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Miscellaneous Thoughts is the weekly podcast where we talk about religion, politics, and all that jazz! In this podcast, the conversations can range from light discussions on dating and relationships to heavier discussions. on classism and elitism. So if


    • Aug 15, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    Adventures In Being A Stay At Home Dad ft. John Montagna || Episode 29

    Play Episode Play 55 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 15, 2022 75:55


    In this week's episode, Sharifa discusses the life of a stay-at-home parent with a very special guest! This is an episode you can't afford to miss! Connect with John!IG: https://www.instagram.com/johnmontagna/ Website: https://www.johnmontagna.com/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    I kinda wanna be a stay-at-home parent... || Episode 28

    Play Episode Play 22 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 21:25


    In this week's episode, Sharifa shares her thoughts on being a stay-at-home parent. Is she for it? Is she against it? Let's talk about it!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    I Struggled To Forgive My Parents || Episode 27

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 1, 2022 17:06


    In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about how she's learning to forgive her parents and deal with past trauma.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    friendship trauma + chicken little || Episode 26

    Play Episode Play 22 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 18, 2022 22:41


    In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about how her past relationships affected her ability to be open and vulnerable with her friends. And oh my, the sky is falling!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    why we all deserve therapy || Episode 25

    Play Episode Play 25 sec Highlight Listen Later Jul 4, 2022 21:40


    In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about her experience in therapy and how it has helped her to become a better person.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    quitting the podcast + am I the drama?! || Episode 24

    Play Episode Play 37 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 19:12


    In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about her thoughts on quitting the podcast and why she might be the problem (well-kinda). That last part was a bit unclear :)If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we regularly engage in robust conversations and discussions.

    Sometimes I cry for absolutely no reason... || Episode 23

    Play Episode Play 31 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 13:25


    In this week's episode, Sharifa talks about why a cry a day keeps the psychologist away (totally kidding, but also maybe not). If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Death, Dying, and Cheeseless Pizza || Episode 22

    Play Episode Play 20 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 12, 2022 19:25


    In this week's episode, Sharifa discusses her anxiety around getting older, and why she hates rollercoasters but loves cheeseless pizza. Join her on this wild ride of an episode!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Toxic Femininity and Accountability ft. Carrissa Normil || Episode 21

    Play Episode Play 43 sec Highlight Listen Later Jun 5, 2022 74:41


    In today's episode, Sharifa is joined by a special guest to discuss toxic femininity, toxic masculinity, vulnerability, and much much more! This is a guest episode you can't afford to miss!Timestamps: :) 00:02:05: Definitions of toxic masculinity and femininity 00:18:09: Submission and toxic masculinity, is there a correlation?00:23:55: Men should be the prize?00:30:42: Causes of toxic femininity and masculinity00:34:51: High-value men, male podcasts, and femininity channels00:52:01: Communication and vulnerability 00: 58:55: Black women and accountability 01:01:00: Brutal honesty  Carrissa's IG!https://www.instagram.com/_.livingart/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Grad School Is Not For The Weak || Episode 20

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later May 25, 2022 19:02


    In this episode, Sharifa reflects on her first year of graduate school. Has grad school been worth it to her and does she have any regrets?If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Sexual Compatibility, Shacking up and Settling?! ft. Chaya Khaimova || Episode 19

    Play Episode Play 35 sec Highlight Listen Later May 18, 2022 57:03


    In this episode, Sharifa is joined by one of her newest friends. Listen in as they engage in an interesting discussion about everything from sexual compatibility to whether or not men settle in relationships and much much more!This is an episode you don't want to miss! Chaya's IG handles! Personal: https://www.instagram.com/chaya.mushka/Mental Health: https://www.instagram.com/healingwithchaya/Timestamps  :) 01:35:05: Does your partner need to be religious?04:00:80: Double standards b/w men and women in dating05:55:00: Is sexual compatibility a thing?09:11:05: Men's sexual desire and the media12:01:00: Are men most likely to settle for a partner in marriages?12:54:00: Purity culture and women's sex drive15: 01:00: Long distance relationships, yay or nay?22:46:00: Do you believe in hacking up?27:54:00: Is gender essentialism real?31:07:00: Can men and women be just friends?40:54: 00: Dating dealbreakers47:23:00: Thoughts on dating apps50:33: 00: Sharing bank accounts

    Anti-Abortion ≠ Pro-Life || Episode 18

    Play Episode Play 23 sec Highlight Listen Later May 11, 2022 18:32


    In this episode, Sharifa talks about performative activism, anti-abortion vs pro-life, and reparations?! You definitely don't want to miss this one.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    It's the end of the semester...that's it, that's the title || Episode 17

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later May 4, 2022 18:51


    In this episode,  Sharifa talks about the challenges of dealing with burnout in school, maintaining self-care, and code-switching!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions. 

    Y'all Out Here Having Kids?! || Episode 16

    Play Episode Play 16 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 16:45


    In this episode,  Sharifa talks about her thoughts on celebrating her Jordan Year (spoiler alert: she feels like a dinosaur), she continues the discussion around disciplining children and briefly touches on her fears surrounding pregnancy.Previous episode referenced: Love Lies  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/796e0yXTiWVPSRpeWMTwVi?si=022164da287447ceApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/miscellaneous-thoughts/id1604466994?i=1000557456913If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Sex + The Virgin/Whore Complex || Episode 15

    Play Episode Play 29 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 18:26


    In this episode, Sharifa talks about the need for more vulnerability in the church and discusses her views on sex and Christian dating. You can't miss this one!Book: My Child Wake Up by Charlene CoutetLink: https://mychildwakeup.com/product/my-child-wake-up/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Love's Lies || Episode 14

    Play Episode Play 24 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 19:42


    In this episode, we're talking about love,  justice, and honesty. The book I reference in this podcast is,  All About Love by Bell Hooks!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    "You're not ugly, you're just broke" || Episode 13

    Play Episode Play 19 sec Highlight Listen Later Apr 6, 2022 15:41


    In this episode, we're talking about cosmetic surgery and beauty. Let's get into it!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to rate and follow this podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Therapy should be free || Episode 12

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 17:22


    This week, we're talking about therapy!  If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to follow and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.Resources/ Info:RESOURCES FOR COUNSELORS AND CLIENTS80 Awesome Mental Health Resources When You Can't Afford a TherapistTherapy For Black Girls8 Free Therapy Resources to Try If You Can't Afford to See Someone

    To ghost or not to ghost?! || Episode 11

    Play Episode Play 33 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 19:24


    In this episode,  we're discussing the pros and the cons of ghosting! I also spoiled you all with a bit of a storytime so... you're welcome.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share, and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Maybe I'm lazy, maybe it's Maybelline || Episode 10

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 22:37


    In this episode, we're talking about the  "I don't dream of labor" trend, the myth of meritocracy, and so much more! If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share, and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.Sources used:The "I don't dream of labour" trend needs to be destroyed .by KidologyWhy "I Don't Dream of Labor" Doesn't Work by F.D SignifierIs it even worth it to work hard? Let's discuss #IDontDreamofLaborI don't have a dream job by Amandai don't have a dream job by LynetteI no longer aspire to have a career. by KatheroutI do not dream of labour + reading list on work & capitalism by NatWomen, Race, and Class by Angela Davis

    Do we need vulnerable men ?! feat. Aiyinde Lawrence || Episode 9

    Play Episode Play 21 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 54:30


    In this episode, we're discussing male vulnerability, particularly black male vulnerability, and whether or not it's truly necessary. Aiyinde's Info:Be Great Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0BzTqZT6JeqQuoJwVIG5em?si=ee559296a6fd4b35IG: https://www.instagram.com/be1_fitness/If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Free the Homies || Episode 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 16:58


    In this episode, I'm taking prison abolition. Let's talk.Link to sources:https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BVxcX8d4hSUgWyCsO4GQvt05yvXGSMBXRKWOSMFs7Rs/edit?usp=sharingIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram:   https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    The episode where I become your favorite relationship guru || Episode 7

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 18:10


    In this episode, we're talking about love! I will be discussing a few popular topics on love such as whether or not I believe in soulmates, would I move for love, and my thoughts on infidelity in marriage.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Mostly alive || Episode 6

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 14:47


    In this episode, I discuss finding meaning in life, living in the present, and the importance of distinguishing between acquaintances and friends.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Police reform, are we feeling it or nah? || Episode 5

    Play Episode Play 21 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 2, 2022 16:19


    In this episode, I'm just sharing my two cents on how I feel about police and whether police reform is enough. If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Women should propose to men?! || Episode 4

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 29:09


    In this episode, I am joined by a special guest and close friend! We discuss things women find attractive in men, whether or not women should be proposing to men and the cons of dating too long. Grab your favorite bev, because this is gonna be a good one. Timestamps:00:00 - 20:29:  Traits women find attractive in men 21:30 - 24:15:  Should women be proposing to men24:16 - 29:01:  Dating for too longIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    The world is ending... and oh yeah safe sex || Episode 3

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 20:03


    In this episode, we discuss the pros and cons of growing up religious and whether safe sex should be discussed in the church.So buckle up,  because this is going to be a wild one!Timestamps:00:00 - 02:15:  A bit about Adventism02:16- 05:48: End times 05:49- 14:59: Pros and cons of religion 15:00- 20:00: My unpopular opinion on safe sexIf you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/miscellaneous_thoughtss/, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Is Submission A Relic of the Past? || Episode 2

    Play Episode Play 15 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 12:38


    Should women submit? In this episode, we discuss whether or not submission is really beneficial for women and why it seems to be an issue in many relationships.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    We Can't Be Friends! || Episode 1

    Play Episode Play 26 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 5, 2022 14:18


    Can men and women be just friends or are we just kidding ourselves?  In this episode, we cover all of that and more!If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

    Surviving 2021, The Docuseries || Episode 0

    Play Episode Play 22 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 3, 2022 12:27


    Miscellaneous Thoughts is the weekly podcast where we talk about religion, politics, and all that jazz. In the intro episode of Miscellaneous Thoughts, Sharifa discusses the many many life changes she experienced in 2021 and  what this podcast will be all about.If you enjoyed this episode, please don't forget to subscribe, share and rate this episode.Follow Miscellaneous Thoughts on Instagram @miscellaneous_thoughtss, where we engage regularly in robust conversations and discussions.

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