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TWO COLLEGE GIRLS DOING A COMEDY PODCAST COVERING RELATABLE TOPICS SUCH AS DATING, SELF-LOVE, AND FINDING YOUR PLACE.

Avery Blessing


    • Jun 7, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 55m AVG DURATION
    • 34 EPISODES

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    The UR NOT THE WORST podcast is a recent discovery that I have become completely obsessed with. It's a show that is incredibly relatable, hilarious, and real, making it a must-listen for anyone looking for an entertaining and informative podcast. Hosted by Avery and Riley, this dynamic duo brings their unique perspectives and experiences to the world of dating in a way that is both professional and fun.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is how relatable it is. Avery and Riley share personal stories and anecdotes that many listeners can easily identify with. Whether it's navigating the confusing world of online dating or dealing with heartbreak, they tackle these topics with honesty and authenticity. Their willingness to be vulnerable creates a sense of connection with their audience, making each episode feel like you're having a conversation with close friends.

    Another great aspect of this podcast is the advice and insight that Avery and Riley provide. They offer practical tips for navigating relationships in a healthy way, while also bringing a lightheartedness to their discussions. It's refreshing to hear their perspective as they address common dating dilemmas without taking themselves too seriously. Their approachable style makes it easy to absorb their advice, making it applicable to real-life situations.

    While there are countless positive elements to The UR NOT THE WORST podcast, one area where it could improve is diversifying its content. While they do cover a range of topics related to dating, including toxic relationship advice, it would be great to see them explore other areas as well. Adding different segments or guest speakers could help bring new perspectives and keep the content fresh.

    In conclusion, The UR NOT THE WORST podcast has quickly become one of my favorites. With its relatability, humor, and genuine advice, Avery and Riley have created an incredible show that keeps me coming back week after week. If you're looking for a podcast that will make you laugh, provide valuable insights, and make you feel seen and understood, this is the podcast for you. Give it a listen and prepare to be hooked!



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    "I'M TRYING TO MOVE ON BUT MY EX IS EVERYWHERE I GO" WITH EVANS HICKS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 42:00


    On this week's episode, Avery is joined by previous guest, Evans Hicks, to talk about life post breakup but specifically when you just can't seem to get away from your ex. Maybe you go to a small school and have some classes together? Or maybe you share some of the same friends and they always tend to come up in conversation or you run into each other at parties. In this episode, we go into how constantly running into your ex, really can affect the moving on process. We also talk about the numerous situations you can go through and the numerous feelings you feel when you see them. But don't worry, we gotchu covered! We finally discuss the solution and what you can do when it comes to these situations. Enjoy guys!!

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    SPOTTING REAL VS FAKE CONFIDENCE IN MEN WITH EVANS HICKS

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2022 64:02


    On this week's episode, Avery is joined by her good guy friend Evans to talk about real vs fake confidence in men. We all know that classic guy with the "all talk no walk" vibe but how exactly can we spot those guys before we get ourselves too attached? Hold up... before we get too attached? No no, with this episode you'll be able to spot it before the first date. How is he with planning? Can he go with the flow or does he freak out when there's a sudden change in plans? Does he reveal everything about himself in a paragraph text after matching with you on an app or does he keep some of himself a mystery? Is he able to take a joke? Maybe he gets way too into beer pong and calls everybody a bro. We have all of the answers in this episode when it comes to qualities of the confident man so do yourself a favor and don't miss out on this one! Enjoy guys!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow Evans on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evans_hicks/

    THINGS THAT MAKE US FOLD & FUNNY DATING APP DM'S WITH EMILY LOVGREN

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2022 43:02


    Don't know what folds are? I gotchu. Folds are little things that girls or guys do that you think are really attractive. Basically like icks, but the opposite! So for this mini episode, we go into what makes girls and guys fold and read the worst but funny dating app dm's. Enjoy guys!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastFollow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/averyblessing/Follow Riley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rileynelson18/

    UNDERSTANDING THE ENNEAGRAM WITH "MISS TENNESSEE" SLOAN REID

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 76:49


    SEASON TWO BABY :) For our first episode this season, we have on Sloan Reid, AKA Miss Tennessee, to break down the enneagram! Sloan is a certified enneagram coach who gives us the 411 on how the enneagram can improve your understanding of who you are and actually help with self love and self growth. She explains how the enneagram is unlike any other basic personality test by describing how the enneagram gives you the "why" and not just the "what" behind your behavior. We also discuss how the enneagram can help you approach and understand your everyday relationships better. This episode was more than insightful and we hope you guys enjoy!! Also, hey we missed you. WELCOME TO SEASON TWO!Get 25% off a typing session with Sloan with code "URNOTTHEWORST": https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=21592366&appointmentType=19303163Follow Sloan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sloan_reid/Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.comFollow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/averyblessing/Follow Riley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rileynelson18/

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    SEASON 1 RECAP

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2022 53:03


    In this bonus episode, Riley and Avery recap season one of UR NOT THE WORST and talk about funny moments from this season and spill some behind the scenes tea. They also discuss their fave episodes, fave guests and talk about what a ~journey~ it has been from episode 1 to episode 30. We thank and love you all endlessly for listening this season. Cheers to season 2! Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.comFollow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/averyblessing/Follow Riley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rileynelson18/

    GIRL CODE VS BRO CODE- PART 2: BRO CODE WITH WILL & BRANTLEY

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 74:55


    OUR LAST EPISODE OF SEASON ONE HOLY AHHH. Part 2 tho, Let's gooo! For part two of this episode, Riley and Avery have on their guy friends, Will and Brantley, to reveal what bro code really is. We all have heard guys say the classic "BRO CODE IS SACRED" line. Gimme a break omg. In this episode we discuss things like, if a girl can ever be considered a bro? Are bro's allowed to date another bro's sister? Is the rule "bro's before hoe's" really followed by the bro's? Or do they just say that to make them look good? And more! We unlock all the bro secrets in this episode so do yo self a favor and don't miss out on this one! Enjoy guys!! SEE YOU NEXT WEEK FOR SEASON 2

    EX'S: THEY ALWAYS COME BACK

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 38:01


    You know how you always get that "Hey haha" or "How are you" or "Oops, sorry I meant to send that to someone else!" text from your ex? In this mini episode, Riley and Avery discuss why exactly and what it really means when your ex texts you out of the blue. Is it just because they're bored? Or they wanna see if they still have that power over you? Or maybe they've been falling for your thirst traps on social media? The list is endless omg. Enjoy guys!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst.comFollow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/averyblessing/Follow Riley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rileynelson18/

    GIRL CODE VS BRO CODE- PART 1: GIRL CODE WITH REN

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 53:41


    Our very first two parter! Aw. For part 1 of this episode, Riley and Avery have on their good girlfriend Ren to dig into all things girl code. What exactly is girl code? Is it just a woman's intuition or is it a set list of rules? When does girl code apply? And for who? Can you ever date your friends ex? Is it really that bad to leave your girls to go see a guy? UGH! There's so many questions. Don't worry tho, we answer them all in this week's episode! Don't forget to look out in 2 weeks for part 2 with a special guest to talk about bro code! Enjoy!!!Follow Ren on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/issarenn/Follow Ren on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@r.e.naldo?Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst.comFollow Avery on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/averyblessing/Follow Riley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rileynelson18/

    LET'S TALK ABOUT ATTACHMENT STYLES WITH DR. WENDY WALSH

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2022 49:26


    On this week's episode, Riley and Avery are joined by a guest who needs no introduction! We talk with Dr. Wendy Walsh about attachment theory, the different types of attachment styles, the different dynamics that are created with attachment styles, and how to heal yourself from having anxious or avoidant attachment. This episode def hits harder than the others and isn't one to miss. Enjoy!!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast? Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.com

    Q&A: MEN ASKED, WE DELIVERED

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 17:40


    In this mini episode, Riley and Avery answer questions that men, *cough* boys *cough*, asked. Such as, how do men kindly ask for a bj? How to know if she's gonna flake? Do nice guys always finish last? And many more! Tune in to figure out the female mind. Enjoy boys!To the women listening..... Let us know if you agree and DM us your thoughts!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast?Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.com

    HELPING WOMEN UNDERSTAND MEN: A SAGA WITH "EZ DATING COACH"

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2022 50:35


    This week we are joined with EZ Dating Coach aka Mike Goldstein to really figure out and understand the male mind when it comes to dating. Mike is an expert dating coach with an 83% success rate. We ask him the questions you are dying to know. How do men fall in love? Should men pay on the first date? How do you know when a man is emotionally attached? How do men fall in love? This episode is not one to miss!! Enjoy!!Mike's Free Gift to our Listeners: http://www.ezdatingcoach.com/4-signs-opt-inFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst.comFollow Mike on TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdruQBX5/Visit Mike's website: https://www.ezdatingcoach.com

    Q&A: SISTER EDITION

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2022 25:29


    Our very first Q&A, wow so cute! In this episode, we answer questions that our listeners submitted. Yep, thats all I got, okay enjoy!!

    OWNING UR STORY WITH MARY CROCKER

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2021 85:43


    This week, Avery and Riley are joined by author, Mary Crocker! Mary is the author of "Unveiling Alice" that is set to come out next month and in this episode we get an inside look into her book about owning your story. Mary discusses how she went from having a broken engagement during the pandemic and being totally blindsided, to coming out on the other side and learning how to own her story. Her story is truly eyeopening and y'all def don't wanna miss out on this one. Enjoy!!!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst.com

    THE ULTIMATE BREAKUP GUIDE

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2021 58:43


    This week, Riley and Avery discuss all things breakups: the types of breakups, how to get over them, ways to cope with them. Breakups can suck but they also can teach you a lot…plus the breakup body isn't so bad either! Enjoy!

    SOS THEY'RE COMING OVER

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2021 55:38


    On todays episode, Riley and Avery talk about going over to your significant others house for the first time. What do you do? Do you clean? How do you look cute without trying too hard? We also talk about the differences between going over to a girls house and a guys house. It's always so awk when they come over for the first time but there's ways to avoid that! If you wanna find out how to fix that, then this episode has got you covered. Also, hey we've missed yall. Enjoy!!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: http://www.urnottheworst.com

    INTERROGATION OF A F*CK BOY FEATURING "F*CKBOY BRAD"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2021 94:35


    This week, Riley and Avery get a first look into the mysterious male mind with guest, F*CKBOY BRAD. He answers all of the questions we're dying to know. Why do guys like anal? Why do guys ghost? Why are guys so afraid of commitment? What do guys first notice about a girl? If you are struggling with understanding the modern f**ck boy, then this episode's for you. Enjoy!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast?Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.com

    DATING BOOTCAMP WITH JON BIRGER

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 0:30


    On today's episode, we are joined with Jon Birger. He is an author of 2 books: Date-onomics and MAKE YOUR MOVE. He was a senior editor at Fortune and Money and has been featured on TIME, New York Post, New York Magazine, and The Washington Post. He is THE dating expert. We talk about the lopsided dating ratios, dating apps, and all things dating!

    LET'S SEXT BABY

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 64:10


    **THIS IS AN R RATED EPISODE, PROCEED WITH CAUTION** Ok, that's all. ENJOY!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcast Check out our website: www.urnottheworst.com

    HOW TO STEP UP UR FLIRTING GAME

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 45:04


    On this week's episode, Riley and Avery talk all things flirting. The do's and don'ts, flirting in person vs through the phone, and fun tips to try out. Riley spills the tea on a mystery guy she was talking to that turned out to be Avery's cousin. Avery talks about how flirting is more about body language than actual verbal flirting. They cover everything you need to know when you're wanting to step up your flirting game. Enjoy!!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: http://www.urnottheworst.com

    UR MAN WHO'S NOT UR MAN

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2021 67:34


    On this week's episode, Riley and Avery discuss "your man who's not your man". Have you had a person who was your person but not your person??…But they're your person and everyone knows it? We discuss if it's possible for men to have "a woman who's not your woman", how to get out of that situation when you develop feelings and they're not wanting more, and analyze each and every situation that comes with it.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastSubscribe to us on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OACheck out our website: http://www.urnottheworst.com

    GOOD VS. BAD LIFE ADVICE FEATURING OUR PARENTS HAHA

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2021 55:45


    This week Riley and Avery talk about good and bad advice when it comes to life and dating. They have special guests on this episode who have lived many years…that's right our parents!!! We talk about the cliches and discuss if they're cliche for a reason and offer new perspectives to the advice. Lastly, we discuss lessons that we have learned that have helped us through college and becoming young adults. EnjoyyyFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: http://www.urnottheworst.comSubscribe to us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OA

    LOVE LANGUAGES WITH LILY NELSON

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 0:30


    On today's episode of UR NOT THE WORST we talk about love languages. What are love languages? How can you apply them? What is a love tank? What do you do when your love tank is empty? How can you do your partners love language? How can your partner do your love languages? Are there different love languages for different types of relationships like platonic, familial, intimate? These are all questions we answer with our guest, Lily Nelson! Enjoy!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastSubscribe to us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OACheck out our website: http://www.urnottheworst.com

    SO, UR TAKING THE NEXT STEP: MEETING THE FAMILY

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2021 67:58


    So, you're about to meet the family and you just have so many questions. Are they gonna like me? Are they gonna hate me? What if I hate them? What do I wear? How do I avoid making a fool of myself? AHHH! Fear not, Riley and Avery have all of the answers to these questions in this week's episode. Enjoy!!Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst.comSubscribe to us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OA

    HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN UR TRULY IN LOVE? WITH FAITH HOPKINS

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2021 70:32


    On todays episode, Riley and Avery are joined with Faith Hopkins, a local Nashville Artist, to talk about Love. We begin to unpack love. What does it mean to love someone romantically? How do you know when you're in love? What do you feel when you're in love? They discuss anything and everything about love and how each love situation comes with things you never expected.Follow Faith Hopkins on Instagram: @faithhopkinsmusicFollow us on Instagram and TikTok: @urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: https://urnottheworst.com

    HOW TO MEET MEN AND WOMEN OUTSIDE OF DATING APPS

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 65:50


    This week, Avery and Riley go into what it takes when you are wanting to get off the apps and meet people in public. They discuss ways to approach people that you are interested in, how to look approachable yourself, the different events you can go to, to meet a potential significant other, and of course their own experiences when meeting men in public. ALSO, IT'S THEIR 10TH EPISODE!! Enjoy!!!Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: @urnottheworstpodcastSubscribe to our Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OACheck out our website: https://urnottheworst.com

    CAN YOU BE FRIENDS WITH AN EX?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 63:40


    Can you just be genuinely and platonically friends with an ex? This week, Riley and Avery talk about if it's possible to be friends with an ex, when you should and shouldn't be friends with an ex, and the ways of how to be friends with an ex without crossing boundaries. And of course, they spill their shitty things.Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/urnottheworstpodcast/https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMR1BnxdA/Subscribe to us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ7LtUgnEmHq73Jd122Q0OACheck out our website: https://urnottheworst.com

    BUILDING A BRAND: SIPS AND THE CITY NASHVILLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2021 56:50


    This week, Riley and Avery meet with two girls who run a local Nashville business and discuss their journey of how they have grown from just an Instagram account to an actual brand. They talk about how to start a brand in your 20's, where it has taken them, and fun things to do in Nashville!Follow them on Instagram and TikTok @sipsandthecitynashFollow us on Instagram and TikTok @urnottheworstpodcastCheck out our website: www.urnottheworst,com

    GET OVER THEM WITHOUT GETTING UNDER THEM: THE RED FLAG AND ICK LIST

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 64:10


    Still trying to get over them? This week, Avery and Riley introduce "The Red Flag and Ick List". They go into depth about what goes on a red flag and ick list and define what it is. They discuss red flags and icks for both men and women... and of course shitty things. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @urnottheworstpodcastSubmit your own shitty things @ www.urnottheworst.com

    SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS IN UR EARLY 20S WITH BROOKE KNIGHT

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2021 65:08


    Riley and Avery talk about the in's and out's of dating someone seriously in your early twenties. They discuss ways to keep the spark alive along with the dating history and experiences before getting into a serious relationship. They go deep into how "you know when you know" and how it has influenced Brooke's future in endless ways.Follow us on Instagram @urnottheworstpodcast, Avery @averyblessing, Riley @rileynelson18, and our special guest Brooke @brookeealysseee. Check out our website at www.urnottheworst.com for updates, episodes, and more!

    THEY'RE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2021 65:15


    Avery and Riley discuss what the signs are when someone is just not that into you. They gather perspectives from both sides of the story, go into their own personal experiences of what they have done when they're not into someone, and of course they spill their shitty things of the week.

    INSTAGRAM: THE ULTIMATE DATING APP

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 59:31


    On this weeks episode, Avery and Riley dive into sliding into the DM's and the differences between men and womens opinions on it. They touch on those wack sugar daddy incentives and then they give advice on good and bad ways to slide in. In conclusion, Instagram is the best dating app.

    FRIEND GROUPS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2021 49:53


    Avery and Riley talk about friend groups in high school vs college, the different dynamics of friend groups and the roles that people play within them...... and of course, shitty things.

    CHEATING 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 66:38


    Riley and Avery go into a deep dive on topics relating to cheating. They discuss personal cheating stories, why people cheat, steps to cheating, and of course shitty things.

    HOW TO: DATING APPS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2021 68:37


    DATING APPS..... THEY ARE THE WORST, BUT SO ARE WE.

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