Miscellaneous Thoughts

In this week's episode, Sharifa discusses the life of a stay-at-home parent with a very special guest! This is an episode you can't afford to miss! Connect with John!IG: https://www.instagram.com/johnmontagna/ Website: https://www.johnmontagna.com/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa shares her thoughts on being a stay-at-home parent. Is she for it? Is she against it? Let's talk about it!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about how she's learning to forgive her parents and deal with past trauma.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about how her past relationships affected her ability to be open and vulnerable with her friends. And oh my, the sky is falling!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about her experience in therapy and how it has helped her to become a better person.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about her thoughts on quitting the podcast and why she might be the problem (well-kinda). That last part was a bit unclear :)If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about why a cry a day keeps the psychologist away (totally kidding, but also maybe not). If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this week's episode, Sharifa discusses her anxiety around getting older, and why she hates rollercoasters but loves cheeseless pizza. Join her on this wild ride of an episode!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In today's episode, Sharifa is joined by a special guest to discuss toxic femininity, toxic masculinity, vulnerability, and much much more! This is a guest episode you can't afford to miss!Timestamps: :) 00:02:05: Definitions of toxic masculinity and femininity 00:18:09: Submission and toxic masculinity, is there a correlation?00:23:55: Men should be the prize?00:30:42: Causes of toxic femininity and masculinity00:34:51: High-value men, male podcasts, and femininity channels00:52:01: Communication and vulnerability 00: 58:55: Black women and accountability 01:01:00: Brutal honesty  Carrissa's IG!https://www.instagram.com/_.livingart/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, Sharifa reflects on her first year of graduate school. Has grad school been worth it to her and does she have any regrets?If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, Sharifa is joined by one of her newest friends. Listen in as they engage in an interesting discussion about everything from sexual compatibility to whether or not men settle in relationships and much much more!This is an episode you don't want to miss! Chaya's IG handles! Personal: https://www.instagram.com/chaya.mushka/Mental Health: https://www.instagram.com/healingwithchaya/Timestamps  :) 01:35:05: Does your partner need to be religious?04:00:80: Double standards b/w men and women in dating05:55:00: Is sexual compatibility a thing?09:11:05: Men's sexual desire and the media12:01:00: Are men most likely to settle for a partner in marriages?12:54:00: Purity culture and women's sex drive15: 01:00: Long distance relationships, yay or nay?22:46:00: Do you believe in hacking up?27:54:00: Is gender essentialism real?31:07:00: Can men and women be just friends?40:54: 00: Dating dealbreakers47:23:00: Thoughts on dating apps50:33: 00: Sharing bank accounts

In this episode, Sharifa talks about performative activism, anti-abortion vs pro-life, and reparations?! You definitely don't want to miss this one.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode,  Sharifa talks about the challenges of dealing with burnout in school, maintaining self-care, and code-switching!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions. 

In this episode,  Sharifa talks about her thoughts on celebrating her Jordan Year (spoiler alert: she feels like a dinosaur), she continues the discussion around disciplining children and briefly touches on her fears surrounding pregnancy.Previous episode referenced: Love Lies  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/796e0yXTiWVPSRpeWMTwVi?si=022164da287447ceApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/miscellaneous-thoughts/id1604466994?i=1000557456913If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, Sharifa talks about the need for more vulnerability in the church and discusses her views on sex and Christian dating. You can't miss this one!Book: My Child Wake Up by Charlene CoutetLink: https://mychildwakeup.com/product/my-child-wake-up/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, we're talking about love,  justice, and honesty. The book I reference in this podcast is,  All About Love by Bell Hooks!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, we're talking about cosmetic surgery and beauty. Let's get into it!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

This week, we're talking about therapy!  If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to follow and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.Resources/ Info:RESOURCES FOR COUNSELORS AND CLIENTS80 Awesome Mental Health Resources When You Can't Afford a TherapistTherapy For Black Girls8 Free Therapy Resources to Try If You Can't Afford to See Someone

In this episode,  we're discussing the pros and the cons of ghosting! I also spoiled you all with a bit of a storytime so... you're welcome.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share, and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, we're talking about the  "I don't dream of labor" trend, the myth of meritocracy, and so much more! If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share, and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.Sources used:The "I don't dream of labour" trend needs to be destroyed .by KidologyWhy "I Don't Dream of Labor" Doesn't Work by F.D SignifierIs it even worth it to work hard? Let's discuss #IDontDreamofLaborI don't have a dream job by Amandai don't have a dream job by LynetteI no longer aspire to have a career. by KatheroutI do not dream of labour + reading list on work & capitalism by NatWomen, Race, and Class by Angela Davis

In this episode, we're discussing male vulnerability, particularly black male vulnerability, and whether or not it's truly necessary. Aiyinde's Info:Be Great Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0BzTqZT6JeqQuoJwVIG5em?si=ee559296a6fd4b35IG: https://www.instagram.com/be1_fitness/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, I'm taking prison abolition. Let's talk.Link to sources:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BVxcX8d4hSUgWyCsO4GQvt05yvXGSMBXRKWOSMFs7Rs/edit?usp=sharingIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, we're talking about love! I will be discussing a few popular topics on love such as whether or not I believe in soulmates, would I move for love, and my thoughts on infidelity in marriage.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, I discuss finding meaning in life, living in the present, and the importance of distinguishing between acquaintances and friends.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, I'm just sharing my two cents on how I feel about police and whether police reform is enough. If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, I am joined by a special guest and close friend! We discuss things women find attractive in men, whether or not women should be proposing to men and the cons of dating too long. Grab your favorite bev, because this is gonna be a good one. Timestamps:00:00 - 20:29:  Traits women find attractive in men 21:30 - 24:15:  Should women be proposing to men24:16 - 29:01:  Dating for too longIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of growing up religious and whether safe sex should be discussed in the church.So buckle up,  because this is going to be a wild one!Timestamps:00:00 - 02:15:  A bit about Adventism02:16- 05:48: End times 05:49- 14:59: Pros and cons of religion 15:00- 20:00: My unpopular opinion on safe sexIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

Should women submit? In this episode, we discuss whether or not submission is really beneficial for women and why it seems to be an issue in many relationships.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

Can men and women be just friends or are we just kidding ourselves?  In this episode, we cover all of that and more!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

Miscellaneous Thoughts is the weekly podcast where we talk about religion, politics, and all that jazz. In the intro episode of Miscellaneous Thoughts, Sharifa discusses the many many life changes she experienced in 2021 and  what this podcast will be all about.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.