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2 episodes with Jon Birger
3 episodes with Jon Birger
2 episodes with Jon Birger
2 episodes with Jon Birger
SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookJon Birger: Website | LinkedIn | X | FacebookJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceTeach Your Kids Blog PostsSo, what's the big deal about "Mastery Learning"?PodcastsScience of Reading: The Podcast Amplify EducationBooks, Articles, and PublicationsDate-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game - Jon BirgerMake Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge - Jon BirgerBoys Adrift - Leonard Sax Should Boys Start Kindergarten One Year Later Than Girls? - Leonard SaxSummer Birth Date Children: Kindergarten Entrance Age and Academic Achievement - Crosser, S. L. (1991). The Journal of Educational ResearchSchool-Entry Policies and Skill Accumulation Across Directly and Indirectly Affected Individuals - Kelly Bedard and Elizabeth Dhuey, (2012). Journal of Human ResourcesThe Benefits of Delayed Primary School Enrollment | Journal of Human Resources - Patrick J. McEwan and Joseph S. Shapiro, (2008). Journal of Human ResourcesStarting Strong IV Early Childhood Education and Care Data Country Note: FinlandNew Data Show How the Pandemic Affected Learning Across Whole Communities | Harvard Graduate School of EducationThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links. Time Codes00:00:00 — Introduction: Manisha introduces Jon Birger and his work00:01:02 — Jon Birger's journey from economics to dating dynamics and its surprising connection to education00:03:05 — Discussing the education gap00:014:30 — Birger's insights on the challenges of first-time parenting and setting realistic expectations00:17:30 — Debunking myths around early education: Is starting earlier really better?00:25:21 — The impact of COVID-19 on children's education and overcoming learning gaps00:29:00 — The evolving role of music and arts in education00:32:06 — The future of education: adapting to changes and embracing new methodologies00:35:40 — Birger's current interests and studies outside of education and dating dynamics00:38:00 — Closing thoughts and reflections on the conversation This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.
Business journalist and author of Date-onomics, Jon Birger, applies his research and techniques. Hosted by Anna Krausz
Is taking a daily multivitamin a good idea? It seems to make a lot of sense – like an insurance policy. This episode begins with a discussion about what the science says about taking a multivitamin and what it does or doesn't do for you. https://www.fredhutch.org/en/news/releases/2009/02/multivitamins.html Dating is hard. So you might think dating apps would make it easier. After all, you can meet an endless number of people you would likely never meet otherwise. And therein lies the problem. Maybe the old fashioned way of dating is better. Or perhaps there is an even better way. Listen to my discussion with Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer and author of the book Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (https://amzn.to/3ApiNKe). Seems like people have been talking about and proposing a 4-day work week for a long time. Still, it is not the norm in most places. That may change soon, according to Joe Sanok. Joe has researched the origins of the 5-day work week and explains why a shorter week can actually be good for business and employees. Joe joins me to explain why circumstances today might be perfect to usher in the 4-day work week. Joe Sanok is author of the book Thursday Is The New Friday (https://amzn.to/3oGQBjL). Flipping a coin may seem like a rather ridiculous way to make a decision. But maybe not. Listen as I explain why flipping a coin can actually be a very good way to choose what to do when you can't decide and the stakes aren't too high https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748703694204575518200704692936 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! With HelloFresh, you get farm-fresh, pre-portioned ingredients and seasonal recipes delivered right to your doorstep. Go to https://HelloFresh.com/50something and use code 50something for 50% off plus free shipping! Shopify gives you everything you need to take control and take your business to the next level. Sign up for a $1 per month trial period at https://shopify.com/sysk today! BetterHelp is truly the best way to make your brain your friend. Give it a try. Visit https://BetterHelp.com/Something today to get 10% off your first month! Bring smiles to all when shopping online with Dell Technologies' Gift Guide. Whether it's for the artist, entrepreneur, student, streamer or gamer, you will find the perfect gift for everyone on your list! https://Dell.com/GiftGuide Let's find “us” again by putting our phones down for five. Five days, five hours, even five minutes. Join U.S. Cellular in the Phones Down For Five challenge! Find out more at https://USCellular.com/findus Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Teacher: Kelly Haer 60:40. Why are there so often more women than men on college campuses and in your young adult ministry? How does this "man deficit" impact both men and women? What does faithful living look like amidst the current economics of dating? Demographics, statistics, game theory, and ambiguous loss will be used to make sense of--and provide a guide to navigate--the dating climate at school and life after college! *Date-Onomics coined by Jon Birger
Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer, a contributor to Fortune, dating expert, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. Named to AlwaysOn Network's list of “Power Players in Technology Business Media,” Jon is a former senior writer at both Fortune and Money. He is also the author of the book which we'll discuss today, Make Your Move: The Science of Dating and Why are Women in Charge.---0:25 The Dangerous Trends of the Dating World.2:15 The Foundation of Strong Relationships.5:09 Organic vs. Artificial Relationships.7:30 Divorce Rates & Dating Apps.10:00 Can Workplace Relationships Flourish in the MeToo Era?16:00 Relationship Longevity and Dating Who You Know.17:13 Can We Use Dating Apps in a Better Way?21:00 Closing Comments.
Are gender-based polarities limiting you? 'The Rules' told you that men should make the first move, yet economist Jon Birger's new book encourages women to make the first move. Christina talks with renowned psychotherapist Ken Page, LCSW of Deeper Dating about how to reframe polarities in dating and relationships. Plus how to assess compatibility with one simple question, "Does my soul feel safe with this person?" Ken is a leading voice of hope and wisdom for everyone seeking to find and cultivate healthy, lasting love. He is the host of The Deeper Dating Podcast. He is also the author of the bestselling book Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy and the creator of the Deeper Dating Intensive. Ken has been featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Cosmopolitan, The Advocate, and more. Ken is passionate about helping people understand the search for love as one of the greatest spiritual adventures in life, and he celebrates the inclusion of the LGBTQ+ community into the banquet of wiser relationship advice. Ken and Christina will be facilitating 'The Dating Dojo' at the 8th Annual Biohacking Conference on September 15-17, 2022 in Beverly Hills, CA. Go to wedeepen.com to learn more and sign up with a special WeDeepen Member-Only exclusive promo code. We'd love to meet you there!
Meredith chats with business writer and journalist Jon Birger about why he thinks we should get off the apps and seek connection in other ways. Birger is the author of the books Date-Onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge. Email us at loveletters@boston.com.
Jon Birger is a journalist and is the author of "Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game." During our conversation, Jon talks about the demographic data regarding college-educated men and women in America, how sex ratio differences in colleges and cities influence dating and mating behavior, the effect of #MeToo on modern romance, dating apps, assortative mating, evolution's effect on human mate preferences, and how the significant sex ratio difference in China seems to have led to an increase in criminality.There are millions more young, college-educated women than men in the United States. The educational and career success of women in America is a triumph of our society. Yet, inevitably, many such women will have difficulty finding a partner at their achievement level. This is a largely unforeseen modern phenomena, and one that I think should be taken seriously.Jon and I have some clear disagreements on subjects we discuss - including a disagreement about the precariousness of the situation and its likely outcome. Regardless, his book is crucial in understanding the reality of the situation. And in his new book, "Make Your Move," he makes suggestions that single people, especially women, may want to know about, and to keep in mind.------------Support this podcast via VenmoSupport this podcast via PayPalSupport this podcast on Patreon------------Show notesLeave a rating on SpotifyLeave a rating on Apple PodcastsFollow "Keep Talking" on social media and access all episodes------------(00:00) Introduction(02:24) Developing an interest in modern dating(04:57) College-educated sex ratios in America and its effect on dating(08:21) The effect of China's massive sex ratio imbalance(14:23) Sex ratio-driven increase in criminality in China(17:39) What is meant by assortative mating?(21:48) The evolution of dating culture in recent American history(25:49) The effect of the #MeToo movement on dating(31:55) Hypergamy and modern dating(42:33) Testosterone levels and cultural dating tendencies(44:17) The fluctuation of testosterone levels in men and women(47:12) The dating difficulties of accomplished, educated women(49:59) Ideas for women and men to navigate modern dating(56:01) Female assertiveness in modern dating(59:13) Additional dating strategies for college graduates(01:03:18) Modern-day workplace dating(01:08:09) The state of men today(01:18:34) Opening avenues for "mixed collar" dating(01:21:53) The future of dating
Jon Birger joins me on this week's episode to discuss shooting your shot - and I'm not talking about March Madness. We discuss his latest book, Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating, to break down what women stand to gain from asking men out. We analyze the sexist "science" that informs traditional dating gender roles, and the evolution into modern philosophies of "If he wanted to, he would." Jon also critiques my own feeble attempts at shooting my shot in years prior, and explains how meeting on Hinge impacts the likelihood of long term success with my current boyfriend. To order Make Your Move or invite Jon to your book club : jonbirger.com For more of Jon's musings on modern dating dynamics : @jon_birger1 To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com For any questions, business inquiries, or love letters : interstatesandheartbreak@gmail.com For a glimpse into my life when I'm not talking about dating : @lesliegnope
Join us on the Rantzerker as we continue to respond to a podcast by Chris Williamson. He interviews magazine writer, Fortune contributor & "dating expert" Jon Birger. They discuss several topics but we are interested in Birger's take on the dating market.
Join us on the Rantzerker with Alison, Brian and Karen as we respond to a podcast by Chris Williamson where he interviews magazine writer, Fortune contributor and "dating expert" Jon Birger. They discuss several topics but we are interested in Birger's take on the dating market.
Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer, a contributor to Fortune, a dating expert and an author. Typically men are the sexual protagonists. They're the ones who make the first move, they're the ones who come up with cheesy chat-up lines and deal with approach anxiety and rejection. But in a world where women are struggling to find men they're attracted to, what happens if this role is reversed and women start to be more proactive? Expect to learn why the changing sex ratios on university campuses is creating a problem for men and women's dating prospects, how an experiment on dating approach-strategies earned a Nobel Prize, why it is always statistically in your advantage to make the first move, whether we can fix the problem of raising up men's outcomes in life and much more... Sponsors: Join the Modern Wisdom Community to connect with me & other listeners - https://modernwisdom.locals.com/ Get 10% discount on everything from BioOptimizers at https://magbreakthrough.com/modernwisdom (use code MW10) Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 4.0 at https://www.manscaped.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% discount on the highest quality CBD Products from Pure Sport at https://bit.ly/cbdwisdom (use code: MW20) Extra Stuff: Buy Make Your Move - https://amzn.to/3CO9Jl2 Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/
Welcome to the second season of Let's Talk About. In our first series of the season we're talking about DATING. First up is our conversation with Jon Birger. Jon is an award-winning magazine writer, dating expert, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating.With February being the month of love, STYLE Canada is here to help you navigate your love life by bringing in dating experts like Jon into the show. Elise sat down with Jon to talk about his first book, Date-onomics, which is a pop-science book that explains why dating is harder for women than men. They delve into the topics of today's dating culture and discuss some possible solutions to this problem. Through research and observation, Jon explains several fact-supported pieces of advice for women to win at romance. Grab a copy of Jon's brand new book, Make Your Move. This episode is brought to you by Smithery Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week Erica and Molly return to “Make Your Move” and “Date-onomics, but this time sit down with author Jon Birger to chat about his work. Jon explains the lopsided dating pool that he discovered in his book “Date-onomics” and the challenges it presents for singles today. The three also discuss whether gender matters when making the first move in relationships, dating apps, how to make bold moves to find your life partner, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Jon Birger: instagram.com/jon_birger1 Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Jon Birger, author of Make Your Move. We discuss the rise of hook up culture, declining marriage rates, why Jon is anti dating online, if men are afraid to approach women, his theory that men don't need the chase, why you should date your coworker, and maybe even propose to your male SO! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling safe in a relationship vs. feeling bored, what makes a bache- lorette fun, how Taylor Swift's red re-release affected me, how Austin was, craving intimacy while you're single, and more! Curology.com/acme for your free 30 day trial Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Mejuri.com/acme for 10% off your first order Sakara.com/acme code ACME20 for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media.
This week I feel incredibly privileged to share my conversation with bestselling author and financial editor of NBC's Today Show, Jon Birger! Anyone who knows me personally can tell you that I am an avid listener of dating podcasts such as We Met At Acme. However, I have always found the guidance to "ignore the guy in order to get the guy" to be quite perplexing and, from my own experience, fruitless. So when I heard about Jon's recent book Make Your Move, I was so excited to hear a new perspective on dating in the 21st Century. After devouring his novel in less than two days, I found solace in the fact that heterosexual single women like myself were not doomed to live a life alone nor subject to waiting around for a partner. I thus reached out to see if Jon would speak on Solace and the City to inspire other single listeners on how they can take the reigns when navigating the dating world. I am SO excited to share our conversation and encourage you all to check out Jon's book(s) by visiting jonbirger.com!! Here's a little bit more about Jon's new book, Make Your Move, for anyone interested in buying a copy: "Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them?" --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/zoescurletis/support
On today's episode, we are joined with Jon Birger. He is an author of 2 books: Date-onomics and MAKE YOUR MOVE. He was a senior editor at Fortune and Money and has been featured on TIME, New York Post, New York Magazine, and The Washington Post. He is THE dating expert. We talk about the lopsided dating ratios, dating apps, and all things dating!
This week we dive into a listener recommended book, "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge" by Jon Birger. We discuss the chapter 'The Make Your Move Offline Dating Challenge' and tips for meeting new prospects while on a dating apps cleanse. Erica and Molly talk about how to be direct in shooting your shot, making - and ranking- lists of offline dating prospects, when rejection is a good thing, and the power of vulnerability. They also debate an interesting 'Would You Rather...' scenario at the start of the episode. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sunday! **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS** Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support
Taking a daily multivitamin seems like it might be good insurance - but is it? This episode begins with a discussion about what taking a multivitamin does or does not do for you or your kids. https://www.fredhutch.org/en/news/releases/2009/02/multivitamins.html With online dating and all the dating apps, it would seem that dating should be a lot easier. After all, you can meet an endless number of people you would never meet otherwise. Is online dating a great way to meet people? Or is the old-fashioned way still the best way? Or maybe there is an even better way. Listen as I speak with Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer and author of the book Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (https://amzn.to/3ApiNKe). He has some very important information, research and advice that may change the way you meet people from now on. People have been talking about and proposing a 4-day work week for a long time. But it hasn't really caught on in most places. This may be about to change according to Joe Sanok. Joe has researched the origins of our 40 hour, 5-day work week and explains why a shorter week can really be good for business and employees. Joe joins me to explain why circumstances today might be perfect to usher in the 4-day work week and how you will benefit from it. Joe Sanok is author of the book Thursday Is The New Friday (https://amzn.to/3oGQBjL). Flipping a coin may seem like an arbitrary and rather ridiculous way to make a decision. But maybe not. Listen as I explain why flipping a coin can actually be a very good way to choose what to do when you can't decide. https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052748703694204575518200704692936 PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! We really like The Jordan Harbinger Show! Check out https://jordanharbinger.com/start OR search for it on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts. You can grow thicker, healthier hair AND get $15 off at https://nutrafol.com Promo code: SOMETHING Discover matches all the cash back you earn on your credit card at the end of your first year automatically and is accepted at 99% of places in the U.S. that take credit cards! Learn more at https://discover.com/yes Listen to Build For Tomorrow with Jason Feifer, our favorite new podcast, right here! https://apple.co/3rPM8La or visit https://www.jasonfeifer.com/build-for-tomorrow/ JUSTWORKS makes it easier for you to start, run and grow a business. Find out how by going to https://justworks.com Omaha Steaks is the best! Get awesome pricing at https://OmahaSteaks.com/BMT T-Mobile for Business the leader in 5G, #1 in customer satisfaction, and a partner who includes benefits like 5G in every plan. Visit https://T-Mobile.com/business Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In 2019, women hit a milestone in gender parity when they became the majority of the college-educated workforce. While it may be easy to see how this achievement will impact the economy, earnings, and job opportunities, it is probably a little bit harder to predict how it will shape, of all things, the dating market. Jon Birger, a business journalist and former senior writer at Fortune, has authored two books on the connection between ratios and relationships. Birger acknowledges that not everyone has a desire to engage in a heterosexual relationship or get married. But of those who do, college-educated women may have a particularly hard time finding a partner, he notes. Birger says this is because there are many fewer men enrolled in college - about 60% of college freshmen are now women. Men also drop out of college at higher rates, resulting in a dating market with a shortage of college-educated men. When this gender asymmetry is extended into broader society, Birger explains it can have significant consequences for people's happiness, fertility rates, and the economy. And Andrew Cherlin, a professor of public policy at Johns Hopkins University, talks with us about his - related - new research on changing marriage rates for college and non-college educated Americans.
This week on the podcast we have the privilege of sitting down with "Make Your Move" author Jon Birger. Jon is an award-winning magazine writer, a contributor to Fortune, and a dating expert. We discuss Jon's philosophy that in today's lopsided dating field, women are the ones in charge. Jon explains how his interest in the data science of the dating world and his observations of the women in his own life unexpectedly led him into the world of dating advice. We question him on ways women can make the first move, if it's okay to date a coworker, dating apps, and the worst dating advice he believes is in our society today. To find his books, blog, or to connect with Jon visit jonbirger.com (Twitter @jonbirger1 Instagram @jon_birger1 Facebook @MakeYourMoveBook). Per usual, we include a short commentary on this week's episode of The Bachelorette drama & our own typical girl gab to start the episode. Interview with Jon starts at 33:03 to skip ahead. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
In this episode of Dating in the Bae, Becca kicks it off with the week’s question, “Can someone ghost you before even meeting you?” Plus, she shares a substantive conversation with dating author Jon Birger. Jon tells us his story as a writer and how one core question pushed him from being an oil and gas journalist to diving into the love and dating world: Why do fabulous women in their late twenties, thirties, and forties have such a tough time in today’s modern dating world? Jon’s first book Date-onomics lays out the flat truth: there are way more women than men in the dating market. Fear not, fellow daters! Not everything is lost! Jon also talks about his second book Make Your Move, in which he explains the “suiter’s advantage.” Did you know that 70% of flirting goes undetected by the other person?! That’s why we are embracing our boldness and going after who and what you want! Join this conversation and find out why waiting around for things to happen is ancient thinking; the time to act is now! Jump straight into: 00:24 - Out with the old, in with the new! Becca’s remodeling metamorphosis and this week’s question: At what point do you consider yourself ghosted by someone before a date? 04:21 - Jon Birger’s journey as a writer and his core research question for Date-onomics 08:44 - Dating + Statistics 11:18 - Single men vs. single women: Who’s more ready to settle down? 12:56 - Knowing the data is not enough! Suitor’s advantage and why direct people beat the odds. 18:44 - Embrace vulnerability and awkwardness! That’s how things get real. 21:19 - Is online dating a doubter’s game? Jon’s take on dating apps and why you should start by asking out real-life people you already know and like. 27:32 - Dating apps are a business; they don’t necessarily care about your happy ever after! 30:09 - The Pam & Jim story: office romance. 34:19 - The public reaction to Jon’s book. Episode resources https://jonbirger.com/ (Jon Birger) https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Jon-Birger/dp/076118208X/ref=sr_1_2?__mk_es_US=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&dchild=1&keywords=jon+birger&qid=1621966313&s=books&sr=1-2 (Date-onomics) by Jon Birger https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Jon-Birger/dp/1948836904/ref=sr_1_1?__mk_es_US=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&dchild=1&keywords=jon+birger&qid=1621967246&s=books&sr=1-1 (Make Your Move) by Jon Birger Follow us on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/datinginthebae/ (@datinginthebae)). Don’t forget to subscribe, rate and share with all of your fellow baes.
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The emotional perils of dating - in particular online dating - frequently rank near the top of psychosocial stressors that are discussed in psychotherapy. Award-winning magazine writer, Fortune contributor, and author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game, Jon Birger, joins host Dr. Pete Kelly, C.Psych for a discussion of his new book Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge. In this discussion they cover: Jon's journey from writing about the stock & oil market to the dating market including a brief summary of some of the major conclusions of his previous book on this topic, Date-onomicsthe macro-scale dynamics that are facing men and women dating at the moment (i.e., disproportionately more college educated women etc.)the core self-defeating perceptions that men & women have been labouring under with respect to datingthe “suitor’s advantage” and why it is suggested that being assertive in picking a partner (rather than waiting to be picked) is the best strategyan in-depth description of common complaints around online datinga discussion of the data around the effectiveness of online dating platforms the opportunities and risks of dating at the office, including reflections on the cultural evolution of dating within the workplacesome of the ways in which progressive companies have struck a balance between the reality of large groups of humans of all sexual orientations working together but also respecting that for many, they simply want the workplace to be a workplace and not have to navigate being solicited for datingJon's thoughts on prioritizing a career vs a relationship a guide for critical thinking around common dating stereotypes (e.g., men should generally date younger women, women should not date men less educated than them, women shouldn’t propose to men)application of the principles discussed to LGBTQ singles. Host note: the book that I was struggling to reference at about the 13 minute mark was The Game by Neil StraussJon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer, Fortune contributor, and author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at Fortune and Money, Jon was named to AlwaysOn Network’s list of “Power Players in Technology Business Media”. His work has also appeared in Barron’s, Bloomberg Businessweek, New York Magazine, Time, the Daily Mail, the New York Post and the Washington Post. Jon is a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made guest appearances on ABC’s Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News – discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to the oil market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, New York.https://jonbirger.com/
We're discussing dating, finding love and the economics of today's modern romances with Jon Birger, author of Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge. Farnoosh and Jon discuss the perils of dating apps, the best places to find love today and why we ought to redefine the idea of an "equal" partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/science-technology-and-society
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/gender-studies
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website.
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/sociology
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (Benbella, 2021), Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosen The "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win Jon Birger is an award-winning writer, a contributor to Fortune, and the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon's work has also appeared in Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and Washington Post. He was included on AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has been a guest on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News-discussing a wide range of topics from the dating market to the stock market to oil market. Elizabeth Cronin, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness meditation teacher with offices in Brookline and Norwood, MA. You can follow her on Instagram or visit her website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology
Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books—Date-onomics and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge. A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon is also a familiar face and voice on television, radio, and podcasts, with appearances on ABC’s Good Morning America, BBC World Service, Girls Gotta Eat, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News — discussing topics ranging from dating to investing. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: Why the myth of biologically-determined gender roles is long overdue for debunking The difference between women making the first move and being overly aggressive in dating Why online dating has proven so disappointing for so many Why you should delete dating apps if long-lasting love is your goal The best places to find love How the post-#MeToo era altered the dating landscape Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast here. If you’re feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find love this year, sign up for a complimentary 1/2 hour breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/breakthrough Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate Get a copy of Sandy’s book, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/sandy-weiner9/message
¡SORPRESA! Les tenemos un episodio bonus para arrancar el festejo de los 6 meses del podcast. Una plática increíble con el mismísimo Jon Birger, autor americano, un galardonado escritor de revistas, colaborador de Fortune, experto en citas y autor de Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. Nombrado en la lista de AlwaysOn Network de "jugadores poderosos en los medios empresariales tecnológicos"; Jon es un ex escritor senior de Fortune y Money. Su trabajo también ha aparecido en Barron's, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, The New York Post, Time y The Washington Post. Con apariciones en televisión, radio, conferencias e invitado en Good Morning America de ABC, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio y Fox News. Platicamos sobre su nuevo libro “Make your move”, que invita a las mujeres a tomar control de tu vida amorosa, por qué las apps de citas no son la mejor opción para ti, así como la importancia de cómo conociste a la persona con la que estás saliendo. También platicamos por qué el método de fingir desinterés para conquistar a alguien no funciona, nos recomienda la mejor manera de conocer a alguien para una relación duradera y para cerrar nos invita y da consejos de cómo podemos dar el primer paso y tomar control de nuestra vida amorosa. No olviden seguir a Jon en @jon_birger1, sus libros los encuentran en Amazon en formato digital y más info. en su página web: jonbirger.com Para más contenido, síguenos en: IG @decitaencitapodcast TikTok @decitaencitapodcast Twitter @decitaencitapod FB De Cita en Cita Super Pao @superpao55 Pao Cruz @pawcruz
Nervous Habits host Ricky Rosen is joined by Best-Selling Author and Dating Expert Jon Birger to explore issues including… —Why you should think of dating apps more like visiting the eBay marketplace than actually looking for a life partner… —Why offline relationships are shown to be three or four times longer lasting than online relationships… —How the disproportionately high number of female, relative to male, college graduates affects the dating culture… —Why the workplace is the best place to meet someone, and what is responsible for the decline in workplace relationships over the last decade, and finally… —The suitor’s advantage - why whichever party makes the first move is most likely to achieve the best outcome.
We've had our fair share of first dates in NYC--some good, some kind of terrible. We talk to journalist Jon Birger about why women like us might need to ditch the online dating apps. Then we talk to a priest about *his* dating life.This episode addresses the natural tension between a culture that encourages experimentation and adventurousness, with an upbringing of ingrained reticence and 'purity'.GUESTS:Jon Birger, author of Make Your Move, The New Science of Dating and why Women Are In ChargeThe Reverend Ben DeHart, Associate Pastor of The Parish Of Calvary-St.George'sSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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The dating world is changing, and that's due in part to shifting gender roles in our society. If you're a woman who's a high-achiever and knows how to accomplish professional goals, you've probably felt disappointed in the pool of men out there before. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, you'll hear a conversation that will broaden your horizons about who could be the right match for you. Kimmy interviews Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer, accidental dating guru, journalist and author of Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge. EPISODE 187 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World Jon dives into the research that's gone into his books. Over the past several decades as women have graduated college higher rates than men, there's been an increase in the number of college-educated women relative to college-educated men. Kimmy and Jon talk about the seismic shift this trend has created and dig into how all people, regardless of gender can reimagine their criteria in a partner to find the right person for them. This conversation shines a light on how interacting on dating apps can be transactional and addictive in nature. While the research shows that it can be tougher to find your soulmate online, if you diversify your dating portfolio and flex your social muscles by engaging in all the ways available to you, you'll increase your chance of success. Jon breaks down the research on the success rates of long-term relationships based on where you meet, whether that's online, in college, or at your place of worship. Kimmy and Jon talk through how you can be more open to different experiences and different people. If you've been single for a long time, you have to look at what you can do differently to get a different result. It's all about keeping an open mind and tossing out the overly-detailed checklists! To create your dating plan and find out how to diversify your dating portfolio, set up a time to talk with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30-minutes, you may gain new insight as to a dating plan that is right for you. And, if you want to join a close-knit community of women all working on themselves and their love lives, join Kimmy's private Facebook Group: The Love Makeover Insiders. https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Interview With Jon Birger: Powerful Women Dating In A Modern World. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ************************************************ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ************************************************ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in. ************************************************ This Podcast is available on: Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************ Would you like to connect with Kimmy? Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers
This week's chapter we sit down with Jon Birger, author of 'Date-onomics' and his newest book, 'Make Your Move' to discuss why dating has become a lopsided numbers game, and why dating has become harder for educated women than educated men. Have we thought about how the 'Me Too' movement has influenced today's dating culture, and how we need to adjust our dating techniques accordingly? Listen to this episode to learn how you too can make your move. To read Jon Birger's second book 'Make Your Move', follow the link below to grab your copy jematchmaking.com/books
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Dating is sooo different now, are we right? Coming off the heels of the #metoo era and currently slapped in the middle of a global pandemic (that makes seeing and coming in contact with people impossible), meeting “the one” has legit NEVER been more complicated than it is now. We have author and former guest Jon Birger back again to discuss his latest book Make Your Move, why hetero women who make the first move with men have an advantage (especially in the #metoo era), why online dating has proved so disappointing and sometimes dangerous for many women, especially during COVID times and how to make your move offline! Make A Move with Jon: @jon_birger1 Buy the Book - https://www.amazon.com/Make-Your-Move-Science-Dating/dp/1948836904/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= Keep it Complicated with Jen and NotJen: Host Socials - @jenifergolden, @laurenleonelli, @complicatedshow Shop our store - https://www.amazon.com/shop/complicatedshow Support - https://www.patreon.com/itscomplicated --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/itscomplicatedpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/itscomplicatedpod/support
Whether you're single or not, you'll get some unique insights on how we meet the special people in our lives. Join me on this Valentine's Day with Jon Birger, an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books — Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015) and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network’s list of “Power Players in Technology Business Media.” He's also a familiar face and voice on television, radio, and podcasts, with appearances on ABC’s Good Morning America, BBC World Service, Girls Gotta Eat, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News — discussing topics ranging from dating to investing. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. Find his book HERE --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/rxchillpill/message
Social distancing; quarantining; avoiding bars and restaurants. The very public health guidance that saves lives and slows the spread of COVID-19 would seem to make dating during a pandemic impossible. But people have flocked to online dating apps: Tinder set a record for daily swipes, counting 3 billion on March 29, 2020. Between March and May of last year, OkCupid saw a 700% increase in dates. Brainstorm hosts Michal Lev-Ram and Brian O'Keefe look at the pandemic-fueled boom in online dating. We hear from Catherine Connelly, a co-founder of The Meet Group, which owns and operates popular dating apps MeetMe, Skout, Tagged, LOVOO and GROWLr. She explains how video dating has driven big revenue at the company over the past year. Then we hear from ex-Fortune-writer Jon Birger who's written a new book, “Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge.” He tells us why women seeking men might find that a little boldness goes a long way right now. Also in the episode: Alison Stevenson, a Los Angeles-based writer and comedian, who tells us why she's giving up on dating apps (at least for now).
When we think of dating, we think of the feelings. The emotions. All of the feels. But did you know there is SCIENCE behind how we act? Did you know we can LEARN from all of this research to help us find the love of our life? Maria’s guest is here to tell us all about it… author Jon Birger! Jon Birger is an award winning magazine writer and author of two dating books: “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game” which was published in 2015 and his new book, “Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge.” In his new book, Jon offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice. Things talked about in the episode include… Why it’s important to open up your criteria when it comes to dating. You’d be surprised what you could find! Men’s biggest turns on and what they’re really looking for. Maria and Jon don’t see eye to eye on dating apps. Where to meet people when you don't want to online date - especially during a global pandemic. Is it okay to date someone from work? Purchase Make Your Move on Amazon Follow Jon on Twitter Follow Jon on Instagram Visit Jon’s website To learn how Maria can help you find love in 2021, go to: https://linktr.ee/agapematch Follow Maria on Instagram Follow Maria on TikTok Have a question for Maria? Visit http://askamatchmaker.com Enroll in Agape Match’s Group Coaching Intensive: https://agapematch.com/events To learn more about how Maria and how her team can help you find love, visit agapematch.com
Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics and Make Your Move, joins Damona to talk about the science of why women are in charge of the dating scene today. Instead of the headlines, Damona brings back On Screen Romance with conversation with Joy C. Mitchell, writer on the hit Netflix series Bridgerton. Dear Damona questions: are common interests really important in a relationship and why your hopeless romanticism might be killing your relationships. Get Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women are in Charge on Amazon! https://amzn.to/3cylqkQ Find more from Joy on instagram @joyineurope Dates & Mates is sponsored by TextNow. The app solves many major challenges D's clients face in dating today: You can keep your main number private, You can separate your personal and dating contacts, Plus, It’s easy to use and FREE. We are proud to collaborate with an app that empowers modern daters to feel safe and secure. If you want more information, check out Damona's video on when & how to give out your number: textnow.com/goyn OkCupid expects 25 million new matches to be made this January - a big increase from last year. Are you missing out? Download OkCupid today! Get Better Help: real therapy, convenient and affordable. Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. BetterHelp.com/datesandmates Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Modern romance is broken. It's time to flip the script. Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (BenBella Books, 2021) Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosenThe "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win. Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books -- Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021) and Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." He's also a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made appearances on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News -- discussing topics ranging from the dating market to the stock market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. To contact Jon about media interviews, speaking opportunities, or consulting work, please visit his author website, www.jonbirger.com. Clint Sabom is an award winning writer who hosts a podcast on mental health and psychology called The Sanity Sessions: Exploring Mental Illness And Maladaptations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Modern romance is broken. It's time to flip the script. Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (BenBella Books, 2021) Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosenThe "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win. Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books -- Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021) and Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." He's also a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made appearances on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News -- discussing topics ranging from the dating market to the stock market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. To contact Jon about media interviews, speaking opportunities, or consulting work, please visit his author website, www.jonbirger.com. Clint Sabom is an award winning writer who hosts a podcast on mental health and psychology called The Sanity Sessions: Exploring Mental Illness And Maladaptations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology
Modern romance is broken. It's time to flip the script. Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (BenBella Books, 2021) Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosenThe "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win. Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books -- Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021) and Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." He's also a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made appearances on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News -- discussing topics ranging from the dating market to the stock market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. To contact Jon about media interviews, speaking opportunities, or consulting work, please visit his author website, www.jonbirger.com. Clint Sabom is an award winning writer who hosts a podcast on mental health and psychology called The Sanity Sessions: Exploring Mental Illness And Maladaptations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm
Modern romance is broken. It's time to flip the script. Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (BenBella Books, 2021) Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosenThe "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win. Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books -- Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021) and Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." He's also a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made appearances on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News -- discussing topics ranging from the dating market to the stock market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. To contact Jon about media interviews, speaking opportunities, or consulting work, please visit his author website, www.jonbirger.com. Clint Sabom is an award winning writer who hosts a podcast on mental health and psychology called The Sanity Sessions: Exploring Mental Illness And Maladaptations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm
Modern romance is broken. It's time to flip the script. Apps have transformed dating from a mysterious adventure into a daily chore. Young, single, college-educated women are sick and tired of competing for a shrinking supply of guys. And marriage-material men, long expected to take the lead when it comes to asking women out, are suddenly balking at making the first move, fearing they'll come across as creepy or inappropriate. Society is changing, which means it's time for dating to evolve. Millennial and Gen Z women are more than capable of seeking out what—and who—they want. They're standouts in the classroom and champions on the playing fields. They're leaders in the workplace and trailblazers in city halls, state houses, and Congress. So why would we tell a generation of badass women that they're not allowed to be bold when it comes to finding love? Why should they have to sit back and wait (and wait and wait) for men to find them? In Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (BenBella Books, 2021) Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics, offers women bold new strategies for finding the one. Backed by research showing that women can win at romance by making the first move with the men of their choice, Birger explains why: It's better to choose than to be chosenThe "play hard to get" method is not only outdated but grounded in bad science The first move does not have to be a big move It's time to log off of dating apps and date men you actually know The workplace can be a terrific place to meet a long-term romantic partner . . . and more! Make Your Move is an honest, solution-based guide to finding love that lasts. If you're tired of playing by old rules, look no further: Make your move and win. Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books -- Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge (2021) and Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (2015). A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon has been named to AlwaysOn Network's list of "Power Players in Technology Business Media." He's also a familiar face and voice on television and radio, having made appearances on ABC's Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News -- discussing topics ranging from the dating market to the stock market. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. To contact Jon about media interviews, speaking opportunities, or consulting work, please visit his author website, www.jonbirger.com. Clint Sabom is an award winning writer who hosts a podcast on mental health and psychology called The Sanity Sessions: Exploring Mental Illness And Maladaptations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm
Are we ready to flip the script on the dating landscape? Best-selling author Jon Birger drops by to talk about his new book "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge", and to break down what's new in dating, where the possibilities exist right now, why women have to rethink their approach, what men need to learn about love, the things we've always done wrong, the importance of learning from mistakes, and much, much more!
Are we ready to flip the script on the dating landscape? Best-selling author Jon Birger drops by to talk about his new book "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are In Charge", and to break down what's new in dating, where the possibilities exist right now, why women have to rethink their approach, what men need to learn about love, the things we've always done wrong, the importance of learning from mistakes, and much, much more!
There's a reason why there are so many incredible, successful, beautiful women who struggle to find a decent partner, while (*cough* mediocre) men seem to have no problem on the dating scene, and we're deep diving into the data behind this frustrating phenomenon with Jon Birger, author of Date-Onomics and the upcoming book Make Your Move. We discuss how geography plays a part (yes, there are cities/towns where the odds are more in one gender's favor), and how women can widen their dating pool. And we're also chatting about making the first move, how and why to do it, the bad advice women have been given for years, and Jon offers his strategy for finding a compatible partner (spoiler alert: it involves getting off the apps). We also review Bridgerton, debate some sexual language Ashley received, and Rayna reveals her new bush goal. Enjoy! Check out more on Jon at his website, and pre-order his upcoming book Make Your Move. Follow him on Twitter @JonBirger1. Follow us on Instagram @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Check our website for show dates and merchandise. Thank you to our partners this week: Calm: Get 40% off a premium subscription at calm.com/gge. Earnest: Get a $100 bonus at earnest.com/gge. Terms and conditions apply. Visit earnest.com/licenses. HelloFresh: Go to Hellofresh.com/10gge and use code 10GGE for 10 free meals + free shipping. Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy comforter, visit Buffy.co and enter code GGE.
Este episodio podría titularse "Dime qué estudias y te diré qué posibilidades tienes de encontrar el amor",ó "Dime qué buscas en el amor y te diré dónde estudiar" En él analizamos nuestras posibilidades de ligar en España desde el punto de vista de Jon Birger, autor del libro “Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game”. Según él, el paisaje amoroso-sexual también está regido por las leyes económicas de la oferta y la demanda. Escúchalo en #spotify, #ivoox, #castbox, #applepodcast o en la plataforma de escucha que elijas. #datonomics #dating #amorenlaeradigital #mejorqueelsexopodcast #podcastenespañol #podcasting #ivooxpodcast #entusoidos #sexoseguro #aperturasexual #ligarenespaña #ligarenlauniversidad #revolucionsexual #seducción #frikisdeligar #positivismosexual #mercadodelamor #paisajesexual #nuevaperspectiva #feminismo #machismo #desigualdaddegénero #economíadelamor
Jon Birger is the author of "DATE-ONOMICS: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game." A former senior writer at both Fortune and Money, Jon has also written for Barron’s, Bloomberg BusinessWeek, New York Magazine, Time, and The Washington Post. He was named to AlwaysOn Network’s list of “Power Players in Technology Business Media.” A familiar face and voice on television and radio, Jon has appeared on ABC’s Good Morning America, BBC World Service, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y. Join us to learn how to succeed at dating in today's challenging landscape
Why are there so many single women over 30? Renay is joined by author Jon Birger, who in his book Date-Onomics, gets down the the nitty gritty numbers of the modern dating world. Buy Date-onomicsEffects of Psychological Distance and Relative Intelligence on Men’s Attraction to WomenFollow @JonBirger1Follow the show @GetADogPod and @RenayRichTranscripts and Audio available at getadogpod.comThanks for listening.
Interview Transcript Available Below Jon Birger is a magazine writer and contributor to Fortune Magazine. Jon is also the author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. In this book he explains the reason behind the lop-sided dating demographics and the decline in marriage rates with a focus in one chapter on the Jewish and Latter-day Saint religions. A big shout out to Geoff Openshaw from This Week in Mormons that helped conduct the interview. Go listen and subscribe to his podcast! Episode Summary: 5:56 Date-onomics looks at the demographics of why dating may be more challenging for women vs. men. 7:12 For the last fifteen years there have been four women graduating college for every three men. 7:48 There is a college gender gap that is responsible for the decline in marriages for educated women. 8:22 What is the scarcity rule and how is that effecting dating influences? 9:32 In Date-onomics Jon studied the secular world and how they can be less susceptible to outside cultural influences. 12:55 The gender ratio in the Latter-day Saint faith. 14:00 Is there a marriage crisis within the Latter-day Saint and Orthodox Jewish faith? 15:36 For the Latter-day Saints living in Utah, there is a gender gap. There is a 60/40 ratio women to men. 16:00 The gender ratio affects our behavior. 18:04 The ratio can cultivate very picky men. 19:49 Data suggest that in all religions women tend to be more devout then men. 20:31 Approximately 30 to 40 percent of LDS young men go on missions. 21:50 Most men who fall away from organized religion are between their late teen years to their twenties. 23:03 The age change for LDS missions reflected a surge of those choosing to go. 25:00 Why Millennials don’t date? 26:01 Millennial men are not happy couch potatoes. Case in point is Silicon Valley. 27:07 The Bay area in California has more men graduating from college than women. The marriage rates are much higher and divorce rates are very low. 28:52 Millennials are marrying late because of a faith crisis, not a dating crisis. This has become a demographics issue. 30:05 The science in Date-onomics shows how some of these patterns are hard wired within us. This is based on the demographics problem. 31:02 To shift the demographics slant, help encourage young men to stay active in the church. 33:11 The gender gap is not as great outside of Utah. Young men who do not serve missions may feel less ostracized outside Utah. 36:09 Elder Scott, “If you are a young man of appropriate age and are not married, don’t waste time in idle pursuits. Get on with life and focus on getting married. Don’t just coast through this period of life." 38:21 Freshman classes at BYU are 60/40 women to men due to LDS missions. 39:25 If college graduates were willing to date non-college graduates, the gender ratio may not be as bad. 41:46 As men age, they become locked into their ways and more rigid. 42:36 The plastic surgery surge in Utah can be contributed to the lop-sided demographics. Suggested Solutions: 45:47 Do not assume millennials are not marrying because of laziness. 46:45 Make gender ratios a consideration when choosing a college. 49:16 College educated women can expand their dating pool to include non-college educated men. 50:26 Avoid the musical chairs syndrome. Links: Date-onomics Book Jon Birger Website The End of Men: And the Rise of Women, by Hannah Rosin Interview Transcript Kurt Francom: This is a simulcast along with my friend Geoff from the podcast This Week in Mormons. How are you, Geoff? Geoff Openshaw: Hey, what’s up, Kurt? Good to see you, buddy. Kurt Francom: Nice. We decide to tag team this episode because it’s such a fascinating topic and that we’re both going to be interviewing and having a discussion with Jon Birger, who is the author of Date-onomics - How dating became a lopsided numbers game.
Date-onomics author Jon Birger sits down with us to discuss how gender ratios fuel dating inequities. And his book has a whole chapter on Mormons!
Brett McKay founded The Art Of Manliness in 2008 while he was attending law school. It has grown into one of the largest men’s magazines on the web. Brett has also published several books and eBooks. He also hosts the popular podcast, The Art of Manliness. These podcasts cover a wide variety of topics, all centered around helping men. Brett grew up in the LDS Church and served a mission in Tijuana, Mexico. He has served in many capacities in the Church including Sunday School President. He is currently serving as the elders quorum president in his ward. Brett, his wife Kate, and their two children reside in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Episode Summary & Highlights What I learned as Sunday School President (16:31) The importance of good teachers (16:50) Discuss with your bishop the importance of calling the best teachers (18:03) Model what good teaching looks like and encourage good class discussion (18:25) Why more women are attending church vs. men The gender disparity in church and why more women are actively attending vs. men (21:30) How dating behavior changes among men and women. See Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (23:25) Millennial dating is affected by gender ratios (26:05) How men express their spirituality (29:54) Ward Council: The relationships between the people in the ward (33:45) Introverts and extro`verts express their spirituality differently (35:40) Ways the Elders Quorum can serve on Sunday (39:33) Train future leaders during Elders Quorum (41:16) Resources and Sites: The Art of Manliness website The Art of Manliness Facebook page Brett McKay’s Books and eBooks The Art Of Manliness Podcast Why Men Hate Going to Church, by David Murrow Manhood In The Making, by David Gilmore Date-onomics, by Jon Birger
Have you considered dating a plumber? Jon Birger crunched the numbers. Ladies, it’s not you: it’s the ratio! Okay, it could still totally be you, but Birger’s book Date-onomics debunks the 50% divorce rate, tells professional women why New York City is a terrible place to date, and suggests being more open-minded about online dating filters. Shout out to my fellow numbers nerds on this one! PLUS: firefighters, polyamory, Kuwait whores, gender ratios, Patreon, marriage, and mixed-collar dating! SAVE THE DATE: Facebook Fanwhore Hangout on March 29th, 3pm EST! Go buy Jon Birger’s book Date-onomics! Check out Jon Birger on the web! Website Twitter Facebook Check out the revamped Patreon community! Click here to become an Official Fanwhore! This week’s episode is sponsored by free Wi-Fi, the real MVP. Email your comments, questions, and boobie pictures to manwhroepod@gmail.com. www.ManwhorePod.com
Best-selling authors Melanie Notkin and Jon Birger join Brian in his hometown of New York City to dish about love in the Big Apple, the challenges of dating over 30, where to find the good men, the price women pay for independence, the benefits of a issuing an ultimatum, and the three words nobody wants to hear on a date!
Best-selling authors Melanie Notkin and Jon Birger join Brian in his hometown of New York City to dish about love in the Big Apple, the challenges of dating over 30, where to find the good men, the price women pay for independence, the benefits of a issuing an ultimatum, and the three words nobody wants to hear on a date!
If you, your adult kids or your friends are single and looking, it may be time to run the numbers. "Date-onomics" author Jon Birger says the "man deficit" is a real thing, but there are ways to increase your odds, and we've got 'em. In mailbag, finding the right financial planner, and paying your mortgage with a points-earning credit card.
Date-onomics Lauren and Jen pick the brain of journalist and author of Date-onomics, Jon Birger, to find out how dating became a lopsided numbers game, and everything from the best colleges to attend, cities to live in, and dating apps to use when looking for love in this day and age. But first, Jen airs … Continue reading Date-onomics – September 21st, 2016
Date-onomics Lauren and Jen pick the brain of journalist and author of Date-onomics, Jon Birger, to find out how dating became a lopsided numbers game, and everything from the best colleges to attend, cities to live in, and dating apps to use when looking for love in this day and age. But first, Jen airs … Continue reading Date-onomics – September 21st, 2016 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/itscomplicatedpod/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/itscomplicatedpod/support
Brian and The Debate Team take a deep dive into dating demographics to reveal why there are more good men than at any time in history, the truth about statistics, where to go to find your mate, the best way to meet your best match, the real reason women have trouble identifying quality men, the difference between a good guy and a nice guy, and the one easy (and necessary) change to solve your dating dilemmas. Plus, we examine Jon Birger's terrific book "Date-Onomics: How Dating Became A Lopsided Numbers Game"!
Brian and The Debate Team take a deep dive into dating demographics to reveal why there are more good men than at any time in history, the truth about statistics, where to go to find your mate, the best way to meet your best match, the real reason women have trouble identifying quality men, the difference between a good guy and a nice guy, and the one easy (and necessary) change to solve your dating dilemmas. Plus, we examine Jon Birger's terrific book "Date-Onomics: How Dating Became A Lopsided Numbers Game"!
Where to find Jon Birger Website: JonBirger.com or Dateonomics.com Twitter: JonBirger1 Facebook: Dateonomics LinkedIn Resources from the Show The End of Men by Hannah Rosin 300 Sandwhiches by Stephanie Smith Data - A Love Story by Amy Webb (Ted Talk Below) Saturday Night Live - Settle App It’s not that he’s just not that into you—it’s that there’s not enough of him. Using a combination of demographics, game theory, and number crunching, financial and tech journalist Jon Birger explains America’s curiously lopsided dating and marriage market—and what every single, college-educated, heterosexual woman needs to know. Call it the man deficit. The shortage of college-educated men is not just a big-city phenomenon frustrating women in New York and L.A. Among young college grads, there are four women for every three men nationwide, except in those pockets, like Silicon Valley, where the economy is driven by a primarily male job market. And this numbers game has wider implications. Birger shows how this unequal ratio explains the college and post-college hookup culture; the decline in marriage rates; even the seemingly paradoxical problem that the more attractive the woman is, the more difficult it can be for her to find a partner. He reaches back to explore the origins of the college gender gap—a combination of the pill, Title IX, and developmental differences between boys and girls. Then there’s what to do about it, from what college to attend (any with strong sciences and math), to where to hang out (in New York, try a firemen’s bar), to where to live (Colorado, San Jose, Seattle), to embracing the power of the marriage ultimatum—it works.
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In this Episode we talk to guest Jon Birger117| Demographics and How they Effect your Dating Life - Jon Birger.Link: https://www.datingskillsreview.com/ep-117-demographics-dating-jon-birger/
In the past forty years we've seen dramatic changes in the way people date and marry. From the hook-up culture on college campuses to young adults putting off marriage longer and longer, a lot of explanations have been offered that focus on changing values in our country. But my guest today on the podcast argues that perhaps changing demographics has more to do with changing mating patterns in the West. His name is Jon Birger and he's the author of the book Date-onoics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. Today on the podcast Jon and I discuss how changing sex ratios influences everything from delaying marriage to the hook-up culture.
Peter and Paul respond vociferously to a weekend article in the New York Times entitled Men’s Lib. The article implores men to “become more like women” and that in fact, men “don’t really have a choice.” The article makes several valid points, including the fact that women now exceed men at all levels of education and will continue to take spots away in the highly-paid professional sphere. The dismal scene projected by the article puts Pete off, especially the comment that men must stop thinking about white collar vs blue collar jobs, but rather embrace “pink” collar work, including positions as librarians, elementary school teachers, and nurses. Faced with what the authors call a “feminine future,” men must “adapt or be left behind.” Paul is particularly interested in how these demographic trends affect the marriage market, something he’s discussed before in comments on Date-onomics by Jon Birger. The article contends that many men “with poor job prospects do not see themselves as husband material” because they subscribe to the male-breadwinner model of marriage. This has to change, argue the authors – who, by the way, are a man and a women – and many women will have to “marry down” if they want a committed partner. One of the most provocative lines comes near the end: “More men ought to be doing what women did historically: improving their economic prospects by marrying well.” Peter and Paul envisage a late-night Manhattan bar with men leaning against the railing, coiffing their hair and batting their eyelashes, hoping a rich young woman might just buy them a drink! Next, we consider a very real choice that many people face: Financial Risk v Fulfillment Risk. Most workers accustomed to a steady paycheck fear economic insecurity when they unplug, perhaps having nightmares of park benches and dumpster-diving. Paul makes the case that few people will actually starve, and that the bigger, more profound risk is Fulfillment Risk: staying in something unsatisfying, but comfortable, until it’s too late to pursue your dreams. This, he believes, is the real risk, but hard to quantify or appreciate when we’re young because its power comes in the form of regret in later life.
The relative supply and demand of romantic partners has profound implications for how we treat each other. Jon Birger, the author of Date-onomics, discusses what he learned by writing the book. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
How do economics and game theory explain the dating scene in D.C.? To find out, join us on October 27 at 6:00 p,m. for a reception and book forum with journalist Jon Birger, author of Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game. Using a combination of basic economic principles, demographics, game theory, and number crunching, Jon Birger explains America’s curiously lopsided dating and marriage market among single, college-educated, looking-for-a-partner women.Birger investigates not only the consequences of this unequal ratio of college-educated men to women on dating but also a host of other social issues. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
In Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Workman Publishing Company, 2015), Jon Birger, an award-winning journalist and contributor to Fortune magazine, explores the social implications of dating markets with a shortage of college-educated men. Birger argues that demographics, not values, affect dating and marriage. Our discussion focuses on his investigation of how gender ratios in the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community can explain the “Shidduch crisis.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Workman Publishing Company, 2015), Jon Birger, an award-winning journalist and contributor to Fortune magazine, explores the social implications of dating markets with a shortage of college-educated men. Birger argues that demographics, not values, affect dating and marriage. Our discussion focuses on his investigation of how gender ratios in the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community can explain the “Shidduch crisis.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Workman Publishing Company, 2015), Jon Birger, an award-winning journalist and contributor to Fortune magazine, explores the social implications of dating markets with a shortage of college-educated men. Birger argues that demographics, not values, affect dating and marriage. Our discussion focuses on his investigation of how gender ratios in the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community can explain the “Shidduch crisis.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Workman Publishing Company, 2015), Jon Birger, an award-winning journalist and contributor to Fortune magazine, explores the social implications of dating markets with a shortage of college-educated men. Birger argues that demographics, not values, affect dating and marriage. Our discussion focuses on his investigation of how gender ratios in the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community can explain the “Shidduch crisis.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Workman Publishing Company, 2015), Jon Birger, an award-winning journalist and contributor to Fortune magazine, explores the social implications of dating markets with a shortage of college-educated men. Birger argues that demographics, not values, affect dating and marriage. Our discussion focuses on his investigation of how gender ratios in the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community can explain the “Shidduch crisis.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is dating a lopsided numbers game in which women are screwed? We talk to Jon Birger, author of Dateonomics (who says, yes, totally). We also debate when in a relationship the sex is best (wondering why it takes people so long to figure out how to fuck each other properly) and whether it's possible to extract yourselves from a friends-with-benefits situation without kissing friendship goodbye. With Allison P. Davis, Maureen O'Connor, and David Wallace-Wells
Today’s guest is someone for whom I had the privilege of working when I was first in New York City working as a junior reporter at Money Magazine, and there my guest Jon Birger was a senior writer. And so it is with great pleasure that I introduce him today on the show. Jon is the recent author now of the newly published book “DATE-ONOMICS: How Dating Became A Lopsided Numbers Game.” He explains the shortage of college educated men for every heterosexual woman out there, what he calls the “man deficit”, and it’s not that he’s just not into you — well there’s just not enough of him, he explains. And in the book Jon further goes on to talk about why this is the case, examining a combination of demographics, statistics, game theory, and good old number crunching. And good news, he offers some solutions for his female readers who wish to get married. Like which college to attend, if you’re young enough, where to hang out and where to live in order to meet Mr. Right. In addition to his book, Jon is a contributor to Fortune Magazine, as well as a freelance journalist who’s work has appeared in The New York Times,The Washington Post, Time, Barons, Bloomberg Businessweek, among many others. Prior to his work as a freelance journalist, Jon was a senior writer at both Fortune, and as I mentioned, Money Magazine. You may also recognize his name because he’s had numerous radio and TV appearances for this book, ranging from MSNBC, to CNN, to NPR, Good Morning America, and most notably in 2013 the Silicon Valley Trade Group “Always On Network” names Jon a power player in technology business media. So, he is a hard-hitting journalist on top of an author of a wildly popular book. For more information visit www.somoneypodcast.com.
- Det usynlige blir synlig, sa Kulturrådets direktør Anne Åsheim da en splitter ny versjon av Digitalt Museum ble åpnet forrige uke. 380 tusen uniker brukere i 2011 og trafikken bare øker. I versjon 3.0 er de mer enn 1 million oppslagene i Digitalt Museum integret med blant annet Wikipedia og store mengder fotografier er også frigjort og åpne for nedlasting. - Nå kan alle som vil få full tilgang til magasinene, se digitale utstillinger og kanskje også utfylle museenes kunnskaper, sier Jon Birger Østby, som i har vært en av ildsjelene bak Digitalt Museum og Digitalt Fortalt. I programmet møter vi også daglig leder for KulturIT, Lewi Nordby og Tove Wfald Pedersen og Frederikke Bang Lysgård på Norsk Folkemuseum.
Why are so many incredibly beautiful, successful, and talented women single? Men never seem to have a problem finding a partner that matches their level, but so many amazing women struggle in the dating scene. In this week's episode, we are diving into this topic with best-selling author Jon Birger, author of Date-Onomics and his new book, Make Your Move. We discuss how geography, college, and age range play into this (because yes, where you live and went to school actually effects your dating pool), why women should ask men out, dating younger men, and how women are actually in charge when in comes to dating. Come on, ladies! It's time to make your move!Buy Jon's Book 'Make Your Move' on Amazon: https://go.magik.ly/ml/16w22/Visit Jon's Website for more: https://jonbirger.com/Follow Jon on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonbirger1We are thrilled to welcome you on this adventure as we embark on a journey we call a millennial life. Through quarter-life crises, modern day relationships, and every bad decision, let us be your guide. Let's be real, we don't know what we're doing either. As a fellow Gal Scout, we hope you join our amazing troop hosted by the lovely and witty Hannah Adams & Emily Aleece Burton.Want to request a topic or work with us? Send us an email at hello@thegalsguidepod.comor visit us on our website at thegalsguidepod.comSupport us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/thegalsguideBecome a Gal Scout in our Facebook Community! facebook.com/groups/2593683514028195Follow Hannah's Music: https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/hannahadams1/wantedStream 'wanted' on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/4ZoMu3EfnP0o0O31fepBWQ?si=7y3Rd2reTNCQXNeFCbLmHAFollow us on Instagram: instagram.com/thegalsguidepodFacebook: facebook.com/thegalsguideFollow Hannah on Instagram: instagram.com/hannahnicoleadamsFollow Emily on Instagram: instagram.com/emilyaleeceAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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