OUTsideHERS

“Fear is a very primal emotion. It protects us, but we must start living our lives fearlessly.” What is it like to be a personal and career development coach? What does it mean to be a tea snob? Join me as I learn all about tea with Juliette Austin- A personal, career development, and health coach who consults with businesses on diversity and inclusion. We talk about the true meaning of diversity, discuss the silence around difference and explore how even though we are not talking about differences, we are still acting on them. We share our experiences with competition between black women in careers. We question how a work environment can encourage authenticity. We share mediation techniques and we encourage the importance of asking yourself why, every day. Check out Juliette’s Tea company, Orisa Tii: https://www.orisatii.com/orisa --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

“When you have a connection with the person, the photographer becomes invisible and its just the person being photographed and the camera” What is it like to be a video editor? What is it like to be a Gay Latina? In this episode of OUTsideHers, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by video editor who also happens to do photography, Sandra Rodriguez. We talk about different kinds of photography, how to snap the best candid photo and nature photography, making people look good, and finding a connection with the person you’re photographing. Then, things get personal and we discuss identifying as Latina and the complexity of what that term means, Bisexuality, the long journey of coming out, terms Gay vs Lesbian, how to heal when families are silent about your sexuality- The pain of silence, levels on openness with parents on Queer dating and relationships,the fear of losing people when you come out, Queer Books we love and SPIRIT ANIMALS! Check Her Out:http://www.sandrarodriguez.work/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

There is indeed a science of love! On Episode 25 of OUTsideHERS, host, Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Marriage Counselor and Queer Couples Therapist at Relationship HQ, Dr. Bukky! Dr. Bukky works with the Queer Community, specifically Queer Couples and those in non-monogamous relationships/Polyamorous relationships. Dr. Bukky shares her focus on making Queer couples the norm in relationship therapy, the outside impacts on Queer relationships, learning how to navigate safe and unsafe spaces, building solid communication and a secure relationship as a Queer couple, Attachment Theory—Secure versus insecure attachment styles and much more! This podcast gets personal!!! Check out Dr. Bukky: https://www.drbukkyk.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode of OUTsideHERS, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Zine author Maya Meredith! They delve into questions of identity and claiming terms--bisexuality versus queerness, bisexual backlash, femme flagging and femme invisibility. Maya shares her life growing up as a child raised by a black father who was raised by a white family, atheism, and coming out. She walks us through her life working in A PR firm focused on restaurants--yum! And she shares tips and tricks to cooking on a budget and writing a successful pitch! Maya outlines her writing process for her Zine, Wade in The Water, and they discuss her work with Artists Against Police Violence, the importance of Oral History, shades of blackness, levels of intimacy and the best pizza in NYC! An amazing and information packed episode, indeed! Maya's Zine, Wade in the Water, is now available online for purchase through activist art collective justseeds! Check it out here: http://justseeds.org/product/wade-in-the-water/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

This episode is a mixed bag and we’re talking about everything but the kitchen sink! Gilberte and I answer mystery questions each of us has prepared for the other person and none of us know what to expect! We talk about our celebrity crushes, best pick up lines, Gaydar, play two truths and a lie and much more! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by T Sripunvoraskul of 500 Startups. T shares all about their experience growing up in Tennessee, identifying as Trans and Gender Queer and the awesomeness of the Drag King Scene. We also share our own unique experiences with coming out, the intersection of race, Queerness, and Identity, shopping in the Men's department and work life balance. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Sometimes, everything just stops and you are forced to face your true self. This is when you are most vulnerable, honest and raw. This is when you are living in your truth. Learn about the lessons I have learned on my journey within. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Relationships are what we yearn for as human beings. Finding that special someone can be one of the most significant parts of our lives. On this episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Datrianna and Tashay, who have been partners for six years. Datrianna and Tashay share their beautiful love journey and partnership as we discuss the ins and out of a successful relationship, black love, the importance of communication, accepting each other's flaws, appreciation and believing in one another. There's trivia, too! Listen in! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

What is it like to be a make up artist? Awesome! On this week's episode I sat down with the amazing Meli Pennington, Makeup Artist in NYC for Fashion Magazines and Runway Shows for over 20 years, Beauty writer and Founder of Wild Beauty, and Director of Makeup Artistry at Kokko Inc. Meli shares her career path, blogging life style, make up essentials, the evolution of beauty and make up, the expectations of motherhood and the first ever make up product created in history! Listen in and check out Meli's amazing work and the Kokko Inc. Beauty App: wildbeautyworld.com melipennington.com www.kokkoinc.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Have you ever wondered what it is like to be a barber? On this episode of OUTsideHERS I am joined by Desiree Marshall, also known as Dez the Barber. Dez shares her experiences growing up in Springfield and moving to Brooklyn, being of mixed race, the power and politics in identifying as Queer, a day in the life of a barber, her career path as an Organizer, going to barber school, and tips for your first time at the barbershop. Check out Dez's amazing work: @dezisdope facebook.com/dezisdope --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this Episode, I am joined by the amazingly talented Multi-Disciplinary Artist, Sam Kirk! We discuss the life of an artist, work-live space, differences between NYC and Chicago, exploring culture, identity, and Queer Art. Sam shares about the journey to figuring out your brand and what makes you stand out, artists as entrepreneurs, becoming an artist in a working class family on the Southside of Chicago and the accessibility of art. Check out Sam's AWESOME work: http://iamsamkirk.com/#hisam http://www.provokeculture.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

I HAD A BREAKTHROUGH and it is PERSONAL! On this Bonus Episode I share and reflect on my challenges in letting go of stuff, hoarding, and how this has affected me and my journey. I also discuss my path to self discovery, my childhood, my college and graduate school journey, my career path, my saturn returning and life at 30. Listen in and please share your thoughts :) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Have you been to Cuba? On this episode, host, Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Assistant Professor of Nonprofit Management and Urban Policy at The New School and Director of the film Black and Cuba, Robin J Hayes, PhD. Professor Hayes discusses her film, Cuba, life as a professor, Sheros, the realities of incarceration and how black families, as well as the Queer and Gender Non Conforming community, are affected, the image of the African American in the world, the importance of meditation, not getting caught up in the Nos but focusing on the Yeses, and living a Powerball Career Life. Check out Professor Hayes' AMAZING work: http://progressivepupil.org/film http://blackandcuba.tumblr.com/watchnow https://www.facebook.com/blackandcuba/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, I am joined by my first Male interviewee, Donovan Thompson, Writer for Huffington Post's Queer Voices! Donovan shares his journey in identifying as a Gay Male of Jamaican descent, balancing masculine and feminine energy, the importance of soul mates, vulnerability, self acceptance, his amazing career and why getting a tailor is essential! Check out Donovan's amazing work and follow him: @i_am_donovan --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

There is no doubt, surgery is a big deal. Those who we trust to heal our bodies and take care of our health can play a vital role in our lives. In the Queer Community, finding a doctor who understands us, our bodies and is privy to health care issues that specifically affect our community are essential. On this episode, Dr. Kay Knibbs shares her medical career journey, her specialty as an Anesthesiologist and life in the operating room. Join the conversation! Share your thoughts and questions. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

So many Queers and not enough films! On this episode of OUTsideHERS, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by the amazing filmmaker of The Revival, Sekiya Dorsett. Julia and Sekiya discuss the ins and outs of film production, the process of filming The Revival, moving into the film industry from television marketing, the fine line between being a Bad Ass and being Cocky, the importance of telling Queer Stories, taking up space, learning to not take "NO" personally, creating from scratch, Queer freedom, and the importance of networking to form genuine connections. Check out Sekiya's AWESOME work: Twitter: @RevivalPoetry Instagram: @TheRevivalMovie Facebook: The Revival Movie --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Does education matter when you are dating? Does your partner have to have the same educational background that you have in order for you both to be compatible? If you have a Masters Degree should you only date someone who has attained the same level of education? How does this play out in the Queer Community and for Women of Color? On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Student Filmmaker and friend, Gilberte Saint-Preux. Julia and Gilberte discuss their own backgrounds, journeys in education and career pursuits, family expectations and how those expectations play out when looking for a partner and dating. Does education matter in the longevity of a relationship and for partners to feel an equal balance or is it just a plus? Do we limit ourselves by making lists for potential mates or does it help us in the long run and when we raise children? Let's discuss! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

What does it mean to be a Queer Woman in the Middle? Can we mix it up and identify as a femme one day and a butch the next? How does style affect how you are recognized by others in your community as well as those you seek to attract? On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Kaleda, the creator of the podcast, She_So_Chic. Kaleda shares her experiences moving from Maryland to New York City, life at 30, her fashion evolution journey and its connection to coming out, the differences between DC and NYC Queer Culture and Style and being comfortable in being both masculine and feminine in style presentation in the Queer Community. Check out her Social Media and AWESOME podcast on Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/she_so_chic Twitter: https://twitter.com/she_so_chic24 IG: https://www.instagram.com/she_so_chic/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/shesochic24/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

How do you find Queer spaces when you're new to an area? On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Erin Burnes, the creator of ExtraQueericular, an online hub for all things Queer! They discuss the importance of finding your Queer center and community no matter where you are in the world, coming out, making time for yourself, recharging, sharing your truth, the essence of photography, setting boundaries at work, self-employment, the life lesson the internet can teach us, and living on your own terms. Erin shares her experiences in learning how to code, the importance of being authentic, knowing your skills are valuable, keeping curiosities fulfilled and the power in letting go of your fears to do what you want to do! Check out the incredibly awesome Extraqueericular: www.extraqueericular.com Mediation apps: Relax Melodies by Ipnos Soft --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Brandi Harper, the owner of purlBknit and designer for natural knitwear handmade in Brooklyn. Brandi shares her experiences as a Gay Black Female Knitter, teaching herself how to knit and sharing her love of knitting by teaching others her beautiful craft. We discuss building a business, the importance of starting now, becoming a meat eating vegetarian, yoga, the love of cooking, and getting rid of pattern books to have freedom of thought. Check out Brandi's amazing work: Website https://www.etsy.com/shop/purlBknit Instagram https://www.instagram.com/purlbknit Facebook https://www.facebook.com/purlBknit Twitter https://www.twitter.com/purlBknit --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, Co-Collaborators Sara Elise and Ora Wise, chat with host, Julia Curtis-Burnes about their inspired event catering company, Harvest & Revel (formerly known as Bed Stuy Kitchen.) Sara Elise and Ora share the ins and outs of running a business, developing a successful business partnership, disrupting the inequalities of the food industry, making organic food accessible, the gentrification of Brooklyn, and the importance of celebrating around food and drink! Check out their amazing work at Harvest and Revel: www.HarvestandRevel.com Instagram: @HarvestandRevel Email: hello@HarvestandRevel.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, Creator of Quirklyn and National Performer, Jenny RaQs, discusses her passion for dance, art and creativity, her work as a doula, recovery, attending school on a farm and all the beauty that life's lessons bring our way. Please check out Jenny's amazing work: www.jennyraQs.com www.Quirklyn.com Instagram: @Quirklyn and @JennyRaQS Facebook: Quirklyn and JennyRaQs Tumblr: @Quirklyn --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

In this episode, host, Julia Curtis-Burnes, chats with the amazing information powerhouse and Librarian, Shawn(ta) Smith-Cruz, Head of Reference at the CUNY Graduate Center Library, about her experiences in information science, her work as the Volunteer Coordinator at The Lesbian Herstory Archives and her Zines at Lambey Press. Check out her awesome work: Twitter: @ShawntaDeshawn @lambeypress Librarian | Me@CUNY: http://shawntasmith.commons.gc.cuny.edu Archivette | Lesbian Herstory Archives: http://lesbianherstoryarchives.org Publisher | Lambey Press: http://lambeypress.com Blogger | Her Saturn Returns: https://hersaturnreturns.com/calls-for-submission/ & Queer Housing Nacional: https://queerhousingnacional.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this Episode, Host, Julia Curtis-Burnes, chats with Attorney and Entrepreneur, Shannon Clarke about her law firm , inspiring journey in entrepreneurship, book of success and the amazing life lessons she has learned along the way. Check out her awesome work: Twitter: @ShannonClarkeNY (https://twitter.com/ShannonClarkeNY) and @ClarkeLawFirm (https://twitter.com/ClarkeLawFirm) Instagram: @ShannonClarkeNY (instagram.com/shannonclarkeny) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ClarkeLawFirmNYC --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, host Julia Curtis-Burnes is joined by Eileen Garcia, creator of Mindful Months a blog which is an exercise in mindfulness through a series of month-long challenges. Julia and Eileen discuss Eileen's most recent blog post "Vulnerability, Mindfulness and Growing out of Dresses," the term Gender Queer and the evolution of one's self in claiming terms (or not) that are not necessarily placed on us by society, but that we choose because they suit us best. Please check out Eileen's amazing blog. It will inspire you: https://mindfulmonths.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

On this episode, Host Julia Curtis-Burnes chats with Student Filmmaker Gilberte Saint-Preux about her experiences as a Queer Woman, across cultures. Gilberte shares her journey with us growing up in a French Haitian Culture, discusses her time in NYC and talks about her work in documentary filmmaking. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support

Welcome to The First Episode of OUTsideHERS-- A Queer Culture Podcast for Women! In this episode, meet the host, Julia Curtis-Burnes as she talks about her experiences as a Queer Woman and in starting her own business. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/outsidehers/support