10 minute clips will blow your mind! For full episodes be sure to check out the following on your favorite podcast app: Damona Hoffman #365 Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story Tyomi #344 How to Ride that D like a Cowgirl Jody ProHoeVocative #387 Pleasing That D from a Fellatio Expert Dr. Ianessa Humbert #329 Swallowing, Oral Sex, and Deep-Thorating Orpheus Black #333 Tie Me Up! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in Indio, CA May 8th-11th, 2025! https://tinyurl.com/2pfuyvef Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at  http://OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com

Johnny Fernandez, life and love coach, joins Damona to answer the question: is dating really harder today? This is a hot debate and it continues as Johnny and Damona put their four decades of collective experience to work. Whether you're feeling like dating is impossible, or just wondering if you're doing it all wrong, if you're intrigued by masculine/feminine dynamics or not, this episode is for you! Then we have this Dear Damona question of the week: After coming on strong, communication with my match has slowed. How do I know if he's busy or lost interest? Book your tickets to an upcoming Love Breakthrough Live at radianceandcourage.com. The direct link will be in the show notes. You can learn more about Johnny and his wife Lara at @JohnnyAndLara LAST CALL for questions for the February Dear Damona episode! Submit your audio or written questions asap on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or on voicemail at 424-246-6255 TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Modern Dating Challenges (00:00:00)   The Role of Love Coaching (00:01:06)   Johnny's Journey into Love Coaching (00:02:20)   Expectations in Modern Relationships (00:06:12)   The Impact of Choice on Satisfaction (00:10:16)   Effort Required in Today's Dating Landscape (00:12:16)   The Importance of Romantic Relationships (00:13:18)   Choosing Your Hard (00:15:04)   Introduction to Modern Dating (00:15:13)   The Rhetoric of Comparison (00:15:50)   Awareness of Desire (00:17:02)   Fundamentals of the 3D True Love Method (00:17:59)   The Paradox of Choice in Dating (00:19:57)   Societal Programming and Commitment (00:20:59)   The Importance of Distinction (00:22:29)   Focusing on Healthy Relationships (00:24:37)   Authenticity in Dating (00:27:07)   Quality vs. Quantity in Dating (00:29:28)   The Reality of Romance (30:25) Accepting What You Allow (31:16) Understanding Self-Sabotage (31:28) Love Breakthrough Live Overview (31:57) Breaking Through Self-Limiting Beliefs (32:21) Unpopular Opinion on Hustle Culture (34:19) The Importance of Emotional Connection (35:00) Closing Thoughts and Resources (35:56) Listener Question Introduction (36:45) Advice for a Listener (37:17) Navigating Grief and Relationships (39:59) The Importance of Mutual Interest (41:24) Empathy and Understanding in Dating (42:30) Possibility of Future Love (45:04) Closing Remarks (46:14) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lindsay Jill Roth, award winning television producer, shares her new book, “Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) In 250 Questions”, how these questions and ultimately the communication they foster can determine the trajectory of a relationship. Then our Dear Damona question this week is: Is it time for a talk? My man keeps updating his online profile. Get the book: “Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) In 250 Questions” and follow Lindsay on Instagram @LindsayJillRoth  Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Relationship Questions (00:00:00)   Host Introduction (00:00:13)   Lyndsey's Background (00:02:29)   Creating the System (00:03:51)   Importance of Communication (00:06:08)   Finding Comfort in Asking Questions (00:07:43)   Starting Points for Conversations (00:08:29)   Timing for Relationship Discussions (00:10:35)   Therapy Before Problems Arise (00:11:17)   International Romance Story (00:11:44)   Pivotal Moment in the Relationship (00:13:37)   Creating the System from Experience (00:15:09)   Vulnerability in Relationships (00:16:35)   The Challenge of Modern Dating (00:17:06)   Initial Connection Over Text (00:18:44)   The Disappointment of Zero Chemistry (00:19:20)   Researching a Potential Partner (00:20:04)   Deliberate Communication Choices (00:21:12)   Importance of Getting Offline (00:22:00)   Book Structure and Relationship Progression (00:23:06)   The Role of Money in Relationships (00:25:03)   Communication as a Foundation (00:27:12)   Understanding Conflict Styles (00:28:37)   Self-Discovery Through Relationships (00:31:20)   Future Aspirations and Relationship Impact (00:32:51)   The Importance of Structure in Relationships (34:05)   Defining Spirituality in Dating (34:41)   The Value of Self-Reflection (35:51)   Using Books as Relationship Tools (37:11)   Revisiting Conversations in Long-Term Relationships (38:05)   The Evolution of Relationship Conversations (39:00)   Permission to Not Have All the Answers (39:30)   Unpopular Opinions on Dating (41:10)   The Need for Open Communication (41:39)   Listener Question on Relationship Insecurities (43:21)   Navigating Undefined Relationship Spaces (46:05)   Taking the Initiative in Relationship Conversations (48:40)   Exploring Serious Relationships (00:50:59)   The Power of Vulnerability (00:52:07)   Episode Wrap-Up and Resources (00:52:15)   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's the latest in love? For Valentine's Day weekend, we're talking about dating app trends, the impact of AI, the role of politics, and more on dating and relationships, both online and in real life. Celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman joins us to share data and advice.   Join us again for our 10-minute daily news roundups every Mon-Fri!  Learn more about Damona Hoffman: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/shownotes Become an INSIDER and get ad-free episodes here: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/insider Sign-up for our weekly EMAIL: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/email Get The NewsWorthy MERCH here: https://www.theNewsWorthy.com/merch Sponsors: Try Bombas now! Head over to Bombas.com/newsworthy and use code NEWSWORTHY for 20% off your first purchase! Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with Lume Deodorant and get 15% off with promo code NEWSWORTHY at Lumedeodorant.com! To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to libsynads@libsyn.com #relationships #dating #valentinesday    

If President Donald Trump goes through with his plan to levy sweeping tariffs on foreign imports, it wouldn’t be the first time the U.S. has done such a thing. Ever heard of the Smoot-Hawley Tariff Act of 1930? Anyone? Those tariffs are widely credited with sinking the United States deeper into the Great Depression. And although global trade looks different nowadays, they can teach us a lot about how Trump’s protectionist approach to global trade could play out. On the show today, Inu Manak, a fellow for trade policy at the Council on Foreign Relations, explains how the Smoot-Hawley tariff debacle can shed light on the current moment, why the president has the power to wield tariffs in the first place, and how punishing trading partners could leave the U.S. economy at a disadvantage. Plus, what this fight has to do with the 1980s film “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” and Roomba vacuum cleaners! Later, one listener’s call to visit your local butcher. And, dating coach Damona Hoffman, host of the “Dates and Mates” podcast, answers the “Make Me Smart” question just in time for Valentine’s Day. Here’s everything we talked about today: “Tariffs on Trading Partners: Can the President Actually Do That?” from Council on Foreign Relations “One Response to Trump's Tariffs: Trade That Excludes the U.S.” from The New York Times “The United States has been disengaging from the global economy” from the Peterson Institute for International Economics “Protectionism 100 years ago helped ignite a world war. Could it happen again?” from The Washington Post “The US is one of the least trade-oriented countries in the world – despite laying the groundwork for today's globalized system” from The Conversation Got a question or comment for the hosts? Email makemesmart@marketplace.org or leave us a voicemail at 508-U-B-SMART.

If President Donald Trump goes through with his plan to levy sweeping tariffs on foreign imports, it wouldn’t be the first time the U.S. has done such a thing. Ever heard of the Smoot-Hawley Tariff Act of 1930? Anyone? Those tariffs are widely credited with sinking the United States deeper into the Great Depression. And although global trade looks different nowadays, they can teach us a lot about how Trump’s protectionist approach to global trade could play out. On the show today, Inu Manak, a fellow for trade policy at the Council on Foreign Relations, explains how the Smoot-Hawley tariff debacle can shed light on the current moment, why the president has the power to wield tariffs in the first place, and how punishing trading partners could leave the U.S. economy at a disadvantage. Plus, what this fight has to do with the 1980s film “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” and Roomba vacuum cleaners! Later, one listener’s call to visit your local butcher. And, dating coach Damona Hoffman, host of the “Dates and Mates” podcast, answers the “Make Me Smart” question just in time for Valentine’s Day. Here’s everything we talked about today: “Tariffs on Trading Partners: Can the President Actually Do That?” from Council on Foreign Relations “One Response to Trump's Tariffs: Trade That Excludes the U.S.” from The New York Times “The United States has been disengaging from the global economy” from the Peterson Institute for International Economics “Protectionism 100 years ago helped ignite a world war. Could it happen again?” from The Washington Post “The US is one of the least trade-oriented countries in the world – despite laying the groundwork for today's globalized system” from The Conversation Got a question or comment for the hosts? Email makemesmart@marketplace.org or leave us a voicemail at 508-U-B-SMART.

Devyn Simone, Tinder's Resident Relationship Expert, joins Damona in celebration of Valentine's Day to test Damona's online dating knowledge in a Tinder Trivia showdown! Whether you're feeling the love or dodging Cupid's arrow this year, we've got something for you. Then in a special Dear Damona and Dear Devyn, our questions this week are: My matches want to skip getting to know each other and get straight to the date. How do I deal with this? I keep getting ghosted. Am I coming on too strong? You can find Tinder in the App Store or the Google Play Store, and you can find Devyn on Instagram @DevynSimone *This is NOT a sponsored episode* Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)   Welcome to Dates and Mates (00:00:06)   Introducing Devin Simone (00:02:05)   Catch-Up Between Friends (00:02:41)   Tinder Trivia Game Introduction (00:03:52)   The Evolution of Online Dating (00:04:54)   Importance of Hope in Dating (00:08:06)   First Trivia Question: Tinder's Activity Day (00:09:07)   Burnout in Dating (00:11:27)   Maximizing Dating App Time (00:12:21)   Momentum in Online Dating (00:14:14)   The Importance of Phone Calls (00:14:28)   Trivia Game Begins (00:15:26)   Benefits of Tinder's Passport Feature (00:16:34)   Changing Dating Parameters Post-COVID (00:17:05)   Misconceptions About Dating Options (00:20:49)   Investment in Dating Apps (00:23:44)   Study on Men's Perceptions of Women (00:24:18)   Reality of Men's Relationship Goals (00:27:08)   Understanding Individual Relationship Seriousness (00:28:33)   The Importance of Online Dating Opportunities (00:29:25)   Trivia Game Introduction (00:30:08)   Loud Looking Trend (00:31:14)   Shift in Dating Culture (00:32:11)   Self-Reflection in Dating (00:34:34)   Profile Photo Selection (00:39:31)   AI Photo Selector Tool (00:42:42)   Tinder Data Insights (00:43:24)   AI Tools for Profile Building (00:44:13)   Using Data for Dating Ease (00:45:07)   Support Beyond Profiles (00:45:42)   Confidence through Tools (00:46:11)   Quality of Relationships (00:46:59)   Listener Questions Introduction (00:47:38)   Handling Men on Dating Apps (00:48:43)   Importance of Pre-Screening (00:49:33)   Communication Methods (00:50:49)   Scheduled Mini-Dates (00:52:12)   Ghosting and Quality Connections (00:52:28)   Assessing Dating Patterns (00:53:25)   Self-Inquiry in Relationships (00:54:01)   Defining Quality in Partners (00:56:00)   Closing Remarks and Appreciation (00:56:54)   Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:57:25)   Valentine's Day Episode Mention (00:57:25)   Upcoming Guest Announcement (00:58:32)   Valentine's Day Wishes (00:58:32)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Valentine's Day is around the corner and Damona dedicates this week's episode to YOU! Whether you're navigating dating apps, dealing with relationship questions, or just trying to avoid all those pink hearts in the grocery store…February can be a tricky time! Set the record straight in this all Dear Damona episode with your top questions like: A hot new match has convinced me the dating apps are worth a second go. How do I do this? My dates aren't taking the time to get to know the real me.Where can I meet matches dating on a deeper level? Is my dating groove too strong? I have two love interests and both work in the same building. Friends say I should put a pause on dating, but I don't want to. What do you say? And, my identical twin ex couldn't peel away from his brother for our relationship. Did I ignore red flags? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Listener Questions Begin (00:02:14) Listener's Dating Experience (00:02:17) Mindset and Dating Strategies (00:04:09) Clarifying Dating Goals (00:07:27) Anonymous Listener's Dilemma (00:09:40) Advice on Age and Compatibility (00:11:57) Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:14:16) Empowerment in Dating Choices (00:15:19) Navigating Real-Life Dating Challenges (00:16:28)   Empowering Self-Expression in Dating (00:19:44)   Seeking Connection Amidst Life's Responsibilities (00:23:10)   Understanding Dating Mindset (00:26:13)   Defining Relationship Goals (00:31:39)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the Dateable Podcast, share the knowledge and insights from their brand-new book, “How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love.” Whether you're stuck in the dating rut or just looking for that spark of clarity, they've got the tools to help you date smarter and connect deeper. Then our Dear Damona question this week is: Now that I've stopped chasing unavailable men, I can't seem to find anyone that I am attracted to. What do I do? Go to HowToBeDateable.com to grab a copy of “How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love.” And you can follow Yue and Julie on Instagram @DateablePodcast l LAST CALL to JOIN US LIVE - if you want more tools, support, and community, spend the entire day with Damona and her team while you heal your heart and renew your faith in romance at our one-day-only F the Fairy Tale Virtual Retreat. This live online event is ALMOST SOLD OUT so grab your ticket before it's gone at DamonaHoffman.com/Retreat Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

“What To Do When You Get Dumped” author-illustrator, mother-daughter duo, Suzy Hopkins and Hallie Bateman take on heartbreak in a refreshing way in their new graphic novel. Discover tips on healing from a breakup, moving on, and leaning into love again. Plus, we have this week's Dear Damona question:  Why do my Hinge matches like my profile but then never write to me? Grab your copy of Suzy and Hallie's graphic novel, “What To Do When You Get Dumped” by visiting: https://www.bloomsbury.com/us/what-to-do-when-you-get-dumped-9781639731893/ Let's get real! Dating feels harder than it should be right now leaving many feeling emotionally drained. That's why Damona is hosting a special open call: Dealing with Dating Burnout TOMORROW Wednesday, January 22nd at 4p.m. PST / 7p.m. EST. Learn quick tools to protect your energy while staying open to connection, how to recognize if your dating patterns are draining you, and simple shifts to make dating feel more aligned with your values. Visit DamonaHoffman.com/DatingBurnout And if you want more tools, support, and community, spend the entire day with Damona and her team while you heal your heart and renew your faith in romance at our one-day-only F the Fairy Tale Virtual Retreat. This live online event is almost SOLD OUT so grab your ticket before it's gone at DamonaHoffman.com/Retreat Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Breakups (00:00:00)   Divorce Month (00:01:06)   The Inspiration for the Book (00:03:30)   The Role of Tarot (00:04:51)   Navigating Trauma (00:05:53)   The Healing Process (00:08:25)   Collaborative Writing Process (00:10:16)   Depth of the Story (00:12:38)   Advice and Wisdom (00:15:53)   Encouragement in Writing (00:16:37)   Daily Meditations (00:17:52)   Writing Through Pain (00:18:50)   Forgiveness vs. Moving Forward (00:20:27)   Finding Peace (00:22:50)   Behold the Badger (00:23:10)   Reclaiming Spaces (00:28:14)   Rewriting Memories (00:30:06)   Making a "What Was True" List (00:32:28)   The list of issues (00:34:07)   Personal truths in healing (00:35:47)   Rewriting the script (00:37:21)   Counseling for recovery (00:38:50)   Grief and awakening (00:39:30)   Rediscovering desire (00:41:17)   Unpopular opinions on dating apps (00:43:06)   The value of being single (00:44:26)   Closing thoughts and book promotion (00:46:40)   Dating Apps and Burnout (00:50:56)   Understanding Dating Mechanisms (00:52:20)   Perception of Dating Experiences (00:53:32)   Introducing the Fairy Tale Online Retreat (00:56:08)   Upcoming Episode Teaser (00:57:21)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Orna & Matthew Walters, founders of Love On Purpose, share the knowledge and insights from their new book, “Getting It Right This Time: Break Free From Your Hidden Blocks To Finding Lasting Love”. You'll learn how you might be standing in your own way when it comes to love and what you can do to get yourself back on track. And our Dear Damona question this week is: I want to pay for Premium on one app? Should I choose Tinder, Bumble, or OKCupid? Grab a copy of “Getting It Right This Time: Break Free From Your Hidden Blocks To Finding Lasting Love” by visiting: https://www.loveonpurpose.com/getting-it-right-this-time/ Craving another soothing meditation, transformational tools, and a sense of community? For the first time ever, Damona is offering a one-day virtual retreat on February 1st. Enrollment is NOW OPEN for The Fairy Tale Therapy Online Retreat but spaces are limited. Get your ticket now at  DamonaHoffman.com/retreat  Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)   Guests Introduction (00:00:56)   Background of the Guests (00:02:10)   Discussion on Title Choice (00:03:22)   Challenges in Dating (00:03:41)   Dating in the Modern Era (00:04:25)   Myth of Effortless Love (00:05:03)   Conflict in Relationships (00:06:54)   Understanding Triggers (00:09:25)   Authenticity in Communication (00:11:56)   Patterns in Relationships (00:12:33)   Brain Science of Attraction (00:14:13)   Personal Experiences with Love (00:15:17)   The Impact of Past Trauma (00:15:50)   Contrasting Upbringings (00:16:13)   Subconscious Patterns in Relationships (00:17:23)   Understanding Love Imprint (00:18:36)   Evaluating Relationship Needs (00:20:01)   Misinterpreting Feelings (00:20:56)   Commitment Before Understanding (00:21:56)   The Danger of Rushing Relationships (00:22:41)   Tools for Self-Discovery (00:23:54)   Visceral Responses to Love Imprints (00:25:15)  Meaning in Past Experiences (00:26:10)   Chemistry vs. Love Imprint (00:28:21)   The Complexity of Love Imprints (00:29:16)   Broadening Relationship Perspectives (00:30:34)   Understanding Casual Alcoholism (00:31:16)   Realizing Personal Responsibility (00:31:36)   The Love Imprint Concept (00:32:30)   Navigating Relationship Myths (00:33:36)   Recognizing Relationship Intentions (00:34:39)   The Fantasy of Being Chosen (00:35:36)   Growth Through Relationships (00:37:11)   Using Dating Apps Effectively (00:38:07)   The Reality of Dating (00:39:36)   The Importance of Clarity in Relationships (00:42:37)   Manifestation in Relationships (00:45:40)   Love Imprints and Relationship Dynamics (00:46:25)   Self-Discovery in Relationships (00:47:56)   Unpopular Opinions on Dating (00:48:28)   Deal Breakers in Relationships (00:49:52)   Optimizing Dating Profiles (00:55:00)   Choosing the Right Dating App (00:59:33)   Fairy Tale Therapy Retreat (01:00:44)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carol Allen, Vedic astrologer, returns to kick off 2025 with her annual love forecast in an episode packed with guidance and revelations. Whether you're single and searching, navigating a partnership, or simply curious about how the stars align for you, this episode will illuminate your path to love by highlighting the times you should lean into love, when you should play it cool and when to follow up on old flames. Plus, our Dear Damona question of the week: What's up with all this lovebombing on dating apps? Map out your year and your journey in love with a Personal Success Calendar from Carol Allen. Head to DamonaHoffman.com/mycalendar to get 60% off your personalized astrology daily forecast. Craving another soothing meditation, transformational tools, and a sense of community? For the first time ever, Damona is offering a one-day virtual retreat on February 1st. The Fairy Tale Therapy Online Retreat is available by invitation-only and Damona is hand-selecting each participant in this life-changing event. Apply today at DamonaHoffman.com/retreat Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Vedic Astrology (00:00:13)   Understanding Vedic Astrology (00:05:46)   Auspicious Dates for Love (00:11:23)   The Importance of Venus (00:12:42)   Transits and Their Impact (00:15:08)   The Sati Sati Cycle and the US (00:16:09)   Impact of 2020 on Relationships (00:17:15)   Transitioning Relationships (00:18:22)   Rahu Periods and Global Chaos (00:18:55)   Commitment to Joy (00:19:24)   Venus in 2025 (00:20:20)   Venus Retrograde Dates (00:21:05)   Revisiting Past Connections (00:22:20)   Upcoming Venus Favorable Periods (00:24:40)   Navigating Tricky Times (00:25:58)   Mars Retrograde Impact (00:26:21)   April Challenges (00:27:33)   Mercury Retrograde Overview (00:28:40)   Mercury Retrograde Dates (00:29:58)   Jupiter and Marriage (00:31:07)   Jupiter Retrograde Timeline (00:32:21)   Winter Weddings Warning (00:33:05)   Engagement Timing (00:33:20)   Wedding Chart Insights (00:34:25)   Personal Success Calendar (00:34:27)   Astrological Techniques for Love (00:35:07)   Jupiter and Mars Relationship Technique (00:36:32)   Celebrity Astrology Examples (00:37:47)   Taylor Swift's Chart Analysis (00:40:13)   Beyoncé's Astrological Insights (00:42:27)   Personal Success Calendar Benefits (00:44:08)   Unpopular Opinion on Dating (00:46:01)   Listener Question on Love Bombing (00:47:59)   Understanding Love Bombing (00:50:09)   Patterns in Relationships (00:51:19)   Recognizing Manipulation (00:52:22)   Setting Boundaries in Dating (00:53:17)   Importance of Offline Interaction (00:54:30)   Evaluating Reactions to Boundaries (00:55:55)   Sorting Out Emotional Manipulation (00:57:29)   Upcoming Fairy Tale Retreat (00:58:36)   Astrological Calendar Offer (00:59:47) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Damona offers a visualization to guide you through the ups and downs of this year and plant seeds for a 2025 full of love in this special minisode. Then, she shares her word of the year along with an exercise that you can try today to begin transforming your love journey. Craving another soothing meditation, transformational tools, and a sense of community? For the first time ever, Damona is offering a one-day virtual retreat on February 1st. The Fairy Tale Therapy Online Retreat is available by invitation-only and Damona is hand-selecting each participant in this life-changing event. Apply today at DamonaHoffman.com/retreat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Laura Stassi, author and host of the Dating While Gray podcast, reveals how many of our dating challenges and solutions remain the same, regardless of age, gender, or sexuality. And Laura joins Damona for a special Dear Damona segment to answer your questions, like: I'd like to move to Tennessee and meet a Southern gentleman. Should I start dating long distance in the meantime? I have a medical issue that is lowering my self esteem. How can I move past this and begin dating again? Listen to the Dating While Gray podcast wherever you get your podcasts and be sure to follow Laura on Instagram @DatingWhileGray Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)   Guest Introduction (00:01:15)   Laura's Background (00:02:19)   Podcast Journey (00:05:41)   Media Representation of Older Daters (00:06:21)   Dating Trends and Challenges (00:10:34)   Dating Attitudes Across Ages (00:11:57)   Learning from Dating Experiences (00:14:04)   Shifting Dating Etiquette (00:15:38)   The rigidity of dating (00:16:16)   Compromise in dating (00:17:22)   Dating models and etiquette (00:18:36)   Older daters' routines (00:19:47)   Generosity in dating (00:20:46)   Communication in dating (00:22:12)   Meeting people offline (00:24:52)   Overcoming fear of being alone (00:27:57)   Reconnecting with past acquaintances (00:29:00)   Long-distance dating considerations (00:31:01)   Exploring Relocation for Love (00:31:59)   Importance of Community (00:32:21)   Dating as Discovery (00:34:13)   Listener Question on Self-Esteem (00:36:20)   Vulnerability in Sharing Challenges (00:37:26)   Stigmas Around Health Issues (00:39:46)   Navigating Disclosure in Dating (00:40:57)   Redefining Sexual Intimacy (00:42:28)   Intentional Dating Post-Pandemic (00:44:01)   Comfort with Oneself (00:45:18)   Closing Remarks and Resources (00:46:14)   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aleeza Ben Shalom, celebrity matchmaker of Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking, shares actionable advice to help you find your path on this dating journey with wisdom from her new book “Matchmaker, Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts”. And the Dear Damona question this week is: What are the signs that someone is interested in you? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Intro (00:00:00)   Finding your personal dating playbook (00:01:03)   Meet Aleeza Ben Shalom (00:02:14)   Aleeza's journey as a matchmaker (00:02:50)   Date them till you hate them (00:04:02)   The three-date rule (00:05:30)   Clarity in dating decisions (00:06:37)   The importance of staying curious (00:07:25)   Navigating difficult conversations (00:10:30)   Rejection as a form of protection (00:13:20)   The five-day challenge (00:14:42)   Five Day Challenge Explained (00:15:04) Clarifying the No Touching Rule (00:15:49) Tips for the Challenge (00:16:36) Importance of Connection in Dating (00:18:39) Dating Dynamics and Tests (00:19:47) Rules for Same-Sex Couples (00:20:33) Calculating Relationship Compatibility (00:21:06) Interests vs. Core Values (00:22:44) Significance of Family Values (00:24:22) Understanding Timelines in Relationships (00:26:53) Self-Discovery in Dating (00:29:16) The Five-Year Relationship Evolution (00:29:50)   The 555 Dating Rule Explained (00:30:23)   Building Momentum in Dating (00:31:04)   Chemistry and Intentional Dating (00:34:13)   Soulmate Clarity Concept (00:37:38)   Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:40:41)   Dating Gestures and Vibes (00:45:35)   Small Moves in Dating (00:46:29)   Attraction Beyond Age (00:47:22)   Investing in Clear Signals (00:48:52)   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Drew has a love panel to talk all show about dating! She's joined by Taye Diggs, Oliver Hudson and relationship expert Damona Hoffman to audience all the audience's burning questions about love and relationships.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week's episode is dedicated to YOU! The holidays are here, bringing all the cozy vibes, family gatherings, and… yep, those inevitable relationship questions. Damona answers all your pressing holiday love questions, from family expectations to finding romance under the mistletoe.She will answer your top questions like: I have been dating a wonderful man for 7 months now and STILL don't feel a physical connection. Is it time to call it quits? I got ghosted after 4 months of dating, is it something I said? I am interested in some of the singles in my triathlon club. Do I shoot my shot or is it too risky? She made the reservation but then asked for my credit card to reimburse her the deposit. Is that a petty red flag? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Intro (00:00:00)   Uncertainty in Relationships (00:00:01)   Light-hearted Commentary (00:00:03)   Holiday Dating Dilemmas (00:00:06)   Listener's Voice Memo (00:01:55)   Annie's Relationship Concerns (00:02:01)   Ghosting After Four Months (00:07:58)   Communication Issues in Relationships (00:09:00)   Conflict Resolution Advice (00:12:22)   Triathlon Club Dating Dilemma (00:16:24)   Breaking the Ice in a Club (00:16:46)   The Benefits of Physical Activity (00:17:18)   Navigating Group Dynamics (00:19:50)   Using Dating Apps (00:22:02)   Addressing Gender Roles in Dating (00:23:55)   Finding Common Ground (00:26:12)   Preparing for Holiday Conversations (00:29:38)   Closing Thoughts and Future Episodes (00:30:52)  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Meeting the parents is a big step in any relationship but spending the holidays with them… Do you bring a bottle of wine? A sweet treat? Boxing gloves in case Uncle Tommy says something absolutely insane? Love Expert, Host of the Dates and Mates Podcast and Author of “F the Fairytale”, Damona Hoffman joins us once again to give us the tips and life hacks we need to make a great first impression on your future in-laws (fingers and toes crossed for you bestie).  Follow Kamie @kamiecrawford on TikTok and Relationshit @relationshit on IG for more, besties. Watch on YouTube at youtube.com/@relationshitpod and of course, Follow the show on Spotify, Apple, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts! To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lauren Frances, Love and Relationships Expert, talks all about first dates from when they start (it's not when you think) to how to graciously end one that's just not working for you. And our Dear Damona question of the week is, “My match is great, not a single dealbreaker, and I STILL can't wrap my head around commitment. What now?” Want to join Lauren's incredible Love Magnet Makeover? Just visit DamonaHoffman.com/lovemagnet Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Timestamps Intro (00:00:00)   The First Date Starts Early (00:00:09)   Preparation for First Dates (00:00:14)   Value of First Dates (00:01:05)   Introducing Lauren Francis (00:02:05)   Persistence in Publishing (00:03:09)   Timing in Dating (00:04:38)   Transitioning to Phone Calls (00:05:53)   Setting Up Phone Conversations (00:07:25)   Importance of Privacy (00:09:10)   Breaking the Ice (00:11:21)   Choosing the Right Date Venue (00:12:18)   Being Seen on Dates (00:13:06)   Creating the Right Vibe (00:15:02)   Understanding Enthusiasm in Dating (00:16:35)   The Enthusiasm Gap (00:20:37)   First Dates as Your Party (00:21:37)   Heartache Prevention Tips (00:25:12)   Compatibility and Actions Over Words (00:30:07)   Ghosting and Relationship Alignment (00:31:02)   Rejection Reasons (00:32:58)   Ending Dates Positively (00:34:04)   Creating a Great First Impression (00:35:02)   Love Magnet Makeover Introduction (00:36:01)   Details of Love Magnet Makeover (00:37:04)   A Listener's Commitment Question (00:40:04)   Navigating Relationship Fears (00:41:07)   Understanding Commitment (00:42:19)   Empowerment in Relationships (00:48:00) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Alfiee, psychologist, host of the Couched in Color podcast and founder of the AAKOMA Project, dives into attachment styles, how depression can impact a partnership, and the ways our traumas and triggers can become unearthed in new relationships. Then this week's Dear Damona question is: I married too young and stayed too long. Can you please help me get back into the dating game? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Timestamps Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00)   Attachment Styles Overview (00:00:59)   Expectations in Relationships (00:03:30)   The Desire to Change Partners (00:05:04)   The Fantasy of Relationships (00:06:13)   Effort vs. Work in Relationships (00:08:01)   Unpacking Emotional Baggage (00:08:35)   Understanding Attachment Styles (00:09:55)   Cultural Context of Attachment (00:12:04)   Personal Experiences with Attachment (00:14:23)   Embracing Attachment Nuances (00:15:17)   Understanding Family Dynamics and Attachment Styles (00:16:50)   Personal Reflection on Attachment Styles (00:17:42)   The Impact of Community on Relationships (00:18:26)   Navigating Triggers in Relationships (00:19:55)   Mental Health and Medication Statistics (00:20:37)   Stigma Around Mental Health in Communities (00:22:13)   Dating with Mental Health Challenges (00:23:05)   Recognizing Deal Breakers in Relationships (00:23:43)   Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy (00:25:51)   Generational Differences in Mental Health Views (00:27:06)   Healing from Trauma and Relationships (00:28:08)   The Process of Healing and Trauma Management (00:30:25)   Distinguishing Good and Bad Butterflies (00:32:22)   The Importance of Self-Reflection Before Dating (00:33:14)   Understanding Triggers in Relationships (00:33:50) Disclosing Trauma in Relationships (00:35:17) Trust and Safety in Sharing Trauma (00:36:12) Empowerment in Relationships (00:38:17) Unpopular Opinions on Relationships (00:39:46) Finding a New Relationship After Marriage (00:41:23) Going Where the People Are (00:43:24) Strategic Socializing for Dating (00:45:38). Creating Momentum in Dating (00:49:04) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whether you're navigating cuffing season, gearing up to meet someone's family for the holidays, or figuring out how to take your dating game to the next level— Damona dedicates this week's episode to YOU! She's answering your toughest Dear Damona questions, like: I struggle to find matches in my area and while I am willing to travel, many men aren't. So what now? My matches keep removing their profiles once we exchange numbers. What's going on here? When should daters consider sleeping together? Are gender roles changing or do men still have to be the initiator? Find Damona and submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com/contact Bad news…we filled our last spot for the year.  Good news!! We opened ONE BONUS for VIP coaching this fall. Last chance to get one on one coaching with Damona and her team. Want to snag our lucky last spot? Register for an intro call at DamonaHoffman.com/introcall asap! TIMESTAMPS Intro (00:00:00) Does This Mean He Likes Me? (00:00:01) Am I Ever Gonna Meet Someone? (00:00:04) I'm Tired of Swiping (00:00:06) Cuffing Season and Relationship Dynamics (00:00:08) Adrian's Dating App Dilemma (00:01:43) Changing Location Filters in Dating (00:04:25) The Importance of Compatibility (00:05:39) Long-Distance Relationship Insights (00:06:53) Dating Apps and Long-Distance Features (00:09:24) Caution Against Exchanging Phone Numbers (00:11:28) Identifying Catfish and Scammers (00:12:38) Maintaining Momentum in Communication (00:13:38) Sue's Experience with Catfish (00:14:41) Navigating Online Dating Safely (00:15:54) Introduction to Possible Soulmates (00:17:59) Guidelines for Intimacy (00:19:01) Understanding Sexual Health (00:20:22) Pacing Your Relationship (00:24:23) Women Initiating Dates (00:25:28) Mutual Interest in Dating (00:26:46) Being True to Yourself (00:29:04) Closing Remarks and Engagement (00:30:19) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Esther Lee, Deputy Editor of The Knot, breaks down the stats released in the website's Relationship & Intimacy Study, and spills the tea on where singles are finding love, what they're actually looking for, how they're spending their time on dates, and those dating dealbreakers we just can't shake. And, this week's Dear Damona question is: Is a bra an appropriate gift for a young couple? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator at 10% off (for limited time only) using the code PODCAST10: DamonaHoffman.com/program LAST CALL - Just 1 spot remains for the VIP one-on-one coaching program this year. Serious applicants should book an assessment call ASAP with our head of coaching programs: DamonaHoffman.com/introcall Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Timestamps Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Damona's Welcome (00:00:13) Introducing Esther Lee (00:01:04) Damona's Personal Wedding Experience (00:02:11) Evolution of Wedding Planning (00:02:49) The Knot's 2024 Study Overview (00:03:46) Key Findings of the Study (00:05:01) Dating Apps vs. Real-Life Connections (00:05:54) Generational Perspectives on Dating (00:06:41) Changing Standards in Attraction (00:07:56) Being Easy to Talk To (00:09:14) Fostering Connection and Communication (00:09:47) Listening as a Key Element (00:11:40) The Chemistry Myth (00:12:10) Importance of Sexual Attraction (00:12:59) Married Couples and Sexual Chemistry (00:14:00) Comfort and Chemistry in Relationships (00:15:54) Commitment After Marriage (00:16:51) Importance of Attraction (00:18:05) Subjective Sense of Humor (00:19:29) Humor as Relationship Tool (00:21:01) Video Game Dates (00:21:48) Meeting Through Gaming (00:24:00) Creative and Affordable Dates (00:26:06) Deal Breakers in Relationships (00:29:59) Chemistry vs. Values (00:31:00) Long Distance Relationships (00:32:48) Communication in Long-Distance Relationships (00:33:14) Intentionality in Relationships (00:34:05) Finding Love Beyond Geography (00:35:36) Unpopular Opinion on First Dates (00:37:17) Navigating Intimate Gift Missteps (00:39:20) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Benjamin Camras, The Flirt Coach & host of the Flirtations Flirtcast, joins Damona for our annual Halloween Dating Horror Stories Special. You'll laugh, you'll scream, and you'll get useful advice to survive your next bad date. Stories include: Blindsided by a Blind Date The Vegetarian Variation The Creepy Car Concert The Deskside Date The Freudian Movie Man Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator at 10% off (for limited time only) using the code PODCAST10: DamonaHoffman.com/program Only 1 spot remains for the VIP one-on-one coaching program this year. Serious applicants should book an assessment call ASAP with our head of coaching programs: DamonaHoffman.com/introcall Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Halloween Horror Stories (00:00:00) Listener Engagement (00:00:07) Benjamin the Flirt Coach Introduction (00:02:18) Costume Reveal (00:02:30) Personal Dating Horror Stories (00:04:10) Listener Story from Amanda (00:07:07) Discussion on Movie Dates (00:11:40) Activity Date Preferences (00:12:40) Candy Smuggling at the Movies (00:14:31) Vegetarian Red Flag Story (00:15:47) Flirty Late Night Snack Decisions (00:16:31) Libras and Perspective (00:17:09) Boundaries and Alcohol-Induced Choices (00:19:20) Dating an Older Guy (00:20:01) Red Flags in Dating (00:21:11) Avoiding Generalizations in Dating (00:22:13) First Date Conversations (00:24:49) Exploring Physical Intimacy (00:26:11) Flirtation as Foreplay (00:27:28) Listener Horror Story Introduction (00:28:44) Zoom Date Disaster (00:30:24) Multitasking on Dates (00:31:57) Check-in Date Tips (00:33:04) Pre-Date Communication (00:33:50) Slow Dating Trend (00:34:13) In-App Calling Features (00:37:13) Age and Dating Preferences (00:38:28) Horror Story Introduction (00:39:55) Uncomfortable Date Behavior (00:41:32) Lying About Height (00:43:01) Closing Remarks (00:46:18) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Brittani is diving into your Season 1 questions with experts specializing in dating, scams, deception, and the legal consequences of manipulation. In part 2 of this interview Damona Hoffman shares valuable dating tips, focusing on how to effectively use the algorithm to align your dating experience with your personal preferences. She provides insights on what changes to make in your dating profile to attract the type of partner you're looking for, focusing on authenticity and getting quality matches. Damona and Brit engage in a thoughtful discussion of expanding your worldview, finding joy, and fostering meaningful connections in today's fast-paced environment. Listen to Damona Hoffman's podcast, The Dates and Mates Podcast, and check out her book, F the Fairytale. All episodes are available ad free on Pateron: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Season 2 of You Probably Think This Story's About You is about YOU. Share your story with Brittani. Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  ____________________________________  *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.    Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Erika Wasserman, Your Financial Therapist, is shifting the narrative around money and using those sometimes-tough conversations to build deeper trust and better communication with your partner and tackling the tricky financial situations singles often find themselves in while dating. Our Dear Damona question this week is: I have social anxiety. Do I need to focus on making more friends before pursuing a romantic relationship? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator at 10% off (for limited time only) using the code PODCAST10: DamonaHoffman.com/program Only 2 spots remain for the VIP one-on-one coaching program this year. Serious applicants should book an assessment call ASAP with our head of coaching programs: DamonaHoffman.com/introcall Submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Relationship Stress (00:00:00) Host's Opening Remarks (00:00:14) Introduction of Erika Wasserman (00:02:26) Erika's Journey to Financial Therapy (00:03:19) Dating and Financial Transparency (00:04:08) Challenges of Financial Conversations (00:09:15) Gamifying Financial Discussions (00:10:01) Reality of Debt in Dating (00:12:04) Understanding Debt and Relationships (00:14:46) Understanding Debt and Readiness to Date (00:15:46) Differentiating Rich and Wealthy (00:17:32) Wealth Beyond Money (00:19:51) Influence of Family Background on Money Beliefs (00:21:20) Communication About Money (00:22:40) Fear of Financial Loss in Relationships (00:23:25) Pricing Themselves Out of the Dating Pool (00:24:12) Contributions in Relationships (00:25:35) Navigating Different Financial Backgrounds (00:28:00) Frugality vs. Spending Comfort (00:32:01) Coupon Encounter (00:33:03) Financial Conversations (00:34:06) Creating Financial Intimacy (00:35:38) Side-by-Side Conversations (00:36:27) Vulnerability in Conversations (00:37:08) Joyful Spending (00:38:38) Unpopular Opinions (00:39:50) Divorce Edition Cards (00:40:24) Impact of Financial Relationships (00:40:55) Listener Question on Social Anxiety (00:42:00) Building Connections (00:44:38) Taking Baby Steps (00:47:39) Engaging with the Audience (00:48:42) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Brittani is diving into your Season 1 questions with experts specializing in dating, scams, deception, and the legal consequences of manipulation. In this episode, Brittani sits down with dating coach Damona Hoffman to explore real issues like recognizing red flags and navigating dating norms. They discuss the effects of trauma on dating and share practical advice for making the most of dating apps. Damona's book, "F the Fairytale," tackles common dating myths and offers a straightforward approach to building meaningful connections. Join the conversation for insights that can help you create your own dating story. Part 2 of this episode available now ad free https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Listen to Damona Hoffman's podcast, The Dates and Mates Podcast, and check out her book, F the Fairytale. Season 2 of You Probably Think This Story's About You is about YOU. Share your story with Brittani. Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  ____________________________________  *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.    Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Take a sneak peak into a private coaching session with our listener, Michelle, as Damona identifies the dating loops and myths that are keeping this Dates & Mates Method graduate from finding the relationship she desires. Listen in as Michelle comes to a realization about the men she's been dating and why it hasn't worked out. And help yourself along the way as Damona shares quick tips and takeaways that you can apply right away to your own dating dilemmas. Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator at 10% off (for limited time only) using the code PODCAST10: DamonaHoffman.com/program Only 2 spots remain for the VIP one-on-one coaching program this year. Serious applicants should book an assessment call: DamonaHoffman.com/introcall Submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Coaching Insights (00:00:59) Michelle's Experience (00:02:47) Appreciation for Coaching (00:04:41) Transformational Skills (00:05:50) Dating While Pregnant (00:06:05) Desire for Partnership (00:06:53) Impact of Solo Parenting on Dating (00:08:47) Understanding High Standards (00:10:15) Trusting Oneself (00:11:00) Freeing Yourself from Pressure (00:11:32) Encouragement to Freeze Eggs (00:12:11) Embracing Options in Dating (00:14:39) Current Dating Life (00:15:26) Effective Screening Process (00:16:15) Invitation to Continue Conversation (00:17:13) The Importance of Boundaries (00:18:11) Mindset for Successful Conversations (00:18:27) Challenges with Dating Separated Individuals (00:19:14) Physical Attraction and Curiosity (00:20:23) Recognizing Anxiety in Dating (00:21:20) Discovering Availability Issues (00:21:40) Misleading Profiles and Aliases (00:23:32) Learning to Say No (00:24:38) Exploring the Other Camp (00:25:07) Signs of Attraction and Availability (00:26:05) Disappointment in Dating Dynamics (00:27:17) The Complexity of Attraction (00:28:19) Nurturing vs. Romantic Dynamics (00:31:01) Finding the Right Words (00:32:08) Navigating Emotional Intensity (00:33:57) Testing Attraction in Early Dates (00:35:12) Belief and Self-Responsibility (00:37:02) Inheriting Stories (00:37:50) Rewriting Personal Narratives (00:39:14) Mindset Shifts and Mantras (00:41:10) Attraction Dynamics (00:43:10) Navigating Dating While Parenting (00:46:07) Reflection on Progress (00:48:21) Encouragement and Support (00:51:07) Coaching Transformation Invitation (00:52:14) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Meghan Keane, the founder of NPR's Life Kit, shares her new book, “Party of One: Be Your Own Best Partner”. Listen in as she peels back the layers of our complicated feelings about being single and dissects the ways that singlism could be dealt with in your own life. It's time to embrace your single life or the singles in your life so that we can all thrive together regardless of our relationship status. Our Dear Damona question this week is: I recently reconnected with a casual long term friend. How do I figure out if he likes me without making a fool of myself? Fun little announcement, my meditation program is now back on the Dates & Mates website. If you want to meditate and visualize your way out of stressing about your singlehood. Let me help you. Look for my meditation collection on the homepage of DamonaHoffman.com today! Submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Singlehood (00:00:00) Embracing Singlehood (00:01:03) Interview with Meghan Kane (00:02:54) Navigating Societal Expectations (00:03:18). Understanding Singleism (00:06:24) Confronting Single Shame (00:09:30) Transforming Thoughts: From Why to What (00:10:41) The Power of Storytelling (00:14:50) Intimidation in Dating (00:16:54) The Complexity of Strong Women (00:17:01) Reframing Intimidation (00:18:00) Questioning Marriage (00:19:00) Voyeurism in Dating (00:20:00) Building Intentional Friendships (00:21:54) Diversity in Friendships (00:22:36) Making the First Move (00:23:15) Finding Friends with Shared Values (00:24:56) Lowering the Stakes in Friendships (00:25:50) Digital Connections (00:27:18) Mindset Shifts After Relationships (00:30:32) Radical Acceptance in Singlehood (00:31:52) Values Work and Radical Acceptance (00:33:01) Life Values Inventory (00:34:04) Building Goals Around Values (00:34:50) Changing Scripts in Dating (00:36:35) Unexpected Partnerships (00:37:25) Maintaining Individuality in Relationships (00:38:53) Supporting Single Friends (00:39:34) Self-Work and Future Relationships (00:41:46) Unpopular Opinion on Dating (00:42:14) Understanding Dating Apps and Intentions (00:49:25) Challenging Negative Narratives (00:50:23) Creating Your Own Love Story (00:51:33) Upcoming Episode Teaser (00:52:45) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Damona dedicates this week's episode to YOU! Whether you're in a relationship or looking for love, she is answering your toughest Dear Damona questions, like: I feel like my partner isn't matching my efforts. How can I get him to be more of a caretaker? I want to stay friends with my exes but I find it incredibly painful. Am I self sabotaging? I thought we had fun but they said they didn't feel chemistry…what went wrong? An ex once said my lack of questions was a red flag, but I think it's a difference in communication styles. What do you think?  Find Damona and submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com/contact Only 1 spot left for VIP coaching this fall. Is it you? Register for an intro call at DamonaHoffman.com/introcall and find out! TIMESTAMPS Intro (00:00:00) Managing expectations in relationships (00:01:28) Communicating needs in relationships (00:02:02) Are love languages real? (00:05:25) Self-sabotaging in friendships (00:06:44) Navigating chemistry and attraction (00:10:50) Flirting techniques to enhance attraction (00:12:17) The impact of date venues on chemistry (00:15:49) Communication Styles in Dating (00:18:11) Questions as Indicators of Interest (00:19:13) Nervousness and Connection (00:20:12) Red Flags Revisited (00:21:22) Interpreting Signs and Signals (00:22:26) Inclusivity in Dating Advice (00:23:35) The Importance of Follow-Up Questions (00:24:43) Engagement in Conversations (00:25:51) Listener Interaction Invitation (00:26:59) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kiaundra Jackson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, unpacks how therapy language is influencing our dating lives and shares why it's essential to move beyond labels to truly thrive in our relationships. She also shares the telltale signs of toxic relationships. Our dear Damona question this week is: I've used them all, but none seem to be a good fit. Is it me or the apps? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator for a limited-time-only for 10% off using the code PODCAST10 at DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Toxic Relationships (00:00:00) Guest Introduction (00:02:05) Rise of Dating Burnout (00:02:25) Importance of Healthy Relationships (00:03:10) Modeling Healthy Relationships (00:04:18) Personal Accountability in Relationships (00:06:10) Elements of Healthy Relationships (00:07:24) Taking Inventory of Past Relationships (00:10:10) Signs of Toxic Relationships (00:11:37) Understanding Narcissism (00:12:42) Manipulation vs. Healthy Goals (15:13) Setting Boundaries (17:20) Handling Triggered Reactions (19:28) Recognizing Relationship Dynamics (24:30) The Importance of Slow Love (28:47) Healing from Toxic Relationships (00:31:11) Unpacking Emotional Luggage (00:31:32) Rushing into New Relationships (00:31:54) The Process of Unpacking (00:32:33) Recognizing Healthy vs. Toxic Traits (00:33:18) When to Share Personal History (00:34:06) Finding the Right Time to Share (00:35:00) Ongoing Conversations About Baggage (00:37:54) Unpopular Opinion on Relationship Work (00:39:03) Perspective on Relationship Challenges (00:39:57) Invitation to Deeper Connection (00:40:17) Navigating Dating Apps (00:41:42) Understanding Dating App Experiences (00:42:11) Adjusting to Online Dating (00:43:17) Common Experience on Dating Apps (00:44:16) Finding New Dating Opportunities (00:45:21)  Navigating Dating Apps (00:46:17) Understanding App Dynamics (00:47:18) Managing Expectations with Dating Apps (00:48:19) Addressing Dating Burnout (00:49:13) Upcoming Dear Damona Episode (00:50:13) Halloween Dating Horror Stories Call (00:50:13) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Take a sneak peak into a private coaching session with our listener, Staci, as Damona identifies the dating loops and myths that are keeping this single mom from experiencing the relationship she desires. Along the way, Damona shares quick tips and takeaways that you can apply right away to your own dating dilemmas. Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona's signature online program, The Dating Accelerator today for 10% off using the code PODCAST10 at DamonaHoffman.com/program submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Coaching Session (00:00:00) Damona's Experience (00:01:00) Staci's Introduction (00:03:14) Goals for the Session (00:04:08) Staci's Dating History (00:05:10) Burnout from Dating Apps (00:06:43). Impact of the Pandemic (00:08:17) Self-Discovery in Dating (00:09:13). Shifting Perspectives (00:10:21) Dating App Dynamics (00:11:35) Choosing vs. Being Chosen (00:13:56) Dating After 50 (00:15:25) Challenges in Conversations (00:17:10) Understanding the Texting Trap (00:18:08) Developing a Texting Strategy (00:18:46) Breaking Free from Canned Responses (00:20:01) Recognizing Exhausted Energy (00:20:57) Exploring Offline Dating (00:25:01) Finding Connection in New Experiences (00:26:14) Mindset and Clarity on Dating Goals (00:27:48) Affirmations and Attraction (00:28:35) Visualizing the Ideal Partner (00:32:31) Exploring Fitness as a Dating Venue (00:34:04) Flirting Skills (00:37:08) Flirting Formula (00:37:41) Roleplay Practice (00:39:19) Challenge Accepted (00:41:01) The Power of Touch (00:41:33) Living Vision (00:44:53) Flirting and Connection (00:45:59) Feeling Inspired (00:46:42) Closing Thoughts (00:48:31) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mayday! It's a dating burnout crisis! Damona gives a master class about the causes, the current stats, and THE FIX for the apathy and frustration that many daters are feeling today. In this episode, you will learn: The #1 secret weapon for building connection How to reclaim your power and replenish after burnout  Top tips for avoiding burnout on dating apps Insider secrets or offline dating Protecting your peace with friends and loved ones And, how to reframe your dating burnout and turn it into fuel for romance Want to learn more? Find Damona and submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com/contact TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Dating Burnout (00:00:00) Defining Burnout (00:00:57) Complexities of Modern Dating (00:02:07) Zombie Dating Explained (00:08:11) Dating Hygiene Tips (00:09:25) Addressing Apathy with Empathy (00:11:57) Forming a Connector Circle (00:13:10) Saying Yes to New Experiences (00:14:14) Creating a Comprehensive Dating Plan (00:15:28) Tracking Progress in Dating (00:17:48) Finding a Dating Accountability Buddy (00:18:50) Quieting Naysayers (00:19:53) Reframing Dating Burnout (00:21:07) What's inside the Book "F the Fairy Tale" (00:21:07) Listener Review Highlight (00:22:05) Encouragement to Share the Episode (00:22:05) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Damona dedicates this week's episode to YOU! Whether you've listened to 12 seasons or 12 episodes, she is answering your toughest Dear Damona questions, like: I'm stuck in a first date rut. How do I turn things around to find lasting love? How do I delicately tell my match that family is important, but relationships need to be a priority too? There's a big drinking culture where I live. How do I meet singles who share my more laid back vibe? And, I've done the work, but I can't seem to attract someone who's done the same. Is it time to lower my standards? Find Damona and submit your questions on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting her website DamonaHoffman.com/contact And, are YOU tired of being comfortably single? We are enrolling NOW for Damona's signature group coaching program, The Dates & Mates Method! Sure, you've been fine on your own but just imagine how the RIGHT person could add to your life… If you're ready to create a dating plan and date differently this fall, then this is the time to sign up. Don't miss out on a limited number of spots in this annual program. Learn more at DamonaHoffman.com/method Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jillian welcomes renowned dating coach, author and podcast host Damona Hoffman to the show to discuss how to date like a pro on and off the apps so that you can find true love. Get ready to take notes! Damona's book "F the Fairy Tale" is out now. Find her at The Dates & Mates Podcast or IG: @damonahoffman Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back with our last episode before Season 19 begins next week!!! And this is a good one as we reair an episode we did with Damona Hoffman on her podcast, Dates & Mates, about how you can date with intention in a world that makes dating harder than ever before. We discuss why dating is harder than ever before – but also what you can do about it and have the best relationships of your life. Plus Damona closes out with a question around dating breaks and resets so if you're feeling burnout at all – this episode is for you!Related Episodes:F the Fairy Tale w/ Damona Hoffman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/s18e2-f-the-fairy-tale-w-damona-hoffman/id1084105171?i=1000648160861 or https://open.spotify.com/episode/5W493uTZsYZYU0y3WV36Hk?si=fAnCGq8MS9u4Augv2wFvwwFollow Damona on Instagram @damonahoffmanand check out her podcast Dates & Mates on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever else you listen to podcasts. PS their new season starts today, so check it out!Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then!Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out Quince: www.quince.com* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.* Gobble: Make a delicious dinner in 15 minutes! Get $120 off across 4 boxes with free shipping and free cookies at gobble.com/DATEABLEPODCAST* Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE* Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable* VIIA: Get 15% off + a free pack of their award winning gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLESupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are the stories you're telling yourself hurting your love life? We are so excited to have dating coach and author Damona Hoffman tell us why we should say F*CK THE FAIRYTALE and find what's real. We talk about why romanticizing pop culture fantasies, chemistry, and soulmates could be hindering you, and how to reframe the stories we tell ourselves. We discuss the four dating myths, how long a first date should last, breaking outdated “rules”, opening yourself up to what's unfamiliar, and more. Before Damona joins us, we're talking about the “elite half” of certain zodiac signs, sharing food on dates and what your style says about you, and a friendship red flag. Enjoy!Follow Damona on instagram @damonahoffman, listen to her podcast Dates and Mates, read her book F the Fairy Tale, and check out her website damonahoffman.com. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more.Thank you to our partners this week:AG1: Get a free one-year supply of vitamin D3K2 and five free travel packs with your first purchase at drinkAG1.com/gge.Skims: Shop the Skims T-Shirt Shop at skims.com.Prose: Get 50% off your first subscription order and a free consultation at prose.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.